I think every comment here deserves a like or a reply just so they'd feel like somebody understands them. Because for me that's the hardest part,finding somebody who actually understands what I am going through. I wish the term "break up" never existed. I miss him, I love him.
Well I understand. I really do and I want you to know that you are not alone. Everything takes time and this will pass you and will get through this I promise. Please stay positive xoxo
I'm torn apart after a 7 month relationship. I can't believe how awful that could be.... im so sorry you can't imagine I feel your pain and I wish you the best ever
Its so weird isnt it? To go through each day without someone you used to be with for the past few years .For a while you feel like you dont even know who you are because youve shared your identity with this special someone and one day that other half is gone with someone else. Its bittersweet, you get to find yourself again and be a better you and its exciting. Its a life adventure created from adversity. You never know what tomorrow brings you but the mystery and curiosity is exhilarating. To me, heartbreak has always been the toughest battle. Its like experiencing a death, death of two peoples love for each other that you thought was invincible.
That's exactly what it felt like for me. As if a person was going to be there your whole life and dies abruptly. They might not be actually dead,but the person that loved you no longer exists.
Ik what u mean ,9yrs of loving a man who didn't see me worthy enough to keep, som1 who couldn't see me as a gd woman...it hurt bcuz truth is I have always been that woman he said he wanted! But yet he couldn't see it, so many hurts it eventually broke me.. still trying to get over it
My ex left me and I was completely devastated as I was so certain everything was perfect. I got into a deep depression and felt like my life is really over. With my last breath I tried searching for some help on TH-cam and came across this video. I feel like you saved my life, literally. Thank you so much for giving some light back in my life and helping me see that there is always hope.
+MegaLolStorm of course there is. and remember, you came into this world with nothing but your SELF. You will leave with the same. If you could be happy when you were 5 years old climbing trees and singing nursery rhymes all day, you can find and create that happiness again and again. It's all in you already
+Revolution Hive I never thought about it this way :) you are truely inspiring. keep doing what you do because you are amazing at it :) thank you so much again
Always remember you are stronger than you know, but at times like this, when all you can do is cry out, remember God is smiling at you because he knows what is next, and it will be wonderful. Make it so. I know I have to also.
+Keshav Bhatt it was 2 months ago that I was in such despair. I look back on the person I was, and I don't recognize her at all. I went thru a plethora of emotions, and right now, I am soon appreciative for my destruction, that led to my REBIRTH. THANK YOU KESHAV!!!! thank you...it was your words, this is not my destruction, this is my birth. I have evolved in so many ways. I love you in such an intense way, thank you! your words were certainly a game changer, that helped me shift my perspective. THANK YOU!!!!
I listend to this again, and applied the message to other aspects in my life. Not all necessarily pertaining to a 'heartbreak, current or past'. The message resonates deeply, and it still launches me further. THANK YOU!!!!! THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! I love you, and your help to myself, and all others is valued high above the price of rubies. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
I joined a gym lost weight got the body I always wanted after my ex almost destroyed my life after 24 years together My home is gone some of my dogs are gone but I kept my sanity Thank you so much for this video
10 long years, and a month later, he already has a new relationship, looks happy and "blessed". This video helped me a lot. Thank you. ***Update: I posted this comment 3 years ago, and i can't believe all the love it got 😍😍😍, thank you so much for all the beautiful, supportive comments. It definitely reassures me that even though we feel like the world is ending and that no one can't relate to what we're feeling, there is actually a lot people out there that feel the same way you do, and now 3 years later... i can say that it does get better!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Oh babe, I hope you are alright. Currently going through a 5.3 yrs breakup and it frigging hurts babe, especially when he was cold, distant and passive aggressive by the end of it :( :( :( I wish I could give you a hug.
"The best form of revenge is massive success" - Frank Sinatra. I hope you will be happy and do amazing things with your life and whether or not you're over him by then, he will realize what an idiot he was to have let you go. You're not alone. Let's use this as inspiration to be and do great things.
I feel you on this. I can't believe mine moved on after 3 months and everything I tried to help become a better person in the last 8.5 years , I was "nagging" but this girl tells him the same thing and he's sending her flowers after 1 month of dating. The questions come up... How did you move on so fast? Did you even love me? This video is so helpful
Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. :)
Before I watch the video I want to say that I embrace the pain. I cry everyday and I embrace it. I let my emotions run wild and that's it. it's awful. one of the worst things for me is imagining that person with someone else. But I embrace it now. My goals have taken priority. Gym, school, family. It's hard. There are bad days. But I will never stop.
I'm right there! Just when I think I'm getting over it, I cry my eyes out like lastnight. However, once I'm done crying myself to sleep I wake to a new day and more at peace then the night before. The tears are becoming less and less. I will not contact this person he does not deserve an once of my attention. So that's one thing I'm glad about. I'm glad that the anxious feeling to call him has gone away. Thank you God. I am the prize I forgot that when we were dating, and my worth . I will now return the love that I gave away back to sender . Amen
Two years ago I watched this video after breakup. Two years later I have grown so much. Im in a much better relationship. Thank you Keshav for this eye opening video. 🙏🏼
I know and then you cry over things you never thought would make you cry and it all builds in inside of you . I hate it I hate the feeling it was 3 years of my life with him. I hope nothing but the very best for you you might not know me but i just wanna make one person smile today even if I couldn't .
Oh my! You are amazing! I am smiling.Just keep yourself busy and focus on yourself.It's not selfish but it's very brave.These are the things which we don't have control over and even though I myself am an avid over thinker, sometimes when I'm sane I realize there is so much more to life.And you are worth everything amazing. And we are all with you.
What you deserve and want will come when the time is right. It takes time to heal. It really does. I know what it's like to be heart broken and crying all the time. Focus on the positives in your life. Talk to people, don't ever hold it in. Cry whenever you need to. Do things to get your mind off of whatever happened or whoever you're crying over. Breakups are hard. Everyone goes through them at some point. Focus on the things that make you happy. :)
It’s been a little over a month...this video keeps me going...especially the end with the quote about the star...it’s so true...and I’m not over it, I never knew such pain could actually exist...giving someone everything you have, all your love, energy and strength... This is not your destruction, this is your birth... I pray and love every single person who is watching this...reading this...idk how but it will be okay...it will be okay
Everyone who is watching this.. Go out there and live the adventure. Live your life, show that person what they are/have missed out on... Rise to the occasion
INDRANIL MANDAL I know; but if you do not even try you just excepted that is how you're going to feel forever. No one can make any promises about what will happen if put yourself out there again, but if nothing else, you are just looking at a absolute, versus and not absolute. Wouldn't you want to choose the non-absolute when it comes to being lonely.
Wow guess everyone here knows that you are not alone !! A lot of ppl are hurting in the world ! 😔 but life goes on ! It gets better....time reveals n time heals .... love this video ...inspiring !!! 🙏
I Just want to say one thing to everyone whoever is watching this video - Life goes on no matter what but life goes on it's been about a year when I had a breakup that was so though initially but now everything looks like fine whatever is happening just for our good so I am so thankful to god he gave me this opportunity to understand much better to myself. so guys a sweet hug for everyone and remember no matter what life goes on and pls pls pls trust me this time you re going to be more happy then you ever could. if they are going let them go...
