Why Women So Clingy & Possesive

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  • @MarciaRain
    @MarciaRain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +821

    I literally go to sleep sometimes while listening to her so I can dream about being 100% leveled up. Then I wake up acting like straight diamonds

    • @datingdiaries1681
      @datingdiaries1681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Me too her voice puts me to sleep every time

    • @kennedyl7733
      @kennedyl7733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Right?? Our Subconscious goes to work!

    • @mimyhuney5599
      @mimyhuney5599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Like the Pisces bad bitch that you are❤🔥

    • @Kwjwjwnwjwkwnwjjwj
      @Kwjwjwnwjwkwnwjjwj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      PiscesBubblePop girl 😂😂🙉 yass same

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahaha 😂

  • @armanijack2927
    @armanijack2927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    When I’m nonchalant they chase. When I’ve chased they were nonchalant.

    • @heymisswest
      @heymisswest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      EXACTLY!!!!

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts

    • @LaGataSolar
      @LaGataSolar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Armani Jack girlllll yes that’s always how it is these dudes don’t like reciprocation it’s all BS we gotta be nonchalant about 99.8% of the time

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@luxuryqueen42 until u turn lesbian and no man to play games with

    • @armanijack2927
      @armanijack2927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Cool Chicka Vlogs I am. Lol this stuff applies to both genders

  • @BOO512
    @BOO512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Moral of the story is ask him for some money 💰 🤣

    • @nigerianfemale
      @nigerianfemale 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      okay, but you're so pretty !

    • @camiller958
      @camiller958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      boogie oogie I don’t even ask anymore he just offers and who am I to say no?

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@camiller958 nice!

    • @BOO512
      @BOO512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I have no game. I’m a hopeless romantic. But I’m getting better listening to shera

  • @Carelysjae1
    @Carelysjae1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    My life code that keeps me sane and drives men crazy is : Easy come, Easy go, and never go back !!!!! And when a guy sees that you have a jealous side, he will use that against you.

    • @eleven.22_erica
      @eleven.22_erica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      IsLa Jane agreed

    • @olgachafeeva2828
      @olgachafeeva2828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      a guy will use ANYTHING that he can against you. he will openly flirt with other women in your presence then have the nerve to call you insecure when you point it out.

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's so true...

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@olgachafeeva2828 facts. Never let a man into your vulnerabilities he will use them against you

  • @TheLove2share
    @TheLove2share 4 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    Insecure men LOVE clingy women because it boosts their ego & makes them feel important. If they date a secure woman, they will gaslight her to lower her self-esteem until she is no longer a threat to his fragile ego.

    • @beautykinks6755
      @beautykinks6755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This is soo true

    • @maumeeD4
      @maumeeD4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    • @ClowneryAtItsFinest
      @ClowneryAtItsFinest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Facts! I’ve experienced this both ways!

    • @elliedee8829
      @elliedee8829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Damn so true.

    • @nicolesmith7611
      @nicolesmith7611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes, my ex was like this. I had to constantly be around him. The guy I'm dating now, is constantly thinking about money. He has helped me with money and given it to me within @ weeks of us meeting.

  • @camiller958
    @camiller958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    As Shera says, "He should love you more than you love him."

    • @robt3407
      @robt3407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If you have high value to offer, a lot of high value men will take you out of the market. Mind games and manipulation diminish true value.

    • @stephanielewis8365
      @stephanielewis8365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Andre Comer hahahahahaha....sounds like you get your A** beat all the time by MEN!! Stay off this page you BOTTOM BOY

    • @victoriaabsalom7362
      @victoriaabsalom7362 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Pink Diamond lol he needs to go heal.

    • @obama8452
      @obama8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Andre Comer lmfaoooo

    • @honkhonkler7732
      @honkhonkler7732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that's why modern women get pumped and dumped.

  • @sarahk6254
    @sarahk6254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Girls out here with boyfriends subscribed to ten different only fans account and yet their own bf can’t even pay them $12.99 a month

  • @camiller958
    @camiller958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I also like that quote, "too glam to give a damn." I like to be so self confident that I don't worry about what he's doing or being jealous about what others have

  • @lettya3993
    @lettya3993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    I was dating someone who thought I wasn't clingy enough. He tried to make me jealous when he is around other women. He was very two faced and tried to get me to fight with other women to win his affection. This guy even told me about two of his female friends who fighting over him in the church parking lot. He wondered why I didn't call him every day.

