A Practical Guide on Finding Inner Peace | Jack Kornfield | Knowledge Project Podcast 156

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    Author and Buddhist practitioner Jack Kornfield discusses how to suppress self-doubt, find inner calm, deal with conflict and stress in your life, and handle harmful outside influences in healthy, constructive ways.
    Kornfield trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India and Burma, and has taught meditation internationally since 1974. He co-founded the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Mass., and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, Calif., and his books have been translated into 20 languages and sold more than a million copies.
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    00:00 - Intro
    00:28 - Jack’s experiences as a monk
    06:50 - How can we deal with our emotions?
    13:22 - On dealing with the stories we tell ourselves
    15:58 - Practical solutions to dealing with those stories
    21:55 - On feeling undeserving of positive feelings
    24:12 - What is self-compassion?
    27:09 - On emotions and feelings
    31:40 - On maintaining inner peace
    34:50 - How to create the habit of a reflexive pause
    44:03 - Being at war with ourselves
    52:26 - On perspective taking
    57:50 - On rituals
    1:02:03 - What is intention?
    01:10:05 - How striving helps and hurts us
    01:16:11 - How thoughts influence behavior
    01:19:10 - Why nature influences our thoughts?
    01:25:23 - On deflecting compliments
    01:29:39 - Judgement vs. discernment
    01:30:59 - Should we struggle alone? Or with others?
    01:39:21 - Difference between compassion and empathy
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  • @bibipersaud9018
    @bibipersaud9018 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    OMG! The story about Shay! Now I know why my teacher Mr Elliot used to take me home for lunch daily! His wife would put a plate at the table and serve me. So embarrassed shy worthless.
    I was mortified, hid everywhere and cry cause I could not understand kindness compassion etc. Coming from an abusive home I guess he must have sensed how sad & unhappy I was. Different times!!!! I was 8 and literally walked 7 miles to school daily but dreaded going home. I'm 74 yrs old retired RN and thought of his kindness ever day. So grateful for the angels that we meet in our journey.

  • @keitheddie5
    @keitheddie5 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    It is 4 43 in the morning. I am a n impatient 72 year old woman, still listening to this soothing man… what a peaceful wise mam from my generation.

    • @MsSouthard1
      @MsSouthard1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It’s 215 am here and this 72 yo woman listening to this ❤ koan and live in gratitude they are available to me in my sleep less ness

    • @Tinyteacher1111
      @Tinyteacher1111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I was doing the same thing in the middle of the night. I’m 69 (not quite!), and have recently been abused by my adult disabled son who is now in a psychiatric/rehab facility, thank God❣️🙏

    • @carolgarrett1786
      @carolgarrett1786 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I am similar to you in this aspect, being a 71 year old, myself. Also listening with great interest to Gabor and seeking answers and comfort. Bless you🙏

    • @carolgarrett1786
      @carolgarrett1786 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Tinyteacher1111Wow. You sure have a lot to deal with. Praying for your protection and healing 🙏

    • @user-vx6mi3oy7g
      @user-vx6mi3oy7g 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Tinyteacher1111Bless you 🙏 I am 72 years old on Tuesday and I still am working with one of the 2 brothers with autism, that I have been working with for 20 years.
      The youngest of the 2 has been out of the house for 2 years now. He became too violent to keep at home anymore. His family and I have been bruised and bitten and battered for the whole time. But he got 6ft plus tall and with lots of weight behind him. We could no longer manage it or him. He even bit off a piece of his dad's ear...
      His mom calls the hospital everyday to see how he is doing. It gives us all a heavy heart that he can't be home. But that is where he needs to be.
      Try not to feel bad that he is gone and it's okay to feel relief that you don't have to be afraid and abused anymore.
      It's the best thing for everyone involved.
      My prayers are with you.
      🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @Sparkle835
    @Sparkle835 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    "How you live depends on what seeds you water." Brilliant 🥰

  • @marymannis1656
    @marymannis1656 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This man intones authenticity - he comes from a place of human experience, not theory.
    The Crux of the matter is that true suffering does confer a visceral wisdom that is essential for self awareness - which also seems to be the key to understanding the other - the more I understand myself the more I see myself everywhere, in everyone, and in every facet of life, beyond all we previously understood, and collapsing the boundaries between our experience of The sacred, and the profane.
    Reflecting upon Life is hard - and holy.

