@@keziadelacruz9729 I'm saying exactly what I said, you be treated how you let people treat you. It might be a little her fault, for being weak making bad decisions and choices That led to the situation she is in now, she picked the man after all. If she finds her self in this situation again in life, it's fully her fault
@@kimboydstonartanddesign Because sometimes the victim doesn't see the abuse and the abuser is good at malupulation that drags the victim down to the same self esteem level as the abuser. Once there the abuser wins and without help the victim is forever lost.
The problem I have with your comment Fizz is that is that he is also good looking and (most importantly) she can leave his home anytime she wants. She can leave but chooses not to do so. And why? She lives for free, he supports her. His home, his rules. Maybe he has some damn good reasons for imposing those rules? Maybe she has done some terrible things to him and their relationship that forced him to impose that upon her? We are not going to hear that, but it appears to me that this may very well be the case (especially in this situation.)
@@paulcolburn3855 So he chooses a woman that he doesn't approve or respect? At what point in her life is she allowed to make her own decisions? You mention that she is living in his space for free? She has a multitude of tasks she is expected to do to make his life more convenient. That is not free, with pay of only $100 a month, it is practically slavery, so this is very unhealthy. When she is discouraged from going on an outing with her own father, that is a huge red flag that her partner is abusive. No decent man should treat his woman so disrespectfully.
That fear is him knowing that at any moment she could drop a dime on him for a false rape allegation and have him put in jail and take everything he owns. He's crazy to even be with her.
No, kangaroo there is no fear in his eyes. If he was fearful, he would not have agreed to go on Dr Phil's show. You'll note, he answered every single question Dr Phil asked, either directly with a yes or a no, OR he gave an explanation. Either way, that is no evidence of fear. That is evidence of confidence and conviction in his principles. Dr Phil never asked her one question. He didn't. That is because his audience would have taken that as a sign that Dr Phil was attacking her. We are talking about a woman so messed up that she pulled a knife on the father of her child. If a man does that, he goes to prison and loses everything. If a woman does that, then YOU kangaroo, you say that the man should be fearful of Dr Phil. You need to ask yourself if you are really looking at things correctly here. What do we know? We know: he works. We have no idea if she works. We know that they are not married. We know that there is 12 year age gap. We know that she pulls a knife on him and he had to "submit her" (which means he did what I would have done, grabbed her by the wrist and removed the knife from her.) We know that she lives in his house that he owns. We know she doesn't really own anything and that (for whatever reason) her own father is bad news for this family. None of these things should make him fearful of Dr Phil. No, he wasn't afraid. You need to re-evaluate.
@@RedSiegfried you trolling , hes verbally abusive if he doesnt get his own way calls her selfish for going out of a room to feed there baby , she deserves someone better and needs to get away for her childrens sake ,children are children to be nurtured not to belittle soldiers
Lets see Lucille, he pays all the bills, she pays nothing. He does all the work for pay, she is free to work but chooses not to. He gives her $100 a month allowance to pay off her debts before she came into his life. He has kids from other women that are a priority and he doesn't want any people in his house (near his kids) that he doesn't approve of. And he has gotten her to a safe space in his home where she is protected and cared for. And you think he needs a therapist and help? What help does he need? She needs him. He does not need her. She pulled a knife on him. She tried to kill him. He did not touch her. And you think he needs help? Young lady, stop posting on youtube. Re-examine your life. You are misled about pretty much everything in life.
@Arthur james Not to the point where you get their passwords and personal info like that, no. And limiting that persons time with their family and friends. Stop defending abuse.
@@lamar9331 She may not feel it is safe to leave (yet), especially with children involved. He has cut her off from all her supportive friends and family. And he probably has control of her finances.
@@TheFaithArtist I'm sorry, I just wouldn't have let it get this far. You have to make you own way in this world, not be dependent on anyone for your finances. As far as safety and kids, she's not safe now. It sounds like this has been going on for a long time. She should have had a plan by now.
@@lamar9331 Having a plan, and having the opportunity to put the plan into action are two different things. You wouldn't have "let it get this far"? Good for you. I hope you never get tricked into having a child with a narcissistic sociopath who behaves nicely at the start of your relationship.
