I bought a linen top in Greece in 1976 and I am still wearing it. Now that's what I call slow fashion! Great Video Alyssa. I'm busy packing to go to Spain for 3 weeks and I am shopping my closet and working out all my outfits - it makes packing so much easier. Clara 💕
Love your story of your linen top! Isn't it wonderful when you buy something of reasonable quality and it lasts for decades!? I have several of these types of pieces and it is seriously hard to wear them out. And they never seem to go out of style :)
Wonderful advice! Our first real trip was to Italy. I had decided not to buy any souvenirs (trying to Swedish death Clean), but saw a man selling scarves at the Trevi Fountain. One was my favorite shades of blues and aquas. I didn't buy it and though about it all night. The next day we were on an official tour of Rome and I saw the scarf seller! I snuck away from the group and chased him down to buy the scarf. I haven't ever worn it (I'm not a scarf-wearing type), but I love it and it is a favorite memory of a wonderful trip.
I just got back from Mexico and for the first time I didn’t buy ‘souvenir’ clothes that I won’t wear back home - I needed a dressy piece for one event so I found a black lace tie front long duster that made my white jeans & black tee dressy, and I’ll wear it with a hundred things back home. In the tropical setting all the colorful embroidered clothes would feel great but I’d just NEVER wear them after vacay! Great tips in this video. ☺️
I just returned from Poland and Ukraine! I gave my Kate Spade purse to my friend in Ukraine as she is not able to buy a designer purse easily. Then I needed to buy one! I found by chance a beautiful purse store in Krakow called Pepita which is a brand from a Polish designer who has the purses crafted in Italy. WOW this purse is beautiful at a fraction of the cost of other designers. I am back in the USA now and keep getting compliments on it! You are right bags are really noticed and important!:)
I try to pack carry on only so I don't have as much room to bring home stuff! Before I travel I think of something that would make a great souvenir from each country (an Irish hand knit sweater, a well made umbrella in England, a piece from a well know store associated with a specific place, etc). and then I treasure hunt for it while I'm there. That keeps me from aimlessly shopping and every time I use/wear it when I get home it's a memory.
When I travel, I buy earrings and a music CD. I take many photos and return home to make a slide show to remind me of the beautiful destination. I recall the adventure when I wear the earrings. Both are minimal and bring back sweet thoughts of my journey.
Great video! One vital thing is to try on EVERY single thing before you pack it. I'm a minimalist traveler and take just the essentials. Once before a trip I bought a replacement of an old favorite, stuck it in my bag, and found (at my destination) the size was mismarked. I donated it there, but was missing an important essential. Worst case: you need to buy a sweater, scarf, jacket, or top while on the trip. Take less, have more fun!
When visiting another country, especially if I will stay there a little longer (3-6 weeks), I research local designers. I love to support locals in their work. And, instead buying souvenirs, I will treat myself with something like that. Handmade? Even better! Edit: but it is important to find something that fits into my everyday style. I do have a carnival outfit from Rio that I regret 😂 and now buy something wearable to home too
@@cbp7062 it is a sparkling bra with chrystals to mimic diamonds and a panties with faux feathers to look like a tail. All that in a blue and orange colors
@@sophianachtigall3598 oh my goodness that's amazing thanks for sharing. You could still maybe pull off the sparkly bra with neutral blazer and trousers for New Year's or another amazing party. Have fun 😊
These are just good SHOPPING tips! When I have gone to Hawaii, I have really wanted to buy a floral dress to fit in, however I would never wear it back here in Washington state so I have chosen to bring something with a little bit of a pattern to fit in and add some fun accessories
Not Robert- A regret I recently had on a Cunard cruise, was “ not” to conform to the dress of the ship’s evening events. It was the perfect opportunity to enjoy fashion. Why did I not participate? Luggage space! My lesson; pay extra for luggage fees, enjoy dressing up, time is too short not to feel and look special.
Years ago while traveling in London, I came across a black lace cardigan in a little boutique. . In one sense it is casual as the length and the sleeves are short and asymmetrical but very float however it is all lace and very feminine (definitely one of my 3 words) with a touch of bohemian. The perfect “third piece” to wear and dress up a pair of jeans with a simple black tank. One of my favorite vacation finds ever!!!
Since I love folkloric jewelry I found my most loved pieces on vacation: a silver Breton ring, a Tibetan necklace in the Indian Himalayans and another necklace in Madeira.
The tension between wanting to belong and wanting to stand out is so true! I think this is such a good conversation to have, especially because I see so many videos online about "how not to look like a tourist." Which--I understand, especially from the perspective of not wanting to be targeted for scams or violence. BUT! I think we really do people a disservice when we normalize buying tons of new things outside our own style in order to "fit in" in a particular locale. I mean, what happens to the clothes after that 2 weeks? They don't get worn, because they're not you! Better to rent things, wear your current pieces in a slightly different way (as you explained so well), or just take your lumps and look like the odd one out, IMO. Also, as a piece of advice for travelers, you're probably going to look like a tourist in many places anyway, so try not to worry about it. When I lived in Spain, it didn't matter if I wore head-to-toe Spanish brands: I have blue eyes, dark blonde hair, a pale complexion, etc. Everybody always wanted to greet me in English. When I traveled to Norway on vacation, though, I fit right in, and everybody started the conversation in Norwegian (a slight problem, since I don't know much of that language, ha!)
Here's a tip for blending in when you travel. Visit a local grocery store and buy their sturdy shopping bag. Use it for shopping and as a tote bag out and about. Scammers and pickpockets will scan a crowd and your bag will blend in, encouraging them to select others. Useful for grocery shopping at home too.
The only time I ever really felt like my personal style totally clashed with the local style was when I moved to the UK. I brought all my normal PNW clothes; baggy and bootcut jeans, flannel shirts, a lot of printed t shirts, hiking boots, birkenstocks, etc. It was honestly terrible. I felt like a literal sasquatch compared to everyone else. I watched plenty of other foreign students I was living near go out and buy whole new wardrobes (which most threw out at the end of thier terms), but I didn't have the money for that 😖. I just stuck with what I had and told myself what mattered was what I was DOING, not what I was wearing. And that worked. Although I did get a pair of Wellingtons which I still own and love dearly, but I used (and still use) the heck out of them 10 years later! Now, I have truly settled into my personal style and am totally happy wearing my "sasquatch uniform" 🤣 no matter where I am. Although I LOVE getting a traditional dress from whichever country I travel to!
Just wanted to drop a thank you note for you, Alyssa! Your slow fashion hacks are transformative. I'm far from being a minimalist but your channel/ knowledge is definitely impacting me in a very optimistic way. Look forward to learning more!
Good tips as always! I prefer to fall on the side of blending in, or at least avoid big neon “tourist” signals when I pack. My key pieces are shoes that are comfortable for walking on pavement, grass, or cobblestone, and work in a variety of situations from a museum to coffee.
Very smart! I take one pair of hiking shoes or boots and one pair each of walking shoes and sandals. I wear them in for a month or so before the trip. That way I know they'll be perfect on my journey.
Haaa tourist signals lol last time I was in Paris I was wearing beige crocs at a signal. A woman said “yr American?” Yes, how can u tell? Ah the crocs!!! 🤣🤣know what I could care less really
I just returned from a 3-month visit to Europe and spent most of my time in France. You’re advice is spot on! I already loved what I brought and although I hit every vintage shop I could find, I was almost as picky as I am at home. That said, the pull to buy and wear the local style is strong! Unexpectedly, I also experienced some of their heat waves and even my ‘summer’ clothes were too hot. I bought 3 dresses to stay cool and yep, only brought one home. The other two were clothing only for ‘there’. It’s really hard not to be lured, at least, for me! Ha. Thanks, Alyssa! As always, you nailed it.
