6 Secrets to Healthy Relationships on Your Terms

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  • @unitynofear7758
    @unitynofear7758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    This is not so much about female psychology but about how deeply you know yourself and are comfortable with your desires not being in line with social norms. I call this deep congruence and never faking anything. It's how I get away with all my imperfections and look cooler than guys who try to fake perfection. And - this is key! - I am far far happier. Because congruence == happiness. Emotions come and go, happiness is here and now, forever.

  • @markanderson4353
    @markanderson4353 6 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    For those who want to skip through the fluff
    0:46 How you convey yourself
    3:04 How you convey the relationship
    6:58 How the relationship starts
    9:44 Your boundaries
    11:57 The girls story

    • @stealth797
      @stealth797 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you!

    • @SammyCee23
      @SammyCee23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thank you. Less is more :)

    • @lucasvilleza1188
      @lucasvilleza1188 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks dude

    • @c.h.5855
      @c.h.5855 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you, sir. "We cannot waste time; time is precious" - Garry Kasparov

    • @tialt6857
      @tialt6857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      we need your services for all his vids LoL please

  • @nicholasbeauchamp1440
    @nicholasbeauchamp1440 6 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I just wanted to take the time to say thanks Todd. This is great stuff you've got me studying your videos now and the results are showing. You also inspire me to improve in all aspects of life.

  • @phillipschristoph
    @phillipschristoph 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This is one of the most solid in content, length and editing. Love the Bold text (as a graphic designer)

  • @izak-jn3vi
    @izak-jn3vi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Your knowledge and your understanding of female psychology is mind-boggling.

    • @Neb6969
      @Neb6969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cause he’s full of shit 😂

  • @LOGOASSASSIN
    @LOGOASSASSIN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Don't under estimate the importance of this. Many think game is something young guys do for a while. Wrong.

    • @ty-le5lv
      @ty-le5lv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many of these are excellent tips for other than romantic relationships as well

  • @anonymousvine4105
    @anonymousvine4105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So powerful. This brought me out of the supplicating, unscalable frame of trying to do things for any girl, to the repeatable, confidence building frame of setting the tone for the girl to follow.

  • @instagaylord7307
    @instagaylord7307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wish I could know all of Todd's knowledge when I was 15 year old. Ty very much Todd for helping us and sharing your time

    • @Jon-pn1sw
      @Jon-pn1sw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's awesome this kind of knowledge is out there for the young guys of these days, wish I knew too. But atleast we know now.

  • @doyourbest7655
    @doyourbest7655 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Truth bomb. The best relationships I have had have occurred because I was direct in what I wanted right away and if she was not in alignment then she could leave. When I cared to much and hesitated about and over thought, the relationship went nowhere. Big disappointments. New alignment, voice what you expect, make it possible for her to give that. Hear what they want, as it clues you into getting what works in the relationship. Key is to be direct.

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is one of your best videos Todd, and that's saying a lot, because everything you put out is quality.

    • @blacktortoise6812
      @blacktortoise6812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah this one is a game changer, no pun intended. Like he said, this kind of encapsulates game in that it is a way of increasing congruence, conveying value, and observing and rearranging frames.

  • @str8904
    @str8904 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Todd's cinematography is always as point as the info. Thanks Todd.

  • @mindset_olympics2
    @mindset_olympics2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much said in one video....
    -convey social proof and abundance
    -good game
    -convey social proof & abundance (other options
    -controlling the frame
    -under testing you pass
    -Have power and convey what you want
    Meeting: Day game, night game, work, dating sites, class etc.
    -what happened before hooking up
    -so something about it when your have boundaries
    -uphold boundaries, maintain the relationship and keep it friendly without making the other person hate you.
    -do not feel forced and coerced
    -do not tolerate everything
    -intergrity and decide precursors ahead of time
    -“set the frame” to put your foot down
    Sixth:
    Background and story
    You need an overlap in what you want as a spectrum and what he wants as a spectrum.

  • @michaelflores5800
    @michaelflores5800 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Todd is the definition of a Genius

  • @FyreStarz
    @FyreStarz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is gold man. This video is just what I need for my current situation. Very much appreciated.

