Straight facts. I find this is true for knowledge on topics as well. You don't truly understand something until you can talk about it effortlessly. That's why the best way to find out if you really know something is to try and teach it to somebody else. If you can't clearly teach it, it's not hard wired deep into your subconscious yet.
And that girl's feelings, too! Maybe she thought "I wonder what that cute guy is like"! Makes me feel kinda bad about all these times I didn't approach...
I find out that talking to yourself and visualizing as if you are in a conversation can actually help. Come up with four or five fun stories that you can bust out. Learning to express yourself.
It's great advice around the 3-minute mark. Leveraging the brain to come up with something/anything by putting it into a position where not saying anything at all becomes the worse option. It's clever. Silence is usually the easy and safe social option, but by saying 'Yes, and...' and seizing the group's attention, you force the brain into a position where it has to say something because it knows that silence has suddenly become the worst thing to do socially. Love that.
1. 0:45 Yes and... Agree to something in the world and add your own original thing to it. Do it with everything you see/hear. 2. 4:22 Push pull. Say the first positive or negative thing that comes to mind about someone, then add the opposite. Do it with people from TH-cam, TV, irl. 3. 6:13 Sex with me is like... Then say an object and give a reason why. Use to make a converstation man to woman. Don't think ahead. Make it instinctive.
Happily married but man is this invaluable info for so many other areas of my life socially. Do I wish I new this stuff when I was younger and single? Hell's yeah! Especially being the quiet, shy guy with random outbursts of dry humor that only my closest friends understood or at least tolerated. As someone who has always had social anxiety and still do to this day, this stuff is priceless and immediately being put to the test and practiced. I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Thnks
You've got to keep flirting with your wife though mate, haven't you? I think the man should never stop seducing the woman. Boredom can damage a relationship so slowly that you don't even notice it till it's too late.
1. I love THE SYSTEM 2. I love these practices 3. Please more practices. Not like Tylers 10 hour videos. Just some small good practices one can do alone 4. Please tell, when to use for example push pull, or other techniques. When to use them . very important. please 5. Like Tod
My best one to smoking girls. "I saw you and your sister and thought, damn you are like the top100 girls i've seen, but then you started smoking *sounding like a airplane engine crashing down and showing the airplane with my hand crashing down*". Very effective, use at own risk.
If you love system you should know it is very good technique in premise section, or amping the emotions. Even if you're not seem so smart at beginning, I believe in you and even kinda love you.
congratz turn that number up your at 1/5 women you should nail by then end of the year when starting out again make 5-12 women a year a goal and keep going from there
I didn't even realized that I don't trust my brain. I think that if I say exactly what I think it will sound rude or disrespectful when it usually is funny because it's spontaneous so I've learned with this video the importance of letting go. Trust myself and know that I'll do great without planning anything at all from the moment I open the girl.
Todd you are the first p-artist that got me to shift my entire destiny for the great. Thank you for being the influence I needed to get out of the black hole i was in for most of my years. Continue crushing it! Thank you 🙏🏼
Todd, your student infields are gold. Please do more of those (maybe not from start to end, but like a compilation of the biggest sticking points). Second, I love that you brought up JP's infields and that he's got a different style than yours. However, I have the feeling that I can comprehend more of what is going on, when you are analysing the videos. So I'd love to see you breaking down his infields or at least moderating him more, when he is doing it.
I moved out of the US and have been forced to meet a lot of people. Before I had issues talking to groups of girls and I was only good 1 on 1, but since being here and forcing myself to interact with a bunch of different people I’ve become really good at entertaining multiple girls at once and subconsciously doing push pull. I don’t even really notice doing it, I just make a small little compliment and then hit them with a small neg, just today I had two girls start laughing and both went to do the “oh my gosh I can’t believe you just said that” arm slap. I think it has a lot to do with subconscious confidence
Tod is the best for introverts.. hot extrovert guys can getaway with any random shit they say because of their looks.. so their advice won’t work for us.. but Tod is one of us who mastered the game and his advice is very practical and most effective..
