Stop Comparing Yourselves to Other Women

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  • @queensun6059
    @queensun6059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    "to compare yourself to other women, is 🔥 a waste of u!"- marilyn monroe 😌

  • @heytheredeliilaaa
    @heytheredeliilaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Comparison is a thief of joy ❤

  • @Jessica-og4iq
    @Jessica-og4iq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    So glad you did this video because women who get jealous of prettier women suck the joy out of life. Yes life is better when you look good but it’s kinda hard being a pretty women when every woman you meet is mad that you take better care of themselves than they do

    • @shawnhall3849
      @shawnhall3849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Any and everybody wants to feel beautiful. But yeah instead of being jealous learn from them. Or try and become friends with those you admire and maybe their (good) habits will rub off on you. But your spirit is always beautiful no matter how you look “outwardly” and even no matter how you treat others, no matter if you have a nasty attitude. You’re a beautiful being eternal

    • @Jessica-og4iq
      @Jessica-og4iq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DiamondsRexpensive I don’t understand any of what you wrote but stay blessed

    • @shawnhall3849
      @shawnhall3849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And try to treat those women with respect and kindness. You don’t what they went through. Maybe they were bullied because they weren’t pretty and popular, or maybe they were the bullies. Maybe they were told they weren’t good enough and pretty enough or they had trouble getting a man or even getting hired at some company because they weren’t the standard look the company wanted or for a certain image. It’s hard for some, so don’t try to crap on them because you don’t know at the end of the day

    • @dreamstar3293
      @dreamstar3293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I agree, when you’re a pretty woman it’s almost a full time job dodging these haters like wtf

    • @Jessica-og4iq
      @Jessica-og4iq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@dreamstar3293 that’s why I love Shera. Her confidence is unmatched. If she were one of your girlfriends, you could show off, and do your thing with out having to worry about having to dim your light for the next insecure hater. Then she would motivate you to do even better. I got a few girlfriends like that, some real ones and I love them

  • @topnotch0912
    @topnotch0912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Women today are starting to look just alike. Bbl plumped lips over snatched waist line. I like my look it's me and it's not perfect but men love it 😉

    • @shirlsshirls8594
      @shirlsshirls8594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I hope you’d still feel that way if men didn’t love it

    • @topnotch0912
      @topnotch0912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      @@shirlsshirls8594 I said I like my look but all you saw was Men love it🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @viper222
      @viper222 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It shows more confidence and self love which is what makes you more attractive than a woman who can’t accept herself and changes all her natural beauty.

    • @corina6772
      @corina6772 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lets not forget the same lace front over and over.
      If I see another body wave waist wig, ugh. Boring!

  • @xysarenottheprize
    @xysarenottheprize ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Women are my community, not my competition.

    • @Davienne2010
      @Davienne2010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly!!!

    • @GoddessAries
      @GoddessAries 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @kirskirs2219
    @kirskirs2219 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    When u stop comparing yourself to other women, your life goes up!

  • @InSearchOfCrystalsAndCryptids
    @InSearchOfCrystalsAndCryptids 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I notice that a lot of women worry so much about what the next woman/female is doing, and hating on them, and focusing on them, that they fail to extract the Wisdom and benefits from LEARNING from the next woman about what she did to get that guy, or that money, or that body, etc. If Shera has taught us anything, and she has! Use everything to your personal advantage to BETTER your life; not to waste your energy on jealousy, competition, insecurity, hating. Shera helps women to put the FOCUS back on themselves and loving themselves! ⭐🧿

  • @graceliaw9245
    @graceliaw9245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    You have to be content within yourself and with who God made you to be! Be confident in yourself!