  • @jean-pierreparent1408
    @jean-pierreparent1408 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is mind blowing. I've always wondered why women see to act differently and have a different personailty in their next relationship than with me. I assumed it was because of not knowing themselves or being fake, now I get that it's about the guys on a deep level.

  • @tylerdurden1241
    @tylerdurden1241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome video, would love to see more videos covering relationships and how to maintain the relationship you want

  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is definitely a topic that isn't addressed nearly enough. It's great to meet girls, but it's even more important to know how to have healthy relationships that make you happy. www.toddvdating.com

  • @LehiRulon
    @LehiRulon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Todd, this is still as relevant as ever. 🙌

  • @cordariusniter2807
    @cordariusniter2807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The key to happiness is to have fun. The purpose of a relationship is to have fun. If your your not having fun your in the wrong relationship

  • @MB-ks2bk
    @MB-ks2bk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    dude your videos are dope and so are the beats you put in them

  • @stinky8744
    @stinky8744 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONVEY WHAT U WANT. THIS WOULD HAVE SAVE ME A LOT OF TIME GROWING UP. THX TOOD

  • @seand622
    @seand622 6 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Dude, we need more infields

    • @salembeats1875
      @salembeats1875 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Look up Todd infield he had alot but they got deleted

    • @seand622
      @seand622 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SALEM I’ve probably watched all of them. His style of game is the best in my eyes

    • @SuperFilipman
      @SuperFilipman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There's a lot of infield in the Sytem. Good quality. You can buy it If you want. I'm glad I did.

    • @minobutterfingers
      @minobutterfingers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I paid for The System, and I would pay for a pack of infields. Also JP's infields are cool, but more difficult to replicate.

    • @taylor_tony
      @taylor_tony 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

  • @MikeHersnt
    @MikeHersnt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Be honest and try to listen to one another and things will get better. Amazing talk bro! Learning a lot from your videos. Keep it up👍

  • @pangaea6united
    @pangaea6united 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    love how you mentioned ranges for all those poker players out there

  • @MonsterPOV
    @MonsterPOV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    09:25 absolutely true, specially if you know what you're doing!

  • @maximillian.a.m
    @maximillian.a.m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always with a fire soundtrack to these vids!

  • @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
    @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You set the frame, expectations and rules from day 1, moment 1

  • @ChessMasteryOfficial
    @ChessMasteryOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    *Resist much, obey little.*

    • @SammyCee23
      @SammyCee23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What do you mean?

    • @badmudafucka4448
      @badmudafucka4448 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      obey? fuck that.
      cant be half-man.

    • @fitnesspoint2006
      @fitnesspoint2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You tying soooo hard to sound profound but failing miserably at it my dude.

    • @b.b.2638
      @b.b.2638 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Discover pls explain your point

    • @hexadecimal5236
      @hexadecimal5236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      DO NOT OBEY is actually perfect, my FWBs often Order me to do things, or we'll have a 'talk' and she will say, 'I thought we both agreed to...'
      Before I understood this I would say Oh Ok and Obey. Now, I say, *"I didn't agree to anything, you talked and I listened but just because you say something about me doesn't mean it's True."*
      And of course the threats to never see me again follow, which of course are not True at all because females are fundamentally biologically driven and as long as you continue to be the highest value male she can attain, she will continue to seek you and your validation.

  • @joerosati5017
    @joerosati5017 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You make sense man, you make sense. Keep the videos comin'!

  • @gillan5
    @gillan5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    uphold boundaries! -do not let them step over the lines!

  • @felipesilvausa
    @felipesilvausa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks Todd for changing men life's
    RSD TODD FAR THE NUMBER 1

  • @DemonRuby
    @DemonRuby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There are two rules you need to know: 1. NEVER act like you want a relationship if you don't want it and don't give her impression you care about her more than you actually do. In other words, do not pretend you're on the same page with her and have the same goals if you don't. 2. See the first rule.

  • @Hyrtsi
    @Hyrtsi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This advice is golden. One thing I must say: there are decent women out there. Just be honest, be open, communicate. The women want the same things as you want. Do not think women are different species. Do not think they are your enemies. Otherwise you have lost the gsme because women get to choose.

