She actually said that during the same interview. ""Why is every pretty girl with a horrible-looking man, I don't understand," she said during the interview. "Listen, I'm not shaming people for their looks, but I am though. You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world," she said. "I swear to god, because they got a hot girl, they can be horrible? Like, you're still ugly though." She went on to reference the size of men's genitals, suggesting it's something they would have to "make up for."
Can't help but think that her saying she's queer is just her way to protect herself from criticism. Now if you call her out for being a hipocrite it's because you're a homophobe or whatever
This girl was home-schooled and got famous at 16. It's very likely that most of her "real-life" interactions are the young women at her shows to whom she's some sort of demigod. Not surprising she'd be that out of touch with reality.
She's obviously tormented by her body and is too young to appreciate men are also struggling with their bodies. I'm glad I didn't have people shoving a microphone in my face and asking my opinion when I was her age coz I would have said equally as foolish shit if not worse!
That’s true. Because some of women’s harshest Critics are other women. It’s strange to act like they’re all special creatures from another planet incapable of being mean. If she ever lived like the common person she would know what she’s saying is so completely fat from the truth. I’m happy she’s surrounded by nice people but she’s getting to old to be this clueless.
Home-schooled people actually are often more social as far as their interactions with others go. A lot of this just has to do with her parents just failing to raise her properly.
"Girls are nice, we see people for who they are," That was the point that I could no longer take what she said seriously. I still have tears in my eyes from the laughter.
@@kendallroy7that’s what I’m saying, it’s a non legitimate statement, we really shouldn’t even entertain this discussion, off jump it’s nonsensical, let’s move on😂
I've never considered myself an attractive man, but earlier this year, my best friend told me that people used to ask him why he hung out with me under the pretext that we are polar opposites of attractiveness. And that was mostly by women. I cannot imagine how much that has affected his state of mind and confidence (which he admitted it did), but it goes to show that "girls" aren't inherently "nice because they see you for who you are".
now that you mention it you see way more male friend groups of all different attraction levels, but girl friend groups seem to be more focused on being with the prettiest girls. girls for sure judge each other based off looks way more than guys do to each other
My ex's grandmother texted her asking why she was dating an ugly guy like me, that she deserved better. Her mother never restrained from telling her I was "weird" as well.
As a Skinny Mexican man, trust me the abuse is real. Random old woman in the street are the worst. They would call you so much shit and then try and force feed you with shame.
Bro who are these random women yelling at you. I find that so disturbing because I dont think I've ever witnessed a man barated by randoms for being ugly
Billie Elish's existence is enough proof to show that not all girls are nice. Isn't she the same person who said to women "stop dating ugly guys" a while ago?😂
Yup! And what's wild is her face is decent/pretty, but her body is giving 40-yr auntie after having 3 kids. She herself is MID overall (face+body factored together). If it weren't for the fame she received via music she'd be overlooked and deemed as extremely average in the dating pool.
I like that you touched on the skinny guy problem. It even goes a step further. I was mercilessly bullied by bigger guys. Even well into my 20s. Skinny, 5'9", and baby faced. I was treated like a child and pushed around for most of my life. Guys don't have it easier. It's just that no one cares about what we go through.
I started balding when I was like 22. I been shaving my head for years. I'm happy enough with it, but when I explained to my girlfriend that people felt not only felt comfortable, but entitled, to make fun of you for it, she was entirely dismissive. Hair is one of the few points of vanity that men allow themselves, and it's the first thing to be made fun of when you lose it. It took her years to acknowledge all the teasing. And that's all it is, teasing. I'm a grown man, and I'm secure with how I look; I can take a joke. But living in a society that is ready to cut my head off at any perceived body shaming, only to have those same people turn around and make fun of my hairline, puts a hair across my ass. Edit: you know what, I'll put my money where my mouth is. I laughed at my neighbor's skinny legs when I saw him in short shorts. I'm just as guilty 🤷
If I may, I would offer to you that I think it might be the case that balding is a sign of stagnation in the lymph system. Since the kidneys are the gateway for the lymph to leave the body and they are so far away from the top of the head it can be quite difficult to bring hydration back to those hair follicles. There is also the challenge of whether or not we even have proper kidney function at all since it seems that most of us are in some form of renal failure. If I may, I would offer to you that nothing beats the proper hydration we get from fruits, berries, and melons but please bear in mind that it's important to support the function of the kidneys with proper herbs too. We can easily bring in more hydration to the cells but if our kidneys are not filtering out cellular waste then we end up with the symptom and the problem of edema. It's the chemistry we play with that determine the experience we are having. 🍇🌱🍓🍌💜
I started balding at 19. At about 35 I started shaving my head, I accepted it. My nickname among friends is "Baldy" I recently started medication to regrow my hair. The only reason being my 10 year old daughter said she wished she could see me with hair.
Skinny girls get a fair chance by most men and women... tall or small... as for guys being skinny and small its a like being in legend difficulty. Even if there's bigger women into smaller dudes they wont pull the triggerd cuase they don't want to be ashamed of being atracted to smaller dudes. Women are waaaaay judgemental on bodies in general...
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And she's right... Women shouldn't. Seeing an attractive man with a less attractive women is rare, they never give that same hand while also calling women "shallow." Often times if a man is less attractive than you he's gonna try to make your feel bad and take you down to his level because he knows you have options and that insecurity of the attractive woman finding better is strong.
When I got in the best shape of my life. My ex girlfriend said, "You don't make me feel small anymore. I feel like you can't protect me. I liked when you were bigger." I appreciated her honesty, but was simultaneously crushed because I felt the best I'd ever felt and could see my abs for the first time. People are allowed to have preferences and I'm glad she made hers known, but to act like men don't get shamed for their bodies as well is sheer ignorance. P.s. Also just bought my ass a wallet, thank you Aba n Preach!
I think in cases like that, it can also be about insecurity. She may have seen that you'd gotten in great shape and felt that she was no longer up to standard, and rather than improve herself it was easier to just make you feel bad about it, so that you put some of the weight back on. Again not saying that definitely was your situation, but I have seen this play out in friends relationships before.
I was very close to a girl that would stand on body positivity like crazy. One of my coworkers called a girl on ig chubby and she then projected that onto herself. Saying that girl was close to her body and that he was calling her fat. Proceeded to have a huge issue with the dude over something she made about her. Later on she had problems with me and the first thing she does to try and be petty was shame my body. Didnt hurt my feelings but i noticed that she doesnt even believe HER beliefs!!! She tells me that she hates people who view the word fat as an insult but then makes fun of my body the first chance she got??? Made me realize that the body positivity shit is bs and only exists for women. And its used as a shield and route to victim hood. Its very strange to me to have beliefs that you dont uphold... why tf do u have em then?
nothing but facts the whole thing is just a double standard for women to make themselves feel like victims while doing the very thing they say they are against once again equality only if it benefits them at its finest
@willdegra317 Women don't use logic? 😂 If that were true, our species would have never survived because we wouldn't be competent enough to care for our young.
Remember when you hear someone talk about something like this(lying, blackmailing, thieving, abuse) there is a very good chance it's projection since it's on their mind. Or it's just emotions. I try not to get close to people.
@@willdegra317 It's amazing how many people are only seeing this because a celebrity is saying this. This is how many women think. There will _never_ be a _body positivity_ "movement" for short guys or out of shape guys. And if you accept being obese and unhealthy as a man or a woman, there is something mentally wrong with you and you need to seek professional help. It is used as a crutch to keep people from putting in any effort or taking responsibility to better themselves. It's not about seeking to be unrealistically aesthetically attractive, but just being functionally and actually healthy, and being overweight not to mention obese, is _not_ it.
I don't think people should dismiss some misery just because there is bigger misery around But people should also know that there are different levels of misery(which is already implied by saying we shouldn't make it a competition). The problem is, we make it a competition, for example kids could be punished for doing something very bad, although punishment could be classified as misery, but people recognize that it is less misery than the alternative (the kid doing the wrong thing again) So we do compare misery, judges do that all the time, but, although some misery is worse than others, we shouldn't deny the existence of the lesser one.
Exactly 😅 like its not like there isnt guys that haven't said sh about other guys , or like there isnt girls that haven't said sh bout girls or guys . I feel like billie started saying this stuff after the internet body shamed her on a specific pic of her...and its not helping.
I think because she personally experienced this criticism in the media from men and seen other women deal with that she was more so trying to highlight what goes on, not that she necessarily trying to offend men she just doesn't want to sympathize with those that say those things in the majority. She's not exactly wrong with what she said either, at one point in history women and girls in china would bind their feet along with other insane stuff, if physical standards were the same back then or at any part in history men would not be able to deal, we already see how they feel about women preferring men who are decently attractive or tall which is human nature.
First person to criticize my body was my mom. She said I had an egghead. Then my older brother kept telling me I was really fat. I grew up to be a sweater kid, trying to hide my body in the biggest clothes possible, even in the summer time. I grew up, lost some weight, grew some more, gained more weight and now I can say I'm mostly comfortable in my body. I still have those chubby kids memories, but I can look at myself and be happy with who I am. Everyone has issues, it is not a pity contest.
You just unlocked a core memory. The first person to ever make fun of my weight was my mom. My father may have been a cruel man to me he was never one to make fun of me. Instead he would force me to do more so I wasn't laying down or sleeping. He knew it was a problem and wanted me to do something a out it. But my mother was horroble with the words. Onlyy grandmothers made me feel vetter about myself and actually want to keep getting better while still being happy about my body.
I still remember almost 30 years ago when I was a teenager at a big music festival and I wanted to be like all the cool dudes with their shirts off. I walked past a group of slightly older girls and one of them said something like “OMG, gross! Put your shirt on.” and I still remember it to this day. I have always been extremely self-conscious in regards to my appearance. This just proves how some women can be completely clueless about things.
Well I mean, it's not like you do to talk about this stuff..... I mean that's the biggest complaint women have with men is that y'all don't open your mouth and talk about anything other than work, food, sex and your hobbies...... Women don't know anything you men are going through because you don't talk about it!! But now suddenly the whole manosphere wants to chime in about how they're just struggling with their body images lolol Yeah, it's such a huge problem for you men, you never mentioned it....... until a woman says that you don't have body positivity problems...... And then suddenly every single man on the face of the planet has a story about how someone was mean to you. But hey it's nice to know that you men are just as insecure and struggling with your body every day...... like a woman.
my friends and family would always shame me for my body (i was chubby as a youngin) and then would also take the piss when i used to workout in my tiny ass room tryna be proud of my body. now, iv been working out for 5+ years with a good physique, good chest and back development with visible abs but still refuse to take my top off after many many years. just goes to show how comments made on your body can still effect you even after making major improvements
It’s a hypocritical issue going around. I’m short by most ppl as a male and I’ve gained weight. It’s amazing to hear women who are shorter and fat behaving like I should go for medical attention or something. I feel like this idea that men don’t get attacked for their physical features is sort of media driven. Aba said it right, it’s not that we don’t get stuff, it’s just so normalized. What about balding men? Our features are highlighted everyday
People say the meanest shit to bald men. I'm dating one so I'm sensitive about it, I love the look though. It's just genetics, it has no indication on the value of the person lol.
The interesting thing is that men are shamed for things they usually can't change, like height and penis size. At least if you are fat shamed you can go to the gym
Too right mate, it is tough out there, I think learning not to care what others think can lead you to another place of happiness like you’ve never known. I used to wear jumpers, pants to cover my body etc when I was younger obv due to major insecurities…. Had that problem for so long bro thought it’d never end…. It did get better eventually but it took so long, was small steps but I got there…. See but Billie eillish will say that can’t be right cuz ur a man!! It happened all right…. And I barely got out of that nightmare. Was like winning the lottery after i conquered my insecurities. Greatest feeling ever!!!
There's no need to sugarcoat this..This is a self entitled woman with major issues who thinks that everything revolves around her and she wants other women to jump on her train.. that's not how life works
Well thats a little too much. I personally think shes a d*mb child with very little experience like we all were in our 20s. But then again she has a big platform and she should be mindful of what she says. If you dont know something then dont speak on it
@VegaNous i hate this stupid rhetoric of "its just a gotcha comment !" well if it got you then it has a fucking point then doesn't it ? its like me beating a homeless person and you saying "what are you doing you're beating a homeless person ! thats wrong !" and i say "aha ! thats such a gotcha comment !" like, yes, yes you got me, me saying it doesn't absolve me of fault nor invalidate you calling me out, she is clearly being hypocritical. so tell me sherlock, instead of some vague pseudointellectual nothing burger bullshit of "you're just saying a gotcha comment !" what is the actual context since you seem so sure.
How do you not get that Billie's statement actually CONFIRMS that women are nice and see people for who they are? She whould have to tell women "stop dating ugly guys" if there weren't an epidemic of ugly guys getting attention from women because women are able to see beyond the physical (unlike males who are notoriously shallow). Also, how is it "not nice" to call a guy ugly? I thought men were logical, it's just a statement of fact, right? And "facts don't care about your feelings", don't be emotional!