No man should have rules for a woman he loves and vice versa. This is ridiculous! This is not a partnership!!! I have been married for 20 years and have never made rules or followed rules!
@Yeshua is lord I do agree about the killing part but he is doing more than as you say " hurting your little feelings " but he is doing more than that, so it's more than that
@Yeshua Is Lord people like you scares me. Your lord is the devil, not Yeshua. She has been held captive and he is telling when and where she can go, who she is allowed to talk to and when. In many states if he tries to stop her from leaving the house and she kills him will be considered self defense, specially after this clip is out there …
I’ve dated narcissists all my life . Broke the cycle by taking accountability. Been single 6 years and have so much peace . No person is worth stressing over . I date here and there as soon as I see a red flag I RUN 🏃♂️ no more staying until they change ! Men and women there is hope 💓
These have been the unwritten rules that most women in my country(and in many Asian and Middle Eastern countries) are forced to obey after they have been forced to marry someone that their parents have chosen for them to marry. And, yet, people go crazy when I say I don't want to marry.
@@lamar9331 you’re of course entitled to your opinion, but unless you know this girl I have to respectfully disagree with what you said. Not every abuse victim has the strength or confidence to just walk away esp when it’s mental abuse.
@@navida2005 I have been in a verbally abusive relationship, the physical part not so much. Instead he attacked my sister. Don't say something about someone unless you know. I never said it was easy, and it's frightening, but do you want to have a life of b/s and fear? Not me.
@@LizzyTheVampireSlayer Like I replied in another comment. I have been in a mentally abusive relationship. He physical ended up attacking my sister, so yeah I know. If you don't find the strength to leave, you choose the consequences of being his victim forever.
Two people can't live together for the rest of their lives without trust in each other! Controlling every aspect of someone's life is a far reach from trust.
He doesn’t even have to admit to how controlling he is; you can just tell. This is only what he’s willing to admit to too, so you just know he’s actually far worse in reality behind closed doors. His demeanor and aura just SCREAM toxicity.
True but a victim mindset still isn’t nearly as bad as an abuser mindset, & that’s ultimately just victim blaming when they’re at their most violent when you’re leaving.
Why is she staying with him since he is so controlling? Take the baby and go. He will have to pay child support. I would never ever subject myself to that type of abuse by staying with a narcissist, controlling bully.
From the look of his eyes and gestures, he's simply so scared of losing her so he puts up all these road blocks to keep her in check. Its basically a leash since he's so insecure. This tactic is so common and many women fall prey to it unfortunately because some how some way they don't think they deserve better when they actually do.
If anyone has a partner like Cory, who is insecure and selfish, should take action to save themselves from trauma. End the relationship and RUN! People like that are very dangerous.
I married a wonderful man, who was sweet and silly to me. My mother warned me early- look how he treats his own mother and daughter (my step.) He will turn on you, too. He hates women.... 13 years later, 2 more kids: I left with the children, the clothes on our backs, hiding from cameras that were planted all over the place. I'm so much happier, even though I struggle at times. Thank goodness for my mother, who took us in. My sweet and silly husband DID turn on me. I wasn't "allowed" to do anything after enough time with him... Now I'm working full time, making friends, and providing for my children like I never could before. Men can be so toxic.
Yeah, he’s insane, but he’s not the problem. There’s absolutely no reason for her to tolerate that nonsense if she doesn’t want to. She chose him and that’s on her.
Leaving an abusive relationship must be done at the right time, especially where children are involved, as that is when the risk of violence is highest. He's terrified of her leaving him, and she knows it. There's no telling what he'll do when she leaves.
Darling girl This person is controlling your everymove. You will have to get away from him, because you will need to grow as a person. He won’t let you grow.
I hate when people do this. I thought that only nice girls do this but the fact that a guy is doing this just makes me annoyed that a lot of people are doing this. How dare people say, “You can’t talk to anyone of the opposite gender/gender you are attracted to.” That annoys me. What gives YOU the right to decide who I talk to? Nice girls/Nice Guys need to stop this.
