Psychologist reacts to soothing messages of BTS
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- I'm Dr. Harley and I have a PhD in clinical psychology. My career was spent in both private practice and as a psychology professor. I'll be analysing successful people in their journey for happiness.
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I'm 86 and I've been a fan of these guys for 7 years. They are unique, one of a kind group. Love them so much.
💜 happy festa
Borahae 💜
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
I'm 66 and have loved them for years. I'm so proud of them and will be Army to my last breath.
I’m 68 and have been so enriched by finding BTS. They have helped me so much in the trials I’ve experienced, especially being bullied at work. “You can’t stop me loving myself” and “You can’t hold me down cause you know I’m a fighter” have been my rallying cries when I felt at the verge of completely crumbling at times. The love between BTS and Army has nourished me. I used my walker to get to PTD Las Vegas and I’ll never forget all the armies who helped me down the stairs and continued to shower me with love at the concert. I would crawl if I had to to get there! It was so worth it. BTS and army have provided a sense of family and belonging for me in a time where many of my family and friends are gone. Apo bangpo!
a few hours ago Jimin released an mv of his "hidden" track "letter" on Bangtantv. it is basically a love letter to army. he said thank you to all of us who were there with him during his sad times and that he wants to give back all the support. i think that is very heartfelt and true, they are healing us but a little bit we are healing them, too. thank you, Dr. Harley, it is a joy to listen to you!
Thank you for acknowledging us seniors ....im 63 and my sister before she passed was 71...
I proudly say im silver ARMY
I would not have gotten thru covid lockdown without them ....💜
Hi Silver ARMY💜. I join the ARMY Family in 2017 at 41.....and was surprised that the Fandom covered all the ages, from almost 1 year old to 99. Their story of how they started as the under dogs from a small company to the famous group the world knows, but seeing how tough it was in the beginning, can be related by everyone in the older generations. Plus they show that it doesn't matter how old you are; if you respect us and our music, we will return it by 1000%.💜
@Mildred Quinones they once said in an interview that before they came to the states theirs shows their audience was teenagers he noticed in the audiences in America the age range from was from 9 to 99 really made them happy
@@kimcole1093 It was then they found out how open minded we are in the USA (in some cases. IYK, YK).
@Mildred Quinones i wish they would do seperate fsn meets for silver fans ..
I think silver fans would feel more comfortable
@@kimcole1093 Very true. I have a cousin who teaches english in Korea and he tells me K-Pop fans in Korea are mostly teens and it is considered something you grow out of enjoying by your 20s. He is blown away by the global support of all age groups.
I've been a fan of BTS for almost three years and I have to say that they have completely changed my life for the better.
I have not heard the term “silver ARMY” before, but I’ll gladly take my place there! I did not follow BTS early on, mainly because I thought that I had outgrown my boy band phase. But, along with many of my friends, we’ve found that in our mid-40s we all stopped caring about what we were supposed to like and do, and it was a fresh start for all of us. This is a group of genuine, caring, talented, hard-working men, and I’m happy every time I see new people like you start to discover them.
I never heard that before, but I love that term!
I love the term.
Hi uncle Harley 66 years young ARMY here.I have seen much in my life BUT never have I experienced ANYTHING like these 7
young men I swear they leave me speachles and in awe every time I hear them talk and sing.They are AWESOME and they make
me feel like a proud grandma.
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
I understand that exactly. My youngest child is Jins age, and my oldest granddaughter is JungKooks age. So I my grandma and mom heart is filled with pride for these amazing young men. I couldn't imagine how much more broken I would have become if they hadn't been there.
Thank you for the shoutout to us Silver ARMY. It's really difficult to explain what draws us to BTS to those who don't know them. Many in the west have only heard their english songs, Dynamite, Butter and Permission to Dance and think of them as a very superficial bubblegum pop group. Their messages seem simple, but they are oh so powerful, especially when they are reinforced over and over. One of my favourite BTS concepts is from the the song Zero O'Clock (00:00). It tells us that no matter what has gone on during our day or how much we are beating ourselves up over past mistakes, we all get a reset button every night at midnight for a chance for a better tomorrow. Very comforting. I can't even keep track of all the ARMY I have spoken to (of all ages) that profess that BTS pulled them back from the brink of ending it all. BTS understand their responsibilities that come with their great success. Thank you for reacting.