In my experience it seems that people think that when they travel their style will be different. I always remind infrequent travelers that when they get to another country they will still be themselves. Bring clothes that you feel good in, don’t buy a new uncomfortable wardrobe that you’ll be fussing over. When in doubt keep it simple, you’re still you, just in another place.
Well said! I do think there is a fun element of playfulness when you go to a place that is new and nobody knows you - finding the balance is key but as you said - being comfortable is the most important part!
I’ve purchased so many hats while on vacation and never wear them at home! I need to stop doing that!! Thanks for the great video! I watch every week for style ideas!
This was so on point :-) I have loved shopping on holidays for years - I always shop items, that I know, I will not wear on the holiday, that I am currently on. That way I have collected so many wonderfull items, that I have and use for years. And I love getting inspired by the vibes in other countries :-)
Totally true! I was in Sicily this year, I saw there a lot of "sicilian dresses", flowy and very on vacation's vibe, but neither material (synthetic blend) nor colors were not mine, so fortunately I did not buy that dress🙂
Thanks for this video Alyssa! I try on outfits before they go in my suitcase. If they feel uncomfortable or if I can't envision myself wearing it on vacation then they don't come with. BUT I do find that vacations are a great time to step outside of your comfort zone and try something new. Maybe a dress that I can't wear in my cold climate back home now I can experiment and try a new style.
Love this so many truths that I’ve found myself breaking those rules in the past. You mention having a list I always do this now when I shop (reformed shopaholic) it’s really key to me only buying what I need and keeps me focused when there is so much choice and distracting fashion.
After watching your capsule wardrobe videos, I went on vacation to Montreal, bringing interchangeable items. Mostly comfy basics & a couple of statement pieces - worked well! Visited a number of thrift stores Alyssa had recommended & found some lovely pieces! Thank-you Ms Beltempo 😊 Love the vibe of your videos, like having coffee with a cousin👍
Don’t hesitate to look in the little touristy shops for missing pieces. Sometimes when they put things on sale to make way for the next season’s items, you can find a good deal. I picked up a very cute, comfy pair of gold sandals for no more than I would pay at a shoe warehouse store in a little boutique outside San Francisco. My own gold sandals had recently bit the dust and although I didn’t really need them for that particular trip, they took up almost no room in my suitcase on the way home. Score!
Right on time. I just started singing for church weekly and we are given outfit guidance to look cohesive. I am determined to buy nothing new and use this as a chance to get better at expressing my style, am going to turn it into a fun “Wardrobe Simon Says”
Super interesting as always, thank you! I am definitely guilty of having holiday wardrobes that are vastly different from what I would wear at home. I’m trying to get out of the habit of buying ‘holiday clothes’.
For years, we used to holiday in the same part of France. The shops had lots of beachy/ vacation clothing that was tempting in the sunshine! What I did buy, and still have and wear, were a selection of sarongs! I wear them constantly when on holiday and also at home in the summer as an alternative to a dressing gown! I style them as dresses and skirts in very hot weather and I know that they will always fit me😄. There was also a fantastic leather shop, which sold handmade bags that were quite unique. I used to save up each year and treat myself. I still have every one of them and they just get better with age. They are so well made that even after 15 - 20 years of wear they look amazing. I did succumb to the temptation of a maxi length leopard print beach cover up on my last pre- pandemic holiday in Gran Canaria, and did wonder if it was a mistake🤦🏻♀️. However, I wear it constantly at home as a glamorous piece of loungewear - it’s certainly had at least 30 wears already 😄 Jewellery is a good souvenir option too. I have some black bangles from the south of France that I bought in the early 80’s! Last September, I had a short city break in Athens and bought some lovely silver earrings that take me back there every time I wear them. Accessories can be a great way to buy into a holiday mood without losing your own style and can be incorporated into your everyday life quite seamlessly. 😊
Interesting. Personally, I love those beachy items from the Mediterranean and wear them a lot in the summer, wherever I am. They also don't really date, so you can bring them out to enjoy every summer.
Great video! Sometimes when I am on vacation I have to go shopping for something I forgot to pack or for unexpected weather conditions. I was in Budapest when it was unseasonably cold and I did not pack enough warm clothes. I went to a department store and found an inexpensive ribbed black turtleneck that would work under all the tops I brought. It became one of my favorite staples at home because it was so versatile. So - if you have to go shopping, look for that good quality basic that will work on your trip and at home. Hope you are having a great time in Croatia!
Alyssa...great tips for packing and shopping while on vacation! I look for unique items and generally focus on accessories. They often have the ability to flow seamlessly into many different style genres. I have beautiful jewelry from Italy that I still wear and it's always a wonderful reminder of my travels. Thanks again!
I have accepted the fact that I always end up buying something on holidays, because go into local shops is part of it, therefore now I bring less with me like the essentials and leave room for my new items plus when back home I wear this new things that are not common where I live people ask where did you get it and it's great to say in Italy or France etc and the good memories come to me and I smile
I tend to buy a lot of scarves on vacation-they always fit and are a beautiful,easy reminder of the lovely places I have visited. I have made mistakes by feeling I have to buy something from a brand in it’s country of origin,if that makes sense,like H&M in Sweden for example,and regretted a forced purchase. Going to France soon,where previously I made fragrance purchasing mistakes. Sometimes there is a lot of trial and error. Another thing I love to buy is jewelry! Always feel special wearing unique pieces. Loving your European content!
Me too! I treasure my beautiful scarves and unique jewelry pieces bought on various trips! They don’t take up space while travelling and they make an impact on my outfits!
I recall 10 years ago (jeez) when I spent a month in southern France visiting family, my style at the time did not fit. Lots of light coloured, airy clothes, whereas I was all about black and bold colours, short skirts and just tight clothes in general (hey, I was 21 and went out a lot lol). The few days in Paris before I left however I felt right at home - so many people wearing black and leather 😁
I love slow fashion and love that you're advocating for it ❤️ I have many item in my closet that are between 10 and 20 years old and I pretty much only buy clothing in second hand stores. Most of my favorite pieces are thrifted items!
Thanks, Alyssa! Your videos always provide some new styling tip or trick to try, or a reminder to repeat something when planning travel and day-to-day outfits. 😁❤️ Your beauty always stands out with style and confidence! I have travelled domestically...so far (well, into southern Canada, too.😊). Buying a piece or more of jewelry or a scarf or both are great souvenirs and bring memories with each wearing!
Great tips... prob needed this reminder before I went on vacation. But also accept that maybe a semi-impractical purchase might work out in the long run if it will be worn occasionally over many years. When just in Italy I bought a very summery patterned dress. The pattern is very me but it doesn't get very hot in summer where I live so will be something I can only wear occasionally. I have light patterned pants I got in Australia to "fit in" 8 years ago and I still wear them during the right weather conditions here. And luckily still love them cos definitely wasn't thinking long term when I bought them.
Such helpful videos you post for us…thank you! BTW - just placed my order for a BRAVE Leather belt… I used your code and it saved me 21 bucks.. thank you! Excited to get my Fia vachetta black w gold 😎
I hope you're enjoying your travels! You look radiant! Great tips,thanks! My personal experience was that I used to have a big divide in my wardrobe between things that were stylish and things that were comfy. And usually mainly took the latter abroad, because there is just no sense in taking your heels abroad if you're walking at least 10km every day, etc. But that always left me feeling like an unstylish 45 y.o. baseball dad, and really triggered me to (questionable) impulse buys at my destination, because I didn't feel like myself. Nowadays I've learned to pack things that are a bit in between both extremes:(trousers and blazers that have a little stretch in them as a substitute for yoga pants/hoodies, linen button-ups, flats of a knitted fabric to accommodate long walks) It has really helped me to be comfortable abroad, without feeling like you've got the word 'tourist' written on your forehead 😉
Great video. I love most of the pieces I got on vacation because of the memories. Stay away from cheap fabrics and fast fashion from tourist shops. Also, nice things you can use for the home is great too. I have a wine bottle topper in the shape of a pig from Edinburgh 14 years ago that still gives me joy every time I use it.
