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It is because we like to understand everything, unless we are feeling depressed by how awful reality is. It is what we find "fun", if you will. At least, until our brain gets tired. Then we just get bored because we can't engage very well anymore and then the infamous "zone out" occurs.
Sometimes I like them but usually I hate them. My phone has more photos of my cat and my plants than of myself. Here at home I hate looking at some walls cause there are pictures of me when I was younger. My parents don't let me take them out of the walls
'when we fake it, we are trying not to die' too fricking true. the intp chameleoning really rings true for me, i wear diff faces for certain friends or groups of people, when two diff groups somehow mix, idk what to do and i typically just take a backseat and say nothing as to not fuck it up lol. darting eyes is defo generally an xnxp thing.
As an INTP I get the Chamaeleon thing and I have done it . AS I’m getting older and having my own businesses dealing with ppl most of my day doing nails and wedding photography . I’ve grown to just be me and own my awkwardness and actually use it in A somewhat charismatic way. Knowing my audience is very important who can handle our minds and who can’t. That’s a simple question I ask myself when I meet someone.
Lol so true. I might also say that we do not do this deliberately. We naturally 'blend' with that group exactly like what a Chameleon does in nature. It's like being with those people has that effect on us. We do it subconsciously.
The easiest chameleon move is to get them to talk about themselves. Ppl who aren’t INTP love talking about themselves. One TH-camr talked about it as polite interrogation. Plus, it’s just part of trying to solve the puzzle that is human.
And it's also a good filtering system, if the person brights up and talks endlessly about themselves you already know it's not a person compatible for a deep connection, if they rather talk about concepts and continuously keep diverting from your attempts to lead them to an personal-centric conversation, then you know there is a person to give your attention.
As an INTP, most people don't care about my interests. I like it when someone asks me about myself because in showing them my worldview I feel they will be less likely to misunderstand my motives whn some other time I try to help them with my Ti insights.
I am afraid that while i don't like to talk about myself, i will tell lies about myself to not be rejected. Once, i lied about having some sexual relationships when really i was a virgin back then. Shame on me for being so insecure.
@@popkhorne5372 I think many lie in order to try to fit in, especially at a young age. It matters more what you do moving forward and learning from those moments rather than chastising ourselves for what we did then.
the only INTP stereotype i don't fit into is not dressing well, as i feel like i'd be a bit more comfortable knowing i look well, rather than having to worry about looking out of the ordinary in a bad way :/
I dress well, because you get treated way better (and I refuse to actually purchase schleppy clothes). But, yeah, it's the same three nice outfits over and over!
I’d like to think I dress well, but not overly so. I don’t like being noticed too much. Overly dressed and awfully dressed seem to always draw attention.
@@tripplefives1402, you must have an underdeveloped Fe. When you’ve experienced things that force you beyond your comfort zone, you’d understand the utility of form in the context of avoiding unnecessary conflict in a world of Sensors. 🤷🏽♂️
Its most likely a parental influence type thing when that happens- Parents give us extra habits and focuses that can help fluff out our character. Try to choose parents that give you beneficial stats so you can survive into the retirement endgame.
Eye contact requires too much brainpower we would rather, or feel we need to, spend on thinking, unless we realize "I think it would be respectful to hold my gaze at theirs here for this long maybe?"
@@theofreeman4300 this is the correct take- Eye contact takes up a huge amount of brain power, which INTP's choose (by virtue of inferior-ing their Fe) to avoid spending and instead spend on internal logic activity (thinking). ESFJ, our opposite, no doubt embrace this aspect of life instead. Its an example of fighting against the wave or surfing it, something that can be used to describe many other function pairs in various aspects. In the end, there's only so many pressures you can fight and say no to, and the rest you must allow.
Yep, INTPs tend to don't need/don't have money. We are more focus on essentials and not really change our clothes. I have literally 3 jeans made from a special material, that were a little pricey but I can sleep or run in them and they are so great that I bought 3 a year ago and never bought any since then. (I'll probably use them until they can only be worn ate home and them buy the exact same ones again)
@@isaacpenn1119 I looked up and the material that I liked is called spandex. It's a black jeans spandex hybrid, looks like a normal jeans but I literally can do exercise in it (but it's hot like a jeans, so please remember that and keep yourself hydrated ok) I found at a place called "Renner". I don't know if it exists in other countries. I'm from Brazil. Here was 100 reais, so it would be like 25 or 20 dollars.
@@joesr31 I guess it depends on the person. Many (if not all) of my INTP friends write with perfect grammar. When bringing up the question of why, the answer I got was: “If I want to convey something clearly with out misunderstanding, why not do it right with proper punctuations and all the lace?” But I guess it really depends on the person. (Now I question why all my INTP friends happen to be like that...)
@@fishybass5958 it depends really. With some people we have perfect grammar, with others we are a jumbled mess of letters and slang. I care about my grammar when writing comments somewhere for example. I think proper writing helps support your point... Not so much when I chat with my friends. I write very quickly and don't come back to correct my mistakes so it looks absolutely awful and sometimes barely cohesive.
when i try proving a point or making my perspective make sense , i find it difficult at times to find the words. it’s all well thought out in my head but explaining shit can be rough. with that being said i feel like having the ability to be well spoken makes whatever point it is that i’m trying to get at , a bit easier to prove. your comment just made me think about this because i’ve been told before that i have decent grammar. above average one might even say. it’s interesting too because a well known intp stereotype is that they’re good at math but my whole life it’s always been english subjects that i excelled in & math that i fucking sucked at.
@@fishybass5958 Yeah I'm particular over something that makes a difference. If it would cause misunderstanding or result in the possibility of different interpretations then I'm quite particular with it. If not, I do not really care as long as the message gets across, I feel the concepts are more important that the rules of the language
Well, I don't think anyone except INTPs look into this kind of videos, but I feel something similar. It's something so different from everyone I know, and so universal with all of you, it kinda scared me when I hear everyone talking about it. But I'm happy to finally find why I'm this way at least.
It is good that lists and traits like this are put together. How would most people figure us out otherwise? Many of us want to be understood; this is a good way to do it(at least as a start).
I've never really gotten into the habit of wearing headphones or plugs everywhere. Only on public transport. I like being aware of my surroundings when walking. Makes it easier to hear the car when I often quite obliviously start crossing the street without thinking about traffic. Has literally saved my life a few times.
Something to know about INTPs is that no authority will go without question. INTPs absolutely hate rules that don't have a purpose, and we like to know everything about shit around us. Don't say something like "oh thats just how it is" or "I said so", then you have just made mortal enemies with the INTP.
I'm a Department Director (yea, huge struggle bus), and so this is a HUGE conflict with my staff because I don't uphold any of the standardized policies established from labor laws in the factory Era (employee: "sorry I'm late, I had to blah blah blah" "dude, I don't care. Find somehow to make it 40hrs before friday") lmao I went in at a company wide Directors meeting about how 8am-5pm don't mean shit in 2021 for our line of work except satisfying someone's outdated concepts and desire for control. Later 4 other Directors told me thank you
maybe in your youth, but as a mature intp. We stop wasting mental and emotional energy in things we know are absurd already. Basically..we might just highlight the absurdness for others , but not bother too much or dwell on it as we did in our growing up years. Accept the things you cannot change , change the things you cannot accept. Why..because as soon you understand the human brain...and you understand brains are in charge of making rules...it becomes pretty clear, it are not the rules that are the problem... BUT THE BRAINS...so in order to change things for the future for our own sake..we better start finding ways or paths to change the brains and update them with our TI. Just like we updated our own brains etc many times in many subject, one has to become realistic, this is just life. Even as logicians we made mistakes in the thought realm, overlooking things or stuff.. Well you can't blame others for the same shit you do too... Like i said..maturity..realism..humble
Omg my brother and I are both INTP, so when our mom is talking to some friend or someone new, we literally try to meld into the background and pretend we're invisible. Then we sneak away the first chance we get, trying not to seem rude 😂💀
You are so fucking lucky. At firs, a lot of people would prob think that intps wouldn't be good friends. But as a person who is feeling misunderstood, another intp to discuss stuff about were exactly what I needed
According to the test I'm an INTP, so here are my two cents: Clothing: Plain and simple, yet comfy. Cheap sneakers, jeans and a hoodie, and a coat in winter. Haircuts are also an interesting matter in terms of costs and usefulness, and most importantly the social factor behind it. I mean someone is touching your hair! Once every two years is the way to go imo. The faking matter: Well, I'm kinda faking it. During freetime (outside) I usually wear headphones and avoid socializing completely, and when forced to socialize I'm wearing it I don't pretend to be interested in working together but I don't voice my opinions. Never ever comes something worthwhile out of it and experience has proven that it only leads to tedious arguments with a negative outcome. It's exhausting but it could be a lot worse if I would pretend to be outgoing. Meeting INTP's: Everybody has to buy food, right? Groceries stores are the #1 place to find them if we exclude the internet. Most of the time they (me included) plan in advance on what to buy and are rather quick to leave the store with their headphones still on their head. Paying with the card is faster and doesn't require physical contact, so that's a bonus sign. Eye contact: Man, I could write a song about it if I would've the skills. I always look away when I speak because looking someone in the face is unironically distracting and messes with my thoughts. To make a dumb comparison, it feels like playing a game with inverted controls and looking away makes it normal again.
Yeah, haircuts every two years doesn't quite work for a female. Unless a woman has dead straight hair, I'm fairly certain going that long without a haircut only creates a longer process to get ready in the morning, and that's just not worth it.
@@valej9387 Women could go way longer without a haircut. I'm speaking for myself as a male that 2 years works quite well for me. I need around 5 to 10 minutes in the bathroom, showering and drying my hair included. It's up to them if they want to include make-up or not, which is by far the most time consuming thing in the morning. It also depends on if someone is a morning person or not, and if they enjoy showering and take their time or get it over with fast. I'm not a morning person, so I get it over with and grab my coffee ASAP after being "done" with the morning.