  • @Notethos
    @Notethos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nice video! I watch more from the theoretical/ theatrical framework; game isn't for me. I like how you keep a nuance that deconstructs relationship dynamics but doesn't (too much) force the game mentality and respects viewers have different intentions.

    • @mrpussinboots4252
      @mrpussinboots4252 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're trying to use synonyms that make no sense...

  • @5qcW_WLlgt6-lke9-_kiQg
    @5qcW_WLlgt6-lke9-_kiQg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Todd, this is a different message to you. The video is very useful pointing out the big picture in starting a relationship. You have had many and serious relationships, that is why I want to ask you - How do you work on the relationship? How do you have the relationhsip under control and how it develops? How do you avoid the emotions and drama before they come up? There must be a proactive way of having conversations where both introduce their expectations and negotiate before things escalate. This is what I call having a mindful relationship. Not by having all the power, but by having the control over its developement. Not having things happen in the relationship unexpectedly, but putting issues on the table and sharing reationally with no drama. Have you had a similar experience? Please share some techniques about going for this option. Thank you for your articulate and specific videos and lessons. Greetings

    • @mohamedabd8285
      @mohamedabd8285 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      In my country ppl get married this way since its religious moral country, but other cultures is hard to have such thing before displaying high value.
      I would say u must chose the wright type of social circle.

    • @cumthru2555
      @cumthru2555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not sure if you'll see this, but you need to approach and conduct yourself in a manner that indicates that you are intentional with your actions. Have the conversation and be upfront about what you're looking for in a partner, what you expect from a partner, the role you can play, who you are, and what you bring. This conversation isn't had in one sitting - this will scare her off because you will come across as manipulative. You have to time it right and be as honest as possible. Don't lie about your intentions, and don't make/let her compromise on her boundaries and expectations. A lot of the time, this kind of honesty allows for a woman to feel like you are trustworthy - as a person, and as someone who will always have her best interest at heart... like a leader. Be self-assured, open, honest, and this takes some vulnerability and work on your end.

  • @Raao1
    @Raao1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Guys! I'm not even kidding!
    For best relationship advice study the philosophy of Patrice O'Neal a.k.a. Black Phillip
    and Dante Nero a.k.a. Beige Phillip

  • @manaschug
    @manaschug 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is Dope, thanks my man!

  • @ChazLangley
    @ChazLangley 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You, Todd! This video is the Bible for establishing a new situation without being cocky or arrogant! Very well articulated, my Man! 🙏🏾

  • @belieber888
    @belieber888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What’s your take on the overly feminine dudes and masculine women? I guess the dynamic of their relationships made them that way

    • @justinwhitebeaver966
      @justinwhitebeaver966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No the feminst media made them that way. Henceforth news casts,tv shows, movies ect. The femimst media yearns to eliminate gender roles. But those relationships end bad for both. Think of it the women is a single mother and the father has to pay out the ass for that kid or kids. Because no true alpha wants a single mother

  • @renegadezen7841
    @renegadezen7841 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Odds that those 3 ppl who gave this a thumbs down are in the type of relationship they dream of????

  • @AronPowa96
    @AronPowa96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Todd, really

  • @paulcolin9071
    @paulcolin9071 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are excellent for us thinking people

  • @PrettyWhen1Shoot
    @PrettyWhen1Shoot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This dude a genius

    • @fukc9970
      @fukc9970 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This dude is a tool

  • @NandoMusicOfficial
    @NandoMusicOfficial ปีที่แล้ว

    Todd. One video I haven’t seen on your channel is how to be how to build sexual confidence in the bedroom. That’s the point of this all. I would love to hear what you say about this

  • @swill1020
    @swill1020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “How many sandwiches do I need to make before I get a ring on this finger?”

  • @sinkunorbert
    @sinkunorbert 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Todd looks so happy on the thumbnail, he must've gone through Julien's Transformation Mastery! :)

    • @ramonalfaro3252
      @ramonalfaro3252 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Transformation Mastery is Alcoholcs Anonymous + Breathing exercises. Save your money.