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ALL THE MEN AND WOMEN OUT THERE / AND THERE DEALING WITH THIS /LEAVE HIM FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE
Or her
Failing that, get a pet who will love you unconditionally. Or a cockroach. It'll still be better then him.
@@dawnj2360 that sounds an awful lot like a guy from japan that dated a cockroach.. is this a reference to that video?
Totally agree
@@lollyjollyflapjacks6078 wtf did I just read lol
He is controlling and a narcissist. I hope she got out of that relationship and is doing better.
Get rid of these gits and find a real MAN.
We all get treated how we allow people to treat us,
He is scary to say the least.
@@johnwoodley2034 are you saying that it’s her fault?
@@keziadelacruz9729 I'm saying exactly what I said, you be treated how you let people treat you. It might be a little her fault, for being weak making bad decisions and choices That led to the situation she is in now, she picked the man after all. If she finds her self in this situation again in life, it's fully her fault
He has bad self-esteem and is scared of losing her because she is GORGEOUS and way out of his league.
Yep! You nailed it.
Then why is she with him?
@@kimboydstonartanddesign Because sometimes the victim doesn't see the abuse and the abuser is good at malupulation that drags the victim down to the same self esteem level as the abuser. Once there the abuser wins and without help the victim is forever lost.
The problem I have with your comment Fizz is that is that he is also good looking and (most importantly) she can leave his home anytime she wants. She can leave but chooses not to do so. And why? She lives for free, he supports her. His home, his rules. Maybe he has some damn good reasons for imposing those rules? Maybe she has done some terrible things to him and their relationship that forced him to impose that upon her? We are not going to hear that, but it appears to me that this may very well be the case (especially in this situation.)
@@paulcolburn3855 So he chooses a woman that he doesn't approve or respect? At what point in her life is she allowed to make her own decisions? You mention that she is living in his space for free? She has a multitude of tasks she is expected to do to make his life more convenient. That is not free, with pay of only $100 a month, it is practically slavery, so this is very unhealthy. When she is discouraged from going on an outing with her own father, that is a huge red flag that her partner is abusive. No decent man should treat his woman so disrespectfully.
You can see the fear in his eyes as he answers Dr Phil's questions, trying to explain away his behaviour. You should be scared dude.
That fear is him knowing that at any moment she could drop a dime on him for a false rape allegation and have him put in jail and take everything he owns. He's crazy to even be with her.
@@RedSiegfried fALsE rApE aLLeGaTiOn
No, kangaroo there is no fear in his eyes. If he was fearful, he would not have agreed to go on Dr Phil's show. You'll note, he answered every single question Dr Phil asked, either directly with a yes or a no, OR he gave an explanation. Either way, that is no evidence of fear. That is evidence of confidence and conviction in his principles.
Dr Phil never asked her one question. He didn't. That is because his audience would have taken that as a sign that Dr Phil was attacking her. We are talking about a woman so messed up that she pulled a knife on the father of her child. If a man does that, he goes to prison and loses everything. If a woman does that, then YOU kangaroo, you say that the man should be fearful of Dr Phil. You need to ask yourself if you are really looking at things correctly here.
What do we know? We know: he works. We have no idea if she works. We know that they are not married. We know that there is 12 year age gap. We know that she pulls a knife on him and he had to "submit her" (which means he did what I would have done, grabbed her by the wrist and removed the knife from her.) We know that she lives in his house that he owns. We know she doesn't really own anything and that (for whatever reason) her own father is bad news for this family. None of these things should make him fearful of Dr Phil.
No, he wasn't afraid. You need to re-evaluate.
@@RedSiegfried you trolling , hes verbally abusive if he doesnt get his own way calls her selfish for going out of a room to feed there baby , she deserves someone better and needs to get away for her childrens sake ,children are children to be nurtured not to belittle soldiers
@@chefg434 He is saving her from herself. Her demise would be quick without him.
This guy is the one who needs a therapist and help.
@david hawke damn you sound like you got personal problems 😅🤣🤣
@david hawke good keep the men away 🙄💅 pls
He’s controlling and abusive. End of story.
