I chose a man for love because we had an amazing connection and i chose him over a rich man and now i regret it because he changed. They always change smh
Damn 🤦🏾♀️ Too bad you couldn’t keep the rich man on the side. That’s why I’m scared to leave my boyfriend for someone with more money, I don’t want it to not work out and I regret it.
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@@AmberBrooklyn24 a rich side nigga and a broke main nigga, so the Dusty's win again
Frederick Thomas good thing my man isn’t broke 😂😂 He’s not rich, but he’s not broke at all. He couldn’t even buy me the items he just bought me this week or does what he does if he was broke lol Dusties are not winning at all, honey lol 😜💕
I believe some poor people are kept ingnorant, discriminated or threatened by dominate society so they never become rich or have disabilities or mental issues to consider as well
@Blueend End Whenever someone tells you to do something or be there always check with yourself first, look your best, do your hair makeup and nails, watch the 90s golddiggers they are THE BEST etc. I have few videos also. But you have to pause before saying YES and always check how happy you are with everything you do or say. GOOD LUCK AND YOU CAN DO IT 🎀💙💋
Its not ur fault. From a young age we are brainwashed into believing love is more important than a stable provider-woman relationship. It takes awhile to break the mindset. I didn't break my mindset until i was about 23. Now im living life and happy without love. You will be there one day trust me.
My husband often references how much money and time he has invested in me. That was/ is his way of showing his love and loyalty. We have been married almost 20 years. Young ladies, if he isn't spending money AND time, keep it pushing. He does not see you as worthy and won't until YOU do. He won't care about you unless you care about you. An old Southern saying, "A closed mouth don't get feed, a closed hand don't get bread." Sleep on it.
Thank you Shera I just finished reading a book and there's where it says: "A woman doesn't fall in love with a man because she's already in love with a herself".
Most women will love a man who treats her well and gives her a safe space to raise children and be a wife. I find it nearly impossible not to like and eventually love people who are kind and generous to me, but I also find it impossible to love someone who treats me badly and doesn’t care.
Marilyn Monroe explains this (a woman marrying a man for money and status is just the same as a man marrying a woman for her looks) in the movie Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (where she sings Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend)
Men grow cold as girls grow old, and we all lose our charms in the end... but square cut or pear shaped, these rocks don't loose their shape... Diamonds are a girl's best friend🙌🏼💎
It’s possible to find love but he have to love you first and love you more than you love him. Speaking from experience: married to a provider for 15 years now. The bonus is husband not ugly and not too old. 😉
Lavender Don Roses I didn’t even know Shera exist at that time nobody taught me the game but I read books like Act like a Lady, Think like A man and other Dating psychology books. Like Shera’s advice look good enough ( level up the best way you can ) for a man to approach you. I played hard to get from the start , he courted me and I never reveal my true feelings , never say I love you first, act mysterious but he must like you a lot for this to work. I kept myself busy, occupied, make him think I have a lot going on in my life! Lol And I was ready to move on and made it known to him if a man can’t commit to me. But also making him realize I’m a wife material. I never asked him for money but give subtle hints. It’s important to know if you just want to be a gold digger ( I’m not against anybody who does that) or be a wife with name on deeds , life insurance as Shera would say. I also practice law of attraction, vision boards. You can watch Shera’s other channel she teaches about manifesting the things you want or desire. Other youtuber like Anna Bey (School of Affluence) teach this as well. Just have fun with it! 😘
That's true the governor in New York dated the woman for 14 years!! And he didn't married her. Women don't waste your time on a man stringing you along when you could find the right one who want to put a ring on it.