    • @mohamedabd8285
      @mohamedabd8285 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +ramon alfaro did u go to it?

    • @ramonalfaro3252
      @ramonalfaro3252 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No I wasted money on it.

    • @gcg8187
      @gcg8187 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ramonalfaro3252 you didnt learn anything?

  • @Shoto_Mist
    @Shoto_Mist 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thx Todd..i been in negotiation...great advice

  • @justanamateur1682
    @justanamateur1682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video can be summed up in one line: Girls see whatever you show them.

  • @rickrude7868
    @rickrude7868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good with the details, I agree with most of this. I believe u should break this down at least to 3 separate videos. Or if ur viewing this and u are confused, take one step at a time until u fully comprehend. Other than that awesome also note that if ur Lovely dovely u risk losing the woman or being used and abused, u have to find a balance and play the game called Life to win.

  • @rustyshaklford5642
    @rustyshaklford5642 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So useful thank you Todd👍

  • @NoName-bx2ft
    @NoName-bx2ft 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Self help is the future, Todd!

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      how so? explain?

    • @seyned89
      @seyned89 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How so?

  • @michaelquebec6653
    @michaelquebec6653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brilliant video (as always.)

  • @XCVi_MAC
    @XCVi_MAC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It takes two for a healthy relationship. If your giving it your all and that other person isn’t then it isn’t going to work out. Social media ruins many relationships.

    • @someguyO2W
      @someguyO2W 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ruined my marriage

  • @milkyporridge5929
    @milkyporridge5929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The girl is your mirror - tom torero

  • @SavaNedev
    @SavaNedev 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The End Screen cards have been missed :P

  • @readthispleaseify
    @readthispleaseify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can you make a video on approaching more than 1 girl or a group of girls? I only cold approach girls alone.

    • @kittycat5347
      @kittycat5347 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Luis BielExact! The last RSD Max video is exactly about that.

  • @olb47
    @olb47 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Todd could you make an video about techniques that help to set boundaries in a right way? Or maybe someone has good examples, sources, etc.

  • @LOGOASSASSIN
    @LOGOASSASSIN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SOLID gold.
    Question: when a new girl wants to talk about your past GFs do you make a joke and avoid the subject, lie or honestly tell her and convey how you've changed so she knows you're no longer the guy you're describing. (Although doing this can kill the vibe) I'm mainly into short term girls unless I find a keeper which is unlikely.

    • @TheFlameGarden
      @TheFlameGarden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      honesty is the way to go dude. if youre even considering being dodgy or dishonest youre doing it wrong. doesnt matter who youre talking to or what your motive is.

    • @themancuniancandidate2744
      @themancuniancandidate2744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I always body swerve this one with a smile and the answer "A gentleman never tells". That way you let her know the subject isn't up for discussion, but she also knows you won't blab about your relationship with her, should it end. Every time I've handled that question in this way, the girl has been ok with it and hasn't brought it up again.

    • @barbapapaplouf5419
      @barbapapaplouf5419 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're free to disclose or not disclose what you want dude. Jokingly push that away. Or say something like: it's too early, We don't know each other well enough, I keep that for when we're closer, it's too personal for now... Etc... It's not about dishonesty, it's just boundaries. You decide who you let in your personal life, and how fast/slow if you decide to welcome them. Be it your boss, a stranger or a date.

  • @brennanbets
    @brennanbets 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there a video for how to hold power in relationship

  • @itsdavehimself
    @itsdavehimself 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Todd V for Vocabulary

  • @A2Kaid
    @A2Kaid 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good info. Didn't think about these things.

  • @radovansurlak7445
    @radovansurlak7445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you a lot Todd :)

  • @saulbravo3485
    @saulbravo3485 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    UNION SQUARE!!

  • @broryku
    @broryku 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    they fuckin did Todd, thanks a lot

  • @LexaGamerSrb
    @LexaGamerSrb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Healthy relationship, thumbnail turn her into a fuckbudy, the grind never stops.

  • @chadadvice3707
    @chadadvice3707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Todd, let’s say, you were in a committed relationship with a girl, doing all the things that set you up as a boyfriend, then you break up with her, but she still loves you. Is there any way to realistically re-enter the relationship at a lower capacity? Ie - renegotiate the terms to resemble a more casual relationship?