@david hawke how are you still defending this man?🤣 you still judged the woman harshly based off a 3 minute clip so stfu💀
Lets see Lucille, he pays all the bills, she pays nothing. He does all the work for pay, she is free to work but chooses not to. He gives her $100 a month allowance to pay off her debts before she came into his life. He has kids from other women that are a priority and he doesn't want any people in his house (near his kids) that he doesn't approve of. And he has gotten her to a safe space in his home where she is protected and cared for.
And you think he needs a therapist and help? What help does he need? She needs him. He does not need her. She pulled a knife on him. She tried to kill him. He did not touch her. And you think he needs help?
Young lady, stop posting on youtube. Re-examine your life. You are misled about pretty much everything in life.
he literally has an excuse for everything🙄 she’s not making all this up by herself. he’s so insecure and a damn narcissist.
@Arthur james Not to the point where you get their passwords and personal info like that, no. And limiting that persons time with their family and friends. Stop defending abuse.
If he's 32 years old, I would expect that behaviour from a 16-year-old.
He says the only time she was doing good was being with him? What is wrong with these egotistical men . Geez
What’s wrong with a woman that takes it?
I agree but not all men are like this in fact most men are the opposite.
Men like that, keep the home a happy place
@@bilalahmed2123 ew
@@armenapanian7531 no one said all men omfg
This guy reminds me of my quiet, well-groomed, toxic, controlling ex. I think it's the combination of insane rules and staring eyes.
This is domestic abuse
And she's choosing to stay with it.
Bingo
@@lamar9331 She may not feel it is safe to leave (yet), especially with children involved. He has cut her off from all her supportive friends and family. And he probably has control of her finances.
@@TheFaithArtist I'm sorry, I just wouldn't have let it get this far. You have to make you own way in this world, not be dependent on anyone for your finances. As far as safety and kids, she's not safe now. It sounds like this has been going on for a long time. She should have had a plan by now.
@@lamar9331 Having a plan, and having the opportunity to put the plan into action are two different things.
You wouldn't have "let it get this far"? Good for you. I hope you never get tricked into having a child with a narcissistic sociopath who behaves nicely at the start of your relationship.
My only rule is no cheating with another dude.
@Brian Karimian like no men at all?? no offence, but she/he can talk to whoever they want without your permission.
@Brian Karimian So she can’t have male friends? That’s sad.
@Ryan Crump I wonder if he’s “allowed” to have female friends? It must just be the two of them, so no one gets jealous 🤣😳🤦🏻♀️
I want a boyfriend like you. Where can I find him?
My wife has the same rule for me.
I am not allowed to cheat with another Dude.
“She had so called friends who were bringing her down” isn’t that what you’re doing?
Right!?
She must have really low self esteem to put up with a man like this. She is stunningly beautiful. Poor girl!
No man should have rules for a woman he loves and vice versa. This is ridiculous! This is not a partnership!!! I have been married for 20 years and have never made rules or followed rules!
Wow. I bet your husband would have something different to say about this.
I believe that this woman is telling the truth here. That bloke sounds like he's a controlling tool!
@Pooty Pump wow... 🤦🏻♀️
She never speaks. What truth did she say?
I commend her for not killing him for the sake of the child
@Yeshua Is Lord he'd have it comming
I do too.
@Yeshua is lord I do agree about the killing part but he is doing more than as you say " hurting your little feelings " but he is doing more than that, so it's more than that
@Yeshua Is Lord people like you scares me. Your lord is the devil, not Yeshua.
She has been held captive and he is telling when and where she can go, who she is allowed to talk to and when. In many states if he tries to stop her from leaving the house and she kills him will be considered self defense, specially after this clip is out there …
It’s his house
He's a total jerk. Hope she smartens up and leaves him.
This is the kind of guy who will murder his girlfriend and claim she left him and the kids for another man
He sure is full of himself 🙄
This man is the worst kind of narcissist. I feel so bad for this woman
I’ve dated narcissists all my life . Broke the cycle by taking accountability. Been single 6 years and have so much peace . No person is worth stressing over . I date here and there as soon as I see a red flag I RUN 🏃♂️ no more staying until they change ! Men and women there is hope 💓
Shes beautiful and seems really kind. I feel so bad for her.