  • @dolly_llamas_tea
    @dolly_llamas_tea ปีที่แล้ว +42

    My finger accidentally clicked this video and I’m so grateful it did. So many wonderful gems in this video. Thank you, I needed this more than you will ever know. Thank you!

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ☺️ Always Remember...There are Truly Know ..."Accidents" ☺️🙏🏿 it was meant...for...You☺️🫂🙏🏿❤️

    • @ambermariemalone
      @ambermariemalone ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine too!

    • @susangreen3871
      @susangreen3871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!

    • @marciasinger
      @marciasinger ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No accidents, really -- life IS synchronous: predictably unpredictable. Are you studying 'law of attraction' yet? Miracles are natural blessings.

  • @dondamond7151
    @dondamond7151 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Truly helpful. In my own suffering and grief, allowing it and then directing metta toward myself is a gift from listening. I got exactly what I needed. Does anyone realize that these videos appear as pockets of consciousness, giving us what we need in this moment? Wow

    • @mamikoeda6098
      @mamikoeda6098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly, precisely

    • @FlElvis
      @FlElvis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely.

  • @SantaCruzHappy1
    @SantaCruzHappy1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    What a fabulous interview! Jack Kornfield was my introduction to Buddhism back in 2003. Both he and Tara Brach are my favorite insight meditation teachers. I love the presence of both Shane and Jack.... THANK YOU!

  • @Sparkle835
    @Sparkle835 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I so appreciate the gentle, calm voice of the interviewer. He is the perfect pairing for main course Jack Kornfield.

  • @coal.sparks
    @coal.sparks ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "Who you are is not your body. You rent it from Hertz." The humour that comes along with Jack's wisdom makes it so much more potent for me. :) Thank you for this interview.

  • @user-rx4bi1ic4z
    @user-rx4bi1ic4z 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I listen to many people, such as Jack, in many YT videos and, despite my reservations about YT, for various reasons, i am so very grateful that these teachers are brought to us by wonderful folks like Shane. These vids are free (ok...some adverts), beautiful, thought-provoking snapshots, and I'm amazed at how many of these wonderful people are on our wee planet. At our highest, we humans are nothing short of sublime (IMHO). If we can learn to work with our shadow sides we can be even better. Big hugs to all of you xx

  • @user-fq4yz5ek3r
    @user-fq4yz5ek3r 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow,what a guy! The story of the candles and rocks knocked me out.🕯️ When he talked about his driving habits,I couldn't help but think of an old George Carlin quote,"Did you ever notice how those that drive slower than you are idiots,and those who drive faster are maniacs?".

    • @waterkingdavid
      @waterkingdavid 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      George Carlin was surely a Bodhisattva!

  • @kellycolmey3742
    @kellycolmey3742 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Many years ago, I did a spiritual, silent retreat with Jack Kornfield in Bari, Massachusetts, at the insight meditation center. It was wonderful.

    • @marciestoddard730
      @marciestoddard730 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you are so fortunate!!! things fill up too fast now, or are mostly online. what a treasure you have!

  • @alexedgar6539
    @alexedgar6539 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I have read and reread every book of jack's I could find. A profound teacher who has changed my life. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha

    • @waterkingdavid
      @waterkingdavid 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think I know this Alex Edgar do I not? 😊

  • @LoesungFeuer5
    @LoesungFeuer5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Love how the universe always lets me find the information i need right at the moment.
    "Im afraid of suffering and want to run away from it" is exactly the thought i had the last days. And now this person begins this video with "I hope you arent afraid to suffer" and damn i instantly knew what it was about

    • @SusanMazzella-ne1zj
      @SusanMazzella-ne1zj ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I've had quite enough ask invisible world for help I'm guided. Haven't thought of JK in ages. Environment affects/infects when I lived in San Francisco Bay area it's home. 20yrs of east coast CT in particular retraumatised me into a state of despair. Playing with new phone I got a couple weeks ago. Connection/communication acceptence

    • @michelej1800
      @michelej1800 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You must have an Amazon Alexa like me….I swear it is listening to my thoughts! (I hope and prefer it be the Universe, God, loved ones who have move on, the angels….)

