That's a lie. I couldn't imagine being a relationship with you. "No, you can't go on a trip because i'm insecure!" Yeah she specifically was a bitch but that doesn't mean no one should be allowed to go on a trip with their friends. You don't always need to be present. Your partner is supposed to be an adult, not a chilf who you control what thry can and can't do.
@@fredericksaxton9782 Even if you think I’m wrong, that doesn’t make my post a lie. So there’s that to start. There are also behavioral patterns that lead to certain outcomes more often than not. For instance, if a wife goes on girl’s nights with her friends once a month, then all is probably well in the world. If she’s doing it 3-4 times per month, it’s time for some serious concern. If she’s doing it multiple times per week, she’s cheating. Particularly if her friends are single/divorced. I’d say going on a trip for 6 weeks without your spouse is dicey even in the best of marriages. That’s a lot of time to be gone. But if it’s a “girl’s trip”, this is just begging to get cheated on. You need to calm yourself a bit. Especially your last jab about not controlling a spouse. Not sure if you understand this, but marriage isn’t just “dating plus”. You’re legally and financially tying yourself to another person. Anything they do can and will directly affect your life. So having boundaries on what you’ll tolerate is not only acceptable, but necessary. For instance, if my wife made friends with single women at her job and starting staying out drinking with them until 4am, I can’t “command” her to stop doing this. What I CAN do is not tolerate it and divorce. And if my wife told me she wanted to tour foreign countries with her f-ing SORORITY SISTERS for 6 weeks, I’d wish her the best of luck as a single woman. You’re correct that I don’t always need to be present around my wife. But seriously… a bunch of girl’s from a sorority want a girl’s only trip, and you think that would be a good idea? Maybe LISTEN to some of these Reddit stories where these trips happen, and see for yourself how often this leads to cheating.
@@fredericksaxton9782you are either foolish or very innocent, most likely both. Of course, people can go on a trip and not cheat but history has often proven otherwise. A lot of people who cheat were the same people who believed they would never do such a thing. That it is disgusting and shameful. But they always end up saying "I don't know what came over me." Or "I got lost in the moment." And usually, that slip-up happens in a single night, in a club down the road. Given a month and a half, on the other side of the world, the chances she would make that "mistake" is way too high to ignore. It would be common sense to assume they cheated and it is impossible to prove otherwise. Is it possible that she didn't cheat? Of course. But only a fool would be so trusting to believe that. That type of person ends up getting abused and taken advantage of because of their lack of understanding of humanity. But why marry if you won't trust someone unconditionally? Unconditional love doesn't exist, love dies often and always. No one's love is perfect and unyielding. Also anyone who is willing to get married in this crazy society is already a lost cause.
@@fredericksaxton9782a month and a half though? I sorry if you too bitchy to understand I don’t have enough trust in anyone in the WORLD for them to be gone that long. I would’ve convinced myself she died in a ditch somewhere if they didn’t respond to the 3rd call.
The gaslighthing never ends lol +depends on each person, what they have seen and how much they can trust each person. Thats why cheating is so devastating sometimes, cause they put their entire trust on the person
@@Maninawig She knew what she was doing. She knew that things would go sideways if she brought it up before he had time to think about it. That's why she did it at the airport instead of days before.
@@UniversalSpork agreed. My point is that she threw it away for the opportunity to be a 304. Weather she calls it a mistake, weather she couldn't get a man.... neither of those cases changes the fact that she thre it away for a choice, not nothing.
@@Maninawig In his defense, he heard the coworker Rachel said he shouldn't worry about in the background over the phone like she invited him over for a date. He figured if she's dating, she meant that kind of break.
story 1.........in OPs shoes when she announced she wanted a break i would have said fine but you arent getting on that plane until i have my grandmothers ring. that would have been the last time she ever saw me or heard from me again
Story 2: Apparently your wife change after separation probably because feeling of Guilt. Try to find out why she feel that way, because that the key matter for your marriage situation.
@@fotisavgerinos7863 You mean how anyone can be??? Like you????? Because being sexist and accusatory is pretty fucked up and selfish. She said something in anger she didn't mean, he had a fucking heart attack. You act like she meant for that to happen.
"It's funny how girls can do creepy stalker shit and that's fine, but a guy does it and he straight up goes to jail" Literally word for word what I thought with a recent experience I had to deal with like 2ish weeks ago. Was taking to this girl, things were great. Then things started getting weird with her, getting blocked and days of no messages. I try to contact some people that had some ties to her to find out some information, and basically get either blocked, or told that I'm being creepy and weird and that they aren't comfortable telling me anything I want to know But if I was a woman, they'd be all over it to help me find out what's going on. Another double standard these days
2nd Story, let her go. She's already cheating, that is why she thinks you're replaceable. In time you will be vindicated and she will find out that Chad lied to her. Of course she deleted and covered her tracks. Why did you apologize?
