Conquering 4 Dangerous Words With Courage | Tim Seelig | TEDxMountainAve
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- Our lives are often controlled by these 4 dangerous words: “What will people think?” It takes tremendous courage to rewrite the script, express our authentic self and rekindle the unbridled joy of childhood. It requires a LEAP with these steps: Listen; Examine; Act; Promise.
“Faith.” Used by permission. Patrick Overton from The Leaning Tree. Copyright 1975. www.patrickoverton.com
"Everything Possible" Used by permission. Words and music by Fred Small. Copyright 1983 Pine Barrens Music (BMI). www.revfredsmall.com Tim Seelig is the Conductor Laureate of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus and Conductor Emeritus of the Turtle Creek Chorale in Dallas, Texas. Dr. Seelig holds four degrees, including a Diploma from the Mozarteum in Salzburg, Austria and Doctor of Musical Arts from the University of North Texas. He has seven books and DVDs on choral technique and his memoir, Tale of Two Tims, was published in 2020. He made is operatic debut in St. Gallen, Switzerland and had been conducting at Carnegie Hall and Lincoln Center for 30 years.He has conducted over 50 recordings which have been on Billboard Top Ten and iTunes Top Ten classical charts. His choruses have been the topic of three documentaries. The first PBS documentary was awarded the national Emmy for best documentary. The most recent had its world premiere at the Tribecca Film Festival, won the Audience Favorite and is streaming on Paramount +. He is the proud grandfather of the amazing Clara Skye, Eden Mae, Cora Rose, Ivy Hope. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
well done Tim. Thank you for the opportunity to learn from you. Thrilled the next chapter is unfolding for you!
Learning is a shared path and I'm glad you're on mine.
Tim's decision to retire and focus on self-care is a testament to the importance of prioritizing one's well-being. It's never too late to start a new chapter in life.
"Accepted my real path for life" Wow I went through that too. Great talk and great voice Tim! thank you
Hah you beat me to this, loved it too. Sorry I didn't know you went through that.
I'm so glad you got to the other side!
It was such a blessing to have been a member of the Turtle Creek Chorale for three years when Dr. Tim Selig was the conductor over 30 years ago. He was my role model and mentor. He was undoubtedly the most influential man in my life. Thanks Tim 🤗🤗
I am lucky enough to be a member of 3 choruses you conducted in Dallas. I love seeing you now, hearing the voice I came to love. Congratulations on taking this new leap in life!
It's been a joy sharing all our experiences together.
Bravo Maestro, it was an honor and joy singing under your baton in SF, with my husband Chris by my side, a real over the rainbow dream come true. Thank you for taking so many leaps, and continuing to share your journey; past, present and more to come.
Thank you! I'm so sorry you left Portland before I could get here. Maybe a trip to New Mexico is in order. Much love
What a reminder on the importance of self-acceptance and living authentically. It's never too late to embrace who we truly are.
The courage it takes to come out and live authentically is very commendable!
The power of music to heal and unite is evident in Tim's experiences with men's choruses. It's incredible how singing kept someone alive.
What a beautiful moment. I felt as though you were speaking directly to me. Love you, Tim.
Love you back (I was speaking to you - wink)
Melinda's story brought tears and reinforced the notion that life is precious and to be enjoyed everyday.
The pursuit of authenticity often comes with sacrifices, but it also brings a sense of fulfillment and the opportunity to live a truly meaningful life.
Thanks so much for these beautiful comments! Agree 100%
Thank you for sharing your story and wisdom! So happy you decided to LEAP and I’ve been able to be a part of your life experience. You taught me so much. Love you tons. ❤
When I came to TWCD, my beloved previous choir had died. I wasn’t sure TWCD would be the right place for me but I was hoping I would find another director that could bring back some of the joy to rehearsal, that I’d experienced previously. You did that and SO much more. You profoundly changed me as a person and you are still managing to do it even now. Keep moving forward and keep changing lives. You truly make the world a better place
The story about Melinda is heartbreaking. It serves as a reminder that we should seize opportunities and not hold back due to fear.
Thank you for sharing your incredible story with the world, Tim!! You are an inspiration!
Thanks for being a part of my life!
The importance of acceptance and love shines through in this story. It's a reminder to embrace diversity and support those who may be marginalized or facing challenges.
Go Dr Tim!!! And he closes with one of my favorite songs, "Everything Possible".
There's nothing quite like the joy of that first jump off the high board. Not the second or the third give you that heart pounding jolt.
There is transformative power of embracing our truth. It's a reminder that being true to ourselves is essential for genuine happiness.
This is really powerful - beautifully and eloquently delivered with a message that will stay with me for quite some time.
Wonderful to hear coming from such a talented speaker! Thank you!
Music, humor, and truth are powerful pillars to hold onto during challenging times. They can provide solace and a sense of purpose.
My Mom had "what will people think?" tattooed on her head!! I was never sure who these "people" were but suitably terrified about their approval.