@@bechernudeln8078 Does not work with all hair types, this coming from a female. After a certain amount of months, the frizz sets in. Then the knots. Eventually, it takes way too long to work the knots out of hair, even if showering in the morning. I like to be ready in five minutes. Not possible if my hair's not been cut in the past 3-6 months. And let's be honest, almost no one takes a woman seriously or views her as responsible/capable if her hair is an absolute mess. Just saying, it's easier to just get it trimmed to make mornings and life easier to deal with. I usually wait until it becomes difficult to deal with before getting it cut, but that's almost never more than 5 months, and is sometimes closer to 3.
Female INTP. As a woman, if I don't dress like I care I'm not going to be taken seriously... And the disrespect can often exhausting/frustrating. But I have one bold lipstick color, two pairs of big earrings, a bunch of nice comfy sweaters / t-shirts, darker jeans (comfy and more professional looking)... But I often kill the look with the shoes. Can't help going for the comfy, not so attractive, bulky sneakers. 😂😂 Yes, I'm also the one faking it like a pro, even if I've tuned out the last 30 minutes of conversation.
@@valej9387 we have uniforms. And I usually ignore everyone and do my job. My friends that I work with know that I won't talk so they carry the conversation, they know that I need moments alone so whenever others try to distract me or talk to me they just talk for me and response. I prefer them not to do that tho.
any INTP changed their clothing views when they get older? i was exactly like typical intp until i was 27 ish and then from that to nearing 30s, i learn about "timeless personal style" and revolutionized my insight and strategy in wardrobe planning. also going out, mimicking social cues feels like wearing a human suit trying to blend in with humans that you have observed your whole life ahaha
Haha, yeah! I used to be meh about clothing, but the more we go through life and can no longer rationalize appearances not being important, I just dress because I figure there's an objective reason to.. sometimes I'll just be putting on makeup in the morning with the intention to impress with my work without sacrificing femininity - even if on the inside I could care less about being feminine or what I am on the outside at all :P Afterall, sad truth is people give any second thoughts towards you if you just dress average, but good truth is it just takes simple window dressing once you have the money . Ah, once I had money getting older I had the ability to make whatever human suit I wanted
I am 22 but i am starting to be obnoxiously self-aware about my looks and weight, so much so I am being paranoid about losing 5 kgs to reach my ideal weight and beating myself for not being in a good shape SO MUCH SO i for some screwed up reason cannot buy new clothes until i reach that weight. And yeah, it's been 4months lmao
Don't have the storage place for many outfits. I hate to spend too much time, money and allocate space for new clothes. I think I would do more clothingwise in a bigger home. I see practical value in it, but in many cases, a shitty cloth just works fine, as I don't feel the need to impress stupid people, unless I want something from them. But then again, most of the time there are easier ways to get what I need.
Met an INTP recently - so interesting and endearing! Adorably childlike with the occasional bout of random moodiness. I think a more developed INTP would be ideal as I love introverts overall.
I used to only wear the same combination of t-shirt with a skirt/pair of pants, but then I discovered Love Nikki - a game where you collect clothes and accessories to win fashion battles - and making outfits became a hobby. It made me interested for a while, but eventually I got lazy and now I just... make "efficient" stylish outfits.
can confirm. I started understanding fashion (and have been subsequently using it to get free social credit as a supposedly well adjusted adult) after getting into character design.
Funny! I was trying to see a face or screen or some kind of picture and then... I realized... of course INTP! My bf INTP is not a fan of being recorded and quite insistent against it. I can spot an INTP’s a mile away! Quite accurate lol 😂
Social chameleon-ing is a worthwhile skill to have for us INTPs, I think. It validates our Fe when done right. I’d suggest using Ne to look for patterns in intonations, you’d be surprised how predictable speech can be, especially small talk. Pair this with Si to develop muscle memory for the sounds and their corresponding response. You’d know if it’s a “yes” or “no” question by listening to the flow of the sentence without listening to all the words. You’d know when an agreeable chuckle is the best way to make light of the situation. If you stutter, exaggerate it like you’re joking around. Listen to every other word and throw in a well-placed pun so it wouldn’t seem like you aren’t listening. Ti-Ne can be used to lead conversations into a payoff or a punchline. All these are things that I do to nurture my Fe. What I’ve realized about the cognitive stack is that we have to first develop our more dominant functions before we can access the lower. It’s like strengthening our rope first before going deeper into the well. Even the shadow functions are accessible if we’ve developed our Inferior Fe enough. Being able to use my Nemesis Te without being pressured has actually made me start hobbies that I would’ve otherwise talked myself out of; Child Si can be a bitc* for comfort like that, and Dominant Ti can stop us cold on our tracks when we feel our course of action ain’t foolproof enough. But, then again, there are people less competent than us that get the results that we can only imagine...just because they started doing things even when it’s not accurate enough for us. Currently, I’m trying my best to connect with my Trickster Se, and it’s a pain. I think that I’d have to turn off my Ti-Ne feedback system to fully use it. And it’s hard. I try to mimic Se function by using Ne-Si, though, by walking briskly on thin pathways where I can get out of balance and fall off if I don’t get in touch with my surroundings. Si for muscle memory to keep my balance and Ne for mapping all the possibilities of me falling off. It’s kinda working, but I don’t think it’s enough for me to proceed to the Demon function yet. 😅
lol i would attend the funeral with a black t-shirt and black pants i mean technically you wouldn't need to dress well right..? u just need to wear dark coloured clothing (pls correct me if im wrong)
As INTP 25 yrs old female. I can relate to your each point 100%, but since I'm a girl, I can tell you some more about me. Yes I put earphone all the time to the point my family hates me because of it specially my sis, she is INFP. I hate arguments, I ran away from arguments. I ask silly questions that people tell me I'm mad. My dressing sense is very casual, I don't wear earrings or any bracelet or even makeup. I wear loose clothes, cotton, soft comfortable clothes, even in party, and I totally stand out because of it. Many made fun of my dressings, my ex best friend also taught me how to dress, to the point she broke friendship with me because of it. And for many reasons. I don't upload my selfies on social media. I don't use my real name on social media that's made me insecure that people who used to be my classmates would sent request to me. I have barely 59 followers on insta. And people kept unfollowing me bcz of my weird posts and my weird name which I change time after time. I like to study so many topics, I can give my hours and hours to know more, I listen lectures to double my knowledge. I use all social media but like a unknown user. I love flat chest, I wish I could flat my chest, what a bunch of luggage. So heavy tho I'm only 49kg. I don't cut my hair, It's below my waist. I adore it Yes I have emotional less face and eyes. I rarely smile. I tried to smile many times it looks so fake. My mother and sister hates it when I do that. Nobody likes my smile at home. I struggle behaving normal infront of gathering, my mother slaps me with harsh words after ending of gathering. That I don't know what to say on when. Yes I don't go outside alot until it's emergency. My parents kick me to go atleast to my lawn and watch birds and sky and tress. I graduated in physics, chemistry and maths, after that I got lost. Master degree looks waste to me. I don't listen songs unless it has meaning. I hate romance, I'm single. I saw thumbnail. I clicked. Coz that happened to me, a couple were doing weird things in empty classroom I was on the front seat, I looked back and caught them doing that thing, then I told my one and only friend about it, and I gave that scene a name and wrote on my friend's arm. Lmao I literally have no friends since everyone left me. My mother curse me alot, my whole family. I wish I can shift to different place soon and have my life with peace and silence, so I can think a lot❤️
Damn. And like you don't idk miss ppl and stuff? I am an intp or infp, not 100% sure but I don't really have many friends, am most of the time alone and I kinda hate it 😅. I do care about ppl but I just can't make it work with them (Te/Fe as my last function..). If you ever have your Fe calling you up, you can't ignore it. You do need ppl and it will just get worse and worse with time, even if rn you are fine with being alone (like completely alone, I obviously like to spend time alone but I don't like the feeling is lonelyness)
I can't relate to the "screwing up" part. When meeting people it's like 'This is who I am, take it or leave it.' If I'm not their cup of tea, I don't have a problem with that. I'm honest and I plan things out and strategize every activity in advance or on the spot. It's extremely rare if I do come across someone who's a step ahead of me, and I know this sounds quite arrogant, but really, I'm not trying to toot my own horn here , it's like playing chess, some people are genuine, and others have different intentions.. it's key to figure them out and do the homework without them noticing a thing and be prepared to strike when the situation changes in an unfortunate direction.
I agree. If someone doesn't like me because of my personality, I just shrug and walk away. I strategize weeks ahead, but its always ruined because of some unforeseen event happening and I lose everything I've planned for. I can usually tell when someone is trying to use me for something, but I have encountered no one who has been able to slip past my defenses. The hard part is figuring out intentions, then the easy part is doing research on them until I can figure out a weak spot. And yes, I play chess a lot rather than talk to people, so I always see things strategically.
chameleon intp here. it's easy to 'fit in' when you don't really know that person| group of people. it gets harder over time when you are getting to know a specific person on a deeper level. they expect you to pick up on certain moods and emotions that are really subtle and require a lot of emotional understanding. I can't relate and will always unwillingly or willingly distance myself from this person to avoid conflict. thus most of these people are acquaintances at best. bloody exhausting. wouldn't recommend for every day use. (I did use it a lot while I was working as a server to gain tips though and yes, I started serving because I was too detached and needed to challenge myself. it's repetitive (ugh small talk) but it helps you take notice of what other people categorise as normal behaviour.)