Cuomo isn't a man, he's a boy. They showed him on TV the other day looking all scared riding the train 😂😂😂 He doesn't take responsibility for his actions, he blames others for everything that goes wrong, LOL! He was probably scared to get married too 😆
Lucy I held myself accountable for being stupid and young that’s why I only accept EXTREMELY high caliber men now...duh...rethink your whole life cause this ain’t it
Lucy I thank god I got played at an early age I’m happy and thriving and I would bet my life that I have a better home, better car, more money and better options in men than you. You could never in your life have a multi millionaire man simp over you like I do. go somewhere you are unstable
P Hugh I can relate! my mom is a work horse too and from a you age she would shame me for trying to be feminine with make up and cute clothing.. always criticizing me and to this day she criticizes my appearance every time I see her because she hates femininity. I love her because she’s my mom but sadly I don’t look up to her. I am thankful to have found Shera and other wonderful ladies on TH-cam who have taught me more about being a high value woman than my own mom ever has
I needed this reminder. I'm dating someone who wants sex sooner than later and I'm not doing it....until he shows me in effort/money/ etc....then see where it's at. He has to earn it! Tf
I must admit that I've been guilty of wanting to fall in love, LOL! However, I still believed in the notion that love does not pay the bills. And, not every man is not going to be deserving of love. Love, just like respect, is earned; and that man must work for both from a woman. Men don't act right because there are many women who don't make men work to get them.
I get marriage inquiries from men I don’t like because I control my behavior perfectly. With those I like very much I become spontaneous, give a lot, suffer, bond and get bread crumbs. :))
Men want you to cook ,clean and do the “hokey pokey” but then when it comes to being committed it’s like they have to be coaxed or be given an ultimatum. It’s just game. When I hear I love you, I giggle. My built in security system activates when I hear that...lol
@Rose Rivera I honestly don't know why these mgtow males take such offense to men who Actually HAVE money using it on women they find attractive and want to keep in their presence. It honestly has nothing to do with them. They aren't in the same league and are safe in their basements and studio apartments from all the supposed boogiewomen 'golddiggers' they're so scared of. I can't imagine a masculine man wasting so much time in women's spaces throwing ridiculous misspelled insults under multiple comments. Have they nothing productive to do? Read a book maybe? Go back to your videogames if nothing else, at least that will keep you busy.
My mother married when she was 19. She cooked cleaned and worked also outside she had a job. She did 50/50 with my father. She was always kind and nice to him but still my father cheated on her with another chick! While my mother working inside cook clean birth 3 of us , preparing food for husband family and visits. And working at a hard labor job.
Shera, I think you are hands down the most Pro-Woman TH-camr on here! Hands DOWN! Every single video, you’re dropping knowledge and filling in the gaps for the clueless!😅 People don’t give you enough credit for how balanced your recommendations are. Every single woman wants the best possible relationship she can get. EVERY one of us! But most of the relationship advice does not level with the audience about what you probably will have to do to cultivate the kind of relationship you ultimately want. TFS!!🥰🥰
Real talk. Shera is the GOAT. I've literally watched her advice play out in real life over and over again. I see dusties 'level up' and replace the ride or die with the 1st excuse they can imagine. I see pickmeisha bragging about being a chef yet, dude playing the field. Pickmeisha pretending to be bisexual now just to please men. So sad
I needed these reminders. Men really will lie by saying they love you and spending money on you but TRUST, it’s lust, not love and this truth never fails to shortly reveal itself. Put yourself first always!!!
Real talk what you just taught to woman in this lesson half of our own parents NEVER taught!!!!! It’s a damn shame I will Never be a fool again THANK YOU Ashera💯💜🌛
Someone told me get a BM even if he works at dollar general .... that was their dead on advice for me 😳, I accepted At first , thank god I found Shera 😍 .......now I’m understand how women lose so much because we are socialized to accept LESS and we pass that idea pass it down to women
Your hair and make-up is sheer perfection! Yes, whatever anyone earns, they tend to treat better. If a woman makes a man earn her time, treat her with respect he will treat her like a Goddess and continue to admire her and treat her a someone special and unique.
@24:00 If I'm dating a man for 2 years and I don't have a ring on my finger, I'll let him know that we need to break up so that he can find a woman who's okay with a flimsy commitment.
@@abundance6484 Yeah, I think he should know whether or not he likes me enough for marriage after 2 years. I don't want to be one of those women who dates a man for a decade and still has no solid commitment.
My grandma told me that was her failure, she said she was looking for...luv...and ended up with 9 plus kids fathers(my stupid uncles and aunts) who some never knew who their father was, krazy, violence, promiscuity, her kids turned out crazy and hate each other. ....child molestation and incest..😑
@@mooney8433 yea, she was picking bad men,,and never tried to heal herself and change..but this was back in them days..she passed away in 2012 at 87 yrs old,,,she went thru alot
@@abundance6484 due to that my mom, turned out the opposite and stuck to one man her whole life, she was traumatized by that and completely submitted to my dad while it wasnt all that good..they still married today...but it's about balance
Yes, I got the ring but I have a feeling it was a “hush” ring and he won’t be willing to marry me until years down the line. It already took him forever to become exclusive. Plus he didn’t even propose to me. The ring is very nice but I want a solid diamond and a real proposal. I don’t want to settle.