Yes, Zero O'Clock and So What help so much when things are going haywire! There's nothing like a good reset to relieve stresses and burdens.
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The fact that they could use those years of pandemic to do their military service but decided to stay and make online presentations to comfort the army... it's a lot
Thank you for your analyzes of BTS messages to ARMY. I'm your 70 year-old SLP fan. I was attracted to their music but became a fan because of their character and their relationship with us. They have given me the courage to face and deal with two deeply buried painful things in my past and obtain healing. BTS has changed the world and changed the lives of millions of their fans. Bless you for being a conduit to healing. Borahae Saranghae 💜
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@harleyburke1461
Thank you for your interest in the recommendations of senior ARMY. I love the interaction in these videos:
BTS' and Bang Si Hyuk's interactions
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BTS' 2017 Bon Voyage--reading letters to each other
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BTS surprising J-Hope on his birthday 2014
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BTS answer interview questions about each other
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BTS asking a member to tell them something that they want hear from the member (several episodes)
Episode 1:
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Episode 2:
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Episode 3: (my favorite--in unison they tell RM he's the best leader)
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BTS each writing poems to the whole group
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I will research some videos on the individual members and I will work at remembering some more of the previous videos I have seen. I really love talking to people about BTS.🙂
I'm 52 but don't consider myself Silver Army, I'm Forever Young 😂
As a silver ARMY, I'm awed by the members' strength of character and their ability to love themselves as they are- all at such a young age. Their helpful suggestions show honesty and loving care for themselves, each other, and their fans. They are my role models for even at my age, I'm still learning and growing. Thank you for covering this and for promoting positive thinking, staying in the present, and loving oneself. Peace to you, Dr. Harley! ✌💜
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
You really must listen to the entire class of 2020 speeches by BTS. You’ve done a small part by Suga here. Every single speech is amazing, relatable and kind. I especially loved what Jimin and Jin told us.
Thank you for your reactions.... I'm 53 and the song lyrics of Epiphany help me with my depression...it reminded me to love myself.... BTS is the best they're always there for Army 💜💜💜💜 💜💜💜
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68yo Silver Army here. I've lived through some brilliant music....the Beatles, Michael Jackson, Prince...and now BTS. Current music has always been the soundtrack of my life, but not all of the music was a positive influence...I'd go so far as to say most of popular music has not been a positive influence on my psyche. BTS is the exception to the rule. Their music and their personas touch me on a soul level in a beautiful way. It's so hard to verbalize...so special.
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
How about something amusing? Perhaps "BTS's Mini field day part 2". It's their last episode of Run BTS that they filmed before Jin went to the military. It is by far their funniest episode ever and I think this is like their 160th episode....or somewhere there abouts. Jimin's physical comedy in this episode is just brilliant and hilarious.
I am a silver ARMY (66) and can honestly say that there was a time I was afraid I wouldn't survive a family crisis but did, with the help of BTS and ARMYs, who stayed with me every day online. It was not a fast healing process, but a daily struggle. I knew my BTS family would be there for me every evening with encouraging words and it kept me going. I invite you to join our community, explore what we've been through in the last year (that's about how long we've been together), and how we uplift each other. The videos are under Roscoe and the big comfy couch. Have fun watching, exploring, and perhaps becoming part of our community, if only as a lurker. There is always room on the couch...Roscoe says wear clean socks! We also have a discord for constant communication. Borahae and thank you for starting this channel. 💜👀
Love Roscoe and the Couch Crew
Roscoe is awsome.And a goofy chrackhead.LOADS OFF FUN.
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These young men do have comforting words and lyrics. They can teach us something we knew but perhaps never took to heart. Sometimes they just reach out a hand with their words/lyrics to give army a symbolic hug. So many army find BTS when they need them and I am no exception.
Hi Dr.
