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ENTJ here - the thing about learning isn't that we do not appreciate being taught or need multiple lessons, but rather a lesson only sticks and remains ingrained in our mind through adversity. It's when we are faced with failure over something that we should know - should being the operative word - and ought to be trivial that our mind flips the switch and combs through the ocean of information we have at our disposal to fix said mistake. To make sure it never happens again. The other thing that occurs concurrently to that is almost akin to pattern recognition. Once we figure out the solution or spot the error, we automatically store that correlation in our brains and henceforth see that mistake every time in the future without fail. Even if there's a sizeable time gap between those two events. Great video!
@@ABC-jq7ve To put it bluntly, yes. I do the same when it pertains to other instances where all the variables are known beforehand. Basically finding out what's *the* most optimal path for A -> B and applying it nearly automatically in the future.
Straightforward, authentic in their personal life and they are cute when they get scared of their emotions.ENTJ are never scared, except when they are in love.The more in love they are, the more scared they become
There was this ESFP girl I worked with. We connected deeply. This connection was so strong for me that I was opening myself up, as an ENTJ I always had hard time with this. I falled for this girl and I know I shouldn't have. My intuition was working against me, picking only the patterns that allign with my desires. It was so conflicting and drowning. Finally I was able to see things clearer. I distanced myself and keep my guard up in every interaction. It is really devastating. She is a good friend but I am afraid of falling for her again. It is appearent that she is not happy about me putting distance between us. I also feel bad about this but I have to put myself first. Well thank you for reading. I needed to vent this out.
You are spot on about the searching for keys/wallet twice per week, but I will remember key pieces of conversations or valuable information forever. Or close enough. Loved it, cheers.
Sometimes it takes me time to “believe” something I am being taught is true. So I will disregard something I was taught two more times. Typically on the third error I will accept that what I was taught is actually “true”. We learn so much in process but also we are testing if in fact it is “true”. Not sure that makes sense. I’m not actually conscious that I am doing this. It could be something as easy as searing meat or writing a paper. Also, I need strong reasons to adopt what I am learning. The more pragmatic the reason the quicker I am to adopt the learning. I guess I am paranoid. I shock myself how my mind can conjure up the exact information I need while working on something. I don’t know how it happens. Sometimes I feel I’m part robot. 😂
I really appreciate the reasoning behind cutting the old man off trying to make friends with you because you have no shared interest. You kept it respectful, yet somehow direct and easy to agree with. I'm also an ENTJ and I hate shallow relationship mainly because I can't follow them myself. So I'd rather have an attempt with a friendship that didn't work but for a good reason, than have a "friend" that just wanted me as an addition to their already ever growing social circle. I'm down with mingling and making fun social convos, but that doesn't mean I'm automatically your friend and that I'm indebted to your favors.
I think the reason it seems like we’re using personas is that, in part, we are, but that’s only really because some of us don’t know who we are without them, so we adopt and associate personas with environments, and make adjustments to the personas to adapt. It’s essentially a build-a-bear, but with identity, and a lot more sad in a way. I, myself, am conscious of this everytime I do it, but I honestly don’t know how I couldn’t. I don’t know what there’s left if you were to remove that. I’ve had a few “one things” in my life, but right now, I’m very lost, and missing that one passion project.
As an eNTJ I use 'libraries'and I just create a map of the instructions to use over and over again until I remember. A key. Concrete examples are helpful. Trial and error is helpful.
Searching for phone, keys etc... at least twice per week, at least, going to a room and not remembering what for... daily. But I will recall conversations almost like I had a tape recorder. Concerning the kids not applying the taught rules, that is surprising to me, but I see it in my students too regardless of personality types probably. I have to make it an specific assignment for the realization to happen.