  • @ritamarozke
    @ritamarozke ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Thank you youtube, to let me discover Jack Kornfield and some other people who effected my life deeply

    • @nancyrussell6598
      @nancyrussell6598 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WE CAN LEARN THIS. MR KORNFIELD WAS NOT BORN THIS WAY. IT'S NOT AUTOMATIC

    • @elinannestad5320
      @elinannestad5320 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      me too - I benefit from seeing and hearing Thich Nhat Hahn. And Theravada monks.

    • @amberwiese364
      @amberwiese364 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree... We have access to people we may have never had the opportunity to learn from, without the onset of the Internet and all these platforms. I have always loved to read, but now I'm able to basically listen to anything my heart desires, while I'm doing other things! It's doubled if not tripled or even quadrupled... The knowledge, wisdom and teachings of so many gifted and wonderful people from all walks of life and all parts of this world, that I'm able to learn and grow from! It's truly amazing and a gift I am thankful for every single day! ❤️☺️🌻

    • @umeshg9107
      @umeshg9107 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      amen

  • @yogalife365
    @yogalife365 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Naval Ravikant praised Farnam street and I had to check these blogs and videos which lead me here. This channel is my all time favorite for any interview that I wish to watch. Apart from that, there are time stamps if I wish to return and relisten.
    I get emails with BOOSTER SHOTS of wisdom.. This kind of service to humanity by these podcasters surely makes me feel that I am born in an era that is blesssssssssssed. Thank you. 🎉❤

  • @marisadallavalle393
    @marisadallavalle393 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Undeserving". Spot on. Most likely if you have been abused by parents this feeling comes up!

  • @ethanredd3342
    @ethanredd3342 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    4:25 grateful for all the knowledge we get from TH-cam about how to be with ourselves especially since most of us in America don’t receive any kind of knowledge in that category.

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha
      "Every experience, no matter how bad it seems, holds within a blessing of some kind. The goal is to find it." ~ Gautama Buddha

    • @ethanredd3342
      @ethanredd3342 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@neutralobserver7161 thank you

  • @ninarekhi
    @ninarekhi ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Wow, that poem was so beautiful. This talk was therapeutic in itself. Thank you ❣️

  • @maryannestevens9703
    @maryannestevens9703 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Great interview!❤️I agree with Jack. Shane is an amazing interviewer. He lets Jack speak, is vulnerable, genuine and asked excellent questions.❤️

  • @yogaandceleste8328
    @yogaandceleste8328 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I’m so grateful to have stumbled upon this amazing listen. Thank You 🙏

    • @lisabeed6001
      @lisabeed6001 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      For me today too! 🙏🏻 Sheerly accidental but exactly what my soul was needing… for much too long now ❤

    • @sharonjoan9997
      @sharonjoan9997 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ah yes soul nutrition😊

    • @hanazakaria1642
      @hanazakaria1642 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Am also grateful for the interviewer, putting his wonderful questions. His questions are very important. ❤ for both the great guest and interviewer.

    • @susangreen3871
      @susangreen3871 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes…what you all said!

  • @bibipersaud9018
    @bibipersaud9018 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank u Jack! Thanks to the interviewer! So grateful I stumble on this. I learned so much!!!! I'm sending it to my son in Australia who is in deep grief with loss of his dog yesterday!!!!! I will listen to this again as I'm sure to learn something new.

  • @monirehaboutalebi606
    @monirehaboutalebi606 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great lessons, Thank you dear host, love from Iran 🇮🇷🇮🇷🇮🇷

  • @wayofspinoza2471
    @wayofspinoza2471 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is excellent, I am a teacher and student of Spinoza's and Gurdjieff's Philosophy. The importance of facing our anger and understanding our emotions leads to freedom.

    • @_xiper
      @_xiper 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      my body is ready

    • @wayofspinoza2471
      @wayofspinoza2471 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@_xiper that's great, however, is your mind ready?

    • @lisao6928
      @lisao6928 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm - I would like to know more about that.

  • @jamesk8s1
    @jamesk8s1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    p.s. liked subscribed and belled because Shane is a great interviewer, he actually listens deeply.....someone who listens, wow.....and asks very aware questions......

  • @adamk8724
    @adamk8724 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Lack of inner peace was costly for me and my body last year. So I'm glad Jack shared his insights.