    • @jake.geckler702
      @jake.geckler702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You could just do it through your actions brother. Hang out at night only and only back at your crib or hers. Don't go out on dates and don't bring her over to meet the fam.

    • @greenfairy7646
      @greenfairy7646 ปีที่แล้ว

      I personally do not think that is healthy. She needs to be able to get over you and move on. Not be used because you don’t want to give her up. That’s not fair. Let her go and let her move on. Find someone you really want to be with. Or find some one who wants to be a casual hook up

  • @bitcoindaddy748
    @bitcoindaddy748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very well put through

  • @andysmith5997
    @andysmith5997 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very intelligent video by the way

  • @Doug5614
    @Doug5614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Game has become a science. Dudes who don't stop and focus on this stuff have no chance. They find themselves on their azz looking up and wondering what happened. Even being woke with this stuff, it takes a lot of technique and practice.

  • @eminem252525
    @eminem252525 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Immense value in that video exactly what I was looking for 😍🔥

  • @alexanderandreev3780
    @alexanderandreev3780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This black jacket has more game than me

  • @letsdostuff5864
    @letsdostuff5864 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When will new content be added to the system?

  • @MinistryofHealth-p2z
    @MinistryofHealth-p2z 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So how do I set boundaries in a relatonship if not by being angry or ignoring?

    • @Barad-Dur_IsACapitalOfMordor
      @Barad-Dur_IsACapitalOfMordor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eating and drinking is good, but you should try to use your mouth to speak.

    • @gcg8187
      @gcg8187 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Barad-Dur_IsACapitalOfMordor LOOOL

  • @ErvinMitchell
    @ErvinMitchell 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing insights

  • @DevilFrog61
    @DevilFrog61 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is it ever advisable to give a girl an honest/upfront ultimatum?
    (Like if you’re asking to hang out (second date) and she keeps being “busy” after a while I gotta say I can’t wait forever) OR do I just not say anything and stop asking/trying altogether

    • @jake.geckler702
      @jake.geckler702 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ultimatums don't work. Find a new girl or several that make it easy to hang out and that actually want to see you.

  • @rubdq7415
    @rubdq7415 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So knowledgeable on game.

  • @dmitrixallo7072
    @dmitrixallo7072 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is the ‘shit test’? Also how should I learn ‘game’?

    • @glockbabe9601
      @glockbabe9601 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Testing ur unreactiveness and ur masculinity to make sure ur still the man she thinks u r. Want good game..? Practice, watch youtube videos. Then practice some more

    • @Keyboardbeatz
      @Keyboardbeatz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girls shit test all the time....basically if you reply with logic and politically correct etc you are probably failing her shit tests

    • @Hegericc
      @Hegericc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her way of testing your confidence, you respond to it the same way you respond to bullying, embracing and exaggerating.

    • @dmitrixallo7072
      @dmitrixallo7072 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait so what would be the correct way to react to those ‘shit tests’?
      Completely cool and mature or argue back?

    • @Hegericc
      @Hegericc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dmitrixallo7072 As I said, joking about it and exaggerating her claim, thus taking it non seriously

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmao this girl im talking to had the audacity to tell me “i feel like i’m the dominant one in this friendship”. LOL WHAT? How the fuck am i supposed to answer that!

    • @mohamedabd8285
      @mohamedabd8285 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      say no I'm the king here if u don't like it leave

  • @scoofking007
    @scoofking007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That timing though

  • @eyesburning
    @eyesburning 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! How is the music genre called in the intro/outro?

    • @eliegillard1762
      @eliegillard1762 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's hip-hop, I guess you could fine similar tracks by searching for "Lofi hip-hop" "Jazzhop" or "Trip hop"!

  • @noahf3269
    @noahf3269 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you put out a video about how to get intimate with a girl which is not sex? There's a huge connection that happens during sex but what are other ways to connect in order to make each other feel good? @ToddVDating

  • @frederickhoward5598
    @frederickhoward5598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have 7 very easy ones; Love, Realized Truth, Justice,Balance, Peace, Reciprocity and Harmony when you can live up to these you relationship blossom and flourish until eternity! Without these all else is futile.