These 7 gems are very special. I'm 62 and my teen years and early adulthood were big emotionally tangled cords. How I survived? I don't know. But then I went on to the real-life circumstances and gradually developed bipolar depression, anxiety, and panic attacks and for a period was suicidal. I always accepted professional help. Today I'm down from 11 meds daily to 4.
Man, how 2 sisters' envy can destroy one's life.
I could have benefited from these young men and yet at this age, they have contributed to my putting that confusing past into perspective, putting it away somewhere, and looking forward to a happy rest of my life.
These young men are a gem.
V's depression we all got to witness it. It started in 2018 when a good friend of his also an Idol for a group named SHINEE committed suicide. Not long after his grandmother who raised him passed away while he was on tour. I think it's possible that with all the stress of touring it all crashed for him but what strength he kept going even though we could all see his demeanor on stage and in interviews that he did not want to be there. The 6 brothers were huge support they always are for each other. Miraculously by Festa 2020, he seemed to gradually come out of it.
Dr. I hope you don't think I'm rude for the following but Jungkook usually and very kindly corrects the pronunciation of his name. I know for us Westerners the letter "K" is pronounced hard but in his name both "Ks" are silent as in
Jungoo. That always makes me think of Mr. Magoo, the cartoon character of my childhood.
Thank you doctor for these reactions that you do🫰🏼🫶🏼💜
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thank you uncle Harley for the provided analyzes. i never thought about mistakes in this way, i will try it in the way it was offered in the video.
8:20 is not Suga, but Jin
Yes
Both of my notes on this otherwise great analysis have been caught by quick ARMYs 보라해 💜
Uncle Harley! It is great to see you again. I am silver army (64) and love these special people. I have long Covid and they have helped me through some really rough days. Magic Shop is so special. I hope you have the chance to listen to it soon. Stay happy and healthy! 🌟🙏🏾💜
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
Thank you for this Uncle Harley! (I think it's safe to say you're our collective Uncle now 😄) I love BTS so much and couldn't have even come close to imagining the impact becoming an Army would have on me. I've never experienced anything like this before and It's changed my life for the better. I can't even imagine not having them in my life. I love our fandom!
agreed- he is our Uncle Harley now too haha 😄 I feel this so much, I only discovered BTS last September and already they have done so much for me, they cheer me up when I am sad and remind me that it's ok and slowly I am working my way towards loving myself - sop happy and proud to be army 🥰
Silver Army here 😎….. Im 45 an going trough Kidney desease …. I found in BTS music strength and calmness to face my day to day challenges and keep positive …. borahae 💜💜💜
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normally in kpop the idols are not heard, they are expected to always be happy and sing the song they are told to sing. they should also lie if they are feeling poorly so many of them commit suicided it´s really sad.
however BTS did the complete oppeset. they sing and talk about depression and loneliness. so this is very theopoetical for them. writing a song about your feeling instead of keeping it inside. i think many artists feel that way so it must be hard for those who are not given the free space to write about what they want.
but strangely enough when BTS showed us their struggles it helped army too. seeing how your favorite singer deal with something similar and se then succeed is powerful.
one thing is to listen to your doctor telling you what to do to get better, or our parents. but when your idol is singing it it makes you listen for real.
i have been thought a lot but they helped me put words to what i am feeling and how to get better. mainly Jimin because i see myself in him. but he is stronger than me and even if he is not perfect i find myself wanting to be strong like him. his selfness nature and sweet caring soul is just so amazing.
Soooo much needed to hear this today. I am 39, finishing second semester of psychology and during exams I am so stressed, not sure if I passed one from yesterday and still not having results from friday... This video is healing. Always pleasure to watch your reactions dr. Harley 💜
I'm proud of you for still educating yourself whether it's your first or nth time. I did it twice over and never ever regretted the time and effort I put into it even when people told me to just stick with something I wasn't happy doing anymore and called me crazy for "wasting" my time starting my career over from scratch. In the end only you know what's right for you and even if you do end up having to retake a course to get there then so be it. It's *never* time wasted because you'll be that much wiser the second time around. That being said though, I'm sure you got this!
💜😄👍💜
Borahae from a 47 yo ARMY with three very different careers to her name 💜
@@imajinallthepurple thank you so much 💜💜
Best of luck on your exams. Fighting!💜
Fighting!!! Borahae
Crossing fingers and toes.GOOD LUCK
The interaction between RM and the fan - she told him she was hospitalized for depression but their music helped her.