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha

    • @BuBu-uz9qi
      @BuBu-uz9qi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you believe that they willingly to murder me whom supported them at Ukraine war because they want the Vatican Nation to dominate the whole world.
      Hey Zuckerberg, why don't you stop your business with Asia, Middle East, and Africa?? Go back to South America , North America or Vatican country do business with them?
      Don't steal our money and power up your God darn Holy Pope Francisco to us..
      You have to answer with the public what is wrong that you suspending my Facebook account permanently . When I saw the Vatican country does not say sorry to us after they have done bad with Tibetan people . Or isn't it a future purpose for you, Vatican Nation and USA want to dominate the whole world???
      Come on, say it. If you don't answer, please stop your business with us.
      If I'm is You, I will stop my business in Asia, Middle East, and Africa.

  • @reneecole6744
    @reneecole6744 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ❤❤❤ I completely LOVE this interview and the both of you blessed men sharing your time, making space for anyone inclined to listen to these peace bringing wisdoms. Deep gratitude for all and myself for resonating with every word and emotion expressed..
    Thank you 😂❤

  • @om7854
    @om7854 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Somehow I realise that the seeds of what I need to know is there already in my life experience.... I've been waiting to hear this talk for so long & I heard its teaching many years ago but being young I didn't quite grasp its meaning. Now being much older every word spoken here means so much now. Being a 'mindful witness' is exactly what I need to be. And now 'practice & more practice' of loving compassion for others & self, & minding the watering of 'seeds'.

  • @tavenisadiri5069
    @tavenisadiri5069 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you with all my heart Mr. Jack Kornfield.

  • @janetpattison8474
    @janetpattison8474 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Awesome interview. A family member went to India, to join a Buddhist monastery. For over 40years I’ve chanted the old word for God, HU. My dreams changed immediately, and I’ve never looked back. The HU opened the doors to love, protection, past life recall, and much more. HU - God on YT. HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU for love. ❤❤❤❤❤ It’s the only reason we’re here.

    • @jillhallisey8741
      @jillhallisey8741 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HUU?? what is tht?

    • @WinifredOdriscoll
      @WinifredOdriscoll 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jillhallisey8741 primal sound like OM

  • @nancytoulouse6973
    @nancytoulouse6973 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Do you mean to tell us that we as humans have the capacity to experience as many as 500 different emotions?!😮 We would never had known that - thank you for sharing that!

  • @user-mm6tr8ni9h
    @user-mm6tr8ni9h 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Gentlemen, what a profound discussion that touched on issues of today that I would say are experienced by every human being. Both of you were sincerely respectful of each other's input. You are both such beautiful souls who enriched my life - many thanks and much love.

  • @privateperson5769
    @privateperson5769 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    WOW ...that Budhist teacher 5O years ago ...probably 1OOO's of years old and we are just learning these concepts now as Westerners. That opening statement is so profound, abt facing your suffering and it setting you free. TY

    • @hankwang8324
      @hankwang8324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. Opening sentence is ear catching.

    • @vanessapetrea2490
      @vanessapetrea2490 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Buddhist teachings have been around for thousands of years, and the western world has had knowledge of them easily for over 100 years.
      There’s so much to know in and of the world everyone won’t learn about the same things at the same times.

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha
      "Every experience, no matter how bad it seems, holds within a blessing of some kind. The goal is to find it." ~ Gautama Buddha

    • @TeaTellyWMaria
      @TeaTellyWMaria 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@neutralobserver7161 Those are fake quotes. Please don't do that.

  • @Bee.in.
    @Bee.in. ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love Jack, I love the interviewer, I love you all ❤
    I’m so grateful to have found this. I don’t know the interviewer, but like Jack said, you have a Presence so profound, it took me(us) on a beautiful journey- Thank you

  • @rsaug
    @rsaug ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a blessed kind soul he is! On my spiritual path & my goal is to become as composed and down to earth as he is.

  • @scarlettestanley4304
    @scarlettestanley4304 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was a bluly beautiful conversation!
    Siriusly, it hit home for me...thank you!
    Lapis Lazuli, rocks! 🤘
    (hahaha...all puns intended!)
    This episode put me in such a beautiful, happy AZURE mood...
    💧🌊🩵💙
    True Blue Love to you!

  • @elmarwolters2751
    @elmarwolters2751 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Also, if we develop the inner observer , it gives us the pause to decide , now we may want to be in this world .

  • @WolfWoman23
    @WolfWoman23 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I could listen all day ❤
    This is such an inspiring and valuable discussion.