  • @marbriela24
    @marbriela24 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Girl!! Thank you for your wise advice! I was raised to be “independent “ without realizing that the real independent woman is the one who gets Queen treatment! 💞💞💞

  • @becuteforme
    @becuteforme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I'm weird just like Shera, perhaps it's a Pisces thing? I like to smile at women who are looking pretty and put together, sometimes I compliment them if I like what they're wearing. Envious women are crazy, in a bad way: 😂

    • @ms.rivera7898
      @ms.rivera7898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I admire beautiful, put-together women. I see why men are visual creatures. There is so much beauty in this world. I’m glad I’m not a man, though, so I can stare at and admire the women around me without them feeling creeped out. Lol.

    • @Doriginal-b8y
      @Doriginal-b8y ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I don't think it's a sign thing. It's what women who are secure do.

    • @katiataggarta1914
      @katiataggarta1914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m the same way ! I compliment women even strangers when I like their outfits 😌

  • @nieceylanair65
    @nieceylanair65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Great advice. This content definitely needed to be covered for the level up journey. Self love is extremely important. Women need to know that the process starts from within.

  • @MsElfMannequin
    @MsElfMannequin ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This topic came at a great time. All of 2022, I allowed ppl to convince me I’m abnormal because I look much younger than I am/small. Telling myself that as a 27 year old black woman that my facial features are too small compared to other bw my age. I’m beginning to no longer do that. God made me just fine 😊

  • @Shessolostintheworld
    @Shessolostintheworld ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Reminder: you can’t buy sex appeal , either you’re born with or you were not!
    Sick of all these women looking good in still photos and then when you meet them in person they are awkward and don’t know how to carry themselves .

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, they do know with emotional intelligence.

  • @CS-pl1re
    @CS-pl1re 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    U are my auntie for LIFE always on point when i need it 😅

  • @essa-gs1qx
    @essa-gs1qx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    people SWEARRR they know you 😂😂😭😭 people want me to be insecure SOOO BAD 😂😂😂😭😭😭 not gonna work sweetie, only security over here 🤪

  • @marir102012
    @marir102012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I totally agree just be the best version of your self and you can be among all the other beautiful and different kinds of flowers .

  • @tommywalker1631
    @tommywalker1631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I have been watching your content for several years.As a man I get angry. However, I shared your content with my daughter because I can see some of your content helps her to place her own interest first

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thanks for sharing

    • @fromkimwithlove
      @fromkimwithlove ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What a profound confession 🍾🥂

  • @anonymousfourth2491
    @anonymousfourth2491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    New to your channel but you empower me

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      welcome and sprinkle sprinkle

  • @indigoGoddess7
    @indigoGoddess7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I compare myself to the past versions of who I was and I am jealous of who I am becoming.
    I absolutely despise it when women compare themselves to me and or any other woman for that matter.
    I just re-direct them whenever they try that nonsense with me.

  • @BrainsBeautyandCommonSense
    @BrainsBeautyandCommonSense ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Your look is so beautiful, feminine and classy! I needed this video, I have several friends and associates that consider surgery an option. I just watched a surgeon friend showing how easy it is to get liposuction. In this world, I have to remind myself that I am enough, and keep leveling up in safe and healthy ways.

  • @IReadTooMuchCrap
    @IReadTooMuchCrap 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    That was a good video, Shera. I finally got a very nice haircut for myself after waiting for the appointment for months in advance, and it was so worth it! I feel so leveled up, especially since my old hair had so many split ends I was looking like a Halloween tree.

  • @minuit6305
    @minuit6305 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I say if you want someone or something to "compare" yourself with do it with a God or Goddess. Study their archetypes and include it in your day to day life. This probably the healthier approach since it all inside you anyway. I know this is the wrong channel but i follow both and i know my divine self. Sprinkle Sprinkle

  • @Evie170
    @Evie170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "You got to get a dust-buster..." :D

  • @iamcrystal8776
    @iamcrystal8776 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is gold. Keep replaying so my subconscious overstand 😂❤ I love you. Thank you.