  • @tesev7071
    @tesev7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    making decisions ahead of time

  • @nuts4785
    @nuts4785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But how do you deal with girls with trust issues?

    • @Keyboardbeatz
      @Keyboardbeatz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ask drake lol

    • @salembeats1875
      @salembeats1875 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao they scared you too much of a pimp quality problem right there

    • @darkcloud12345678900
      @darkcloud12345678900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      honestly, i have experience with this, no matter what her back story is. just fuck her first, then fuck her for months and let her do her own thing, dont talk about the relationship aspect first, but dont fuck other girls and see what she thinks, after a while like 1-3 months for fake trust issues, for real issues probably less then 6 months,
      anything other then that then shes either crazy or a redhead
      short but simple brah

  • @rainbowcat832
    @rainbowcat832 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Song name?

  • @abacdse
    @abacdse 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @jeremymartinez4438
    @jeremymartinez4438 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what's the best way to transition from casual fling to serious relationship

  • @Thisisfifty
    @Thisisfifty 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ 6.09 some girls will be very insecure around a guy with options as they don't want to be just another option

  • @weltenmonarch1891
    @weltenmonarch1891 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    use for one of your videos future married to the game

  • @Carlos-wj3nu
    @Carlos-wj3nu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Moral of the story: girls are too complicated and not worth the effort and time. Love your self, get a scale doll, be happy.

    • @musick496
      @musick496 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carlos Hernandez True 😂😂

    • @timeslowingdown
      @timeslowingdown 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lmao

    • @gcg8187
      @gcg8187 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about your mom?

    • @iron-farmer
      @iron-farmer 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont chase pleasure ffs

    • @JpPbailey
      @JpPbailey ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@gcg8187😂😂😂

  • @hgod7329
    @hgod7329 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Todd read the rational male

    • @almuthannaahmed3852
      @almuthannaahmed3852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you have an abstract of the 9 rules of it ?
      If you do ? Sis i woe you already

    • @hgod7329
      @hgod7329 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@almuthannaahmed3852 yeah, theres lots of holes

    • @davidhetfield6
      @davidhetfield6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As if he hasn't..

  • @travisdip
    @travisdip 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn, I wish I saw this 2 weeks ago. Just made mistake number 1 lol

  • @devin3607
    @devin3607 ปีที่แล้ว

    But what if I'm the one who held off sex from her early on until like the 5th date. She wanted to hook up and I didn't. Is that a bad dynamic?

  • @theturokchoi
    @theturokchoi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    12:50 yay

  • @jamesjohnson6309
    @jamesjohnson6309 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Todd. Been a fan for a LONG time. I have a question for you:
    why am I so fuckin awkward????
    Especially in conversation. It feels rigid, unnatural, robotic, and extremely uncomfortable. How can I stop this ??

    • @OEThe11
      @OEThe11 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be You

    • @mrboobiesrider9212
      @mrboobiesrider9212 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be me

    • @zaltarical
      @zaltarical 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      James Johnson Practice is the best solution. Talk to whoever whenever you can. If you’re in high school, join some clubs or sports. It’s worth it every time.

    • @gcg8187
      @gcg8187 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look up David Hawkins scale of consciousness. Raise ur lvl of consciousness on this scale is on the most powerful "thing" u can do for your life. Dont bullshit this

  • @wenztot388
    @wenztot388 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Todd, how can I subscribe twice in your channel? 🙃

  • @vance12341234
    @vance12341234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Vid, I flipped this script -
    Saw a girl on tinder - we matched and she seemed she 'was' wild and crazy (tats and way she dressed) now she is trying to turn it around.
    I just said, I dont ride my motorcycle anymore and I have turned my life around - also that I havent committed any crimes in a long time (both true).
    She took the hook now I'm hoping she swallows it...

  • @littleoceandrop
    @littleoceandrop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Voice tone & volume is too high up ;)

  • @toy578
    @toy578 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    where the hell did you learn all this Todd.?

  • @colecoke6996
    @colecoke6996 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    todd said oOF