  • @om7854
    @om7854 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This conversation means so much to me especially 'the two kinds of suffering' . Thank you both.

  • @TomTom-df9ph
    @TomTom-df9ph ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dear jack Cornfield. Oh that I could deeply absorb your wisdom and keep it with me always.

  • @sapofish
    @sapofish ปีที่แล้ว +80

    There's so much peace in his voice! I profited greatly from listening to this! I've read most of his books but never heard his voice before. so much practical WISDOM in this talk!! Thank you!!

    • @lspag7415
      @lspag7415 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, just beautiful x

    • @lisabeed6001
      @lisabeed6001 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I listened for 17 minutes, and kept thinking how much I love his voice. I then went to read comments, and I see yours 🥰

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha

    • @ershwezinsuzan671
      @ershwezinsuzan671 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes i love to listen his voice ❤

    • @otg1433
      @otg1433 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even serial killers can have sweet voices and angelic smiles..peace in his voice..O' boy.....

  • @davida1606
    @davida1606 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At some point, we just stop being so sensitive. We get fed up with ourselves, always feeling sorry for ourselves or fearful about things that might not even be true or might not even happen. When we think like a small person we live and experience the life of a small person. Somewhere in the past, we learned by example or you were talked down to think and be small. It might be to satisfy another person's ego or authoritative abuse. Once we leave that situation, we begin to realize our ability to think and be a bigger person. To not be a victim of circumstances or react like a scary cat. You'll know this is you if you tend to be extra kind to strangers or when around family members. You can be a full grown adult and still make yourself small around certain people.

  • @francesca333
    @francesca333 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beautiful podcast by a brilliant gentle soul with his wise words, love this man....thank you, and I enjoyed several of your questions....especially the one about the negative mind being automatic, which science says is true, that's my way and what a great conversation about it....

  • @mapimami
    @mapimami ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very grateful to have clicked on this video. I really needed to hear you both speak. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @alma-ci5ki
    @alma-ci5ki ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Deeply, deeply touching. Genuine. Those piles of stones and the way honor was restored.. Thank you so. ❤

    • @elinannestad5320
      @elinannestad5320 ปีที่แล้ว

      I liked the stones too.

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha

    • @28105wsking
      @28105wsking 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have a lot of these kids in my ESL classes. Its always good to see them ALL again the following September! Life is short and very scary when you believe that the way you feel is caused by other people, and does NOT come from your own self! They don't understand how they themselves function, how their own minds work. Be sure to teach this and give them chances to express and feel the love and gentleness and tenderness they have in their own hearts. So many of them have been so traumatized by war and brutality that they have just never known how that feels for themselves.

  • @maggiemaybe100
    @maggiemaybe100 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hi Shane. Thank you so much for this video with Jack Kornfield; I'd heard his name but that's as far as it went. There is so much to learn here and I love that there are experiences used throughout to illustrate the teachings. I agree with Jack about what you bring to the interview and had been feeling it before Jack commented on it. I think one way of accepting compliments without becoming flustered and self conscious is to acknowledge that it's a unique divine gift put in you. I'm going to listen to this at least one more time.

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha
      "Every experience, no matter how bad it seems, holds within a blessing of some kind. The goal is to find it." ~ Gautama Buddha

  • @ElaineMooreone
    @ElaineMooreone ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I watched this and simply the demeanor of both these moderators was calming,assuring and uplifting. I learned so much within I can use without.❤😊

  • @Jessica-ih9xd
    @Jessica-ih9xd ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so honest and authentic. What a gem

  • @daniellegeorge8969
    @daniellegeorge8969 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This was such a beautiful conversation. Thank you for sharing it.

  • @sungoddiss
    @sungoddiss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm reminded of a poem by Rumi that goes:
    This being human is a guest house.
    Every morning a new arrival.
    A joy, a depression, a meanness,
    some momentary awareness comes
    as an unexpected visitor.
    Welcome and entertain them all!
    Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
    who violently sweep your house
    empty of its furniture,
    still, treat each guest honorably.
    He may be clearing you out
    for some new delight.
    The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
    meet them at the door laughing,
    and invite them in.
    Be grateful for whoever comes,
    because each has been sent
    as a guide from beyond.

    • @rmschindler144
      @rmschindler144 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perfect.

