I'm also in my 40s and spent most of my life single. I've grown to like it. It's great not to feel needy for a relationship, to be independent, and to go in whatever direction I want to go in whenever I like. Being single and thinking a lot, it turns out, gives me great insight into how people think and act, so I went back to college and now work part time trying to serve people in a way that most others can't. It gives my life great purpose, and I know that if I was in a relationship, I'd probably never have a chance to do what I do. Things are not always rosey, and I often think way too much, but it makes me better at what I do. Also, the older I look, the more seriously people take me, so the more grey my hair gets and the more wrinkles I get on my face, the more people respect me. Im only getting warmed up. Not needing things is like a breath of fresh air, and not needing a relationship had freed me up in a huge way. I wish everyone here all the best.
Agree, I’ve been single for years and I for the most part enjoy solitude. It’s a super-power to not need someone in your life - it’s just a shame Most people will never develop this ability
Aaron as a woman... who is blk. Women just want to know that you have a plan that has them in mind. That you like yourself and value them. Date, whoever you want. Find a social group that would make the "meeting women" less challenging. I, too, struggle with finding a mate. Particularly as a black woman who is highly educated. It's hard when you are delayed socially. Everyone assumes that because you look a certain way, men are chasing you. I'm taking my own advice and joining clubs. With driving, I imagine it doesn't allow for much people time, but I could be wrong.
Agreed, particularly about how if you look a certain way people approach you less than you’d think. A passing “hi” without cornering or obstructing someone is a perfectly wide door! Wish more stable attractive men 34+ would use it! 😂
I'm a bw as well and I appreciate how he isn't bashing white women as the reason for his singlehood. I was on TikTok shorts and this video cued up...these devices...lol...but I stayed and listened and I wish I could bottle up my comfort level of loneliness and sell it. I in general do not enjoy most people. Many people are selfish, yet not self aware of how thoughtless they are, so of course I attract the selfish...men AND women. But, Tbf I've become this person I am today in my 40's. I have a 27 and a 29 year old...no grands and single for 6 years and I like it for the most part, however it's important to be self motivated with performing daily tasks like don't let that pile up because I can since I dwell alone. This man has never had marriage or long term relationships nor children so he's wanting right now. He'll be fine. I see him meeting a woman maybe 5 years younger than him and he is just want she needs and vice versa and they can pop out two and stay healthy and keep it pushing...but, but WHO wants kids today? I say a brief prayer of thanks that the level of incessant insanity did not permeate EVERYTHING when I was young and dumb raising my two. I get it. Life must go on and if cuckoo people are raising kids then sane folk may need to balance out the asylum by birthing caretakers.
I drive as well. Started at Ajax Turner (Budweiser) distributorship out of Nashville. Right on but I've never had to do the containers. Heard about them. I came from Memphis and a buddy would tell me how bad it could be.
Hi Aaron. I just found your channel. I think you seem like a really great guy, and you hardly look 40. I know it’s easier said then done when people tell you to be more confident, but you really seem like an attractive and interesting guy. I think if you continue to put yourself out there that someone in your area would absolutely be interested in getting to know you. Best of luck!
I’m a driver too but I haul an end dump trailer. Intermodal seems like a huge pain, I always see you guys waiting in long lines at ports. Also almost always see your trailer wheels wobbling like they’re about to separate from the trailer. I bet those trailers are rarely maintained. One trick i use is stick a zip tie in the electrical socket along with the plug so it’s nice and tight and the lights don’t flicker.
My dad used to do alot of conex boxes(shipping containers) runs pretty frequently in the company Mack and tilt deck Landoll trailer. He'd be gone from 5 in the morning until 6 pm that night, it made trucking look cool but I'd rather stuck to a one ton pickup with a 20-something foot trailer doing local hotshot
I had considered driving those but never actually have...but didn't know about all the problems so I'm sticking to dry van for now it's much easier for me, I'm pretty petite and not that strong to deal with all that 😅
I pull van trailers but I know what you mean. Picked up a trailer the other day where the previous driver ripped off a mud flap and tried to reattach it with a shoe lace and zip tie instead of just getting a new flap. I bet intermodal is worse tho
Safe travels! Would you recommend truck driving as a career? I love driving, especially at distance, but I'm not sure what it's like to haul in a semi.
As a tri-axle dump driver in my off season, I say it's worth it. Especially as a backup. Class b In the north east is a joke. They pay almost nothing for the amount of time behind the wheel. Class A is where you wanna go. 💵💵💵 I f***ed up and got my B....