I have to say man just listening to that literally made my day! I have never heard someone put that many accurately placed pins on a personality that I've been explaining to the same people so many times over and over but finally just said this is just how it is. And then start thinking maybe I actually am completely stupid. because no one around me has ever once understood what I was saying even after I re phrased it like 20 times to see if a different word placements would maybe summon something that takes away your ability to speak and will be able to hear me now instead of getting high off hearing yourself talk! Literally man I'm 28 and had pretty much gave up trying to make people who can't see outside of their little box that got handed down to them. The most frustrating thing is that my idea is knocking on the front door of their box but the the previous generation sealed all the exits. So thank you for just being you man. Getting to hear someone who is a complete stranger perfectly explain who I am. The occasional mask and the core! This must be how people stuck in a foreign country for years not understanding the language and finally hear someone who can understand you and you understand. Made my fucking day!
I don't know my type but I know I am just crazy about INTPs...I can see them.They are so cute and deep in the same moment, independent thinkers,they let you just be who you are, they sacrifice themselves just to avoid conflict,they care and love SO deeply people have no idea 🙊
Who are you... like seriously How you do that.. you have beautiful eyes to see it and im really thankful and lucky to find your comment. God bless you.
As an introvert with social friends and parents that undermined every one of my interests unless it was art or school related, can relate to the whole Mask thing and will absolutely talk about anything with anyone who is remotely interested -intp
Everytime I tried to talk about something I liked when I was younger everyone talked over me, so now I'm just clutching onto anyone who wants to listen to me ramble about something I like haha
The clothing thing as others mentioned it was pretty accurate I generally look like crap in inappropriate settings and if I do dress up I try my best to apply comfort and I will only dress in the same outfits repeatedly. Thank you for this video it’s pretty insightful. I re-took a test recently and again im intp-t. I often ramble on with my sentences to get to a simple answers, I also can not fake being in social situations if I am smiling in that situation it is likely forced and an “ugly” smile so I just don’t anyways and never had the want to consistently, therefore I have resting bitch face and eyes that have a problem with eye contact. This video felt like now that I have a personality label I can understand myself a lot better.
Just discovered your channel. Great analysis. I think if I could replace ants, I'd bioengineer a species that built giant earthworks/earthships habitable for humans. You couldn't exactly sit down with your army of little workers and tell them to provide x amount of space for your kitchen cabinets, but it would be free and sustainable. I've heard some scientists propose we use crustaceans to grow shells into molds that will replace plastic disposables. Either way, we could do with more cross-species cooperation.
Ugh. 4th function Fe is painful... - wrinkles on face from smiling so much and nodding to make it appear I’m listening - stress out when getting dressed before an event because I don’t know what to wear to fit in - reading way too much into people’s body language and tone of voice. For the longest time I thought I was INFJ... Totally agree with the taking people through the full journey to make a point. Some other “get to the point” types are too impatient to follow that journey 😂
I am rarely thoroughly engaged throughout such a long video. I find myself getting bored with videos that are even only 2-3 minutes long, but not this one. Extremely interesting, well done. Subscribed.
INTP here - I do not go out often, but when I do, I certainly do not require f-f-frynds(?), f-frands(?), Frends(?)--whatever, i don't have any anyway, who needs to ever spell it... The point is, I have been so alone for so long that I am neither afraid of it nor am I ashamed. The rest of the world may think I am a character in their own personal horror movie because I crash their party or show up in their bar with my RBF and no one else and attempt to interact with no one--except, the people they're all afraid to talk to but secretly want to, the hottest and/or the weirdest as though they are normal hoomans too, because there are no rules. There will be a polar response to me among everyone, including the people I ignored/ignored me. Then I will disappear, most likely because that was enough social effort for the next month or so, but if anyone ever sees me out again, they will treat it like a B-list celebrity sighting... OR maybe that is just how it is in my head, I can't really tell.
I was classified as both an INTP and ENTP. I think it’s because I’ve forced myself outside of my comfort zone enough to where socializing isn’t as much of an issue, but I’m not a faker either so I appear shy at first while I’m in my observation stage. My trick has always been to steer conversations in the direction of mutual interests so that I can maximize the effectiveness of the conversation. Small talk still isn’t that good for me, but I’ve found that actions speak louder than words in most situations.
I don't know if this is an INTP thing or not but I think it is. Relating to the eye contact thing (coming from an ENTJ who stares people down), my ex who I'm pretty sure is an INTP could not look me in the eye at all and would absolutely avoid it until she couldn't anymore (in more intimate situations) at which point she looked like a deer in headlights and her brain would seemingly stop thinking/become overwhelmed, but not in a bad way.
I laugh so hard when you said infj are weird in sarcastic way. And I totally agree with you... sometimes I cringe at myself so hard like i want to slap myself to get myself together. -Infj
@@Skimmerlit this makes me want to get a intp friend in real life... tbh I knew the fact the infj and intp can get along when I try to guess my favorite Minecraft TH-camr Technoblade. He sound like an intp
Clothes feel forced to me, like they are a necessary evil. I hate shopping and would rather just wait for someone to clean out their closet and give me stuff. I believe that my body is just a means of transportation for my brain and I don’t see a point in dressing it up. I’ve got better things to think about.
I also don't fit with INTP dressing only for comfort. Couple years ago I found a particular silhouette that enhanced my attractiveness and although my fashion style evolved in many directions I always stick to it. I've spent many hours in front off my mirror to create ready to go outfits so you could say that I am wearing the same outfits over and over again but I have so many of them that I think no one can notice. Also I really like tight fitting clothes around the waist, I'm always wearing dresses and skirts. I could say that those type of clothing is comfortable for me because skirts leave a lot of freedom for the bottom part of the body and the thightiness around the waist helps with my anxiety because I feel like someone is hugging me. Also it controls my posture. So I guess in the end I will agree with you on that matter but with my own personal view on it. I'm focusing a lot on clothing because It helps me create a particular persona for different occasion. I've realised that people treat you differently depending on how you look so I use it to my advantage.
The merging groups thing is very true lol. When I had my delinquent friends in highschool I would get very uncomfortable bringing them around my parents because I had two different personas I would put on around them. The little angel child around my parents and the delinquent jokester around my friends😂
My favourite INTP I've met online. He was in a small friend group that I somehow started gaming with. He was very silent at first, but when he voiced stuff, it was always something I resonated with, so I added him right away. And then at some point we started to play with just the two of us and he started to share interests with me and, again, I was absolutely resonating with it. But no one knows really anything tangible about him. Aside from his brother maybe, but even the brother doesn't seem to really know what's going on with him most of the time. No one knows what the guy looks like or where exactly he lives (as in which town). Not even close online friends he knows for years and seems to be rather fond of. Anytime someone new enters the conversation, he's basically gone. But as soon as they are gone, he goes back to normal instantly. He's witty and funny and we can debate stuff without any hard feelings arising. Absolutely love and respect the dude. And I don't even really like most people. Asked him out a few times by now, but I think I scare him a little. He needed 3 months to tell me he's not sure what the right thing to do is. But he keeps coming back, so I'm not giving up xD I'm an ambiverted ENTP btw. A fairly healthy one that doesn't need to bring anyone down to feel fulfilled, but I still sometimes step on people's weak spots accidentally. Oopsie. Wish me luck, please hahaha. Btw. if you have any tips, I'm eager to learn.
@@Skimmerlit I'd never! At least not intentionally and I'm not above seeing my own shortcomings and apologising. My other favourite people are all sensitive types, many ISFJs and a INFJs im rather protective of hahaha. I can be a bit forceful if I'm very sure of something, but I'm working on that.
@@julyol119 If he's not sure what the right thing to do is, he's either divided on liking you but there's an issue (distance, social convention, some secret like he's not got legs or something, etc) OR he feels obligated to date you (you like him, he wants to date someone, how can he complain when he's rejecting you? He should just date you) but he doesn't like that feeling of obligation and is ambivalent towards you (not feeling a spark, basically- which I don't think is something an INTP should base their dating off of, their sparks are garbage indicators, but some people just like to have a spark, you know?). In either case, the most generally useful recommendation I can give would be to give him 3 things: Space to figure out the situation, presence so he doesn't feel like you are gone/leaving and remembers you exist, and lastly, a sample of benefits, so he knows what he can gain/is missing. Its up to your clever intuition to figure out the balance of these three, and what each of these means from his perspective. Some INTPS need a lot of space, others just need a few hours. Some would benefit from an intuitive sense of loving connection, others might desire something more real. Some INTPs feel abandoned after a week, others a month, and some a day. So, I leave all that to you. Also, I trust you as an ENTP to know I don't mean degrade yourself in any way on the sample aspect- you know all the suave moves- use them lol. You also mentioned you feel you might scare him- you can always discuss things rationally with an INTP, so if you're worried about that, ask him. You can't manipulate the INTP, unfortunately, so this is the best advice i can give you.
@@ClockworkAnomaly Thank you for taking the time to reply to me :) I think I'm already doing many of the things the way you proposed. Only the benefit thing could be somewhat difficult. I'm offering things, but he neither declines nor agrees to really anything, aside of this one time he let me know he wasn't sure. I don't have his address, so can't even send him a present or something, aside of on steam etc. And I appreciate that he doesn't try and fake it, but I'm not gonna force or manipulate him. I'm a win (at least I'm somewhat sure of that) and will not be treated like a consolation price. Or be kept warm for later. In the end, I know I made it clear that our friendship comes first and anything else is optional and no hard feelings. And that I don't care about most things most people worry about (like looks or money, I actually don't care, I can take care of that myself; and fk social norms, as a sociologist I know where those come from haha). So I feel like by now the romance ball is in his court and the best I can do is to not get too frustrated. Which is sometimes hard for someone like me, who knows what they want and is not afraid to get hurt while trying to get it. But I'm in no rush anyhow.
@@julyol119 awesome ^^ just keep in mind the INTP is naturally passive as an I/P so the males struggle with the norm of them making the advances (I know you've done everything you can!). Wish you the best!