Upon meeting any new individual... I assign them free 100 tokens of trust... And soon enough the number reaches to zero by them showing minor acts of betrayal. But for ENTJs I assign them 100 tokens... They get it to 50, then accidentally 1500 then i start trusting them and lend 3000 which they get back to -1500 and the moment i start distancing myself from them, they get it back to 6000... Then 12000... And the again -5000... ... ... And this shit continues till we die. I still don't understand should I keep em or not🤕
They reciprocate loyalty, provide direct communication, can be extremely generous, show initiative, act as a rational sound board for ideas, and they make you stronger by nature of how they work...... atleast from an INFP perspective. I had to do some digging to understand some of the "quirks" but once I understood them the positives out weighed the negatives.
its just the feeling of them being very genuine to you, very embracing without them even trying hard. and its funny because they dont use Fe like that. its hard to explain.
@@madlynlithasyaI’m an ENTJ woman and is interesting how people describe us, we are honestly fast thinkers so we don’t really pay attention to how we come across mostly to INTP since they act so conveniently kind to us, some of them often quiet but they will show with actions how they feel more than words… it is complex
@@Manifestingqueenn i’m an intj, but im dating an entj, my brother’s an entj, and my youth leader is an entj. im sorrounded by entjs. the most obvious thing i notice is that you guys dont really try hard since you want to do things in the most efficient way but also unconsciously always provide warm environment for other people if not in stressful situations. i’m not that warm of a person so i really admire that.
15:38, I am a 20 year old ENTJ male and I'm aware of this but I do it unconsciously. Don't exactly know why but my theory is tha if more people of mi surrounding are with me theres less people on my way to get to my goal ?!. Don't know, love your videos
Hey Skimmerlit. I'm stuck between two typings - ENTJ and ISTP. Both fit well. Both make sense considering that I lead with a Thinking Function. Both make sense insofar as my middle functions are highly likely to be a combination of Ni/Se. I exhibit some strong traits of both types, almost falling "in the middle between the archetypal behaviors and motivations of both types." I'm curious of what your thoughts on the matter may be. Thanks!
I am kinda in the same boat as you. I am an ISTP, but I would find some similarities between ENTP/ENTJ, so much so that it had me questioning my MBTI type, but I'm pretty sure I am an ISTP. That's when I looked for Enneagram. Type 5 is most associated with ISTP, but I've been getting either 7w8 (associated with ENTP) or 8w7 (associated with ENTJ). Of those two, I think I am a 7w8, so that would explain why I resonate with ENTP so much. But when I get serious about something, I can see why I would resonate with 8w7.
Thanks for the video video .. great insight this is so true i have a really good intp friend and i sometimes wonder why does he like me sometimes im confused but i think the feeling is mutual..
I'm only 5 mins into the vid but i will probably forget to comment if I wait longer. It sounds like this entj has played you and simply acquired a dedicated ally through his "charm" and that will help him against his enemies. Although that's just a theory and what do I know lol
These kind of videos are the only times I feel actually seen. It definitely made me laugh and feel good. Validation. No one actually recognizes those small things that I love to do. Like seriously validating me I wish people could see. Crying 🔪 but laughing but still a cunt too.
My novelette is available. Picking it up and leaving a positive review would be a tremendous help to me. Thank you.
Novelette:
www.amazon.com/dp/B09XL1VWJW/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2O9IAGTS3FCV2&keywords=skimmerlit+book&qid=1649553882&sprefix=skimmerlit+book%2Caps%2C132&sr=8-1
ENTJ here - the thing about learning isn't that we do not appreciate being taught or need multiple lessons, but rather a lesson only sticks and remains ingrained in our mind through adversity. It's when we are faced with failure over something that we should know - should being the operative word - and ought to be trivial that our mind flips the switch and combs through the ocean of information we have at our disposal to fix said mistake. To make sure it never happens again. The other thing that occurs concurrently to that is almost akin to pattern recognition. Once we figure out the solution or spot the error, we automatically store that correlation in our brains and henceforth see that mistake every time in the future without fail. Even if there's a sizeable time gap between those two events.
Great video!
So basically doesn’t that mean you just do a shit ton of problems and pattern match against the right answer enough times until you learn it?
@@ABC-jq7ve To put it bluntly, yes. I do the same when it pertains to other instances where all the variables are known beforehand. Basically finding out what's *the* most optimal path for A -> B and applying it nearly automatically in the future.