@aaronsjournal139 I always wanted to try being a trucker for a year to see what that life is about….I appreciate your honesty. I wish you the best of luck. You aren’t alone. I’ve been single forever (mid 40s) and feel like I’ll be alone forever….
Hi Aaron, I drove a junk removal truck for 10 years for my business. (Not quite the same as your style of driving), but similar in some ways. Great channel and wish the best for you sir. Im also an author, Id love to give you a copy of my book if that's ok.
I don’t honestly see how you don’t have a woman. You just have to put yourself out there which is hard as shit being on the spectrum. I am too shy to ask for help most of the time or something I want because I am so tender hearted it hurts my feelings when people tell me no lmao 😂 😅. If you’re religious then start going to church or something. You’re really cute. 😊
I watched your first video from 2 months ago and I’d like to give some advice. I’m 48, white, and I’ve been married to my second wife for 16 years. Up until I was almost 30, I was very lonely and socially awkward and never had luck with girls. At around 27, I chatted with a white girl online and set up a date. Although I didn’t find her attractive, she was sweet and fun to hang around, so I stuck with it and married her about a year later. But, after the marriage, she became lazy and controlling. Plus, I wasn’t attracted to her anyway, so the marriage was a disaster and we divorced. I married her BECAUSE I was lonely and willing to accept anything. This was a HUGE mistake. At 30, I met a cute Chinese girl at my job and I just walked up and introduced myself and we talked from there. She didn’t talk much and had a strong accent, but she was so sweet. Plus, she was pretty and hardworking. She was just full of spark and such a refreshing change for me. We got married a couple of years later when I was 32 and she was 31. I felt much better going into this marriage because I knew I was getting married for the right reason this time. I was 33 when my daughter was born and 36 when my son was born. Bottom line is that I’ve been on the lonely side of life and I’ve been in traditional marriage too. As hard as it is to be lonely, it’s still better than being in a bad relationship or going through a divorce. So many men have been burned by women for no reason because they jumped into the fire without being rational. My advice to you would be to meet a nice non-white girl that has a distinct accent. Asian and Latin foreign born women have traditional mindsets about men and they’re just more respectful toward people in general. Plus, they respect their appearance and keep themselves attractive. Stay away from American or European women, especially white women. Stay away from non-white “westernized” women that speak and act like a diva. Also, stay away from a single mom unless the kids are already grown. You’re an attractive guy and look good for your age, so I don’t see any physical reasons why you can’t meet a girl. I think you’ve just been looking in the wrong places. I wouldn’t stress too much about having kids because they really are a lot of work and I don’t like a lot of things I see going on with schools either. Personally, I like Asian women and I think they’re good for guys that have struggled with women. Good luck, Aaron.
Hey, can you make an email so people can contact you in your "about" section? I think your channel is important and needed. I'd like to help you out, I also have some questions.
I'm also in my 40s and spent most of my life single. I've grown to like it. It's great not to feel needy for a relationship, to be independent, and to go in whatever direction I want to go in whenever I like. Being single and thinking a lot, it turns out, gives me great insight into how people think and act, so I went back to college and now work part time trying to serve people in a way that most others can't. It gives my life great purpose, and I know that if I was in a relationship, I'd probably never have a chance to do what I do. Things are not always rosey, and I often think way too much, but it makes me better at what I do. Also, the older I look, the more seriously people take me, so the more grey my hair gets and the more wrinkles I get on my face, the more people respect me. Im only getting warmed up. Not needing things is like a breath of fresh air, and not needing a relationship had freed me up in a huge way.
I wish everyone here all the best.
Agree, I’ve been single for years and I for the most part enjoy solitude. It’s a super-power to not need someone in your life - it’s just a shame
Most people will never develop this ability
Aaron as a woman... who is blk. Women just want to know that you have a plan that has them in mind. That you like yourself and value them. Date, whoever you want. Find a social group that would make the "meeting women" less challenging. I, too, struggle with finding a mate. Particularly as a black woman who is highly educated. It's hard when you are delayed socially. Everyone assumes that because you look a certain way, men are chasing you. I'm taking my own advice and joining clubs. With driving, I imagine it doesn't allow for much people time, but I could be wrong.
Agreed, particularly about how if you look a certain way people approach you less than you’d think.