I got cheated on by someone I thought would be the “one” he would say I love you to my face while sleeping with another, when I found out my first reaction was to push away everyone and all shit about both of them, but the hate and anger only consumed me and it pushed people I love away and they left, but after crying last night and just releasing all my feelings it made me realize I can and will conquer this situation, because I am a warrior, I am a goddess, I am a girl with the beautiful smile who will replace hate with love, sadness with laughter, hurt with joy, and anger with happiness. ❤️Thank you for doing this, for motivating those who are in time of need
I just gone through a breakup three months ago. I think of my ex often and sometimes I have anxiety in the middle of the night because I’m still shaken up by the whole breakup. I wonder if he thinks of me like I think of him. It’s scary when you realize that you have been left and the unfortunate part is dealing with it alone or just knowing your ex has changed the way they look at you, like they never cared about you. Sometimes I got so upset when people asked about him because I was fragile. I didn’t even know what to say. It was difficult to say, “he left me.”
i found this video a few years ago helped me to get through a situation-ship that i had to get over .. it helped me and ever since then i come back to this video for memories and everytime i get my heartbroken.. i will always remember this video .. to whoever seeing this keep on keeping on because one day you will come across this video again and you will remember how heart broken you were and that time passes and heals and that you are okay and always will be. stay up💗
Thank you... This is good to hear. I am in so much emotional pain that I did not know was possible. We were best friends... He told me how much I meant to him and how happy I made him all the time. We talked every day for hours. Laughing, crying, living... Now I mean nothing to him. He treats me like crap. He ignored me and pushes me away. The man I knew has vanished. How could this be happening ... he was supposed to be the one I could go to. My partner. My escape from the chaos. Why did he have to be taken from me... I need him... this is horrible. Its so hard to stay strong. So, so hard. It hurts
Soloworth know you are not alone. My relationship ended a month ago after seven years. It still hurts but each day I get stronger. I can feel it. Hugs to you xx
It's good to know I'm not alone. I know a lot of people go through this, but I'm not an emotionally strong person.. he was my first everything. I wish I had never met him..
I'm going through the exact same thing. I never imagined such a thing will happen to me, someone who said he loved me and can't do without me all of a sudden turned out to be a monster and pushes me away. I wonder how and when this will be over, don't know how I can trust anyone ever again..
Vee Oby me too :/ it's the worst feeling in the world when the person that said loves you the most rapidly changed towards you :/ never kept his promise :/
To everyone who's feeling as empty and horrible as I am because they felt like she truly was the one: "The one" would never treat you like shit. She wouldnt dump you after years of you loving her more than life itself. The person/people meant for you, will give you every bit of love, acceptance, loyalty and kindness that you deserve. And you DO deserve it. YOU WERE NOT THE PROBLEM, THEY WERE.
I am going through so much right now. It may have just been a year, but my heart feels shattered and gone with the memories we have. I desperately want to heal, but I can’t get out of bed.
D1n0 Fr0g my ex girlfriend of 2 years dumped me. she was with another guy within a month. but h know what happens? it doesnt last. its a rebound. do not contact her. leave her alone. work on yourself. become better each day. take this guys advice. she will come back one day. trust me. mine did. this time it will be your choice on whether or not to take her back. goodluck. stay strong
Im confused. If you loved her why did you break up with her in the first place? I'm just trying to understand your point of view because I'm usually the person who gets dumped and wonder why the person would end a good relationship.
I'm so in denial it's so hard to process that someone who claimed to love you can hurt you like this I've never felt such a pain and I don't know what to do I'm so weak
Angel Waters. I agree. I'm in denial and i still have hope, but another part of me tells me it's not meant to be. I'm so confused. Yet, this video speaks the truth! "Start investing in yourself"
Angel Waters i know how u feel, at that moment u feel lost but the best thing to do is to reach out to someone and talk about it,express how u feel and then let go of it, be strong because even tho u believe u are weak , u grow strong from experience. Find new meaning in life , and always try girl
Needed this, been 2months, no contact, i wanted to save my marriage of 3 yrs, but I'm becoming more and more content with the reality of it all, this video gives me the extra motivation to keep going
Zesty, don't ever give up, I took a 16 year hit myself. There is better waiting out there for you TRUST me, I see better people, better groups, activities I never had seen before. Just keep pushing forward, the pain may come and go as he says in the video like waves, but get through those waves!
my girl broke up with me 3 days back. Had been feeling like sh*t ever since. locked myself in the room. I know I deserved better than her because as u said I put every effort and did everything for her with no reciprocation. I feel she broke up with me because she doesn't deserve me. Yet it hurts to break away from a person u loved and had some good times. now this video gave me a different perspective. thanks a lot friend
This video has really helped me, I'm choosing my pain to be fuel. I have made a terrible habit of letting a guy define me, letting a relationship become my identity because I was too afraid of the potential I possess. I was willing to settle for mediocrity if it meant I wasn't alone. I choose today to take this pain and let it become fuel to launch a musical career that I've been dreaming about since I was a kid. Thank you so much for the inspiration!
Thank you from the bottom of my very broken heart for making this video. I can't begin to express how much it's helped me. I plan to watch this everyday as I move toward 2.0. 💛
Going through divorce after 10 years together and I felt lost, heartbroken until I found this message. Love this man and his message and I found my aspirations to change my life. Thank you for pulling me out of despair and for my friends who constantly lift me up. Keep those who are positive around you and cut out the negative and you will start to heal like I have. Much love to all of you going through heartache and pain, know that you are not alone. Believe in love and keep an open heart. God bless
My boyfriend just broke up with me today, I'm heartbroken. I came across your video and want to thank you for the inspiring words. It made me feel better and gave me hope and strength to wake up tomorrow and fight hard to start a new beginning!! Will definitely watch this video again for the motivation.
I've found my peace in forgiveness, love and understanding how sad that person is, how small inside. He dropped in my eyes from God and love of my life, to small nothing. I can't even understand now how I actually thought he was love of my life :) He is even so ugly to me now after all this love is gone, because I can see him clearly. After years of giving my ENTIRE LIFE to this person, after I did what ever he asked, risked my life for him, destroyed my family for him... he left me when I did last thing he asked me to do. Without explanation I was left, he didn't even had courage to tell me it's over. It's even harder without a closure or one word about ''ok tell me it's over and why so that I can move on'' he would instead reply with ''talk to you soon''. It was a huge emotional and mental abuse! But still, I even wrote him how everything is my fault, how I am the bad person and he is so good, and kind, and that I completely understand why it's over....just to make him feel good about himself, because I started feeling sorry for him :D It's ALL in your focus. Just switch your focus. I gave myself a closure after few months with loving myself, enjoying life and love, forgiving him and understanding that he is intentionally hurting me and doesn't want me to move on with giving me a closure just because it would make his sad little person inside feel better about himself, and me moving on would mean he is not winning and that I won instead... like I did actually :)
+doppydoppy013 Say to your self ''ok, today I will dig inside my emotions to see wtf, and then dig, cry, scream, feel all the way...'' but next day say ''i am done with it'' because, trust me, it's all in focus.... once you start feeling sorry for your self next day, just switch your focus...go to fitness, yoga, somewhere you can meet new people... volunteer somewhere. Wake up and first thing go running, physical activity is good if you are going through this because it will boost serotonin and endorphin that break up practically kill in our brain, and they will make you feel happy. Just love your self, use this time to work on yourself to become better and stronger inside, and to look great :)
+Natasa Mitic Radulovic you are completely right, going through same with narcissistic controlling ex who still tries to get in my head. Used the pain to push me to better myself, to be what I want to be and do what it is that I wish to do. Been 3 months now and looking back I hardly recognise who I once was and know I am better now than ever before. Theres a lot to be said for finding your release and focus. 'Be the change you wish to see in this world'
+MrTakeshi763 wow it's been three months for me too, and I am going through exactly the same, I am so changed as well, I am so aware of myself and others, I deal with things differently .. from completely different level, so I can say as well that I hardly recognize who I once was. Instead of blaming others, I was looking inside myself to see wtf :) so, yes.. I am much better person, to both others and myself.
I’m completely hopeless in love, I’ve never been completely over my ex boyfriend but now I have no choice. He never respected me or how I felt ( when our relationship ended ) and disregarded every valid feeling I had. He broke me down and made me feel as though I was worthless. I loved him even though he was scared too love me back. I let him back in my life and after a day, he’d forget about me again. However recently he has been everything I wanted, not my boyfriend but just someone too turn too, someone too talk too and be excited too talk too, he was my person, just mine. I gave myself too him and he did something so awful that I can not comprehend, he betrayed me and my trust knowing that my trust had only recently came back...sad thing is..I love him and I love who he is. But he’s not mine too love, and I deserve so much better. Sometimes, I wish I could just fade away, feel nothing the way he does..hope things change soon - simply can’t go on 💔
this video is just what i needed. for my case, its not exactly a break-up but more like i felt betrayed and gravely disappointed by that person. but i decided to give him another chance but its still eating me out, what he did to me and i was completely lost as to what I should do. but this video helped me see things in a different perspective, that i need more time invested in me and less time invested in worrying about certain things. so, thank you.