Girl you are so right!!! I had to learn this the hard way. Listen to her ladies, she's spitting facts💯#loveyourself #levelup #itsyourlife #createyourownreality
21:15 i agree with what shera said here to some teenage girl who asked if she needed to wait till 18 to level up. i'm a teenage girl myself, and since i started to watch her channel i already started to level up (as possible as i can, but i'm still not 100% leveled up because, as a minor, i *still* didn't experience some things to level up more), and i'm grateful for finding her channel because if i didn't, i wouldn't be more open minded by now and wouldn't start to focus on what men can give to me on the long term ($$$) when i grow up, instead of only focusing on the short term (sex). tysm shera!! ❤
I have a love problem..or maybe I'm just codependent and lonely, but when I catch feelings for a guy, I just let him go because I know thats the wrong thing to listen to when it comes to guys. It still hurts but I'm so used to pain that its just like blinking. Im trying to understand this and I hope to get better. When you love someone, you don't have to possess them. Just appreciate and move on. Attach to the one who benefits you the most. Love can grow eventually.
Regarding your ending question, my husband would repeatedly give me "I love you"s, and even "I'll always love you." I didn't do the same back. Now that he's gone (deceased) I'd like to think he meant it.
I got lucky I learned to love my baby ,but he pays all my bills n my mothers sometime.💗💕👏🏼😘I love him!He is about to get that life insurance going soon.ok!?!!Im in lust for my husband n I’m leveling up even more.Hes proved himself so I gotta turn up the heat!!He is so in love n crazy for me!!God blessed me truly.Yah bless💕❤️
Lol... Have been pushing this man away for 2 years and I decided to give him a chance. He knows I don't like him Soo he be spoiling me with some cash lol. Now he wants to meet at a nice restaurant and he really want something 😆😆😆
As a srt8 man on the outside looking in remember, You are what you attract,, so what kind of person am I truly,,,, personal Improvement first. sprinkle sprinkle ...
I swear every time i am struggling with an issue like self sabotage she makes a video & the other day i rewatched her "Why do fools fall in 💓" video and felt as if i needed 2watch a part ✌❗& here shes again 👌! I don't know if her deities tell her or she can read minds but when im thinking about a subject she makes a video about it 👏👏👏 LuVvV it😊🤗❗
I think it's rare to see leveled up, feminine UK born women especially in the less expensive neighbourhoods. This can change though just have to put the work in.
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I chose a man for love because we had an amazing connection and i chose him over a rich man and now i regret it because he changed. They always change smh
I’d go for rich and have platonic friends I have a “connection” with to chat with in my free time.
Damn 🤦🏾♀️ Too bad you couldn’t keep the rich man on the side. That’s why I’m scared to leave my boyfriend for someone with more money, I don’t want it to not work out and I regret it.
@@AmberBrooklyn24 a rich side nigga and a broke main nigga, so the Dusty's win again
I can relate to that one, girl!
Frederick Thomas good thing my man isn’t broke 😂😂 He’s not rich, but he’s not broke at all. He couldn’t even buy me the items he just bought me this week or does what he does if he was broke lol Dusties are not winning at all, honey lol 😜💕
I believe poor people marry for love and wealthy people marry for legacy.
Candikanelane amen
So your single.
@Angel Herron in the lord right?
I believe some poor people are kept ingnorant, discriminated or threatened by dominate society so they never become rich or have disabilities or mental issues to consider as well
Generational wealth is the only thing I'm after.
Most men aren't even capable of real love. Don't get mad at them. Just see them for who they are...
@Dev Rifter what kind of a person actually sits around thinking about eating their own children? A man. I rest my case 🙄
@Natasha Richardson Exactly! I would take a bullet for my kids. Men don't know what its like to have that kind of unconditional love.