Everyone gets shamed for the way they look. All of us. Every gender. Every height. Every race. Every sexuality. We are all shallow cruel assholes to each other. Even if youre insanely attractive, people will be cruel just to make themselves feel better. No one is safe. 😂
Calm down, no one forced you to say jack. Let people live. You don't have to concern yourself with battling invisible demons that don't exist in front of you right now.
Best I can advise is, "Stop giving these childish celebrities attention." Just because they're famous, they do not know what's best for anyone but themselves. Let them make their own screw ups and move on.
Best advise for who exactly? Ignoring ignorance doesn't make it disappear, I think putting out the thought and creating some discussion on even silly things like this can be valuable.
My dad was a professional body builder for 35 years - he was super well known in our city and retired about 20 years ago. He still deals with body dysmorphia to this day. He started working out because he hated being skinny, kept at it because he could always be bigger, and after destroying his body lifting hundreds of pounds he reminisces about what he used to look like.
I remember all the articles shaming Ben Affleck for gaining weight and the ones pointing out Jason Momoa's "dad bod". She's also ignoring the fact that the majority of people body shaming women are...other women.
@@yosutzuhruojhave you not seen those awful comments on instagram. like for examples when women go through breast reduction surgery, men have the audacity to comment “I wouldn’t let my gf do that”, “before was better” ,” she’s not f***able anymore”. Or women with healthy fat that their body needs, are called too fat, but when you are skinny they’re called “12 year old boys”, or “if she had tits, I’d hit”. It is absolutely shaming. I’m not excluding men’s problems either, everyone regardless of gender are capable of shaming and doing awful things to each other.
Baby serial killer Lucy Letby is nice and Australian Blood Doner James Harrison who saved 4 million babies lives is horrible. You heard it from Ellish folks Rachel and Nyomi Fee the child killers are nice and Mr Beast helping people with money is evil Again, Ellish very right on this 🙄🤦♂️
The worst for me is seeing women who preach positive body image and self love, and then when a guy/ex pisses them off, they go right for tiny dick jokes. Ladies, if you do this shit to a guy in front of other dudes, you're likely giving them all the ick for you as a partner and person
Douglas Murray is a social commentator and he will sometimes go on about women who have cavernous vaginas to make a point on women who make fun of men's penis size. Last thing a woman wants is to be called loose. People's genitals should not be up for discussion.
I am a former combat athlete who trained with men and they have a lot of body image issues. The men I trained with were very open about their issues....even admitted to having eating disorders.
EDs are a silent killer in the space imo, from the typical gymbro to top regional athletes. Social medias really made things worse in regards to the scale of competition. By that i mean in the past, you had your teammates, your region and maybe your country on your mind. Nowadays the worlds stage is inescapable. Self comparison issues can run rampant
My issue's been struggling with low self esteem. I've been made fun of by men and rejected by women, but as a straight man nothing made me feel worse than being rejected by a woman. I'm not as tall or as athletic as my cousins or younger brothers, I have acne, a crooked tooth, and a receding hairline at 27. Everyone has preferences, but being judged, rejected, and made fun of because I don't fit an unrealistic standard, especially by women who have some of the same issues is unfair.
people are definitely just in general way too comfortable making fun of men for their looks... its even worse with teenagers (though girls are also brutal to other girls) and I had a lot of friends whose self esteem suffered a lot because of it
You're 27. It's high time you stop putting so much stock into what people think. It's not too late to learn that lesson but you should have had someone sit you down and walk you through that a long time ago. The world has been like this since the start and it's not going to change in your lifetime, so build up your mental fortitude. Funny story, I used to be at the bottom of every social totem pole when I was younger. I used to care a lot about everyone's opinion, always tried way too hard to fit in, male friends were fake and the highlight with females was the time Nisa Sargent spit on me because she thought I was disgusting. Over the course of a single summer I stopped caring what anyone thought, period. Stopped following/chasing things and people, stopped trying to impress others. If I had no friends at the time I just stuck to being alone. All my social issues disappeared after that summer. In fact, down to the end of high-school and all through college I was one of the most popular people (and in high-school that was actually a vote they had). I've met folks now who were fat, balding, had bad teeth etc, but everyone knew em and everyone liked em. I'm not a lot older than you. I had nobody to show me, I just kinda got tired trying to keep up and started doing my own thing, so I'm telling you...don't waste your time with the opinions of people you barely even know. It's complicated but I've come to the conclusion that when you have a mindset like that, you yourself don't notice all the subtle things you put on display,. How you move, act, what you give off, it's like people can smell it on an instinctive level and they don't respect it/like it. I've done the same things when I was chasing fads and friends vs when I started not giving 2 shits, and people's opinions on it were completely different, as if it wasn't the exact same shit I was doing the whole time. Get your mind right. Your body will follow.
@kentaronagame7529 This is exactly what it’s like to have older brothers who are super athletic. They squeeze the b*tch mindset out of you and you start to learn what it takes to be a real man. Hitting the gym and changing your diet is a great place to start.
Yeah…lmao. I’m 23 and 4’ 11” I can’t count the amount of women who have mocked me or treated me like I’m sub human just for existing. They are brutally mean. But don’t your dare mention their wight…
@@Diamondr11Blue Yeah, his personality is definitely the issue here, not people who feel entitled to mock him for being short. I'm all for joking around with friends and family. But short dudes get mocked an harassed by complete strangers. I see it all the time, I'm 6'4" so it's not like I personally have the problem, I simply notice it when out and about with friends who are on the shorter side. I can see how I and them get treated differently in different situations.
@@jesmcalliI’m 5’3. Idk i must be lucky or something cause ladies treat me pretty good. Not saying I haven’t gotten the whole”you’re too short” thing with women but there’s been plenty who’s been on my team if ya know what I mean. I’m married now and I can say women show me more love than they ever have. Honestly I get more shit from insecure guys about my height than women
@@edward10619 even Americans dropped the nuke to end the war. Plus when she is left unsupervised she said that and not when her pr team can guide her.
How do you not get that Billie's statement actually CONFIRMS that women are nice and see people for who they are? She whould have to tell women "stop dating ugly guys" if there weren't an epidemic of ugly guys getting attention from women because women are able to see beyond the physical (unlike males who are notoriously shallow). Also, how is it "not nice" to call a guy ugly? I thought men were logical, it's just a statement of fact, right? And "facts don't care about your feelings", don't be emotional!
my little girl cousin came to me and told me "who will love you being skinny ?" it killed me and made my insecurities worst , I didn't blame her cuz she still a kid and told her that's wrong to say , but her mom told me you need to eat made me realize the source of the problem ( and its a regular topic to discus each family gathering until I snapped ), people please raise ur children right.
I couldn't agree more being a skinny dude myself. Why is it ok to tell people they're too skinny and need to eat more but it's not okay to tell people they're too fat and need to eat less? I had this woman who's stomach hangs out futher than her ass comment about my body size. Meanwhile she's constantly talking about her diabetes and constant knee pain.
Exactly. If a man was online crying about women not wanting to go out with him because he was fat or whatever, the universal response would be "Well, I guess you should lose some weight" or some other suggestion to fix the problem. What he wouldn't get is sympathy and "slay king, don't worry about the haters" responses.
Plus we have other ways to compensate that require self reflection and work. Most women are too lazy and that's why they start complaining the older they get.
As a teen, I had several chicks make fun of my for being skinny. They even said "we prefer men with broad shoulders and muscles", "you look sick", "ew", etc. I couldn't help my weight at the time. A hyperthyroid is a real thing. I still have body image issues, and I currently stand at the target weight for my height.
YOu know what? I developed early. Not that there was much to develop, BUT. I went through the same thing. Also, I was 14 and considered obese by my dance company's choreographer. I was 5'2, I weighed 109 lbs, and I was told to "lose a few lbs".
@@PhatallyFlawlesshave you heard your own music bud, maybe don’t talk shit AND post that garbage. As long as you’re in the gym an not in the studio I’m happy.
A movie with actors and characters represent half of the population? I've never experienced anything I seen in the movie. Guess women can generalize men based off of movies now.
@@claff4573 the movie is very accurate. Study after study have shown that women face the most amount of bullying and harassment from other women.** mean girls, catty behavior ***. Forbes magazine published a study like 2 yrs ago which reported that 80% of all harassment & bullying women face in the workplace came from other women. This is why you'd find more women wanting to work with men and have male bosses.
@@claff4573 are u brain dead?, they all women act like they do in mean girls, but the fact there is a whole movie about that being the premise is saying how blantantly wrong she is not that all women do it.
@@claff4573 Regardless of this stupid comment, all people struggle. not just men, not just women, not just old people, not just young people. Also you should not fight fire with fire because it only fans the flames.
"Women are nice" I was bullied since the young age of 8 years old until my senior year of high school, I was bullied to a point that I have a nice ugly duckling syndrome and just now at 25 I am finally breaking from it, you know who bullied me all those years ? WOMEN, only in high school had some guys to bully me bc I was goth before being made cool bc "Wednesday" but women would bully me way more in high school and in middle school WERE ALL GIRLS and only one guy bullied me for my looks the other guys who bully me for random things about how I was weird and all in black, but who was talking and shaming my body, my hair, about how fat I was and so on? WOMEN, how many apologised to me? JUST ONE from middle school , NO ONE from high school apologised until this day for the ruthless bullying and even the attempt of physical abuse that I suffered and was saved by my uncle. Btw in my example no women can come here and claim "they were jealous bc men pin women to compete for them" IT WAS NOT IT ! I never liked any of the dudes I studied with and neither did they fancied me, so there is no excuse to blame men here, all those women were extremely mean to me bc they were mean! Simple as that! No Billie, women are not nice, men are not nice, human beings suck and I trust a handful of them and thats it.
From what I've heard, from comments like these, videos like Chris Williamsons podcast, women I know, women are way more vicious to each other and not just because of the competing for mens attention thing.
@@chefboiardeeznutz9881yep. In my experience, women are way more competitive with eachother & to an unreasonable degree. They truly give men more grace than they do their fellow women. Men don't see that because they're not usually targeted for workplace/ school or social sabotage to the degree women are. Men think speaking to a woman makes them a target... BUT a woman simply has to EXIST as herself to become a target for hatred. That's it. Have confidence? You'll get targeted. Be natural? You'll be targeted. Put in effort? Targeted. Do a good job? Targeted. Be looked at by a guy that you don't even notice yourself? Targeted. Dare to breathe in the presence of other women? Targeted. It's truly fking wild.
@@chefboiardeeznutz9881 I pointed out that bc I always hear the excuse "its because men pin women against each and they feel like competing for attention" it was not, I even had a bf in high school who we stayed together until I turned 22 and he was older than me for 3 years and did not studied in our school, neither was into any of our middle school boys, bc I really don't want to hear this lame excuse that I always hear very often
im 5'2 and have been made fun of all the time for my height, it is so so so normalized to point it out when people first meet me. its insane to me that billie thinks that men do not go through any sort of image issues. we are the same age and everything, she honestly just sounds like someone who grew up in LA, which is where shes from...
@@aristotle9243 I don't see women calling men 🐋's for being big, they're allowed to exist. Having preferences isn't shallow or insulting another person.
@downbad2874 Admit what? The idea that women are infallible is obnoxious, delusional, and ridiculous. Get off your knees. The only value she has is attached to her chest.
The amount of times you hear women tell men stuff like "you'd make an amazing boyfriend" or "I wish I had a boyfriend as nice as you" and then absolutely refuse to date these same men should indicate that women don't just care about their personality. There's also people who are "too nice" or just not very interesting ofc, but especially at younger ages it's usually just looks.
And she's right. Women shouldn't. Seeing an attractive man with a less attractive women is rare, they never give that same hand while also calling women shallow. Often times if a man is less attractive than you he's gonna try to make your feel bad and take you down to his level because he knows you have options and that insecurity of the attractive woman finding better is strong.
From my experience, it's always the same, even starting at childhood. Get on the right side of a little girl, and she'll give you love and affection and confidence. Get on the wrong side of her, and you'll leave with a whole bunch of doubts and issues. Both sides then grow more toxic as the girls progress to puberty.
As a 5’5 skinny dude with a metabolism as fast as Usain Bolt, I can say I’ve been shamed for it since I was a teenager. The amount of girls that have rejected me and flat out told me it was because I was too short and thin. Meanwhile they were smaller than me 🙄🤣
@@predatorhunter3169theres only so many hours in a day to potentially exercise and when you’ve got a very fast metabolism you simply cant put on much muscle the same way you cant put on fat
i was 110 lbs and 5'10 for almost a decade since high school. i had to crash my legs doing motocross to start taking care of myself. i put 23 pounds (10 kg) just by eating more and doing weights for over 3 years. then went to a dietician to find out i have metabolism level of a 12 year old kid. now i keep gaining weight just by having a dietician helping me with a programm. im 27 years old and my testosterone levels are similar to age group 17-18 y.o.
Are you south East Asian? Because you have the same metabolism issues as me and many south East Asians and we are short as hell but I can still grow my height
I was talking to a woman for a while like a few years ago, had the courage to ask her out since we’ve been talking for a while. She said “I can’t see myself dating you because you are truly a disgusting creature.” Ever since then I’ve always been afraid to ask someone out because of that. It’s gotten to a point where I’ve thought about committing suicide over it. Luckily I didn’t go through with it but it just shows how someone, regardless of their gender, can be so cruel to you for just simply asking them out.