I have such a difficult time finding my fellow INTP’s, so as a strategy I would blurt our questions regarding abstract philosophical concept, or questions in physics, or talk about high concept TV shows right out of the blue. I would get quite an amazing response from other INTP’s, and even the odd INTJ. It’s like they would magically appear from thin air!
I am almost 40 and my new doctor is an INTP and I'm like, "where have you been?" I'm an INFJ. I NEED that Ne parent on my side!!!!! That mature brain that loves my ideas . . .like heaven for my little kid Ti. I come out knowing I've been heard and maybe even that my ideas have been improved upon...or at least we've done some research and learned something. Soooo much better than other doctors that "know better." Stay weird guys! You help in your own way!!!!
the eyes are the biggest give away, most people get fooled by those eyes but i think there is kindness behind those blank eyes, more then ISTPs at least.
That’s so weird what you said about the clothing. I’m pretty sure I’m an INTP but I love clothes 😂 and making outfits and stuff just for the fun of it and I don’t like re wearing outfits Cos I like to see how many different combinations I can make. But I do identify with the comfort, I have certain outfits I just revert to automatically if I cba Oh and is it just me who actually hates conversing with people online 😂 I can barely discern sarcasm and social queues irl now u want me to do that where I have nothing to help me barring a limited use of emojis?? And don’t get me started on knowing when it’s social appropriate to stop talking to someone online 😅
i think about a lot of outfits,clothes combo but i still wear the same shirt and jeans.my family are all fashionable sensors so i actually have a lot of clothes but i don't dress like them.they even call me 'old fashioned' because of my style.
I think as INTPs we tend to be passionate about things we take interest in, so if clothes and style are one of those interest it makes sense why you enjoy it so much. I am the same way, I love finding new looks and styles as an INTP.
I'm interested in learning about these creatures that are intps I am an intj and basically I see tons of similarities and I've done the research and one has the strengths and the others has the weakness but it's vice versa is like yin and yang I believe both put together could freaking change the world
Yeahh, I haven't changed the way I do my makeup in like, a year and a half. It's the exact same. Every. Single. Time. However, I do dress nicely because I care a bit too much about what people think of me
It always freaks out my buddy when I have to fill in as a SV at my job, because I go from the "IDGAF I'm gonna wear my hoodie and earbuds don't fuckin bug me till my youtube vid is over" to "my uniform is pressed and my face is friendly and inviting, how may I help you today?" and while I hate putting that mask on, sometimes its fun to see the reactions I get lol
Me being an INTP who is interested in fashion ✌✌ Have the best sense of style among my friends. People Ask me for fashion advice. Looking amazing in any kind of clothing. Conclusion: if INTP is interested in anything they will rock it
I must be an INTP who doesnt fake it friends often give me clothes because i will wear stuff until it turns to rags i get peoples leftover shoes because i will wear mine until they fall apart and then duct tape them i broke my glasses and made an earpiece out of those placker things you pick your teeth with and wore those for months
@@wess1911 Yeeeeeaahhh. Except for when I really want to step into a place and impress (for the good or for the bad) I dress like I were the protagonist of an action movie mixed with an Final Fantasy villain. In those cases is a but unconfortable, less mobility. But do I care? No sir
Do other INTPs listen/watch content sped up? I normally listen on 2x and sometimes 2.5x and 1.5x sometimes if the visual is important or complex Chrome extension called video speed controller.
I don't think your hypothetical was stupid. In fact, I wish it was the standard for small talk. ps: My super insect would secrete pheromones to disperse the colony but would not prey on the ants. It would be like a really stinky bug that forces the ants to build smaller more disparate colonies. I think it would help with giant anthills and/or pits that I keep tripping over. lol
My insect would infiltrate ant mounds and kill the queen/her possible replacements, but instead of leaving the colony to rot it would somehow hijack the hive mind (probably with pheremones) and use the ants as slaves to build nests for and feed its young. Kinda like a Cuckoo bird of insect kingdom.
Fist off my wife is an ISTJ . That alone has helped me the most . I’m an intp who is mildly aggressive , who dresses well and loves shopping lol . And I don’t fake it .( I was a model )Yes I have only have set outfits tho and cycle them within each other . Also I have and run a business dealing with the public an hour or more at a time per person whom I Chamaeleon to BTW. But this has thought me a lot and has improved myself a ton . And learned to use in a regular public setting. I have tried to put myself outside of my comfort zone constantly . It’s freeing . But I still love to hide at home with very few friends lol. With eye contact, I make eye contact when I am hitting my point in conversation
as a keen smiley goofy intp, i definitely had to work hard to become as such and that was because i wanted to make friends. my goal was to be as genuine & authentic to who i an but also push myseld to go out of my comfort zone. some days i decide to be a recluse and shut-in and it’s really fun and amazing. but i’m at the point now where i’m mostly comfortable around people (unless they cross me or show thwir true colors as a jackass, in that case - good riddance, stereotypical intp comes out) i also love dumb hypotheticals & the word sustanance. infps also love dumbass hypotheticals i’ve learned
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Talking to an INTP about interests is like being a kid again. Playing with thoughts and words. - an INFJ
As an INTP I take this as a compliment.
I am INFJ, I just met an INTP, and they are amazing to talk to when it comes to mutual interests
It is because we like to understand everything, unless we are feeling depressed by how awful reality is. It is what we find "fun", if you will. At least, until our brain gets tired. Then we just get bored because we can't engage very well anymore and then the infamous "zone out" occurs.
I love talking to INFJs as an INTP
No
To all the INTPs : stop scrolling and listen to these relatable stuff bcs u will zone out and have to rewind
*yes i speak from experience as an intp*
Hahahaha :D..... indeed.
Yup I had to rewind three times before I just stopped the video
ya got me there XD
You ain’t the boss of me!!!
💯😁
" Social Interaction and meeting people matters much less than anime." - INTP
I don't see the mistake in this sentence.
"I see you're man of culture as well"
This.
Anime is damn fucking serious
This is a fact-check true
intp's hate cameras
I hate having my pictures taken
Why is that so true? I hate it too, I want to like it but I can't
we don't want to be seen that's why. i bet we all wanna be heard tho,even if it's just random and useless stuff.
i don't like having my pictures taken but i can sometimes take selfies.with filters.
Sometimes I like them but usually I hate them. My phone has more photos of my cat and my plants than of myself.
Here at home I hate looking at some walls cause there are pictures of me when I was younger. My parents don't let me take them out of the walls
'when we fake it, we are trying not to die' too fricking true. the intp chameleoning really rings true for me, i wear diff faces for certain friends or groups of people, when two diff groups somehow mix, idk what to do and i typically just take a backseat and say nothing as to not fuck it up lol. darting eyes is defo generally an xnxp thing.
Yes!!! It’s like trying to drive someone else’s car. You know how to do it, but it feels so awkward.
As an INTP I get the Chamaeleon thing and I have done it . AS I’m getting older and having my own businesses dealing with ppl most of my day doing nails and wedding photography . I’ve grown to just be me and own my awkwardness and actually use it in A somewhat charismatic way. Knowing my audience is very important who can handle our minds and who can’t. That’s a simple question I ask myself when I meet someone.
Lol so true. I might also say that we do not do this deliberately. We naturally 'blend' with that group exactly like what a Chameleon does in nature. It's like being with those people has that effect on us. We do it subconsciously.
The easiest chameleon move is to get them to talk about themselves. Ppl who aren’t INTP love talking about themselves. One TH-camr talked about it as polite interrogation. Plus, it’s just part of trying to solve the puzzle that is human.
And it's also a good filtering system, if the person brights up and talks endlessly about themselves you already know it's not a person compatible for a deep connection, if they rather talk about concepts and continuously keep diverting from your attempts to lead them to an personal-centric conversation, then you know there is a person to give your attention.
As an INTP, most people don't care about my interests. I like it when someone asks me about myself because in showing them my worldview I feel they will be less likely to misunderstand my motives whn some other time I try to help them with my Ti insights.
I am afraid that while i don't like to talk about myself, i will tell lies about myself to not be rejected. Once, i lied about having some sexual relationships when really i was a virgin back then. Shame on me for being so insecure.
@@popkhorne5372 I think many lie in order to try to fit in, especially at a young age. It matters more what you do moving forward and learning from those moments rather than chastising ourselves for what we did then.
I thought I'm weird. But I'm just an INTP. So glad I'm not the only one that use "chameleon system". And of course I had so many circle of friends.
the only INTP stereotype i don't fit into is not dressing well, as i feel like i'd be a bit more comfortable knowing i look well, rather than having to worry about looking out of the ordinary in a bad way :/
I dress well, because you get treated way better (and I refuse to actually purchase schleppy clothes). But, yeah, it's the same three nice outfits over and over!
I’d like to think I dress well, but not overly so. I don’t like being noticed too much. Overly dressed and awfully dressed seem to always draw attention.
@@tripplefives1402, you must have an underdeveloped Fe. When you’ve experienced things that force you beyond your comfort zone, you’d understand the utility of form in the context of avoiding unnecessary conflict in a world of Sensors. 🤷🏽♂️
I always try to balance my desire for comfort with my desire to not be noticed.
Its most likely a parental influence type thing when that happens- Parents give us extra habits and focuses that can help fluff out our character. Try to choose parents that give you beneficial stats so you can survive into the retirement endgame.
The rain background sound is really comforting 😊
Maybe it is weird but as an ENTJ I find it very cute and somehow very likable that when INTP's talk they look everywhere but my eyes?
Eye contact is a big oof unless I’m attracted to the person or just familiar with them over the years.
Ummm uhh... Fuck hahahaha
Hhhh the intp that you talked to was lying Hhhh cause when we tell the truth or something matters for us we dig straight to the eyes
Eye contact requires too much brainpower we would rather, or feel we need to, spend on thinking, unless we realize "I think it would be respectful to hold my gaze at theirs here for this long maybe?"