ImFridaMartin thank you, as do i hope for you too. :) We have settled our problems for now through honest open communication. And alot more focus on improving myself as well.
+DeFawk my pleasure. I'm glad you found that perspective - and YES. Investing in yourself is ALWAYS ALWAYS worth it, and you are worth all the riches and happiness in the world. Stay beautiful
I just watched this video. 4 years later. Again I find myself at a cross roads and I wanted to find this video. To have a look back. I realised what a profound influence you have had on me. My journey to self enlightenment and understanding hinges off finding this video on a day where I was feeling particularly low. Because of you I read How to change your life with NLP. From there on I've grown so much. I would like to chat to you. About this and many other things. But If I can't make contact then I want to say thank you. Thank you... you saved a life.
I had severe anger issues that filled my head with intense thoughts of violence and rage and I felt out of control. I suffered from this while I was in a relationship with a girl, who I loved. I ended up pushing her away for fear that I would shatter her world by doing something I would have deeply, deeply, regretted. That was 5 months ago. I kicked the anger issues; but I never stopped loving her. Now that I've come back. She doesn't think she can feel the same way about me again. That may have been the greatest mistake I've made. Thank you for this video. Some seriously good thoughts coming from this...
I'm going exactly through what you described at the moment... That connection that I care so much about seems to vanish on the other side. I tried too hard to keep it alive, and it became more of a pain and torture than a pleasure. But you're right, it's time to do something about it, and start thinking about me again. Thank you. Really.
My girl broke up with me today and I left school early because I just wanted to cry. I laid in bed and just cried but I watched this video and honestly it changed me. And I really mean that I didn't think I could get through this but now I have a sudden spark of hope. I'm starting version 2.0..I'm gonna stand in the circle...cause this is not my destruction this is my birth. Thank you so much
This video is a MUST watch not only for those who are going through a Break Up, but for all who are experiencing disappointment and pain as well. Thank you for these words of wisdom.
Thank you for this.i just recently got let go from a 3.5 year relationship.she was my best friend and this is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with.its been hard but what your saying in this has inspired me. I gave everything to someone who just out of the blue rejected it all and put me down constantly for 6 months. She had issues in the head to deal with so maybe it's for the best. I wanted to marry this girl but it's like your saying don't let it consume you.make positive action.use it as the fuel to your fire.
Aw, I loved this! That really WAS very motivational, thank you! I'm going to share this video with anyone else I come across who is going thru a painful breakup, bc you have some very wise words. It's hard to motivate yourself when u feel down in the dumps, but like u said....the emotions will come in waves. By now, I've been thru enough breakups to bounce back pretty quick, but there was a point where a 7 year relationship ended and I thought I would never get over it ever. And here I am....5 breakups later, and with each one I've grown a but and learned a bit. I acted so irrationally at first, but at this stage, I'm just chill and say "ok good luck finding another AK, cuz you never will!" (Lol and they always figure that out a few months down the road), but when I heard your statistic about 66 days, it made total sense, bc a few months later when they came crawling back, I wasn't interested anymore. And that'll happen to you all as well, the first big one might take longer, but time really DOES heal wounds. And you take what you learned and you move on. One thing I have learned throughout all of my breakups in my 32 years on Earth is that you HAVE to cease contact...especially if you're hoping that they might come back, you cannot let them know that your world is crumbling-you HAVE to make them think that you CAN live without them and that you're doing just fine-better than fine, you're doing GREAT, and you are sooo thankful that you dodged a bullet and that you made it out alive! So thankful bc yikes, you could've ended up stuck with them (at least make them think that's your mentality bc it plants a very tiny seed of insecure self-doubt in their head, and that seed will slowly blossom into 1 of 2 things: 1) they will come back to you bc they realized your worth, or 2), YOU will realize your worth, and completely forget about them, the pain, the anger...and you will transform into a butterfly who gained some very hard earned wisdom, that, if you're smart, you'll remember to a) use it as a tool in qualities you don't want in a person (or conversely, qualities you hope is the opposite in a future relationship), and b) remember the lesson and wisdom you gained, but most importantly, c) not to let it make you paranoid that it'll happen again in the future so that you don't sabotage a would be great relationship bc of stupid shit someone in the past did to you. You don't punish current partners with the heartbreaks caused by a former partner who has nothing to do with a current relationship. Okay guys?! (That's what I'm currently dealing with, the insecurities that developed bc somebody else broke my now ex's heart and he became paranoid that it would happen again, so he got scared and ran away)....he'll be back tho...I'm gonna make him wait 66 days tho before I answer him ;)
This video helped me within the first five minutes. I haven't eaten in three days, haven't slept in two, and every time I took a breath I was choking back a sob. It's still in waves, but these words are going to be my triggers for getting back on track. Really, thank you. I was looking up the suicide prevention hotline earlier and bailed out because of pride and not knowing what to say. I feel like my soul is being ripped from my chest and I do feel defeated and replaceable, but this video showed me you can feel that and still get better.
Everyday, every minute of every day hurts without him. He broke my heart into a million pieces and all I wanted to do was love him and bring him joy and laughter. He unceremoniously left me in this state. A state of decay and ruin and I feel so empty and hurt. All I do is cry. Can’t eat, can’t sleep, it’s excruciating.
If anyone need someone to talk to im right here feeling probably the same.. thanks for the video made me feel a lot batter and love you all be strong❤️
This video changed my life 3 years ago my first love broke my heart and I did not know how to deal with that heartbreak I listened to this video and I swear it changed my life I am at happiest place in mylife...Just wanted to say thank you for this video
Thank you so much for this video. I am exiting a marriage of 7 years due to the person constantly cheating and lying. I am in a very broken place right now, I was manipulated for so long and didn't realize until I took a step back that I allowed the manipulations to go on in my life. I began to feel ugly and worthless. Literally started to tell myself I had no value because I allowed myself to become what I said I never would, a mans doormat.. I don't even know how to love myself right now. I am hopeful for myself and the revival of my spirit. This video was a great first step in the right direction. I KNOW I can survive this and find myself again. I just didn't know where to start so again, Thank you.
Thank you so much this video just made my night Right now I'm going through a bad breakup and I can feel it draining me crying my eyes almost every night but not tonight I'm gonna start doing what I love to do, dance. Dance my anger, pain, depression, frustration, away!😊 Thank you again keep going what your doing!!😊
This saved me. There is so much pain in the world and after a break up it's almost impossible to not see the entire world half empty. Full of black, darkness. Your video shined a light on my life and my world so thank you
I found this girl I was talking to for a little while with her ex at a concert just being there it hurts she never told me anything! I made custom shirts for her to go see a concert with her sister sent them out bought her stuff spent time with her woke up texting her calling her FaceTiming every night and one day to the next she’s gone. But I can seat something to whoever is reading this. There is hope. Do not let yourself break for someone else they don’t deserve the person you are the amount of things that you did are more than enough. Keep pushing and don’t stop grinding on your goals head to the gym learn a new hobbie go hangout with friends whatever it is do you and never stop moving forward YOU are not alone! I love you
This video has given me the motivation to let go and focus on me I just wanna thank you it’s a great feeling to know that no matter what your going through you have to keep pushing forward I recently put my all into this relationship and I got my heartbroken but after watching this video I know that I can live my life thanks for this video ❤️
YOU ARE AN awesome public speaker, its obviosuly that you have been throught from a lot of experiences to learn all this stuff and take this actittude, Congrats you have become a great person and your effort to growth has been worth it. Thanks for the video :)
We broke up after 3 and a half years and I gave her everything I had only to have her leave unappreciative of my love. This helps a lot. The only true healer is time and that can be very discouraging at times, but one thing that has really helped me is helping other people. I love being there for someone in need. I love relating to someone and potentially giving them their smile back. Sadly, I have trouble doing that for myself so giving it to someone else is a way that I have used my pain to contribute. Everyone has the capacity for a beautiful life and no one can take the away from you. Be happy with yourself!!
This is all good advice. My life crumbled like a ton of bricks. I rose out of the rubble and refused to give up. That depression, hopelessness and pain is gone. If you're going through this,your mind can be your best ally or your worst enemy. Don't dwell on what hurt you or you will never heal,like picking at a wound.