@Dev Rifter Yours definitely should have eaten you 🤣🤣🤣 Crazy @$$
@@tonismith88899 LMFAO
Dev Rifter
Ladies y’all cold blooded lol got this man good and read him his rights 🤣😂 he wasn’t ready 🗣 lol
If you are looking for love outside of yourself, you are missing the point
@Blueend End Whenever someone tells you to do something or be there always check with yourself first, look your best, do your hair makeup and nails, watch the 90s golddiggers they are THE BEST etc. I have few videos also. But you have to pause before saying YES and always check how happy you are with everything you do or say. GOOD LUCK AND YOU CAN DO IT 🎀💙💋
@@user-ht9oc7gw1f ABSOLUTELY
Facts
See my problem is I’m sitting here “loving love” and love don’t love me back. It’s time to grow up
Its not ur fault. From a young age we are brainwashed into believing love is more important than a stable provider-woman relationship. It takes awhile to break the mindset. I didn't break my mindset until i was about 23. Now im living life and happy without love. You will be there one day trust me.
Love doesn't exist. Self empowerment does!
Just love yourself honey, love your family, your friends, animals, nature etc. Looking for love from a man is ridiculous. ❤
❤
Facts
My husband often references how much money and time he has invested in me. That was/ is his way of showing his love and loyalty. We have been married almost 20 years. Young ladies, if he isn't spending money AND time, keep it pushing. He does not see you as worthy and won't until YOU do. He won't care about you unless you care
about you. An old Southern saying, "A closed mouth don't get feed, a closed hand don't get bread." Sleep on it.
The title instantly got me!!!!!!! The older I get the more Tina Turner song makes sense!! What’s love gotta do with it? 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥴
I had to re-listen to the song and it sure does make sense now.
Did she make that song whilst she was married to ike?
PERIOD! lol
💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you Shera I just finished reading a book and there's where it says: "A woman doesn't fall in love with a man because she's already in love with a herself".
I kinda agree to a high extent👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Which book?
What is the name of the book?
The book tittle?
@@annissakapor The author is Pat Allen
Most women will love a man who treats her well and gives her a safe space to raise children and be a wife. I find it nearly impossible not to like and eventually love people who are kind and generous to me, but I also find it impossible to love someone who treats me badly and doesn’t care.
Providing for a woman financially, is the best thing he could do. The love will blossom from time/money invested.
Right 💯💯💯💯
tosca donna becos ur standard r high set by ur own upbringing !!!!
No, don’t ever stay with someone who treats you badly with no remorse.
true
Marilyn Monroe explains this (a woman marrying a man for money and status is just the same as a man marrying a woman for her looks) in the movie Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (where she sings Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend)
Men grow cold as girls grow old, and we all lose our charms in the end... but square cut or pear shaped, these rocks don't loose their shape...
Diamonds are a girl's best friend🙌🏼💎
Mmmh makes sense..so we should level up on our physical appearence and they level up on their finances
Ain't nobody got time for games
Remember y'all, he should love you more than you love him
💯💯💯
PERIOD.
POINT BLANK.
As a man myself, I 100% agree.
Now, let’s find us some real kings who can handle our fabulousness!
You're single till married
May as well still be single if you marry someone broke. Lol
Val Alv Facts!!
@@SuchANatural men don’t marry prostitutes; they replace them with younger ones.
@@simonlevite297 that's why we date older 🤣, we're always the younger model
NatalieSuki period.
“... that’s cuz ur going after the wrong men ... u have to go after the guys u don’t like...” 💎💎💎
How many women on here are as mature as shera was and actually DO THAT?? ? ......??.....I probably can count on one hand
I seen your TH-cam channel....you look leveled up.....I need to be spoiling you ...lol..your too pretty to be paying bills baby lol..
Right and be happy like Mellenia Trump
@Shawny Love how did u manage to intermingle with the guys u didn't like ??....how did u manage to look past their looks ??
@Shawny Love are u on IG?...