Honestly, you can easily overlook how smart oui boy Todd really is because he is talking about something other men do on TH-cam. This is next level analysis.
That’s awesome advice!! “Yes, and” and don’t think ahead!! That’s amazing-I’m going to try this on every conversation and it also forces my brain to be present and be in the moment and conversations!! Thank you so much!!
Hey Todd, great video. Just have a little suggestion that would help me and probably others. When you state a principle like "Yes, and can be used for shit tests, yes is to agree and then and to exaggerate" could you add a quick example of things like that? I find simple examples to really help me understand what you're saying in a more practical sense.
Each of the 8 weeks will be a live webinar, so it won't be released all at once... but rather over an 8 week period. We'll be starting within the next 1-2 weeks. If you're a System member, you'll be getting an email about this shortly.
As John Keegan says: "Your ability to say what you see, in the moment that you see it, is what allows you to break the ice with anyone any time anywhere" ❤
improv helped me a ton and im actually really good at it. Its funny you use an improv skill cuz thays something id recommend to people who need to get out of there shell in general.
Todd, thank you very much for the 'The System' Last day I get a solid number from an american chick. I used the situational opener, teased her a little bit, set the premise and then she suddenly asked me multiple questions ;) Greetings from Berlin
I think yes and can be used on her, also. It keeps her talking and makes her think she needs to add value. It’s possible to over used that but works from time to time
@@edwardsnowden7442 yes for sure. I imagine it could become sort of a crutch for guys that dont really want to go out there and apply it. However, for me personally more of these kinds of exercises would be awesome
People spend a lot of time learning theories about game, but not nearly enough time practicing. And certainly almost no time on "skill specific practice". As with a sport, there are specific skills you need to learn and perform if you're going to reach a high level, and these skills can be practiced! These exercises, and many others, are in my course The System, which is still being offered at a discounted price for a short time more: systembytodd.com
You could just as easily say "Yeah, but..." Think of it as a rebuttal to something the woman says. Say she says, "You're not my type, you're bald." (shit test) You could come back with, "Yeah, but aren't my eyes the sexiest thing you've ever seen?" :)
excellent video it really helps me learn game further. Follow through, push pull and missinterpretation are key and these games will help us become better, thanks
Todd, awesome video, substantial and valuable as fuck. Wanted to share I felt your energy drop a bit on camera, right when you introduced your product 9:54 to 10:00. Trying to give back
Hey Todd, I don’t what’s with the black shirts although they look cool you should try sometime another colour to bring a bit of adventure in your fashion.
A friend of mine was smoking weed and he came out and I said "Broo, my heart is beating so fuckin fast", he sounded so mind blown that I instantly thought and said "Damn, my heart be beating on the daily", course I was teasing the dude.
“You don’t own a skill until you own it subconsciously”
So simple yet so deep.
Yes and our subconscious controls most of our lives.
Yes and but do I own you?
Straight facts. I find this is true for knowledge on topics as well. You don't truly understand something until you can talk about it effortlessly. That's why the best way to find out if you really know something is to try and teach it to somebody else. If you can't clearly teach it, it's not hard wired deep into your subconscious yet.
As someone that's practicing the guitar that's so true. The pros all do it like it's nothing.
Guys every time you let that cute girl pass you by without saying anything you hurt Todd's feelings. Like if u agree!
And that girl's feelings, too! Maybe she thought "I wonder what that cute guy is like"! Makes me feel kinda bad about all these times I didn't approach...
Todd? Feelings? nah Todd doesn't have feelings
blacklightgamer97
Have you ever met him in person? Are you his shrink?
@@ts3011ISRL it's a joke man, chill
Stay Hungry YES AND i think thats the case because hes trying to not see anymore guys in the friend zone. And make more money.
You don't own the skill until you own it subconsciously. Facts. Keep it up!