    • @lisafiel8457
      @lisafiel8457 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So the knock at the door from the SS was a good thing? This doesn’t make sense

  • @beatesubasinghe8229
    @beatesubasinghe8229 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    thank you for so many inspirations - like watching strong emotions from some distance in order to disentangle. Although I meditate for years and theoretically know all this, it gave me a real aha-experience. Now I can handle marital disputes and especcially silent treatments much better! Also I want to say, that your conversation is an excellent example of how people should communicate with each other!

    • @neutralobserver7161
      @neutralobserver7161 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "Man's troubles are rooted in extreme attention to senses, thoughts, and imagination. Attention should be focused internally to experience a quiet body and a calm mind." ~ Gautama Buddha

  • @guinevere4365
    @guinevere4365 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you so much Jack for the kindness and love you are pouring into our world. Your beautiful voice, words and energy are such a gift toward ending suffering. I discovered Ram Dass in 1980 and his voice, while totally different from yours, had an equally nourishing quality, embellished of course with his glorious storytelling and sense of humor. You both have made our dear Earth a better place. Thank you.❤

    • @BuBu-uz9qi
      @BuBu-uz9qi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you believe that they willingly to murder me whom supported them at Ukraine war because they want the Vatican Nation to dominate the whole world.
      Hey Zuckerberg, why don't you stop your business with Asia, Middle East, and Africa?? Go back to South America , North America or Vatican country do business with them?
      Don't steal our money and power up your God darn Holy Pope Francisco to us..
      You have to answer with the public what is wrong that you suspending my Facebook account permanently . When I saw the Vatican country does not say sorry to us after they have done bad with Tibetan people . Or isn't it a future purpose for you, Vatican Nation and USA want to dominate the whole world???
      Come on, say it. If you don't answer, please stop your business with us.
      If I'm is You, I will stop my business in Asia, Middle East, and Africa.

  • @terrybruno7404
    @terrybruno7404 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love this!❤ this is so beautiful! I’m in the hospital with Covid & This so helps! I had ur cassettes from a long time ago! Appreciate
    This ✨💯✨

    • @ktex4873
      @ktex4873 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blessings and good energy from a TH-cam stranger in Texas that you have a full recovery and and also wonderful caregivers during your stay. Both of my senior parents were in the hospital and ICU for 7 week and a 5 week stay last year. I understand how hospital stays can be. Hope you are well enough to get home soon. ❤

    • @arthurlockwood8735
      @arthurlockwood8735 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good luck hope you get better soon 🇬🇧❤️🙏

  • @inrspc777
    @inrspc777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful conversation. I am thankful to have found your offering. Thank you.

  • @tempesnyder6243
    @tempesnyder6243 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    His way of explaining what meditation should be doing for you, it is miraculous. Thank you so much for that. The interviewer also was magnificent at helping to clarify things for me. A wonderful video. I have come back to it a few times.

    • @susanlindarice
      @susanlindarice 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree

    • @Historian212
      @Historian212 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There’s no “should” about meditation. It doesn’t work for every person; and there are different types of meditation. There are specific situations in which meditation can be harmful - something which isn’t discussed enough among meditation teachers. Many people who have true PTSD can do worse if they do certain mindfulness meditation techniques. This is well-documented, btw.
      Meditation is something to try; it may or may not be helpful. There’s no “should.”

  • @ACGR6442
    @ACGR6442 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this podcast. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @InnerShiftAffirmations
    @InnerShiftAffirmations ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Excellent interview! Thank you for creating and sharing ❤

  • @mjcaw5790
    @mjcaw5790 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful man, love the messages and the wisdom he has to share.

  • @boke5068
    @boke5068 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ooh how wonderful, you are one of my favourite teacher in Insight Timer, it's great to see you here.thank you for this interview.

  • @susangreen3871
    @susangreen3871 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Graciousness and spaciousness” love that!

  • @rainbow_flo
    @rainbow_flo ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've listened to this video maybe 3-4 times now. I thank you for this wisdom. This beautiful recipe can cleanse the soul daily as healing isn't a one time event it is continuous like our spirit.🙏🏽

    • @rogerinkeywest
      @rogerinkeywest ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂 I thought I was a bit crazy for doing that myself, but....❤❤❤

    • @rainbow_flo
      @rainbow_flo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rogerinkeywest I listen to a lot of spiritual teachers, but his words hit differently.. ❤

    • @rogerinkeywest
      @rogerinkeywest 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rainbow_flo Glad you are getting something, and maybe millions more in the future, right?