It’s possible to find love but he have to love you first and love you more than you love him. Speaking from experience: married to a provider for 15 years now. The bonus is husband not ugly and not too old. 😉
Help us out
Advice please
how did you find him? :(
Help them out
Lavender Don Roses I didn’t even know Shera exist at that time nobody taught me the game but I read books like Act like a Lady, Think like A man and other Dating psychology books. Like Shera’s advice look good enough ( level up the best way you can ) for a man to approach you. I played hard to get from the start , he courted me and I never reveal my true feelings , never say I love you first, act mysterious but he must like you a lot for this to work. I kept myself busy, occupied, make him think I have a lot going on in my life! Lol And I was ready to move on and made it known to him if a man can’t commit to me. But also making him realize I’m a wife material. I never asked him for money but give subtle hints. It’s important to know if you just want to be a gold digger ( I’m not against anybody who does that) or be a wife with name on deeds , life insurance as Shera would say. I also practice law of attraction, vision boards. You can watch Shera’s other channel she teaches about manifesting the things you want or desire. Other youtuber like Anna Bey (School of Affluence) teach this as well. Just have fun with it! 😘
That's true the governor in New York dated the woman for 14 years!! And he didn't married her. Women don't waste your time on a man stringing you along when you could find the right one who want to put a ring on it.
Cuomo isn't a man, he's a boy. They showed him on TV the other day looking all scared riding the train 😂😂😂
He doesn't take responsibility for his actions, he blames others for everything that goes wrong, LOL!
He was probably scared to get married too 😆
And he left her after she went through breast cancer.
I bet he'll marry his next girlfriend within the first year.
Those witches from the Eastwoods thought they found a prince, but they were just dealing with a toad!
Imagine seriously “looking for” romantic love as a grown woman... I’m sorry but wtf? It’s delusional
And those are the perfect target for love scammers
Mari am exactly. After you get your heart shattered the first time, you gotta make a change. I got my heart broke at 23 thats enough for me.
@Lucy Coming to the conclusion that romantic love is delusion and accepting it as so is very responsible.
Lucy I held myself accountable for being stupid and young that’s why I only accept EXTREMELY high caliber men now...duh...rethink your whole life cause this ain’t it
Lucy I thank god I got played at an early age I’m happy and thriving and I would bet my life that I have a better home, better car, more money and better options in men than you. You could never in your life have a multi millionaire man simp over you like I do. go somewhere you are unstable
If you fall in love you will fall in poor too
😂😂😂😂
Not really; all of America is one pay check away from being broke ; only 1% is rich . So we’re all in the same place .
Lmaooooooooo.
Don't do that, don't fall in poor.
Broke is not cute😂
phyllis dawkins Romeo and Juliet
😂😂😂
Single til married... PERIOOOODDDDD
PERIOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDD
She ain’t lyin... once she reach ur goal weight u can say anything to any man.
Yuppppp
Yes 🙌 that’s what I’m working on now..
ain't nobody got time for these emotional games!
Your daughters are truly BLESSED to have you as their feminine role model and loving mother!! Your bond with them is so beautiful ❤️❤️
Yes, i wish my mom was feminine but she is a work horse. Still love her tho
P Hugh I can relate! my mom is a work horse too and from a you age she would shame me for trying to be feminine with make up and cute clothing.. always criticizing me and to this day she criticizes my appearance every time I see her because she hates femininity. I love her because she’s my mom but sadly I don’t look up to her. I am thankful to have found Shera and other wonderful ladies on TH-cam who have taught me more about being a high value woman than my own mom ever has
That's very true!!!
@@phugh3878 ll
@@cassidypiazza4389 I share the same experience with my own mother. Shamed for being feminine SMH.
I needed this reminder. I'm dating someone who wants sex sooner than later and I'm not doing it....until he shows me in effort/money/ etc....then see where it's at. He has to earn it! Tf
Good for you. I'm the same way,waiting for marriage. Too many guys will do a lot for sex.But,as soon as they get what they want they're gone.
FlyLeelee why r u wasting even a second dating him if he hasn’t shown his money effort ? Love move fast to next
It's a red flag that he wants sex sooner than later without even investing in you.i think you should just move on
@@NA-vt6mz 👍
Treat men like cash cows and they will treat u like replaceable prostitutes. Just have good morals ; be a good person.
I must admit that I've been guilty of wanting to fall in love, LOL! However, I still believed in the notion that love does not pay the bills. And, not every man is not going to be deserving of love. Love, just like respect, is earned; and that man must work for both from a woman. Men don't act right because there are many women who don't make men work to get them.
Facts, men do not look for love. Women do. That’s why you go for the money.