From the beginning to the end, everything you said pertained to me. Thank you for this video, it reassures me that other people have gone through such an experience and we get better in time. Am I completely happy with my situation? Since I work with this other person still I still fight daily but, I FIGHT. And that's more than I can say for myself compared to two months ago when I felt my soul wounded and pained.
I am going through heartbreak right now and it´s hurting like hell but i just wanted to remind whoever is reading this right now, you are amazing and I am so proud of you! Keep going, take care of yourself and PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP ON LIFE AND ON YOURSELF!!! I love you and I am here for you!!
I understand everyone who are hurting! I’m truly sorry you were and are hurting! 17 years gone with the love of my life! He turned and walked away like he never knew me! So broken
+Keshav Bhatt videos related to keep up the motivation inside us and meanwhile help others who are going through it. It would be great if you post videos related to successful people who went through numerous failures
I am going through probably one of the most life changing break ups to date. Thank you so much, you have helped ease my anxiety and helped me smile today. Thank you so much.
+shubhra sharma so much pain. I'm so sorry. It does get better. Start small. Breathe. Take one step. Then another. Breathe. Eat. Repeat. Eventually the pain goes away. It's temporary. You have to find something good and anchor your strength to it. Please be strong
Tried everything, but still thinking about her... i knew her for 3 years, we started a long-distance relationship, i struggled for 1.5 years to be able to move to be close to her : i had to learn German to be able to move on germany and find a good job, i had to struggle with Visa, i left everythin(friends family, good job, my life)... Than i struggled to find us a good house where we can live, and as soon as i got this, and got ready , and that we finally have a house and we can marry(the date was fixed)... here she started to realise that she is not ready and that she still thinks(maybe loves) her ex... and now here i am in a city where i almost know nobody, with a house that keeps reminding me about her! And she had just vanished, without even talking for a last time! I simply do not understand how people can change this way and so fast I am trying to go out, discover myself, sport, make friends, but she is always in my head
thanks man... I am getting stronger... at the beginning i was struggling just to eat, just to get out the bed, to get to work and do the work that i had always loved!! but yeah i finally understood that you can not force someone to love you! and I do not regret moving here to Germany, as I succeeded my life before in Paris, i will get it in Berlin also. Hope that you are getting wel! Thank you again, your words were simple and short, but it really makes me feel good, to see that there still people who cares for others(even with words) in this nasty world
exactly... it is getting better thanks, well i hate sundays because i stay at home and think a lot about her, but i am getting much better... I hope that it is also getting better for you dude ;)
may be she was a just a source for you so that you can land upyourself there .. maybe universe has some other amazing plans for you dear :) and always remember you are never alone .. you have a family who loves you no matter what ... that;s why those are blood relations.. you have some very good friends who will be there for you ..if you ever feel lost ..call them and talk to them .. if u ever feel hurt (which i know u will many times) , remember this time shall pass.. with bad times comes good times and viceversa.. and for her .. let KARMA do the talking!! :)
Esther Hecker Falling is temporary. Giving up is permanent. You're right, it is more difficult. So what now? For me there's 2 options. You complain and whinge and cry about it (which you are allowed to do of course!) but at SOME point. You have to move forward, for yourself more than anything else. Which one you choose, is upto you..
Hi, I want to thank you.. after this video a decided to start fighting back.. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired, this person made me feel so small and empty for the last 4 months, that enough is enough.. I'm not going to cry anymore, and I just hope this person is out of my brain soon because is very painful.
this is what i really need right now...my boyfriend and i just broke up...and it's been a hell for me...so many sleepless nights and crying...thank you so much!
Who's ever reading this I love you keep moving forward ❤️!!!!!
+Gabe Perez Amen to that ❤️
Thnx bro
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❤❤very sweet! take care!
Your so sweet❤❤
I think every comment here deserves a like or a reply just so they'd feel like somebody understands them. Because for me that's the hardest part,finding somebody who actually understands what I am going through. I wish the term "break up" never existed. I miss him, I love him.
Well I understand. I really do and I want you to know that you are not alone. Everything takes time and this will pass you and will get through this I promise. Please stay positive xoxo
I understand how you feel. Been through the same thing. Its been less than a week. The pain is huge cause it was a 5 years relationship..
Reshma P ,what a beautiful thought.may god bless u.ur single comment makes me feel what a wonderful person u must be.
Reshma P hey. How's everything now a year later? Going through a tough one myself at the moment and some days it all sucks
Reshma P ❤️
We broke up after 8.5 years.you cant imagine how that hurts.
exactly I'm here dying in pain
I'm torn apart after a 7 month relationship. I can't believe how awful that could be.... im so sorry you can't imagine I feel your pain and I wish you the best ever
+Samantha Martins hope you re doing well....
+Andrea Zinn pffff....how are you doing?
I'm so sorry...May God be with you.
Its so weird isnt it? To go through each day without someone you used to be with for the past few years .For a while you feel like you dont even know who you are because youve shared your identity with this special someone and one day that other half is gone with someone else. Its bittersweet, you get to find yourself again and be a better you and its exciting. Its a life adventure created from adversity. You never know what tomorrow brings you but the mystery and curiosity is exhilarating. To me, heartbreak has always been the toughest battle. Its like experiencing a death, death of two peoples love for each other that you thought was invincible.
That's exactly what it felt like for me. As if a person was going to be there your whole life and dies abruptly. They might not be actually dead,but the person that loved you no longer exists.
Ik what u mean ,9yrs of loving a man who didn't see me worthy enough to keep, som1 who couldn't see me as a gd woman...it hurt bcuz truth is I have always been that woman he said he wanted! But yet he couldn't see it, so many hurts it eventually broke me.. still trying to get over it
I feel your words. Heartbreak feels like experiencing the death of someone u love. Death of yourself u once knew
"Because sometimes, the people you love are not meant to be in your life but in your heart." Thank you :')
I can't tell you how much that idea still resonates with me. Glad it hit home for you too. My pleasure Audrey :)
I teared up a bit when you said that.
My ex left me and I was completely devastated as I was so certain everything was perfect. I got into a deep depression and felt like my life is really over. With my last breath I tried searching for some help on TH-cam and came across this video. I feel like you saved my life, literally. Thank you so much for giving some light back in my life and helping me see that there is always hope.
+MegaLolStorm of course there is. and remember, you came into this world with nothing but your SELF. You will leave with the same. If you could be happy when you were 5 years old climbing trees and singing nursery rhymes all day, you can find and create that happiness again and again. It's all in you already
+Revolution Hive I never thought about it this way :) you are truely inspiring. keep doing what you do because you are amazing at it :) thank you so much again
+MegaLolStorm same here mate 9 year relationship, no warning got up and left. be strong and carry on
Always remember you are stronger than you know, but at times like this, when all you can do is cry out, remember God is smiling at you because he knows what is next, and it will be wonderful. Make it so. I know I have to also.
this is not my destruction, this is MY BIRTH.
+Anya Ovseenko Hell yeah!
+Keshav Bhatt it was 2 months ago that I was in such despair. I look back on the person I was, and I don't recognize her at all. I went thru a plethora of emotions, and right now, I am soon appreciative for my destruction, that led to my REBIRTH. THANK YOU KESHAV!!!! thank you...it was your words, this is not my destruction, this is my birth. I have evolved in so many ways. I love you in such an intense way, thank you! your words were certainly a game changer, that helped me shift my perspective. THANK YOU!!!!
Anya Ovseenko It fills me with so much pride (for you) to hear how far you have come. Thank you for sharing this and stay connected! Sending love
I listend to this again, and applied the message to other aspects in my life. Not all necessarily pertaining to a 'heartbreak, current or past'. The message resonates deeply, and it still launches me further. THANK YOU!!!!! THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! I love you, and your help to myself, and all others is valued high above the price of rubies. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
I joined a gym lost weight got the body I always wanted after my ex almost destroyed my life after 24 years together
My home is gone some of my dogs are gone but I kept my sanity
Thank you so much for this video
+Don Dressel hope you doing good now☺
10 long years, and a month later, he already has a new relationship, looks happy and "blessed". This video helped me a lot. Thank you.
