Be Happy NOW! How To Avoid The 'Perfect Life' Trap | Wu Wei Wisdom

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  • @WuWeiWisdom
    @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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  • @Lichfeldian--Suttonian
    @Lichfeldian--Suttonian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is gold! Thank you.
    Not only are we told to have all these material things, on first dates we men are told to have something to sell: the ‘paradise’, the castle, the car, the 7-figure annual salary, the annual holiday in golden sands, the expensive weekend break in a ‘romantic’ city, and we have to strive endlessly to achieve those golden goals of heightened perfection. I become a Bisy Backson! 😂
    Although that might sound nice, not any more. I might still get to these, but I want to enjoy my life now. be happy now, during the process. 😁

  • @ARA-ee9yr
    @ARA-ee9yr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the safeness that I can feel in your words. I believe that this is a trustworthy source for learning and reevaluating my core beliefs. I thank you both for that. 🙏🏼💜

  • @luisacordero6789
    @luisacordero6789 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s funny you should mention being like a Ferrari in reverse. Until today, I always pictured myself as a Ferrari always marrying Honda Civics, having to stay on first gear because the men in my life were moving so slowly, not desiring to grow spiritually or emotionally. You have changed my perception! I’m going to step in the pedal starting today!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Luisa, this is a powerful self-realization for you - thanks for sharing! We're looking forward to sharing your journey as you now drive in top gear ;) x

  • @jennygivensunday4438
    @jennygivensunday4438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for all your videos. They provide such guidance in my life!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Jenny thanks for your kind feedback!
      Where are you based?
      If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
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  • @pnmehta2559
    @pnmehta2559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is making a lot of sense, and I feel that even before I discovered you, I was thinking along this line, and very coincidentally, this morning, I was discussing this conflict between one’s reality vs. external motivation spurring you to keep looking for “Utopia”

  • @teresaburnett4640
    @teresaburnett4640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE these videos. I am a Christian and I can understand how all this fits into my Christian life. I respect David and Alex’s beliefs. Thank y’all SO much for your knowledge and teaching. I’m from Texas and told my husband before I die I’ve got to meet these two in person. Do, how bout it? Come to Texas!! Lol!! Teresa Burnett.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Teresa
      Thanks for your kind feedback. We're glad our teachings are helping you and perhaps one day we will meet! 😊
      If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
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      Alex & David x

  • @francismausley7239
    @francismausley7239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great theme... Having a real positive faith & understanding that all happens for a very meaningful reason... "True happiness depends on spiritual good and having the heart ever open to receive the Divine Bounty." - Baha’i Faith

  • @sanaishaque25
    @sanaishaque25 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have to tell you that your videos have healing power. Thank you both :)

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Sana, we're pleased to read that our video teachings are resonating with you. Wishing you a Qi filled week ahead! Alex & David x

  • @k-lysbliss8875
    @k-lysbliss8875 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you said you are awesome my ego went "How do you know?" ;)
    Thank you for saying that the human centred mind is not your enemy, on the contrary it is there to protect you... I've watched a few videos on this topic and it always seemed that the message was that it was your enemy and you needed to get rid of it in one way or another. Again, thank you for that!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for your comments Amour.
      I know you are awesome because I believe in ‘ONENESS’, so no one is better or worse than anyone else. We all have different skills, experience and we have all made mistakes to learn from. I know I am awesome, therefore you must be too. If you disagree I would be interested in hearing your evidence and reasoning.
      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch our videos and commenting... :-)

    • @k-lysbliss8875
      @k-lysbliss8875 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      No trouble at all! I love watching your videos..very inspiring! Not enough to just watch! A lot of work to do before knowing for sure (the way you do) that I/we are all awesome!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enjoy the process of doing the 'work'... like a blossom opening to reveal the awesome beauty within :-)

  • @VisualMind
    @VisualMind 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your approach to the word "but". I used to aaaaaaalways say "Yes, but..." and it never solves anything because it's kind of a trick to not have to change your beliefs.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ha! Yes... [no buts]
      #StayAwesome
      Alex + david x

  • @joy7592
    @joy7592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much!!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Joy, thanks for watching! We value your support. You may find our Golden Thread Process / Emotional Health Video Playlist helpful: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyD.html Alex + David x