Straightforward, authentic in their personal life and they are cute when they get scared of their emotions.ENTJ are never scared, except when they are in love.The more in love they are, the more scared they become
I hate how scared of their feelings they are
There was this ESFP girl I worked with. We connected deeply. This connection was so strong for me that I was opening myself up, as an ENTJ I always had hard time with this.
I falled for this girl and I know I shouldn't have. My intuition was working against me, picking only the patterns that allign with my desires. It was so conflicting and drowning.
Finally I was able to see things clearer. I distanced myself and keep my guard up in every interaction. It is really devastating. She is a good friend but I am afraid of falling for her again. It is appearent that she is not happy about me putting distance between us. I also feel bad about this but I have to put myself first.
Well thank you for reading. I needed to vent this out.
It's that TeSe-SeTe connection paried with the fact both of your aux functions Ni and Fi would help with your inf functions, which are also Fi and Ni
Coward😢 what's the worst it can happen
"They have no conscious direction over the reason you like them (ie they cant fuck it up or use it against you)" Brilliant observation.
You are spot on about the searching for keys/wallet twice per week, but I will remember key pieces of conversations or valuable information forever. Or close enough. Loved it, cheers.
Set speed to 2x for normal speed
Entp here..I forgot mine was on 1.25× 😬😬😬
I do this too lmao but I noticed on x1 I actually have the space to think deeper on each point made and find more applications on the fly
mines on 1.75
Classic Te move
It's literally impossible for me to watch anything not on double speed. Netflix's 1.5 speed limit cap drives me crazy
Sometimes it takes me time to “believe” something I am being taught is true. So I will disregard something I was taught two more times. Typically on the third error I will accept that what I was taught is actually “true”. We learn so much in process but also we are testing if in fact it is “true”. Not sure that makes sense. I’m not actually conscious that I am doing this. It could be something as easy as searing meat or writing a paper.
Also, I need strong reasons to adopt what I am learning. The more pragmatic the reason the quicker I am to adopt the learning. I guess I am paranoid.
I shock myself how my mind can conjure up the exact information I need while working on something. I don’t know how it happens. Sometimes I feel I’m part robot. 😂
I really appreciate the reasoning behind cutting the old man off trying to make friends with you because you have no shared interest. You kept it respectful, yet somehow direct and easy to agree with.
I'm also an ENTJ and I hate shallow relationship mainly because I can't follow them myself. So I'd rather have an attempt with a friendship that didn't work but for a good reason, than have a "friend" that just wanted me as an addition to their already ever growing social circle. I'm down with mingling and making fun social convos, but that doesn't mean I'm automatically your friend and that I'm indebted to your favors.
I think the reason it seems like we’re using personas is that, in part, we are, but that’s only really because some of us don’t know who we are without them, so we adopt and associate personas with environments, and make adjustments to the personas to adapt. It’s essentially a build-a-bear, but with identity, and a lot more sad in a way. I, myself, am conscious of this everytime I do it, but I honestly don’t know how I couldn’t. I don’t know what there’s left if you were to remove that. I’ve had a few “one things” in my life, but right now, I’m very lost, and missing that one passion project.
It's kind like Fe users, especially enfjs
As an eNTJ I use 'libraries'and I just create a map of the instructions to use over and over again until I remember. A key. Concrete examples are helpful. Trial and error is helpful.
I like you,
listening to you talk, relaxes my shit Fi
Hahahahhaha idk why but yup. I like listening to intps talk in general.
This was so much cold water to the face, but I've also rarely felt so seen lol thank you for both!
Searching for phone, keys etc... at least twice per week, at least, going to a room and not remembering what for... daily. But I will recall conversations almost like I had a tape recorder. Concerning the kids not applying the taught rules, that is surprising to me, but I see it in my students too regardless of personality types probably. I have to make it an specific assignment for the realization to happen.
Maybe the not remembering has something to do with their PoLR Si.. (if such truly exists)
Concept from socionics doesn't exist in og mbti theory
Great talk, delivery and insights into our personality.
