At this time I am writing this comment it has been a little over 4 months since I uploaded this video. First things first, thank you to every single one of you, you are all just so amazing. I never thought this video would get the support that it did, my very first video. At this point it has reached over 35k views, over 280 comments, almost 700 likes, and over 270 subscribers. I truly cannot thank you all enough. When I first made this video, I hoped, dreamed, and prayed to help just one person, just one, but it turned into so much more than that. I have seen so many comments, received so many emails, and have seen so much support from so many of you. I do my best to respond to everyone but it is so hard to keep up! But do not take that the wrong way, it is absolutely not a bad thing, I love hearing about all of your stories so much and I am honored to be able to hear them! The support behind this video has driven me to fuel everything that I did and to get through my dark times. I am making an extremely quick recovery with my injury, gotten through my heartbreak, met someone who is just so so much better than my ex, and am getting through all these other troubles from that dark spot I was in. The road hasn't been easy, but I constantly looked back at the feedback from this video and it kept me going. I also am sorry that it has been taking so long for my next video, but I have been working on a new project. I didn't like the end result of this one that I was working on so I decided to completely start over on something new, but it is coming! Once again thank you all for everything, and just know that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel! Talk to you all soon!
You really just took the words right out of my mouth. I needed to hear this bro. Thank you. Really, though, this kind of pain, i wouldn't want to wish it on anybody else.
The biggest revenge is life. I've lost count how many times I've had my heartbroken. Use your pain, use it as motivation. Not to win back this girl. But to win back your life. Being nice and caring and loving is not a weakness, don't stop doing it, don't let a girl change who you are. Change the girl. Let all these soul crushing girls end up in jealous fuelled toxic relationships that they deserve, and they will forever think of the mistake they made in letting you go, long after they are a distant memory. Peace out fellow Nice guys.
Hoorah thanks brother, I was really trying to improve this individual and here I am with this conclusion on Valentine's day... Betrayal. But I'm joining the Gym first thing tomorrow, I feel like running and lifting again.
Word up brother !..... Big hearts get broken bigger!...... devastating emotions run high!.... to be let down by the ones you deeply love is crushing !... but we can all get our lives back ..... with a little help ...Big up for your post!
She left me after 2 years together. She said she didn't love me anymore....for about 4 months she felt that way. The time together, the dates, laughter, naps, family events, nothing in those 4 months meant anything to her. The worst part is when we made love, I put my everything, my soul, I craved her, loved her, did everything to make her feel wanted and special, and it sucks knowing it meant nothing to her. When she left me she cried, and told me to apologize to my mother for her, since my mom and I helped her through rough times. It's so hard. The lump in your throat, the heavy chest pain, the constant headaches after crying for so long. I thought I was going to marry her, I gave her everything. The first week Food hadno taste, sleeping was impossible, and breathing hurt. Now a month later I feel way better. Still get sad sometimes but I push through it. I hope yall find peace, I know I'm trying.
Damn, that just happened to me 3 days ago. We were gonna make 2 years and 6 months now. It’s hard but it’s not the end of the world, there is so much more out there
@@wolfofoinn9640 i'm going through it too. she ripped me apart and danced in the blood. four years of my life are gone, it hurts so much. she was my everything and she made me feel disposable. i was a nuisance, begging for her to love me and she finally ended it. it's so painful. more hurt than i have ever felt.
I was married to a woman who i loved since i was a teenager and when we got married and had kids, i thought it would forever.....i was wrong. She moved on from me and began a "friendly" relationship with someone else. I moved out of our home, fought homelessness, and health issues (both physically and mentally). It was hard, but i learned to use my pain as strength to accomplish things i didn't even imagine. I am still in the process of moving on but trust it gets better.
Bro I'm going through a break up right now 4 year relationship ended because she found love in someone else and just lost feelings for me. So many lies to my face SO MANY. All the signs were there but Ignored them because I was too in love. But right now im hurt but I'm going take advantage of this pain and make myself a better person. This video came at the right time thank you
I wouldn't wish the pain of a breakup, on my worst enemy. It feels like you would rather die. But everyday gets better. Even if it's the smallest thing. And then one day I found myself not crying anymore. I was completely broken and I'm so glad to say I'm picking up the pieces now and this video helped me so much thank you. You don't know how much you have helped me. Eternally grateful
Heartache is one of the biggest motivators and opportunities to better yourself. It's not going to be easy, but nothing, nothing in this life worth having comes easy. You always have do better and better when it comes to dealing with pain. I've been there, man. So always remember, be better not bitter
Hang in there guys. Be strong. Ive gone through this many times with the same person. My heart is shattered but guess what. We will get through this because it will make us stronger than ever. Trust yourselves. Keep walking no matter how much pain it is. Keep going forward!
I ❤️ this video and I still remember like yesterday and it was the worst feeling in my life. I felt like someone hit me in my chest and I couldn’t breathe. I was deeply in love with a man whom I thought we was going to be together forever. We was engaged and together for 2 years, but as the time became close to our wedding day I received that phone call that he was no longer in love with me and it was over. No closure and I literally cried for months. This was the first time my heart was broken and I will never want to feel this way again. Three years has passed and as I look back on my life this breakup was the birth of a new “ME”! I actually feel in love with myself and over the years I watered my soul with LOVE. During that time I felt rejected, broken, depressed, unworthy, betrayed, angry, unforgiving and so much more. The biggest challenge for me was forgiveness for myself. When I finally forgave myself, I was able to forgive him and the healing process began for me. Although I thought in the past after the breakup I wasn’t good enough and unlovable I thank GOD now for pushing him out of my life. My breakup became my Breakthrough and for the first time in my life I began to fall in love with me. For anyone in this thread or watching this video remember this: “ You are loved and if someone leaves you don’t allow it to define you. Accept what has happen and focus on “YOU”! Healing takes time, but know you will be able to love again. Guard your heart and become stronger and wiser. Your ex left because he or she couldn’t see how amazing you truly are........Love doesn’t hurt. Be thankful because GOD has someone better just go through the healing process so you’ll be ready for the ☝️ when he or she presents themselves to you.. What you thought was rejection was actually GOD protection.
Sheekipooh i read your comment... your words help me a lot... i’m going through that tough time right now... no matter how good of a relationship was, how adults both of us were... he chose to give up on this relationship and it hurts like hell because I thought he’ll be the one who decide to stay no matter what, you know... and he chose to leave :) just painful like it’s so easy to leave everything behind
This video has really helped me out a lot. I was crushed just a few weeks ago out of the blue after having such an amazing time with this person I was with. treated her very well and with the respect that every woman should be treated with. Im running a marathon this weekend and will use all this as fuel to break through this pain.
So sorry to hear about what happened to you man, but maybe that breakup is gonna be one of the best things that ever happened to you! That's the best way that you can use your pain, as fuel, it's gonna drive you to really push yourself this weekend, and with everything else that you do in your life. Keep on pushing and fighting man, thanks for watching and commenting!
In a way I feel at peace listening to this...I know I’ll still cry every now and then but it’s for the best❤️. So to whoever is also hurting...you got this
You have given my heart hope. I needed this video. My life has been stressful and the one whom was supposed to be with me for better or worse gave up on me. Thank you for being an amazing person. This spoke volumes to me.
I had the same happen after 25 years of marriage nothing I did made her happy I continued to hurt myself and blame myself when I knew I had done nothing wrong. I'm not going to lie it hurts but I had to pray and forgive for me and just let go. Even now saying it hurts but I know in my heart its the best thing to do. I pray for you and everyone hurting and just know it gets better by the minute hour and day. Stay Strong...
I am recently divorced from a 14 year marriage with 2 kids, and I have never been so alone. I can’t eat or sleep, I think I’m losing my fucking mind, I may very well be. How do you start over after you’ve gave everything you had to someone for so long, and now I still have to see her to see the kids. I just don’t think I can keep this up much longer, thank you for the video it was great my friend.
SuperNutZ 129 Hang in there brother. I feel the same pain you are feeling and in the same situation. Wish I could forget about my ex but she is the mother of my child and will see her forever due to sharing custody. I’m trying to take things one day at a time. They didn’t love us the way we needed to be loved. We deserve better.
Man I watched this and it made me want to share my story cause it's similar to yours. Even if no one watches it I just feel like it would help to put it all out there for the slim chance that someone does watch it and it helps them. Thank you man.
Heart breaks suck!!!! But I'm so proud of you!!! Taking that pain and turning it into greatness takes courage. People come into our lives so serve an specific purpose. She served her purpose in your life, and helped your greatness come out stronger. No need to hold grudges... forgive... thank her and bless her. Keep up walking in your great journey. Best of wishes ❤️
This video was, in a sense, a wake up call for me. I realized, from your story, that i´m far from being alone. I´ve been with this girl for 8 years, and out of nowhere she just let me know, that she wants be alone, and doesn´t love me anymore. I was shell shocked, really didn´t know what to do with my life. All my plans were with her. Living together, starting a family, travel, etc. It was like i was t boned by a bus. But your story gave me strenght, and gave me the confirmation that i´m not alone. Others are in the same place as i am. I know that i have to pick myself up and start to move on. And i´m really trying. It´s hard, but i hope that with time, and a little bit of self discipline i can make it through this shit storm, and emerge better and wiser. Anyway, just want to say thank you for sharing this, it really helped to hear you, and lots of love to you and everyone that has to go trough this. Hang in there guys. God bless!
TheMgdrp83 thank you so much for telling your story man, I am very sorry that you have to go through all this pain. Just understand that nothing just happens, and that this was all for a reason. Now is the time to focus on making yourself stronger physically and mentally. And when the right time comes you are going to meet someone who is just so much better in every category. It sounds crazy and corny, but it really is true. Your ex just isn't worth your time and attention anymore, just let them walk. It will be her biggest regret in time, while you are incredibly happy and living out a successful life. Thank you so much once again for reaching out, and I hope the best for you my man!
Dude, i don´t know you, but i know that i truly thank you for sharing your story and taking the time to replying to my message. Thank you man, and i truly hope the best for you too!
TheMgdrp83 i feel you,i have been with this guy for 8 years too and he left me without any closure. he just told me that he's so sick with my attitude. it's been three months that we broke up.
the same thing my ex told me when she left me. its been 4 years now and i still have those feelings for her. nothing helped. built a phisique. strted earning good amount of money. but theres still something i am missing in my life. it hurt diffrently now. thanks for this man. great one.
What do you think is missing? I have the same feeling. I have made many improvements since 2 years before when i broke up. But she is still in my head man. I still lifting weights so hard while i remember her. Why after 2 years she is still my motivation for everything in life? Just why?
This touched me in more ways than you will ever imagine. Yes I stayed to the very end. I too love with every ounce of myself. Heartbreak. Betrayal. Lies. These are the things I must process. Thank you for your words.
Much respect to you bro, my girl left me 2 years ago and ever since then I refused to feel anything about the breakup, basically just ignoring that it happened. In the moment it worked out well because people thought I was handling it well and I thought so too at some point, but in reality I was just postponing the soul crushing heartbreak. But then COVID shutdown the world and I was stuck at home with nothing to do except just think on stuff like her, and this past week I found out she is now with another guy, and that wall that I built around myself for the last 2 years fell apart. 2 years worth of heartbreak hit me all at once and it has been fucking tough, but your story really hit me in a way that none of these other motivation videos have. There’s days where the heartbreak is unbearable, but I’m pushing myself to get back into fitness and reclaiming my confidence and be the person she wishes she never left. Hope you’re doing well dude and thank you.
This video literally changed my life!!! Thanks 🙏! I still have a lot more to go but I have reached one of my milestones and I’m just getting started. 💯 sending good vibes to everyone. I was broke, heartbroken, and I was let go because of the pandemic, and wasn’t present for my sons birth. Like a Phoenix I have risen with success and still have more to go!!! They are crawling back right now! And not taking them back!
The way you worded everything was so fucking relatable, thank you so much, I couldn't have watched anything better. I'm still going through this ordeal but this was such a big help, thank you.
My guy broke up with me, and I tried as much as possible to settle things with him. He honestly didn't tell me what I did wrong. He just...left. I thought I'd wait for him, maybe he'd reconsider things but sadly it turned more sour. I'm just trying to get myself back together and rebuild myself
Hi Lauren, After 2 years I hope you are feeling better. I really need someone to talk to. Text or call if you aren't too creeped out by this. 404.291.3715 Paul
Thank you for this video. Day 1 here from a break up of a 13 year relationship that was broken for so many years. I truly showed my darkest and hit rock bottom. I pray to God for strength since he comes back to me everytime we do this and I go back. It's become a culture for me now, everything he has done to me, cheated, lied and devalues me became a routine and the normal for me. I didnt value myself because he made me feel so worthless and unimportant. I know those things, but the pity I feel for him pulls me back since his life is so worththless I allow him back in and he makes me feel like trash abusing my emotions and making every day miserable for me. I know I'm capable of so so much more. I pray to God for strength and I'll do the rest. Thank you for this its helped me get out of bed today and make a better day.