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same and then he thought I was sleeping with my neighbor!

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He used to call/message me every hour, and I kept my cool...he was manipulative to the max..!!

    • @NA-vt6mz
      @NA-vt6mz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I’m sure he broke af

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I just left one of mine because he kept asking me how I would react if I saw him with another woman. And had the nerve to call himself handsome! I left him. Got my gifts and spending money. He got no sex by the way😂

    • @MaraMarieBeauty
      @MaraMarieBeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes they create the triangle

  • @cc_chi123
    @cc_chi123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    I got gamed by my last relationship on the jealousy front... he had a lot of options and loved to point it out to me. Unbeknownst to me I actually have more options than him but I had no mental game back then. Then I found Shera... and I left that man, turned my mind around, leveled up... and now he like "hey, remember me?". NOPE... no I don't actually... I'm busy. lol. Thank you queen Shera.

    • @Tammy_wit_a_y
      @Tammy_wit_a_y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is me so how do I get the game mentally

    • @honkhonkler7732
      @honkhonkler7732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you talking options for marriage or pump and dumps? You probably have more opportunities to be pumped and dumped but likely not for commitment.

    • @cc_chi123
      @cc_chi123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@honkhonkler7732 did you knock off work early today to comment on TH-cam videos... or just not go at all?

    • @ladylady7848
      @ladylady7848 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@honkhonkler7732 You are a s*** bomb, go dunk your head in the toilet 🚽

  • @petparadise6955
    @petparadise6955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    A mans love need is uncertainty, a womans love need is certainty

  • @julijakeit
    @julijakeit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Ladies, stop being clingy! Even if you think you're ugly, level up and the right man will level up with you or you will meet the right man. Saying this from the experience. Stop nagging the man, start nagging yourself for improvement and the things will start improving!

    • @lilbabytears
      @lilbabytears 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True!

    • @faa1412
      @faa1412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's my dilemma: thinking I'm too ugly to level up. It's like "ah well, what's the point of 'leveling up' if I'm ugly anyway?" Yeah, that's a hard mental obstacle to get over.

    • @allentressy3289
      @allentressy3289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@faa1412 Please trust yourself. You've been wonderfully and fearfully made (Psalm 139:14) that's not not a man saying it but GOD. Much love to you

    • @travisculpepper2091
      @travisculpepper2091 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Leveled my current wife up. She started all this badgering controlling blaming. I cut that off, ofcourse she complained about that. It went into this entire world of I'm cheating! Which she her and my step daughter has never went without me still obtaining my responsibility to them to provide. It's just all the extras. You would think she'd have since enough to actually listen to me give her the playbook. Yet she still doesn't comply.

  • @nicolesmith7611
    @nicolesmith7611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I love myself so much, my new man is worried every time I go to the gym. The transition took 2 years. Its no longer a chore to look good always, I feel odd if I don't have on makeup or workout. I'm always improving myself and surroundings. Now I'm looking for a new style since losing 60pds on my level up journey.

  • @donnamcintosh2109
    @donnamcintosh2109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Sometimes women are clingy because they think being that way shows care for the man. However, it only shows desperation and insecurity.

    • @indigoGoddess7
      @indigoGoddess7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or they were the mistress and don’t want him replacing her.
      I knew more than 5 women who were mistresses turned wives 🤣🤣they all look terrible, are broke, neglected by their spouses who they constantly follow, have no self esteem and plummeting health issues.

    • @anonamous6320
      @anonamous6320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@indigoGoddess7 Well those are your friends lol

  • @JESUSISSAVIOR210
    @JESUSISSAVIOR210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    i liked it when you kept trolls. Your graceful clap backs teach us how not to be emotional.

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💞

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      While I get what it is you're trying to say, I don't like the way you phrased it. We're women. Getting emotional is not a bad thing.
      I hate that this world forces you to feel like you have to hide your emotions. It's fucking stupid.
      If everyone kept it real about how they feel, then there wouldn't be a need to play so many games with people!

  • @Missthatgirl634
    @Missthatgirl634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Men pick up on that really quick-clingy/possessiveness is so not cute at all. Besides when a man don't want to be with you there is absolutely nothing you can do to keep him. If he doesn't leave through the front door he will go out the window.