@@theofreeman4300 this is the correct take- Eye contact takes up a huge amount of brain power, which INTP's choose (by virtue of inferior-ing their Fe) to avoid spending and instead spend on internal logic activity (thinking). ESFJ, our opposite, no doubt embrace this aspect of life instead. Its an example of fighting against the wave or surfing it, something that can be used to describe many other function pairs in various aspects. In the end, there's only so many pressures you can fight and say no to, and the rest you must allow.
Can't say I've ever been roasted so soothingly. Love your voice and the way you speak, you've earned a sub
And the water in the background 😪 it’s like meditating 🧘♀️
It's great he roasted himself as brutally as he does with the other types lol
Love the way he's being super sincere but also like tired of talking 3 min in😂 definitely an intp
I laughed at "we really get along with... we really don't get on with many people"
“That’s some really dumb shit and INTP’s will latch into that”.🤣
Never trues words have been spoken.
Confirmed INTP.
Bro I'm just too broke to have more than like 3 outfits
Efficiency my man, to overdress is to waste. And let's not kid ourselves, there are very few people we want to impress.
Yep, INTPs tend to don't need/don't have money. We are more focus on essentials and not really change our clothes. I have literally 3 jeans made from a special material, that were a little pricey but I can sleep or run in them and they are so great that I bought 3 a year ago and never bought any since then. (I'll probably use them until they can only be worn ate home and them buy the exact same ones again)
@@gabrieldeoliveira7725 where can I find me a pair
INTP if you didn't spend your money on games and books you would have some on clothes! XD I know, I would xD
@@isaacpenn1119 I looked up and the material that I liked is called spandex. It's a black jeans spandex hybrid, looks like a normal jeans but I literally can do exercise in it (but it's hot like a jeans, so please remember that and keep yourself hydrated ok)
I found at a place called "Renner". I don't know if it exists in other countries. I'm from Brazil. Here was 100 reais, so it would be like 25 or 20 dollars.
I also notice that INTPs tend to have better grammar. Not completely a fact, but the INTPs I’ve met all have outstanding grammar.
Nah...I’m an INTP and I suck at grammar. I find it useless and uninteresting as it does not add much to the “substance” of that information/idea
@@joesr31 I guess it depends on the person. Many (if not all) of my INTP friends write with perfect grammar. When bringing up the question of why, the answer I got was: “If I want to convey something clearly with out misunderstanding, why not do it right with proper punctuations and all the lace?”
But I guess it really depends on the person. (Now I question why all my INTP friends happen to be like that...)
@@fishybass5958 it depends really. With some people we have perfect grammar, with others we are a jumbled mess of letters and slang. I care about my grammar when writing comments somewhere for example. I think proper writing helps support your point... Not so much when I chat with my friends. I write very quickly and don't come back to correct my mistakes so it looks absolutely awful and sometimes barely cohesive.
when i try proving a point or making my perspective make sense , i find it difficult at times to find the words. it’s all well thought out in my head but explaining shit can be rough. with that being said i feel like having the ability to be well spoken makes whatever point it is that i’m trying to get at , a bit easier to prove. your comment just made me think about this because i’ve been told before that i have decent grammar. above average one might even say. it’s interesting too because a well known intp stereotype is that they’re good at math but my whole life it’s always been english subjects that i excelled in & math that i fucking sucked at.
@@fishybass5958 Yeah I'm particular over something that makes a difference. If it would cause misunderstanding or result in the possibility of different interpretations then I'm quite particular with it. If not, I do not really care as long as the message gets across, I feel the concepts are more important that the rules of the language
i've never felt so seen - "anti-social ball of hate"
**hugs**
a cute ball of hate. 😡
**confirmed by an intp**
don't give away our secrets traitor
Well, I don't think anyone except INTPs look into this kind of videos, but I feel something similar. It's something so different from everyone I know, and so universal with all of you, it kinda scared me when I hear everyone talking about it. But I'm happy to finally find why I'm this way at least.
My thoughts exactly 😅
i feel so vulnerable listening to this. 😭
It is good that lists and traits like this are put together. How would most people figure us out otherwise? Many of us want to be understood; this is a good way to do it(at least as a start).
@@gabrieldeoliveira7725 haha sike, I'm an ENFP watching this. your secrets are out.
I've never really gotten into the habit of wearing headphones or plugs everywhere. Only on public transport. I like being aware of my surroundings when walking. Makes it easier to hear the car when I often quite obliviously start crossing the street without thinking about traffic. Has literally saved my life a few times.
oh my. please be careful💕
I put earphones but to only one ear for the same reason
I'll wear them without anything playing on them. That way I keep situational awareness while politely telling the world to F off.
Something to know about INTPs is that no authority will go without question. INTPs absolutely hate rules that don't have a purpose, and we like to know everything about shit around us. Don't say something like "oh thats just how it is" or "I said so", then you have just made mortal enemies with the INTP.
Oof
Had an argument with my step mom over this 💀
I'm a Department Director (yea, huge struggle bus), and so this is a HUGE conflict with my staff because I don't uphold any of the standardized policies established from labor laws in the factory Era (employee: "sorry I'm late, I had to blah blah blah" "dude, I don't care. Find somehow to make it 40hrs before friday") lmao I went in at a company wide Directors meeting about how 8am-5pm don't mean shit in 2021 for our line of work except satisfying someone's outdated concepts and desire for control. Later 4 other Directors told me thank you
@@bodwewadmi1 That is gold 🤣
maybe in your youth, but as a mature intp.
We stop wasting mental and emotional energy in things we know are absurd already.
Basically..we might just highlight the absurdness for others , but not bother too much or dwell on it as we did in our growing up years.
Accept the things you cannot change , change the things you cannot accept.
Why..because as soon you understand the human brain...and you understand brains are in charge of making rules...it becomes pretty clear, it are not the rules that are the problem...
BUT THE BRAINS...so in order to change things for the future for our own sake..we better start finding ways or paths to change the brains and update them with our TI.
Just like we updated our own brains etc many times in many subject, one has to become realistic, this is just life.
Even as logicians we made mistakes in the thought realm, overlooking things or stuff..
Well you can't blame others for the same shit you do too...
Like i said..maturity..realism..humble
Omg my brother and I are both INTP, so when our mom is talking to some friend or someone new, we literally try to meld into the background and pretend we're invisible. Then we sneak away the first chance we get, trying not to seem rude 😂💀
You are so fucking lucky.
At firs, a lot of people would prob think that intps wouldn't be good friends. But as a person who is feeling misunderstood, another intp to discuss stuff about were exactly what I needed
@@wherethepuddinggone6767 LMAO 🤣
@@Bravo-Tango-7274 fr we are best buddies :>
You can tell he's an INTP just by the way he articulates his thought
According to the test I'm an INTP, so here are my two cents:
Clothing: Plain and simple, yet comfy. Cheap sneakers, jeans and a hoodie, and a coat in winter. Haircuts are also an interesting matter in terms of costs and usefulness, and most importantly the social factor behind it. I mean someone is touching your hair! Once every two years is the way to go imo.
The faking matter: Well, I'm kinda faking it. During freetime (outside) I usually wear headphones and avoid socializing completely, and when forced to socialize I'm wearing it I don't pretend to be interested in working together but I don't voice my opinions. Never ever comes something worthwhile out of it and experience has proven that it only leads to tedious arguments with a negative outcome. It's exhausting but it could be a lot worse if I would pretend to be outgoing.
Meeting INTP's: Everybody has to buy food, right? Groceries stores are the #1 place to find them if we exclude the internet. Most of the time they (me included) plan in advance on what to buy and are rather quick to leave the store with their headphones still on their head. Paying with the card is faster and doesn't require physical contact, so that's a bonus sign.
Eye contact: Man, I could write a song about it if I would've the skills. I always look away when I speak because looking someone in the face is unironically distracting and messes with my thoughts. To make a dumb comparison, it feels like playing a game with inverted controls and looking away makes it normal again.
For me clothing is either sweats and a sweat shirt,
Or shorts and a tshirt
I relate to everything you said to a scary extent
Yeah, haircuts every two years doesn't quite work for a female. Unless a woman has dead straight hair, I'm fairly certain going that long without a haircut only creates a longer process to get ready in the morning, and that's just not worth it.
@@valej9387 Women could go way longer without a haircut. I'm speaking for myself as a male that 2 years works quite well for me. I need around 5 to 10 minutes in the bathroom, showering and drying my hair included. It's up to them if they want to include make-up or not, which is by far the most time consuming thing in the morning. It also depends on if someone is a morning person or not, and if they enjoy showering and take their time or get it over with fast. I'm not a morning person, so I get it over with and grab my coffee ASAP after being "done" with the morning.
@@bechernudeln8078 Does not work with all hair types, this coming from a female. After a certain amount of months, the frizz sets in. Then the knots. Eventually, it takes way too long to work the knots out of hair, even if showering in the morning.
I like to be ready in five minutes. Not possible if my hair's not been cut in the past 3-6 months. And let's be honest, almost no one takes a woman seriously or views her as responsible/capable if her hair is an absolute mess. Just saying, it's easier to just get it trimmed to make mornings and life easier to deal with. I usually wait until it becomes difficult to deal with before getting it cut, but that's almost never more than 5 months, and is sometimes closer to 3.
you: explaining the dumb hypothetical
me: let me just stop the video and think about it
I almost did the same thing 🤣🤣
It can't be helped
Me being an INTP and dressing good as hell 😒 I love fashion lol
Same 🙌
Exactly. Dressing for comfort only at home but never outside. Or at least I try make a good look out of a shitty clothes. :D
@@lukassiller5427 yeah I mean at home I dress like absolute garbage lol
@@Marina-og7vw
I'm really into 50s style skirts and dresses. Those are comfy clothes for me
INTP plus clinical depression and anxiety is the perfect storm 🙃😂
Oof but did you have to call me out like that?
a global pandemic will also do the trick
look up Jordan Peterson. His wisdom may help you out.