It hurts seeing that person let go of you... seeing them happy without you is really painful, I went through this process and I’m trying to move. It’s not easy. You just have to get through the obstacles and fight. It’s worth it
The love of my life which I thought was everything I needed left me on our 6 year anniversary. She had her own reasons and was pretty much sick of me and couldn’t put up with me not showing her the love and affection she wanted. Put all that extra love you gave the person you truly loved , into yourself. And I promise you will become a different person with the self love that you have for yourself.
Andy Figueroa man I feel like I can relate to you the most with this I’m hurting bad mines just happened a week ago and I’m still fighting to move forward
Thank you bro. It has been over a year but still feeling the memories of regrets and dagger in my heart. I know I can no longer giv into this pain, i always thought I needed something to replace this pain so I can be normal again, and new relationships was just bad idea...... I accepted this pain always going to be there, and asking her for closure will not bring any peace, I have to learn to live with it and move on. It is part of life and given, to shape us and not take things for granted, although it is not a pretty place to be at first
One of the best motivational stories I’ve heard. My girlfriend of 3and half years left me for my best friend so not only did I lost my love but I lost the closest group of freinds I’ve ever had. This kind of content helps to me realize that this is a gift that is happening to me even Though this paradigm shift I’m going through were my life has collapsed and everything around me crumbled I can make it through this and show that person and my self that I am better than this and I can use this lesson to make me such a good person. Shout out to everyone going through a heartbreak your not alone and it certainly helps me to know that people around the world are going through this some worse than others. Use this as a fucking tool to become stronger and prove everyone wrong!
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND I CAME ACROSS THIS.YOUR STORY MIRRORS MINE UN SO MANY WAYS. YOUR WORDS WERE MY THOUGHT AS I LISTENED TO YOU TALK WAS LIKE HEARING MY THOUGHTS. HOPE YOUR JOURNEY IS GETTING BETTER...GOD KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING WE DO NOT. LEFT TO OUR OWN WAYS WE WOULD DESTROY OUR SELF'S FOR SURE... TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF. DON'T LET ANYTHING OR ANYBODY STOP YOU FROM GREATNESS.SOME ARE ONLY WITH US FOR A SEASON OR A REASON. OTHER'S TEACH US LESSONS AND THERE ARE THOSE WHO MAKE US STRONGER NB EVEN THO WE STILL HURT. VERY FEW COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOREVER AND NEVER LEAVE. ALL I KNOW IS GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE US, PEOPLE WILL...GOD FIRST OVER EVERYTHING.. EVERYTHING ELSE IS EASY AS AFTER THAT...
Really glad to hear that my man, make sure to focus on making yourself better every day and I promise that you will become a completely different person! Thanks for watching and commenting!
AntonGasper yes we all can we will help each other but it is still going to be hard it's not going to be easy the harder it is you will become stronger my dad died 2 years ago I'm only 16 and I still feel pain I hope I am making him proud
You're an amazing guy, this was the first step I was looking for. Thank you dude. I'm going to start climbing the mountain as well. Much love to you and everybody else this video has helped and affected
I have been heart broken for 3 months now. Came out from almost 3 year relationship. I don’t usually comment on any youtube videos. But this one is the best heart break motivational video. Keep it up bro. More powers to you :)
Man you are really getting too me I got the message yesterday about it and I am heart break but you are really getting to me you are making me think more about life. I will start to listen to this over and over again to get motivated and inspiration.
Going on two years now. Although I have been working on myself during this period its still difficult from time to time. I seem to reminisce of the good times with her and have forgotten about the arguments and bad moments. The anger and resentment I had has subsided. I realize it wasn’t anyones faults. At 44 and having had some really wonderful relationships throughout my life, this one I felt was the one. She was everything I ever wanted in a woman. And it all slipped away. What can I do at this point? Learn, except, and move on. Time heals all wounds. But I’m not going to lie, it’s been a true test. For all of you out there struggling with heartbreak, stay strong, take care of yourself, continue to grow and be a good friend to yourself. This was an encouraging video, nice job.
Same here. 50 years old and after a handful of relationships I thought I finally found the one I had been searching for. Sucks when it’s now ending. It’s like, WTF now?!
E Higgins Sorry to hear for the breakup. Not much anything anyone will say will make it better quickly. Takes time. I’m in a better place with all of that now. Lots of different resources ive listened to. Not all pertaining relationship stuff because it’s good to learn about other things rather than dwell on it. At least for me it’s helped. I’ll recommend a few channels you could look into. They aren’t hate woman channels or things of that nature. 1) Einzelganger- his content is amazing. 2) Better bachelor 3)Strong successful male None of these gents are bashing relationships. Or saying never deal with them. They shed light on things you may not be realizing at the moment. The goal I’d say they have is to come together and relate, and to help become better men. Woman even subscribe to them to. We are never to old to learn or relearn. Stay strong sir. It will get better Here’s a link for an example of einzelganger I’ll try to send a link for each. th-cam.com/video/78TrUGtPwsM/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/lC5EtYo_Kzo/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/lSMkOCWueS0/w-d-xo.html Hope these help. Peace
Thanks to this video im much more stronger now. She broke me called me skinny fat. 6 months ago i started deadlifts with only 25 plates I struggled. Now im doing 280 and proud of myself she made me found my motivation and im way better now. Stay strong people!
Dude thank you so much for this I broke up 1 week ago with my ex and I still feel sick but after watching this I realized that i have to let it go for any reason and start a new life for me thank you so much now I know that I'm not alone thank you
Thank you so much. I was just about to quit on everything but something led me to you and it saved me. Everything you said was exactly what I'm going this this moment. I owe my life to you for this. Thank you.
Dude you have no idea how much you have helped me. This has touched beyond belief. I'm currently dealing with a heartbreak and couldn't stop crying but I'm so thankful I came across your video. Im constantly replaying it. Thank you so much bro. U literally spoke to me.
I've been going through this its been 3 months ... i watch this video everytime i feel weak .. i've grown some muscles i feel great sometimes but its still haunts me ... i ask myself questions everytime about why always me .... but then i know there's that one video on youtube that makes me feel so much better Thanks mate .. god bless you 💞
Brother, Im going through the same exact thing and its been 4 weeks. I was in a relationship for 4 years with her. She had a really bad past. She's stole money from her job, got fired, kicked out of home and I'v helped her so damn much to put her back on her feet. She had a crush whilst saying shes in love with me. It sucks. I cant touch another girl and as I'm typing this message shes sleeping with someone. I',m going through depression and I went hospital by fainting a lot. I haven't been eating. I thought this girl was my happiness in everything. I feel for you sooooo much. I'm going to go hard in the gym. Thank you so much. I'm so glad I came across this video.
Hey Shane, thank you so much for reaching out and the kind words. I really am so sorry to hear about this, it really does suck, but it truthfully was all meant to happen. Trust me when I say she is not worth all your care and attention, and that when the time is right you are going to meet someone who is just so much better in every category. Going to the gym is a huge positive man, definitely do that as much as you can, it is going to help you out so much physically and mentally it's not even funny. Go and get in the best shape of your life, there is nothing like looking in the mirror and seeing results after working your ass off. Use all this pain and bs as fuel man, you can do it, we're all in your corner!
Thank you so much for this . I just got dumped after ten years . The break up happened 2 months ago . I've lost 42 lbs and feel great despite the heartbreak
Hello lovely, Dr Steve can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
How are you man? I recently got broken up with aftwr 7 years and now the chick is out at clubs dancing and making out with dudes. Lmao she is a bum 24 years old has no license, no job, no car. Lives at her parents. She thinks going out and shit is gonna help her move on I mean maybe. But she’s still in the same position in life. A bum.
going though some of the same these types are so heartless when they leave they literally don't care if you fucking died, after giving you so much of everything you never thought exited in a partner lover,they for no apparent reason leave you and rip your soul to pieces, literally make you feel at ever level worthless by their building you up so high and out of nowhere discard you like a bag of shit, after giving them your whole world, but you must never ever give up, YOUR A true INSPIRATION THANKS AND MORE POWER TO YOU,GOD BLESS
Joe Morgan you're absolutely right man, I really dont have any respect for someone who plays games like that. But that just means that they simply weren't good enough for you, and that you'll meet somebody so much better in every single way. Right now man you just gotta use all this bs and pain to fuel whatever it is that you need to do, take some time to focus on yourself. Truly invest in YOU. And thank you so much for your kind words, you have no idea how much that really does mean to me. God bless bro!
I'm going through this right now. I was left in a mess, lied to, and continuously am still lied to. My heart is struggling because it breaks more everyday.
Thank you so much for this video. I got dumped three days ag because I went to college to persue my degree and he was mad that I went without him . But you just taught me that I am better off and that I can still do this and meet someone who actually cares about my success and well being. So thank you so much.
It's really crazy I listened to this video almost 3 years ago and man I was jst destroyed thinking man will this pain ever subside will I ever function the same...tbh man I didn't it. But little by little relationship after relationship I still had that one person in my mind & I see what he means by the pain never really goes but does hurt in a different way in a positive way if that makes any sense, & I'm not a depressed person or anything like that I actually accomplish a lot in those 3 years I was very out going but it funny how I still had that one person still in the back of my mind & I couldn't understand why?..untill I realized that girl wasn't a girl/ wife but a lesson i never learned in life & it's to feel heartache is to live life on this place we call earth it is a part of the human experience, & yeah ppl will kick when ur down & things can seem like there's no hope for you and why you..but trust me when I say THINGS WILL GET BETTER AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH ITjst trust the process one day you'll look back three years from now & smile with grace ...and I'm not talking about god but faith in yourself you are worthy even if you dnt see it at the moment you ARE AMAZING keep pushing
One of the biggest problems I’m facing is in my mind I just keep thinking it might have been something I did or didn’t do, it wasn’t.. very far from it I did everything I could to the point I was the only one who cared anymore and wanted to fix the lost interest from them but still thoughs negative thoughts come in my mind and think back but honestly I did my best and was the best I could be. My story is very similar to yours man.
I'm going through the same pain you experienced. My situation was a lot similar to yours and It's so rough everyday to go through, but It feels good to know that we can and are getting better and stronger together. This video helped more than you could know.Thank you. Much love brother.and good luck with your journey 👊
JEF LEB0WSKI it is very rough man, but it's gonna make our success so much sweeter. We just gotta use all the bs as motivation to do what we need to do. Keep on working hard my man and never give up👍
She did you a favor by showing you who she really was. Be thankful. The core source of our strength and happiness should come from within. So no matter who it what changes it doesn't fundamentally effect our happiness. We see the benefits of these exterior occurrences and use them to grow. We are determined to not just go through it, we will grow through it.
Love this! Going thru a separation and my wife left me for someone else... currently focusing on myself, my beautiful kids and continuing to move forward. Everything you said was spot on.
I'm glad to hear that you have the right mindset despite everything that is going on! Keep pushing and fighting every day my man, glad that you enjoyed!
Thank you so much for this video i didnt wanna eat i didnt wanna get up i was paralysed with heartache and pain for 2 weeks straight 2 weeks i didnt say a word then i watched this video... and it was like a slap in the face... i thought "instead of playing the victim i can use this pain to better myself" so thank you so much
Been listening to this over and over for the last 2 hours or so. Just wanna say thanks again man. I hope you are still on the up and up. Keep strong always. One thing that has always helped me a lot is coming to an understanding of the value we all have in the eyes of our creator, so much so that even with all our faults he came as a human and died for us on the cross a horrible death that no one deserves. Just wanted to share that with you and anyone else who needs to hear it. If you read this, anybody, I just want you to know that you are loved so much. Bless you, I love you.