Mate, you took it the wrong way, she is a truly disgusting creature for treating you-and anyone-with so much cruelty and contempt. Beauty is only skin deep, no matter what she looks like, that's an ugly person. Don't let her be the measure you use to define your self-worth. It may not feel like it, but you dodged a bullet. If there's a thing you need to work on yourself, do it, but most of all work on your character, you'll meet someone who appreciates you both inside andout , don't even waste your breath on someone as shallow and cold as her, she may think she is all that but if that's how she treats people she's got a long way to go before becoming a woman of substance.
@@darthalexandros2526 thx so much! You too! May your queen come into your life sooner rather than later and may your future together erase all the hurts of the past ♡
@@darthalexandros2526 I resonate with your story. It's always infuriating how media and society see women as the "better" gender. No, women are, in fact, the most hypocritical. You definitely dodged a bullet.
I used to scrub my face till it bled with beach sand because I was convinced it would get rid of pimples….lost weight because I was too fat, struggled because as a teenage boy I was too skinny and couldn’t yet build muscle. I have cried many tears over my body image issues, and many here did the same and won’t admit it.
@@Sar-ahG yeah married, feel great about myself approaching healthy weight after getting obese following a pretty horrible sporting injury a few years ago. Doing 5k run plus weights daily and self esteem is as good as it’s been since my early 20s…but you know we all have moments of self doubt I still get those sometimes.
@@vladtheimpalerofyourmom-ag5112 You'll never look better in women's eyes if you're 5'1" no matter how improved you are compared to 6' tall homeless man, you'll always look pitiful to women if you are 5'1".
I think Billie Eilish shows us a glimpse into how a lot of women think: the problem is always with the men. Women are nice and accepting, it's the men who are mean and judgemental. I think most of us men have experiences with women being judgemental and making comments. Personally my mum would always be the first to make a comment about me or other people, as compared to my dad. Women on social media are also extremely judgemental and the way they speak about uncircumcised dicks really bothers me.
my mom will still do this when I'm with the parents I love it when dad calls her out cuz he knows the only reason I put up with her is cuz he asked me too. I tolerate her at his request cuz I still respect him. we were at the store and they didn't have what I wanted and she went to tease me and dad looked at me and said to her " well you know justin if he doesn't find what he wants he just won't change what he wants, he's a creature of habit." I was like dam right. god she just drains me and I'm 34 and she still can't get off my arse. then she wonders why I don't come to their home often.
American women in particular are probably some of the most walking contradicting judgmental beings ever. Not all are like that but I guarantee it’s a very high percentage of them
No, Billie Eilish has shown you how little girls think, which is not very much at all. When girls are in their teens to early twenties they will say a lot of dumb sh%%t that will not make sense when they become older because at the time they were speaking from what they thought was socially acceptable to say amongst their peer group. Everyone that was a teenager had done it. That is why her statement contradicts what she said. 😒
I understand wearing baggy clothes to hide your body. I was a size 36 D in the 7th grade, and not only did girls talk about me, I found out that guys had made bets about who would be the first to touch my breasts. Growing older, I was called Dolly Parton because I was skinny, with huge breasts, and I was so traumatized that i began wearing clothes 4x bigger than myself, to try and hide them. I agree that everyone has body image issues, some are just less obvious than others.
I literally self harmed over my body image issues and to hear someone say that because im a man I don’t have them is just a huge slap in the face to what me and other men go through. (I’m completely fine now and while I do struggle overall I am happy with myself now 🙂)
I love their chemistry. Abba is like a monk on his journey to enlightenment, he understands the path and sees things for what they are. Meanwhile Preach is already siting at peak of the mountain and he doesn’t doesn’t even look down anymore because he simply does not give a fuck.
This is wild… I’m 34 years old, and I spent most of my life immensely insecure about being skinny. I felt like because I am a man I was supposed to be big, strong, muscular… but I wasn’t. I joined the military at 23 and left for basic training weighing like 125lbs. I constantly heard comments about, dude you’re so skinny. Gee thanks, I wasn’t aware. Now as I’ve aged, I’ve finally been able to put on some weight/muscle… but still struggle with insecurities. I still often times see that skinny guy in the mirror and feel inferior. Long story short, shut up Billie. Everyone goes through it.
I understand everything she said about herself. My kid is a slender girl who is well endowed and she wears XL men's tees, hoodies in the middle of the damn summer, and baggy pants because she doesn't want anyone to see her silhouette. But once she said men don't have to worry about body image, she lost me. She doesn't live in the real world, she doesn't see what normal ass people go through in everyday life. She's still a kid, at least mentally. Hopefully someday she'll mature.
As a dude with a super fast metabolism, I can confirm 100% that people will just outright say to me that I'm skinny. God forbid I call them fat, though.
I was so happy to finally start gaining weight in my late 30's. I could never bulk because my body wouldn't let me. I could only rip. I stopped lifting because I got discouraged.
Same here man. I wasn’t fat or called fat growing up and it messed with my mind for all of elementary, middle, and high school. Even now in college I still have some confidence issues. Not as bad as before as I’ve been improving myself and being more open and confident but people underestimate how bad this can affect people for years. But, I use it as motivation for myself to be my best self.
I rarely hear men criticize the way women look, it's a nice ass, boobs, face and not much else. Women's body image is mostly self imposed from comparing themselves to other women in their social circles or in the media and men are seen to be guilty by association for liking attractive women.
Well I would say that if women these days has any curvature to them men accuse them of having a BBL it’s actually quite embarrassing. Even women post 5 years of workout routines and bodybuilding, BBL!!! 😂 it’s honestly a bad look on men.
I’ve said this on another video months or years ago. But I’ll say it again. I’ve oscillated from 350lbs to 250 (with muscle) and how different people treat you is astounding. My biggest takeaway is that it’s on no one else but yourself to create a positive image of yourself. Don’t tell society they have to love you. They won’t, they’ll hate you for judging them just like you’re hating them for judging you.
The #1 indicator for success in life is attractiveness. You're not crazy, it's absolutely a real thing. The scariest part is how the people you know personally start to act different
@@ryanvason6818 I think that's starting be more common. Even though the mainstream love to push the fit washboard abs gigachad. I've been hearing chicks like the "teddy bear" look or whatever you call it :/
@@21nitsua Actually it's confidence. Which comes in 2 forms favoured by capitalism, either a flexible morality and willingness to exploit others, or attractiveness and the social standing boost that gives.
@@21nitsua I was a virgin until m early 20s. In about 3 years of dating (I’m excluding a 5 year relationship) I got a body count of 20 - lockdown was about 7 of those. I regret it, but my point stands. 350lb - no women. 250lb and muscle - women.
I'm a woman, thank you for explaining your side, I learnt a lot. I agree, everyone has issues it's not a competition. I have been skinny my whole life, skinny shaming is real but no one wants to talk about it.
@@orangeslice43 I'm guessing you may be a female?? I mean... a vast majority of men already know this however, what you're doing is shifting the narrative and boarding gaslighting territory by making it appear as it's men's fault, which is typical. Point is, she's being extremely hypocritical and badmouthing others for the same shit she herself, does. You attempting to justify it, using garbage shaming tactics esp when vast majority of females be believing they're 10/10 "baddies" to begin with, is clown-status.
@@orangeslice43Most dudes settle. Their standards for looks arent nearly as high. Most men find a majority of women average to attractive. To most women the average man is unattractive so tell me again who cares more about looks???
Tell em brother, women won't even acknowledge an ugly man. They're mean in a different way, with coldness. And sometimes even just straight up insults to dudes if slightly provoked. The first thing they'll attack is his appearance if he's ugly, cause they know it'll hurt
@@lidiagizaw3828can you quit with the ignorant, "victim mindset" comments already? Where's the body positivity for men? The same "woe-is-me" fat women are the ones rejecting fat men too. Let's not even talk about the height standard of women, which no one has control over whatsoever...unlike weight. Are you another woman like Eilish who can't see beyond the victim bubble she's put herself in?
Bruh what girls aren't nice. I'm a woman and the amount of judgement I have received from other women is actually crazy. Highschool, worst period of my life because my gosh the snake behaviour around me was just shocking when I think back to that period of my life.
I’m a woman married to a man for 17 years. When we first got married he was so confident and I could not have guessed he would ever have any kind of body issues because he’s 6”4 with a great body. Now in our 40’s he still won’t tell me he has body image issues but if he misses one single workout he is so hard on himself. He maybe gained 30 pounds which looks amazing to me but he calls himself fat now. Sometimes it takes a long time for someone to voice their insecurities
“Men don’t have body image issues” Damn are we that good at hiding our pain? Hits different when you’ve been laughed at for shooting your shot while short.
@@rohanjarande cause we get used to taking hits like that, and soldiering on or hiding the pain, all part of the male experience. But every guy at one point or another has gotten that critical hit to their sore spot.
Its not that they just dont care if it doesnt benefit them. "what feel compassion & empathy for a man impossible thats for other women only" The fact that they see themselfs through other women shows the secret behind their empathy, they cant relate to beings that dont resemble them. Hence why a few man haters feel slight compassion for males once they have a son that has their looks.
As someone who has gone from skinny fat to muscular n being thinner,women definitely treat you differently when your physique improves. As well as style.
As a young man I’ve been fat, with dry flaky skin, unstylish clothes, dumb haircut… And I’ve also been in a position where I was fortunate enough to reverse it all and be fairly handsome… The amount of attention, opportunities and care you get from other people when you look good is insane!!!! Especially from Women!!! You go from being completely invisible and feeling worthless in life. To suddenly questioning how shallow all of humanity is as a sizable amount of its females are suddenly eager to forgive all your past transgressions and fuck you… Women can be insanely cruel and dismissive of Men they do not physically value. The below average Man receives nothing but contempt and mockery from most Women. Hell, many modern day Women don’t even know what an Average man and his experience really is. Unless you’re a high value guy then you’re very often just a blurred out face in the crowd to them.
@@claff4573men and women misbehave amd or exclude men and women they consider less attractive. They are unwilling to invest even a few moments of attention and time. It's what people do. The way against that is for people to take good care of themselves. The love and care will show and then the majority of people will manage to be civil.
I’ve had image issues since I was in 3rd grade and was constantly told by girls they could never imagine me having a girlfriend. I’m in decent shape now and still have to deal w the leftover issues that I’ve dealt with for like almost a decade
I swear the moment she said men have it easy when it comes to our body image. I just remembered all of the workouts, looksmaxing, face exercises, facial expression training, pose training for pics and other weird stuff to improve my attractiveness. I did modeling for a while, and the most models I've met regardless of gender are insecure with their body so yeah it's not exclusive to one gender, but I guess working in an industry as fashion you definitely will be encountering people with insecurities...
That exact same thing happened to me growing up. I was super skinny and got told all the time that I must eat more, so I did and nothing changed and still got the comments. I still get them now and then in my adult life.
The crazy thing is that.. billie elish has it completely twisted. Its the opposite. Men treat each other equally despite height, weight, and looks differences. All the judgement about men, comes entirely from women. Regarding height, dik size, body type, the way we dress, the car we drive, how much money we make etc etc etc.
Yep, never heard a nigga say I got small dick energy or that what I said gave em the ick. I got a girl but still, the main people trying to invalidate our feelings out here is women💀
Imma kindly disagree men do judge other men too with some of the stuff you mentioned your point sounds absolute I'll just say men just don't judge it as often.
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie Yeah, men definitely discriminate other men based on height, weight and other differences. Tons of work places still have a lot of bullying, including work places where almost everyone is male. Men aren't as bad as women in general with this since a capable men is still capable and worthy of respect, but... it happens.
Really? So men don't bully each other? At all? Here ya'll go trying to act like only women do this when literally the two men in the video acknowledge that men do this as well. Like, there's a comment right above your's literally talking about how he got bullied by bigger guys, well into his 20's.
@@tormentorchick1755the difference is the amount of times it happens. You rarely see boys getting bullied by other boys nowadays. It’s literally majority girls
I was traumatized sexually at a young age. That left me with severe insecurities when it comes to my dating life, sexual performances and (you guessed it) body image. I can’t even express how gratuitous some women (and men) can be towards men’s bodies. And the worst thing? That shaming is done out in the open, in the media, around dinner tables, etc and no one gets called out for it, it’s a normal and accepted behaviour.
@@lidiagizaw3828 what are you talking about? Short people as a whole are infantilized asf. Women have plus side and body positivity, it ain't ever over for you!
@@lidiagizaw3828Being called a "short king" is disingenuous and disrespectful as hell. It's literally just people being passive aggressive pus who say that
The strangest insult I've received from a woman(i guess girl because this was 8th grade) was after i had just admitted to liking her. Her response was something along the lines of, "you have child bearing hips." Wtf 😂
@@SageOfLimitlessHands I've dated women, toxic relationships where? It's easier to connect with a woman as a woman. So how are you measuring "toxicity?"
That small arguement in the end is how most men express themselves to one another. Any real man can read that last convo between the lines. Im glad you guys put that in the video. Im glad you guys are expressive more than the avg male while keeping that masculine touch. Lots of negativity these days towards masculine energy, i like how you guys promote and carry through with that energy. Keep it up, cheers!