  • @hopeinajar77
    @hopeinajar77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey lady I just went shopping with you . I purchased a book , some level up cosmetics & some stationery.
    You are magical and I truly appreciate you .
    Sprinkle Sprinkle 💕💕💕

  • @jadegemsss
    @jadegemsss ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you, Shera… I want to be vulnerable here. Although I love myself, I wont be afraid to admit that I have to drill that into my mind sometimes. I’ve constantly been devalued and skipped over and it makes me resent other women. It’s like I made myself into the most beautiful version of myself but I still worry that she’s not enough sometimes because until recently I’ve been stepped on even after the glow up.

    • @Tessy29k
      @Tessy29k ปีที่แล้ว +12

      First rule of self love is to remove yourself from people who do not appreciate you or seek to tear you down. We should monitor our environmental diet as well as our food diet too be strict with who you allow into your space

  • @jklpop4664
    @jklpop4664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    First I want to tell you thank you for coming to help women get better. I LOVE YOU 🥰 I am grateful for your honesty and straight forward you are on your content. I have been rocking with your content from the beginning. Ladies are level up every where in the world 🌍 Thank you frfr 🥰💯❤😀

  • @themillenniallist9004
    @themillenniallist9004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You look so nice as always.

  • @itsabbymarieb
    @itsabbymarieb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shera, this was so wholesome. You gave us so much love and soul in this. Thank you 🤍

  • @callistadiamonds
    @callistadiamonds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Any ladies from the UK here?

  • @spiritualinsiderr
    @spiritualinsiderr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loveee the Wednesday Addams look

  • @UhMuthaFkinVirgo
    @UhMuthaFkinVirgo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    NOT A GLUE STICK & A RAZORRRR LMAO🤣🤣😂😅 MMMMY GAWD!!! GURRRRL U FOOL!!!😂😅

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LMAO 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😆stealing at the antique shop....Yaasssss love the antiques. I sold mine that was given to me from a rich client❤️

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True💯I have tried to look like women on TV....Yaaassss Uniqueness ♥️Be You

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Skin bleaching doesn't even look normal ..you really get stares from your skin not looking normal.

  • @BabyFaceRach
    @BabyFaceRach ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It was the ending for me - comparing yourself to chicks “body jobs” is so ratchet 😅

  • @jasminjar6667
    @jasminjar6667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what u been sayin bout that Celebs. Thats right. Today is another Day with Social Media we didnt had it but still we were Going :)

  • @rosalindvaca5412
    @rosalindvaca5412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    every women needs to takes an auto machanics class even if ou do not pass you drive you will abosobe the information and wont be stuck on the road . Important

  • @siamae3762
    @siamae3762 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hop on that Derrick Jaxn situation with his wife. I want to hear your opinion!!!

  • @cristy02
    @cristy02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    so great shera. simple straight to the point video. i think this is a great intro video for anyone new, if they like this theyll love your channel ❣️❣️❣️

  • @Aleena_McLean
    @Aleena_McLean 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reallllll Tallkkkkk ❤❤ BE YOURSELF. EMBRACE IT.

  • @whatevervlogs9663
    @whatevervlogs9663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep making books baby girl

  • @Mizanthrobe
    @Mizanthrobe ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Women need to study Mcjimsey and Kibbe. Knowledge that there is more than one body type and that they are all beautiful in their own way is essential! You’ve got Gamine, Romantic, Dramatic, Classic and Natural body types but everyone wants to be Theatrical Romantic. It’s boring.