You look so young with this look
She really does
Extremely and I love it 😍
Right so cute 🌸
I get marriage inquiries from men I don’t like because I control my behavior perfectly. With those I like very much I become spontaneous, give a lot, suffer, bond and get bread crumbs. :))
Right!
Girlllll 😂🤣
That comment killing me .oh my🤣🤣🤣
Eye opening
Just stop giving a fuck and have many backups
Men want you to cook ,clean and do the “hokey pokey” but then when it comes to being committed it’s like they have to be coaxed or be given an ultimatum. It’s just game. When I hear I love you, I giggle. My built in security system activates when I hear that...lol
Who told you that? Men want a live in nanny to watch the wife.
@Rose Rivera I honestly don't know why these mgtow males take such offense to men who Actually HAVE money using it on women they find attractive and want to keep in their presence. It honestly has nothing to do with them. They aren't in the same league and are safe in their basements and studio apartments from all the supposed boogiewomen 'golddiggers' they're so scared of. I can't imagine a masculine man wasting so much time in women's spaces throwing ridiculous misspelled insults under multiple comments. Have they nothing productive to do? Read a book maybe? Go back to your videogames if nothing else, at least that will keep you busy.
@Rose Rivera Make love, not war.
Hokey pokey 😭😭😭
My mother married when she was 19. She cooked cleaned and worked also outside she had a job. She did 50/50 with my father. She was always kind and nice to him but still my father cheated on her with another chick! While my mother working inside cook clean birth 3 of us , preparing food for husband family and visits. And working at a hard labor job.
I may not be a good digger but her advice is gold
Shera, I think you are hands down the most Pro-Woman TH-camr on here! Hands DOWN!
Every single video, you’re dropping knowledge and filling in the gaps for the clueless!😅 People don’t give you enough credit for how balanced your recommendations are. Every single woman wants the best possible relationship she can get. EVERY one of us! But most of the relationship advice does not level with the audience about what you probably will have to do to cultivate the kind of relationship you ultimately want.
TFS!!🥰🥰
Real talk. Shera is the GOAT. I've literally watched her advice play out in real life over and over again. I see dusties 'level up' and replace the ride or die with the 1st excuse they can imagine. I see pickmeisha bragging about being a chef yet, dude playing the field. Pickmeisha pretending to be bisexual now just to please men. So sad
I needed these reminders. Men really will lie by saying they love you and spending money on you but TRUST, it’s lust, not love and this truth never fails to shortly reveal itself. Put yourself first always!!!
If you give men love and they didn't earn it, they're not gonna value it, they're gonna throw it in the trash.❤
Damn Shera, for lack of better term, this was some real sh*t.
Some women can’t help themselves ; they love “love” and it’s normal.
Yes, I am kicking the childish “love” to the curb! It’s just looking for acceptance at an unacceptable cost!
You only get hurt that way .God bless you and your family . I am so glad I found you and you have help me so much .
Smart women love money only 😄😄👍🏻👍🏻
I couldn’t imagine being like that. That is actually delusional to me
@@SaraFJones preach
Real talk what you just taught to woman in this lesson half of our own parents NEVER taught!!!!! It’s a damn shame I will Never be a fool again THANK YOU Ashera💯💜🌛
Exactly we have all experience being someone door mat.
SheRa gives good advice!
It's like our mothers are waiting for their daughters to make the same (worse) mistakes like them. I guess it makes them Happy.
@@ronahshieldlifestyleshowro6589 they do
@@ronahshieldlifestyleshowro6589 they don't know any better
This live is exactly what I needed to hear, I’m about to break up with my boyfriend who isn’t enough for me and I want a generous provider man now!
Go get it girl 💅🏿💅🏿💅🏿
Your title is truth
🙌🏾
All her titles are truth
Someone told me get a BM even if he works at dollar general .... that was their dead on advice for me 😳, I accepted At first , thank god I found Shera 😍 .......now I’m understand how women lose so much because we are socialized to accept LESS and we pass that idea pass it down to women
Especially black women the bars set low
Men complain about GOLD DIGGERS but they keep creating them.
Exactly and these are the same men who only date women for sex and beauty and nothing more.