If you have hesitation about getting married you talk to the one you're getting married to. You don't talk to sorority sisters that will help destroy things and you seriously don't say we need to take a break right before you get on a plane. And in the second story it's nice he let the wife back but if she's going to be controlling on her second chance after saying he's replaceable she needs more than individual therapy. No one says that unless they already have someone in mind and have thought about going through with it.
Telling your partner that they’re replaceable is essentially telling them that they don’t value you, and is a relationship ending thing to say. And probably should get a response of “how many other people have you already replaced me with? “ and something really mean.
A 6-week all-girls trip is a certain road to infidelity. The “break” just made it far more obvious.
That's a lie. I couldn't imagine being a relationship with you. "No, you can't go on a trip because i'm insecure!"
Yeah she specifically was a bitch but that doesn't mean no one should be allowed to go on a trip with their friends.
You don't always need to be present. Your partner is supposed to be an adult, not a chilf who you control what thry can and can't do.
@@fredericksaxton9782 Even if you think I’m wrong, that doesn’t make my post a lie. So there’s that to start. There are also behavioral patterns that lead to certain outcomes more often than not. For instance, if a wife goes on girl’s nights with her friends once a month, then all is probably well in the world. If she’s doing it 3-4 times per month, it’s time for some serious concern. If she’s doing it multiple times per week, she’s cheating. Particularly if her friends are single/divorced. I’d say going on a trip for 6 weeks without your spouse is dicey even in the best of marriages. That’s a lot of time to be gone. But if it’s a “girl’s trip”, this is just begging to get cheated on.
You need to calm yourself a bit. Especially your last jab about not controlling a spouse. Not sure if you understand this, but marriage isn’t just “dating plus”. You’re legally and financially tying yourself to another person. Anything they do can and will directly affect your life. So having boundaries on what you’ll tolerate is not only acceptable, but necessary. For instance, if my wife made friends with single women at her job and starting staying out drinking with them until 4am, I can’t “command” her to stop doing this. What I CAN do is not tolerate it and divorce. And if my wife told me she wanted to tour foreign countries with her f-ing SORORITY SISTERS for 6 weeks, I’d wish her the best of luck as a single woman. You’re correct that I don’t always need to be present around my wife. But seriously… a bunch of girl’s from a sorority want a girl’s only trip, and you think that would be a good idea? Maybe LISTEN to some of these Reddit stories where these trips happen, and see for yourself how often this leads to cheating.
@@fredericksaxton9782you are either foolish or very innocent, most likely both.
Of course, people can go on a trip and not cheat but history has often proven otherwise. A lot of people who cheat were the same people who believed they would never do such a thing. That it is disgusting and shameful. But they always end up saying "I don't know what came over me." Or "I got lost in the moment."
And usually, that slip-up happens in a single night, in a club down the road. Given a month and a half, on the other side of the world, the chances she would make that "mistake" is way too high to ignore. It would be common sense to assume they cheated and it is impossible to prove otherwise.
Is it possible that she didn't cheat? Of course. But only a fool would be so trusting to believe that. That type of person ends up getting abused and taken advantage of because of their lack of understanding of humanity.
But why marry if you won't trust someone unconditionally? Unconditional love doesn't exist, love dies often and always. No one's love is perfect and unyielding. Also anyone who is willing to get married in this crazy society is already a lost cause.
@@fredericksaxton9782a month and a half though? I sorry if you too bitchy to understand I don’t have enough trust in anyone in the WORLD for them to be gone that long. I would’ve convinced myself she died in a ditch somewhere if they didn’t respond to the 3rd call.
The gaslighthing never ends lol
+depends on each person, what they have seen and how much they can trust each person. Thats why cheating is so devastating sometimes, cause they put their entire trust on the person
OP's Ex: Don't throw our love away for nothing.
OP: You've already done that. You threw it away for nothing.
Or did she? Would only be nothing if she felt too self-concious to do anything.
@@Maninawig Well sometimes after the fact, they say the sex or the guy only meant nothing.
@@Dustin81 but a mistake is not nothing.
@@Maninawig She knew what she was doing. She knew that things would go sideways if she brought it up before he had time to think about it. That's why she did it at the airport instead of days before.
@@UniversalSpork agreed. My point is that she threw it away for the opportunity to be a 304. Weather she calls it a mistake, weather she couldn't get a man.... neither of those cases changes the fact that she thre it away for a choice, not nothing.
Take a brake for 6 weeks is to ask to Cheat.
Did not work for Ross Geller
@@Maninawig In his defense, he heard the coworker Rachel said he shouldn't worry about in the background over the phone like she invited him over for a date. He figured if she's dating, she meant that kind of break.