These have been the unwritten rules that most women in my country(and in many Asian and Middle Eastern countries) are forced to obey after they have been forced to marry someone that their parents have chosen for them to marry. And, yet, people go crazy when I say I don't want to marry.
Don’t blame you at all and also explains why I have been hearing lately as to why Asian women aren’t getting married.
That's awful woman are people not objects...
@@arzf.2362 you have a good day glad to see you have a opinion like everyone else 😊👏
That guy is sick for real!!!!
Jfc... this is literally abusive :/ I feel bad for her
There's nothing making her stay with him. It's her choice. She is as stupid as he is.
@@lamar9331 you’re of course entitled to your opinion, but unless you know this girl I have to respectfully disagree with what you said. Not every abuse victim has the strength or confidence to just walk away esp when it’s mental abuse.
@@lamar9331 you've clearly never been in an abusive relationship before. leaving an abusive partner is easier said than done. period.
@@navida2005 I have been in a verbally abusive relationship, the physical part not so much. Instead he attacked my sister. Don't say something about someone unless you know. I never said it was easy, and it's frightening, but do you want to have a life of b/s and fear? Not me.
@@LizzyTheVampireSlayer Like I replied in another comment. I have been in a mentally abusive relationship. He physical ended up attacking my sister, so yeah I know. If you don't find the strength to leave, you choose the consequences of being his victim forever.
Dr phill really hates this guy to put the comments on
I'm Old School, but I'd never do that to a Woman, a Woman is a Free Spirit.
Yaas!
I hope she reads this, dude.
Love you for that honestly
I was in this type of relationship for 2 and a half years. I'm so glad I got myself out
Old school...my father was born in 1913 and never treated my mother with anything but respect
None of his answers are fully truthful, he's a evil pick.
This isn’t a relationship this is ownership.
Two people can't live together for the rest of their lives without trust in each other! Controlling every aspect of someone's life is a far reach from trust.
After 17years of Dr Phil I have no idea how he hasn't just smacked some fool like this!!!
Run Elizabeth run. You’re beautiful. He’s a DB.
Girl.... run.....
The fact he not only has no remorse but sees nothing unusual with his behavior makes him a sociopath.
I find it very distasteful some men behave like this,very often they deny it or try to justify it.
I love how dr phil interrupts him when he turns to his girlfriend to gaslight her of the reason why the rules exist.
He doesn’t even have to admit to how controlling he is; you can just tell. This is only what he’s willing to admit to too, so you just know he’s actually far worse in reality behind closed doors. His demeanor and aura just SCREAM toxicity.
True but a victim mindset still isn’t nearly as bad as an abuser mindset, & that’s ultimately just victim blaming when they’re at their most violent when you’re leaving.
I'm curious to know if he's physically harmed anyone. If he hasn't yet, he will. Scary.
the worst part is that if she just said "im leaving you i cant take this anymore" maybe he could do some other serious stuff.
Way past time to leave him
I love how he starts every answer with "no." hahah.
Being supportive is not being controlling…
Why is she staying with him since he is so controlling? Take the baby and go. He will have to pay child support. I would never ever subject myself to that type of abuse by staying with a narcissist, controlling bully.
I don’t think you understand abusive relationships, you think Corey would just let her go willingly?
this is obviously why he hasn't married her, he can call it his house & his rules.
From the look of his eyes and gestures, he's simply so scared of losing her so he puts up all these road blocks to keep her in check. Its basically a leash since he's so insecure. This tactic is so common and many women fall prey to it unfortunately because some how some way they don't think they deserve better when they actually do.
He says he's old school, but then I wonder where he got those ideas from
the only rules people should have in a relationship is loyalty 🤣
He is trying to isolate from friends and family because that makes her easier to control and gaslight
A controlling abusive narcissist right there.
If anyone has a partner like Cory, who is insecure and selfish, should take action to save themselves from trauma. End the relationship and RUN!
People like that are very dangerous.