Would appreciate your thoughts on the impact on 24 year old RM, knowing that their work might be saving lives.
I can't imagine the burden.
Yes, thank you
'I Need You' is the song title
Woooooo!
Thank you, Dr. Harley ! BTS are special. They are here... for our mental health.
I really needed to hear these things today, so your video has been serendipity. Thank you 💜
Also, one of the things that I love about BTS is the way they incorporate their self-reflections into their work and in turn make us self reflect ourselves. If you will be curious to check out their music, I think that there are some pieces there that you will find very interesting as a psychologist because they incorporate a lot of concepts related to psychology. In fact, their “map of the soul” album series incorporate elements of Jung's Map of the Soul, and I think their songs: “intro: persona”, "interlude: shadow” and “outro: ego” are some of my favourite BTS songs to date. Their lyrics analyzing the multiple facets of the self are fascinating
Silver Army here!! 75 yrs old and I embrace their wholesomeness. 🥰🤟💜
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
I am a Silver ARMY thanks to my grandson who told me about them at the beginning of the pandemic. They helped me make it through. I can't even describe how much I love these young men and admire them. They have brought so much light into the world. Thanks for your wise words and for sharing my love of BTS.
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
@@harleyburke1461 Anything about BTS is fine for me. If you want to get off that topic: I would like discussions of dealing with grown kids and grandkids. I like inspirational topics and vids. Of course, for our age group mental health is always an issue since we deal with various ailments or loneliness. I am fortunate to belong to a group for widows & widowers which helps keep my spirits up.
Love that you started with Jimin 💜 he is so good at deciphering his own feelings and relaying them as well as recognizing and understanding the feelings of others! His emotional intelligence is no joke
I am silver ARMY (though I’d not heard that name before) as I’ll shortly be 65. However, BTS have played, are playing and will play a huge part in my feeling young still. Their unfailing acceptance of everyone and their messages of positivity, respect, trust and love - for ourselves and others - are unparalleled and an inspiration for all. Thank you, sir, for this video. Thank you BTS for everything.
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RM called us silver Army " dope old people " 🤭💜 so cute
Thanks Uncle Harley for your efforts :) loved the video it's really special.. Thanks to Bangtan for existing at the same time as me.. forever grateful for this lifetime :))
Even i always get a lesson by RM, what inspired me the most is where RM saying a tree philosophy just casually in a vlive broadcast just him sharing his daily chitchat with fans
that clips in youtube video called “BTS live Kim NamJoon RM smile“ pls jump to 25:55 and start
once i learn that philosophy from him, i ve become more positive and getting stronger and fearless when i face my hard times, i really hope uncle harley can watch that too🙌🏻
11:16 To give some context, Dr. Harley, this was a vlive (live video chat with fans) that Jungkook did about 10 days after he badly injured his foot, needed stitches and was not allowed to dance and had to perform from a chair. This happened on their first European tour and his parents had flown out to see him. JK is a performer to the core of his soul and this *devastated* him.
I really admire him because in this video this is a 21 year old man, heartbroken and hurting that is working his way through that devastation on camera, with his fans. He's reminding himself of likely the good, supportive advice he's been given about his injury and how to cope with it AND sharing that advice with the fans he loves as well. He's doing the work with an audience. Amazing.
Thank you for continuing to react to the boys on your own. I appreciate your viewpoints and it's lovely to hear someone trained & experienced as a psychologist reflect my own quiet thoughts about these lovely men. And don't worry, you'll get the names down eventually!
Thank you.
They really are very special people. Talented and brave and human.
Las partes donde habla RM en esos vídeos a army me hacen llorar mucho ..
Lo juro llegan demasiado a mi corazón 😭💜
Muchas gracias por sus analisis de BTS. Tengo 51 años de edad y no me arrepiento de escuchar su musica, por que me transmiten mucha paz. Bienvenido a ser parte de ARMY tambien.
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Thank you for walking with us.