Shera getting realer and realer with these titles. 😂& I'm here for it. "We have people coming from Disneyland, Disneyworld, make believe" omg 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I was applying shera7 he’s was treating me well until my oxytocin kicks in then he just ghosted me
Omg I didn't know you watch her too I watch you channel as well
Love has become a simple decision for me. Grow in love. I like that ☝🏽
Man, these love songs, romantic movies, and couples married for a long time, have messed me up.
Guilty: I use to believe in love 100 percent now I’m at 50.. wait until I get to 0
Update: I am at the 30 percent mark
Q. Robinson - Love it ! on the same track here,, ❤️💀
Girl facts!
I reached that level at 38!
@Nubia Taylor 🦋🦋
I prefer situations that benefit me, now, I know better. lol!
Well god will say the opposite good luck ladies
Lmao the 60 year old lady “ get you a 90 year old SD” 😂😂😂😂
It's so stupid
You constantly slap me back to reality..:idk how long it’s going to take me me to really get this shit through my head 🤯...
I was looking for love and this whole time he lied and now he smiles at me like nothing happened ,I’m done suffering .Time to be a new me
We don't listen: she had to call us "fools" to get us open our eyes.
😂😂😂😂 lol I'm happy to be called a fool as long as I'm getting this knowledge
Amazing advice. Treat them like their intentions. Wow. So true. End of fairytale right there.
Girl you look GOOD
Your hair and make-up is sheer perfection! Yes, whatever anyone earns, they tend to treat better. If a woman makes a man earn her time, treat her with respect he will treat her like a Goddess and continue to admire her and treat her a someone special and unique.
@24:00 If I'm dating a man for 2 years and I don't have a ring on my finger, I'll let him know that we need to break up so that he can find a woman who's okay with a flimsy commitment.
Not mad at that
@@abundance6484 Yeah, I think he should know whether or not he likes me enough for marriage after 2 years. I don't want to be one of those women who dates a man for a decade and still has no solid commitment.
Dev Rifter actually a lot (most) of them still, lmao 😂
@Dev Rifter Yeah, if a man can't meet my standards then I'd rather be single. I don't need mediocrity in my life.
@Blank Blank Exactly. They want to use you for as long as they can. That's why I have standards.
My grandma told me that was her failure, she said she was looking for...luv...and ended up with 9 plus kids fathers(my stupid uncles and aunts) who some never knew who their father was, krazy, violence, promiscuity, her kids turned out crazy and hate each other. ....child molestation and incest..😑
...sounds like she had bad taste overall....
@@mooney8433 yea, she was picking bad men,,and never tried to heal herself and change..but this was back in them days..she passed away in 2012 at 87 yrs old,,,she went thru alot
Good lord no
@@abundance6484 due to that my mom, turned out the opposite and stuck to one man her whole life, she was traumatized by that and completely submitted to my dad while it wasnt all that good..they still married today...but it's about balance
@Dev Rifter nawwwhhh
People don’t fall in love 💯 they “grow in love💯
Whenever you open your mouth pure Gold comes out. I wish I discovered you 10 years ago ....
As the addage goes : "Women give sex for love and men give love for sex." I hate this addage.
Look at what love has gotten us? Thank you Shera for this great video.
Love dont live here anymore
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Stop looking for love, fooools! Screaming 😂🤍
She telling the truth about the you can be with a man 5 years and still he won't give you no ring i been there before
Yes, I got the ring but I have a feeling it was a “hush” ring and he won’t be willing to marry me until years down the line. It already took him forever to become exclusive. Plus he didn’t even propose to me. The ring is very nice but I want a solid diamond and a real proposal. I don’t want to settle.
And the Universe guided me HERE once again. Lol love Ashera baby.sprinkle sprinkle 💕😁
This video also helps you keep your expectations low which is key in any situation
Sprinkle sprinkle!! 💫
4 to 5 mins in listening to this, I saw a butterfly flying UPWARDS. So great message! Thank you hun.