2:27 Preach brother! Growing up skinny I had all sorts of people casually say things about my size. Men and women. Made me very insecure during Jr High and High school. Wore a jacket all of my freshmen year and Jr High years because of that. To top it off nobody believed I dealt with any insecurities because I was skinny and not fat. It was maddening
I've had body issues, they stem from me being short (I'm 5'6), I've been told by some women that I ain't that short, trying to reassure me, but I asked them all, "would you date at this height, and be BRUTALLY honest, I can TAKE IT" most of them said no, and the ones who said yes, idk if they were being honest or whatnot, but I took and accepted it. It was until about a year or so ago I was accepting of my height, and I even accepted it even more because a taller woman wants to go out with me. I was shocked that she found me attractive, and was completely fine with me being 5'6, I was relieved that I found someone who is giving me a chance. I'm talking to her as much as I can without being overbearing or even clingy, because in all honesty, she's a KEEPER.
@@al-imranadore1182 she's not a gold digger, in fact she makes more money than me. I plan on going to trade school and becoming a plumber, and even if I get all the experience, she'll still be making more than me.
@@al-imranadore1182 no, she just sees the best in me. I do make her laugh a lot, we have interesting conversations. I'm not at all worthless, plus she admitted herself, if she tries to find someone on her level or higher, it's gonna be difficult to find that kind of man. She admittedly didn't want to date and marry someone old enough to be her dad or grandfather. I hope to be more of a handy man, so that way I can be more resourceful in caring for the house's maintenance making me even more desirable than what I currently am. I could bum off her, but I'd rather make an effort to not look or be a burden.
Being disabled, I use a lot more energy than others just to get around. That's why I'm always going to have a small set. Growing up, my family allways kind of poked at me for how thin I was. It made me self concious of how skinny I was throughout highscool. And when it comes to dating, there's no hiding my crutch that i walk with just like there's no hiding my disability and how thin i am. I'm obviously going to be smaller my whole life, but it's just about findind the ones who will accept you! People don't see the circumstances and just want to go right to conclusion sometimes.
Taylor Lautner has a podcast with his wife where he talks about terrible body image issues and all the criticism he received for not being able to maintain the superhero body he had during Twilight movie fame days (which he had to train multiple times a day and follow crazy diets to achieve). Also, being sexualized at young age, etc. However, historically women do have to deal with more of an unrelenting focus on their body. There are different degrees, but everyone is struggling especially with social media and evolving culture.
17 and a bunch of old women want to assault you at every movie premier. Gross. But yes, both sexes have substantial issues pushed on us by society at large.
Taylor and other actors benefit from something the slightly above average woman does. They can convert their attractiveness into resources. If men were given the same benefits for being slightly above average then we’d be just as focused on our bodies.
@@willdegra317 that’s true, but attractiveness does increase income and opportunities of all kinds for both men and women in all industries sometimes on a massive scale like models and celebrities. However, you don’t have to be above average in attractiveness or be in the public eye to have your looks and body be the constant, primary focus when you are a woman. Women at every level of attractiveness from homely, to plain to beautiful have the experience throughout life with their looks and body being the most important thing about them and the first thing they are judged for.
Y'all are on it. Your discussions bring to light issues men don't really get to air out, and I appreciate the hell out of it. We need more of these platforms.
Women are the ultimate roasters when it comes to men’s bodies. “Ewwwwwwww” is akin to murder 😂. Don’t get me started on how they roast each other MY GOD they’re brutal. Thank the lord doing sports in high school gave me some lil abs 😂.
bro the absolute roast sessions women will do on each other if they got beef make the roasts against men look like nothing like its ww3 if it gets heated like it gets personal they be standing on business' fr
I been waiting for them to make a video about this. It’s crazy how delusional woman are getting about how a man’s life is while not being a man so they will never know or understand what we go thru.
It’s a mix of not understanding and not caring. The only solution most women give is to be more emotional, (which can be worse in some cases) but I also think some of them fixate on that to avoid talking about more important issues that effect men, and women play a part mens emotions being rejected.
My entire reason for entering the gym is cuz I hated being called skinny so damn much lmao. Saying men are congratulated for any look is such delusion 😂
I’m 5’9, 185lbs and muscular. The reason is I was told in high school by a female classmate when I was 130lbs that I would never be loved by a female for my body. I began working out hard. Trained to look like a movie star not realizing they trained for a movie. They were dehydrated in the scenes feeling like crap. Even though I’m loved now, in my head, I never look good enough. Those comments scared me. Men definitely get body shamed by men and women.
I was always suuuuper skinny until the last few years. Men RARELY said anything about it (I can't really recall one tbh). Women were constantly making comments about it. All through my life women would make comments about my weight, hair, facial structure. Complete random women I never met would say this stuff completely out of nowhere and act like it was totally normal.
I promise you, being tall and fat, I have issues regarding my body image too. I was working hard this year to get in great shape, weightlifting, all that. My knee has issues so I'm taking a break from the gym right now, but I will definitely go back and resume this journey later. But I promise you, it's not just short and thin men who might have body issues.
Billie: girls are nice we see people for who they are.
Also Billie: Never give an ugly guy a chance.
She has several completely unprovoked statements about men. It’s almost like she is projecting..🧐🤔
THIS. THIS EXACTLY, proves why she's delusional
Friendly fire?
She actually said that during the same interview.
""Why is every pretty girl with a horrible-looking man, I don't understand," she said during the interview. "Listen, I'm not shaming people for their looks, but I am though. You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world," she said. "I swear to god, because they got a hot girl, they can be horrible? Like, you're still ugly though." She went on to reference the size of men's genitals, suggesting it's something they would have to "make up for."
Can't help but think that her saying she's queer is just her way to protect herself from criticism. Now if you call her out for being a hipocrite it's because you're a homophobe or whatever
Billie Elish was also the one that went "I don't get why beautiful women date ugly dudes".
Because these beautiful women are gold digger
So nice really seeing people for who they are, what an exemplary girl
Yea that’s a very shallow statement
Says the lesbian... acting like all women are supermodels brought down from heaven
She also said "if I see someone wearing vans I instantly think they got a small dick"
My daily reminder that I lose nothing for not keeping up with celebrities and social media influencers
Social media influencer being a highly profitable profession is the clearest statement that society has failed
It's not even about losing anything. You literally gain so much peace and you save your mental health from any distress.
Ahh billie eilish. Don't you just hate it when someone has a voice of an angel. But the mannerisms of banshee.
@@StrigidaeStrigiformes-sv6mjAdele has the voice of an angel.... And she SMOKES.
@@khongelaningobeni6614you don't gain that. You already have it. You would lose it if you did keep up with it.
This girl was home-schooled and got famous at 16. It's very likely that most of her "real-life" interactions are the young women at her shows to whom she's some sort of demigod. Not surprising she'd be that out of touch with reality.
She's obviously tormented by her body and is too young to appreciate men are also struggling with their bodies. I'm glad I didn't have people shoving a microphone in my face and asking my opinion when I was her age coz I would have said equally as foolish shit if not worse!
That’s true. Because some of women’s harshest Critics are other women. It’s strange to act like they’re all special creatures from another planet incapable of being mean. If she ever lived like the common person she would know what she’s saying is so completely fat from the truth. I’m happy she’s surrounded by nice people but she’s getting to old to be this clueless.
Home-schooled people actually are often more social as far as their interactions with others go. A lot of this just has to do with her parents just failing to raise her properly.
@@thenonexistingherostop lying to yourself, homeschooling has always been dumb
homeschooling is the way things were until the 1800s, we did fine until then. Now, we aren't doing too great.@@IKMTIrr
She still pushing that “I’m 14 and this is deep” vibe
Yep, that's her whole appeal
Underrated comment
all her fans are probably literally those people though lmao
She's the physical embodiment of that reddit tag.
Billie's a good egg. But it's that age, it's that industry.
She lacks access to people who'll call her out on her myspace diary ass philosophies.
"Girls are nice, we see people for who they are,"
That was the point that I could no longer take what she said seriously. I still have tears in my eyes from the laughter.
Some of them are that but where are those Women she’s referring to living at? Because there’s nothing like that where I’m from.
You could say that's a societal expectation of women. I'm not nice and I think men should be criticized just as much as women are and have been.
Same my gee that statement took me out
@@impressionare3243technically, that’s a societal expectation of everyone. Test is, everyone that wants a functional society.
@@impressionare3243we all have these expectations in life though? why is it a victim contest with y’all?
tell me you know nothing about men without telling me you know nothing about men
She actually said being a young attractive woman is "war"..she is not serious..like honestly..this is a person who is not serious.
Men might have body issues but they arent as bad as womens
You think this is bad, you should hear her relationship advice
@@kendallroy7that’s what I’m saying, it’s a non legitimate statement, we really shouldn’t even entertain this discussion, off jump it’s nonsensical, let’s move on😂
@@ace0135we dont want relationship advice from you incels
I've never considered myself an attractive man, but earlier this year, my best friend told me that people used to ask him why he hung out with me under the pretext that we are polar opposites of attractiveness. And that was mostly by women. I cannot imagine how much that has affected his state of mind and confidence (which he admitted it did), but it goes to show that "girls" aren't inherently "nice because they see you for who you are".
now that you mention it you see way more male friend groups of all different attraction levels, but girl friend groups seem to be more focused on being with the prettiest girls. girls for sure judge each other based off looks way more than guys do to each other
My ex's grandmother texted her asking why she was dating an ugly guy like me, that she deserved better. Her mother never restrained from telling her I was "weird" as well.
Bro looks like a foot but he is funny and I would ride or die
Pp
As a Skinny Mexican man, trust me the abuse is real. Random old woman in the street are the worst. They would call you so much shit and then try and force feed you with shame.
😂😂😂
African mom's and aunties are the worst.
I feel you. Turn the shaming around. Start asking those old women for food.
@@captainchaoscowbe like I'm hungry I'm not fed enough can I come to your house for dinner?
Then go to the gym and put on muscle instead of complaining like a girl we are men we get shamed for something u can fix except height etc
Bro who are these random women yelling at you. I find that so disturbing because I dont think I've ever witnessed a man barated by randoms for being ugly
Love hearing this after being told my acne scars are ‘disgusting’ by my sister, and my mum who was next to her didn’t give a shit
Dude i was always told it was random men who was gonna tell me off about that. Well guess what a majority of it was other women. So I beleive you tbh
Yikes you need a new family
And as a kid my sister always got fat AND skinny shamed by my pops. Goes both ways
She needs correction
@@TurtleChad1💢💢
Billie Elish's existence is enough proof to show that not all girls are nice. Isn't she the same person who said to women "stop dating ugly guys" a while ago?😂
Yup! And what's wild is her face is decent/pretty, but her body is giving 40-yr auntie after having 3 kids. She herself is MID overall (face+body factored together). If it weren't for the fame she received via music she'd be overlooked and deemed as extremely average in the dating pool.
The ' Body Positive' ones are always the most fucked up.
I feel like she's got some pent up frustration about men from back in the day.
What's funny to me is that anyone ever bought into the idea that all girls are nice. No group is all nice. Every group has plenty of assholes.
Billie Elish is the proof that stupid people do not know that they are stupid
I like that you touched on the skinny guy problem. It even goes a step further. I was mercilessly bullied by bigger guys. Even well into my 20s. Skinny, 5'9", and baby faced. I was treated like a child and pushed around for most of my life. Guys don't have it easier. It's just that no one cares about what we go through.
💯% this. Women’s solipsism is sometimes amazing
You got an extra inch over me. Back in my days, It was better to be fat and cocky than be skinny, short and nerdy.
PE class were HELL in high school.
I started balding when I was like 22. I been shaving my head for years. I'm happy enough with it, but when I explained to my girlfriend that people felt not only felt comfortable, but entitled, to make fun of you for it, she was entirely dismissive. Hair is one of the few points of vanity that men allow themselves, and it's the first thing to be made fun of when you lose it. It took her years to acknowledge all the teasing.
And that's all it is, teasing. I'm a grown man, and I'm secure with how I look; I can take a joke. But living in a society that is ready to cut my head off at any perceived body shaming, only to have those same people turn around and make fun of my hairline, puts a hair across my ass.
Edit: you know what, I'll put my money where my mouth is. I laughed at my neighbor's skinny legs when I saw him in short shorts. I'm just as guilty 🤷
Shit same thing here but the first person to talk shit was my mom and she called me a skin head 😂
When did you shave it. Im 23, and boy is it getting thin and farther back. Looks exactly like my grandfather when he was 60....
If I may, I would offer to you that I think it might be the case that balding is a sign of stagnation in the lymph system. Since the kidneys are the gateway for the lymph to leave the body and they are so far away from the top of the head it can be quite difficult to bring hydration back to those hair follicles. There is also the challenge of whether or not we even have proper kidney function at all since it seems that most of us are in some form of renal failure. If I may, I would offer to you that nothing beats the proper hydration we get from fruits, berries, and melons but please bear in mind that it's important to support the function of the kidneys with proper herbs too. We can easily bring in more hydration to the cells but if our kidneys are not filtering out cellular waste then we end up with the symptom and the problem of edema. It's the chemistry we play with that determine the experience we are having.