Silver Army o "soldado de plata"" en español suena realmente bonito. Soy de España y le agradezco que nos haya recordado. Por todos esos sentimientos que nos transmiten, por el esfuerzo, el sacrificio y el trabajo que han pasado estos chicos y por el precioso valor de cada uno y la alegría, la esperanza, la ternura y la pura energía que nos regalan... yo los admiro, quiero y defenderé siempre. Muchas gracias por su video.
si suena bonito 💜
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@@harleyburke1461 Dr. Harvey, me encantan sus análisis. Nos hacen conocer mejor a nuestros chicos aunque sé que ellos ante las cámaras o bien por orden de su empresa se contienen mucho. Todos ellos podrían ser mis hijos y estaría orgullosa de cada uno. Tienen ese tipo de inocencia infantil que se ha perdido en occidente y que he observado en más jóvenes coreanos. Sólo usted con sus análisis más profundos nos ayuda a conocerlos mejor. Lo que nos enseñan y lo que nos ocultan. Pero... creo que lo que nos ocultan están en sus canciones. Quizás si tiene a bien de vez en cuando analizar psicológicamente alguna canción sería muy bonito. Ami me encantan sus análisis y le doy las gracias por ello. Un saludo desde España.
I really appreciate you sharing your perspective, we don't often get reactions from people with your field's experience and it's always a delight when we do. I found you through Max and I'm delighted to see you continuing to spread these important messages! Have a wonderful day 💜💜💜💜💜
It's so sweet to see you again. Dope old ARMY here, thanking you for your thoughtful, understanding analyses. And I LOVE YOUR HARABOJI SHIRT💜💜!!!
There is a saying among the Army: "You find BTS when you need them the most".
Their music and meaningful lyrics will help to brighten your life. Do not despair. If you give yourself enough time the bad times will pass. Life does not come with a manual on how to live, love or be happy. Once you learn to love and respect yourself. You need to reject negativity and negative people around you. Do not let other people define your life. Love from Kentucky USA (silver Army age 72). ;)
In the words of Jimin, "You nice. Keep going!"
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They are this warm scented cozy place you can always turn to and recharge your battery
Hi Harley haraboji i was waiting for you i'm 21years old and I proudly say im ARMY thank you for the provided analyzes and It's so sweet to see you again.
Thank you Uncle Harley for your thoughtful analysis and your heartfelt appreciation of how special these guys are. BTS literally gave me reason to live after I near died of septic shock in 2020. I was so sick and isolated with the shutdown, and the sudden unwanted retirement from work - an RN for 45 years - feeling hopeless and worthless. I learned to love the new non-nurse not-healthy lonely me. And - just like "Save Me" is followed by "I'm Fine" - I'm fine now. Thank you BTS. OT7 Forever! (P.S. That was Jin - not Suga - at 9:00 in. You're doing well for a novice.)
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Thanks for the gentle way you let me know.
🇦🇺🌏fan. Hi,
Dr. Harly. I will tell you firstly that i have always been Asian orientated. From a Teen to 34yrs, Judo,Karate. Have Asain dacor for my homes. A Live- in Chinese teen stayed with us . Her market gardener dad asked my mum to take his daughter in. I loved the incense, red & glod decor. I am a German dna, 66yrs female. Came across BTS 2 yrs ago. I hit a video that took me to Utube, the 2nd video was BTS. I was fighting blood cancer & leukaemia. BTS put a smile in my hart. I had lost my mum to cancer in mid 2019. 3 months later i was diagnosed with blood cancer. A hit in the guts so to speek. Had to move 500klms north to a city where all specialist's were. So, as you can imagine, greiveing, newly sick, new to city. No friends, no sons. Had to be isolated because of no immune systems. Covid didnt even worry me, wasnt on my radar😊. Anyways, BTS ,Butter song was featured. Well, i just ❤loved it. After this Utube was my💜 BTS friend as i continue to find alot of content. I went from ROCK & ROLL & became a BTS Nanna. I fell like 45yrs anyways so BTS are my "sons". I am so proud of their ethical way of life,music & the way they treat us fans.impressed with fandom behaviours. I was shocked to find BTS fandom,Armies never leave any rubbish behind at concerts or fan based activities. Also, they fund raise for charity in their BTS boys names. Shocked because western general public are so selfishly unthoughtfull & just leave rubbish every where. ANYWAYS... I listen mostly to BTS now. Western music 🎶 has been mostly put onto the shelf. Thank you for your hard work & channel.