Thank you so much for your videos ,they are helping me a lot💜
Upon meeting any new individual... I assign them free 100 tokens of trust... And soon enough the number reaches to zero by them showing minor acts of betrayal. But for ENTJs I assign them 100 tokens... They get it to 50, then accidentally 1500 then i start trusting them and lend 3000 which they get back to -1500 and the moment i start distancing myself from them, they get it back to 6000... Then 12000... And the again -5000... ... ... And this shit continues till we die.
I still don't understand should I keep em or not🤕
Fuck this is true
That way they never really leave your mind
You think about them! I like to see myself as a permanent cliffhanger
I get infinite chances with most people. Or they just hate me. No in-between.
feels like im stroking my ego
I really like the background voice of waterfall.🥳
Now I’m curious what are the things that keep you loyal to ENTJ?
Me too
They reciprocate loyalty, provide direct communication, can be extremely generous, show initiative, act as a rational sound board for ideas, and they make you stronger by nature of how they work...... atleast from an INFP perspective.
I had to do some digging to understand some of the "quirks" but once I understood them the positives out weighed the negatives.
its just the feeling of them being very genuine to you, very embracing without them even trying hard. and its funny because they dont use Fe like that. its hard to explain.
@@madlynlithasyaI’m an ENTJ woman and is interesting how people describe us, we are honestly fast thinkers so we don’t really pay attention to how we come across mostly to INTP since they act so conveniently kind to us, some of them often quiet but they will show with actions how they feel more than words… it is complex
@@Manifestingqueenn i’m an intj, but im dating an entj, my brother’s an entj, and my youth leader is an entj. im sorrounded by entjs. the most obvious thing i notice is that you guys dont really try hard since you want to do things in the most efficient way but also unconsciously always provide warm environment for other people if not in stressful situations. i’m not that warm of a person so i really admire that.
15:38, I am a 20 year old ENTJ male and I'm aware of this but I do it unconsciously. Don't exactly know why but my theory is tha if more people of mi surrounding are with me theres less people on my way to get to my goal ?!.
Don't know, love your videos
PS: I wrote this as fast as I heard the fact and you said exactly what I wrote after. That's scary, didn't know there were other people... 🥴 hahaha
Thank you for liking us. 😂
Dope video, I appreciate you!!! Lol😅
Hey Skimmerlit. I'm stuck between two typings - ENTJ and ISTP. Both fit well. Both make sense considering that I lead with a Thinking Function. Both make sense insofar as my middle functions are highly likely to be a combination of Ni/Se. I exhibit some strong traits of both types, almost falling "in the middle between the archetypal behaviors and motivations of both types." I'm curious of what your thoughts on the matter may be. Thanks!
I am kinda in the same boat as you. I am an ISTP, but I would find some similarities between ENTP/ENTJ, so much so that it had me questioning my MBTI type, but I'm pretty sure I am an ISTP. That's when I looked for Enneagram. Type 5 is most associated with ISTP, but I've been getting either 7w8 (associated with ENTP) or 8w7 (associated with ENTJ). Of those two, I think I am a 7w8, so that would explain why I resonate with ENTP so much. But when I get serious about something, I can see why I would resonate with 8w7.
I'm in love with an ENTJ, I f*cked up right?
No…I don’t think so…how did it work out between you too?
Thanks for the video video .. great insight this is so true i have a really good intp friend and i sometimes wonder why does he like me sometimes im confused but i think the feeling is mutual..
Thanks man!
I'm only 5 mins into the vid but i will probably forget to comment if I wait longer. It sounds like this entj has played you and simply acquired a dedicated ally through his "charm" and that will help him against his enemies. Although that's just a theory and what do I know lol
I have no idea wtf is going on but... I think I have just found the American accent version of Current 93's I Have A Special Plan For This World.
Hey can you please help me figure out my mbti type?
wtf 666 views am i cursed now
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Hi, add a video backdrop and bring the microphone closer to your mouth.
Also, enunciate your words.
These kind of videos are the only times I feel actually seen. It definitely made me laugh and feel good. Validation. No one actually recognizes those small things that I love to do. Like seriously validating me I wish people could see. Crying 🔪 but laughing but still a cunt too.