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I started balding at 19. At about 35 I started shaving my head, I accepted it. My nickname among friends is "Baldy" I recently started medication to regrow my hair. The only reason being my 10 year old daughter said she wished she could see me with hair.
@@BrandenH-O051 I just bit the bullet young and shaved since 24. Needless to say the amount of women who liked me went way down proving the video.
"People Don't Even Realize Skinny People Can Have Body Image Issues" OMFG THANK YOU ABA 🙌🏾🎯💯
Exactly, my friend she is skinny looks good but she complains about not gaining weight all the time while I got a gut 😩
The dancing skeleton is the main form of attack
Stop capitalizing every word
Skinny girls get a fair chance by most men and women... tall or small... as for guys being skinny and small its a like being in legend difficulty. Even if there's bigger women into smaller dudes they wont pull the triggerd cuase they don't want to be ashamed of being atracted to smaller dudes.
Women are waaaaay judgemental on bodies in general...
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I think I remember her publicly saying some time ago that women should never give ugly men a chance because it basically makes them "uppity".
Don't know where she got that idea from if she seems to be the person to avoid dating ugly guys.
you are correct
And she's right... Women shouldn't. Seeing an attractive man with a less attractive women is rare, they never give that same hand while also calling women "shallow." Often times if a man is less attractive than you he's gonna try to make your feel bad and take you down to his level because he knows you have options and that insecurity of the attractive woman finding better is strong.
@@carlbrown1000 From reality.
@@orangeslice43I am sorry for you that you attract and date these kind off insecure men. Must be painfull.
When I got in the best shape of my life. My ex girlfriend said, "You don't make me feel small anymore. I feel like you can't protect me. I liked when you were bigger." I appreciated her honesty, but was simultaneously crushed because I felt the best I'd ever felt and could see my abs for the first time. People are allowed to have preferences and I'm glad she made hers known, but to act like men don't get shamed for their bodies as well is sheer ignorance.
P.s. Also just bought my ass a wallet, thank you Aba n Preach!
That's ehy she's an ex, dont need that shitty girl mentality. What an odd thing to say
I think in cases like that, it can also be about insecurity. She may have seen that you'd gotten in great shape and felt that she was no longer up to standard, and rather than improve herself it was easier to just make you feel bad about it, so that you put some of the weight back on.
Again not saying that definitely was your situation, but I have seen this play out in friends relationships before.
I was very close to a girl that would stand on body positivity like crazy. One of my coworkers called a girl on ig chubby and she then projected that onto herself. Saying that girl was close to her body and that he was calling her fat. Proceeded to have a huge issue with the dude over something she made about her.
Later on she had problems with me and the first thing she does to try and be petty was shame my body. Didnt hurt my feelings but i noticed that she doesnt even believe HER beliefs!!!
She tells me that she hates people who view the word fat as an insult but then makes fun of my body the first chance she got??? Made me realize that the body positivity shit is bs and only exists for women.
And its used as a shield and route to victim hood. Its very strange to me to have beliefs that you dont uphold... why tf do u have em then?
nothing but facts the whole thing is just a double standard for women to make themselves feel like victims while doing the very thing they say they are against once again equality only if it benefits them at its finest
What woman/leftist (same thing really) has consistent beliefs? Consistent beliefs require being logical.
@willdegra317 Women don't use logic? 😂 If that were true, our species would have never survived because we wouldn't be competent enough to care for our young.
Remember when you hear someone talk about something like this(lying, blackmailing, thieving, abuse) there is a very good chance it's projection since it's on their mind. Or it's just emotions. I try not to get close to people.
@@willdegra317 It's amazing how many people are only seeing this because a celebrity is saying this. This is how many women think. There will _never_ be a _body positivity_ "movement" for short guys or out of shape guys.
And if you accept being obese and unhealthy as a man or a woman, there is something mentally wrong with you and you need to seek professional help. It is used as a crutch to keep people from putting in any effort or taking responsibility to better themselves. It's not about seeking to be unrealistically aesthetically attractive, but just being functionally and actually healthy, and being overweight not to mention obese, is _not_ it.
"It's Not a Misery Competition" Well said Preach, Couldn't Agree More.
Oppression Olympics yada yada
Billie needs four more years of hardware updates to her prefrontal cortex before making any more comments like that XD
I don't think people should dismiss some misery just because there is bigger misery around
But people should also know that there are different levels of misery(which is already implied by saying we shouldn't make it a competition).
The problem is, we make it a competition, for example kids could be punished for doing something very bad, although punishment could be classified as misery, but people recognize that it is less misery than the alternative (the kid doing the wrong thing again)
So we do compare misery, judges do that all the time, but, although some misery is worse than others, we shouldn't deny the existence of the lesser one.
Exactly 😅 like its not like there isnt guys that haven't said sh about other guys , or like there isnt girls that haven't said sh bout girls or guys .
I feel like billie started saying this stuff after the internet body shamed her on a specific pic of her...and its not helping.
I think because she personally experienced this criticism in the media from men and seen other women deal with that she was more so trying to highlight what goes on, not that she necessarily trying to offend men she just doesn't want to sympathize with those that say those things in the majority. She's not exactly wrong with what she said either, at one point in history women and girls in china would bind their feet along with other insane stuff, if physical standards were the same back then or at any part in history men would not be able to deal, we already see how they feel about women preferring men who are decently attractive or tall which is human nature.
First person to criticize my body was my mom. She said I had an egghead. Then my older brother kept telling me I was really fat. I grew up to be a sweater kid, trying to hide my body in the biggest clothes possible, even in the summer time. I grew up, lost some weight, grew some more, gained more weight and now I can say I'm mostly comfortable in my body. I still have those chubby kids memories, but I can look at myself and be happy with who I am. Everyone has issues, it is not a pity contest.
You just unlocked a core memory. The first person to ever make fun of my weight was my mom. My father may have been a cruel man to me he was never one to make fun of me. Instead he would force me to do more so I wasn't laying down or sleeping. He knew it was a problem and wanted me to do something a out it. But my mother was horroble with the words. Onlyy grandmothers made me feel vetter about myself and actually want to keep getting better while still being happy about my body.
@@JoseLopez-gi9sf I could say our experiences are one and the same. Be great out there.
Yeah parents, especially mothers, should know better than to say such hurtful, impactful, shapeful(self - fulfilling prophecy)
2:45 "because people think you're okay then they feel that they can insult you in whatever way they want" ironically makes them the actual oppressor
I still remember almost 30 years ago when I was a teenager at a big music festival and I wanted to be like all the cool dudes with their shirts off. I walked past a group of slightly older girls and one of them said something like “OMG, gross! Put your shirt on.” and I still remember it to this day. I have always been extremely self-conscious in regards to my appearance. This just proves how some women can be completely clueless about things.
Well I mean, it's not like you do to talk about this stuff..... I mean that's the biggest complaint women have with men is that y'all don't open your mouth and talk about anything other than work, food, sex and your hobbies......
Women don't know anything you men are going through because you don't talk about it!!
But now suddenly the whole manosphere wants to chime in about how they're just struggling with their body images lolol
Yeah, it's such a huge problem for you men, you never mentioned it....... until a woman says that you don't have body positivity problems...... And then suddenly every single man on the face of the planet has a story about how someone was mean to you.
But hey it's nice to know that you men are just as insecure and struggling with your body every day...... like a woman.
my friends and family would always shame me for my body (i was chubby as a youngin) and then would also take the piss when i used to workout in my tiny ass room tryna be proud of my body. now, iv been working out for 5+ years with a good physique, good chest and back development with visible abs but still refuse to take my top off after many many years. just goes to show how comments made on your body can still effect you even after making major improvements
Keep that shirt on bro. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@RandomNoob1124 I’m in great shape now. Those girls though, I doubt it.
@@josephduke5186 amazing 🙏🏾
It’s a hypocritical issue going around. I’m short by most ppl as a male and I’ve gained weight. It’s amazing to hear women who are shorter and fat behaving like I should go for medical attention or something. I feel like this idea that men don’t get attacked for their physical features is sort of media driven. Aba said it right, it’s not that we don’t get stuff, it’s just so normalized. What about balding men? Our features are highlighted everyday
well your pretty big. That's not healthy.
These Women really live in this victim mentality mindset. 🤦♂️
People say the meanest shit to bald men. I'm dating one so I'm sensitive about it, I love the look though. It's just genetics, it has no indication on the value of the person lol.
The interesting thing is that men are shamed for things they usually can't change, like height and penis size. At least if you are fat shamed you can go to the gym
Too right mate, it is tough out there, I think learning not to care what others think can lead you to another place of happiness like you’ve never known. I used to wear jumpers, pants to cover my body etc when I was younger obv due to major insecurities…. Had that problem for so long bro thought it’d never end….
It did get better eventually but it took so long, was small steps but I got there…. See but Billie eillish will say that can’t be right cuz ur a man!! It happened all right…. And I barely got out of that nightmare.
Was like winning the lottery after i conquered my insecurities. Greatest feeling ever!!!
There's no need to sugarcoat this..This is a self entitled woman with major issues who thinks that everything revolves around her and she wants other women to jump on her train.. that's not how life works
She’s like the pot calling the kettle black.
Kinda is tho.
Well thats a little too much. I personally think shes a d*mb child with very little experience like we all were in our 20s.
But then again she has a big platform and she should be mindful of what she says.
If you dont know something then dont speak on it
@@LucreziaMeztlyShe's just dumb for a 20s year old
Literal 1%er complaining about how hard life is
Billie: men don't have body shaming issues or judged for their looks
eilliB: Don't give *ugly* guys a chance
women : slay queen 💅
@VegaNous i hate this stupid rhetoric of "its just a gotcha comment !" well if it got you then it has a fucking point then doesn't it ? its like me beating a homeless person and you saying "what are you doing you're beating a homeless person ! thats wrong !" and i say "aha ! thats such a gotcha comment !" like, yes, yes you got me, me saying it doesn't absolve me of fault nor invalidate you calling me out, she is clearly being hypocritical.
so tell me sherlock, instead of some vague pseudointellectual nothing burger bullshit of "you're just saying a gotcha comment !" what is the actual context since you seem so sure.
How do you not get that Billie's statement actually CONFIRMS that women are nice and see people for who they are? She whould have to tell women "stop dating ugly guys" if there weren't an epidemic of ugly guys getting attention from women because women are able to see beyond the physical (unlike males who are notoriously shallow).
Also, how is it "not nice" to call a guy ugly? I thought men were logical, it's just a statement of fact, right? And "facts don't care about your feelings", don't be emotional!
It’s absolutely bs. Like Billie is living under a rock like Patrick.
@@CwadO-gs5hsbut that's not fact though. It's opinion. A shitty, unwelcome one at that. You don't walk up to someone and insult them, who raised you?
Everyone gets shamed for the way they look. All of us. Every gender. Every height. Every race. Every sexuality. We are all shallow cruel assholes to each other. Even if youre insanely attractive, people will be cruel just to make themselves feel better. No one is safe. 😂
*both genders
@@oz_jonesBased!!!!!!!
Calm down, no one forced you to say jack. Let people live. You don't have to concern yourself with battling invisible demons that don't exist in front of you right now.
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@@RS-fy9hbyou don’t reed gud
Best I can advise is, "Stop giving these childish celebrities attention." Just because they're famous, they do not know what's best for anyone but themselves. Let them make their own screw ups and move on.
They don’t know what's good for themselves either.
They're all drugged out of their damn minds and can't actually understand what life is like for the common folk.
Never get advice from celebrities 😂
Kendrick said it best: Celebrity do not mean integrity
@@CreatorsInk What's the opposite of integrity..... that’s right kids, it's celebrity.
Best advise for who exactly? Ignoring ignorance doesn't make it disappear, I think putting out the thought and creating some discussion on even silly things like this can be valuable.
My dad was a professional body builder for 35 years - he was super well known in our city and retired about 20 years ago. He still deals with body dysmorphia to this day. He started working out because he hated being skinny, kept at it because he could always be bigger, and after destroying his body lifting hundreds of pounds he reminisces about what he used to look like.
Lol.
Woman dont like bodybuilders, just other dudes.
Also bodybuilders are famous for body dysmorphia
I remember all the articles shaming Ben Affleck for gaining weight and the ones pointing out Jason Momoa's "dad bod".
She's also ignoring the fact that the majority of people body shaming women are...other women.
Not majority but men still do shame women
She capping abt the body issues tho
@@IKMTIrrit is a majority females can be ruthless they are emotional beings
@@IKMTIrr Define shaming
@@yosutzuhruojhave you not seen those awful comments on instagram. like for examples when women go through breast reduction surgery, men have the audacity to comment “I wouldn’t let my gf do that”, “before was better” ,” she’s not f***able anymore”. Or women with healthy fat that their body needs, are called too fat, but when you are skinny they’re called “12 year old boys”, or “if she had tits, I’d hit”. It is absolutely shaming. I’m not excluding men’s problems either, everyone regardless of gender are capable of shaming and doing awful things to each other.