💖💜BTS 7. enjoy your channel🇦🇺🌏fan.
You have such a fascinating perspective.
I'll be 60 soon. I love these young men so much. I do sometimes think they must feel tremendous pressure, offering so much to so many. I'm glad they know how ARMY loves them. Borahea
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that video during Pandemic was so important to many of us.Thank you
This very sweet, THank you UNcle Harley for exploring their characters which ARMY appreciate and love. Take Care 🥰...Borahae💜
Good to see you again, Dr. Harley! Love looking at BTS with you.....this silver ARMY (I'm 64) really appreciates this channel!💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 (You know, it's kind of funny that friends of mine who are the same age assume that I have "crushes" on the BTS members and they find that silly. But that thought is almost sacrilege to me! My feelings for BTS are on a much higher level, one that is hard to explain, and which has nothing to do with their looks. Of course they are gorgeous, but they are my sons' ages, and I could not care less about them in that way. I just adore them! For their music and for themselves. It's such a unique relationship...one I have never had with a music artist before!!!)
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Thank you Dr./Uncle Harley for your video. BTS is a guiding light to so many people! I'm proud to be a Silver ARMY and BTS has helped me more than words can express. Too many people judge me negatively for my loyalty to these "boys". They just don't understand how wise and genuine our 7 Kings are. They continue to help and guide me every day! Keep the videos coming! Maybe you could react to Jimin's song "Letter" that he released as a live performance today as a gift to ARMY for BTS's 10th Anniversary.
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I am a 79 year old grandmother and I have been a fan since April 2023. I love BTS and I am so happy to be a part of army because I can share my love right here. BTS brings out my love for them because of their love and respect for each other, playful and so kind in many ways. I search for every news on BTS. I live alone and roar with laughter at some of the things they do. They show me the kinder side of the world and I am so grateful. Wherever I go I look forward to coming home and listening and watching everything BTS. 💜💜💜💜💜💜
They seem to provide a lot of joy for you.
Sometimes we just need a kind, encouraging word to make it through the day. That's what BTS does either in interviews, shows or Vlives: they're a breath of hope in a broken world. Dr. Harley, or better yet, Uncle Harley (Haraboji), welcome to ARMY world. A place for good thoughts, amazing energy and positivity. Let's keep spreading love in this world with our 7 gold stars. Haraboji, hope you stay in good health and we'll be looking forward your next content. 💜
Hello. I am a proud 54 years young Army from Brazil. BTS save me from depression. I absolute adore them, specially my angel Jimin.
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
52, french, and a same admiration for this talentuous and couragous young guys... they give me a lot of joy and hope ( crazy, no ?? 🤣). Their dedication to their fandom is almost à prieshood. Thank you Dr Harley, to introduce me to " silver army " ... I'm not malone ! 🤣
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
Hi Uncle Harley! I'm a 50 year old ARMY from Singapore!
I just discovered these boys a few years ago and I'm still amazed how they have brought me through some difficult times. I know they represent the youth and speak to them with such empathy, but their struggles and perseverance and honesty have also touched all of us in all different stages of our lives.
I'm happy to have found them and admire you for embarking on this channel! Congrats, Haraboji!
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
Just turned 75 and have been music lover all my life, enjoyed a variety of genres. I have never known any singers or groups who consistently touch my heart and soul. They are the epitome of the perfect salad, each having their own individual flavor and tasting even better blended together. I have so glad I have lived long enough to experience their music and their wisdom. Thank you for sharing and appreciating them.
Well said!! Thank -you. I'm 70 and a classical musician (viola in the orchestra) and I love BTS' music!
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
@harleyburke1461 One thing would be the effect of music on staying young, cognitive benefits. Relationship of different generations and how BTS bridges the gap might be interesting.