***Update: I posted this comment 3 years ago, and i can't believe all the love it got 😍😍😍, thank you so much for all the beautiful, supportive comments. It definitely reassures me that even though we feel like the world is ending and that no one can't relate to what we're feeling, there is actually a lot people out there that feel the same way you do, and now 3 years later... i can say that it does get better!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm really sorry I love you
I'm so sorry. I hope you're ok.
Oh babe, I hope you are alright. Currently going through a 5.3 yrs breakup and it frigging hurts babe, especially when he was cold, distant and passive aggressive by the end of it :( :( :( I wish I could give you a hug.
"The best form of revenge is massive success" - Frank Sinatra. I hope you will be happy and do amazing things with your life and whether or not you're over him by then, he will realize what an idiot he was to have let you go. You're not alone. Let's use this as inspiration to be and do great things.
I feel you on this. I can't believe mine moved on after 3 months and everything I tried to help become a better person in the last 8.5 years , I was "nagging" but this girl tells him the same thing and he's sending her flowers after 1 month of dating. The questions come up... How did you move on so fast? Did you even love me? This video is so helpful
Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. :)
currently dealing with a breakup after 4 and a half years. Lost weight due to extreme stress and anxiety but Im determined to not let her break me.
Thepharcyde4ever she won't break you, you're strong and nobody can replace you.
Before I watch the video I want to say that I embrace the pain. I cry everyday and I embrace it. I let my emotions run wild and that's it. it's awful. one of the worst things for me is imagining that person with someone else. But I embrace it now. My goals have taken priority. Gym, school, family.
It's hard. There are bad days. But I will never stop.
UnCortadoPorFavor same here but everything happens for a reason. . I let the karma strikes him . now I love myself more than anything else.
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I'm right there! Just when I think I'm getting over it, I cry my eyes out like lastnight. However, once I'm done crying myself to sleep I wake to a new day and more at peace then the night before. The tears are becoming less and less. I will not contact this person he does not deserve an once of my attention. So that's one thing I'm glad about. I'm glad that the anxious feeling to call him has gone away. Thank you God. I am the prize I forgot that when we were dating, and my worth . I will now return the love that I gave away back to sender . Amen
Two years ago I watched this video after breakup. Two years later I have grown so much. Im in a much better relationship. Thank you Keshav for this eye opening video. 🙏🏼
Good for you ! And good to hear.
When will the crying ever stop?
I feel you. You're not alone .
It's just that, after a while I don't even know why I'm crying, it just doesn't stop.
Thank you.
I know and then you cry over things you never thought would make you cry and it all builds in inside of you . I hate it I hate the feeling it was 3 years of my life with him. I hope nothing but the very best for you you might not know me but i just wanna make one person smile today even if I couldn't .
Oh my!
You are amazing!
I am smiling.Just keep yourself busy and focus on yourself.It's not selfish but it's very brave.These are the things which we don't have control over and even though I myself am an avid over thinker, sometimes when I'm sane I realize there is so much more to life.And you are worth everything amazing.
And we are all with you.
What you deserve and want will come when the time is right. It takes time to heal. It really does. I know what it's like to be heart broken and crying all the time. Focus on the positives in your life. Talk to people, don't ever hold it in. Cry whenever you need to. Do things to get your mind off of whatever happened or whoever you're crying over. Breakups are hard. Everyone goes through them at some point. Focus on the things that make you happy. :)
It’s been a little over a month...this video keeps me going...especially the end with the quote about the star...it’s so true...and I’m not over it, I never knew such pain could actually exist...giving someone everything you have, all your love, energy and strength...
This is not your destruction, this is your birth...
I pray and love every single person who is watching this...reading this...idk how but it will be okay...it will be okay
I knoa but I want it to be okay with her..
It will get better, it just take time, but hang in there. you're gonna make it.
Everyone who is watching this.. Go out there and live the adventure. Live your life, show that person what they are/have missed out on... Rise to the occasion
I need a hug right now! 😔
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Same
Me too
I’m ready to give you hugs
Hugs!!!
i dont have the courage to love again
INDRANIL MANDAL Me too...
INDRANIL MANDAL I know; but if you do not even try you just excepted that is how you're going to feel forever. No one can make any promises about what will happen if put yourself out there again, but if nothing else, you are just looking at a absolute, versus and not absolute. Wouldn't you want to choose the non-absolute when it comes to being lonely.
same here dude now i hate no feelings
forreal bro
My only love is for MDMA
Wow guess everyone here knows that you are not alone !! A lot of ppl are hurting in the world ! 😔 but life goes on ! It gets better....time reveals n time heals .... love this video ...inspiring !!! 🙏
yes definitely.. time does reveal
I Just want to say one thing to everyone whoever is watching this video - Life goes on no matter what but life goes on it's been about a year when I had a breakup that was so though initially but now everything looks like fine whatever is happening just for our good so I am so thankful to god he gave me this opportunity to understand much better to myself.
so guys a sweet hug for everyone and remember no matter what life goes on and pls pls pls trust me this time you re going to be more happy then you ever could. if they are going let them go...
I got cheated on by someone I thought would be the “one” he would say I love you to my face while sleeping with another, when I found out my first reaction was to push away everyone and all shit about both of them, but the hate and anger only consumed me and it pushed people I love away and they left, but after crying last night and just releasing all my feelings it made me realize I can and will conquer this situation, because I am a warrior, I am a goddess, I am a girl with the beautiful smile who will replace hate with love, sadness with laughter, hurt with joy, and anger with happiness. ❤️Thank you for doing this, for motivating those who are in time of need
this saved me. right now. I'm going through this heart break. thank you so much.
Glad to hear so. Keep going. You are love in abundance already!
I just gone through a breakup three months ago. I think of my ex often and sometimes I have anxiety in the middle of the night because I’m still shaken up by the whole breakup. I wonder if he thinks of me like I think of him. It’s scary when you realize that you have been left and the unfortunate part is dealing with it alone or just knowing your ex has changed the way they look at you, like they never cared about you. Sometimes I got so upset when people asked about him because I was fragile. I didn’t even know what to say. It was difficult to say, “he left me.”
i found this video a few years ago helped me to get through a situation-ship that i had to get over .. it helped me and ever since then i come back to this video for memories and everytime i get my heartbroken.. i will always remember this video .. to whoever seeing this keep on keeping on because one day you will come across this video again and you will remember how heart broken you were and that time passes and heals and that you are okay and always will be. stay up💗
Sad that 5 years later I’m dealing with the same situation different person and I gotta return to this video once again.
you know its 31st December, everyone is partying and I am here watching your video.Thank you man 😊😊😊
Lucky Forever my pleasure. make 2017 a wonder 😊
Thank you... This is good to hear. I am in so much emotional pain that I did not know was possible. We were best friends... He told me how much I meant to him and how happy I made him all the time. We talked every day for hours. Laughing, crying, living... Now I mean nothing to him. He treats me like crap. He ignored me and pushes me away. The man I knew has vanished. How could this be happening ... he was supposed to be the one I could go to. My partner. My escape from the chaos. Why did he have to be taken from me... I need him... this is horrible. Its so hard to stay strong. So, so hard. It hurts
Soloworth know you are not alone. My relationship ended a month ago after seven years. It still hurts but each day I get stronger. I can feel it. Hugs to you xx
It's good to know I'm not alone. I know a lot of people go through this, but I'm not an emotionally strong person.. he was my first everything. I wish I had never met him..
Soloworth same :/ hurt right now, don't know what to do or what to think. this person brings pleasure but also pain, mostly pain. :(
I'm going through the exact same thing. I never imagined such a thing will happen to me, someone who said he loved me and can't do without me all of a sudden turned out to be a monster and pushes me away. I wonder how and when this will be over, don't know how I can trust anyone ever again..
Vee Oby me too :/ it's the worst feeling in the world when the person that said loves you the most rapidly changed towards you :/ never kept his promise :/
To everyone who's feeling as empty and horrible as I am because they felt like she truly was the one:
"The one" would never treat you like shit. She wouldnt dump you after years of you loving her more than life itself.
The person/people meant for you, will give you every bit of love, acceptance, loyalty and kindness that you deserve.