That's true!
'Because girls are nice, we see people for who they are', this must be the most gaslight phrase I've ever read.
Baby serial killer Lucy Letby is nice and Australian Blood Doner James Harrison who saved 4 million babies lives is horrible.
You heard it from Ellish folks
Rachel and Nyomi Fee the child killers are nice and Mr Beast helping people with money is evil
Again, Ellish very right on this 🙄🤦♂️
Nicer than men that's for sure.
@@metalheadjake3339 For every crime women do there's 100 men that have done the exact same.
@@metalheadjake3339 For every c r i m e a woman does you can find 100 men that have done the same and even worse.
@@metalheadjake3339 You can find 10,000 men that have done the same or worse as lucy letby.
The worst for me is seeing women who preach positive body image and self love, and then when a guy/ex pisses them off, they go right for tiny dick jokes. Ladies, if you do this shit to a guy in front of other dudes, you're likely giving them all the ick for you as a partner and person
Douglas Murray is a social commentator and he will sometimes go on about women who have cavernous vaginas to make a point on women who make fun of men's penis size. Last thing a woman wants is to be called loose. People's genitals should not be up for discussion.
Body positivity is only for women.
I am a former combat athlete who trained with men and they have a lot of body image issues. The men I trained with were very open about their issues....even admitted to having eating disorders.
EDs are a silent killer in the space imo, from the typical gymbro to top regional athletes. Social medias really made things worse in regards to the scale of competition.
By that i mean in the past, you had your teammates, your region and maybe your country on your mind.
Nowadays the worlds stage is inescapable. Self comparison issues can run rampant
Billie disagrees with you 😂😂
My issue's been struggling with low self esteem. I've been made fun of by men and rejected by women, but as a straight man nothing made me feel worse than being rejected by a woman. I'm not as tall or as athletic as my cousins or younger brothers, I have acne, a crooked tooth, and a receding hairline at 27. Everyone has preferences, but being judged, rejected, and made fun of because I don't fit an unrealistic standard, especially by women who have some of the same issues is unfair.
people are definitely just in general way too comfortable making fun of men for their looks... its even worse with teenagers (though girls are also brutal to other girls) and I had a lot of friends whose self esteem suffered a lot because of it
You're 27. It's high time you stop putting so much stock into what people think. It's not too late to learn that lesson but you should have had someone sit you down and walk you through that a long time ago. The world has been like this since the start and it's not going to change in your lifetime, so build up your mental fortitude.
Funny story, I used to be at the bottom of every social totem pole when I was younger. I used to care a lot about everyone's opinion, always tried way too hard to fit in, male friends were fake and the highlight with females was the time Nisa Sargent spit on me because she thought I was disgusting. Over the course of a single summer I stopped caring what anyone thought, period. Stopped following/chasing things and people, stopped trying to impress others. If I had no friends at the time I just stuck to being alone. All my social issues disappeared after that summer. In fact, down to the end of high-school and all through college I was one of the most popular people (and in high-school that was actually a vote they had). I've met folks now who were fat, balding, had bad teeth etc, but everyone knew em and everyone liked em. I'm not a lot older than you. I had nobody to show me, I just kinda got tired trying to keep up and started doing my own thing, so I'm telling you...don't waste your time with the opinions of people you barely even know.
It's complicated but I've come to the conclusion that when you have a mindset like that, you yourself don't notice all the subtle things you put on display,. How you move, act, what you give off, it's like people can smell it on an instinctive level and they don't respect it/like it. I've done the same things when I was chasing fads and friends vs when I started not giving 2 shits, and people's opinions on it were completely different, as if it wasn't the exact same shit I was doing the whole time. Get your mind right. Your body will follow.
@kentaronagame7529 This is exactly what it’s like to have older brothers who are super athletic. They squeeze the b*tch mindset out of you and you start to learn what it takes to be a real man.
Hitting the gym and changing your diet is a great place to start.
Yeah…lmao. I’m 23 and 4’ 11” I can’t count the amount of women who have mocked me or treated me like I’m sub human just for existing. They are brutally mean. But don’t your dare mention their wight…
I'm 153cm* lol
I'm 5'3ish, and I catch shit from men and women all the time about my height. Women really do treat you like you're sub-human if you're a short dude.
@@jesmcalli dude it's not the end of the world. Work on your personality
@@Diamondr11Blue Yeah, his personality is definitely the issue here, not people who feel entitled to mock him for being short. I'm all for joking around with friends and family. But short dudes get mocked an harassed by complete strangers. I see it all the time, I'm 6'4" so it's not like I personally have the problem, I simply notice it when out and about with friends who are on the shorter side. I can see how I and them get treated differently in different situations.
@@jesmcalliI’m 5’3. Idk i must be lucky or something cause ladies treat me pretty good. Not saying I haven’t gotten the whole”you’re too short” thing with women but there’s been plenty who’s been on my team if ya know what I mean. I’m married now and I can say women show me more love than they ever have. Honestly I get more shit from insecure guys about my height than women
Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most.
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@truth hurts?
Yo I just saw you in griffins video 🤯
You mean a sociopathic person with no sense of integrity.
You and George Carlin (rest his soul) should have beer together in the next life lmao
Bilie Elish: "Women are nice"
Also Bilie Elish: "Beautiful women stop dating ugly men"
How nice of her to say it.
She's a jealous lesbian. It all makes sense now. She's mad the women She's attracted to are dating men. That's all.
I don't mean that in a derogatory manner btw, she's came out a while ago
@@edward10619 even Americans dropped the nuke to end the war. Plus when she is left unsupervised she said that and not when her pr team can guide her.
@@edward10619 Which is why she should shut her fucking mouth about dating men.
How do you not get that Billie's statement actually CONFIRMS that women are nice and see people for who they are? She whould have to tell women "stop dating ugly guys" if there weren't an epidemic of ugly guys getting attention from women because women are able to see beyond the physical (unlike males who are notoriously shallow).
Also, how is it "not nice" to call a guy ugly? I thought men were logical, it's just a statement of fact, right? And "facts don't care about your feelings", don't be emotional!
my little girl cousin came to me and told me "who will love you being skinny ?" it killed me and made my insecurities worst , I didn't blame her cuz she still a kid and told her that's wrong to say , but her mom told me you need to eat made me realize the source of the problem ( and its a regular topic to discus each family gathering until I snapped ), people please raise ur children right.
I couldn't agree more being a skinny dude myself. Why is it ok to tell people they're too skinny and need to eat more but it's not okay to tell people they're too fat and need to eat less? I had this woman who's stomach hangs out futher than her ass comment about my body size. Meanwhile she's constantly talking about her diabetes and constant knee pain.
lmfao bro im dead 😂😂😂 @@simpleplan100687
We all have body image issues. Men are just expected to not complain about them.
thank you!!!
Exactly. If a man was online crying about women not wanting to go out with him because he was fat or whatever, the universal response would be "Well, I guess you should lose some weight" or some other suggestion to fix the problem.
What he wouldn't get is sympathy and "slay king, don't worry about the haters" responses.
Plus we have other ways to compensate that require self reflection and work.
Most women are too lazy and that's why they start complaining the older they get.
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@@hijklmnopreaperfully agree
As a teen, I had several chicks make fun of my for being skinny. They even said "we prefer men with broad shoulders and muscles", "you look sick", "ew", etc.
I couldn't help my weight at the time. A hyperthyroid is a real thing. I still have body image issues, and I currently stand at the target weight for my height.
YOu know what? I developed early. Not that there was much to develop, BUT. I went through the same thing. Also, I was 14 and considered obese by my dance company's choreographer. I was 5'2, I weighed 109 lbs, and I was told to "lose a few lbs".
God bless brother! Keep being awesome!
As a teen, i had girls grabbing my biceps and tellimlng me it felt like an apple, yall r just soy boys in sorry 😂
@@PhatallyFlawlesshave you heard your own music bud, maybe don’t talk shit AND post that garbage. As long as you’re in the gym an not in the studio I’m happy.
@@dissociativealeks i appear to have struck a nerve! AND A VITAL ONE AT THAT 😈
I love how Billie acts like women are so pure when the movie Mean Girls is a thing. And it's getting an update!
A movie with actors and characters represent half of the population? I've never experienced anything I seen in the movie. Guess women can generalize men based off of movies now.
@@claff4573 the movie is very accurate. Study after study have shown that women face the most amount of bullying and harassment from other women.** mean girls, catty behavior ***. Forbes magazine published a study like 2 yrs ago which reported that 80% of all harassment & bullying women face in the workplace came from other women. This is why you'd find more women wanting to work with men and have male bosses.
@@claff4573 are u brain dead?, they all women act like they do in mean girls, but the fact there is a whole movie about that being the premise is saying how blantantly wrong she is not that all women do it.
@@claff4573 Regardless of this stupid comment, all people struggle. not just men, not just women, not just old people, not just young people. Also you should not fight fire with fire because it only fans the flames.
Billie was homeschooled. She never experienced the hell that middle school and high school girls put each other through.
As a overweight guy losing weight, people are just now starting to respect me more
"Women are nice" I was bullied since the young age of 8 years old until my senior year of high school, I was bullied to a point that I have a nice ugly duckling syndrome and just now at 25 I am finally breaking from it, you know who bullied me all those years ? WOMEN, only in high school had some guys to bully me bc I was goth before being made cool bc "Wednesday" but women would bully me way more in high school and in middle school WERE ALL GIRLS and only one guy bullied me for my looks the other guys who bully me for random things about how I was weird and all in black, but who was talking and shaming my body, my hair, about how fat I was and so on? WOMEN, how many apologised to me? JUST ONE from middle school , NO ONE from high school apologised until this day for the ruthless bullying and even the attempt of physical abuse that I suffered and was saved by my uncle.
Btw in my example no women can come here and claim "they were jealous bc men pin women to compete for them" IT WAS NOT IT ! I never liked any of the dudes I studied with and neither did they fancied me, so there is no excuse to blame men here, all those women were extremely mean to me bc they were mean! Simple as that!
No Billie, women are not nice, men are not nice, human beings suck and I trust a handful of them and thats it.
From what I've heard, from comments like these, videos like Chris Williamsons podcast, women I know, women are way more vicious to each other and not just because of the competing for mens attention thing.
@@chefboiardeeznutz9881yep. In my experience, women are way more competitive with eachother & to an unreasonable degree. They truly give men more grace than they do their fellow women. Men don't see that because they're not usually targeted for workplace/ school or social sabotage to the degree women are. Men think speaking to a woman makes them a target... BUT a woman simply has to EXIST as herself to become a target for hatred. That's it. Have confidence? You'll get targeted. Be natural? You'll be targeted. Put in effort? Targeted. Do a good job? Targeted. Be looked at by a guy that you don't even notice yourself? Targeted. Dare to breathe in the presence of other women? Targeted. It's truly fking wild.
I'm sorry you've been dealt that hand. That's an extremely rough place to be in. I hope the future offers you better humans to spend time with.
@@chefboiardeeznutz9881 I pointed out that bc I always hear the excuse "its because men pin women against each and they feel like competing for attention" it was not, I even had a bf in high school who we stayed together until I turned 22 and he was older than me for 3 years and did not studied in our school, neither was into any of our middle school boys, bc I really don't want to hear this lame excuse that I always hear very often
@@nightwishlady I understand. I was just saying that men could be a reason, from what you're saying, it seems just them being bullies to be bullies.
im 5'2 and have been made fun of all the time for my height, it is so so so normalized to point it out when people first meet me. its insane to me that billie thinks that men do not go through any sort of image issues. we are the same age and everything, she honestly just sounds like someone who grew up in LA, which is where shes from...
I'm 153! Hey up there 👋
She didn't say men didn't go through any body issues.
@@orangeslice43She said women are nice and see people for who they are which is a lie. They are just as shallow if not more shallow than men.
@@aristotle9243 I don't see women calling men 🐋's for being big, they're allowed to exist. Having preferences isn't shallow or insulting another person.
@@orangeslice43women do that not men especially when y'all get emotional
Once again delusional celebrities are delusional. 😂😂😂
So much delulu
Typical celebrity always out of touch with reality
Even for a celeb, this is exceptionally delusional. I think she's a home schooled kid. Completely out of touch.
She isn’t YALL just don’t want to admit it
@downbad2874 Admit what? The idea that women are infallible is obnoxious, delusional, and ridiculous.
Get off your knees. The only value she has is attached to her chest.
The amount of times you hear women tell men stuff like "you'd make an amazing boyfriend" or "I wish I had a boyfriend as nice as you" and then absolutely refuse to date these same men should indicate that women don't just care about their personality.
There's also people who are "too nice" or just not very interesting ofc, but especially at younger ages it's usually just looks.
She herself has made fun of male bodies with the 'give an unattractive guy a chance and he thinks he owns the world' barb lmao
Also do keep in mind..an "unattractive" man is likely still on the top 35% of men.... the other 65% are pretty much invisible to most women.
And she's right. Women shouldn't. Seeing an attractive man with a less attractive women is rare, they never give that same hand while also calling women shallow. Often times if a man is less attractive than you he's gonna try to make your feel bad and take you down to his level because he knows you have options and that insecurity of the attractive woman finding better is strong.