The first point you mentioned about standing out or blending, I usually stand out, even in my home city, people keep asking me where I am from and offering me tours 😅 I guess I always look like a tourist
This video got me thinking about my vacation purchases, at least those I remember buying - Marmot fleece pants I got because we were snowed in and I didn’t want to bother with the hotel laundry, the hoodies, the hiking pants. Every single thing was about keeping warm or staying dry in the great outdoors probably because that’s mostly where I go on vacation. It’s hard to pack a carry-on when you’re going someplace rainy or cold or when you’re between seasons and aren’t sure what the weather will be like.
What a GREAT message Alyssa!!!! I usually overpack so am going to twin myself to being only basics that will fit into a carry on, and they must be “must have” items that feed my soul when I wear them and put a spring in my step. I don’t follow trends and my style ranges from boho to street chic with a bit of an edge sometimes. Sharing your advice!!!!
Great, realistic tips - as always! I still struggle with a bit of a vintage shopping addiction so I always, ALWAYS, fall into the vintage shopping trap whenever I visit a new place. I do put the “blinders” on and I think I am getting quite the hang of it. I don’t buy colours that don’t go with anything in my wardrobe (anything bright / neon) and styles that are too fussy or delicate that can only be worn on special occasions.
ahhh OK yes. I should have mentioned vintage. It is always a wild card for me too, especially when I travel! We have the same blinders it sounds like!! :) Thank you for watching Lia and editing :) xoxo
Always sooo enjoyable! When I travel, I take only black and white items. Everything goes with everything and there isn’t an “orphan” item that somehow has made its way into your luggage that really doesn’t work. And, Audrey would approve! When are you coming back to Canada? Also, love the insights into Croatia with which you have provided us. Seemingly this is a destination that is growing in popularity.
Fantastic tips Alyssa! I also like to find Thrift and vintage shops where I go and flea markets. With applying the same things you talked about, I can find something to fit into my wardrobe. Whatever I find there is a good price, unique and a wonderful souvineer attached to a special memory. When I was in Florence Italy, I found a little market and I bought some beautiful silk fringe in the colors of my home, so I knew I could use it to trim a pillow! I also found a couple of vintage necklaces that I love.
I think certain things like linen are classic and some countries do those clothes really well. Bought a lovely dress on a provencal market that lasted years. But you are right, it's all about enjoying the place you are going. Love your vlogs😘
Jamaica - I bought so many pareo-type cover ups in wild patterns. Thought I would use them at home by my pool - I don't. Those fruity banana-pineapple-rum drinks made me think I needed those tie dyed items in every color. LOL.
The three style word concept is interesting. I feel mine are similar to yours. Throughout the years maybe one or two have shifted around, especially since I am older now. It is interesting to rediscover that most of my style preferences are similar to what they were 30+ years ago. Classic and minimal are much more who I am. Also, packing simple items or classic as you referenced is the best way to go. Great info, thanks
Ha it’s funny….when I’m on holiday I try to have a “base” and go on mini trips from there ( air b&b!)- I like to LIVE in a place for a moment. I also like to pack Extremely light….so that I can buy when I’m there. Shoes are my chosen “souvenir “ from a place: I buy a pair in every new country I visit: sneakers in Seoul, red velvet peep toe heels in Paris, Beautiful leather platforms in Bardolino…etc. I really enjoy my process even though I know it may be stressful for some. I completely agree with you on the waiting and thinking about a piece before you buy. Good info! 🤙🏝❤️Aloha!
Great advice (as usual), Alyssa. Looking forward to your follow-up video - am hoping you may comment on what you’d wear in Barcelona or comment on whether Italian / Spanish women have similar style aesthetic, or not. So appreciate you and your channel.
If I buy anything on vacation, it’s accessories. Scarves and jewelry are easy to pack back and age well. I have a favorite scarf that I got in Australia on vacation in 1988, and I still get compliments every time I wear it!
Your way of analyzing things about our wardrobes goes so far above any other channel here👍👍such as 1) what vibe do you want in dressing where yr traveling to, and 2) what not to buy, really helped me a ton Alyssa, thx I’m guilty of over shopping 🙃 but learning so much from you!! Have an upcoming trip to Scandinavia and living in a warm beachy climate I can’t come home with woolens. Hey plz share how you clean the collar and cuffs of your button downs. When traveling I research what is great to bring home from that country? Such as leather or gold from Italy, etc
Love the kitten heels Alyssa! What designer are they please? I have bought some amazing pieces in Spain, Turkey and France-had my husband with me who actually liked helping me find the local specialties. Hermes scarf from France, leather shoes from Spain and a leather coat from Istanbul. No hubby to travel with now so I do cherish those items we bought together and they were classic enough that 22 years later I still wear.
Guilty of most of these!🤣 And trying to realign myself on vacation. I discovered most of the brightly colored or wildly patterned clothing items purchased on tropical vacations were the first to get donated after several months in my northern climate. So pathetic. A great video to help those of us who struggle!
I hate wasting time shopping when on holiday. So I usually make lists of the things that I need, research some information about local shops and then figure out what things I potentially can buy in the city I am going to. As a result, I usually know where I need to go and what I need to be looking for there. It doesn't mean that I never buy things that are not on my list but when I do I always try to think about how that thing (clothes, bag, shoes, hat) will fit into my wardrobe and where I will wear it.
I loved the video. When traveling I always try to buy a piece of jewelry. Doesn’t have to be real deal. It can be costume. I found a really nice necklace at a thrift shop. Pearl design. I get compliments and I always this of where and when I found this little gem. I can’t wait to start traveling again. We took a long break because of Covid. Keep the great videos coming I love your channel ❤️
Love this! I do allow myself some shopping head space when I travel (which is a lot!) I agreed with the misses! Nantucket and preppy is not me BUT I do plan and save for big purchases when I go to certain locations ie Italy! I finally realized the leather is SO much better and so are the choices! Bags, gloves and most of all jackets! So I do a bit of “planning” so I can pick up an item or two that are special and I have a fabulous memory about!
Super helpful tips! I have a tendency to do the exact things you were talking about… waiting until my destination to buy things I “need” and/or buying something that is style specific to an area and not exactly what I’d wear at home. Thank you so much for sharing your insight! Love your channel ❤️
Loved the video! Re: tension between tourist/fitting in, as others have commented, same goes for hometown as well. Also, I wonder if you might consider offering a list of style words that we might choose from? I'm having a hard time coming up with my 3 - TIA!😄
YES - As Morgan said below, this video could be helpful: th-cam.com/video/eb-BmiVqp-I/w-d-xo.html but I will do this either in shorts or tiktok and have a list you can screenshot :)
I am on vacation this week and thanks to you i am able to focus on the elements of my 3 words. This video also is timely and rich as always Alyssa :))))
I used to make all the mistakes you mentioned here. Nowadays I buy accessories on trips: like hats, scarfs or jewellery-they are nice souvenirs and also much higher chance I will wear them later especially if I choose pieces that fit my style.
Hello Alyssa, can you do a video about choosing the right pair of jeans, what jeans are perfect for different body types and how to style and dress them. I love wearing jeans and I do want to try some cuts but I do not know if they look good for my body type and also I struggle finding the style that goes for my body, I'm forever stuck with skinny jeans. Thanks in advance 😍😍
Hi Jana! I did this video a while back and kept it relatively general : th-cam.com/video/mLGBvDm1JVU/w-d-xo.html hopefully it helps! I will consider your suggestion as an update - thank you for that! xx
Another fantastic video! I have fallen into some of these impulse buy traps, but no more. You are looking even more amazing and can't wait for the next video.