I married a wonderful man, who was sweet and silly to me. My mother warned me early- look how he treats his own mother and daughter (my step.) He will turn on you, too. He hates women.... 13 years later, 2 more kids: I left with the children, the clothes on our backs, hiding from cameras that were planted all over the place. I'm so much happier, even though I struggle at times. Thank goodness for my mother, who took us in. My sweet and silly husband DID turn on me. I wasn't "allowed" to do anything after enough time with him... Now I'm working full time, making friends, and providing for my children like I never could before.
Men can be so toxic.
It will only get worse…. And the effects on your mind, body, and wellbeing only plummets
He’s a creep
Knowing her passwords? This is creepy.
If you have a list, there is something WRONG in the relationship! Get out now, while you can!
That’s why he’s my EX! He’s controlling her. Red flags 🚩 everywhere!!
I hope she left. These kinds of relationships usually end with the line: "before turning the gun on himself."
What a catch! Isn't he dreamy ladies? And as an added bonus he can also pick out your toothpaste.
OMG LADY LEAVE THIS SELFISH DUDE!!!
Oh god he's like it's my phone my email my house I do hope she saw sense and dumped this controlling cretin
This man is an abuser. I hope she can be free if him soon.
He said "my home". That tells me all I need to know
This is the perfect example of insecurity.
ONE WORD FOR HER: RUN!!!!
As a disabled woman, I'm glad I've been single for the last eight months. I will never settle for anyone who controls me like this.
ok
If ever I looked at a narcissistic demon 👹 this guy is it .
This is exactly why I choose to be single
Girl go go that is not normal.
And this is why some men are the way they are...
what??? you’re stupid if your blaming her for his abusive behavior
Leave the control freak, he doesn't love you, he owns you.
She picked a REAL WINNER!
weirdo
He is so controlling and insecure.
He called people having supportive parents spoiled. Get over yourself 😂
Run... are you kidding me?
Good golly how did she even stay with him longer than 5 minutes when they first met? :/
“I’m very old school” yes you are, wonder why it’s not going so well?
Breakup time
With corey saying that she can't have his passwords just screams that he is cheating on her.
I don’t know who this boy thinks he can control. She is not his child he does not get to control what she does, what she wears, and who she talks to.
Red Flags 🚩 My gosh , this is text book coercive control !
Insecure narcissist. Run from this guy. Run fast and far away.
He's justifying every rule he made... He's toxic.
He’s a parent. Not a spouse.
Nail on the head
I'd tell that guy right where to go if he gave me rules.
Get rid of him....
How sad that this woman has to live like this. He is a monster.
He literally had an “explanation” for everything on the list.
i would be gone so fast...as we say in Australia....so fast you wouldn’t,t see me for dust ..
Yeah, he’s insane, but he’s not the problem. There’s absolutely no reason for her to tolerate that nonsense if she doesn’t want to. She chose him and that’s on her.
Yeah, I know, right, I can't imagine him hunting her down after she leaves him, either.
(That was sarcasm, in case you need to be told.)
@@TheFaithArtist that’s an exuse you made, if he’s never threatened that, and she’s never tried to leave, it’s on her.
Leaving an abusive relationship must be done at the right time, especially where children are involved, as that is when the risk of violence is highest. He's terrified of her leaving him, and she knows it. There's no telling what he'll do when she leaves.
There's zero love here.
HE'S DANGEROUS
Total Narcissist.. Hope she got away.
Leave that controlling goof!
This is the SICKEST THING
Darling girl This person is controlling your everymove. You will have to get away from him, because you will need to grow as a person. He won’t let you grow.
I hate when people do this. I thought that only nice girls do this but the fact that a guy is doing this just makes me annoyed that a lot of people are doing this. How dare people say, “You can’t talk to anyone of the opposite gender/gender you are attracted to.” That annoys me. What gives YOU the right to decide who I talk to? Nice girls/Nice Guys need to stop this.
Of course she should leave, but it’s so much harder to leave this controlling of a relationship. I’m sad for her and wish her all the best
If she allows him to do this, he’ll get worse with time, been there….
this poor guy needs some help