I just broke up with my first, I thought that we would last. But I was willing to go through so much more than he was. We have been growing apart for so long, but I was grasping at something..anything to keep us together. But it didnt work. It finally happened when he told me he would leave me if i persued my dream. I never told him how i felt, how much he hurt me. Becasue if when i did he would suggest we break up and i wasnt ready for that. I gave him something so important to me. And as soon as i did it was like he was done. It took me a while, a month exactly. His words would run through my mind over and over again. We would go on dates and have nothing to talk about except what we would be like if we broke up. I finally did it today. I signed up to follow my dream, i told him and wished him best. A part of me wants to go back to him, it hurts to even think about him. But what we had wasnt healthy, I miss him so much. He was my first love and i gave him everything. Thank you for reading this far
AnimeWontHurtMe AsMuchAsYouDid I just want you to know that there is someone so much better for you out there somewhere in the world. It rly does take time to heal through the process, but someday down the road you will meet someone who admires you for what you truly love! Ik you miss him and you probably regret your decisions, but as time moves on, your heart will thank you for it. You have so much to live for in such a small period of time. I was involved in a break up where I couldn’t do anything but dwell forever. The key to actually moving on is finding hope within urself to realize that there WILL be someone else out there 10 x better than the love u had before. If it was true love, then u wouldn’t be in sm pain. True love is accepting you for who you really are, and someday, you will find the right person who appreciates everything you live for. I wish you the best and I hope you heal overtime. Keep me updated!🤗
@@jokerjay7102 Thank you, your advice really made me think. Back when I still wasnt over him; I kept a weekly note on how i was feeling and it really helped me cope. Its been a month since then, and im finally inna good place. I started out by going to the gym and working on the way i view myself and now its a regular thing. Ive gotten back into the things that i gave up when i was with him. And i cant imagine why i gave them up in the first place...they make me happy 😊. Ive started to focus on my life again and cant be more grateful for this message that helped me start it all. He's still in my heart because he was my first. But it seems more like a distant memory now. You really helped me out stranger. And im so happy that theres people like you out there.
I've recently got out of a serious relationship, my girlfriend went back with her ex after three days of the breakup. She broke me down and I'm going to build myself up! Know that your not alone :)
I relate so much man. This shit hits home with me . My ex broke my damn heart for a guy "friend" and still admits he's just a friend . But will curve me to talk with him . And I correlate with a lot of people in the comments . She made me feel terrific and I treated her so nice . And we talked about getting married and having kids . This shit hurts but I got on a routine even when I was with her and just used that as fuel to motivate me more . On this day yesterday she asked to get back together with me and I said yes thinking she changed . But she said " I'm going to talk with him at 9 " I just was like " alright lmao " . This is a long distance thing and all of our fights were always just about this guy . The point I'm getting at is everyone . Don't take that bitch back . I'm not as hurt as I was when she first betrayed me but it happened for a reason . Everyone stand with me . Fuck that bitch . Fuck all these fake ass people . Fuck her fake ass friends . We got this ! You got this ! I got this ! Let's move foreword and give them the what for ! Hit the gym and when you feel like giving up just remember you're bettering yourself ! Any thoughts feel free to comments . We are all brothers in pain so all comments negative or positive are accepted .
Zare Valenzuela you're absolutely right with everything thing you said my man. Now is your time to get in the best shape of your life and to get out of this hole. While you're out here working on yourself and becoming something amazing, she's chasing some guy who's nowhere near you who will probably just end up breaking her heart. It's all a cycle and great big game. You dont need her, you are meant to find someone so much better than her in time. This all happened to fuel you man, and it's great that you already understand. Keep pushing and fighting man, keep yourself busy, and go out and experience new things and meet new people. Take care man, thank you so much for reaching out!
Bless man i went through the same thing my ex broke up with me and a week later all the sudden her guy "friend" who by the way came out of no where and then you hear all the excuses "we've known each other since we were kids" blah blah even though ive never heard his name once in the 2 years we were together. Then we tryed for a second time bit she said the feelings aren't the same so we decided to be friends and sure enough she bounced right back with him. but her lose because im hitting the gym every day getting my future in order and now knowing I'm creating a bigger better version of myself just gotta keep pushing no matter how hard!! 💪
I can relate more then you can imagine, I have been on an emotional roller coaster with a girl for a while now, I cant seem to completely cut myself off from her like I should, I just hope to gain the strength I need to fully move on. Feels like trying to beat an addiction with this girl, I know she will never fully leave her ex (he is a horrible pos, abusive etc but acting nice right now) and that even if she did I would always wonder if she was talking to someone else since she more or less cheated on him with me. Crazy how fast I fell head over heals for this girl and she was the one to say she loved me first. Idk it just felt good to be loved again for me, but I think my love is different from what she means. Mine is an all encompassing and uncompromising love for her, and I think her love for me was like you might love a song, or a movie. Not the same type of love. I am still halfway hanging off of this roller coaster and I hope the ride ends soon. I hope she just cuts things off with me, I tried to stop talking to her, and then a week later it was back to usual, then 3 days after that I tried again and she stopped talking to me, for a day and a half. Now we are both confused, she just wants to be friends but knows I can't just be friends. Me and her are in a weird situation now, where she is back with her ex and wants to be loyal to him but cant stop talking to me, and I am still head over heals in love with her and have a hard time imagining life without her in it somehow. Hopefully what I am feeling is just infatuation and not wanting to be lonely because those I can change hopefully in a short amount of time. Part of the problem is my Best Friend died a few days ago, so in some ways I feel like she is all I have left. I know what I need to do, I think, but I keep second guessing myself, I keep beating myself up for this reason or that. But talking about it helps, and I pray God helps me get through this and I pray I make the right choices moving forward. I wish you all the best of luck and know we are all in this together.
Dude, i feel for you. Ive felt like shit for a year now after my ex gf broke up with me. She ment more to me than anything....i could take a bullet for her without even thinking. But this video made me see everything from a better and stronger perspecrive! Thank you man....and rip for your lost loved ones
Sickan Jönsson hey man thank you so much! Im sorry to hear about what happened to you, but you just have to understand that she wasn't good enough for you, if someone can just walk away from you then let them go. She isn't worth your time of day, you're going to find someone so much better. If you use all this pain to fuel you bro, the results are going to be insane. Thank you for your kind words, and I'm so glad that my video helped you in any way. Thanks again Sickan!
Wow, what a video. Well spoken dude, I feel your pain so much and its so similar to the way i feel. However we mutually broke up but i could tell its what she wanted but was afraid to do anything, i could see her interest levels drop and she was constantly causing me to feel like shit by the way she was withdrawing herself, in every aspect. You dealt with so many issues on hand at the same time and I sir salute you for being so strong and getting back up. Youre right though, sometimes the feelings may never go away especially if you really love that person still and i always will in my own way. It can literally feel as if your whole self has been taken away from you and you constantly question everything about yourself to the point of feeling worthless. Youre right about getting up and forcing the positivity on yourself and taking part in exercise, its a natural mood booster. Hope youre well now, good luck to you all.
I'm still going through it. It's already more than two months now. I'm trying to get up and focus more on what lies ahead. It's a process. I believe everything happens for a reason and all things work together for good.
I know that you are talking to guys but I can’t tell you how thankful I am to accidentally come across your video. I literally felt like my stomach got kicked so hard. I could barely breathe. And I felt so alone. Thank you. ❤
Thanks for this. I needed to talk to someone and I feel like we had a conversation through this video. Thanks for sharing, I had to break my relationship, the girl I was with she cheated on my with a really good friend. We spent 7 years together, and we lived 5 years in the same house and I really thought she was the one, she was everything to me and after all this time together she did this to me. Its killing me, the pain its at a level that I cant handle it anymore, but I'm trying to move forward and your video has given me the extra push I needed. God bless you!
Hey! Just happened to stumble upon this video when I was watching other motivational ones. I watched the whole thing because I can certainly relate. I went through a bad breakup that got me out of a toxic relationship nearly two and a half years ago, and I'd say it took almost the two years following that for me to fully heal myself. But, I look back on it now and I'm thankful for having the guts to end it when it went on longer than it should have, especially when I got cheated on and was so under appreciated it was sickening. Haven't been in anything serious since then, and a lot of times it's hard for me to think that there's a better, healthy relationship out there for me after that traumatic experience. I'm staying hopeful though, and in the meantime I'm exploding in my art / design career and I'm even doing CrossFit at 6 am every morning 😁💪🏼 Thanks for sharing your story too, I appreciate it!
One of the worst feelings too it's that feeling you get that without that person you're nothing, they've take your all, your heart with them.. when you shared so much of your all with them and then they leave you for someone else... then you start comparing yourself with that person... but oh well life goes on
antonia rocha trust me when I say that you will be much better off without that person, it was meant to happen FOR you, not just to you. Use as time to meet new people and experience new things, you are truly meant to meet someone who is just better in every single way!
I'm going to be 52 years old in April and I've listened to thousands of self help an motivational videos that have been very helpful and powerful in helping me stumble through losses too many to list here and now. But YOU and YOUR story here (1st one of yours I've heard so far) just completely changed and saved my life. Thank you. XOXOXO. Ally
I am in the same situation, my Ex left me after 5 years together. Now im still healing. God bless you bro! You help me a bit better with your video. Thank you
Madz Benito so sorry to hear about that, it's going to get better though. Now is the time to truly work on yourself and focus on your Passion. When you focus on yourself, the results are incredible. Thank you so much for watching and reaching out to me!
Damm bro am a girl and feel your story deep down😔😔😔😔😔 am going through same right now 😭it sooo right like getting shot in your heart multiple of times😭😭and i was only one who given alll the best values and commitment 😭😭😭😭😭i just had to listen to your story so i can just feel relieve😔😔thanks bro! It was 3 years i been with and every year was some heartbreaking issues that had me on knees crying. When we first get together he was this guy that always be on his social media and doing crazy things getting all attention especially with girls. I have never knew at first but later i got to know he was just so cruel i really though he would changed himself and his behavior. Am like this person that once i see something falling apart i would try my best to keep together. He cheated on me with many girls on social media then i just cry in-front and asking him why why why you know! Eventually when year near to end i saw him change himself as he told me that he stop and how he never do it again so i ended up forgiving him. When the other year came, he forget my birthday and he called right on my birthday asking me when is my birthday again damm that just hurts alot. He also had bad tempo when he see something he does not like in the past he would take his anger on me whether physically or verbal and all i did was just stand there and take it all in tears😔. We share alot of crazy memories and i did things with him that i never did in my life with him. i try to help him in any situation and encourage him and give my all support to just see him happy and in return he just give me tears 😔. When ever am in pain due to other reason and called him for help he would shut me down and ignore me and he would wait the next day to talk to me and act if everything okay😔😔😔i just went with it cause i did not wanted to cause any problems and all i was trying is to save the relationship. We went many places together and share each-other past and deepest secrets that i had never told one. Then other year he during the summer he randomly dump me and shut me down and i was crying for days and weeks and i even went away by my father just to catch up myself and all he was doing is gone back on social media and started back with his foolish acts, it right that a person never change 😔. When summer finish i came out back in the city where i had forgotten about him but still had love 😔 left for him. I saw him and he try coming talking to me and so but i walk away and then one day he grab me and carry me in room and hug me and cry on me and then i hug back that and cry 😔 feeling pity for him.i ended up forgiving him again and we started over fresh, that near year end. This year everything was just going good then all of sudden he gone back with his not caring shit and telling me that he does not want be caught up in feelings. Damm i was dammm 😭😭😭😭i just could not stop crying and i try calling him many times and he keep ignoring me 😔one time he answer and heard me crying and cut off it was so cold😭😭 today now i just feel tried and helpless 😭 that i try hard not give up but now it comes to an end where i have to start thinking about myself and family as before i only taught about him an break so much rules for him 😔 it so true when his cold words can shoot you in your heart😔it been 4 days now and trying easy to pick myself up easily and soon i will start back sports and gym cause i use to do all those things and when he came into my life he stopped me😔😔😔 all am doing now is trying my hard to focus on my exam and stop overthinking and wasting tears cause the person whom i thought that would alway be my side is just selfish for himself 😔 i do not want say more cause typing this is making me cry 😔 bye and hope everyone out there that going through this will make positivity come into there life
This exactly sums up my whole life. I’m a teen and a already tore my ACL and my Miniscus, I loved baseball and I had to give that up, now I have resorted to bodybuilding but even after surgery I still have problems with my knee, I am going through a break up as well and trust me it sucks but bodybuilding really saved my life. Thank you!!