My #1 issue when packing for a vacation are shoes. I usually walk a lot so I need really comfortable shoes, and I end up going for my Skechers. But they surely bring any outfit down LOL
I think you would look great in anything you have the figure I had in my younger days. I love those knots you do in t shirts shirts it looks great providing a svelte figure
I like to shop when I travel. However, I usually get one special item. In my community, the only clothing is pretty basic. We have a thrift store and it does a booming business, but it is not all that fashionable. Great finds are few and far between. We have a store that sells fishing gear. Hi viz waterproof clothing, t-shirts and hoodies. So when I travel, I like to pick up something different. I always take the things I need, so I am not hunting for stuff when I could be doing something else. But I always love to buy myself a treat! Maybe a cashmere sweater or a nice skirt or dress. Something I cannot find at home! You have to be careful to choose stuff that you will wear at home. Lots of cute summer dresses in warm countries but will I wear them back home? You always have very stylish outfirs and I like that you look I. Your closet. I am becoming a good packer!
I research local designers. When I try something on, I also try to get out of the fitting room, usually for the light, and talk to the vendor about their recommendations about the City. Try to move around a bit to see if the garment feels natural to you.
CIAO Alyssa, I did had the unexoected experience of loosing our cash budget un The street. Haoan @ Guadalajara gathering for restaurants. But at léase, My limited budget was thight but the best experience, was ti shop Smart, Even for souvenirs shop fron Tequila, and other tienes more towns @ Jalisco, wish we're more smart. And not exactly the key chain or post picture from Tlaquepaque, but something more personalize for my family. For example 2 years algo My mother brought to me an oversizad pink embroired blouse, wish are very comon un my culture. I got something like those cool tops. That al time was raining un The diferente towns, but our one week tourusting was awesome. What really help that it was the family trip our budget did not was hurt 😅. CIAO girl, this was My trip to Jalisco. Were trending was nota My issue, thank god 🤜
Hola. Me encantan tus videos. Quiero comentarte que en vacaciones yo no compro nada, quizá un pequeño recuerdo pero nada de ropa... Lo que si te cuento es que en mi vida cotidiana me.he vuelto compradora compulsiva (ropa), llevo un año asi y no encuentro como romper con esto..
hello Cony, leí tu comentario hace unos días y me he quedado meditando sobre ello. No soy Alyssa, pero si quieres puedo decirte mi comentario, si no, puedes ignorarlo :) Es duro, entiendo tu situación de comprar mucha ropa, pero quizás debemos examinar que la verdadera razón es algo mucho más profundo, algo que está en nuestro corazón o alma... y que la acción de sentir satisfacción por comprar algo (yo compro zapatos y ropa 🙄) es para llenar algo en nuestro corazón. Una vez alguien dijo 'si no lastima a nadie, está bien' pero quizás esta acción no lastime a nadie a otra persona, pero sí a una misma, no crees? emocionalmente y hasta en las finanzas. Si esto te causa mucho problema quizás debes buscar consejero profesional, es fácil dar un consejo en un comentario en TH-cam y es gratis! suena muy fácil, pero es mucho más dificil en la vida real. Lo bueno es que sabes que es una situación que es problemática, yo lo sé también, para mí y espero poder cambiar y limitar mis compras. Sabes lo que hice el otro día, salí a caminar, vi la naturaleza y eso me hizo olvidar de esos problemas. Te deseo de corazón que estés más tranquila y que seas feliz si compras, o si disfrutas la naturaleza o lo que desees hacer 💗 También es buena idea compartir con la comunidad en YT, a veces ayuda a desahogarse 😸
@@NinaNinaNB hola. Nina... Aprecio mucho tu comentario, me parece que entiendes perfectamente por lo que estoy pasando. Es muy importante buscar la causa y eso lo podría averiguar con un profesional... En el caso de este canal, me encanta como Alyssa hace propuestas de aprovechar la ropa que tenemos, sin comprar más, eso me motiva...
I have been guilty of buying things on vacation and getting them home and wondering what I was thinking. I also love to thrift on vacation and do know what I love to wear so I will buy things because with thrifting you will never see that item again. I have so many thrifted things that I wear on repeat for years.
I’ve made all the clothing mistakes mentioned. Not checking weather and scrambling. Or being enticed by clothing or shoes I never wore. Now I just look for unusual home decor items - a Murano lamp shade, local art, and even an antique sofa set have made their way home with me. I enjoy these, and the memories they bring, every day.
When flying it’s just carry-on for me. Anything I buy when I’m away gets mailed home on the last day of my trip. If I’m heading somewhere else before going home I mail it to a friend who lives close by.
I bought a linen top in Greece in 1976 and I am still wearing it. Now that's what I call slow fashion! Great Video Alyssa. I'm busy packing to go to Spain for 3 weeks and I am shopping my closet and working out all my outfits - it makes packing so much easier. Clara 💕
Love your story of your linen top! Isn't it wonderful when you buy something of reasonable quality and it lasts for decades!? I have several of these types of pieces and it is seriously hard to wear them out. And they never seem to go out of style :)
Nice!!! Sounds like a wonderful souvenir! Have a wonderful time in Spain! xx
How lovely! Linen lasts for decades so does cashmere when you take care of it! What color is your linen top?
@@Ingrid0410 It is a short kaftan style in cru, so very wearable with all sorts of outfits x
Wonderful advice! Our first real trip was to Italy. I had decided not to buy any souvenirs (trying to Swedish death Clean), but saw a man selling scarves at the Trevi Fountain. One was my favorite shades of blues and aquas. I didn't buy it and though about it all night. The next day we were on an official tour of Rome and I saw the scarf seller! I snuck away from the group and chased him down to buy the scarf. I haven't ever worn it (I'm not a scarf-wearing type), but I love it and it is a favorite memory of a wonderful trip.
I just got back from Mexico and for the first time I didn’t buy ‘souvenir’ clothes that I won’t wear back home - I needed a dressy piece for one event so I found a black lace tie front long duster that made my white jeans & black tee dressy, and I’ll wear it with a hundred things back home. In the tropical setting all the colorful embroidered clothes would feel great but I’d just NEVER wear them after vacay! Great tips in this video. ☺️
Thanks to you I learned that I can satisfy my “need to buy” something new on vacation by looking for vintage shops abroad. They can be truly amazing 🤩
So true!!! Me too.
Vintage shopping abroad is the best!!
I just returned from Poland and Ukraine! I gave my Kate Spade purse to my friend in Ukraine as she is not able to buy a designer purse easily. Then I needed to buy one! I found by chance a beautiful purse store in Krakow called Pepita which is a brand from a Polish designer who has the purses crafted in Italy. WOW this purse is beautiful at a fraction of the cost of other designers. I am back in the USA now and keep getting compliments on it! You are right bags are really noticed and important!:)
wow I love this!! Thanks for sharing Karen :)
I try to pack carry on only so I don't have as much room to bring home stuff! Before I travel I think of something that would make a great souvenir from each country (an Irish hand knit sweater, a well made umbrella in England, a piece from a well know store associated with a specific place, etc). and then I treasure hunt for it while I'm there. That keeps me from aimlessly shopping and every time I use/wear it when I get home it's a memory.
This is such a great idea!
ahhh what a great idea thank you for sharing! xx
Great tips!!!
When I travel, I buy earrings and a music CD. I take many photos and return home to make a slide show to remind me of the beautiful destination. I recall the adventure when I wear the earrings. Both are minimal and bring back sweet thoughts of my journey.
Nice ! xx
Interesting take on whether someone wants to blend in or stand out. My idea is go big or go home. My blue hair itself is a stand out.