And you DO deserve it.
YOU WERE NOT THE PROBLEM, THEY WERE.
Thank you ♥
I’m going through the worst heartbreak in my life. I never thought I’ll feel like this. I’m so broken 😞
I am going through so much right now. It may have just been a year, but my heart feels shattered and gone with the memories we have.
I desperately want to heal, but I can’t get out of bed.
youve no idea what this video has done for me .... youve saved my life
Broke up with my first real girlfriend... 2 days later and she's already dating someone else. I'm so depressed because I still love her
that fucking bitch
D1n0 Fr0g my ex girlfriend of 2 years dumped me. she was with another guy within a month. but h know what happens? it doesnt last. its a rebound. do not contact her. leave her alone. work on yourself. become better each day. take this guys advice. she will come back one day. trust me. mine did. this time it will be your choice on whether or not to take her back. goodluck. stay strong
It happens. Learn from it. Get better, not bitter
Im confused. If you loved her why did you break up with her in the first place? I'm just trying to understand your point of view because I'm usually the person who gets dumped and wonder why the person would end a good relationship.
Togusa there are plenty of reasons mate.
I'm so in denial it's so hard to process that someone who claimed to love you can hurt you like this I've never felt such a pain and I don't know what to do I'm so weak
I feel the same! Your not alone 💔😭
Angel Waters. I agree. I'm in denial and i still have hope, but another part of me tells me it's not meant to be. I'm so confused. Yet, this video speaks the truth! "Start investing in yourself"
Angel Waters i know how u feel, at that moment u feel lost but the best thing to do is to reach out to someone and talk about it,express how u feel and then let go of it, be strong because even tho u believe u are weak , u grow strong from experience. Find new meaning in life , and always try girl
U are not weak.. u are human.. I hope u are in a better place in life now...
I got thrown away after 11 years . To all out there dealing with loss .my heart goes out to you .
Its may hurt right now but my life is much better without him . My Diwali was full of fulfillment and light . Love you words
I love him💔 but I have to let go💔
Let go your earthly tether. Empty, and become wind.
How u did 😭
Help me I can't take this pain anymore 😭
Thank you for the motivation. I can only imagine being where you are now. You are valued and you made the best decision in that moment ❤️
5 years just ended recently . I'm definitely broken but I know this is all temporary. I know how you all feel and just know it's a long road ahead.
+Jake Crabajales one step at a time. Work at it and learn and grow
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Jake Crabajales Humans are amazing beings. Trust me on this - everything changes for better in life.
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Needed this, been 2months, no contact, i wanted to save my marriage of 3 yrs, but I'm becoming more and more content with the reality of it all, this video gives me the extra motivation to keep going
Miguel Torres I have 5 years and I'm going to leave don't want to but I must cause I'm in so much pain . I'm lost and I must find myself with out pain
he speaks from his heart he touch my heart . Thank you so much so nice to meet you
I lost the will to live. Help me. Please.
Niou Niou all is well
+Osy Mbeledogu thx
thank you
Zesty, don't ever give up, I took a 16 year hit myself. There is better waiting out there for you TRUST me, I see better people, better groups, activities I never had seen before. Just keep pushing forward, the pain may come and go as he says in the video like waves, but get through those waves!
I hope you're doing much better now
my girl broke up with me 3 days back. Had been feeling like sh*t ever since. locked myself in the room. I know I deserved better than her because as u said I put every effort and did everything for her with no reciprocation. I feel she broke up with me because she doesn't deserve me. Yet it hurts to break away from a person u loved and had some good times. now this video gave me a different perspective. thanks a lot friend
keep smile bro!
Marisa The Magician! Let her go when your down lift your head up and speak positivity into your head.
This video has really helped me, I'm choosing my pain to be fuel. I have made a terrible habit of letting a guy define me, letting a relationship become my identity because I was too afraid of the potential I possess. I was willing to settle for mediocrity if it meant I wasn't alone. I choose today to take this pain and let it become fuel to launch a musical career that I've been dreaming about since I was a kid. Thank you so much for the inspiration!
Mollie Crowe My pleasure and keep dreaming and believing :)
Mollie Crowe I can relate to you sweetheart, keep your head up !
Thank you from the bottom of my very broken heart for making this video. I can't begin to express how much it's helped me. I plan to watch this everyday as I move toward 2.0. 💛
+Amanda O'Connell My absolute pleasure. How are you and how are things progressing for you? :)
Going through divorce after 10 years together and I felt lost, heartbroken until I found this message. Love this man and his message and I found my aspirations to change my life. Thank you for pulling me out of despair and for my friends who constantly lift me up. Keep those who are positive around you and cut out the negative and you will start to heal like I have. Much love to all of you going through heartache and pain, know that you are not alone. Believe in love and keep an open heart. God bless
My boyfriend just broke up with me today, I'm heartbroken. I came across your video and want to thank you for the inspiring words. It made me feel better and gave me hope and strength to wake up tomorrow and fight hard to start a new beginning!! Will definitely watch this video again for the motivation.
I've found my peace in forgiveness, love and understanding how sad that person is, how small inside. He dropped in my eyes from God and love of my life, to small nothing. I can't even understand now how I actually thought he was love of my life :) He is even so ugly to me now after all this love is gone, because I can see him clearly. After years of giving my ENTIRE LIFE to this person, after I did what ever he asked, risked my life for him, destroyed my family for him... he left me when I did last thing he asked me to do. Without explanation I was left, he didn't even had courage to tell me it's over. It's even harder without a closure or one word about ''ok tell me it's over and why so that I can move on'' he would instead reply with ''talk to you soon''. It was a huge emotional and mental abuse! But still, I even wrote him how everything is my fault, how I am the bad person and he is so good, and kind, and that I completely understand why it's over....just to make him feel good about himself, because I started feeling sorry for him :D It's ALL in your focus. Just switch your focus.
I gave myself a closure after few months with loving myself, enjoying life and love, forgiving him and understanding that he is intentionally hurting me and doesn't want me to move on with giving me a closure just because it would make his sad little person inside feel better about himself, and me moving on would mean he is not winning and that I won instead... like I did actually :)
It is so hard, this is happeninig to me right now... I am feeling lonely
+doppydoppy013 Say to your self ''ok, today I will dig inside my emotions to see wtf, and then dig, cry, scream, feel all the way...'' but next day say ''i am done with it'' because, trust me, it's all in focus.... once you start feeling sorry for your self next day, just switch your focus...go to fitness, yoga, somewhere you can meet new people... volunteer somewhere. Wake up and first thing go running, physical activity is good if you are going through this because it will boost serotonin and endorphin that break up practically kill in our brain, and they will make you feel happy. Just love your self, use this time to work on yourself to become better and stronger inside, and to look great :)
+Natasa Mitic Radulovic Amen!
+Natasa Mitic Radulovic you are completely right, going through same with narcissistic controlling ex who still tries to get in my head. Used the pain to push me to better myself, to be what I want to be and do what it is that I wish to do. Been 3 months now and looking back I hardly recognise who I once was and know I am better now than ever before. Theres a lot to be said for finding your release and focus.
'Be the change you wish to see in this world'
+MrTakeshi763 wow it's been three months for me too, and I am going through exactly the same, I am so changed as well, I am so aware of myself and others, I deal with things differently .. from completely different level, so I can say as well that I hardly recognize who I once was. Instead of blaming others, I was looking inside myself to see wtf :) so, yes.. I am much better person, to both others and myself.
I’m completely hopeless in love, I’ve never been completely over my ex boyfriend but now I have no choice. He never respected me or how I felt ( when our relationship ended ) and disregarded every valid feeling I had. He broke me down and made me feel as though I was worthless. I loved him even though he was scared too love me back. I let him back in my life and after a day, he’d forget about me again. However recently he has been everything I wanted, not my boyfriend but just someone too turn too, someone too talk too and be excited too talk too, he was my person, just mine. I gave myself too him and he did something so awful that I can not comprehend, he betrayed me and my trust knowing that my trust had only recently came back...sad thing is..I love him and I love who he is. But he’s not mine too love, and I deserve so much better. Sometimes, I wish I could just fade away, feel nothing the way he does..hope things change soon - simply can’t go on 💔
this video is just what i needed. for my case, its not exactly a break-up but more like i felt betrayed and gravely disappointed by that person. but i decided to give him another chance but its still eating me out, what he did to me and i was completely lost as to what I should do. but this video helped me see things in a different perspective, that i need more time invested in me and less time invested in worrying about certain things. so, thank you.