    • @hunny585
      @hunny585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      haha funny bt true

    • @jennysanchez7759
      @jennysanchez7759 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @Luckyy227
    @Luckyy227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Some “men” are drawn to clingy, I knew one who literally said he liked the crazy needy clingy type...that there says a lot about him. Also, another one I know gets joy the fact that I get jealous when he’s talks to other women because I cried and that blew my cover but I was coming from a deep heart space, now he’s using it against me...now I switched my game up telling him boy I Got nothing to be jealous about 💅🏻 that made him so damn insecure he couldn’t sleep at night .... 👀 also, a good tip when he talks about other women or try’s to make you jealous give him a taste of his own medicine and mirror that shit back, he won’t have the balls to do it again.

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Facts ! Mirror that shit back

    • @etiquetteconnoisseur6184
      @etiquetteconnoisseur6184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree. Give it back! From now on, remember to not show your hurt feelings or jealousy. Just be confident.

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If he's drawn to clingy maybe he wants to feel needed

    • @IAmAwesomeSoAreYou
      @IAmAwesomeSoAreYou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Every time I’ve been clingy they ran for the hills lol

    • @Luckyy227
      @Luckyy227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Vanessa TX he was a narcissist 🤐

  • @kathyalex778
    @kathyalex778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Ladies who were missing out on hugs, emotional connection, being told that they're perfectly imperfect, and their mom and dad being physically and enthusiastically there when they were a little girl are the ones who CLING on for dear life to a boyfriend or potential. I know because I was that girl, but I'm in therapy and I've fixed that now. God and myself are the only beings I will ever have 100% there consistently for my whole life, so I don't cling to anyone. People come and go, even family isn't all that nice sometimes.

  • @MarciaRain
    @MarciaRain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    I’ve been watching you for a few months now; and even though I have a long longggggg way to go, I’m realizing my daily growth. (My physicality is up to par 100%, but Im working on the mental. We all know beauty means nothing if you’re bat shit crazy) - I like this version of myself W A Y more than the cry baby, victim wearing, insecure, suicidal pick me that I was last year. Sprankle sprankleeee ✨

    • @MsChmpnprzr
      @MsChmpnprzr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, I've been watching for a little over a year. Keep growing!!

    • @chevypaige2445
      @chevypaige2445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow, that’s amazing, I’m happy for you

    • @proactivemimi6473
      @proactivemimi6473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Scarlet Rose 😂😂😂😂

    • @ThebigGLRams
      @ThebigGLRams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sprinkle sprinkle indeed

    • @ThebigGLRams
      @ThebigGLRams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @King of all King’s 👑 you just trolling right

  • @divinelatina4295
    @divinelatina4295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    We love a queen with a manipulative cackle laugh

  • @beautyamor9797
    @beautyamor9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    If you don't call them or call right back they get upset. So true they say you don't have to wear makeup wigs etc. Move on from insecure men Make life a living hell

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's truuuuueeee. but girl MOST of these men are insecure!

  • @juliennepujol5586
    @juliennepujol5586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Wow I really needed to hear this of all days. Been struggling with some thoughts today... it literally DISGUSTS me when I have genuine feelings for the guy but notice him sniffing around other women, giving them attention, even on social media. But deep in my heart I knew I hold more power if I keep it to myself and this just confirmed it. Perfect example of why you go for the money not feelings.

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @BabyFaceRach
      @BabyFaceRach 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      just found my dude giving girls attention on social media LOL I'm gonna ask him for some shopping

    • @honkhonkler7732
      @honkhonkler7732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If he's a top notch man, he has options. Outside of someone deeply religious or with some other overriding factor keeping him in line, he's going to have side chicks if he can. Supply and demand applies here. Relatively few attractive high status men, a lot of hot young women turning 18 every day.

    • @juliennepujol5586
      @juliennepujol5586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@honkhonkler7732 Oh honey, if supply and demand applied here, every girl would have 100+ boyfriends. You are just lucky some old white men forced monogamous thinking on the masses, so every average joe could have the chance to secure a mate. In fact, I think if high status men could at least double up, we could eliminate the worst of these males from the gene pool and that would be awesome! I don't mind sharing to benefit humanity!

  • @Asara_10
    @Asara_10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This is an amazing video, I never show jealousy ever since way back, men don’t like overly jealous women, they actually cheat more when you are !

  • @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827
    @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I am bad I get clingy ,need and control . I don't want to be like that .I am use to doing stuff for myself . So now I have to start over again with this leveling up .

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes Donna !!! I believe in you!!!! ♥️

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you got this !

    • @ninawestlake5005
      @ninawestlake5005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Men do not appreciate clingyness. Sometimes ignoring them is also great..just need to find balance and stay there. You'll be fine.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're bad off then ..