A passing “hi” without cornering or obstructing someone is a perfectly wide door! Wish more stable attractive men 34+ would use it! 😂
I'm a bw as well and I appreciate how he isn't bashing white women as the reason for his singlehood. I was on TikTok shorts and this video cued up...these devices...lol...but I stayed and listened and I wish I could bottle up my comfort level of loneliness and sell it. I in general do not enjoy most people. Many people are selfish, yet not self aware of how thoughtless they are, so of course I attract the selfish...men AND women. But, Tbf I've become this person I am today in my 40's. I have a 27 and a 29 year old...no grands and single for 6 years and I like it for the most part, however it's important to be self motivated with performing daily tasks like don't let that pile up because I can since I dwell alone. This man has never had marriage or long term relationships nor children so he's wanting right now. He'll be fine. I see him meeting a woman maybe 5 years younger than him and he is just want she needs and vice versa and they can pop out two and stay healthy and keep it pushing...but, but WHO wants kids today? I say a brief prayer of thanks that the level of incessant insanity did not permeate EVERYTHING when I was young and dumb raising my two. I get it. Life must go on and if cuckoo people are raising kids then sane folk may need to balance out the asylum by birthing caretakers.
i've only played American Truck Simulator. I like hauling frac tanks with my little Mack. Happy Friday!
Thanks for shouting out deppressed unwanted man, he is a good guy who is going through hell, he needs love!!!
just seeing your new videos makes me happy in my day, keep it up man we're all rooting for you
I drive as well. Started at Ajax Turner (Budweiser) distributorship out of Nashville. Right on but I've never had to do the containers. Heard about them. I came from Memphis and a buddy would tell me how bad it could be.
Hi Aaron. I just found your channel. I think you seem like a really great guy, and you hardly look 40. I know it’s easier said then done when people tell you to be more confident, but you really seem like an attractive and interesting guy. I think if you continue to put yourself out there that someone in your area would absolutely be interested in getting to know you. Best of luck!
What's up l. I do intermodal too here in los angeles. It's tough! ASD I know all about it brother. Let's keep moving forward!
I work in IT but being a trucker sounds so bad azz
Happy Friday buddy! Drive safe! Cheers!
Not only that. There was a chassis shortage a few weeks ago lol. I order the containers, i appreciate you guys delivering them
Yeah, I remember that. Things got a little crazy at the railyard.
Relating.. relating.. yep, you’ve got this! I love it! You are putting such a smile on my face!
2 days ago you were shocked about 1k subs, you already at 3k, keep it up bro 💪
Hi 👋🏾 Happy Friday, from London UK 🇬🇧
Thanks for giving a friendly shout-out to DUM, he needs it
Happy Friday! Awesome to see you working
I’m a driver too but I haul an end dump trailer. Intermodal seems like a huge pain, I always see you guys waiting in long lines at ports. Also almost always see your trailer wheels wobbling like they’re about to separate from the trailer. I bet those trailers are rarely maintained. One trick i use is stick a zip tie in the electrical socket along with the plug so it’s nice and tight and the lights don’t flicker.
Your such a good looking guy like how don’t you know this
I am 22 and I enjoy trucking. Very fulfilling job in my opinion.
My dad used to do alot of conex boxes(shipping containers) runs pretty frequently in the company Mack and tilt deck Landoll trailer. He'd be gone from 5 in the morning until 6 pm that night, it made trucking look cool but I'd rather stuck to a one ton pickup with a 20-something foot trailer doing local hotshot
You seem actually happy
😁 We will be here to chat
Happy Friday 🎊
Aaron,…….
You are a very Handsome & Good Looking guy,….. 😊🌈🏅🏆🧸💖✨
Hi from a european truck driver!
Good roads to all of us!
I had considered driving those but never actually have...but didn't know about all the problems so I'm sticking to dry van for now it's much easier for me, I'm pretty petite and not that strong to deal with all that 😅
I'm a female trucker 👋 I drive double bellies
I pull van trailers but I know what you mean. Picked up a trailer the other day where the previous driver ripped off a mud flap and tried to reattach it with a shoe lace and zip tie instead of just getting a new flap. I bet intermodal is worse tho
Cheers from a FedEx driver! Be safe out there.
Happy friday my dude
Never driven on one. But I have ridden next to two double stacked ones on a freight train
Hot shot from Pasco, Washington to Portland, Oregon.
looking good with stubble bro, you sound really good here.
Safe travels! Would you recommend truck driving as a career? I love driving, especially at distance, but I'm not sure what it's like to haul in a semi.
As a tri-axle dump driver in my off season, I say it's worth it. Especially as a backup. Class b In the north east is a joke. They pay almost nothing for the amount of time behind the wheel. Class A is where you wanna go. 💵💵💵 I f***ed up and got my B....
Hope your weekend is great my friend.
👍🏻👍🏻
❤️👍🏽🙏🏾
Sending love from Oregon!