I felt exactly the same but this video help me a lot, hope you're a lot better now xx
we're the same sis :'(
ImFridaMartin thank you, as do i hope for you too. :) We have settled our problems for now through honest open communication. And alot more focus on improving myself as well.
Mary grace Berganio I hope you feel better as I do now! Remember to always invest more in yourself, as this whole video aims to inspire. :)
+DeFawk my pleasure. I'm glad you found that perspective - and YES. Investing in yourself is ALWAYS ALWAYS worth it, and you are worth all the riches and happiness in the world. Stay beautiful
I just watched this video. 4 years later. Again I find myself at a cross roads and I wanted to find this video. To have a look back. I realised what a profound influence you have had on me. My journey to self enlightenment and understanding hinges off finding this video on a day where I was feeling particularly low. Because of you I read How to change your life with NLP. From there on I've grown so much. I would like to chat to you. About this and many other things. But If I can't make contact then I want to say thank you. Thank you... you saved a life.
just about an hour ago , she left me.
i typed "heartbreak motivation"
and got this video
and now I'm loving it.
Glad to have you here Ashwani
u r voice of brokenheart.thats exactly how i m feeling drowning,hope i overcome this pain.
You will Binita. Keep going
I had severe anger issues that filled my head with intense thoughts of violence and rage and I felt out of control. I suffered from this while I was in a relationship with a girl, who I loved. I ended up pushing her away for fear that I would shatter her world by doing something I would have deeply, deeply, regretted. That was 5 months ago. I kicked the anger issues; but I never stopped loving her. Now that I've come back. She doesn't think she can feel the same way about me again. That may have been the greatest mistake I've made. Thank you for this video. Some seriously good thoughts coming from this...
Glad it helped! You're an inspiration
I'm going exactly through what you described at the moment... That connection that I care so much about seems to vanish on the other side. I tried too hard to keep it alive, and it became more of a pain and torture than a pleasure. But you're right, it's time to do something about it, and start thinking about me again.
Thank you. Really.
wow that was deep the way you explained how a star is born . i replayed it a lo
5 years relationship, denied proposal, dumped, and new man moved in after 5 weeks.....working through it....
My girl broke up with me today and I left school early because I just wanted to cry. I laid in bed and just cried but I watched this video and honestly it changed me. And I really mean that I didn't think I could get through this but now I have a sudden spark of hope. I'm starting version 2.0..I'm gonna stand in the circle...cause this is not my destruction this is my birth. Thank you so much
+juan correoso Become even more beautiful and shine even brighter than you already are.
thought i was alone, I got broken after my ex leaving me. this is the honest video I've ever seen. thanks man, really. from deep of my heart, thanks
I hope you happy now bro, and hope for me too! 😃
+Sam Alan I will always keep it 100% real and genuine with you guys on this channel. Otherwise, what's the point?
+Jonnathan Edbert thanks man cheers!
+Revolution Hive thanks a lot man
thank you for posting your video. I will listen to it for 66 days as a daily reminder.
thank you.
+Anya Ovseenko My pleasure Anya. Give it time. And be kind to yourself. This too, shall pass :) x
thank you my new darling friend =)
I can't take this pain anymore Im trying but I can't forget him😭
I'm a 62 yo widow of nearly 5 mo. You're a young man, yet you are teaching me so much. You're awesome.
I feel betrayed. Because of the things she said, the promises she made, and our special circunstancies. Does anyone feel like me, or is it just me?
You are not alone
Betrayal is worse
the first two minutes described EXACTLY what I'm feeling right now.
From South Africa... Thank you so much, I needed this.
Next on my list of places to visit! My pleasure
This video is a MUST watch not only for those who are going through a Break Up, but for all who are experiencing disappointment and pain as well. Thank you for these words of wisdom.
This will ALWAYS be my go to video when I feel heartbroken or if I’m ever going thru a rough time.
Thank you for this.i just recently got let go from a 3.5 year relationship.she was my best friend and this is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with.its been hard but what your saying in this has inspired me. I gave everything to someone who just out of the blue rejected it all and put me down constantly for 6 months. She had issues in the head to deal with so maybe it's for the best. I wanted to marry this girl but it's like your saying don't let it consume you.make positive action.use it as the fuel to your fire.
Version 2.0 :)
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Aw, I loved this! That really WAS very motivational, thank you! I'm going to share this video with anyone else I come across who is going thru a painful breakup, bc you have some very wise words. It's hard to motivate yourself when u feel down in the dumps, but like u said....the emotions will come in waves. By now, I've been thru enough breakups to bounce back pretty quick, but there was a point where a 7 year relationship ended and I thought I would never get over it ever. And here I am....5 breakups later, and with each one I've grown a but and learned a bit. I acted so irrationally at first, but at this stage, I'm just chill and say "ok good luck finding another AK, cuz you never will!" (Lol and they always figure that out a few months down the road), but when I heard your statistic about 66 days, it made total sense, bc a few months later when they came crawling back, I wasn't interested anymore.
And that'll happen to you all as well, the first big one might take longer, but time really DOES heal wounds. And you take what you learned and you move on. One thing I have learned throughout all of my breakups in my 32 years on Earth is that you HAVE to cease contact...especially if you're hoping that they might come back, you cannot let them know that your world is crumbling-you HAVE to make them think that you CAN live without them and that you're doing just fine-better than fine, you're doing GREAT, and you are sooo thankful that you dodged a bullet and that you made it out alive! So thankful bc yikes, you could've ended up stuck with them (at least make them think that's your mentality bc it plants a very tiny seed of insecure self-doubt in their head, and that seed will slowly blossom into 1 of 2 things: 1) they will come back to you bc they realized your worth, or 2), YOU will realize your worth, and completely forget about them, the pain, the anger...and you will transform into a butterfly who gained some very hard earned wisdom, that, if you're smart, you'll remember to a) use it as a tool in qualities you don't want in a person (or conversely, qualities you hope is the opposite in a future relationship), and b) remember the lesson and wisdom you gained, but most importantly, c) not to let it make you paranoid that it'll happen again in the future so that you don't sabotage a would be great relationship bc of stupid shit someone in the past did to you. You don't punish current partners with the heartbreaks caused by a former partner who has nothing to do with a current relationship. Okay guys?!
(That's what I'm currently dealing with, the insecurities that developed bc somebody else broke my now ex's heart and he became paranoid that it would happen again, so he got scared and ran away)....he'll be back tho...I'm gonna make him wait 66 days tho before I answer him ;)
Yes! I will not be broken! Today is day 1 of 66.. I can and will come out stronger!!
Love it! Go Renee!
This video helped me within the first five minutes. I haven't eaten in three days, haven't slept in two, and every time I took a breath I was choking back a sob. It's still in waves, but these words are going to be my triggers for getting back on track. Really, thank you. I was looking up the suicide prevention hotline earlier and bailed out because of pride and not knowing what to say. I feel like my soul is being ripped from my chest and I do feel defeated and replaceable, but this video showed me you can feel that and still get better.
Marisa Smith 😓
Everyday, every minute of every day hurts without him. He broke my heart into a million pieces and all I wanted to do was love him and bring him joy and laughter. He unceremoniously left me in this state. A state of decay and ruin and I feel so empty and hurt. All I do is cry. Can’t eat, can’t sleep, it’s excruciating.
there's time where I feel great and not think of my ex of 4 years but there is time where I just remember her smile and us laughing breaks my heart 😔
+Randy Sosa Now just imagine, what could be even better than that? And then go create it.
If anyone need someone to talk to im right here feeling probably the same..
thanks for the video made me feel a lot batter and love you all be strong❤️
we broke up after 4.5 years , just a month before my life 's most important exam...its hard to do anything I repeat anything.
Going through dz now!