Try ADHD
Female INTP. As a woman, if I don't dress like I care I'm not going to be taken seriously... And the disrespect can often exhausting/frustrating.
But I have one bold lipstick color, two pairs of big earrings, a bunch of nice comfy sweaters / t-shirts, darker jeans (comfy and more professional looking)... But I often kill the look with the shoes. Can't help going for the comfy, not so attractive, bulky sneakers. 😂😂
Yes, I'm also the one faking it like a pro, even if I've tuned out the last 30 minutes of conversation.
I just don't care. Since I don't like socializing I dress comfy and unapproachable clothes. So I'm good.
@@zulmycruz Nice. How does that work for you in the workforce?
@@valej9387 we have uniforms. And I usually ignore everyone and do my job. My friends that I work with know that I won't talk so they carry the conversation, they know that I need moments alone so whenever others try to distract me or talk to me they just talk for me and response. I prefer them not to do that tho.
I felt this! The sneakers really give us away
- another female INTP who's faking it
any tips on faking it for a begginer intp faker who cant seem to get it right
any INTP changed their clothing views when they get older? i was exactly like typical intp until i was 27 ish and then from that to nearing 30s, i learn about "timeless personal style" and revolutionized my insight and strategy in wardrobe planning.
also going out, mimicking social cues feels like wearing a human suit trying to blend in with humans that you have observed your whole life ahaha
Haha, yeah! I used to be meh about clothing, but the more we go through life and can no longer rationalize appearances not being important, I just dress because I figure there's an objective reason to.. sometimes I'll just be putting on makeup in the morning with the intention to impress with my work without sacrificing femininity - even if on the inside I could care less about being feminine or what I am on the outside at all :P Afterall, sad truth is people give any second thoughts towards you if you just dress average, but good truth is it just takes simple window dressing once you have the money . Ah, once I had money getting older I had the ability to make whatever human suit I wanted
I am 22 but i am starting to be obnoxiously self-aware about my looks and weight, so much so I am being paranoid about losing 5 kgs to reach my ideal weight and beating myself for not being in a good shape SO MUCH SO i for some screwed up reason cannot buy new clothes until i reach that weight. And yeah, it's been 4months lmao
Don't have the storage place for many outfits. I hate to spend too much time, money and allocate space for new clothes. I think I would do more clothingwise in a bigger home. I see practical value in it, but in many cases, a shitty cloth just works fine, as I don't feel the need to impress stupid people, unless I want something from them. But then again, most of the time there are easier ways to get what I need.
@@gracev7855 Yesssss. I can relate to all of that.
I changed at about 25... I'm 27 now, and much more comfortable with that new normal and timeless personal style thing. 😂
Met an INTP recently - so interesting and endearing! Adorably childlike with the occasional bout of random moodiness. I think a more developed INTP would be ideal as I love introverts overall.
I used to only wear the same combination of t-shirt with a skirt/pair of pants, but then I discovered Love Nikki - a game where you collect clothes and accessories to win fashion battles - and making outfits became a hobby. It made me interested for a while, but eventually I got lazy and now I just... make "efficient" stylish outfits.
can confirm. I started understanding fashion (and have been subsequently using it to get free social credit as a supposedly well adjusted adult) after getting into character design.
Funny! I was trying to see a face or screen or some kind of picture and then... I realized... of course INTP! My bf INTP is not a fan of being recorded and quite insistent against it. I can spot an INTP’s a mile away! Quite accurate lol 😂
Social chameleon-ing is a worthwhile skill to have for us INTPs, I think. It validates our Fe when done right. I’d suggest using Ne to look for patterns in intonations, you’d be surprised how predictable speech can be, especially small talk. Pair this with Si to develop muscle memory for the sounds and their corresponding response. You’d know if it’s a “yes” or “no” question by listening to the flow of the sentence without listening to all the words. You’d know when an agreeable chuckle is the best way to make light of the situation. If you stutter, exaggerate it like you’re joking around. Listen to every other word and throw in a well-placed pun so it wouldn’t seem like you aren’t listening. Ti-Ne can be used to lead conversations into a payoff or a punchline. All these are things that I do to nurture my Fe.
What I’ve realized about the cognitive stack is that we have to first develop our more dominant functions before we can access the lower. It’s like strengthening our rope first before going deeper into the well. Even the shadow functions are accessible if we’ve developed our Inferior Fe enough. Being able to use my Nemesis Te without being pressured has actually made me start hobbies that I would’ve otherwise talked myself out of; Child Si can be a bitc* for comfort like that, and Dominant Ti can stop us cold on our tracks when we feel our course of action ain’t foolproof enough. But, then again, there are people less competent than us that get the results that we can only imagine...just because they started doing things even when it’s not accurate enough for us.
Currently, I’m trying my best to connect with my Trickster Se, and it’s a pain. I think that I’d have to turn off my Ti-Ne feedback system to fully use it. And it’s hard. I try to mimic Se function by using Ne-Si, though, by walking briskly on thin pathways where I can get out of balance and fall off if I don’t get in touch with my surroundings. Si for muscle memory to keep my balance and Ne for mapping all the possibilities of me falling off. It’s kinda working, but I don’t think it’s enough for me to proceed to the Demon function yet. 😅
I love that you added storm background. I love storms.
this explains why i go to the mall thinking i'll buy "cute clothes" and end up with the same champion t-shirt i already have in two different colours
The only time you're gonna find me in anything other than sweatpants and a t-shirt is at a funeral
lol i would attend the funeral with a black t-shirt and black pants
i mean technically you wouldn't need to dress well right..? u just need to wear dark coloured clothing
(pls correct me if im wrong)
As INTP 25 yrs old female.
I can relate to your each point 100%, but since I'm a girl, I can tell you some more about me.
Yes I put earphone all the time to the point my family hates me because of it specially my sis, she is INFP.
I hate arguments, I ran away from arguments.
I ask silly questions that people tell me I'm mad.
My dressing sense is very casual, I don't wear earrings or any bracelet or even makeup. I wear loose clothes, cotton, soft comfortable clothes, even in party, and I totally stand out because of it.
Many made fun of my dressings, my ex best friend also taught me how to dress, to the point she broke friendship with me because of it. And for many reasons.
I don't upload my selfies on social media. I don't use my real name on social media that's made me insecure that people who used to be my classmates would sent request to me. I have barely 59 followers on insta. And people kept unfollowing me bcz of my weird posts and my weird name which I change time after time.
I like to study so many topics, I can give my hours and hours to know more, I listen lectures to double my knowledge. I use all social media but like a unknown user.
I love flat chest, I wish I could flat my chest, what a bunch of luggage. So heavy tho I'm only 49kg.
I don't cut my hair, It's below my waist. I adore it
Yes I have emotional less face and eyes. I rarely smile. I tried to smile many times it looks so fake. My mother and sister hates it when I do that. Nobody likes my smile at home.
I struggle behaving normal infront of gathering, my mother slaps me with harsh words after ending of gathering. That I don't know what to say on when.
Yes I don't go outside alot until it's emergency. My parents kick me to go atleast to my lawn and watch birds and sky and tress.
I graduated in physics, chemistry and maths, after that I got lost. Master degree looks waste to me.
I don't listen songs unless it has meaning.
I hate romance, I'm single. I saw thumbnail. I clicked. Coz that happened to me, a couple were doing weird things in empty classroom I was on the front seat, I looked back and caught them doing that thing, then I told my one and only friend about it, and I gave that scene a name and wrote on my friend's arm. Lmao
I literally have no friends since everyone left me. My mother curse me alot, my whole family. I wish I can shift to different place soon and have my life with peace and silence, so I can think a lot❤️
Damn. And like you don't idk miss ppl and stuff? I am an intp or infp, not 100% sure but I don't really have many friends, am most of the time alone and I kinda hate it 😅. I do care about ppl but I just can't make it work with them (Te/Fe as my last function..). If you ever have your Fe calling you up, you can't ignore it. You do need ppl and it will just get worse and worse with time, even if rn you are fine with being alone (like completely alone, I obviously like to spend time alone but I don't like the feeling is lonelyness)
Did you say party? No INTP goes to a party ever unless they are forced to.
@@faeditopf no I talked about how I dress even in party, I hardly go in parties
@@richeeg3271 you're right, I need people, but when I found out they don't have time and they're busy, so I step back
@Lestrange Bellatrix my sister is weird her personality is now INFJ hahah, btw nice to know that there are people like me 💚
I can't relate to the "screwing up" part.
When meeting people it's like
'This is who I am, take it or leave it.'
If I'm not their cup of tea, I don't have a problem with that.
I'm honest and I plan things out and strategize every activity in advance or on the spot.
It's extremely rare if I do come across someone who's a step ahead of me, and I know this sounds quite arrogant, but really, I'm not trying to toot my own horn here , it's like playing chess, some people are genuine, and others have different intentions.. it's key to figure them out and do the homework without them noticing a thing and be prepared to strike when the situation changes in an unfortunate direction.
I agree. If someone doesn't like me because of my personality, I just shrug and walk away.
I strategize weeks ahead, but its always ruined because of some unforeseen event happening and I lose everything I've planned for.
I can usually tell when someone is trying to use me for something, but I have encountered no one who has been able to slip past my defenses. The hard part is figuring out intentions, then the easy part is doing research on them until I can figure out a weak spot.
And yes, I play chess a lot rather than talk to people, so I always see things strategically.
chameleon intp here. it's easy to 'fit in' when you don't really know that person| group of people. it gets harder over time when you are getting to know a specific person on a deeper level. they expect you to pick up on certain moods and emotions that are really subtle and require a lot of emotional understanding. I can't relate and will always unwillingly or willingly distance myself from this person to avoid conflict. thus most of these people are acquaintances at best. bloody exhausting. wouldn't recommend for every day use.