My ex and I were best friends for 3 years and we eventually decided to become a couple. We were together for 10 months. We’d spend a majority of time together when we were off work or not in class/school. I’d pick her up from work. She could vent to me about anything. She is 19 I’m 21. Her mom loved me so much for her daughter that she’s even let me sleep over and sleep with my ex considering we lived one hour apart so the drive could be killer. This girl and i were legit best friends we got along just so good and towards the 10th month she started saying how she was feeling stuck and didn’t feel happy anymore. As the days progressed trying to get her to come to her senses she eventually got annoyed of me trying to talk sense into her that she blocked me from everything. I never cheated on this girl. I had even given her a promise ring because I knew I wanted to marry her one day. This was the girl that ended up in a hospital bed from a blood clot and shortness of breath and NOBODY was there for her but ME. So many things I did for her and she left me I believe because she felt a relationship was going to hold her back from traveling/studying abroad and going to medical school. I would’ve fully supported her. We always talked about her future. I felt like this girl was my soulmate and our relationship was meant to be but I felt like she ruined it with her decision. She even went as far as saying that she didn’t “love” me in that way anymore but that she cares about me. It’s been over a month already since our breakup and of try to contact her she just blocks me (Instagram). I’ve been focusing on myself in the gym and shopping off the the Air Force soon. I feel the need for a new scenery and meeting new people. Despite knowing I’ll always have love and care for her.
you fucking get it bro. ive been through the same shit as u. losing love ones and my bestfriend. all resting in peace. And the only girl i loved and trusted didnt care. now im healed and today i herd this message. you reminded me of everything ive gone through bro. even now tears runnin down my face. i look back and am so greatful for the storm i was in. i hit the gym. and looking at my reflection, i see the man ive become. i was this skinny 125 pound guy and now i weigh 140 on pure muscle mass. u showed me a flash back of my past and am so greatful for that pain. It has been the best thing ive been through. theres a blessing coming my way and for many of u still going through this. god dosnt prepare the blessing for u. he prepares you for the blessing 💯
Loved it,your words explain everything I feel right now.Cared and gave my all to this guy and did everything with my power to save the relationship but the more I tried the more I get hurt.Im going through it and it's not easy but your vid definitely made me realize some things.Thank you x
THANK YOU MAN! I’ve been watching all kinds of motivation speeches about getting over an ex, and yours is really REALLY inspiring... really open my eyes, my mind, my soul up that there is a purpose for everything. THANK YOU!! I recently got dumped because a girl told me she no longer had feelings for me, she needed space, and to work on herself....
me 2 guys . im goin through the same as all you guys too .. it hurts n i thank you for this vedio your motivation is helping me get stronger ... i hate it when you give it your all and at the end bs happens . but to all you hurt fellas stay strong we all must stay strong for all us guys . bless all you guys and have a nice day n life .. well find the right one!!
I really felt this video. This girl that I dated for an year who was my first true love, said that she lost feelings for me and that her heart wasn’t in it anymore. This completely devastated me like you said. It’s been a few weeks now and now when I look back to it. I use it as life experience. I used it to help me grow. Remember the good memories you had with that person and find peace not from others but within yourself. Love is the greatest feeling one can experience but it can also be the most painful. Ask yourself would you rather have never felt love before? I pity the person who never felt true love more than the person who went through heartbreak.
She left after 2 years, so many promises broken. I'm going to trust you man. I don't want to believe you because of my situation but something tells me your right. I'll take your advice and fond another girl to take care of. Nice video!
Thank you so much for posting this vid. You have no idea how motivated i feel right now. It truly sucks to have been betrayed, but we learn, it makes us stronger and better. I know I will become a better person. Thank you for sharing your story, It's crazy how heartless people can be. But it's ok, we're pure gold going through the fire and at the very end our true value will be shown; and when those who walked away finally realize it, it will be too late. But I have to thank them because i'm realizing now they were that step I needed to go higher. Little did they know, they helped me get closer to my destiny and that's Victory! God bless you and stay encourage for great things are ahead!!!
Trueangelslove you're 100% right on everything you just said! You just got to keep on pushing and fighting all this pain. Make the pain change you for the better, not for worse. It's easier said than done of course, but you just gotta take that first step and never give up. Thank you so much for reaching out!
Thank you for the kind reminder that we're in this together. I pray for your comeback and wish you much success. I felt blind sided and went into blaming myself then to pleading. Now I know that I should not have done that and I've changed my views in life. I've been hitting the gym hard, hanging out with close friends and family, and as I post this on social media, I've noticed that she stopped liking any of my posts. I look way better, feel better, have women complimenting me and you know what, it was her loss for letting a gentleman that still believes in chivalry go.
You're absolutely right about everything you said my man! I'm so glad to hear that you got the right mindset man, keep on pushing and fighting everyday! Keep up the great work and stay on your grind!
I really appreciate you making this video! How was married for 11 years to a woman I loved with all of my heart and soul! I was a law enforcement officer, and I had a stroke while I was on duty in my patrol car. During the following couple months I had three more Strokes that left me paralyzed and not able to speak. Right after the last stroke my appendix ruptured and I had to go into surgery. It almost killed me and the doctor said I should have died. Then I had to have my chest opened up to have a heart monitor installed and that was Purity hell! While I was still recovering at home, and keep in mind I had only been home for about a week my wife walked into the bedroom where I was laying and told me she did not love me anymore and she was leaving. She did just that she pulled every drawer out in my home, and dump them on the floor and took what she thought was hers and left everything laying in a pile around the house. I could not even walk through my home if I would have been able to. After about 2 weeks I was struggling to walk through my home with a walker unit, it was like something you would see on the show Hoarders, and I was so heartbroken at the same time and in pain, and still left wondering why she would do this to me. I remember getting a phone call from a person telling me one of my best friends of 40 years had passed away from cancer only a week after he found out he had cancer. And then 3 days after that my other best friend of 38 years died from a massive heart attack one morning at his home. I had family members come to take me to both funerals having to basically Carry Me. And then to top it off we had 4 dogs that were like my kids, I loved all of them and had to put one of them down because they had lymph node cancer and was suffering, all wow hours suffering myself. Understand before any of this happened to me I used to run 5 miles a day, how to work out regime and took care of myself. Ma ex-wife that I thought love me so much did not consoled me or try to help me in anyway. She just walked out of my life, throwing me away like a piece of trash after everything that I had done for her. I never cheated on her, I never lied to her, I treated her as my queen, because I loved her that much. It has been 8 months since our divorce was final. I never contacted her anymore. She has called me in the last few months, only to put me down and try to make me hurt even more, why I do not know. But know this I pushed myself to get better I am 52 years old, I started working out again very slowly but everyday. Now I can run 2 miles, now I can do 200 push-ups, 200 sit-ups, and I have got a six pack fat I haven't had for 20 years. I now have at least 10 women asking me how, but for some reason I say no because I am working on myself. And it feels good to be at home alone by myself. No matter what you go through, no matter how hopeless it seems, if I can go through everything that I went through with the help of God everyday, then anyone can go through it if you have the right mindset. Don't get me wrong, there were days that I wanted to give up, not wanting to even get out of bed when I could finally get up out of bed. But I know God has a plan for me because if he didn't I would not have survived everything that I went through. Do not let anyone steal your joy, you are in charge of your happiness, and if they do not want to be a part of your life let them go!!! Now my ex-wife is suffering, and regretting what she did to me. But I have seen her true colors and I know how cold-hearted she can be, she can never take that back. I forgive her in my heart but I will never forget it, you don't just forget something that traumatic. I want to thank you again for your video. I washed it many times along with other videos from other people. But you helped me to pull through and I thank you for that. God bless you and everyone else who is going through their own battles at this time. Always thank God for showing you what kind of person you were with, and what they were capable of doing to you. Good luck to you and to everyone who reads this mini novel of a message LOL. God bless and hold your head up, stand strong! Much love to everyone!
Have you ever broke someone's heart? I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I was left almost two years ago after a longterm relationship. I never thought I would him say that he no longer cared for me. To add salt to the wound, he laughed about it as if it was a joke. I was devastated never felt anything so excruciating before. How are you nowadays?
Thank you for making this vid. Going through a heart break. She ended over text as well. She didnt even have the guts to tell me in the face that it was over. My friend just died in a motorcycle accident. Everything happens for a reason like you said. I woke up to who I really am. Im down 25lbs so far. Even though I can't sleep or eat. Im still working out. Still grinding. This vid really helped. Thank you. I hope you achieved your dreams and many successes to you, bro.
my boyfriend left me for a women 20 years older when I tried him like a king I have been through so much put this is the the worst pain I have ever gone through
Kallisto Cullen It definitely is not an easy thing to go through, and im so so sorry to hear about this. But it really is a good thing, they were not the right person for you and they weren't who you thought they were. This was all for a reason, you are supposed to meet someone who is just so much better in every aspect. Use this as a time to make yourself stronger physically and mentally, truly focus on yourself right now. Go out and experience new things and meet new people, always keep yourself busy. Everything is going to work out, everything in the end will be okay, if it's not okay then it's not the end. There is still so much more to live for so keep on pushing and fighting every day Kallisto!!
Hey dude you video has touched me because it's so relatable like I damaged my A.c. joint in my shoulder and tore both legimants in my shoulder leaving me out of the sport I love and that really had me but I had this girl just helping me and today she messaged me what she doesn't wanna have anything with me it's broken me I just can't believe someone that made me so happy could make me want to die it's so hard she was amazing it fucking hurts bro but this is helping thank you so much
Hey man, just got done watching your video. It’s been 3 weeks since me and the girl I was with for 4 years(on and off) broke up. It’s a weird lonely feeling.. I don’t miss her much but I do miss what we had. A home, a dog, home cooked meals. Etc. I crave that.. but what you said about focusing on you myself and waiting for my time made a lot of sense. I hope you’re through it now and that you have recovered. I hope to reach that point soon! Also I’ve taken up going to the gym and god it helps clear my mind for at least a few hours. Thanks man
I just went through a break up with my wife of 18 years we have 4 beutiful kids she cheated on me and that shit really put me in in the floor all my self steam went down I lost all my life and I'm still hurt but I started doing to the gym and is helping me a lot dont give up let's get up!!!
Thank you so much for this man. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Your delivery, your tone and story really spoke to me. I was getting goosebumps and tears through the whole thing. I'm so happy you're doing better and hopefully I get to that point as well. Thank you
At this time I am writing this comment it has been a little over 4 months since I uploaded this video. First things first, thank you to every single one of you, you are all just so amazing. I never thought this video would get the support that it did, my very first video. At this point it has reached over 35k views, over 280 comments, almost 700 likes, and over 270 subscribers. I truly cannot thank you all enough. When I first made this video, I hoped, dreamed, and prayed to help just one person, just one, but it turned into so much more than that. I have seen so many comments, received so many emails, and have seen so much support from so many of you. I do my best to respond to everyone but it is so hard to keep up! But do not take that the wrong way, it is absolutely not a bad thing, I love hearing about all of your stories so much and I am honored to be able to hear them! The support behind this video has driven me to fuel everything that I did and to get through my dark times. I am making an extremely quick recovery with my injury, gotten through my heartbreak, met someone who is just so so much better than my ex, and am getting through all these other troubles from that dark spot I was in. The road hasn't been easy, but I constantly looked back at the feedback from this video and it kept me going. I also am sorry that it has been taking so long for my next video, but I have been working on a new project. I didn't like the end result of this one that I was working on so I decided to completely start over on something new, but it is coming! Once again thank you all for everything, and just know that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel! Talk to you all soon!
Zintel Motivation carry on up loading it help me put a lot god bless you
Zintel Motivation God bless you for making this video, it helped me so much
I will my man thats a promise!
thank you so much!
You really just took the words right out of my mouth. I needed to hear this bro. Thank you. Really, though, this kind of pain, i wouldn't want to wish it on anybody else.
The biggest revenge is life. I've lost count how many times I've had my heartbroken. Use your pain, use it as motivation. Not to win back this girl. But to win back your life. Being nice and caring and loving is not a weakness, don't stop doing it, don't let a girl change who you are. Change the girl. Let all these soul crushing girls end up in jealous fuelled toxic relationships that they deserve, and they will forever think of the mistake they made in letting you go, long after they are a distant memory. Peace out fellow Nice guys.
Si Wakeman thanks man this comment really helped
Hoorah thanks brother, I was really trying to improve this individual and here I am with this conclusion on Valentine's day... Betrayal. But I'm joining the Gym first thing tomorrow, I feel like running and lifting again.
Very good ! Thank you
Awesome video
Word up brother !..... Big hearts get broken bigger!...... devastating emotions run high!.... to be let down by the ones you deeply love is crushing !... but we can all get our lives back ..... with a little help ...Big up for your post!
People comes for two reasons...either a blessing or a lesson...
