Why Fear Is Never Conquered By Avoidance | Tips & Advice

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  • @jude999
    @jude999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It took me 42 years to figure out where my fear was coming from through years of therapy. Your advice is critical.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi jude999, thanks for watching! We value your support. You may find our Golden Thread Process / Emotional Health Video Playlist helpful: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyD.html Alex + David x

  • @judydsrcy8231
    @judydsrcy8231 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm really enjoying all of your recordings. I've just found you and catching up with lots of them. Excellent stuff - thank you.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Judy! We enjoy doing all our teaching recordings live and unscripted into our private 'Wu Wei Wisdom Community' Facebook Group - you'd be very welcome to join :-) facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/

  • @angiekitsonharris9495
    @angiekitsonharris9495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First of all thank you David and Alex for all you give us, absolutely brilliant couple.
    I passed my driving test 1st go in America but, then I went to live in Mexico city and was petrified....but have since learnt to drive here, as they say" When in Rome, do as the Romans!!! Now I feel I could drive anywhere.xxxxx

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Angie, thank you for sharing your great story! :)
      Alex + David x

  • @prismonthethehorizon5793
    @prismonthethehorizon5793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These videos are really precious. Thank you for putting these ou💗t xxxxx

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.

  • @katieamero6714
    @katieamero6714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg I so need you as my therapist, I have this all right now.

  • @jillhill5421
    @jillhill5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The lady that's wanting to learn how to drive here's an idea I have taught many how to drive and I found the ones that worry too much simple solution get to a big open field or there's no other vehicles just you and the field and the person teaching you how to drive tear it up just get out in the field and drive away before you know it you will be driving what happens very often is this you ain't never done it and the thing that scares you the most it's the size of the vehicle when you're in a big open field the size of the vehicle no longer matters trust me this will work get comfortable to three days out there driving in the open field and then at that point instructor instructor into the roadways it's your turn good luck this will work I believe in you and I don't even know you but everybody can drive everybody even you have fun you'll really have a great enjoyment out in that big open field peace my friend

  • @amydavidson7166
    @amydavidson7166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This therapy is so essential to my life! I am so very happy to have found the Wu Wei Wisdom. I am so very in need of their teachings. They are brilliant. This will help change my life. I read I’m OK You’re Ok when I was younger. This speaks to everything I learned and hits on the my feelings of being stuck.

  • @sukioo0oo144
    @sukioo0oo144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got my license on the 2nd try. When I first failed, my father who was accompanying me, yelled at me for failling, in front of everybody in the permits bureau. 2nd time, I went with a friend, in a smaller town and it was a breeze. Lesson learned : surround yourself carefully.
    I am so thankful for your videos. Your explainations are crystal clear and immediately impact positively my life. Thank you.

  • @fionas1785
    @fionas1785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Passed on 2nd attempt. Think I was more upset at the time that I failed when my siblings passed 1st time. Early CCJ! 🤦‍♀️ Great videos! ✅

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good insight Fiona - thanks for sharing! x

  • @michaelsager5688
    @michaelsager5688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you!

  • @cyruscherry35
    @cyruscherry35 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could her fear be unrelated to driving entirely?

  • @Christina-om8kx
    @Christina-om8kx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a paralyzing fear of being alone - and I always seem to create it. Is there a video on creating loneliness and how to break the cycle?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment, I think the question to focus on is do you believe you are the creator of your emotions and not the victim? If you look through the archives we have done several videos on this subject and loneliness I hope you find them helpful. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @carletongillenwater6370
    @carletongillenwater6370 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You made an assumption that Kevin’s parleyed was a woman……please be mindful of the diversity of love

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Thank you, I will always I'm be mindful of the diversity of love. Kind regards, David.