(I did use it a lot while I was working as a server to gain tips though and yes, I started serving because I was too detached and needed to challenge myself. it's repetitive (ugh small talk) but it helps you take notice of what other people categorise as normal behaviour.)
I have to say man just listening to that literally made my day! I have never heard someone put that many accurately placed pins on a personality that I've been explaining to the same people so many times over and over but finally just said this is just how it is. And then start thinking maybe I actually am completely stupid. because no one around me has ever once understood what I was saying even after I re phrased it like 20 times to see if a different word placements would maybe summon something that takes away your ability to speak and will be able to hear me now instead of getting high off hearing yourself talk! Literally man I'm 28 and had pretty much gave up trying to make people who can't see outside of their little box that got handed down to them. The most frustrating thing is that my idea is knocking on the front door of their box but the the previous generation sealed all the exits. So thank you for just being you man. Getting to hear someone who is a complete stranger perfectly explain who I am. The occasional mask and the core! This must be how people stuck in a foreign country for years not understanding the language and finally hear someone who can understand you and you understand. Made my fucking day!
oh my word the "Just trying to survive during social interactions" hit so hard
I don't know my type but I know I am just crazy about INTPs...I can see them.They are so cute and deep in the same moment, independent thinkers,they let you just be who you are, they sacrifice themselves just to avoid conflict,they care and love SO deeply people have no idea 🙊
You are one in tens of millions
Who are you... like seriously
How you do that.. you have beautiful eyes to see it and im really thankful and lucky to find your comment. God bless you.
@@SongoQ911 ;)
@@MsSturbuck my head goes round and round. Typing and deleting. Im intrigued and its weird feeling. I better go 😅
@@SongoQ911 You can type anything I can handle it promise ;)
As an introvert with social friends and parents that undermined every one of my interests unless it was art or school related, can relate to the whole Mask thing and will absolutely talk about anything with anyone who is remotely interested
-intp
Everytime I tried to talk about something I liked when I was younger everyone talked over me, so now I'm just clutching onto anyone who wants to listen to me ramble about something I like haha
It's like someone is exposing me gently, btw what a nice background sounds of thunder, it's raining at my place too.
The clothing thing as others mentioned it was pretty accurate I generally look like crap in inappropriate settings and if I do dress up I try my best to apply comfort and I will only dress in the same outfits repeatedly. Thank you for this video it’s pretty insightful. I re-took a test recently and again im intp-t. I often ramble on with my sentences to get to a simple answers, I also can not fake being in social situations if I am smiling in that situation it is likely forced and an “ugly” smile so I just don’t anyways and never had the want to consistently, therefore I have resting bitch face and eyes that have a problem with eye contact. This video felt like now that I have a personality label I can understand myself a lot better.
Really enjoying these mbti vids!
I'm happy to hear that, and I appreciate your support
It's funny that you say 'in the wild' xD
The captive INTP may exhibit different behaviours, this is why they must be observed in markets, cafés and local gamestores.
@@JohnSmith-ox3gy fascinating creatures found one 0 metres away from me
Just discovered your channel. Great analysis.
I think if I could replace ants, I'd bioengineer a species that built giant earthworks/earthships habitable for humans. You couldn't exactly sit down with your army of little workers and tell them to provide x amount of space for your kitchen cabinets, but it would be free and sustainable. I've heard some scientists propose we use crustaceans to grow shells into molds that will replace plastic disposables. Either way, we could do with more cross-species cooperation.
Thank you for making this. I found it very helpful. And your humor, is awesome.
-ENTJ
This all rang true for me, and the background thunderstorm sounds were nice.
I am the smiling INTP
Me too
idk when i was yonger i was always smliing now i cant even do it for 10 mins without feel it like a workout lol
@@tripplefives1402 yes, specially when i am stressed out
Ugh. 4th function Fe is painful...
- wrinkles on face from smiling so much and nodding to make it appear I’m listening
- stress out when getting dressed before an event because I don’t know what to wear to fit in
- reading way too much into people’s body language and tone of voice.
For the longest time I thought I was INFJ...
Totally agree with the taking people through the full journey to make a point. Some other “get to the point” types are too impatient to follow that journey 😂
I am rarely thoroughly engaged throughout such a long video. I find myself getting bored with videos that are even only 2-3 minutes long, but not this one. Extremely interesting, well done. Subscribed.
INTP here - I do not go out often, but when I do, I certainly do not require f-f-frynds(?), f-frands(?), Frends(?)--whatever, i don't have any anyway, who needs to ever spell it... The point is, I have been so alone for so long that I am neither afraid of it nor am I ashamed. The rest of the world may think I am a character in their own personal horror movie because I crash their party or show up in their bar with my RBF and no one else and attempt to interact with no one--except, the people they're all afraid to talk to but secretly want to, the hottest and/or the weirdest as though they are normal hoomans too, because there are no rules. There will be a polar response to me among everyone, including the people I ignored/ignored me. Then I will disappear, most likely because that was enough social effort for the next month or so, but if anyone ever sees me out again, they will treat it like a B-list celebrity sighting... OR maybe that is just how it is in my head, I can't really tell.
love the black background at night 👌
I was classified as both an INTP and ENTP. I think it’s because I’ve forced myself outside of my comfort zone enough to where socializing isn’t as much of an issue, but I’m not a faker either so I appear shy at first while I’m in my observation stage. My trick has always been to steer conversations in the direction of mutual interests so that I can maximize the effectiveness of the conversation. Small talk still isn’t that good for me, but I’ve found that actions speak louder than words in most situations.
I don't know if this is an INTP thing or not but I think it is. Relating to the eye contact thing (coming from an ENTJ who stares people down), my ex who I'm pretty sure is an INTP could not look me in the eye at all and would absolutely avoid it until she couldn't anymore (in more intimate situations) at which point she looked like a deer in headlights and her brain would seemingly stop thinking/become overwhelmed, but not in a bad way.
I laugh so hard when you said infj are weird in sarcastic way. And I totally agree with you... sometimes I cringe at myself so hard like i want to slap myself to get myself together.
-Infj
Fe Ti self-cringe gang.
@@Skimmerlit this makes me want to get a intp friend in real life... tbh I knew the fact the infj and intp can get along when I try to guess my favorite Minecraft TH-camr Technoblade. He sound like an intp
Clothes feel forced to me, like they are a necessary evil. I hate shopping and would rather just wait for someone to clean out their closet and give me stuff. I believe that my body is just a means of transportation for my brain and I don’t see a point in dressing it up. I’ve got better things to think about.
I'm very close to trying a mumu
Please do more of these videos omg, you could literally talk about any subject and go on a bunch of tangents and I will faithfully watch it :))
I also don't fit with INTP dressing only for comfort. Couple years ago I found a particular silhouette that enhanced my attractiveness and although my fashion style evolved in many directions I always stick to it. I've spent many hours in front off my mirror to create ready to go outfits so you could say that I am wearing the same outfits over and over again but I have so many of them that I think no one can notice.
Also I really like tight fitting clothes around the waist, I'm always wearing dresses and skirts. I could say that those type of clothing is comfortable for me because skirts leave a lot of freedom for the bottom part of the body and the thightiness around the waist helps with my anxiety because I feel like someone is hugging me. Also it controls my posture.
So I guess in the end I will agree with you on that matter but with my own personal view on it.
I'm focusing a lot on clothing because It helps me create a particular persona for different occasion. I've realised that people treat you differently depending on how you look so I use it to my advantage.
The merging groups thing is very true lol. When I had my delinquent friends in highschool I would get very uncomfortable bringing them around my parents because I had two different personas I would put on around them. The little angel child around my parents and the delinquent jokester around my friends😂
My favourite INTP I've met online. He was in a small friend group that I somehow started gaming with. He was very silent at first, but when he voiced stuff, it was always something I resonated with, so I added him right away. And then at some point we started to play with just the two of us and he started to share interests with me and, again, I was absolutely resonating with it. But no one knows really anything tangible about him. Aside from his brother maybe, but even the brother doesn't seem to really know what's going on with him most of the time. No one knows what the guy looks like or where exactly he lives (as in which town). Not even close online friends he knows for years and seems to be rather fond of. Anytime someone new enters the conversation, he's basically gone. But as soon as they are gone, he goes back to normal instantly.
He's witty and funny and we can debate stuff without any hard feelings arising. Absolutely love and respect the dude. And I don't even really like most people. Asked him out a few times by now, but I think I scare him a little. He needed 3 months to tell me he's not sure what the right thing to do is. But he keeps coming back, so I'm not giving up xD
I'm an ambiverted ENTP btw. A fairly healthy one that doesn't need to bring anyone down to feel fulfilled, but I still sometimes step on people's weak spots accidentally. Oopsie.
Wish me luck, please hahaha.
Btw. if you have any tips, I'm eager to learn.
Don’t hurt him. If you do, make it painless and a teachable moment. Wishing you two scary people the best of luck.
@@Skimmerlit I'd never! At least not intentionally and I'm not above seeing my own shortcomings and apologising. My other favourite people are all sensitive types, many ISFJs and a INFJs im rather protective of hahaha. I can be a bit forceful if I'm very sure of something, but I'm working on that.