@orangeslice43 right or wrong, still shows her true colors. Shallow and judgemental
@@orangeslice43agree with you 100% she just didn't word it right
@@orangeslice43 what you said goes both ways now....
As a woman who bullied by girls when i was younger, women and girls are can be so cut throat, and more brutal then men.
Probably because their crush limed you and they were jealous.
I was bullied by women at school and I'm a man lol, shit. Women are worse period. They are far more creative with their insults
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From my experience, it's always the same, even starting at childhood. Get on the right side of a little girl, and she'll give you love and affection and confidence. Get on the wrong side of her, and you'll leave with a whole bunch of doubts and issues. Both sides then grow more toxic as the girls progress to puberty.
A lot of women seem to know exactly what to target in terms of self esteem
As a 5’5 skinny dude with a metabolism as fast as Usain Bolt, I can say I’ve been shamed for it since I was a teenager. The amount of girls that have rejected me and flat out told me it was because I was too short and thin. Meanwhile they were smaller than me 🙄🤣
Best thing you can do is put on muscle
@@predatorhunter3169theres only so many hours in a day to potentially exercise and when you’ve got a very fast metabolism you simply cant put on much muscle the same way you cant put on fat
i was 110 lbs and 5'10 for almost a decade since high school.
i had to crash my legs doing motocross to start taking care of myself.
i put 23 pounds (10 kg) just by eating more and doing weights for over 3 years.
then went to a dietician to find out i have metabolism level of a 12 year old kid. now i keep gaining weight just by having a dietician helping me with a programm.
im 27 years old and my testosterone levels are similar to age group 17-18 y.o.
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 doesnt matter bro is gonna have to try anyway if he wants to change himself
Are you south East Asian? Because you have the same metabolism issues as me and many south East Asians and we are short as hell but I can still grow my height
I was talking to a woman for a while like a few years ago, had the courage to ask her out since we’ve been talking for a while. She said “I can’t see myself dating you because you are truly a disgusting creature.” Ever since then I’ve always been afraid to ask someone out because of that. It’s gotten to a point where I’ve thought about committing suicide over it. Luckily I didn’t go through with it but it just shows how someone, regardless of their gender, can be so cruel to you for just simply asking them out.
Mate, you took it the wrong way, she is a truly disgusting creature for treating you-and anyone-with so much cruelty and contempt. Beauty is only skin deep, no matter what she looks like, that's an ugly person. Don't let her be the measure you use to define your self-worth. It may not feel like it, but you dodged a bullet. If there's a thing you need to work on yourself, do it, but most of all work on your character, you'll meet someone who appreciates you both inside andout , don't even waste your breath on someone as shallow and cold as her, she may think she is all that but if that's how she treats people she's got a long way to go before becoming a woman of substance.
What a tactless air head.😳
@@legoqueen2445 thanks bro, those words really helped out. I hope things are going well for you and that more blessings come your way
@@darthalexandros2526 thx so much! You too! May your queen come into your life sooner rather than later and may your future together erase all the hurts of the past ♡
@@darthalexandros2526 I resonate with your story. It's always infuriating how media and society see women as the "better" gender. No, women are, in fact, the most hypocritical. You definitely dodged a bullet.
I used to scrub my face till it bled with beach sand because I was convinced it would get rid of pimples….lost weight because I was too fat, struggled because as a teenage boy I was too skinny and couldn’t yet build muscle.
I have cried many tears over my body image issues, and many here did the same and won’t admit it.
Were women "nicer," to you, as Billy(goat face) Ilish put it.
How you doing now?? Probably awesome…
@@Sar-ahG yeah married, feel great about myself approaching healthy weight after getting obese following a pretty horrible sporting injury a few years ago.
Doing 5k run plus weights daily and self esteem is as good as it’s been since my early 20s…but you know we all have moments of self doubt I still get those sometimes.
@@al-imranadore1182 to be honest like everyone else they treat you better when you look better. Not how it should be but just sort of how it is.
@@vladtheimpalerofyourmom-ag5112 You'll never look better in women's eyes if you're 5'1" no matter how improved you are compared to 6' tall homeless man, you'll always look pitiful to women if you are 5'1".
I think Billie Eilish shows us a glimpse into how a lot of women think: the problem is always with the men. Women are nice and accepting, it's the men who are mean and judgemental.
I think most of us men have experiences with women being judgemental and making comments. Personally my mum would always be the first to make a comment about me or other people, as compared to my dad. Women on social media are also extremely judgemental and the way they speak about uncircumcised dicks really bothers me.
my mom will still do this when I'm with the parents I love it when dad calls her out cuz he knows the only reason I put up with her is cuz he asked me too. I tolerate her at his request cuz I still respect him. we were at the store and they didn't have what I wanted and she went to tease me and dad looked at me and said to her " well you know justin if he doesn't find what he wants he just won't change what he wants, he's a creature of habit." I was like dam right. god she just drains me and I'm 34 and she still can't get off my arse. then she wonders why I don't come to their home often.
American women in particular are probably some of the most walking contradicting judgmental beings ever. Not all are like that but I guarantee it’s a very high percentage of them
This is true for essentially all women.
what they speak about this? now i wonder is it bad or good?
No, Billie Eilish has shown you how little girls think, which is not very much at all. When girls are in their teens to early twenties they will say a lot of dumb sh%%t that will not make sense when they become older because at the time they were speaking from what they thought was socially acceptable to say amongst their peer group. Everyone that was a teenager had done it. That is why her statement contradicts what she said. 😒
That’s why people don’t care what these celebrities have to say. They’ll say anything to generate a headline. Her statement doesn’t even make sense.
I understand wearing baggy clothes to hide your body.
I was a size 36 D in the 7th grade, and not only did girls talk about me, I found out that guys had made bets about who would be the first to touch my breasts. Growing older, I was called Dolly Parton because I was skinny, with huge breasts, and I was so traumatized that i began wearing clothes 4x bigger than myself, to try and hide them.
I agree that everyone has body image issues, some are just less obvious than others.
I literally self harmed over my body image issues and to hear someone say that because im a man I don’t have them is just a huge slap in the face to what me and other men go through. (I’m completely fine now and while I do struggle overall I am happy with myself now 🙂)
Don't take her words to heart bro, I'm sure she's just upset because an ugly guy did her dirty.
Gay men deal with body imagine issues like crazy and they are men
@@RiruKrypto_Or because she ain't too attractive herself
I love their chemistry. Abba is like a monk on his journey to enlightenment, he understands the path and sees things for what they are. Meanwhile Preach is already siting at peak of the mountain and he doesn’t doesn’t even look down anymore because he simply does not give a fuck.
This is wild…
I’m 34 years old, and I spent most of my life immensely insecure about being skinny. I felt like because I am a man I was supposed to be big, strong, muscular… but I wasn’t. I joined the military at 23 and left for basic training weighing like 125lbs. I constantly heard comments about, dude you’re so skinny.
Gee thanks, I wasn’t aware.
Now as I’ve aged, I’ve finally been able to put on some weight/muscle… but still struggle with insecurities. I still often times see that skinny guy in the mirror and feel inferior.
Long story short, shut up Billie.
Everyone goes through it.
Thanks!
I understand everything she said about herself. My kid is a slender girl who is well endowed and she wears XL men's tees, hoodies in the middle of the damn summer, and baggy pants because she doesn't want anyone to see her silhouette. But once she said men don't have to worry about body image, she lost me. She doesn't live in the real world, she doesn't see what normal ass people go through in everyday life. She's still a kid, at least mentally. Hopefully someday she'll mature.
yep out off touch living in her own world
As a dude with a super fast metabolism, I can confirm 100% that people will just outright say to me that I'm skinny. God forbid I call them fat, though.
Same , I'm slim tho not skinny , i used to be skinny .
Man, I wish I’d have a fast metabolism. Beats getting fat from staring at a chocolate bar for too long.
I was so happy to finally start gaining weight in my late 30's. I could never bulk because my body wouldn't let me. I could only rip. I stopped lifting because I got discouraged.
Being called ugly and fat as a kid everyday, messed me up for long time.
Same here man. I wasn’t fat or called fat growing up and it messed with my mind for all of elementary, middle, and high school. Even now in college I still have some confidence issues. Not as bad as before as I’ve been improving myself and being more open and confident but people underestimate how bad this can affect people for years. But, I use it as motivation for myself to be my best self.
Same
I rarely hear men criticize the way women look, it's a nice ass, boobs, face and not much else. Women's body image is mostly self imposed from comparing themselves to other women in their social circles or in the media and men are seen to be guilty by association for liking attractive women.
Women have always been the biggest critisizers of other women
Well I would say that if women these days has any curvature to them men accuse them of having a BBL it’s actually quite embarrassing. Even women post 5 years of workout routines and bodybuilding, BBL!!! 😂 it’s honestly a bad look on men.
Maybe its time to start. Theyre getting false confidence cause women are lying to each other all the time
@@alHuwariyunMuslimI mean a bbl is obvious. If you have no leg muscle but a big ass it looks sus.
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I’ve said this on another video months or years ago. But I’ll say it again. I’ve oscillated from 350lbs to 250 (with muscle) and how different people treat you is astounding. My biggest takeaway is that it’s on no one else but yourself to create a positive image of yourself. Don’t tell society they have to love you. They won’t, they’ll hate you for judging them just like you’re hating them for judging you.
The #1 indicator for success in life is attractiveness. You're not crazy, it's absolutely a real thing. The scariest part is how the people you know personally start to act different
same … crazy thing is when i’m bigger women love me when i’m smaller I get look at ass a hoe or a womanizer
@@ryanvason6818
I think that's starting be more common. Even though the mainstream love to push the fit washboard abs gigachad. I've been hearing chicks like the "teddy bear" look or whatever you call it :/
@@21nitsua Actually it's confidence. Which comes in 2 forms favoured by capitalism, either a flexible morality and willingness to exploit others, or attractiveness and the social standing boost that gives.
@@21nitsua I was a virgin until m early 20s. In about 3 years of dating (I’m excluding a 5 year relationship) I got a body count of 20 - lockdown was about 7 of those. I regret it, but my point stands. 350lb - no women. 250lb and muscle - women.
“Men don’t have body issues”
Also women: “I will only be with a man who is 6 feet tall, and has 6 pack abs”.
Don’t forget 6 inches
Most women don't say this only incels
@@KiwonfuRight. I’m neither 6ft nor do I even close to make 6 figures, and my body count is well over 100 at this point. Just more incel taking points
@@Kiwonfuimagine that, your rebuttal is belittling men. Congratulations, you played yourself
@@jato2942 Cuz you got play, simple as that. Being all that does help tho. Either that or you're quite helpful
Another Clear example of "fame doesn't equal intelligence"
I'm a woman, thank you for explaining your side, I learnt a lot. I agree, everyone has issues it's not a competition. I have been skinny my whole life, skinny shaming is real but no one wants to talk about it.
Wasn’t Billie herself talking about how ugly dudes don’t deserve no love or some crap? 🤡
She definitely was!
Yes and honestly, she's not that great looking herself. Equally rich for her to say.
Yes they really should’ve put that clip in to make it more clear that she is a🤡
@@orangeslice43 I'm guessing you may be a female?? I mean... a vast majority of men already know this however, what you're doing is shifting the narrative and boarding gaslighting territory by making it appear as it's men's fault, which is typical. Point is, she's being extremely hypocritical and badmouthing others for the same shit she herself, does. You attempting to justify it, using garbage shaming tactics esp when vast majority of females be believing they're 10/10 "baddies" to begin with, is clown-status.
@@orangeslice43Most dudes settle. Their standards for looks arent nearly as high. Most men find a majority of women average to attractive. To most women the average man is unattractive so tell me again who cares more about looks???
Nobody says anything about the average mans body because many men who aren't desirable weren't visible enough to be noticed in the first place.
Hit the gym and eat good 👍 you'll make it. Usually female bodies are seen as attractive but imo guy bodies are fine too
@@Diamondr11Bluethis advice is so toxic, even if he will become10/10 gigachad it wont solve anything becouse problem lies beyond individual.
Tell em brother, women won't even acknowledge an ugly man. They're mean in a different way, with coldness. And sometimes even just straight up insults to dudes if slightly provoked. The first thing they'll attack is his appearance if he's ugly, cause they know it'll hurt
That’s why so many men are in the gym. Because we don’t have any issues at all.
she's saying women dont hurl insults at u all day about ur appearance like u do to them
I think that's because of our own reasons. I see other men who are in shape and thats why I stay fit . I've never done that because of women .
@@lidiagizaw3828can you quit with the ignorant, "victim mindset" comments already? Where's the body positivity for men? The same "woe-is-me" fat women are the ones rejecting fat men too. Let's not even talk about the height standard of women, which no one has control over whatsoever...unlike weight. Are you another woman like Eilish who can't see beyond the victim bubble she's put herself in?
@@lidiagizaw3828 hmm body positive begs a differ.
@@lidiagizaw3828 you're not that important to be insulted "all day" but go on. Ever heard "ppl smol"?
Bruh what girls aren't nice. I'm a woman and the amount of judgement I have received from other women is actually crazy. Highschool, worst period of my life because my gosh the snake behaviour around me was just shocking when I think back to that period of my life.