Great video! One vital thing is to try on EVERY single thing before you pack it. I'm a minimalist traveler and take just the essentials. Once before a trip I bought a replacement of an old favorite, stuck it in my bag, and found (at my destination) the size was mismarked. I donated it there, but was missing an important essential. Worst case: you need to buy a sweater, scarf, jacket, or top while on the trip. Take less, have more fun!
GREAT advice! Thanks for sharing!
When visiting another country, especially if I will stay there a little longer (3-6 weeks), I research local designers. I love to support locals in their work. And, instead buying souvenirs, I will treat myself with something like that. Handmade? Even better!
Edit: but it is important to find something that fits into my everyday style. I do have a carnival outfit from Rio that I regret 😂 and now buy something wearable to home too
I buy accessories-earrings, scarves, etc.
I'd love to see this carnival outfit of yours. As a Brazilian myself I'm trying hard to picture it :-)
@@cbp7062 it is a sparkling bra with chrystals to mimic diamonds and a panties with faux feathers to look like a tail. All that in a blue and orange colors
@@sophianachtigall3598 oh my goodness that's amazing thanks for sharing. You could still maybe pull off the sparkly bra with neutral blazer and trousers for New Year's or another amazing party. Have fun 😊
Love this! Thanks for sharing! xx
These are just good SHOPPING tips! When I have gone to Hawaii, I have really wanted to buy a floral dress to fit in, however I would never wear it back here in Washington state so I have chosen to bring something with a little bit of a pattern to fit in and add some fun accessories
Thank you Kathy!! Love that you can apply them in general as well as travel! xx
Not Robert- A regret I recently had on a Cunard cruise, was “ not” to conform to the dress of the ship’s evening events. It was the perfect opportunity to enjoy fashion. Why did I not participate? Luggage space! My lesson; pay extra for luggage fees, enjoy dressing up, time is too short not to feel and look special.
Interesting insight! Thanks for sharing!
Years ago while traveling in London, I came across a black lace cardigan in a little boutique. . In one sense it is casual as the length and the sleeves are short and asymmetrical but very float however it is all lace and very feminine (definitely one of my 3 words) with a touch of bohemian. The perfect “third piece” to wear and dress up a pair of jeans with a simple black tank. One of my favorite vacation finds ever!!!
Since I love folkloric jewelry I found my most loved pieces on vacation: a silver Breton ring, a Tibetan necklace in the Indian Himalayans and another necklace in Madeira.
so good to know yourself! Great advice!
The tension between wanting to belong and wanting to stand out is so true! I think this is such a good conversation to have, especially because I see so many videos online about "how not to look like a tourist." Which--I understand, especially from the perspective of not wanting to be targeted for scams or violence. BUT! I think we really do people a disservice when we normalize buying tons of new things outside our own style in order to "fit in" in a particular locale. I mean, what happens to the clothes after that 2 weeks? They don't get worn, because they're not you! Better to rent things, wear your current pieces in a slightly different way (as you explained so well), or just take your lumps and look like the odd one out, IMO.
Also, as a piece of advice for travelers, you're probably going to look like a tourist in many places anyway, so try not to worry about it. When I lived in Spain, it didn't matter if I wore head-to-toe Spanish brands: I have blue eyes, dark blonde hair, a pale complexion, etc. Everybody always wanted to greet me in English. When I traveled to Norway on vacation, though, I fit right in, and everybody started the conversation in Norwegian (a slight problem, since I don't know much of that language, ha!)
Here's a tip for blending in when you travel. Visit a local grocery store and buy their sturdy shopping bag. Use it for shopping and as a tote bag out and about. Scammers and pickpockets will scan a crowd and your bag will blend in, encouraging them to select others. Useful for grocery shopping at home too.
@@cltinturkey omg love this!! Thanks for sharing! xx
Great words thanks for sharing! xxx
The only time I ever really felt like my personal style totally clashed with the local style was when I moved to the UK. I brought all my normal PNW clothes; baggy and bootcut jeans, flannel shirts, a lot of printed t shirts, hiking boots, birkenstocks, etc. It was honestly terrible. I felt like a literal sasquatch compared to everyone else. I watched plenty of other foreign students I was living near go out and buy whole new wardrobes (which most threw out at the end of thier terms), but I didn't have the money for that 😖. I just stuck with what I had and told myself what mattered was what I was DOING, not what I was wearing. And that worked. Although I did get a pair of Wellingtons which I still own and love dearly, but I used (and still use) the heck out of them 10 years later!
Now, I have truly settled into my personal style and am totally happy wearing my "sasquatch uniform" 🤣 no matter where I am. Although I LOVE getting a traditional dress from whichever country I travel to!
Just wanted to drop a thank you note for you, Alyssa! Your slow fashion hacks are transformative. I'm far from being a minimalist but your channel/ knowledge is definitely impacting me in a very optimistic way. Look forward to learning more!
ahhh thank you so much Olivia this is really great to hear xox
Oh my! What are those amazing sling backs!??? ❤
I truly look forward to each and every one of your videos. And I always see them twice. Thank you for fantastic content.
ahhh Lisbet thank you so much for the support it means a lot ❤❤
Thank you! I'd saved this video and happened to run across it to watch while I packed. Thank you so much.
I look for interesting jewelry from that particular place. Every time I wear that piece, I am reminded of my experiences ❤
Good tips as always! I prefer to fall on the side of blending in, or at least avoid big neon “tourist” signals when I pack. My key pieces are shoes that are comfortable for walking on pavement, grass, or cobblestone, and work in a variety of situations from a museum to coffee.
I agree re the shoes! I have some tried and true pairs,and always try to style around them-gotta be comfortable!
Very smart! I take one pair of hiking shoes or boots and one pair each of walking shoes and sandals. I wear them in for a month or so before the trip. That way I know they'll be perfect on my journey.
Yes! Great tips! xx
Haaa tourist signals lol last time I was in Paris I was wearing beige crocs at a signal. A woman said “yr American?” Yes, how can u tell? Ah the crocs!!! 🤣🤣know what I could care less really
I just returned from a 3-month visit to Europe and spent most of my time in France. You’re advice is spot on! I already loved what I brought and although I hit every vintage shop I could find, I was almost as picky as I am at home. That said, the pull to buy and wear the local style is strong! Unexpectedly, I also experienced some of their heat waves and even my ‘summer’ clothes were too hot. I bought 3 dresses to stay cool and yep, only brought one home. The other two were clothing only for ‘there’. It’s really hard not to be lured, at least, for me! Ha. Thanks, Alyssa! As always, you nailed it.
I enjoy it when your sense of humor shines through. Well done.
In my experience it seems that people think that when they travel their style will be different. I always remind infrequent travelers that when they get to another country they will still be themselves. Bring clothes that you feel good in, don’t buy a new uncomfortable wardrobe that you’ll be fussing over. When in doubt keep it simple, you’re still you, just in another place.
Well said! I do think there is a fun element of playfulness when you go to a place that is new and nobody knows you - finding the balance is key but as you said - being comfortable is the most important part!
I’ve purchased so many hats while on vacation and never wear them at home! I need to stop doing that!! Thanks for the great video! I watch every week for style ideas!
This was so on point :-) I have loved shopping on holidays for years - I always shop items, that I know, I will not wear on the holiday, that I am currently on. That way I have collected so many wonderfull items, that I have and use for years. And I love getting inspired by the vibes in other countries :-)
Ah love this! xx
Love the idea of thinking how you want to move through your destination before you pack.
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Totally true! I was in Sicily this year, I saw there a lot of "sicilian dresses", flowy and very on vacation's vibe, but neither material (synthetic blend) nor colors were not mine, so fortunately I did not buy that dress🙂
ah so wise - i'm sure you made wonderful memories!! xx
Lol the “cowgirl” blazer I bought in Colorado when I was there for a wedding…
Thanks for this video Alyssa! I try on outfits before they go in my suitcase. If they feel uncomfortable or if I can't envision myself wearing it on vacation then they don't come with. BUT I do find that vacations are a great time to step outside of your comfort zone and try something new. Maybe a dress that I can't wear in my cold climate back home now I can experiment and try a new style.