@@julyol119 If he's not sure what the right thing to do is, he's either divided on liking you but there's an issue (distance, social convention, some secret like he's not got legs or something, etc) OR he feels obligated to date you (you like him, he wants to date someone, how can he complain when he's rejecting you? He should just date you) but he doesn't like that feeling of obligation and is ambivalent towards you (not feeling a spark, basically- which I don't think is something an INTP should base their dating off of, their sparks are garbage indicators, but some people just like to have a spark, you know?). In either case, the most generally useful recommendation I can give would be to give him 3 things: Space to figure out the situation, presence so he doesn't feel like you are gone/leaving and remembers you exist, and lastly, a sample of benefits, so he knows what he can gain/is missing. Its up to your clever intuition to figure out the balance of these three, and what each of these means from his perspective. Some INTPS need a lot of space, others just need a few hours. Some would benefit from an intuitive sense of loving connection, others might desire something more real. Some INTPs feel abandoned after a week, others a month, and some a day. So, I leave all that to you. Also, I trust you as an ENTP to know I don't mean degrade yourself in any way on the sample aspect- you know all the suave moves- use them lol. You also mentioned you feel you might scare him- you can always discuss things rationally with an INTP, so if you're worried about that, ask him. You can't manipulate the INTP, unfortunately, so this is the best advice i can give you.
@@ClockworkAnomaly Thank you for taking the time to reply to me :)
I think I'm already doing many of the things the way you proposed.
Only the benefit thing could be somewhat difficult. I'm offering things, but he neither declines nor agrees to really anything, aside of this one time he let me know he wasn't sure. I don't have his address, so can't even send him a present or something, aside of on steam etc.
And I appreciate that he doesn't try and fake it, but I'm not gonna force or manipulate him. I'm a win (at least I'm somewhat sure of that) and will not be treated like a consolation price. Or be kept warm for later.
In the end, I know I made it clear that our friendship comes first and anything else is optional and no hard feelings. And that I don't care about most things most people worry about (like looks or money, I actually don't care, I can take care of that myself; and fk social norms, as a sociologist I know where those come from haha).
So I feel like by now the romance ball is in his court and the best I can do is to not get too frustrated. Which is sometimes hard for someone like me, who knows what they want and is not afraid to get hurt while trying to get it. But I'm in no rush anyhow.
@@julyol119 awesome ^^ just keep in mind the INTP is naturally passive as an I/P so the males struggle with the norm of them making the advances (I know you've done everything you can!). Wish you the best!
I dress well if the shirt happens to look good, but the intention is for comfort.
I have such a difficult time finding my fellow INTP’s, so as a strategy I would blurt our questions regarding abstract philosophical concept, or questions in physics, or talk about high concept TV shows right out of the blue. I would get quite an amazing response from other INTP’s, and even the odd INTJ. It’s like they would magically appear from thin air!
this video was so relatable to the point I felt like my brain was outside of my body and talking to me about myself lol this was an awesome video.
I’m an INFP who’s recently (few months ago) met an INTP online, and he’s so damn cool. Seriously, I admire you guys so much. Wish I knew more of you.
I am almost 40 and my new doctor is an INTP and I'm like, "where have you been?" I'm an INFJ. I NEED that Ne parent on my side!!!!! That mature brain that loves my ideas . . .like heaven for my little kid Ti. I come out knowing I've been heard and maybe even that my ideas have been improved upon...or at least we've done some research and learned something. Soooo much better than other doctors that "know better." Stay weird guys! You help in your own way!!!!
never really heard someone go into such subtleties and detailed quirks about the intp like this and i
the eyes are the biggest give away, most people get fooled by those eyes but i think there is kindness behind those blank eyes, more then ISTPs at least.
wow it feels so good to actually listen to someone who understands when my entire family and 'friends' label me as a quiet and unfriendly bish.
What if
That’s so weird what you said about the clothing. I’m pretty sure I’m an INTP but I love clothes 😂 and making outfits and stuff just for the fun of it and I don’t like re wearing outfits Cos I like to see how many different combinations I can make. But I do identify with the comfort, I have certain outfits I just revert to automatically if I cba
Oh and is it just me who actually hates conversing with people online 😂 I can barely discern sarcasm and social queues irl now u want me to do that where I have nothing to help me barring a limited use of emojis?? And don’t get me started on knowing when it’s social appropriate to stop talking to someone online 😅
oh my me too! intp and i love timeless personal style & wardrobe planning!
i think about a lot of outfits,clothes combo but i still wear the same shirt and jeans.my family are all fashionable sensors so i actually have a lot of clothes but i don't dress like them.they even call me 'old fashioned' because of my style.
I think as INTPs we tend to be passionate about things we take interest in, so if clothes and style are one of those interest it makes sense why you enjoy it so much. I am the same way, I love finding new looks and styles as an INTP.
I'm interested in learning about these creatures that are intps I am an intj and basically I see tons of similarities and I've done the research and one has the strengths and the others has the weakness but it's vice versa is like yin and yang I believe both put together could freaking change the world
Your videos are so insightful! I hope you upload one about intps with the “unsettling Fe grip”
any other intps start hyperventilating and freaking out when pants or shirts are too tight? 💀
Yes hate it
Yeahh, I haven't changed the way I do my makeup in like, a year and a half. It's the exact same. Every. Single. Time. However, I do dress nicely because I care a bit too much about what people think of me
Same :) Sometimes I want to change it, buy some stuff, and that's why I have twenty lipsticks and never use them ;p
@@sylvia470 OMG YESSS! I have too many lipsticks
“Advice for INTP’s. Keep your fucking mouth shut.”
Me: “Could’ve been nicer, but you have a point.”
It always freaks out my buddy when I have to fill in as a SV at my job, because I go from the "IDGAF I'm gonna wear my hoodie and earbuds don't fuckin bug me till my youtube vid is over" to "my uniform is pressed and my face is friendly and inviting, how may I help you today?" and while I hate putting that mask on, sometimes its fun to see the reactions I get lol
Me being an INTP who is interested in fashion ✌✌
Have the best sense of style among my friends.
People Ask me for fashion advice.
Looking amazing in any kind of clothing.
Conclusion: if INTP is interested in anything they will rock it
not me pausing the video to contemplate replacement ants...
I must be an INTP who doesnt fake it friends often give me clothes because i will wear stuff until it turns to rags i get peoples leftover shoes because i will wear mine until they fall apart and then duct tape them i broke my glasses and made an earpiece out of those placker things you pick your teeth with and wore those for months
Most accurate INTP video I’ve watched over the years. Fucking hell....
As an intp i have many clothes with very similar types and colors, I didn't realize I was buying the identical basicly the same cloth
You have a soothing voice - a fellow intp
I love your videos and your perspective. Please upload more vids! Subscribed❤️
I'm INTP and my style is fabulous mwahahahahahahaahaha. I like to look good (but to myself, I have my own sense of fashion and stick to it)
To me it's just the colour black and white never really bother thinking about changing it
Yeah, I only wear black or dark shades of gray with just a little of other collors to create a discrete contrast, but most of time, just black.
@@tatsuyas.drakensang4826 one style makes everything easier whether you go for a colour or for comfort
@@wess1911 Yeeeeeaahhh. Except for when I really want to step into a place and impress (for the good or for the bad) I dress like I were the protagonist of an action movie mixed with an Final Fantasy villain. In those cases is a but unconfortable, less mobility. But do I care? No sir
@@tatsuyas.drakensang4826 actually when you were a kid say 10-12 did you change you clothes frequently 2-3
Do other INTPs listen/watch content sped up? I normally listen on 2x and sometimes 2.5x and 1.5x sometimes if the visual is important or complex
Chrome extension called video speed controller.
Niceeee. This is pretty much on point. I’m a new sub.
The dark abyss of this video is nice
It was great because i can scroll deep into the comment section and i dont miss anything that happens in the video.
The rain in the background is soothing
"You want to meet an INTP"
Me: Check the library...
Bookworm intp stereotype?
@@otakus1216 yup!! Trust me I have my reasons for it :)
Damn this was so accurate would be nice if there was one of these in-depth analyses for all of the types
Issue with that is INTPs are typically your in depth analysis people but they aren’t the other types and we can’t read people’s thoughts.
I want to meet an intp man. -infj lady
Also to get an INTP talking, just mention some conspiracy theories in their presence Lol!
I don't think your hypothetical was stupid. In fact, I wish it was the standard for small talk.
ps: My super insect would secrete pheromones to disperse the colony but would not prey on the ants. It would be like a really stinky bug that forces the ants to build smaller more disparate colonies. I think it would help with giant anthills and/or pits that I keep tripping over. lol
My insect would infiltrate ant mounds and kill the queen/her possible replacements, but instead of leaving the colony to rot it would somehow hijack the hive mind (probably with pheremones) and use the ants as slaves to build nests for and feed its young. Kinda like a Cuckoo bird of insect kingdom.
@@theshambler6814 This sounds like a David Lynch movie. Intriguing.
2 and a half minutes in and everything youve said so far about us intps has been on the mark
Everything is too accurate, and I'm scared-
Fist off my wife is an ISTJ . That alone has helped me the most . I’m an intp who is mildly aggressive , who dresses well and loves shopping lol . And I don’t fake it .( I was a model )Yes I have only have set outfits tho and cycle them within each other .
Also I have and run a business dealing with the public an hour or more at a time per person whom I Chamaeleon to BTW. But this has thought me a lot and has improved myself a ton . And learned to use in a regular public setting. I have tried to put myself outside of my comfort zone constantly . It’s freeing . But I still love to hide at home with very few friends lol. With eye contact, I make eye contact when I am hitting my point in conversation
as a keen smiley goofy intp, i definitely had to work hard to become as such and that was because i wanted to make friends. my goal was to be as genuine & authentic to who i an but also push myseld to go out of my comfort zone. some days i decide to be a recluse and shut-in and it’s really fun and amazing. but i’m at the point now where i’m mostly comfortable around people (unless they cross me or show thwir true colors as a jackass, in that case - good riddance, stereotypical intp comes out)
i also love dumb hypotheticals & the word sustanance. infps also love dumbass hypotheticals i’ve learned
In terms of clothes it would mean that almost every anime and cartoon characters are INTPs... :P