  • @newme7464
    @newme7464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    You are the sister I never had

  • @M0J0_
    @M0J0_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    She Ra I haven’t leveled up as good as you YET! But big sis let me tell you, I look back at myself when I first started leveling up and I have come a looooonnnngggg way! I am so excited ! Thank you thank you for the game.

    • @derrickhandy1324
      @derrickhandy1324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's so phenomenal!!! 👍

    • @LuxuriousLifestyle4
      @LuxuriousLifestyle4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yess sis!! Comments like yours motivate me to keep going with my femininity channel!

    • @derrickhandy1324
      @derrickhandy1324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LuxuriousLifestyle4 I'm going to check out your channel

    • @LuxuriousLifestyle4
      @LuxuriousLifestyle4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Derrick handy Awww thank you so much! Means a lot ☺️💕

    • @derrickhandy1324
      @derrickhandy1324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LuxuriousLifestyle4 I've check out your channel and watch some of your videos. You've great value that you share with your viewing audiences. So I like your content and I've subscribe to your channel

  • @marieotero8843
    @marieotero8843 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My problem is that it’s so hard for me to be fake but at the same time they don’t have a problem being fake either

  • @breheart7510
    @breheart7510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have this problem, I can’t control my emotions and I always end up looking like I’m the one with issues but not anymore! Thanks 😊 this advise better than anyone’s relationship advice.

  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    You're clingy and possessive because u lack self love and self worth and i'm not judging we've all been there, but at what point do you stop and say where has this gotten me? SELF REFLECT ! Clinging and possession is a man repellent , love yourself enough to not even go there queens its not worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @lorreiaria9638
      @lorreiaria9638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😻😻

    • @gretchengeorge5302
      @gretchengeorge5302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      THIS. The more you put yourself first, the more you attract the kind of treatment you've been wanting all along. Had to learn this the hard way, but I learned.

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gretchengeorge5302 happy u learned boo

    • @earth2nawi73
      @earth2nawi73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PERIOD! I want women to all set standards and stick by them and THRIVE period !

    • @honkhonkler7732
      @honkhonkler7732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a man. And you're half right, half wrong. Clingy behavior (if not taken too far) from a young low to no body count woman we see as wife material is actually very attractive. It shows loyalty. Clingy behavior from a desperate used up leftover in her mid 30s is indeed repellent. It shows that she thinks he's her last chance to settle down. But he doesn't want to settle down with a woman like that anyway unless he's also really desperate. If the clingy behavior repelled him (as long as it wasn't extreme), then he didn't see a future with you anyway and not being clingy wouldn't have solved that. It's rough but it is what it is. A lot of women seem to like wishcasting their own desires onto men.

  • @MysticButterfly22
    @MysticButterfly22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Thanks SheRa for this video...if only I could go back and tell my twenty something year old self these tips and have had better self discipline with my emotions, I would have helped myself get further ahead. No reactions, only thinkin, then straight scheming ;)

    • @brklyn2922
      @brklyn2922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do you do if you are not in your 20s? If you are alive then you can level up! We have to move forward and think ahead.🌺

    • @MysticButterfly22
      @MysticButterfly22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@brklyn2922 you're absolutely right any woman has the ability to change her life and mindset. It's nice to be able to reflect back where you came from at one point.😉

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    " I bought you a t shirt from the dollar tree" omg Shera so funnaaay

  • @MaraMarieBeauty
    @MaraMarieBeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    She’s so pretty she reminds me of myself!! So true it shows insecurity I’ve had men many times do it intentionally. It’s taken years to realize it’s game!

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    " It is a dead give away something is the matter with you " ...BARZ lol

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂

  • @Liveandletlive0101
    @Liveandletlive0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    U look gorgeous. Inspired me to put on some make-up tomorrow. I miss it, though i've been keeping it cute throughout quarantine. I refuse to look busted even if no one sees me. No ma'am!