Love this so many truths that I’ve found myself breaking those rules in the past. You mention having a list I always do this now when I shop (reformed shopaholic) it’s really key to me only buying what I need and keeps me focused when there is so much choice and distracting fashion.
Yes! A list is the best first step to considered purchases!
After watching your capsule wardrobe videos, I went on vacation to Montreal, bringing interchangeable items. Mostly comfy basics & a couple of statement pieces - worked well! Visited a number of thrift stores Alyssa had recommended & found some lovely pieces! Thank-you Ms Beltempo 😊 Love the vibe of your videos, like having coffee with a cousin👍
Ahh amazing I'm so glad you enjoyed secondhand shopping in Montreal! ❤️💖 And so glad you enjoy these videos 😍
Don’t hesitate to look in the little touristy shops for missing pieces. Sometimes when they put things on sale to make way for the next season’s items, you can find a good deal. I picked up a very cute, comfy pair of gold sandals for no more than I would pay at a shoe warehouse store in a little boutique outside San Francisco. My own gold sandals had recently bit the dust and although I didn’t really need them for that particular trip, they took up almost no room in my suitcase on the way home. Score!
Thank you for sharing Deborah! xx
Right on time. I just started singing for church weekly and we are given outfit guidance to look cohesive. I am determined to buy nothing new and use this as a chance to get better at expressing my style, am going to turn it into a fun “Wardrobe Simon Says”
Super interesting as always, thank you! I am definitely guilty of having holiday wardrobes that are vastly different from what I would wear at home. I’m trying to get out of the habit of buying ‘holiday clothes’.
ahhh me too! I think it's a balance ... i think there is so much fun in being a bit more playful on vacation - no guilt! xx
For years, we used to holiday in the same part of France. The shops had lots of beachy/ vacation clothing that was tempting in the sunshine! What I did buy, and still have and wear, were a selection of sarongs! I wear them constantly when on holiday and also at home in the summer as an alternative to a dressing gown! I style them as dresses and skirts in very hot weather and I know that they will always fit me😄.
There was also a fantastic leather shop, which sold handmade bags that were quite unique. I used to save up each year and treat myself. I still have every one of them and they just get better with age. They are so well made that even after 15 - 20 years of wear they look amazing.
I did succumb to the temptation of a maxi length leopard print beach cover up on my last pre- pandemic holiday in Gran Canaria, and did wonder if it was a mistake🤦🏻♀️. However, I wear it constantly at home as a glamorous piece of loungewear - it’s certainly had at least 30 wears already 😄
Jewellery is a good souvenir option too. I have some black bangles from the south of France that I bought in the early 80’s! Last September, I had a short city break in Athens and bought some lovely silver earrings that take me back there every time I wear them. Accessories can be a great way to buy into a holiday mood without losing your own style and can be incorporated into your everyday life quite seamlessly. 😊
Loved reading about your souvenir purchases! That beach cover up sounds amazing! xx
Interesting. Personally, I love those beachy items from the Mediterranean and wear them a lot in the summer, wherever I am. They also don't really date, so you can bring them out to enjoy every summer.
Your videos are always so precious! Thank you very much!
Great video! Sometimes when I am on vacation I have to go shopping for something I forgot to pack or for unexpected weather conditions. I was in Budapest when it was unseasonably cold and I did not pack enough warm clothes. I went to a department store and found an inexpensive ribbed black turtleneck that would work under all the tops I brought. It became one of my favorite staples at home because it was so versatile. So - if you have to go shopping, look for that good quality basic that will work on your trip and at home. Hope you are having a great time in Croatia!
oh yes i have had to do this as well. Sometimes we can't plan for everything! Great tip!
Alyssa...great tips for packing and shopping while on vacation! I look for unique items and generally focus on accessories. They often have the ability to flow seamlessly into many different style genres. I have beautiful jewelry from Italy that I still wear and it's always a wonderful reminder of my travels. Thanks again!
Hey Nancy!! I love that - thank you for sharing .. jewelry is a wonderful souvenir !
Hi You should add the outfit of the day so we can link to what you are wearing cause you always look so nice!
I have accepted the fact that I always end up buying something on holidays, because go into local shops is part of it, therefore now I bring less with me like the essentials and leave room for my new items plus when back home I wear this new things that are not common where I live people ask where did you get it and it's great to say in Italy or France etc and the good memories come to me and I smile
I tend to buy a lot of scarves on vacation-they always fit and are a beautiful,easy reminder of the lovely places I have visited. I have made mistakes by feeling I have to buy something from a brand in it’s country of origin,if that makes sense,like H&M in Sweden for example,and regretted a forced purchase. Going to France soon,where previously I made fragrance purchasing mistakes. Sometimes there is a lot of trial and error. Another thing I love to buy is jewelry! Always feel special wearing unique pieces. Loving your European content!
Me too! I treasure my beautiful scarves and unique jewelry pieces bought on various trips! They don’t take up space while travelling and they make an impact on my outfits!
Trial and error is part of it! Thanks for sharing Lola! xx
♥️ going to the Passion Play in Germany 🇩🇪. Then the Viking Jarl river cruise in the Danube river ♥️
I recall 10 years ago (jeez) when I spent a month in southern France visiting family, my style at the time did not fit. Lots of light coloured, airy clothes, whereas I was all about black and bold colours, short skirts and just tight clothes in general (hey, I was 21 and went out a lot lol). The few days in Paris before I left however I felt right at home - so many people wearing black and leather 😁
I love slow fashion and love that you're advocating for it ❤️ I have many item in my closet that are between 10 and 20 years old and I pretty much only buy clothing in second hand stores. Most of my favorite pieces are thrifted items!
AMAZING! Thanks for watching! xx
Thanks, Alyssa! Your videos always provide some new styling tip or trick to try, or a reminder to repeat something when planning travel and day-to-day outfits. 😁❤️ Your beauty always stands out with style and confidence!
I have travelled domestically...so far (well, into southern Canada, too.😊). Buying a piece or more of jewelry or a scarf or both are great souvenirs and bring memories with each wearing!
Just returned from Southern Europe and thanks to your content I felt so good about my clothing choices. And how beautiful is Croatia?! I loved it.
oooh this is amazing!! Hope you had an amazing vacation!! Croatia is AMAZING xx
Great tips... prob needed this reminder before I went on vacation. But also accept that maybe a semi-impractical purchase might work out in the long run if it will be worn occasionally over many years. When just in Italy I bought a very summery patterned dress. The pattern is very me but it doesn't get very hot in summer where I live so will be something I can only wear occasionally. I have light patterned pants I got in Australia to "fit in" 8 years ago and I still wear them during the right weather conditions here. And luckily still love them cos definitely wasn't thinking long term when I bought them.
This is a great point too! We don't have to wear all our clothes ALL THE TIME. Longevity is important! xx
Great tips Alyssa,I always pack to much, but always fall back to my go to favorites! 🇮🇹
Me too! xx
Such helpful videos you post for us…thank you! BTW - just placed my order for a BRAVE Leather belt… I used your code and it saved me 21 bucks.. thank you! Excited to get my Fia vachetta black w gold 😎
I hope you're enjoying your travels! You look radiant! Great tips,thanks!
My personal experience was that I used to have a big divide in my wardrobe between things that were stylish and things that were comfy. And usually mainly took the latter abroad, because there is just no sense in taking your heels abroad if you're walking at least 10km every day, etc. But that always left me feeling like an unstylish 45 y.o. baseball dad, and really triggered me to (questionable) impulse buys at my destination, because I didn't feel like myself.