Ayun Japz the special ones can be both
Stupid saying
It's usually a lesson. Not to trust. Not to love. Not to believe in. Fck everyone
She left me after 2 years together. She said she didn't love me anymore....for about 4 months she felt that way. The time together, the dates, laughter, naps, family events, nothing in those 4 months meant anything to her. The worst part is when we made love, I put my everything, my soul, I craved her, loved her, did everything to make her feel wanted and special, and it sucks knowing it meant nothing to her. When she left me she cried, and told me to apologize to my mother for her, since my mom and I helped her through rough times. It's so hard. The lump in your throat, the heavy chest pain, the constant headaches after crying for so long. I thought I was going to marry her, I gave her everything. The first week Food hadno taste, sleeping was impossible, and breathing hurt. Now a month later I feel way better. Still get sad sometimes but I push through it. I hope yall find peace, I know I'm trying.
CaptainJdrum Hey are you feeling now, would like an update. Because i am currently going through the same thing
CaptainJdrum both of yall gotta trust the process, cos i had similar experience and at the end its all lessons
Damn, that just happened to me 3 days ago. We were gonna make 2 years and 6 months now. It’s hard but it’s not the end of the world, there is so much more out there
The thing is I’m going through this exactly.. and it hurts, it fucking kills me
@@wolfofoinn9640 i'm going through it too. she ripped me apart and danced in the blood. four years of my life are gone, it hurts so much. she was my everything and she made me feel disposable. i was a nuisance, begging for her to love me and she finally ended it. it's so painful. more hurt than i have ever felt.
This is truth. I have lived it and still am.
“You learn more about someone at the end of the relationship than in the beginning.”
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I was married to a woman who i loved since i was a teenager and when we got married and had kids, i thought it would forever.....i was wrong. She moved on from me and began a "friendly" relationship with someone else. I moved out of our home, fought homelessness, and health issues (both physically and mentally). It was hard, but i learned to use my pain as strength to accomplish things i didn't even imagine. I am still in the process of moving on but trust it gets better.
Bro I'm going through a break up right now 4 year relationship ended because she found love in someone else and just lost feelings for me. So many lies to my face SO MANY. All the signs were there but Ignored them because I was too in love. But right now im hurt but I'm going take advantage of this pain and make myself a better person. This video came at the right time thank you
Almighty Dpat I am going through the same thing after 4 years and after multiple lies. How are you now?. It's been only a month for me
Hello Bro i am going through the same bruv. Lots of lies said to my girl by another guy about me.and she no longer have feelings and trust for me.
Almighty Dpat i feel you bro
Feel you it happened to me... 8 years man shot sucks but never had so much motivation in my life till now
How’d you manage to heal?
I wouldn't wish the pain of a breakup, on my worst enemy. It feels like you would rather die. But everyday gets better. Even if it's the smallest thing. And then one day I found myself not crying anymore. I was completely broken and I'm so glad to say I'm picking up the pieces now and this video helped me so much thank you. You don't know how much you have helped me. Eternally grateful
2 different types of pain: Pain that hurts you and pain that changes you💯
Hi Alyssa, I need someone to talk to. I can give an open ear too. Call or text if you aren't too creaped out.
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@@M6BrokeMe are you better now
Heartache is one of the biggest motivators and opportunities to better yourself. It's not going to be easy, but nothing, nothing in this life worth having comes easy. You always have do better and better when it comes to dealing with pain. I've been there, man. So always remember, be better not bitter
Fallenhero123 you're absolutely right my man, couldn't have said it better myself.
this made me cry.. because i'm going through it and it hurts so much...
Tiffany Khadoo how are you now man?
Hang in there guys. Be strong. Ive gone through this many times with the same person. My heart is shattered but guess what. We will get through this because it will make us stronger than ever. Trust yourselves. Keep walking no matter how much pain it is. Keep going forward!
It’s hurts more than words can say, I’m literally lost
I feel you dude this time right now that I'm writing this I feel so much pain that I just want to die
zombie hunter I’m with you man
My girlfriend said she losses feeling for me last week and watching this helped me so much. Thank you man, thank you.
I ❤️ this video and I still remember like yesterday and it was the worst feeling in my life. I felt like someone hit me in my chest and I couldn’t breathe. I was deeply in love with a man whom I thought we was going to be together forever. We was engaged and together for 2 years, but as the time became close to our wedding day I received that phone call that he was no longer in love with me and it was over. No closure and I literally cried for months. This was the first time my heart was broken and I will never want to feel this way again. Three years has passed and as I look back on my life this breakup was the birth of a new “ME”! I actually feel in love with myself and over the years I watered my soul with LOVE. During that time I felt rejected, broken, depressed, unworthy, betrayed, angry, unforgiving and so much more. The biggest challenge for me was forgiveness for myself. When I finally forgave myself, I was able to forgive him and the healing process began for me. Although I thought in the past after the breakup I wasn’t good enough and unlovable I thank GOD now for pushing him out of my life. My breakup became my Breakthrough and for the first time in my life I began to fall in love with me. For anyone in this thread or watching this video remember this: “ You are loved and if someone leaves you don’t allow it to define you. Accept what has happen and focus on “YOU”! Healing takes time, but know you will be able to love again. Guard your heart and become stronger and wiser. Your ex left because he or she couldn’t see how amazing you truly are........Love doesn’t hurt.
Be thankful because GOD has someone better just go through the healing process so you’ll be ready for the ☝️ when he or she presents themselves to you.. What you thought was rejection was actually GOD protection.
Sheekipooh i read your comment... your words help me a lot... i’m going through that tough time right now... no matter how good of a relationship was, how adults both of us were... he chose to give up on this relationship and it hurts like hell because I thought he’ll be the one who decide to stay no matter what, you know... and he chose to leave :) just painful like it’s so easy to leave everything behind
This video has really helped me out a lot. I was crushed just a few weeks ago out of the blue after having such an amazing time with this person I was with. treated her very well and with the respect that every woman should be treated with. Im running a marathon this weekend and will use all this as fuel to break through this pain.
So sorry to hear about what happened to you man, but maybe that breakup is gonna be one of the best things that ever happened to you! That's the best way that you can use your pain, as fuel, it's gonna drive you to really push yourself this weekend, and with everything else that you do in your life. Keep on pushing and fighting man, thanks for watching and commenting!
Zintel Motivation love your videos I want you to do more and more it's helping every one man
In a way I feel at peace listening to this...I know I’ll still cry every now and then but it’s for the best❤️. So to whoever is also hurting...you got this
You have given my heart hope. I needed this video. My life has been stressful and the one whom was supposed to be with me for better or worse gave up on me. Thank you for being an amazing person. This spoke volumes to me.
I had the same happen after 25 years of marriage nothing I did made her happy I continued to hurt myself and blame myself when I knew I had done nothing wrong. I'm not going to lie it hurts but I had to pray and forgive for me and just let go. Even now saying it hurts but I know in my heart its the best thing to do. I pray for you and everyone hurting and just know it gets better by the minute hour and day. Stay Strong...
I am recently divorced from a 14 year marriage with 2 kids, and I have never been so alone. I can’t eat or sleep, I think I’m losing my fucking mind, I may very well be. How do you start over after you’ve gave everything you had to someone for so long, and now I still have to see her to see the kids. I just don’t think I can keep this up much longer, thank you for the video it was great my friend.
SuperNutZ 129 Hang in there brother. I feel the same pain you are feeling and in the same situation. Wish I could forget about my ex but she is the mother of my child and will see her forever due to sharing custody. I’m trying to take things one day at a time. They didn’t love us the way we needed to be loved. We deserve better.
This is most honest motivational video I ever heard!! Well done!! Truly admire u!
Mario Bekes thank you so much! Truly means a lot to me!
Man I watched this and it made me want to share my story cause it's similar to yours. Even if no one watches it I just feel like it would help to put it all out there for the slim chance that someone does watch it and it helps them. Thank you man.
Heart breaks suck!!!! But I'm so proud of you!!! Taking that pain and turning it into greatness takes courage. People come into our lives so serve an specific purpose. She served her purpose in your life, and helped your greatness come out stronger. No need to hold grudges... forgive... thank her and bless her. Keep up walking in your great journey. Best of wishes ❤️
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Paul 404.291.3715. I'm really hurting.
Take care.
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This video was, in a sense, a wake up call for me. I realized, from your story, that i´m far from being alone. I´ve been with this girl for 8 years, and out of nowhere she just let me know, that she wants be alone, and doesn´t love me anymore. I was shell shocked, really didn´t know what to do with my life. All my plans were with her. Living together, starting a family, travel, etc.
It was like i was t boned by a bus.
But your story gave me strenght, and gave me the confirmation that i´m not alone. Others are in the same place as i am. I know that i have to pick myself up and start to move on. And i´m really trying. It´s hard, but i hope that with time, and a little bit of self discipline i can make it through this shit storm, and emerge better and wiser. Anyway, just want to say thank you for sharing this, it really helped to hear you, and lots of love to you and everyone that has to go trough this. Hang in there guys. God bless!
TheMgdrp83 exactly man I'm right here with you
Zare Valenzuela Thank you man. We're going to get through this. It's really hard, I mean really, really hard, but we'll endure. Thank you so much!
TheMgdrp83 thank you so much for telling your story man, I am very sorry that you have to go through all this pain. Just understand that nothing just happens, and that this was all for a reason. Now is the time to focus on making yourself stronger physically and mentally. And when the right time comes you are going to meet someone who is just so much better in every category. It sounds crazy and corny, but it really is true. Your ex just isn't worth your time and attention anymore, just let them walk. It will be her biggest regret in time, while you are incredibly happy and living out a successful life. Thank you so much once again for reaching out, and I hope the best for you my man!
Dude, i don´t know you, but i know that i truly thank you for sharing your story and taking the time to replying to my message. Thank you man, and i truly hope the best for you too!
TheMgdrp83 i feel you,i have been with this guy for 8 years too and he left me without any closure. he just told me that he's so sick with my attitude. it's been three months that we broke up.
the same thing my ex told me when she left me. its been 4 years now and i still have those feelings for her. nothing helped. built a phisique. strted earning good amount of money. but theres still something i am missing in my life. it hurt diffrently now. thanks for this man. great one.
What do you think is missing? I have the same feeling. I have made many improvements since 2 years before when i broke up. But she is still in my head man. I still lifting weights so hard while i remember her. Why after 2 years she is still my motivation for everything in life? Just why?
@@vasilisv2337 because you loved her too much than she deserve
This touched me in more ways than you will ever imagine. Yes I stayed to the very end. I too love with every ounce of myself. Heartbreak. Betrayal. Lies. These are the things I must process. Thank you for your words.
Why u never reply dear
Much respect to you bro, my girl left me 2 years ago and ever since then I refused to feel anything about the breakup, basically just ignoring that it happened. In the moment it worked out well because people thought I was handling it well and I thought so too at some point, but in reality I was just postponing the soul crushing heartbreak. But then COVID shutdown the world and I was stuck at home with nothing to do except just think on stuff like her, and this past week I found out she is now with another guy, and that wall that I built around myself for the last 2 years fell apart. 2 years worth of heartbreak hit me all at once and it has been fucking tough, but your story really hit me in a way that none of these other motivation videos have. There’s days where the heartbreak is unbearable, but I’m pushing myself to get back into fitness and reclaiming my confidence and be the person she wishes she never left. Hope you’re doing well dude and thank you.
Same here i am fucking heartbroken but we all make it through
I felt this way yesterday. I felt empty. unloved. rejected. Then they continue life like you never existed.
You are obviously special for the person who is truly for you. You will be fine just focus on yourself.
This video literally changed my life!!! Thanks 🙏! I still have a lot more to go but I have reached one of my milestones and I’m just getting started. 💯 sending good vibes to everyone. I was broke, heartbroken, and I was let go because of the pandemic, and wasn’t present for my sons birth. Like a Phoenix I have risen with success and still have more to go!!! They are crawling back right now! And not taking them back!
The way you worded everything was so fucking relatable, thank you so much, I couldn't have watched anything better. I'm still going through this ordeal but this was such a big help, thank you.
My guy broke up with me, and I tried as much as possible to settle things with him. He honestly didn't tell me what I did wrong. He just...left. I thought I'd wait for him, maybe he'd reconsider things but sadly it turned more sour. I'm just trying to get myself back together and rebuild myself
Same situation here my dear
Same
Same. Respect yourself enough to know you deserve much better.
Same
If you have to wonder what you did wrong? Most likely it wasn’t you, it was him.
Thank you for sharing your story, my heart is lost....I’m deep in the dirt. I feel like we are the same when it comes to loving whole heartedly.