Thanks! I lived in Portland for a short time.
@@aaronsjournal139 You are very welcome! I'm looking forward to your future posts and seeing how you grow.
same here, sending love from the bright corners of Portland!
❤💙❤💙
@aaronsjournal139 I always wanted to try being a trucker for a year to see what that life is about….I appreciate your honesty. I wish you the best of luck. You aren’t alone. I’ve been single forever (mid 40s) and feel like I’ll be alone forever….
Do a half marathon running on Legos that was hilarious dude I feel like that a lot
Be well brother
I'm just a B class trucker lol. I do more local stuff bringing the book fairs to the schools.
Happy Friday :)
Drive safe sir
You look amazing almost like a model😮
Happy Friday bro
happy weekend brotha!
Nooo not the legos!! 😂
Your hair looks great!
Hi Aaron, I drove a junk removal truck for 10 years for my business. (Not quite the same as your style of driving), but similar in some ways. Great channel and wish the best for you sir. Im also an author, Id love to give you a copy of my book if that's ok.
Truck driving doesn’t pay enough. I’d rather deliver pizza
It's not for everyone. I do ok though.
Class a is a gold mine how they treat class b In the northeast.
Intermodal always seemed complex
I haven't done the containers .just dump trucks
are you still single mr aaron?
Hey I drive too!!!!
I don’t honestly see how you don’t have a woman. You just have to put yourself out there which is hard as shit being on the spectrum. I am too shy to ask for help most of the time or something I want because I am so tender hearted it hurts my feelings when people tell me no lmao 😂 😅. If you’re religious then start going to church or something. You’re really cute. 😊
You would make more money if you did long haul driving or work for ups or FedEx as a freight driver
That is almost certainly true, however, I don't have any interest in long haul or touch freight type positions.
He is so good looking. I just KNOW he will have a gf soon.
How is the pay? Six figures?
I wish, lol.
😂. That’s pretty bad if you would rather step on legos!!!! Lol
You're cute!
My soon to be ex is a truck driver. It's triggering for me lol.
Uh oh, sorry to hear that!
Date a Filipina :) or try Filipina Cupid
I watched your first video from 2 months ago and I’d like to give some advice. I’m 48, white, and I’ve been married to my second wife for 16 years. Up until I was almost 30, I was very lonely and socially awkward and never had luck with girls. At around 27, I chatted with a white girl online and set up a date. Although I didn’t find her attractive, she was sweet and fun to hang around, so I stuck with it and married her about a year later. But, after the marriage, she became lazy and controlling. Plus, I wasn’t attracted to her anyway, so the marriage was a disaster and we divorced. I married her BECAUSE I was lonely and willing to accept anything. This was a HUGE mistake. At 30, I met a cute Chinese girl at my job and I just walked up and introduced myself and we talked from there. She didn’t talk much and had a strong accent, but she was so sweet. Plus, she was pretty and hardworking. She was just full of spark and such a refreshing change for me. We got married a couple of years later when I was 32 and she was 31. I felt much better going into this marriage because I knew I was getting married for the right reason this time. I was 33 when my daughter was born and 36 when my son was born. Bottom line is that I’ve been on the lonely side of life and I’ve been in traditional marriage too. As hard as it is to be lonely, it’s still better than being in a bad relationship or going through a divorce. So many men have been burned by women for no reason because they jumped into the fire without being rational. My advice to you would be to meet a nice non-white girl that has a distinct accent. Asian and Latin foreign born women have traditional mindsets about men and they’re just more respectful toward people in general. Plus, they respect their appearance and keep themselves attractive. Stay away from American or European women, especially white women. Stay away from non-white “westernized” women that speak and act like a diva. Also, stay away from a single mom unless the kids are already grown. You’re an attractive guy and look good for your age, so I don’t see any physical reasons why you can’t meet a girl. I think you’ve just been looking in the wrong places. I wouldn’t stress too much about having kids because they really are a lot of work and I don’t like a lot of things I see going on with schools either. Personally, I like Asian women and I think they’re good for guys that have struggled with women. Good luck, Aaron.
Listen to what this guy is telling you. Stay away from white western women. I only choose latinas. Asian. Chaldean women.
You come across as a dude with a serious chip on your shoulder.
Unwanted and depressed with a job like that and your 44 and still look good? You have nothing to be depressed about my friend
its way deeper than that, but you are at least half right, one should focus on potential and the positive aspects of ones life
Hey, can you make an email so people can contact you in your "about" section? I think your channel is important and needed. I'd like to help you out, I also have some questions.