  • @monabrown101
    @monabrown101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I need this to be imprinted and ingrained in my HEADDD

  • @AmberBrooklyn24
    @AmberBrooklyn24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I NEEDED to hear this about two hours ago 😩 I sent my bf a long message for no reason after recently making up. I just meant it in a conversational way n I know he’s gonna take it as me arguing and take forever to text back and tell me I’m being extra 🥴 I should have kept it short and sweet. I’m def working on these emotions lol

  • @lischellejones
    @lischellejones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This video is full of GEMS

  • @KA-ub4rc
    @KA-ub4rc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Love your look today! You look stunning and fancy 🥰

  • @michellemeiburg639
    @michellemeiburg639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like to make them think they are controlling my emotions and then do whatever I want

  • @Mirror_Mirror.2233
    @Mirror_Mirror.2233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    SheRa: Put yourself first that's how you stay unattached. Everything is about you. 23:38
    Me: Yes, self-love. Got it!
    SheRa continues: So, keep it about you, but use your brain to make him think it's about him. The more he thinks it's about him, the more it becomes about you... REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. 24:10
    Me: Okay, self-love + diabolical mindset. 😂 😂👌🏾👌🏾

    • @tere0942
      @tere0942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate your time stamp.

  • @free.as.abutterfly
    @free.as.abutterfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Love the colour & length of your nails! I think sex can also make us clingy but objectively that's just our oxytocin talking

  • @southerngal8034
    @southerngal8034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She’s so beautiful y’all learn so much from her it’s ridiculous lifesaver

  • @auroramothergoddess
    @auroramothergoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shera needs a million subscribers!! I always watch your old videos because they are timeless and you drop gems in each one and your so funny. Literally giving the game and putting us on. My life was in shambles and im so glad I found you because im changing my life around!!! You are an investment to my life

  • @ss-gv3tm
    @ss-gv3tm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    SheRaSeven1 after watching your videos I realized all my past dating mistakes,you are changing lives of women god bless you

  • @Jennifer-di4nl
    @Jennifer-di4nl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    U look the prettiest with no wig or color, natural beauty.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's no natural beauty..

  • @schnioula
    @schnioula 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Can you do a video on how women become more and more masculine and men become more and more feminine?

  • @MadiMaxxx
    @MadiMaxxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No matter how old the videos, you drop great gems 💎😍💐

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love u you make us remember that we are the prize! My gfs and I love your lives

  • @Ka3Burton
    @Ka3Burton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think you have to incorporate masculine and feminine into your personality to have a healthy relationship. This is not always easy if you're partner is not wanting to do tthe same. I see a lot of avoidanents not being cooperative because they are boss so they find a women who's more flexible but they are not so that's why you bag the money because they can't or won't reciprocate.

  • @mindfullivingwithestherlak4431
    @mindfullivingwithestherlak4431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello QUEEN. I finally got inspired by you to post my first TH-cam video today. I've been watching and sharing your videos and i noticed that you have been consistent in being helpful to young ladies. Thank you for being the Queen that you are ❤️💗. I'm in Nigeria.

  • @jazzyone1986
    @jazzyone1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so glad this is not my battle. In fact I am the polar opposite I can be very unattached. I tend to attract very needy clingy men which I am trying to figure out why.

  • @fairydust2254
    @fairydust2254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    U so damn smart ! Less reaction more planning !

  • @VERYBERRIS
    @VERYBERRIS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    girl i did this clingy bs again and didn't work, i need to listen to your videos more

  • @theangel5416
    @theangel5416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tips to look older:
    Go for a more classy appearance/ old money appearance, I would use this carefully as it can age you a little too well. Red lips, pearl earrings/ necklaces/pointed toe heels/boots/ Polka dots./ vintage handbags.
    In terms of makeup one of the best things you can do is arch brows on the thinner side - Brows that have very little arch or go straight across your forehead tend to make you look younger (which is why it is a preference in Asian countries)
    Also Polish up on your manners - say thank you and excuse me. Perhaps/aswell/ good evening - Practice until it comes off as comfortable saying these things. Make solid eye contact and laugh less. ( younger women laugh more and are more bubbily or can be easily Impressed. ) Stand up straight with your shoulders back.

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Nothing like a good ponytail !

  • @derrickhandy1324
    @derrickhandy1324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hi Shera, seeing you in that outfit I must say you look stunning absolutely stunning!!!

  • @alicialopez488
    @alicialopez488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank u freeing me ... i really did think there was something wro g because of abuse by my mother telling me negative stuff

  • @LaGataSolar
    @LaGataSolar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks for always empowering women. You look SO pretty

  • @themoonbleu627
    @themoonbleu627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    side dude for entertainment yes!