  • @linhd1899
    @linhd1899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I passed my test on my 5th try!!!!
    Finally got there!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well done. Perseverance is a great quality! :-)

  • @AlannaStLaurent
    @AlannaStLaurent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video. I’ve been searching for the cause of my anxiety for decades. I’ve worked through some of it, but there is more to go. My fear is primarily around fear of death and being sick (even though I’ve not had any major illness, but my mom died when I was 5 so I am thinking much of it stems from this event). We can’t escape our bodies so we need to find a way to have a peaceful relationship with it. Recently when I was in the middle of a wave of fear I sat down and faced it and asked it what it wanted. The next moment I heard in my mind, “I want to be loved”. It felt very much like my inner child, so I know that is where the healing must take place.

  • @amsou4846
    @amsou4846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3 times and had to change driving schools!

  • @eddiemikhail3425
    @eddiemikhail3425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It took me one driving assessment in Egypt. Ten years ago in Perth Australia, it took me 7 driving assessments to pass, considering I’m a good driver lol - guys I love your teaching. It has always been the missing piece in my puzzle; inner child work

  • @infinity-vv4yj
    @infinity-vv4yj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It took me 5 times hahaaa
    Now i drive 20years without damage 😊

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi @infinity-vv4yj,
      That's fantastic perseverance! Your journey is a testament to the power of persistence and the positive outcomes of staying committed. Congratulations on 20 years of safe driving! :-) Remember, each step, no matter how small, is progress on the path to mastering your experiences and resolving any issues that come your way.
      Kind Regards,
      David

    • @infinity-vv4yj
      @infinity-vv4yj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WuWeiWisdom ❤️❤️❤️ sending lots of love your and alex way!! You are allready changing my life in a few days! ☯️☯️☯️

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said!!, regarding the limit beliefs regarding money..
    Thank You for sharing!
    👏🙄😼

  • @jillhill5421
    @jillhill5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great job with this video. Thanks

  • @MarcioLeal001
    @MarcioLeal001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love both of you, what a gift are you giving away for free! This is really flow in the live abundance "system" more you give more you get. You give love in wonderfull rich teachings able to change lifes!
    God bless you more and more as I am sure he is already doing.
    (I follow your channel here in youtube and I realize that due the title of this teaching people avoid even learn about dealing with fear... what a pitty!)

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Marcio - thanks for your kind feedback!
      If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
      If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom
      We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions
      and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
      Alex & David x

  • @jillhill5421
    @jillhill5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice way to go. Thanks to both

  • @jillhill5421
    @jillhill5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I say these things that I'm about to say to only help the ones that have fear God gives you two things when you come into this world survival skills and love that is all God gives us we bring everything else on our self so it is time to dig deep and find courage build on strength never stop believing in yourself because sometimes this is all that you will have there's no obstacles that you as a person cannot conquer so lift your head put your shoulders back take a deep breath and get the job done you can do it as we all have been through it courage inside yourself is going to be the biggest payoff that you will ever find with that pay off you will find dignity you will find respect and you will find most of all your loving soul that has not given up on yourself set your mind to the side and be the leader of your soul let your heart beat as it will beat down the path that you need to travel God bless I wish you all the best of luck but luck is not what you need responsibility of Who You Are deep inside of you as a person you will see when your pride the strong don't look for Pats on the back from others when you cross them Finish Lines of low goals that you will conquer pat yourself on the back when them days are here. Peace with love sincerely your friend James

  • @jillhill5421
    @jillhill5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My name is James I feel the most important thing on how many lessons it's your lessons that's all that matters so I'm going to not even say how many it took me because that's not important what's important is just going to take it until you get it right and then pat yourself on the back and have a safe and great journey God bless. Sincerely James your friend

  • @jillhill5421
    @jillhill5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great video you put out superb videos both of you and a very helpful but most of all the key word there very helpful you must be very helpful for yourself never looking at a problem has a problem looking for the solution there's a solution to every single problem that we as people create for ourselves God bless hope this helps and thank you both very much for your dedication on sharing your greatness. Peace to all

  • @jenclark3021
    @jenclark3021 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like Kevin might be with some one with narcissistic traits.