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @cassandrakutner8005
    @cassandrakutner8005 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Life is perfect now. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We're happy for you Cassandra :-) Alex & David x

  • @rubyanaya126
    @rubyanaya126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You ☺️

  • @barbaramassey3787
    @barbaramassey3787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The golden now....beautifully said!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Barbara. x

  • @evian.
    @evian. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a fantastic video! You hit a point for me when you talked about someone admitting what they done- do you remember? I imagined a situation when my sisters come on their knees admitting what they have done and begging for forgiveness. The image set me free from my prison but I struggle to find the core belief 😕

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Evian
      Thank you for your comments.
      I'm pleased that video was able to help and set you free.
      Thank you for taking the time and trouble in watching and commenting.
      You may also find this video helpful:
      th-cam.com/video/n5oJTu48aN0/w-d-xo.html
      If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
      If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom
      We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions
      and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
      David x

  • @martinaszerencses4747
    @martinaszerencses4747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Alex and David! What do you think about the idea of punishment? I have a strong belief that if I do something ,,wrong’’ the universe will punish me, like karma or something.. you say the universe just simply exists, doesn’t judge, but there must be a collective law or a principle the universe works on.. Can you tell me something about it? :) Thanks a lot!

  • @luisacordero6789
    @luisacordero6789 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am learning so much from you both. But what do I do with this intense loneliness that I suffer from as a single 52 year old that has always been married. I have difficulty being alone.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Luisa, thanks for your kind feedback!
      We're sorry to read about your current situation - you may find this video on 'loneliness' helpful: th-cam.com/video/dJJHXZynXc8/w-d-xo.html
      If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos....
      We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
      Alex & David x

  • @VickieMcCarty
    @VickieMcCarty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. I’m curious why you keep referring to the mind as “The human scented” mind?

    • @ruthogrady9586
      @ruthogrady9586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that is 'human centered mind' Vickie

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Vickie we call the mind the 'Human Centred Mind' as the Taoist teaching is that the mind (and body) is part of your 'human energy' (you also have 'spiritual energy' or 'Shen'). Many people also call the 'Human Centered Mind' the 'Ego' but there are many confusing or contradictory definitions of what the Ego is.
      If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
      If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video).
      We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions
      - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
      Alex & David x

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Thanks Ruth 🙂

  • @katewright2445
    @katewright2445 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can see my pendulum now, living nearly on the streets, simple, cheap, finding my integrity without comparing or other people interfering. Another part wants to live in a different part of the country in a place where I have a house, pool, sauna, spa, marine life, community...and my lifestyle brought me there without the trimmings and wants to go back with trimmings. I am a ferrari and when I hear that i want the trimmings, I want to be my full potential and enjoy lifes pleasures without feeling like Im raising the bar all the time. If I dont raise it slightly Id be living in a van forever always chasing my next government payment. I want to feel good about wanting good fun pleasurable things and feel good about money

  • @aaronvarela8941
    @aaronvarela8941 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was wondering what you meant by green light feelings vs red light feelings? How does this apply to wu wei?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Aaron - great questions! Green-light feelings = positive/pleasant feelings and emotions (eg. joy, happiness, calm, love etc.). Red-light feelings = negative/uncomfortable feelings and emotions (anger, jealousy, fear, anxiety etc). When you are in your 'wu wei' flow you will experience green-light feelings - these feelings and sensations are the signposts that tell you when your energy is in balance. Conversely, red-light feelings tell you when you are out of balance. You may also find this video helpful: th-cam.com/video/Q8K7Ia-Oj3g/w-d-xo.html ~ Alex & David x

  • @Dan-dx7yi
    @Dan-dx7yi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi David you and Alex are using the term human centred mind but you later teaching its the inner child you are referring too.
    Utopia world fantasy world wanting certainty and knowing whats ahead perfection thats coming from Inner child not adult shen side as much.
    Unrealistic thinking extreme standards comes from IC, the adult shen side or human centred mind is more balanced realistic is not black and white thinking or one way at looking at things 🙂

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi @Dan-dx7yi,
      Thank you for your thoughtful observation. Indeed, the human-centered mind often overlaps with the inner child, especially in its desire for certainty and perfection. The adult Shen side embodies balance, realism, and a broader perspective.
      Kind Regards,
      David
      P.S. You might find more insights and support in our Wu Wei Wisdom community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/