Nowadays I've learned to pack things that are a bit in between both extremes:(trousers and blazers that have a little stretch in them as a substitute for yoga pants/hoodies, linen button-ups, flats of a knitted fabric to accommodate long walks) It has really helped me to be comfortable abroad, without feeling like you've got the word 'tourist' written on your forehead 😉
Great tips thank you for sharing! xx
Great video. I love most of the pieces I got on vacation because of the memories. Stay away from cheap fabrics and fast fashion from tourist shops. Also, nice things you can use for the home is great too. I have a wine bottle topper in the shape of a pig from Edinburgh 14 years ago that still gives me joy every time I use it.
Great tips! xx
The first point you mentioned about standing out or blending, I usually stand out, even in my home city, people keep asking me where I am from and offering me tours 😅 I guess I always look like a tourist
This video got me thinking about my vacation purchases, at least those I remember buying - Marmot fleece pants I got because we were snowed in and I didn’t want to bother with the hotel laundry, the hoodies, the hiking pants. Every single thing was about keeping warm or staying dry in the great outdoors probably because that’s mostly where I go on vacation.
It’s hard to pack a carry-on when you’re going someplace rainy or cold or when you’re between seasons and aren’t sure what the weather will be like.
ah yes definitely ... clothes for cold weather and multi-seasons take up so much space xx
What a GREAT message Alyssa!!!! I usually overpack so am going to twin myself to being only basics that will fit into a carry on, and they must be “must have” items that feed my soul when I wear them and put a spring in my step. I don’t follow trends and my style ranges from boho to street chic with a bit of an edge sometimes. Sharing your advice!!!!
Thank you Michelle! Im' glad you found this helpful - that is great advice! Thank you for sharing! xx
You highlighted a lot of truths (for me) that I haven’t heard anyone else talk about before - you really get it!
Great, realistic tips - as always! I still struggle with a bit of a vintage shopping addiction so I always, ALWAYS, fall into the vintage shopping trap whenever I visit a new place.
I do put the “blinders” on and I think I am getting quite the hang of it. I don’t buy colours that don’t go with anything in my wardrobe (anything bright / neon) and styles that are too fussy or delicate that can only be worn on special occasions.
ahhh OK yes. I should have mentioned vintage. It is always a wild card for me too, especially when I travel! We have the same blinders it sounds like!! :) Thank you for watching Lia and editing :) xoxo
Thank you Alyssa! You always make me smile with your honest tips on fashion & life!
ahhhh thank you Laura xx
Always sooo enjoyable! When I travel, I take only black and white items. Everything goes with everything and there isn’t an “orphan” item that somehow has made its way into your luggage that really doesn’t work. And, Audrey would approve! When are you coming back to Canada? Also, love the insights into Croatia with which you have provided us. Seemingly this is a destination that is growing in popularity.
Im so glad you enjoyed the Croatia content - a longer video is coming! Coming back in the fall:)
Alyssa! How do you manage to get back to people so quickly? You are amazing!
Great idea! I’ve finally learned after 50 yo to pick a color scheme of two or three colors when packing to avoid Hvg nothing to wear!! Smart👍👍
Hello Alyssa! This was a great little visit. You have helped me learn to "know myself." And it is a great lesson! Thank you!!!
ahhh I am honoured Mary! Thank you for being here! xx
Fantastic tips Alyssa! I also like to find Thrift and vintage shops where I go and flea markets. With applying the same things you talked about, I can find something to fit into my wardrobe. Whatever I find there is a good price, unique and a wonderful souvineer attached to a special memory. When I was in Florence Italy, I found a little market and I bought some beautiful silk fringe in the colors of my home, so I knew I could use it to trim a pillow! I also found a couple of vintage necklaces that I love.
Yes - secondhand markets have so many beautiful things when traveling! Love your multipurpose uses! xx
I think certain things like linen are classic and some countries do those clothes really well. Bought a lovely dress on a provencal market that lasted years. But you are right, it's all about enjoying the place you are going. Love your vlogs😘
Jamaica - I bought so many pareo-type cover ups in wild patterns. Thought I would use them at home by my pool - I don't. Those fruity banana-pineapple-rum drinks made me think I needed those tie dyed items in every color. LOL.
The three style word concept is interesting. I feel mine are similar to yours. Throughout the years maybe one or two have shifted around, especially since I am older now. It is interesting to rediscover that most of my style preferences are similar to what they were 30+ years ago. Classic and minimal are much more who I am. Also, packing simple items or classic as you referenced is the best way to go. Great info, thanks
ahhh i love this - I have at least 2 that always stay the same ... typically classic and minimal :)
@@AlyssaBeltempo Yes!
Ha it’s funny….when I’m on holiday I try to have a “base” and go on mini trips from there ( air b&b!)- I like to LIVE in a place for a moment. I also like to pack Extremely light….so that I can buy when I’m there. Shoes are my chosen “souvenir “ from a place: I buy a pair in every new country I visit: sneakers in Seoul, red velvet peep toe heels in Paris, Beautiful leather platforms in Bardolino…etc. I really enjoy my process even though I know it may be stressful for some. I completely agree with you on the waiting and thinking about a piece before you buy. Good info! 🤙🏝❤️Aloha!
Great advice (as usual), Alyssa. Looking forward to your follow-up video - am hoping you may comment on what you’d wear in Barcelona or comment on whether Italian / Spanish women have similar style aesthetic, or not. So appreciate you and your channel.
I hope it helps Grace ! Thank you for watching! xx
If I buy anything on vacation, it’s accessories. Scarves and jewelry are easy to pack back and age well. I have a favorite scarf that I got in Australia on vacation in 1988, and I still get compliments every time I wear it!
Your way of analyzing things about our wardrobes goes so far above any other channel here👍👍such as 1) what vibe do you want in dressing where yr traveling to, and 2) what not to buy, really helped me a ton Alyssa, thx I’m guilty of over shopping 🙃 but learning so much from you!! Have an upcoming trip to Scandinavia and living in a warm beachy climate I can’t come home with woolens. Hey plz share how you clean the collar and cuffs of your button downs. When traveling I research what is great to bring home from that country? Such as leather or gold from Italy, etc
Love the kitten heels Alyssa! What designer are they please? I have bought some amazing pieces in Spain, Turkey and France-had my husband with me who actually liked helping me find the local specialties. Hermes scarf from France, leather shoes from Spain and a leather coat from Istanbul. No hubby to travel with now so I do cherish those items we bought together and they were classic enough that 22 years later I still wear.
Ahh thank you for sharing Katie. My slingbacks are secondhand Manolo Blahnik :)
Guilty of most of these!🤣 And trying to realign myself on vacation. I discovered most of the brightly colored or wildly patterned clothing items purchased on tropical vacations were the first to get donated after several months in my northern climate. So pathetic. A great video to help those of us who struggle!
ahhh me too. It can be difficult! Not pathetic at all - very normal and human! Good lessons to keep in mind for future :)
Looking forward to your outfits for different cities!!
hope you like it! xx
I hate wasting time shopping when on holiday. So I usually make lists of the things that I need, research some information about local shops and then figure out what things I potentially can buy in the city I am going to. As a result, I usually know where I need to go and what I need to be looking for there.
It doesn't mean that I never buy things that are not on my list but when I do I always try to think about how that thing (clothes, bag, shoes, hat) will fit into my wardrobe and where I will wear it.
I loved the video. When traveling I always try to buy a piece of jewelry. Doesn’t have to be real deal. It can be costume. I found a really nice necklace at a thrift shop. Pearl design. I get compliments and I always this of where and when I found this little gem. I can’t wait to start traveling again. We took a long break because of Covid. Keep the great videos coming I love your channel ❤️
Great tips. I’ve bought stuff to fit into the culture I’m in. Got home and gave the stuff away. Doesn’t always work at home. 👍❤️
Love this! I do allow myself some shopping head space when I travel (which is a lot!) I agreed with the misses! Nantucket and preppy is not me BUT I do plan and save for big purchases when I go to certain locations ie Italy! I finally realized the leather is SO much better and so are the choices! Bags, gloves and most of all jackets! So I do a bit of “planning” so I can pick up an item or two that are special and I have a fabulous memory about!