Yes and I’m going to steal that because it was quite good
But that might be the only good thing you’ve said
Teige Hanley is all you need...oh Sh!t wrong channel.
gavloft lmfao
Haha Nice dude
gavloft Based Zeus lol
Best comment lmaoooo I’m dead
hahhahaha nice one
I find out that talking to yourself and visualizing as if you are in a conversation can actually help. Come up with four or five fun stories that you can bust out. Learning to express yourself.
TheSingleGuy Great idea!
Get a video camera and record yourself. Best explanation ever. Also review and compare videos.
So what if those stories never happened
Steal Yo gurl Yes and if someone sees you do that and calls you crazy, go along with it
I do this on the daily. Preperation is everything.
"Sex with me is like a rollercoaster, there are pictures taken at moments you least expect to" lmao
Lol nice
Wild
Your brain is designed to save you from embarrassment
my brain; *laughs maniacaly*
It's great advice around the 3-minute mark. Leveraging the brain to come up with something/anything by putting it into a position where not saying anything at all becomes the worse option. It's clever. Silence is usually the easy and safe social option, but by saying 'Yes, and...' and seizing the group's attention, you force the brain into a position where it has to say something because it knows that silence has suddenly become the worst thing to do socially. Love that.
1. 0:45 Yes and... Agree to something in the world and add your own original thing to it. Do it with everything you see/hear.
2. 4:22 Push pull. Say the first positive or negative thing that comes to mind about someone, then add the opposite. Do it with people from TH-cam, TV, irl.
3. 6:13 Sex with me is like... Then say an object and give a reason why. Use to make a converstation man to woman.
Don't think ahead. Make it instinctive.
Thanks fam 💪🏼💪🏿
Sex with me is like the tunnel scene from Willy Wonka, you think it's going to be filled with wonder and magic but come out traumatized.
Sex with me is like putting a banana onto tomato
Sex with me is like dating advice, you will get all excited
Sex with me is like heating something in the microwave it will only get hotter as time goes on
Sex with me is like a box of chocolates you will never know what your going to get
Sex with me is mysterious. Nobody knows what it's like.
Todd, your shirt is so cool, it's actually okay that you never change it.
Am I doing this right?
YES AND, even you're cute boy still I'm not into you. I means I was really, until you've said that.
@@IPoopOnYouEveryLastOneOfYou yes and you have to keep on practicing to maintain your sharpness
MEMEBOY ADVANCE yes and I am, too, a man of multiple edges that has his big ambitions in life
@@novideostoday Yes and I find the girl on your picture very attractive
Yes and did you figure that you have all the time of the world to write so this doesn’t work
This is the most practical video I've seen in a long time.
Yes and ... uhhh it's practical
Sista Svennen :) i like yer style partner
After this video, I was able to sexualize a conversation about Donald Trump's market policy. Does it matter that it was with my mum?
yes and the price will go up soon
username checks out
Todd, as a person that does public speaking and presentations, I gotta give props on your consistently solid videos.
Hey, r u there? I wanted to ask you something.
But sometimes i feel like theyre streched out too long
Happily married but man is this invaluable info for so many other areas of my life socially. Do I wish I new this stuff when I was younger and single? Hell's yeah! Especially being the quiet, shy guy with random outbursts of dry humor that only my closest friends understood or at least tolerated. As someone who has always had social anxiety and still do to this day, this stuff is priceless and immediately being put to the test and practiced. I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Thnks
You've got to keep flirting with your wife though mate, haven't you? I think the man should never stop seducing the woman. Boredom can damage a relationship so slowly that you don't even notice it till it's too late.
Push pull exercise? Push ups superset with renegate row?