Glad to see youu💜💜 great reaction from our favourite uncle 🌸
Welcome back..... Been waiting for this and the boys have gone through so much that's why they are the motivation of many lives
love your insights, dr harley! thanks for sharing
Thank you Dr Harley for your insight, interpretation and connecting the messages to our psyche.
I wonder if you can do the same for some of the messages they put in their songs like Magic Shop. Paradise, Tomorrow, etc.
Not a silver ARMY, (which i love this coined term!) Cuz I'm in my late 30s, but BTS made me joyful when i didn't know i was apathetic and JUST living. BTS AND ARMY both made my life completely better by making me belly laugh, cry cheerful tears, and feel in my heart and gut. There's nothing like BTS in this world right now... nothing, to me. They are the positive impact in this world that the world needs right now.
You are so committed.
Just wanted to share some information.... "I Need You" is a song of BTS that the fan talking to RM said helped her get through her low moments. Thank you for this analysis. It is helping remind me of the messages I have somewhat forgotten but needed to hear again. Silver ARMY here. Thank you and more power 💜
We all matter.
У Чимина уже наработанный опыт по оказанию помощи своим братьям по творчеству, так как сам очень умён ,проницателен с быстрым реагированием на ситуацию,Сильная личность ,которому можно и нужно верить.Мне 65 лет и за свою жизнь трижды пережила смерть ,выжила за счёт своей силы воли, оптимизма и чувства незавершённости своих дел а так-же из за простого любопытства ,какими вырастут внуки.и так далия!
Вы, безусловно, выжили.
yayy!!!! uncle HARLEY is back🥳🥳🥳
In my 50's. These boys really are special, each one of them in a different way.
I find it so interesting how you discovered them. I never understood how art can save someone's life. Art can inspire, bring joy and all but save a life? Until it happened to me. How I discovered them was so serendipitous too. One of their songs (Nevermind) stopped me in the middle of an "attempt". I still can't make sense of it, can't explain it to myself, but it happened. I am here, that's proof that their words work miracles, atleast that's all the proof I need.
Silver ARMY. I like it! I’m 46 and an ARMY since 2019. Borahae
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
@@harleyburke1461Thank you for acknowledging and being open to our input, Dr. H! I think it would be interesting to continue focusing on which characteristics of BTS’s team dynamics and artistry breaks down age gaps or barriers. We know this is the case for Silver ARMYs not only in North America but in other continents. HOW has BTS touched lives cross-culturally and across age groups?
Thank you for doing this video, doctor Harley. I really feel you already have become Army, I became Army exactly 1 year ago and it has made me a happier person, I am dancing every single day, I am singing on my bike to work, 1 hour and then 1 hour back. I feel their work gives me energy. I am so grateful I discovered their music, living in the Netherlands I don’t hear their music on national radio except of “My Univers” which is ridiculous why they don’t get played. Being a silver Army, I am 61, it’s obvious that it’s not standard to become a fan of a boyband. So there is something special about them, besides the fantastic music and dancing and good looks. They are, I don’t know what they are, they are special 💜💜💜
I am also a Bruce Springsteen fan and +LIVE+ there still there, I still revisit them but BTS give me happiness and who doesn’t want that❤️
I am a big Springstein fan myself.
Great video. I am silver army (63) I smile everyday because of BTS 💜
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
I'm just crying watching this 😢😢
9:24 The fan is referring to the BTS song “I Need You”. That song happens to be the first song that won BTS first place on a Korean music show (earning your first “first place” prize is a really big deal, a mark of making it as an artist in a very crowded field of competitors).
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H
@@harleyburke1461 Thanks for asking! I personally would love to hear your thoughts on a whole bunch of BTS songs - the themes and lyrics are incredible. Suggestion #1: Any of the songs from the two Map of the Soul albums, based on Jung’s theories. The first album is Map of the Soul: Persona and the second is Map of the Soul: 7 (which covers ego and shadow). Both albums are concept albums meaning the songs interconnect to tell a story. RM’s song Intro: Persona and J-Hope’s song Outro: Ego are clearly meaningful to those two artists. Suggestion #2: SUGA’s solo songs The Last (where he talks about his mental health issues) and Amygdala, from his latest solo album. The music video for Amygdala is the most gut-wrenching video I have ever seen. If you choose to do that one, I recommend also taking a look at the explanation SUGA gave to RM in the interview show Suchwita. I’d be interested on your views on whether emotional scars are ultimately self-inflicted.