  • @sabinaneri9568
    @sabinaneri9568 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the theif of joy we have so much to be thankful for I’ve been one to look I’m not into filters the world today is all about filters we don’t need

  • @jklpop4664
    @jklpop4664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Given my flowers now 💐🌸💮🏵💐💯❤Thank you we appreciate you💐🏵💮🌸💯 sprinkle sprinkle 💫💢💥💫 thank you for all you do 😍🤩🥰 loving myself so I am able to give real compliments 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🥰

  • @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL
    @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly it’s all about being able to take care f ourselves. Every time I slipvup with my skin it makes me look so much worse and I still look good but just not as good as what I know I could look like

  • @brandi7733
    @brandi7733 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Shera, good topic 💞

  • @paulpaul5290
    @paulpaul5290 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ladies beyond meals is to the bills! Shera!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @pedestal.p
    @pedestal.p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I WAS just writing about this

  • @PurpleReels
    @PurpleReels ปีที่แล้ว

    Love, love, love!! 💜🙏🏽💜

  • @monicareynolds3060
    @monicareynolds3060 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your cat eyes!

  • @sdotthealchemist8141
    @sdotthealchemist8141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tell them again

  • @devonthedivinesolarchild9413
    @devonthedivinesolarchild9413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ashera shine your light on your universe and the world , Ashera your a wise one , I am a True & Living God, generator operator, destroyer of the universe and worlds , My Ancestors known and unknown are the Goddesses and Gods of the universe and worlds . I'm "Chief Devon" the Master of the universe, ASE .

  • @adaintydream8759
    @adaintydream8759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can’t stop doing that, i gt insecure and anxious looking at pretty girls

    • @truthteller4659
      @truthteller4659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yuck

    • @adaintydream8759
      @adaintydream8759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@truthteller4659 lol what’s so funny about it, accepting my insecurity!

    • @Tessy29k
      @Tessy29k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why? Do you think they're going to harm you or take something away from you?

    • @adaintydream8759
      @adaintydream8759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Tessy29k yes, i feel like my man likes her too, when he looks at some pretty girl, i feel i am not pretty enough, so he’s looking at her and perhaps wishing he married her .

    • @adaintydream8759
      @adaintydream8759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Tessy29k I feel my family who used to think and tell me that i am beautiful, will start feeling she’s prettier than me, hence makes me fee like im not good enough, i am worthless

  • @heatherschaffer9406
    @heatherschaffer9406 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes, when women are in rlts w the WRONG MEN. The man will talk about another woman 's features or they want the woman to obtain an unrealistic body structure. A few things to do is request funds to fix the imperfect then once y get the funds, dump him fast move on or sue him to fund y counseling to rebuild y self esteem if y have been in a long term relationship. Although, if y are just on a first few dates run fast, tell them before y criticize me make sure y are perfect in every way, or after he says theses things and y at a restaurant move y dinner to the bar if there are cute guys and ignore him as if he was not there. Another, way to handle his stupidness redirect the conversation, ignore, while y finish y dinner or drink. Next, do not say anything just walk out or tell him y are going to the bathroom and don't come back. Block, his number fast.
    Steeling, makes ones life more difficult finding a job w a police record, difficult dating w a record a quality guy, and looks horrible if y want to attend a university some day. I recommend if y don't have funds couponing, yard sales, libraries to gain vocabulary skills to apply higher dialect will place y into a higher foundation of people to improve y resources. Another, suggestion is apply f grants f bussiness and schooling. A few suggestions. Great. Videos

  • @nicolebrittan948
    @nicolebrittan948 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that top your wearing, where did you get it?

  • @essa-gs1qx
    @essa-gs1qx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i LOVE myself. i’m genuinely obsessed with myself. do you know me in real life?? 🥴
    how bout stop coming to my page and making videos about me. 😉

  • @ambermoots9010
    @ambermoots9010 ปีที่แล้ว

    You need a dust buster? 😂😂😂

  • @nodistractions5548
    @nodistractions5548 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @samantha03
    @samantha03 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    13:26 15:33

  • @Hebrewsyt
    @Hebrewsyt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ya kylie stop trying to look like ro lol

  • @LolaBreakHEARTS
    @LolaBreakHEARTS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️🌹

  • @betsysimpson318
    @betsysimpson318 ปีที่แล้ว

    The code LEVELUP5 ISNT WORKING 😭