Yes and throw in some squats afterwards
@Vex Pri yes and steroids are healthy for you
im doin push pull legs since 4 years still no game
Cicero yes and you’re cute but you need to practice in field more
@@govno7 need to do more bench
1. I love THE SYSTEM
2. I love these practices
3. Please more practices. Not like Tylers 10 hour videos. Just some small good practices one can do alone
4. Please tell, when to use for example push pull, or other techniques. When to use them . very important. please
5. Like Tod
My best one to smoking girls. "I saw you and your sister and thought, damn you are like the top100 girls i've seen, but then you started smoking *sounding like a airplane engine crashing down and showing the airplane with my hand crashing down*".
Very effective, use at own risk.
If you love system you should know it is very good technique in premise section, or amping the emotions. Even if you're not seem so smart at beginning, I believe in you and even kinda love you.
@@olb47 Lol you beast
What's the system
@Alex Chill Adenan is there a Facebook group?
"don't think ahead at all" something I've been practicing my whole adult life
Yes and with careful planning the bigger picture its exactly what u need to come forward with game
Only 2 weeks of studying/using the system, got laid for the first time in over a year
congratz turn that number up your at 1/5 women you should nail by then end of the year when starting out again make 5-12 women a year a goal and keep going from there
what did you use from the system that helped you get laid
photos or didn't happen
Kochos Honestly taking action and teasing has helped me a lot
Doubt it.
That "Sex with me is like..." game is fucking brilliant. I just did it in the kitchen and I swear I've never had more fun cooking.
I didn't even realized that I don't trust my brain. I think that if I say exactly what I think it will sound rude or disrespectful when it usually is funny because it's spontaneous so I've learned with this video the importance of letting go. Trust myself and know that I'll do great without planning anything at all from the moment I open the girl.
Although sometimes you may say the wrong thing to the wrong person.
yes and then you learn what not to do
@@deshyvin the legend himself
I knew the whole time. Ever since I did improv classes, I realized pick up is like improv, with flirting.
Todd, you're great. I'm luycky to have had you as an instructor. Keep the great material coming! Congrats on the baby!
This is one of my favourite Todd V vids. I found something to relate to with the exercises. A new use for my creativity. I must use this.
Todd you are the first p-artist that got me to shift my entire destiny for the great. Thank you for being the influence I needed to get out of the black hole i was in for most of my years. Continue crushing it! Thank you 🙏🏼
Todd, your student infields are gold. Please do more of those (maybe not from start to end, but like a compilation of the biggest sticking points).
Second, I love that you brought up JP's infields and that he's got a different style than yours. However, I have the feeling that I can comprehend more of what is going on, when you are analysing the videos. So I'd love to see you breaking down his infields or at least moderating him more, when he is doing it.
Push pull legs? Im on that atm but i kinda wanna hop back on full body workouts
Me- you're crazy
Also me- "yes and" dumb
i practiced "game" with female friends, cashiers, any girl i talk to basically. I'd try to be witty, flirt a bit and then just leave without a word.
Todd gives so much good advice on TH-cam there’s no motivation to buy his product
I moved out of the US and have been forced to meet a lot of people. Before I had issues talking to groups of girls and I was only good 1 on 1, but since being here and forcing myself to interact with a bunch of different people I’ve become really good at entertaining multiple girls at once and subconsciously doing push pull. I don’t even really notice doing it, I just make a small little compliment and then hit them with a small neg, just today I had two girls start laughing and both went to do the “oh my gosh I can’t believe you just said that” arm slap. I think it has a lot to do with subconscious confidence
Tod is the best for introverts.. hot extrovert guys can getaway with any random shit they say because of their looks.. so their advice won’t work for us.. but Tod is one of us who mastered the game and his advice is very practical and most effective..
What Todd is actually doing is teaching men social skills, so that you can become the hot extroverted guy that says random shit and gets away with it.
Doesn't anyone just follow the D.E.N.N.I.S system anymore?
Jtw What’s the Dennis system?
@@theodorsmith5032 it's an inside joke for people who watch the show "it's always sunny in Philadelphia"
"It's only worth it if you say it on the spot." = That's how you become a natural.