This is the BeST! Thank you so much.
Super helpful tips! I have a tendency to do the exact things you were talking about… waiting until my destination to buy things I “need” and/or buying something that is style specific to an area and not exactly what I’d wear at home. Thank you so much for sharing your insight! Love your channel ❤️
Loved the video! Re: tension between tourist/fitting in, as others have commented, same goes for hometown as well. Also, I wonder if you might consider offering a list of style words that we might choose from? I'm having a hard time coming up with my 3 - TIA!😄
She has a video on it! “Do this to find your style” it’s fabulous 😁
YES - As Morgan said below, this video could be helpful: th-cam.com/video/eb-BmiVqp-I/w-d-xo.html but I will do this either in shorts or tiktok and have a list you can screenshot :)
@@AlyssaBeltempo Thank you! I did see the video and loved it... just having difficult coming up with my style words lol - thank you!😍
Very thoughtful tips. Thank you.
I think the lilac blouse looks beautiful on you whether you wear it with jeans or skirts.
I am on vacation this week and thanks to you i am able to focus on the elements of my 3 words. This video also is timely and rich as always Alyssa :))))
ahhhh enjoy your vacation have a wonderful time! Let me know how it goes with your 3 words and if it helped your packing! xx
I used to make all the mistakes you mentioned here. Nowadays I buy accessories on trips: like hats, scarfs or jewellery-they are nice souvenirs and also much higher chance I will wear them later especially if I choose pieces that fit my style.
I totally agree with take what you need on vacation!
Hello Alyssa, can you do a video about choosing the right pair of jeans, what jeans are perfect for different body types and how to style and dress them. I love wearing jeans and I do want to try some cuts but I do not know if they look good for my body type and also I struggle finding the style that goes for my body, I'm forever stuck with skinny jeans. Thanks in advance 😍😍
Hi Jana! I did this video a while back and kept it relatively general : th-cam.com/video/mLGBvDm1JVU/w-d-xo.html hopefully it helps! I will consider your suggestion as an update - thank you for that! xx
@@AlyssaBeltempo thank you for the link, Alyssa! I am watching your videos every day!! I love your outfit ideas!!! ❤️❤️
Another fantastic video! I have fallen into some of these impulse buy traps, but no more. You are looking even more amazing and can't wait for the next video.
My #1 issue when packing for a vacation are shoes. I usually walk a lot so I need really comfortable shoes, and I end up going for my Skechers. But they surely bring any outfit down LOL
Appreciating your 'words of wisdom'.
Hi Alyssa. Absolutely love that soft lilac blouse. Cheers Bev. Xx
I think you would look great in anything you have the figure I had in my younger days. I love those knots you do in t shirts shirts it looks great providing a svelte figure
I like to shop when I travel. However, I usually get one special item. In my community, the only clothing is pretty basic. We have a thrift store and it does a booming business, but it is not all that fashionable. Great finds are few and far between. We have a store that sells fishing gear. Hi viz waterproof clothing, t-shirts and hoodies. So when I travel, I like to pick up something different. I always take the things I need, so I am not hunting for stuff when I could be doing something else. But I always love to buy myself a treat! Maybe a cashmere sweater or a nice skirt or dress. Something I cannot find at home! You have to be careful to choose stuff that you will wear at home. Lots of cute summer dresses in warm countries but will I wear them back home? You always have very stylish outfirs and I like that you look I. Your closet. I am becoming a good packer!
Love this Hallie! THanks for sharing :)
I research local designers.
When I try something on, I also try to get out of the fitting room, usually for the light, and talk to the vendor about their recommendations about the City. Try to move around a bit to see if the garment feels natural to you.
love this!!
I just love how on point everything you say is. ❤️
ahhh this is very kind thank you Morana xx
CIAO Alyssa, I did had the unexoected experience of loosing our cash budget un The street. Haoan @ Guadalajara gathering for restaurants. But at léase, My limited budget was thight but the best experience, was ti shop Smart, Even for souvenirs shop fron Tequila, and other tienes more towns @ Jalisco, wish we're more smart. And not exactly the key chain or post picture from Tlaquepaque, but something more personalize for my family. For example 2 years algo My mother brought to me an oversizad pink embroired blouse, wish are very comon un my culture. I got something like those cool tops. That al time was raining un The diferente towns, but our one week tourusting was awesome. What really help that it was the family trip our budget did not was hurt 😅.
CIAO girl, this was My trip to Jalisco. Were trending was nota My issue, thank god 🤜
Thank you for sharing Ivone xx
Hola. Me encantan tus videos. Quiero comentarte que en vacaciones yo no compro nada, quizá un pequeño recuerdo pero nada de ropa... Lo que si te cuento es que en mi vida cotidiana me.he vuelto compradora compulsiva (ropa), llevo un año asi y no encuentro como romper con esto..
hello Cony, leí tu comentario hace unos días y me he quedado meditando sobre ello. No soy Alyssa, pero si quieres puedo decirte mi comentario, si no, puedes ignorarlo :) Es duro, entiendo tu situación de comprar mucha ropa, pero quizás debemos examinar que la verdadera razón es algo mucho más profundo, algo que está en nuestro corazón o alma... y que la acción de sentir satisfacción por comprar algo (yo compro zapatos y ropa 🙄) es para llenar algo en nuestro corazón. Una vez alguien dijo 'si no lastima a nadie, está bien' pero quizás esta acción no lastime a nadie a otra persona, pero sí a una misma, no crees? emocionalmente y hasta en las finanzas. Si esto te causa mucho problema quizás debes buscar consejero profesional, es fácil dar un consejo en un comentario en TH-cam y es gratis! suena muy fácil, pero es mucho más dificil en la vida real. Lo bueno es que sabes que es una situación que es problemática, yo lo sé también, para mí y espero poder cambiar y limitar mis compras. Sabes lo que hice el otro día, salí a caminar, vi la naturaleza y eso me hizo olvidar de esos problemas. Te deseo de corazón que estés más tranquila y que seas feliz si compras, o si disfrutas la naturaleza o lo que desees hacer 💗 También es buena idea compartir con la comunidad en YT, a veces ayuda a desahogarse 😸
@@NinaNinaNB hola. Nina... Aprecio mucho tu comentario, me parece que entiendes perfectamente por lo que estoy pasando. Es muy importante buscar la causa y eso lo podría averiguar con un profesional... En el caso de este canal, me encanta como Alyssa hace propuestas de aprovechar la ropa que tenemos, sin comprar más, eso me motiva...
really love yor thoughts about being loud vs blending in a bit more 🥰 + the great views😁 :)
I love this advice! Super helpful. ☺️
Glad you liked it! xx
I have been guilty of buying things on vacation and getting them home and wondering what I was thinking. I also love to thrift on vacation and do know what I love to wear so I will buy things because with thrifting you will never see that item again. I have so many thrifted things that I wear on repeat for years.
I’ve made all the clothing mistakes mentioned. Not checking weather and scrambling. Or being enticed by clothing or shoes I never wore.
Now I just look for unusual home decor items - a Murano lamp shade, local art, and even an antique sofa set have made their way home with me. I enjoy these, and the memories they bring, every day.
Never want to take much loved items away in case luggage gets lost.
Otherwise place on carryon luggage where possible.
When flying it’s just carry-on for me. Anything I buy when I’m away gets mailed home on the last day of my trip. If I’m heading somewhere else before going home I mail it to a friend who lives close by.