Hi Lauren, After 2 years I hope you are feeling better. I really need someone to talk to. Text or call if you aren't too creeped out by this. 404.291.3715
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Thank you for this video. Day 1 here from a break up of a 13 year relationship that was broken for so many years. I truly showed my darkest and hit rock bottom. I pray to God for strength since he comes back to me everytime we do this and I go back. It's become a culture for me now, everything he has done to me, cheated, lied and devalues me became a routine and the normal for me. I didnt value myself because he made me feel so worthless and unimportant. I know those things, but the pity I feel for him pulls me back since his life is so worththless I allow him back in and he makes me feel like trash abusing my emotions and making every day miserable for me. I know I'm capable of so so much more. I pray to God for strength and I'll do the rest. Thank you for this its helped me get out of bed today and make a better day.
It hurts seeing that person let go of you... seeing them happy without you is really painful, I went through this process and I’m trying to move. It’s not easy. You just have to get through the obstacles and fight. It’s worth it
Kneil Caoagas hope you feel better, any updates?
The love of my life which I thought was everything I needed left me on our 6 year anniversary. She had her own reasons and was pretty much sick of me and couldn’t put up with me not showing her the love and affection she wanted. Put all that extra love you gave the person you truly loved , into yourself. And I promise you will become a different person with the self love that you have for yourself.
Andy Figueroa man I feel like I can relate to you the most with this I’m hurting bad mines just happened a week ago and I’m still fighting to move forward
WhatzThe Scoop stay strong man it’ll get better. Invest in yourself, mentally and physically.
Thanks man I’m trying my hardest to add insult to me she came to my house last night and started more problems for me
Thank you bro. It has been over a year but still feeling the memories of regrets and dagger in my heart. I know I can no longer giv into this pain, i always thought I needed something to replace this pain so I can be normal again, and new relationships was just bad idea......
I accepted this pain always going to be there, and asking her for closure will not bring any peace, I have to learn to live with it and move on. It is part of life and given, to shape us and not take things for granted, although it is not a pretty place to be at first
One of the best motivational stories I’ve heard. My girlfriend of 3and half years left me for my best friend so not only did I lost my love but I lost the closest group of freinds I’ve ever had. This kind of content helps to me realize that this is a gift that is happening to me even Though this paradigm shift I’m going through were my life has collapsed and everything around me crumbled I can make it through this and show that person and my self that I am better than this and I can use this lesson to make me such a good person. Shout out to everyone going through a heartbreak your not alone and it certainly helps me to know that people around the world are going through this some worse than others. Use this as a fucking tool to become stronger and prove everyone wrong!
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND I CAME ACROSS THIS.YOUR STORY MIRRORS MINE UN SO MANY WAYS. YOUR WORDS WERE MY THOUGHT AS I LISTENED TO YOU TALK WAS LIKE HEARING MY THOUGHTS. HOPE YOUR JOURNEY IS GETTING BETTER...GOD KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING WE DO NOT. LEFT TO OUR OWN WAYS WE WOULD DESTROY OUR SELF'S FOR SURE... TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF. DON'T LET ANYTHING OR ANYBODY STOP YOU FROM GREATNESS.SOME ARE ONLY WITH US FOR A SEASON OR A REASON. OTHER'S TEACH US LESSONS AND THERE ARE THOSE WHO MAKE US STRONGER NB EVEN THO WE STILL HURT. VERY FEW COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOREVER AND NEVER LEAVE.
ALL I KNOW IS GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE US, PEOPLE WILL...GOD FIRST OVER EVERYTHING.. EVERYTHING ELSE IS EASY AS AFTER THAT...
I feel you man. God bless you. This video made me feel much better
Really glad to hear that my man, make sure to focus on making yourself better every day and I promise that you will become a completely different person! Thanks for watching and commenting!
Zintel Motivation I will be great I will have to work hard
same here and I hope for a brighter future
AntonGasper yes we all can we will help each other but it is still going to be hard it's not going to be easy the harder it is you will become stronger my dad died 2 years ago I'm only 16 and I still feel pain I hope I am making him proud
You're an amazing guy, this was the first step I was looking for. Thank you dude. I'm going to start climbing the mountain as well. Much love to you and everybody else this video has helped and affected
I have been heart broken for 3 months now. Came out from almost 3 year relationship. I don’t usually comment on any youtube videos. But this one is the best heart break motivational video. Keep it up bro. More powers to you :)
Man you are really getting too me I got the message yesterday about it and I am heart break but you are really getting to me you are making me think more about life. I will start to listen to this over and over again to get motivated and inspiration.
I can relate to you’re entire story brother.. all of it. I didn’t think someone could go through something so similar. I love you and this video man.
Going on two years now.
Although I have been working on myself during this period its still difficult from time to time. I seem to reminisce of the good times with her and have forgotten about the arguments and bad moments.
The anger and resentment I had has subsided. I realize it wasn’t anyones faults.
At 44 and having had some really wonderful relationships throughout my life, this one I felt was the one.
She was everything I ever wanted in a woman. And it all slipped away.
What can I do at this point? Learn, except, and move on.
Time heals all wounds. But I’m not going to lie, it’s been a true test.
For all of you out there struggling with heartbreak, stay strong, take care of yourself, continue to grow and be a good friend to yourself.
This was an encouraging video, nice job.
Same here. 50 years old and after a handful of relationships I thought I finally found the one I had been searching for. Sucks when it’s now ending. It’s like, WTF now?!
E Higgins Sorry to hear for the breakup. Not much anything anyone will say will make it better quickly. Takes time. I’m in a better place with all of that now. Lots of different resources ive listened to. Not all pertaining relationship stuff because it’s good to learn about other things rather than dwell on it. At least for me it’s helped. I’ll recommend a few channels you could look into. They aren’t hate woman channels or things of that nature.
1) Einzelganger- his content is amazing.
2) Better bachelor
3)Strong successful male
None of these gents are bashing relationships. Or saying never deal with them. They shed light on things you may not be realizing at the moment. The goal I’d say they have is to come together and relate, and to help become better men.
Woman even subscribe to them to.
We are never to old to learn or relearn.
Stay strong sir. It will get better
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Thanks to this video im much more stronger now. She broke me called me skinny fat. 6 months ago i started deadlifts with only 25 plates I struggled. Now im doing 280 and proud of myself she made me found my motivation and im way better now. Stay strong people!
Betrayal is what I’m dealing with so true people you care hurt you.
Only people that you love can hurt you .. I whent thru same thing its been one month ... just keep moving
Dude thank you so much for this I broke up 1 week ago with my ex and I still feel sick but after watching this I realized that i have to let it go for any reason and start a new life for me thank you so much now I know that I'm not alone thank you
Thank you so much. I was just about to quit on everything but something led me to you and it saved me. Everything you said was exactly what I'm going this this moment. I owe my life to you for this. Thank you.
And how are you doing now? I am glad you did not give up. I hope you are still trying. Keep striving and doing your best. Take it step by step :)
Hows your life after 2 years? I hope you have a best life ☺️
Dude you have no idea how much you have helped me. This has touched beyond belief. I'm currently dealing with a heartbreak and couldn't stop crying but I'm so thankful I came across your video. Im constantly replaying it. Thank you so much bro. U literally spoke to me.
Who is the speaker ? I want to get to know him more because I woke up feeling a little bit better thanks to him.
İpek Aksu you seem pretty attractive, how are you :)
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Man I really want to hug you
Now I realised this happens with everyone I'm dealing with same shit... you showed me a new way👍
I've been going through this its been 3 months ... i watch this video everytime i feel weak .. i've grown some muscles i feel great sometimes but its still haunts me ... i ask myself questions everytime about why always me .... but then i know there's that one video on youtube that makes me feel so much better
Thanks mate .. god bless you 💞
This has given me so much inspiration to concentrate on myself, I’m still hurting from a break up that happened 3 months ago and still hurts
Brother, Im going through the same exact thing and its been 4 weeks. I was in a relationship for 4 years with her. She had a really bad past. She's stole money from her job, got fired, kicked out of home and I'v helped her so damn much to put her back on her feet. She had a crush whilst saying shes in love with me. It sucks. I cant touch another girl and as I'm typing this message shes sleeping with someone. I',m going through depression and I went hospital by fainting a lot. I haven't been eating. I thought this girl was my happiness in everything. I feel for you sooooo much. I'm going to go hard in the gym. Thank you so much. I'm so glad I came across this video.
Hey Shane, thank you so much for reaching out and the kind words. I really am so sorry to hear about this, it really does suck, but it truthfully was all meant to happen. Trust me when I say she is not worth all your care and attention, and that when the time is right you are going to meet someone who is just so much better in every category. Going to the gym is a huge positive man, definitely do that as much as you can, it is going to help you out so much physically and mentally it's not even funny. Go and get in the best shape of your life, there is nothing like looking in the mirror and seeing results after working your ass off. Use all this pain and bs as fuel man, you can do it, we're all in your corner!
Thank you so much for this . I just got dumped after ten years . The break up happened 2 months ago . I've lost 42 lbs and feel great despite the heartbreak
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How are you man? I recently got broken up with aftwr 7 years and now the chick is out at clubs dancing and making out with dudes. Lmao she is a bum 24 years old has no license, no job, no car. Lives at her parents. She thinks going out and shit is gonna help her move on I mean maybe. But she’s still in the same position in life. A bum.
going though some of the same these types are so heartless when they leave they literally don't care if you fucking died, after giving you so much of everything you never thought exited in a partner lover,they for no apparent reason leave you and rip your soul to pieces, literally make you feel at ever level worthless by their building you up so high and out of nowhere discard you like a bag of shit, after giving them your whole world, but you must never ever give up, YOUR A true INSPIRATION
THANKS AND MORE POWER TO YOU,GOD BLESS
Joe Morgan you're absolutely right man, I really dont have any respect for someone who plays games like that. But that just means that they simply weren't good enough for you, and that you'll meet somebody so much better in every single way. Right now man you just gotta use all this bs and pain to fuel whatever it is that you need to do, take some time to focus on yourself. Truly invest in YOU. And thank you so much for your kind words, you have no idea how much that really does mean to me. God bless bro!
I'm going through this right now. I was left in a mess, lied to, and continuously am still lied to. My heart is struggling because it breaks more everyday.
Thank you so much for this video. I got dumped three days ag because I went to college to persue my degree and he was mad that I went without him . But you just taught me that I am better off and that I can still do this and meet someone who actually cares about my success and well being. So thank you so much.
It's really crazy I listened to this video almost 3 years ago and man I was jst destroyed thinking man will this pain ever subside will I ever function the same...tbh man I didn't it. But little by little relationship after relationship I still had that one person in my mind & I see what he means by the pain never really goes but does hurt in a different way in a positive way if that makes any sense, & I'm not a depressed person or anything like that I actually accomplish a lot in those 3 years I was very out going but it funny how I still had that one person still in the back of my mind & I couldn't understand why?..untill I realized that girl wasn't a girl/ wife but a lesson i never learned in life & it's to feel heartache is to live life on this place we call earth it is a part of the human experience, & yeah ppl will kick when ur down & things can seem like there's no hope for you and why you..but trust me when I say THINGS WILL GET BETTER AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH ITjst trust the process one day you'll look back three years from now & smile with grace ...and I'm not talking about god but faith in yourself you are worthy even if you dnt see it at the moment you ARE AMAZING keep pushing
Glad I’m not the only one. Thanks
One of the biggest problems I’m facing is in my mind I just keep thinking it might have been something I did or didn’t do, it wasn’t.. very far from it I did everything I could to the point I was the only one who cared anymore and wanted to fix the lost interest from them but still thoughs negative thoughts come in my mind and think back but honestly I did my best and was the best I could be. My story is very similar to yours man.
I'm going through the same pain you experienced. My situation was a lot similar to yours and It's so rough everyday to go through, but It feels good to know that we can and are getting better and stronger together. This video helped more than you could know.Thank you. Much love brother.and good luck with your journey 👊
JEF LEB0WSKI it is very rough man, but it's gonna make our success so much sweeter. We just gotta use all the bs as motivation to do what we need to do. Keep on working hard my man and never give up👍
She did you a favor by showing you who she really was. Be thankful. The core source of our strength and happiness should come from within. So no matter who it what changes it doesn't fundamentally effect our happiness. We see the benefits of these exterior occurrences and use them to grow. We are determined to not just go through it, we will grow through it.
Hey man. Wanted to say this helped me a lot. I hope your journey has turned around.
Thanks again and keep up the good work.