  • @dshericemo1144
    @dshericemo1144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Come on slim and trim. You look amazing 😉.Keep your eyes on your bag and it’s impossible to be clingy

  • @beckycreations79
    @beckycreations79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My bf used to provide without complaining.. recently i asked for some money, he said y dont I ask my parents...wht to do

  • @tonismith88899
    @tonismith88899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love that pony tail! Super cute 😍

  • @SwayWayBaby
    @SwayWayBaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I absolutely love this woman 🤣❤️

  • @Kat-qf4wb
    @Kat-qf4wb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Damn... this was so helpful! Thank you!!!

  • @M001-d4y
    @M001-d4y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Looking absolutely divine as usual! 🥰

  • @veronicathesinger11
    @veronicathesinger11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Shera your real nails are very pretty! You look even the more classy than you already are with them❤️

  • @Cattitude369
    @Cattitude369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Adore this look 😍

  • @persephoneastrology7115
    @persephoneastrology7115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes Shera! Leave the space for him to chase 😂🤗

  • @BeautyCoop
    @BeautyCoop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    How the hell i missed this

    • @debbyluxe
      @debbyluxe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BeautyIsHerName!! Thats what I’m thinking 😭

    • @BeautyCoop
      @BeautyCoop 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@debbyluxe girl I did not see not 1 notification

  • @stephsteph1338
    @stephsteph1338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Looking very classy, Ashera!

  • @sunflowerglitter9233
    @sunflowerglitter9233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so grateful for you ❤️ Thank you Shera you look stunning btw. Im now starting to connect the dots of why I've over reacted in the past.

  • @adventurewithAngel
    @adventurewithAngel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your mind Shera the TH-cam original!

  • @jessicaselenecenteno
    @jessicaselenecenteno ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m not. The only thing I’m clingy and possessive about is money

  • @kristenglamour4023
    @kristenglamour4023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking real pretty ✔️

  • @Sunshinestarryrose
    @Sunshinestarryrose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have to take into account that a lot of women are lesbians or in a relationship already. So there’s enough single heterosexual men for single hetero women.

  • @lisaharris8552
    @lisaharris8552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can’t stop laughing. This is the truth. 😂😂

  • @angelinavitaleco9640
    @angelinavitaleco9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for being authentic.

  • @vertberry9310
    @vertberry9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am grateful for all the information you give. Thankyou Shera.

  • @maatbrown466
    @maatbrown466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful as usual and those earrings are bomb 💣

  • @xyz-gx9oy
    @xyz-gx9oy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your hair is so pretty Shera!

  • @Candikanelane
    @Candikanelane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love that top. That color is everything.

  • @honeydove_4844
    @honeydove_4844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One guy liked me to act crazy… that’s the only way I got him to act right lol.. my calm nature didn’t do anything for him.

  • @remshjgh2245
    @remshjgh2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love that shirt and earrings!!! You are slayinggg in this video!!!

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are giving me pretty glowing Selena Quintanilla vibes today gawwwjusss!

  • @frencheleerving
    @frencheleerving 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shera gave us a short video but so much game !!!!!

  • @Mamilicious23
    @Mamilicious23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Please tell me where you got that blouse. ❤ it!

    • @Mamilicious23
      @Mamilicious23 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Magical Thank you!

    • @brklyn2922
      @brklyn2922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't feel bad if it is not available on Shein. They usually bring back similar styles in different colors.

  • @Cottonsie
    @Cottonsie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    much more beautiful with your real hair

  • @trinitee624
    @trinitee624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shera! AGE, DAMMIT! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😩😍😍😍

  • @sophiet9689
    @sophiet9689 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A dust ball almost
    Killed me never again

  • @orishaoya2244
    @orishaoya2244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You look gorgeous 😍

  • @coconelly111
    @coconelly111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look amazing 👑🔥🔥🔥😍

  • @Mimi_mimi_Mimi_mimi
    @Mimi_mimi_Mimi_mimi วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a cute look❤

  • @rosebardashian
    @rosebardashian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sprinkle, sprinkle ✨

  • @theignorantgenious5392
    @theignorantgenious5392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hii Shera!!! :) You look Pretty!!

  • @pedestal.p
    @pedestal.p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Only cater to yourself!

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    looking nice shera. Keep teaching, princess.

  • @liraanchu1770
    @liraanchu1770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video !!!

  • @xmadamempressx2972
    @xmadamempressx2972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Better remember who you are ladies-Beautiful and can get another man easy when u leveling up

  • @Peace-lt8bc
    @Peace-lt8bc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look great! Wonderful topic 😍

  • @Positivevibes3808
    @Positivevibes3808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this ❤️