My heart was racing along side Tim's as he walked that diving board [4:11 minute] and took that leap of faith, heart pounding.
Such a touching talk - and I feel so blessed to call you my next door neighbor now.
Thanks neighbor!
Oh goodness, coming out and losing contact with one's children would be so difficult. Love and acceptance should be limitless in the family unit!
The quote by Patrick Overton is a very good one. Stepping into the unknown takes faith, but it can lead to incredible growth and discovery.
Wow, what a powerful talk and message. I can't wait to hear your second talk!
I'm looking forward to it too!
Can definitely relate to how the impact of societal expectations and fear of judgment can be paralyzing. I think Tim's story is a really nice reminder for us to break free from those constraints and live life on our own terms.
The story of the swimming pool dive resonates with me. Sometimes, taking that leap of faith can lead to unexpected joy and a new sense of freedom.
Tim such a pleasure to watch your journey. I was lit up by you the first time I heard your talk. Wonderful job. Such a potent message. Thank you for bringing this to the world!
To hear this from you is especially heartening. Thank you
Such a great message, Tim! We are all plagued by the thoughts "what will they think" what a beautiful, expressive response!
PS Congratulations on how far you leaped and on your retirement! What a beautiful song to end with, thank you for sharing your voice with us!
Thank you for your kindness and support! And best of luck to you and your talk.
@@tgseelig1 Thank you so much, Tim!!
The fear of what people will think can be so paralyzing. It's important to remember to follow our dreams and not let others' opinions hold us back.
I can relate to the feeling of losing everything and hitting rock bottom. It's incredible that Tim managed to rebuild and find happiness... me I'm still working on it
thank you for your ongoing giving of self, even after "retiring". Your words continue to inspire to LEAP. Gracias a la Vida, Gregory.🌺
Wow, what a powerful talk! As a music enthusiast, I could relate to the joy and freedom of singing with reckless abandon as a child. This talk reminded me of the pure passion and love for music that we often lose as we grow older.
Such a joy watching this come to fruition. It’s a great summary of 18 minutes of your life’s purpose we can all learn from.
Thanks for all you have done to help make it happen, DanDan.
I remember the first time I took a leap of faith and did something I was afraid of. It was scary but incredibly liberating.
Great talk! So happy to share it.
A fantastic journey through an even more incredible life, so many big and small lessons packed into these 20 minutes. If you aren't inspired to go after your biggest dreams after watching this, check your pulse!
Well this reignited my passion for pursuing my dreams fearlessly. It reminded me that sometimes we need to take that leap of faith to discover our true potential.
The fear of judgment can be a major obstacle in pursuing our dreams. It's crucial to find the strength to overcome it and live life on our own terms.
Inspiring!! Finding a new community and purpose with The Turtle Creek Corral. Sometimes unexpected opportunities can change our lives
Thank you for sharing this powerful message!
Bravo!!! Congratulations on the journey of your life and the journey of this beautiful TED Talk. I appreciate your courage and the love you continue to share.
Oh my, Tim... you really nailed it! Had I only known this when I was growing up - and most others I know. Thank you for sharing these valuable insights and hopefully saving others from the pain too many of us were forced to endure. Oh, and GOOD LUCK with your new career!
I love the four lessons, and Promise is so big.
Definitely
Such a powerful message! I continue to learn from you, Tim!! Thank you! Joe B.
What a heartfelt talk! Thank you for sharing.
This was excellent and I will be watching a few more times. Great talk.
God this is such a powerful story.
Love, love this beautiful, heartfelt exploration of what courage means. Spectacular job!
This is so beautiful, thank you for sharing your story and your strength. Love is the answer, you are lovely.
Many, many congratulations to Tim Seelig! Such a powerful message.
What a beautiful and empowering message!! Great job!
"What will people think?" My mother's mantra. I used to wonder who these "people" were and would they ever be placated?
I love your talk Tim! And your story
Love you so much!
Awesome. Inspiring. Thank you so much.
Wonderful! Inspiring!
Beautiful! Such a great message, Tim. Thank you for sharing - I so resonate with the opening about singing loudly as a kid and then being shushed. And a similar memory of a diving board! So relatable, and incredibly helpful to reflect on our own lives through your powerful stories. I love the close... Perfect.
I appreciate the setiment here but I believe it's essential to consider the consequences of our actions. Taking leaps can be risky, and it's important to weigh the potential outcomes. Sometimes caution can be wise.
Excellent!
Didn't expect to hear Melinda had been killed riding her bicycle home...
Difficult and so unfair of those who lavished praise on Tim to then "shush" him up!!
One sure way to kill your enthusiasm and vest for life. What will people think?
What a tragedy.
Wow, what a powerful talk! As a music enthusiast, I could relate to the joy and freedom of singing with reckless abandon as a child. This talk reminded me of the pure passion and love for music that we often lose as we grow older.