Love this! Going thru a separation and my wife left me for someone else... currently focusing on myself, my beautiful kids and continuing to move forward. Everything you said was spot on.
I'm glad to hear that you have the right mindset despite everything that is going on! Keep pushing and fighting every day my man, glad that you enjoyed!
Thank you so much for this video i didnt wanna eat i didnt wanna get up i was paralysed with heartache and pain for 2 weeks straight 2 weeks i didnt say a word then i watched this video... and it was like a slap in the face... i thought "instead of playing the victim i can use this pain to better myself" so thank you so much
Been listening to this over and over for the last 2 hours or so. Just wanna say thanks again man. I hope you are still on the up and up. Keep strong always. One thing that has always helped me a lot is coming to an understanding of the value we all have in the eyes of our creator, so much so that even with all our faults he came as a human and died for us on the cross a horrible death that no one deserves. Just wanted to share that with you and anyone else who needs to hear it. If you read this, anybody, I just want you to know that you are loved so much. Bless you, I love you.
I appreciate you for this. that pain is gotta be the closest thing next to being crushed alive. salute 🙌
thank you so much!
I just broke up with my first, I thought that we would last. But I was willing to go through so much more than he was. We have been growing apart for so long, but I was grasping at something..anything to keep us together. But it didnt work. It finally happened when he told me he would leave me if i persued my dream. I never told him how i felt, how much he hurt me. Becasue if when i did he would suggest we break up and i wasnt ready for that. I gave him something so important to me. And as soon as i did it was like he was done. It took me a while, a month exactly. His words would run through my mind over and over again. We would go on dates and have nothing to talk about except what we would be like if we broke up. I finally did it today. I signed up to follow my dream, i told him and wished him best. A part of me wants to go back to him, it hurts to even think about him. But what we had wasnt healthy, I miss him so much. He was my first love and i gave him everything. Thank you for reading this far
AnimeWontHurtMe AsMuchAsYouDid I just want you to know that there is someone so much better for you out there somewhere in the world. It rly does take time to heal through the process, but someday down the road you will meet someone who admires you for what you truly love! Ik you miss him and you probably regret your decisions, but as time moves on, your heart will thank you for it. You have so much to live for in such a small period of time. I was involved in a break up where I couldn’t do anything but dwell forever. The key to actually moving on is finding hope within urself to realize that there WILL be someone else out there 10 x better than the love u had before. If it was true love, then u wouldn’t be in sm pain. True love is accepting you for who you really are, and someday, you will find the right person who appreciates everything you live for. I wish you the best and I hope you heal overtime. Keep me updated!🤗
@@jokerjay7102 Thank you, your advice really made me think. Back when I still wasnt over him; I kept a weekly note on how i was feeling and it really helped me cope. Its been a month since then, and im finally inna good place. I started out by going to the gym and working on the way i view myself and now its a regular thing. Ive gotten back into the things that i gave up when i was with him. And i cant imagine why i gave them up in the first place...they make me happy 😊. Ive started to focus on my life again and cant be more grateful for this message that helped me start it all. He's still in my heart because he was my first. But it seems more like a distant memory now. You really helped me out stranger. And im so happy that theres people like you out there.
I've recently got out of a serious relationship, my girlfriend went back with her ex after three days of the breakup. She broke me down and I'm going to build myself up!
Know that your not alone :)
With you brother
Really felt this, felt like he was just talking right next to me. Thank you I needed this.
I relate so much man. This shit hits home with me . My ex broke my damn heart for a guy "friend" and still admits he's just a friend . But will curve me to talk with him . And I correlate with a lot of people in the comments . She made me feel terrific and I treated her so nice . And we talked about getting married and having kids . This shit hurts but I got on a routine even when I was with her and just used that as fuel to motivate me more . On this day yesterday she asked to get back together with me and I said yes thinking she changed . But she said " I'm going to talk with him at 9 " I just was like " alright lmao " . This is a long distance thing and all of our fights were always just about this guy . The point I'm getting at is everyone . Don't take that bitch back . I'm not as hurt as I was when she first betrayed me but it happened for a reason . Everyone stand with me . Fuck that bitch . Fuck all these fake ass people . Fuck her fake ass friends . We got this ! You got this ! I got this ! Let's move foreword and give them the what for ! Hit the gym and when you feel like giving up just remember you're bettering yourself ! Any thoughts feel free to comments . We are all brothers in pain so all comments negative or positive are accepted .
Zare Valenzuela you're absolutely right with everything thing you said my man. Now is your time to get in the best shape of your life and to get out of this hole. While you're out here working on yourself and becoming something amazing, she's chasing some guy who's nowhere near you who will probably just end up breaking her heart. It's all a cycle and great big game. You dont need her, you are meant to find someone so much better than her in time. This all happened to fuel you man, and it's great that you already understand. Keep pushing and fighting man, keep yourself busy, and go out and experience new things and meet new people. Take care man, thank you so much for reaching out!
Bless man i went through the same thing my ex broke up with me and a week later all the sudden her guy "friend" who by the way came out of no where and then you hear all the excuses "we've known each other since we were kids" blah blah even though ive never heard his name once in the 2 years we were together. Then we tryed for a second time bit she said the feelings aren't the same so we decided to be friends and sure enough she bounced right back with him. but her lose because im hitting the gym every day getting my future in order and now knowing I'm creating a bigger better version of myself just gotta keep pushing no matter how hard!! 💪
Dayton Littlewing smash it brother, they always come chasing back
I can relate more then you can imagine, I have been on an emotional roller coaster with a girl for a while now, I cant seem to completely cut myself off from her like I should, I just hope to gain the strength I need to fully move on. Feels like trying to beat an addiction with this girl, I know she will never fully leave her ex (he is a horrible pos, abusive etc but acting nice right now) and that even if she did I would always wonder if she was talking to someone else since she more or less cheated on him with me. Crazy how fast I fell head over heals for this girl and she was the one to say she loved me first. Idk it just felt good to be loved again for me, but I think my love is different from what she means. Mine is an all encompassing and uncompromising love for her, and I think her love for me was like you might love a song, or a movie. Not the same type of love. I am still halfway hanging off of this roller coaster and I hope the ride ends soon. I hope she just cuts things off with me, I tried to stop talking to her, and then a week later it was back to usual, then 3 days after that I tried again and she stopped talking to me, for a day and a half. Now we are both confused, she just wants to be friends but knows I can't just be friends. Me and her are in a weird situation now, where she is back with her ex and wants to be loyal to him but cant stop talking to me, and I am still head over heals in love with her and have a hard time imagining life without her in it somehow. Hopefully what I am feeling is just infatuation and not wanting to be lonely because those I can change hopefully in a short amount of time. Part of the problem is my Best Friend died a few days ago, so in some ways I feel like she is all I have left. I know what I need to do, I think, but I keep second guessing myself, I keep beating myself up for this reason or that. But talking about it helps, and I pray God helps me get through this and I pray I make the right choices moving forward. I wish you all the best of luck and know we are all in this together.
Every word in this sentence I can relate too man I'm so hurt and I'm trying to get over it still
Dude, i feel for you. Ive felt like shit for a year now after my ex gf broke up with me. She ment more to me than anything....i could take a bullet for her without even thinking. But this video made me see everything from a better and stronger perspecrive! Thank you man....and rip for your lost loved ones
Sickan Jönsson hey man thank you so much! Im sorry to hear about what happened to you, but you just have to understand that she wasn't good enough for you, if someone can just walk away from you then let them go. She isn't worth your time of day, you're going to find someone so much better. If you use all this pain to fuel you bro, the results are going to be insane. Thank you for your kind words, and I'm so glad that my video helped you in any way. Thanks again Sickan!
*your message is a Godsend. Truly needed to hear this powerful message. It came at the right time. Thank you🙏🏻*
Keep fighting..☺️
Wow, what a video. Well spoken dude, I feel your pain so much and its so similar to the way i feel. However we mutually broke up but i could tell its what she wanted but was afraid to do anything, i could see her interest levels drop and she was constantly causing me to feel like shit by the way she was withdrawing herself, in every aspect. You dealt with so many issues on hand at the same time and I sir salute you for being so strong and getting back up. Youre right though, sometimes the feelings may never go away especially if you really love that person still and i always will in my own way. It can literally feel as if your whole self has been taken away from you and you constantly question everything about yourself to the point of feeling worthless. Youre right about getting up and forcing the positivity on yourself and taking part in exercise, its a natural mood booster. Hope youre well now, good luck to you all.
Dion Smith thanks bro, hope you feel better soon.
I'm still going through it. It's already more than two months now. I'm trying to get up and focus more on what lies ahead. It's a process. I believe everything happens for a reason and all things work together for good.
I know that you are talking to guys but I can’t tell you how thankful I am to accidentally come across your video. I literally felt like my stomach got kicked so hard. I could barely breathe. And I felt so alone. Thank you. ❤
Thanks for this. I needed to talk to someone and I feel like we had a conversation through this video. Thanks for sharing, I had to break my relationship, the girl I was with she cheated on my with a really good friend. We spent 7 years together, and we lived 5 years in the same house and I really thought she was the one, she was everything to me and after all this time together she did this to me. Its killing me, the pain its at a level that I cant handle it anymore, but I'm trying to move forward and your video has given me the extra push I needed. God bless you!
Hey! Just happened to stumble upon this video when I was watching other motivational ones. I watched the whole thing because I can certainly relate. I went through a bad breakup that got me out of a toxic relationship nearly two and a half years ago, and I'd say it took almost the two years following that for me to fully heal myself. But, I look back on it now and I'm thankful for having the guts to end it when it went on longer than it should have, especially when I got cheated on and was so under appreciated it was sickening. Haven't been in anything serious since then, and a lot of times it's hard for me to think that there's a better, healthy relationship out there for me after that traumatic experience. I'm staying hopeful though, and in the meantime I'm exploding in my art / design career and I'm even doing CrossFit at 6 am every morning 😁💪🏼 Thanks for sharing your story too, I appreciate it!
One of the worst feelings too it's that feeling you get that without that person you're nothing, they've take your all, your heart with them.. when you shared so much of your all with them and then they leave you for someone else... then you start comparing yourself with that person... but oh well life goes on
antonia rocha trust me when I say that you will be much better off without that person, it was meant to happen FOR you, not just to you. Use as time to meet new people and experience new things, you are truly meant to meet someone who is just better in every single way!
I'm going to be 52 years old in April and I've listened to thousands of self help an motivational videos that have been very helpful and powerful in helping me stumble through losses too many to list here and now. But YOU and YOUR story here (1st one of yours I've heard so far) just completely changed and saved my life. Thank you. XOXOXO.
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I am in the same situation, my Ex left me after 5 years together. Now im still healing. God bless you bro! You help me a bit better with your video. Thank you
Madz Benito so sorry to hear about that, it's going to get better though. Now is the time to truly work on yourself and focus on your Passion. When you focus on yourself, the results are incredible. Thank you so much for watching and reaching out to me!
I leave this comment here bcz i know in a few years, il be looking back at this and say, what doesnt kill you , makes you stronger
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Damm bro am a girl and feel your story deep down😔😔😔😔😔 am going through same right now 😭it sooo right like getting shot in your heart multiple of times😭😭and i was only one who given alll the best values and commitment 😭😭😭😭😭i just had to listen to your story so i can just feel relieve😔😔thanks bro!