This video changed my life 3 years ago my first love broke my heart and I did not know how to deal with that heartbreak I listened to this video and I swear it changed my life I am at happiest place in mylife...Just wanted to say thank you for this video
Thank you so much for this video. I am exiting a marriage of 7 years due to the person constantly cheating and lying. I am in a very broken place right now, I was manipulated for so long and didn't realize until I took a step back that I allowed the manipulations to go on in my life. I began to feel ugly and worthless. Literally started to tell myself I had no value because I allowed myself to become what I said I never would, a mans doormat.. I don't even know how to love myself right now. I am hopeful for myself and the revival of my spirit. This video was a great first step in the right direction. I KNOW I can survive this and find myself again. I just didn't know where to start so again, Thank you.
You changed my life.i needed you
Thank you so much this video just made my night
Right now I'm going through a bad breakup and I can feel it draining me crying my eyes almost every night but not tonight I'm gonna start doing what I love to do, dance.
Dance my anger, pain, depression, frustration, away!😊
Thank you again keep going what your doing!!😊
+jessica hodgson I love it. My pleasure Jessica :)
u are awesome bro,u just saved my life in the start of the video i was too much upset and at the at end i was smiling .thanks
Love it. Thanks
This saved me. There is so much pain in the world and after a break up it's almost impossible to not see the entire world half empty. Full of black, darkness. Your video shined a light on my life and my world so thank you
I found this girl I was talking to for a little while with her ex at a concert just being there it hurts she never told me anything! I made custom shirts for her to go see a concert with her sister sent them out bought her stuff spent time with her woke up texting her calling her FaceTiming every night and one day to the next she’s gone. But I can seat something to whoever is reading this. There is hope. Do not let yourself break for someone else they don’t deserve the person you are the amount of things that you did are more than enough. Keep pushing and don’t stop grinding on your goals head to the gym learn a new hobbie go hangout with friends whatever it is do you and never stop moving forward YOU are not alone! I love you
This video has given me the motivation to let go and focus on me I just wanna thank you it’s a great feeling to know that no matter what your going through you have to keep pushing forward I recently put my all into this relationship and I got my heartbroken but after watching this video I know that I can live my life thanks for this video ❤️
Thanks Jaylen, so glad to hear it! Thanks for watching :)
YOU ARE AN awesome public speaker, its obviosuly that you have been throught from a lot of experiences to learn all this stuff and take this actittude, Congrats you have become a great person and your effort to growth has been worth it. Thanks for the video :)
+ricardo lópez Really appreciate the kind words but more than that, i'm glad that you enjoyed the video. Thank you
you saved my life.
+AlizaRockParade Humbled
mine, too.
:)
We broke up after 3 and a half years and I gave her everything I had only to have her leave unappreciative of my love. This helps a lot. The only true healer is time and that can be very discouraging at times, but one thing that has really helped me is helping other people. I love being there for someone in need. I love relating to someone and potentially giving them their smile back. Sadly, I have trouble doing that for myself so giving it to someone else is a way that I have used my pain to contribute. Everyone has the capacity for a beautiful life and no one can take the away from you. Be happy with yourself!!
This is all good advice. My life crumbled like a ton of bricks. I rose out of the rubble and refused to give up. That depression, hopelessness and pain is gone.
If you're going through this,your mind can be your best ally or your worst enemy. Don't dwell on what hurt you or you will never heal,like picking at a wound.
really motivational thank you mate! one of the best video I've watched
Thank you :)
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I lost my motivation to live.
Keep strong. You can get through it(:
I'm going through heartache too. We can get through it
you will be fine, look foward
I pray you are doing better today
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I feel you.
From the beginning to the end, everything you said pertained to me. Thank you for this video, it reassures me that other people have gone through such an experience and we get better in time. Am I completely happy with my situation? Since I work with this other person still I still fight daily but, I FIGHT. And that's more than I can say for myself compared to two months ago when I felt my soul wounded and pained.
+Cassie Drake Thanks Cassie. That's all you really need. The desire to change everyday. And it will pay off big if you stick with it believe me.
I am going through heartbreak right now and it´s hurting like hell but i just wanted to remind whoever is reading this right now, you are amazing and I am so proud of you! Keep going, take care of yourself and PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP ON LIFE AND ON YOURSELF!!! I love you and I am here for you!!
Love this Maria!
I understand everyone who are hurting! I’m truly sorry you were and are hurting! 17 years gone with the love of my life! He turned and walked away like he never knew me! So broken
Amazing! Best video yet...thank you for this
Ana Loza My absolute pleasure Ana X
:( I just invested 2 years to get cheated on and she sent me text of there conversations between her and this guy :( I'm completely destroyed
+Robert Paschal not bad i invested 9 years haha
+Robert Paschal she sounds like a bitch. thats just cruel...hope you're doing okay?
i cried through the entire video
can you add more videos? I m sure it will benifit others.I watch it every morning to make me alright...:)
+abhishikha sinha Yep - on the way :) also working on a 30 min movie right now! But anything in particular you want to see?
+Keshav Bhatt videos related to keep up the motivation inside us and meanwhile help others who are going through it. It would be great if you post videos related to successful people who went through numerous failures
Noted. Thanks :)
It couldn't have been explained more beautifully.. Soo soothing soo true..
I am going through probably one of the most life changing break ups to date. Thank you so much, you have helped ease my anxiety and helped me smile today. Thank you so much.
I lost everything I loved.
It will return in abundance
+Revolution Hive hope so.
+Revolution Hive I don't want to live anymore..seriously it hurts
just know that you are not alone to feel this way. it happens and you will survive, you will
+shubhra sharma so much pain. I'm so sorry. It does get better. Start small. Breathe. Take one step. Then another. Breathe. Eat. Repeat. Eventually the pain goes away. It's temporary. You have to find something good and anchor your strength to it. Please be strong
Tried everything, but still thinking about her... i knew her for 3 years, we started a long-distance relationship, i struggled for 1.5 years to be able to move to be close to her : i had to learn German to be able to move on germany and find a good job, i had to struggle with Visa, i left everythin(friends family, good job, my life)... Than i struggled to find us a good house where we can live, and as soon as i got this, and got ready , and that we finally have a house and we can marry(the date was fixed)... here she started to realise that she is not ready and that she still thinks(maybe loves) her ex... and now here i am in a city where i almost know nobody, with a house that keeps reminding me about her! And she had just vanished, without even talking for a last time! I simply do not understand how people can change this way and so fast
I am trying to go out, discover myself, sport, make friends, but she is always in my head
thanks man... I am getting stronger... at the beginning i was struggling just to eat, just to get out the bed, to get to work and do the work that i had always loved!! but yeah i finally understood that you can not force someone to love you! and I do not regret moving here to Germany, as I succeeded my life before in Paris, i will get it in Berlin also.
Hope that you are getting wel!
Thank you again, your words were simple and short, but it really makes me feel good, to see that there still people who cares for others(even with words) in this nasty world
exactly...
it is getting better thanks, well i hate sundays because i stay at home and think a lot about her, but i am getting much better...
I hope that it is also getting better for you dude ;)
may be she was a just a source for you so that you can land upyourself there .. maybe universe has some other amazing plans for you dear :) and always remember you are never alone .. you have a family who loves you no matter what ... that;s why those are blood relations.. you have some very good friends who will be there for you ..if you ever feel lost ..call them and talk to them .. if u ever feel hurt (which i know u will many times) , remember this time shall pass.. with bad times comes good times and viceversa.. and for her .. let KARMA do the talking!! :)
Sugandha Dogra nice
true Dogra
Yeah you bounced back you are young....I'm 50 it's more difficult
Esther Hecker Falling is temporary. Giving up is permanent. You're right, it is more difficult. So what now? For me there's 2 options. You complain and whinge and cry about it (which you are allowed to do of course!) but at SOME point. You have to move forward, for yourself more than anything else. Which one you choose, is upto you..
Hi, I want to thank you.. after this video a decided to start fighting back.. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired, this person made me feel so small and empty for the last 4 months, that enough is enough.. I'm not going to cry anymore, and I just hope this person is out of my brain soon because is very painful.
this is what i really need right now...my boyfriend and i just broke up...and it's been a hell for me...so many sleepless nights and crying...thank you so much!