Honestly, you can easily overlook how smart oui boy Todd really is because he is talking about something other men do on TH-cam. This is next level analysis.
You are truly dedicated to mastery and overdelivery. Super inspirational! Thanks for sharing so much condensed value at once!!
That’s awesome advice!! “Yes, and” and don’t think ahead!! That’s amazing-I’m going to try this on every conversation and it also forces my brain to be present and be in the moment and conversations!! Thank you so much!!
Excellent presentation, these videos are well done, Todd thanks
How to practice game at home: Omegle.
Str8 facts
Need more practical videos like this that we can practice at home before going out!
I need more details for the yes and example
Riding me is like riding a Rollercoaster: It's 3 seconds of your life you'll never get back!
Btw these videos are golden Todd
The TH-cam algorithm is gonna like this one now
Thanks for this vid! Going to Europe next week with my friend ready to practice.
don't be too fucking American and you might do ok
Sean McAuliffe I am half French and speak it. I should be all good haha
Smile and eye contact plus questions... bro you're a legendary Game Er lol
Excellent tips and techniques, thx
Hey Todd, great video. Just have a little suggestion that would help me and probably others. When you state a principle like "Yes, and can be used for shit tests, yes is to agree and then and to exaggerate" could you add a quick example of things like that? I find simple examples to really help me understand what you're saying in a more practical sense.
Can someone please give me an example on yes and I didn't understand that
Yes and I will continue to watch your videos :).
Those roller coaster lines had me rolling lol
When you uploading the 8 week action plan ?
Each of the 8 weeks will be a live webinar, so it won't be released all at once... but rather over an 8 week period. We'll be starting within the next 1-2 weeks. If you're a System member, you'll be getting an email about this shortly.
Yes pls, I want the 8week plan
sounds good to me TODD THE ROD OF GOD!
Todd, we need a forum to discuss the modules and our experiences with each other.
As John Keegan says: "Your ability to say what you see, in the moment that you see it, is what allows you to break the ice with anyone any time anywhere" ❤
Welp, I'm fucked
Thank you so much!
I think that this practical exercises will really boost my game to the next level.
You're the boss!
THanks for the system Todd I can SEE MYSELF with a sugar mommy , life will be easy now.
Dude, that's my ultimate goal to achieve true happiness. If you have any tips, let me knooow
Basically you wanna become unconsciously competent with all this
This is a little off-topic, but I just wanted to commend the video quality. The background is so much less distracting when it's blurry
The thing that sets u apart from others is the good rational behind the action. Without that, it's not understood. Nice job, appreciate the advise.
Fantastic exercises to do! Thanks for the great video man! 🙏
Todd--Ur tight black t-shirt looks great on your pale dad bod..
nice push pull there
...”YES, AND it’ll look even better on *your* bedroom floor”
.....Am I doing this right?
SkyWayMan90 YES, AND it sounds like you're gay so no game required.
Jon hahahahahahahH
Jon YES, AND maybe if you spent more time learning game and less spreading lies about my sexuality you’d reach intermediate level
What do you mean yes and ?
Much needed content I love doing exercises on the way to the club
Sex with me is like going to the club, you never know if you end up with an std
Sex with me is like going to the club there are a lot of outcomes
Sex with me is like going to the club, if u blindy order a drink youll probably suck on it for the rest of the evening
improv helped me a ton and im actually really good at it. Its funny you use an improv skill cuz thays something id recommend to people who need to get out of there shell in general.
Turn on youtube pause it yes and to whatever was just said yes and i actually typed this
Excellent, What books do you recommend? The like switch, making people talk etc
You've gotta give us examples of each exercise. it would really help put htings in context
Come on that was quite a dump question! I am kidding I appreciate that you are trying to learn :)
Can you give examples of push/pull, I can grasp the concept but what would be good examples to use as reference when doing it at home and practice.