@@Dustin81 lol. Did not help him in the long run.
story 1.........in OPs shoes when she announced she wanted a break i would have said fine but you arent getting on that plane until i have my grandmothers ring. that would have been the last time she ever saw me or heard from me again
prolly cause of shock , he couldnt act like that. if he wast ambushed and caught off gaurd, he wouldve done the same thing.
So she wanted a six week pass to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants and then come back as if nothing ever happened? Yeah, no.
There is no such thing as "taking a break". There is NO PAUSE BUTTON on a relationship.
When they say you are replaceable, she already has your replacement.
First story, yeah, she was definitely cheating
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Story 2:
Apparently your wife change after separation probably because feeling of Guilt.
Try to find out why she feel that way, because that the key matter for your marriage situation.
She's a worthless person
Don't know, maybe because she almost killed the dude? lmao
@@jairrodriguez7000 and that's her problem how?you underestimate how fucked up and selfish women can be,she probably fucked up in a big way
@@fotisavgerinos7863 how fucked up and selfish people* can be, and I guess that's also a possibility, but tone it down a little Andrew Tate
@@fotisavgerinos7863 You mean how anyone can be??? Like you????? Because being sexist and accusatory is pretty fucked up and selfish.
She said something in anger she didn't mean, he had a fucking heart attack. You act like she meant for that to happen.
story 1; his ex wanted a "holiday in Goa"
Goa is basically the heart of travelling in India so yeah makes sense
He should have never agreed to the trip in the first place
Story 1: "Don't throw away our love for nothing!"
"Like you did at the airport?"
Dude in story 2 deffo got cheated on, like, A LOT.
S2 - OP shouldve told her to go find her replacement when he woke up
"It's funny how girls can do creepy stalker shit and that's fine, but a guy does it and he straight up goes to jail"
Literally word for word what I thought with a recent experience I had to deal with like 2ish weeks ago.
Was taking to this girl, things were great. Then things started getting weird with her, getting blocked and days of no messages. I try to contact some people that had some ties to her to find out some information, and basically get either blocked, or told that I'm being creepy and weird and that they aren't comfortable telling me anything I want to know
But if I was a woman, they'd be all over it to help me find out what's going on.
Another double standard these days
You don't have to explain to mere strangers. Just leave the beach to pound sound.
2nd Story, let her go. She's already cheating, that is why she thinks you're replaceable. In time you will be vindicated and she will find out that Chad lied to her. Of course she deleted and covered her tracks. Why did you apologize?
If you have hesitation about getting married you talk to the one you're getting married to. You don't talk to sorority sisters that will help destroy things and you seriously don't say we need to take a break right before you get on a plane. And in the second story it's nice he let the wife back but if she's going to be controlling on her second chance after saying he's replaceable she needs more than individual therapy. No one says that unless they already have someone in mind and have thought about going through with it.
She wanted to cheat on you
Telling your partner that they’re replaceable is essentially telling them that they don’t value you, and is a relationship ending thing to say.
And probably should get a response of “how many other people have you already replaced me with? “ and something really mean.
How could he do that?! She just wanted a six week ride on a ©o©k carousel. 😂
bro you might want to pause between changing who is speaking or something
That last story.......just wow. That Brother in Law is a creepy loser. How he thinks that he is better than OP I'll never understand.
why are you making your videos so complicated?
Wdym
@@vvvjeko2397No time stamps and text is spread through frames instead of being follow shown in all frames.
I see the way you're acting like there's noone else
Gets me frustrated
Story 2: weakling PUSH-OVER doormat
Bro the dude on the 3rd story was down bad lol
Story 3 Reminds of the guy in horns hopefully it doesn't end up the same way
Glad you found out before you got married.
Story 1: There is 💯 chance that the entire group was getting their backs blown out overseas. Of course, she only posted the day pics.
Dude in the last story is a simp omg he puts his wife so far on a pedestal 😂 they are ALL the same no women is special
NTA, dodged the 304.
I remember looking this sub up and the comment section were 50/50 on whether the guys story was real.
Yep, dump that cheating woman
Bch straight up said she was going to cheat for 6 weeks.
She made the choice of leaving her for u...she did u a favor
Tell me i am replaceable and i will immediately replace you!
In the other thumbnail if you can call it that it says "i decided to be a dick"
This video is all over the place plsss start separating the comments and op story maybe highlight them
Story 1 what the hell is that comment about OP not being engaged and it needing to be 3 years that is a really stupid comment.
This is fake story. He posted a picture of his travelling with google image (from blog/website that show artistic/aesthetic photo of edinburgh city).
I throw mail > I 30 male
Eden burgh?
calling a break while you're engaged is fucking insane. Dating? sure... but planning a marriage? wtf
Dating????? Nah, if you wanna hook around for a couple weeks and come crawling back, don't get into a relationship at all.
"Break" in any sort of relationship is exactly that "permanent breakup"...there is no "break" as permission to cheat
Why is gods name are you even communicating with her? You need to grey rock her.