It was 3 years i been with and every year was some heartbreaking issues that had me on knees crying. When we first get together he was this guy that always be on his social media and doing crazy things getting all attention especially with girls. I have never knew at first but later i got to know he was just so cruel i really though he would changed himself and his behavior. Am like this person that once i see something falling apart i would try my best to keep together. He cheated on me with many girls on social media then i just cry in-front and asking him why why why you know! Eventually when year near to end i saw him change himself as he told me that he stop and how he never do it again so i ended up forgiving him. When the other year came, he forget my birthday and he called right on my birthday asking me when is my birthday again damm that just hurts alot. He also had bad tempo when he see something he does not like in the past he would take his anger on me whether physically or verbal and all i did was just stand there and take it all in tears😔. We share alot of crazy memories and i did things with him that i never did in my life with him. i try to help him in any situation and encourage him and give my all support to just see him happy and in return he just give me tears 😔. When ever am in pain due to other reason and called him for help he would shut me down and ignore me and he would wait the next day to talk to me and act if everything okay😔😔😔i just went with it cause i did not wanted to cause any problems and all i was trying is to save the relationship. We went many places together and share each-other past and deepest secrets that i had never told one. Then other year he during the summer he randomly dump me and shut me down and i was crying for days and weeks and i even went away by my father just to catch up myself and all he was doing is gone back on social media and started back with his foolish acts, it right that a person never change 😔. When summer finish i came out back in the city where i had forgotten about him but still had love 😔 left for him. I saw him and he try coming talking to me and so but i walk away and then one day he grab me and carry me in room and hug me and cry on me and then i hug back that and cry 😔 feeling pity for him.i ended up forgiving him again and we started over fresh, that near year end. This year everything was just going good then all of sudden he gone back with his not caring shit and telling me that he does not want be caught up in feelings. Damm i was dammm 😭😭😭😭i just could not stop crying and i try calling him many times and he keep ignoring me 😔one time he answer and heard me crying and cut off it was so cold😭😭 today now i just feel tried and helpless 😭 that i try hard not give up but now it comes to an end where i have to start thinking about myself and family as before i only taught about him an break so much rules for him 😔 it so true when his cold words can shoot you in your heart😔it been 4 days now and trying easy to pick myself up easily and soon i will start back sports and gym cause i use to do all those things and when he came into my life he stopped me😔😔😔 all am doing now is trying my hard to focus on my exam and stop overthinking and wasting tears cause the person whom i thought that would alway be my side is just selfish for himself 😔 i do not want say more cause typing this is making me cry 😔 bye and hope everyone out there that going through this will make positivity come into there life
This exactly sums up my whole life. I’m a teen and a already tore my ACL and my Miniscus, I loved baseball and I had to give that up, now I have resorted to bodybuilding but even after surgery I still have problems with my knee, I am going through a break up as well and trust me it sucks but bodybuilding really saved my life. Thank you!!
My ex and I were best friends for 3 years and we eventually decided to become a couple. We were together for 10 months. We’d spend a majority of time together when we were off work or not in class/school. I’d pick her up from work. She could vent to me about anything. She is 19 I’m 21. Her mom loved me so much for her daughter that she’s even let me sleep over and sleep with my ex considering we lived one hour apart so the drive could be killer. This girl and i were legit best friends we got along just so good and towards the 10th month she started saying how she was feeling stuck and didn’t feel happy anymore. As the days progressed trying to get her to come to her senses she eventually got annoyed of me trying to talk sense into her that she blocked me from everything. I never cheated on this girl. I had even given her a promise ring because I knew I wanted to marry her one day. This was the girl that ended up in a hospital bed from a blood clot and shortness of breath and NOBODY was there for her but ME. So many things I did for her and she left me I believe because she felt a relationship was going to hold her back from traveling/studying abroad and going to medical school. I would’ve fully supported her. We always talked about her future. I felt like this girl was my soulmate and our relationship was meant to be but I felt like she ruined it with her decision. She even went as far as saying that she didn’t “love” me in that way anymore but that she cares about me. It’s been over a month already since our breakup and of try to contact her she just blocks me (Instagram). I’ve been focusing on myself in the gym and shopping off the the Air Force soon. I feel the need for a new scenery and meeting new people. Despite knowing I’ll always have love and care for her.
Enrique Lopez how you feeling bro, and best of lucks you got this
you fucking get it bro. ive been through the same shit as u. losing love ones and my bestfriend. all resting in peace. And the only girl i loved and trusted didnt care. now im healed and today i herd this message. you reminded me of everything ive gone through bro. even now tears runnin down my face. i look back and am so greatful for the storm i was in. i hit the gym. and looking at my reflection, i see the man ive become. i was this skinny 125 pound guy and now i weigh 140 on pure muscle mass. u showed me a flash back of my past and am so greatful for that pain. It has been the best thing ive been through. theres a blessing coming my way and for many of u still going through this. god dosnt prepare the blessing for u. he prepares you for the blessing 💯
Loved it,your words explain everything I feel right now.Cared and gave my all to this guy and did everything with my power to save the relationship but the more I tried the more I get hurt.Im going through it and it's not easy but your vid definitely made me realize some things.Thank you x
PS: Hope you're doing ok x
THANK YOU MAN! I’ve been watching all kinds of motivation speeches about getting over an ex, and yours is really REALLY inspiring... really open my eyes, my mind, my soul up that there is a purpose for everything. THANK YOU!! I recently got dumped because a girl told me she no longer had feelings for me, she needed space, and to work on herself....
me 2 guys . im goin through the same as all you guys too .. it hurts n i thank you for this vedio your motivation is helping me get stronger ... i hate it when you give it your all and at the end bs happens . but to all you hurt fellas stay strong we all must stay strong for all us guys . bless all you guys and have a nice day n life .. well find the right one!!
I really felt this video. This girl that I dated for an year who was my first true love, said that she lost feelings for me and that her heart wasn’t in it anymore. This completely devastated me like you said. It’s been a few weeks now and now when I look back to it. I use it as life experience. I used it to help me grow. Remember the good memories you had with that person and find peace not from others but within yourself. Love is the greatest feeling one can experience but it can also be the most painful. Ask yourself would you rather have never felt love before? I pity the person who never felt true love more than the person who went through heartbreak.
She left after 2 years, so many promises broken. I'm going to trust you man. I don't want to believe you because of my situation but something tells me your right. I'll take your advice and fond another girl to take care of. Nice video!
Thank you so much for posting this vid. You have no idea how motivated i feel right now. It truly sucks to have been betrayed, but we learn, it makes us stronger and better. I know I will become a better person. Thank you for sharing your story, It's crazy how heartless people can be. But it's ok, we're pure gold going through the fire and at the very end our true value will be shown; and when those who walked away finally realize it, it will be too late. But I have to thank them because i'm realizing now they were that step I needed to go higher. Little did they know, they helped me get closer to my destiny and that's Victory! God bless you and stay encourage for great things are ahead!!!
Trueangelslove you're 100% right on everything you just said! You just got to keep on pushing and fighting all this pain. Make the pain change you for the better, not for worse. It's easier said than done of course, but you just gotta take that first step and never give up. Thank you so much for reaching out!
Thank you so much I really needed to listen to this. I honestly really feel much better stay strong my friend
Raul Medrano So glad to hear that I helped you Raul! Keep pushing for the light at the end of the tunnel my man.
Thank you for the kind reminder that we're in this together. I pray for your comeback and wish you much success. I felt blind sided and went into blaming myself then to pleading. Now I know that I should not have done that and I've changed my views in life. I've been hitting the gym hard, hanging out with close friends and family, and as I post this on social media, I've noticed that she stopped liking any of my posts. I look way better, feel better, have women complimenting me and you know what, it was her loss for letting a gentleman that still believes in chivalry go.
You're absolutely right about everything you said my man! I'm so glad to hear that you got the right mindset man, keep on pushing and fighting everyday! Keep up the great work and stay on your grind!
I hope you update us whatever happens with you. Because I believe you are special bro and you are literally a motivation for me.
I really appreciate you making this video! How was married for 11 years to a woman I loved with all of my heart and soul! I was a law enforcement officer, and I had a stroke while I was on duty in my patrol car. During the following couple months I had three more Strokes that left me paralyzed and not able to speak. Right after the last stroke my appendix ruptured and I had to go into surgery. It almost killed me and the doctor said I should have died. Then I had to have my chest opened up to have a heart monitor installed and that was Purity hell! While I was still recovering at home, and keep in mind I had only been home for about a week my wife walked into the bedroom where I was laying and told me she did not love me anymore and she was leaving. She did just that she pulled every drawer out in my home, and dump them on the floor and took what she thought was hers and left everything laying in a pile around the house. I could not even walk through my home if I would have been able to. After about 2 weeks I was struggling to walk through my home with a walker unit, it was like something you would see on the show Hoarders, and I was so heartbroken at the same time and in pain, and still left wondering why she would do this to me. I remember getting a phone call from a person telling me one of my best friends of 40 years had passed away from cancer only a week after he found out he had cancer. And then 3 days after that my other best friend of 38 years died from a massive heart attack one morning at his home. I had family members come to take me to both funerals having to basically Carry Me. And then to top it off we had 4 dogs that were like my kids, I loved all of them and had to put one of them down because they had lymph node cancer and was suffering, all wow hours suffering myself. Understand before any of this happened to me I used to run 5 miles a day, how to work out regime and took care of myself. Ma ex-wife that I thought love me so much did not consoled me or try to help me in anyway. She just walked out of my life, throwing me away like a piece of trash after everything that I had done for her. I never cheated on her, I never lied to her, I treated her as my queen, because I loved her that much. It has been 8 months since our divorce was final. I never contacted her anymore. She has called me in the last few months, only to put me down and try to make me hurt even more, why I do not know. But know this I pushed myself to get better I am 52 years old, I started working out again very slowly but everyday. Now I can run 2 miles, now I can do 200 push-ups, 200 sit-ups, and I have got a six pack fat I haven't had for 20 years. I now have at least 10 women asking me how, but for some reason I say no because I am working on myself. And it feels good to be at home alone by myself. No matter what you go through, no matter how hopeless it seems, if I can go through everything that I went through with the help of God everyday, then anyone can go through it if you have the right mindset. Don't get me wrong, there were days that I wanted to give up, not wanting to even get out of bed when I could finally get up out of bed. But I know God has a plan for me because if he didn't I would not have survived everything that I went through. Do not let anyone steal your joy, you are in charge of your happiness, and if they do not want to be a part of your life let them go!!! Now my ex-wife is suffering, and regretting what she did to me. But I have seen her true colors and I know how cold-hearted she can be, she can never take that back. I forgive her in my heart but I will never forget it, you don't just forget something that traumatic. I want to thank you again for your video. I washed it many times along with other videos from other people. But you helped me to pull through and I thank you for that. God bless you and everyone else who is going through their own battles at this time. Always thank God for showing you what kind of person you were with, and what they were capable of doing to you. Good luck to you and to everyone who reads this mini novel of a message LOL. God bless and hold your head up, stand strong! Much love to everyone!
Have you ever broke someone's heart? I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I was left almost two years ago after a longterm relationship. I never thought I would him say that he no longer cared for me. To add salt to the wound, he laughed about it as if it was a joke. I was devastated never felt anything so excruciating before. How are you nowadays?
Thank you for making this vid. Going through a heart break. She ended over text as well. She didnt even have the guts to tell me in the face that it was over. My friend just died in a motorcycle accident. Everything happens for a reason like you said. I woke up to who I really am. Im down 25lbs so far. Even though I can't sleep or eat. Im still working out. Still grinding. This vid really helped. Thank you. I hope you achieved your dreams and many successes to you, bro.
my boyfriend left me for a women 20 years older when I tried him like a king I have been through so much put this is the the worst pain I have ever gone through
Kallisto Cullen It definitely is not an easy thing to go through, and im so so sorry to hear about this. But it really is a good thing, they were not the right person for you and they weren't who you thought they were. This was all for a reason, you are supposed to meet someone who is just so much better in every aspect. Use this as a time to make yourself stronger physically and mentally, truly focus on yourself right now. Go out and experience new things and meet new people, always keep yourself busy. Everything is going to work out, everything in the end will be okay, if it's not okay then it's not the end. There is still so much more to live for so keep on pushing and fighting every day Kallisto!!
@@niczintel8531 thanks❤
I’ve connected with your pain. You’re worth listening to because it was your heart speaking to us ❤️
Hey dude you video has touched me because it's so relatable like I damaged my A.c. joint in my shoulder and tore both legimants in my shoulder leaving me out of the sport I love and that really had me but I had this girl just helping me and today she messaged me what she doesn't wanna have anything with me it's broken me I just can't believe someone that made me so happy could make me want to die it's so hard she was amazing it fucking hurts bro but this is helping thank you so much
Hey man, just got done watching your video.
It’s been 3 weeks since me and the girl I was with for 4 years(on and off) broke up. It’s a weird lonely feeling.. I don’t miss her much but I do miss what we had. A home, a dog, home cooked meals. Etc. I crave that.. but what you said about focusing on you myself and waiting for my time made a lot of sense.
I hope you’re through it now and that you have recovered. I hope to reach that point soon!
Also I’ve taken up going to the gym and god it helps clear my mind for at least a few hours.
Thanks man
I just went through a break up with my wife of 18 years we have 4 beutiful kids she cheated on me and that shit really put me in in the floor all my self steam went down I lost all my life and I'm still hurt but I started doing to the gym and is helping me a lot dont give up let's get up!!!
Ricardo Carrillo wow that’s some real motivation
Thank you so much for this man. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Your delivery, your tone and story really spoke to me. I was getting goosebumps and tears through the whole thing. I'm so happy you're doing better and hopefully I get to that point as well. Thank you