Examples are helpful as they make it seem more practical but sometimes you need to just pick a topic and start
This video is the most useful I have ever watched.
Todd, thank you very much for the 'The System'
Last day I get a solid number from an american chick. I used the situational opener, teased her a little bit, set the premise and then she suddenly asked me multiple questions ;)
Greetings from Berlin
I think yes and can be used on her, also.
It keeps her talking and makes her think she needs to add value.
It’s possible to over used that but works from time to time
This is fantastic. Ive done the exercises daily for some time, and it actually really helps. Would you consider producing more of this?
Producing more would certainly help many people get better game on the other hand tho its critical to actually apply them and get the muscle memory
@@edwardsnowden7442 yes for sure. I imagine it could become sort of a crutch for guys that dont really want to go out there and apply it. However, for me personally more of these kinds of exercises would be awesome
Can you give an example about the first exercise
Todd is great
push pull exercise is excellent. thanks!
you are the best todd !!!!!!!! send u lot of good vibes !
Thanks for the info. Useful and practical. 👍🏼🙏🏼
People spend a lot of time learning theories about game, but not nearly enough time practicing. And certainly almost no time on "skill specific practice". As with a sport, there are specific skills you need to learn and perform if you're going to reach a high level, and these skills can be practiced! These exercises, and many others, are in my course The System, which is still being offered at a discounted price for a short time more: systembytodd.com
At 4:37. (In the voice of Allen Iverson) “ What are we talking about..... we’re talking about PRACTICE!!!” 😆😆😊👍
Props to doing your talks in such public places. And did you come up with all those roller coaster analogies on the spot?!
1. Yes and
2. Push pull
Todd awesome vid! Could you give us an example for each of the first two exercises ?
I don't understand the yes and thing. How does this improve game?
You could just as easily say "Yeah, but..." Think of it as a rebuttal to something the woman says. Say she says, "You're not my type, you're bald." (shit test) You could come back with, "Yeah, but aren't my eyes the sexiest thing you've ever seen?" :)
Yes and this is a helpful video. Thank you.
excellent video it really helps me learn game further. Follow through, push pull and missinterpretation are key and these games will help us become better, thanks
yes and i've been practicing with these comments lol
What’s an example for yes and? I need more context.
Great video, great advice, would have been nice with a few more concrete examples. Maybe an example of a shit test in which "yes and" is applied?
So practice freestyle rap 🤔
Todd, awesome video, substantial and valuable as fuck. Wanted to share I felt your energy drop a bit on camera, right when you introduced your product 9:54 to 10:00. Trying to give back
Great exercises!
Great advice!
MORE PLEASE
Thank you Todd.
6:05 You don't own the skill until you own it subconsciously.
Hey Todd, I don’t what’s with the black shirts although they look cool you should try sometime another colour to bring a bit of adventure in your fashion.
Agreed, bought the system and there was many aha moments where I realized what I was doing wrong. Highly recommended
I do think it sounds like a good deal but most content looks like its open to the nonpaying public
Ok this video is the most usefull video on game for beginners. I love it
A friend of mine was smoking weed and he came out and I said "Broo, my heart is beating so fuckin fast", he sounded so mind blown that I instantly thought and said "Damn, my heart be beating on the daily", course I was teasing the dude.
Hey Todd this is exactly what I was looking for in my game! I always have trouble finding a sexual hook point, thank you for helping you're the man!!
It does help getting to this hook point and it makes me more assured if going into conversations
You're doing God's work. Thank you man.
RSD needs to hire him back as a course designer, he distills things so much better than them...
Super helpful, thanks.
I sacrificed my rent money to get the system low priced....Worth it
dam son, that dedication
The System so good you can just sleep at girls' place
how is it that the dirty ass poor guys want that pua things the most? dude now who will pay the rent? lol.
Your homeless, but atleast your good with girls?
Paul F Now I just have to fuck a few girls stay at their places two nights a week and rotate.
Amazing video explained it better than anyone really