I see what you did there lol
"...period of my life"
I chuckled
I’m a woman married to a man for 17 years. When we first got married he was so confident and I could not have guessed he would ever have any kind of body issues because he’s 6”4 with a great body. Now in our 40’s he still won’t tell me he has body image issues but if he misses one single workout he is so hard on himself. He maybe gained 30 pounds which looks amazing to me but he calls himself fat now. Sometimes it takes a long time for someone to voice their insecurities
It's easy for tall people to lose weight.
@@al-imranadore1182really? Why is that?
@@mysterydude8757 beacause their tall frame can fit a lot of fat without looking chubby.
@@al-imranadore1182 as. 6'5 guy I can agree, easy to be lean. its putting on muscle thats hard
@@bbbbbbb-y3u Just being lean gets you decent female attention.
“Men don’t have body image issues”
Damn are we that good at hiding our pain?
Hits different when you’ve been laughed at for shooting your shot while short.
Or bald or skinny or poor.Continue the list please
There's been multiple studies saying men don't complain as much when facing similar problems.
I think it's more we go through so much pain early in our life that we are indifferent to it in our later life.
@@rohanjarande cause we get used to taking hits like that, and soldiering on or hiding the pain, all part of the male experience.
But every guy at one point or another has gotten that critical hit to their sore spot.
Its not that they just dont care if it doesnt benefit them. "what feel compassion & empathy for a man impossible thats for other women only" The fact that they see themselfs through other women shows the secret behind their empathy, they cant relate to beings that dont resemble them. Hence why a few man haters feel slight compassion for males once they have a son that has their looks.
Always a vibe to see celebrities disconnected from reality
As someone who has gone from skinny fat to muscular n being thinner,women definitely treat you differently when your physique improves. As well as style.
Amen. Women are incredibly shallow.
As a young man I’ve been fat, with dry flaky skin, unstylish clothes, dumb haircut…
And I’ve also been in a position where I was fortunate enough to reverse it all and be fairly handsome…
The amount of attention, opportunities and care you get from other people when you look good is insane!!!! Especially from Women!!!
You go from being completely invisible and feeling worthless in life. To suddenly questioning how shallow all of humanity is as a sizable amount of its females are suddenly eager to forgive all your past transgressions and fuck you…
Women can be insanely cruel and dismissive of Men they do not physically value. The below average Man receives nothing but contempt and mockery from most Women. Hell, many modern day Women don’t even know what an Average man and his experience really is. Unless you’re a high value guy then you’re very often just a blurred out face in the crowd to them.
That's how it is with everyone. People like attractive people.
I'd argue less attractive women are treated worse than less attractive men.
@@claff4573I agree, but only because less attractive men might as well not exist to women - they're invisible.
@@claff4573 no, the average woman gets sexual attention and is definitely not treated like they’re invisible…
@@claff4573men and women misbehave amd or exclude men and women they consider less attractive. They are unwilling to invest even a few moments of attention and time. It's what people do. The way against that is for people to take good care of themselves. The love and care will show and then the majority of people will manage to be civil.
I’ve had image issues since I was in 3rd grade and was constantly told by girls they could never imagine me having a girlfriend. I’m in decent shape now and still have to deal w the leftover issues that I’ve dealt with for like almost a decade
I swear the moment she said men have it easy when it comes to our body image.
I just remembered all of the workouts, looksmaxing, face exercises, facial expression training, pose training for pics and other weird stuff to improve my attractiveness.
I did modeling for a while, and the most models I've met regardless of gender are insecure with their body so yeah it's not exclusive to one gender, but I guess working in an industry as fashion you definitely will be encountering people with insecurities...
That exact same thing happened to me growing up. I was super skinny and got told all the time that I must eat more, so I did and nothing changed and still got the comments. I still get them now and then in my adult life.
The crazy thing is that.. billie elish has it completely twisted. Its the opposite. Men treat each other equally despite height, weight, and looks differences. All the judgement about men, comes entirely from women. Regarding height, dik size, body type, the way we dress, the car we drive, how much money we make etc etc etc.
Yep, never heard a nigga say I got small dick energy or that what I said gave em the ick. I got a girl but still, the main people trying to invalidate our feelings out here is women💀
Imma kindly disagree men do judge other men too with some of the stuff you mentioned your point sounds absolute I'll just say men just don't judge it as often.
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie Yeah, men definitely discriminate other men based on height, weight and other differences. Tons of work places still have a lot of bullying, including work places where almost everyone is male. Men aren't as bad as women in general with this since a capable men is still capable and worthy of respect, but... it happens.
Really? So men don't bully each other? At all? Here ya'll go trying to act like only women do this when literally the two men in the video acknowledge that men do this as well. Like, there's a comment right above your's literally talking about how he got bullied by bigger guys, well into his 20's.
@@tormentorchick1755the difference is the amount of times it happens. You rarely see boys getting bullied by other boys nowadays. It’s literally majority girls
Lol Peach staring down Abba at @0:34 was exactly me 😂😂😂 there was something creepy uncle-ish about it
I mean, she really does 😅. And she’s above 18 so it’s all good.
12:08 "that's not what I sayyyiiid" - Preach 2023
what a banger. and also the whole truth on all sorts of levels.
I was traumatized sexually at a young age. That left me with severe insecurities when it comes to my dating life, sexual performances and (you guessed it) body image. I can’t even express how gratuitous some women (and men) can be towards men’s bodies. And the worst thing? That shaming is done out in the open, in the media, around dinner tables, etc and no one gets called out for it, it’s a normal and accepted behaviour.
"They have muscles in places we dont have places" 😂😂😂 💀
standards for looks are definitely higher than they use to be, social media being one of the culprits
The fact that some men take drugs or do surgeries that break their legs to be taller says enough
u're called a short king meanwhile if women dont have the kim k body it's over for them
Women are majority of plastic surgery clients.
@@lidiagizaw3828 what are you talking about? Short people as a whole are infantilized asf. Women have plus side and body positivity, it ain't ever over for you!
@@lidiagizaw3828Being called a "short king" is disingenuous and disrespectful as hell.
It's literally just people being passive aggressive pus who say that
@@anonymousbo0318 Facts these people calling short guys short kings it's not a compliment
The strangest insult I've received from a woman(i guess girl because this was 8th grade) was after i had just admitted to liking her. Her response was something along the lines of, "you have child bearing hips." Wtf 😂
This is how you know Billie has never struggled in her life.
Not for one solitary second.
She's correct.
@@orangeslice43 if she was then lesbians wouldn't have the most toxic relationships
@@SageOfLimitlessHands I've dated women, toxic relationships where? It's easier to connect with a woman as a woman. So how are you measuring "toxicity?"
@@SageOfLimitlessHandswhere are you getting this info from because generally speaking lesbians tend to have longer lasting relationships
That small arguement in the end is how most men express themselves to one another. Any real man can read that last convo between the lines. Im glad you guys put that in the video. Im glad you guys are expressive more than the avg male while keeping that masculine touch. Lots of negativity these days towards masculine energy, i like how you guys promote and carry through with that energy. Keep it up, cheers!
Body positivity only works one way, but we don’t cry about it. We do something about it
American men complain all the time. Day in and day out.
@@impressionare3243 only to you.
@@impressionare3243and? Wharts your point lol
@@impressionare3243the irony of someone complaining about another group of people complaining all the time lmao
@@Wavebby Men are always crying and complaining.
2:27 Preach brother! Growing up skinny I had all sorts of people casually say things about my size. Men and women. Made me very insecure during Jr High and High school. Wore a jacket all of my freshmen year and Jr High years because of that.
To top it off nobody believed I dealt with any insecurities because I was skinny and not fat. It was maddening
I've had body issues, they stem from me being short (I'm 5'6), I've been told by some women that I ain't that short, trying to reassure me, but I asked them all, "would you date at this height, and be BRUTALLY honest, I can TAKE IT" most of them said no, and the ones who said yes, idk if they were being honest or whatnot, but I took and accepted it. It was until about a year or so ago I was accepting of my height, and I even accepted it even more because a taller woman wants to go out with me. I was shocked that she found me attractive, and was completely fine with me being 5'6, I was relieved that I found someone who is giving me a chance. I'm talking to her as much as I can without being overbearing or even clingy, because in all honesty, she's a KEEPER.
A benefit of being short: deadlifts travel less when you pull up. Get strong!
She is a gold digger!!!! financial Vampire, not a keeper!!!
@@al-imranadore1182 she's not a gold digger, in fact she makes more money than me. I plan on going to trade school and becoming a plumber, and even if I get all the experience, she'll still be making more than me.
@@Activesilver97 So she's taller than you and makes more money than you🤔🤔, is she slow in the head??
@@al-imranadore1182 no, she just sees the best in me. I do make her laugh a lot, we have interesting conversations. I'm not at all worthless, plus she admitted herself, if she tries to find someone on her level or higher, it's gonna be difficult to find that kind of man. She admittedly didn't want to date and marry someone old enough to be her dad or grandfather. I hope to be more of a handy man, so that way I can be more resourceful in caring for the house's maintenance making me even more desirable than what I currently am. I could bum off her, but I'd rather make an effort to not look or be a burden.
Being disabled, I use a lot more energy than others just to get around. That's why I'm always going to have a small set. Growing up, my family allways kind of poked at me for how thin I was. It made me self concious of how skinny I was throughout highscool. And when it comes to dating, there's no hiding my crutch that i walk with just like there's no hiding my disability and how thin i am. I'm obviously going to be smaller my whole life, but it's just about findind the ones who will accept you! People don't see the circumstances and just want to go right to conclusion sometimes.
Taylor Lautner has a podcast with his wife where he talks about terrible body image issues and all the criticism he received for not being able to maintain the superhero body he had during Twilight movie fame days (which he had to train multiple times a day and follow crazy diets to achieve). Also, being sexualized at young age, etc. However, historically women do have to deal with more of an unrelenting focus on their body. There are different degrees, but everyone is struggling especially with social media and evolving culture.
17 and a bunch of old women want to assault you at every movie premier. Gross. But yes, both sexes have substantial issues pushed on us by society at large.
Taylor and other actors benefit from something the slightly above average woman does. They can convert their attractiveness into resources. If men were given the same benefits for being slightly above average then we’d be just as focused on our bodies.
@@willdegra317 that’s true, but attractiveness does increase income and opportunities of all kinds for both men and women in all industries sometimes on a massive scale like models and celebrities. However, you don’t have to be above average in attractiveness or be in the public eye to have your looks and body be the constant, primary focus when you are a woman. Women at every level of attractiveness from homely, to plain to beautiful have the experience throughout life with their looks and body being the most important thing about them and the first thing they are judged for.
Y'all are on it. Your discussions bring to light issues men don't really get to air out, and I appreciate the hell out of it. We need more of these platforms.
She’s also the one who tried to make it a thing that she came out the closet when nobody cared at all initially.
No she didn't, the interviewer asked.
Women are the ultimate roasters when it comes to men’s bodies. “Ewwwwwwww” is akin to murder 😂. Don’t get me started on how they roast each other MY GOD they’re brutal. Thank the lord doing sports in high school gave me some lil abs 😂.
bro the absolute roast sessions women will do on each other if they got beef make the roasts against men look like nothing like its ww3 if it gets heated like it gets personal they be standing on business' fr
I been waiting for them to make a video about this. It’s crazy how delusional woman are getting about how a man’s life is while not being a man so they will never know or understand what we go thru.
The thing is they don’t care too.
The thing that amazes me is how little she understands women. What is with this "women are nice" BS? Nobody is meaner to women then other women...
@@BrandonHeat243 She is like that weird emo chick. It's fine but you gotta grow up at some point.
It’s a mix of not understanding and not caring. The only solution most women give is to be more emotional, (which can be worse in some cases) but I also think some of them fixate on that to avoid talking about more important issues that effect men, and women play a part mens emotions being rejected.
@@BrandonHeat243soooooo very, very true. Wayyyy too many women are simply hypocrites.
“His gift to me is me thinking about him” 😂😂😂😂 y’all are truly priceless. God bless you and your channel
My entire reason for entering the gym is cuz I hated being called skinny so damn much lmao. Saying men are congratulated for any look is such delusion 😂
I’m 5’9, 185lbs and muscular. The reason is I was told in high school by a female classmate when I was 130lbs that I would never be loved by a female for my body. I began working out hard. Trained to look like a movie star not realizing they trained for a movie. They were dehydrated in the scenes feeling like crap. Even though I’m loved now, in my head, I never look good enough. Those comments scared me. Men definitely get body shamed by men and women.
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I was always suuuuper skinny until the last few years. Men RARELY said anything about it (I can't really recall one tbh). Women were constantly making comments about it. All through my life women would make comments about my weight, hair, facial structure. Complete random women I never met would say this stuff completely out of nowhere and act like it was totally normal.
I promise you, being tall and fat, I have issues regarding my body image too. I was working hard this year to get in great shape, weightlifting, all that. My knee has issues so I'm taking a break from the gym right now, but I will definitely go back and resume this journey later.
But I promise you, it's not just short and thin men who might have body issues.