You are THE TRUTH! Not a single lie! 💯
You look young young Shera😍
The TITLE got my attention
Thank U Girl...for Shining the Light on these Men and their behaviors... also How to Control our Emotions! Love~Peace~
After u leave them they love u so keep moving lol
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You never disappoint
Girl you are so right!!! I had to learn this the hard way. Listen to her ladies, she's spitting facts💯#loveyourself #levelup #itsyourlife #createyourownreality
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i agree with what shera said here to some teenage girl who asked if she needed to wait till 18 to level up. i'm a teenage girl myself, and since i started to watch her channel i already started to level up (as possible as i can, but i'm still not 100% leveled up because, as a minor, i *still* didn't experience some things to level up more), and i'm grateful for finding her channel because if i didn't, i wouldn't be more open minded by now and wouldn't start to focus on what men can give to me on the long term ($$$) when i grow up, instead of only focusing on the short term (sex). tysm shera!! ❤
I have a love problem..or maybe I'm just codependent and lonely, but when I catch feelings for a guy, I just let him go because I know thats the wrong thing to listen to when it comes to guys. It still hurts but I'm so used to pain that its just like blinking. Im trying to understand this and I hope to get better. When you love someone, you don't have to possess them. Just appreciate and move on. Attach to the one who benefits you the most. Love can grow eventually.
Regarding your ending question, my husband would repeatedly give me "I love you"s, and even "I'll always love you." I didn't do the same back. Now that he's gone (deceased) I'd like to think he meant it.
I-. So you never told him you loved him?
Damn lady...a little love in return might have saved his life.🤔😢
Ewww, what's wrong with you?
@@LongLiveLeonor I'm sure I did the day we married, and I told him we need him alive...
@@dontliveinfear.7640 You don't know the details...
Shera ... you helping me so much 😭😭😭 very grateful because I have no idea where I would hear this information from.
Thank you SheRaSeven1 cause I was on my way to an entanglement lol and you got me together with this video thank you soo much I feel better now
Thank you for this video ! Really for all of your videos, they helped me realize life really not a fairytale. I’m waking up ..
I got lucky I learned to love my baby ,but he pays all my bills n my mothers sometime.💗💕👏🏼😘I love him!He is about to get that life insurance going soon.ok!?!!Im in lust for my husband n I’m leveling up even more.Hes proved himself so I gotta turn up the heat!!He is so in love n crazy for me!!God blessed me truly.Yah bless💕❤️
You're such a beauty, and your natural hair is nice!!! You make me laugh and you keep it 💯!!! 💞
Thank you. Your advice is life changing .
Lol... Have been pushing this man away for 2 years and I decided to give him a chance. He knows I don't like him Soo he be spoiling me with some cash lol. Now he wants to meet at a nice restaurant and he really want something 😆😆😆
I honestly think it's just physical attraction that get women all fuked up
Thank you for this reality check... I been slipping after I got dumped but I’m back on track!!
"You gotta trick 'em, you gotta lie." Dfl (Period, Pooh)
This is probably ur best video
Always looking beautiful while you tell us the truth. Love you always queen 😍
Will catch up havin dinner with my love !!
Thank you Sheera changed my life my thinking
Shera look like Janet Jackson... very Pleasure Principle 🖤🖤🎼🎤
Omg i love youuuuuu you aint never lieee
As a srt8 man on the outside looking in remember, You are what you attract,, so what kind of person am I truly,,,, personal Improvement first. sprinkle sprinkle ...
What she’s saying is facts ladies
I Love this lady...😏...Speaking true Facts...❤
Shera is the fairy godmother 😂since so many women believe in fairytales
Shera you are genius
You can't build a kingdom with someone who still wants attention from the whole village.
always look for money first
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Thank you Shera! Thank you! :)) Nobody ever thought me this stuff.
Love the title💕 it was eye candy & truth 🍭👍💫💫💕💕
Love the look
Great video..so many jewels dropped!! Sprinkle sprinkle
I rather look for money cuz love it’s just an act!! 🦹🏽♀️
Sooooo true
I swear every time i am struggling with an issue like self sabotage she makes a video & the other day i rewatched her "Why do fools fall in 💓" video and felt as if i needed 2watch a part ✌❗& here shes again 👌! I don't know if her deities tell her or she can read minds but when im thinking about a subject she makes a video about it 👏👏👏 LuVvV it😊🤗❗
Hi SheRa! Love from London! 💜🧡💛💚💙❤️💗♥️
Another Londoner 👋🏼hi
I think it's rare to see leveled up, feminine
UK born women especially in the less expensive neighbourhoods.
This can change though just have to put the work in.
I love this look Shera! You have one of the best channels on TH-cam. 🥰💯