I could go on but I will stop here. There are any number of translations of the Korean lyrics to English; the best are on doolsetbangtan.wordpress.com
Good luck!
thank you Uncle Harley this video was needed, i needed to hear those messages
Very interesting take on RM. I thought he was saying the opposite. Happiness isn't at the end of the journey. Rather, you have to find it along the journey, sometimes with intention.
Thankyou dr.!
This video is wholesome.
Thank you, Dr. Harley 💜
this is one of the reasons why i love BTS
thank you. it's good to hear what we feel from them be put into exact words :)
A lot of their story and messages are on their songs so it would be nice if you could react to their songs like
Zero O'clock, Love yourself: Answer, Magic Shop and Microcosmos.
You gave me a hint so I've been looking forward to this 😅
Thanks, Harley.....it's a cool, grey, stormy day....and my mood seems ro be following along. And, as has happened before, BTS seems to have used you to be their platform for their neverending words of encouragement💜. For the last five years, due to many difficult situations, they have shown up, theu all types of venues, to remind me, "LIFE GOES ON"!💜. Many times, the vene was thru your nephew, and I was very impressed with your first video together, and have been subscribed since. Thank you for bringing the little ray of 🌞sunshine into this otherwise depressing day! I look forward to your upcoming shows. Have an awesome day!💜
Thanks for the analysis. Kim Taehyung (V) described his condition in the song "Blue and Gray", it helped me a lot during a difficult time
thank you doctor harley!!💜
12:19 “move from that negative space to a more positive space”. So true! In a management training class, talking about mistakes and feedback, we were given a golf analogy ( which I remember even though I don’t play golf): You’ve hit the ball into a sand trap. What matters right now is to focus on how to get out of the sand trap. How you got there is not relevant to how you’re going to get out. Avoid wasting time on what went wrong (if you really need to, you can analyze that later); just accept that this is where you are and focus on the next shot. Another variation on the same theme we have heard throughout this video!
Lloré un par de veces viendo este video. Muchas gracias 🙏🏻
Hey Uncle Harley are you tired or sad? Don’t be , watch some Run BTS, you will laugh and at the end of it , you will feel lighter 😊
Enjoyed the video
Lovely day to you
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We eagerly wait for your contents and your viewpoints..🙂
Been waiting
thank you for this video! 💜
BTS really saved me during the loneliness of the pandemic
Silver Army, 53, here and I really enjoy your take on them.
Thank you.
Thank you!!!💜💜💜💜🤍🤍🤍🤍
Thank you Doctor for this, ❤ this💜💜💜🇵🇭
a little correction Dr. Harley, 8:39 it's Jin, not Suga :) thank you for analysing our precious boys. keep going uncle harley!
I really appreciate your comments on bts💜. It'd be great to see you react to some of their most meaningful lyrics if you are up to😊. The Love Yourself album series is full of touching songs. Maybe you could look into that!
Great analysis, but, unfortunately, the subtitles for what the boys were saying were much too small and too low on the screen, with the lower lines being cut off.
Thank you for letting me know. I will fix it that.
No doubt none of BTS realised that they would be such a support to their fans and that they would need to continue to provide a place where fans can find them in their hearts as they sing about in, 'Magic Shop'. It must have been hard when they were still in their teens and early twenties to have that responsibility laid on them. They support each other and us even though they themselves have hard hard times emotionally. Jin said in his recent Suchwita interview with SUGA that it was SUGA who suggested that he find a way out of his depression through music and that writing, 'Abyss', helped him so much. In return when things were hard for BTS ARMY have done their best to protect them. Thanks, Uncle Harley. I'm 70 but just think of myself as A.R.M.Y because we come from all ages and all walks of life but are one in our love of these seven amazing young men.
The positive responses from the silver army community (40 years young and up) has been so fantastic that I was thinking of content relevent to you. Please tell me the kinds of videos and topics you would be interested in. Dr. H