Yay, you're back, I missed your pda content. And I'm really sorry for what happened to you. When someone gets cancelled, I always try to research it and make sure it's not a smear campaign. It's actually my pda that prevents me from going with everyone else and doing my own research. I don't have a social media so I had no idea why you disappeared, but I'm glad you're still with us ❤
It sounds like an horrific ordeal to go through and the allegations extremely ignorant and cruel! I'm so glad you're back Harry..bloody well done on getting through it.
Good to see you back, Harry. I'd been wondering what happened. I'm sorry to hear all the crap that happened but I'm so glad you've emerged and are rising above it
Ok, I watched an hour, I don't think I need to know more. I probably would never have believed the accusation, not that I would have ever heard it. It doesn't seem consistent with your personality. At any rate, I believe you now, and I will continue to recommend you. Your content is worth it. Please keep producing it.
I am sorry Paula but it is a misconception that anyone can ‘feel more’ than another. Autistic folk feel a lot. The problem is for me at least, that a) we tend to be wired to think subjectively and put those feelings to one side while we acquire more data - and b) we struggle to get tonality and expression into our voices that convey the depth of feeling (usually hurt and frustration) that comes from being piled on by practically everyone we meet.
Interesting perspective, I do think some people feel things more intensely than others, the behaviours and actions some engage in certainly give that impression. Some people lack vital skills in navigating their emotions, leading to a greater intensity for sure, hence why therapies like DBT can be useful to help those with particular presentations, providing tools they were lacking and allowing them to navigate their intense emotional experiences more safely.
@@paularicePDAADHD BTW i am not judging - you have obviously helped Harry by agreeing that the smear campaign was not his fault, which is a great thing to do. My issue is that autistic people are 8 x more likely to commit suicide than average. That is a lot of suffering going on inside. So ofc different people are sensitive to different emotions - and here, it is harrowing simply having to observe someone absorb the shame that belongs to others. And i know - I KNOW - 'HG Tudor' is like Hannibal Lecter - and will have been spying on Harry like he does to me and many others, just waiting for an opportunity to strike out. (my other profile is not sharing this comment? - can you see one reply or two?)
Harry... using the word "hysteria" in your description is not a good word choice. That's an instant red flag and makes me not even want to listen to this. You will not use outdated terminology to further degrade ND women- something about that statement immediately made me distrust you. Think about what you are saying and check your arrogance. If you were accused of hurting multiple women... SOMETHING HAPPENED. Even if it's not what they say happened... something did. And maybe it was just poor treatment and disrespect- I can tell by the word choice you are quick to call women crazy. Any man who is accused of anything by other women should never use that word. I have been accused of things I have not done so I get how horrible that is- just know that to women in the United States--using that word to describe women has a very bad connotation. It immediately made me take pause- please be careful in the way you describe this
I understand your criticism however it completely misses the fact that Harry is a victim of a heinous crime and so completely dismisses and invalidates the real crime and very real pain caused by it. The person who falsely accused him and those who jumped on the back of the accusation are the ones who are doing the disservice to genuine female victims, like myself. They're the ones making it harder for genuine victims to be believed. I recommend listening to/reading Harry's official statement regarding the accusations where he delineates and addresses each individual allegation.
No smoke without fire is a cognitive bias. However, hysteria is an outdated term and probably shouldn't be used, yet in this day and age many people aren't intentionally using it in a gendered way, infact I could imagine using the word to describe a man acting hysterical, or when describing some who was in 'hysterics' I.e. Laughing uncontrollably.
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Yay, you're back, I missed your pda content. And I'm really sorry for what happened to you. When someone gets cancelled, I always try to research it and make sure it's not a smear campaign. It's actually my pda that prevents me from going with everyone else and doing my own research.
I don't have a social media so I had no idea why you disappeared, but I'm glad you're still with us ❤
I didn't know anything had happened! I've been recommending you left and right....
It sounds like an horrific ordeal to go through and the allegations extremely ignorant and cruel! I'm so glad you're back Harry..bloody well done on getting through it.
Good to see you back, Harry. I'd been wondering what happened. I'm sorry to hear all the crap that happened but I'm so glad you've emerged and are rising above it
Ok, I watched an hour, I don't think I need to know more. I probably would never have believed the accusation, not that I would have ever heard it. It doesn't seem consistent with your personality. At any rate, I believe you now, and I will continue to recommend you. Your content is worth it. Please keep producing it.
I've missed your content and had no idea where you'd gone. I am so sorry you are going through this but greatly respect your attitude.
Is the cat alright?
I am sorry Paula but it is a misconception that anyone can ‘feel more’ than another. Autistic folk feel a lot. The problem is for me at least, that a) we tend to be wired to think subjectively and put those feelings to one side while we acquire more data - and b) we struggle to get tonality and expression into our voices that convey the depth of feeling (usually hurt and frustration) that comes from being piled on by practically everyone we meet.
Interesting perspective, I do think some people feel things more intensely than others, the behaviours and actions some engage in certainly give that impression.
Some people lack vital skills in navigating their emotions, leading to a greater intensity for sure, hence why therapies like DBT can be useful to help those with particular presentations, providing tools they were lacking and allowing them to navigate their intense emotional experiences more safely.
@@paularicePDAADHD BTW i am not judging - you have obviously helped Harry by agreeing that the smear campaign was not his fault, which is a great thing to do. My issue is that autistic people are 8 x more likely to commit suicide than average. That is a lot of suffering going on inside. So ofc different people are sensitive to different emotions - and here, it is harrowing simply having to observe someone absorb the shame that belongs to others. And i know - I KNOW - 'HG Tudor' is like Hannibal Lecter - and will have been spying on Harry like he does to me and many others, just waiting for an opportunity to strike out. (my other profile is not sharing this comment? - can you see one reply or two?)
Harry... using the word "hysteria" in your description is not a good word choice. That's an instant red flag and makes me not even want to listen to this. You will not use outdated terminology to further degrade ND women- something about that statement immediately made me distrust you. Think about what you are saying and check your arrogance.
If you were accused of hurting multiple women... SOMETHING HAPPENED. Even if it's not what they say happened... something did. And maybe it was just poor treatment and disrespect- I can tell by the word choice you are quick to call women crazy. Any man who is accused of anything by other women should never use that word. I have been accused of things I have not done so I get how horrible that is- just know that to women in the United States--using that word to describe women has a very bad connotation. It immediately made me take pause- please be careful in the way you describe this
I understand your criticism however it completely misses the fact that Harry is a victim of a heinous crime and so completely dismisses and invalidates the real crime and very real pain caused by it. The person who falsely accused him and those who jumped on the back of the accusation are the ones who are doing the disservice to genuine female victims, like myself. They're the ones making it harder for genuine victims to be believed. I recommend listening to/reading Harry's official statement regarding the accusations where he delineates and addresses each individual allegation.
No smoke without fire is a cognitive bias. However, hysteria is an outdated term and probably shouldn't be used, yet in this day and age many people aren't intentionally using it in a gendered way, infact I could imagine using the word to describe a man acting hysterical, or when describing some who was in 'hysterics' I.e. Laughing uncontrollably.