  • @maryatvan
    @maryatvan ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you, Jack.
    It all starts when we 'l' come into realizing the inner place of infinate vastness exists here, now with & within.
    It is at rest, and here iñ the abundance as...the living, loving womb of wonder.
    May grace guide us by this boundless Oneness.
    Thou Art the Kingdom.
    Mindful self compassion
    Already a temple is.

  • @alisvoice1111
    @alisvoice1111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the beautiful Amazing words, thoughts & stories to understanding the human condition and how to allow the spirit to be free to grow.🙏🌻💕

  • @Anthony_Francis
    @Anthony_Francis ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful! Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @Lori10721
    @Lori10721 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You so much for your beautiful posts and all your inset as a monk. I really appreciate you so much.

  • @JanStue
    @JanStue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You had very thoughtful questions - quite a good interviewer! Several times you asked exactly what I wanted Jack to elaborate on. Thank you. :)

  • @doctorcofrin851
    @doctorcofrin851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you beautiful soul! ❤

  • @jackiepetrosky4611
    @jackiepetrosky4611 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am feeling under the weather and this is reviewing and pulling together mindfulness🙏 sessions, excellent.

  • @tomyshaw977
    @tomyshaw977 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everytime I meditate, I feel so much pain, the pain of being rejected all my life, I lost my best friend when I joined the forces at 19. I left my family behind. So much pain, everytime I meditate, I only feel like crying.

  • @CAT-rq4dp
    @CAT-rq4dp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you beautiful soul. Blessed be!

  • @ToddSloanIAAN
    @ToddSloanIAAN ปีที่แล้ว +4

    9:45 I'll try and work with this little gem here that I can expand my window.... Tolerate what sweeps in. Further Your Story Goes that you could really get to see beyond What feelings are coming and going. True beingness... that conscious awareness... The fruit we all desire from meditation practice.

  • @lmansur1000
    @lmansur1000 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One key that really helps to free ourselves is to realize that nothing is really personal to us - if you really really think about it. People behave towards us coming from their own dysfunction - so if we are able to embrace our own dysfunction that we picked up in life and work with it and heal it and realize that nothing is ever personal (which ego tends to make it so) then forgiveness becomes easier.

  • @kathy9927
    @kathy9927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was such a lovely conversation. Thank you!! ❤❤❤

  • @jeangray1
    @jeangray1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gratitude has been felt .. acknowledgement ty.

  • @narikarapetyan1331
    @narikarapetyan1331 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, flooded with light coming from this talk...

  • @charliebrannigan1275
    @charliebrannigan1275 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such wonderful, life -enhancing wisdom. Thanks so much 🙏🦋🌱❤️

  • @vivekdeshpande4619
    @vivekdeshpande4619 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you sir. Thank you so much. This was so peaceful and made me feel so good 😊

  • @tahiraabbasi3593
    @tahiraabbasi3593 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True powerful stuff. Thank you for for all the hard work that is being done . Thank you for sharing.
    🙏😊🙏

  • @chriskrause2528
    @chriskrause2528 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    What a beautiful enlightening uplifting and gentle talk - showers if thanks to both of you. So true what Jack so beautifully said about the moderator. I've seldom heard and felt a better synergy in a dialogue, and it really takes two to create that. Waves of love to both of you 🌊

  • @flaviamarchesoni1284
    @flaviamarchesoni1284 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great to hear this light ❤ made my day

  • @jayarajvish
    @jayarajvish ปีที่แล้ว +8

    By far the one of the best of Shanes podcast.

  • @sungoddiss
    @sungoddiss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh that was so good. I so appreciate Jack! And you. Thanks, again!

  • @jeanniecarter1
    @jeanniecarter1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel that spaciousness in the interviewer too. I love this talk.

  • @tonybenson8303
    @tonybenson8303 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for this beautiful talk. Here's to the power of love in truth. So grateful. Namaste

  • @BH195829
    @BH195829 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awesome interview - a whole new apprentice for this great soul. 🙏💕😊

  • @Flamenca85J
    @Flamenca85J 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks!

  • @SylviateReh
    @SylviateReh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful interview 🙏🏼 Thank you!

  • @doresnalwanga5499
    @doresnalwanga5499 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤I admire your dedication to your work and your sense of humor

  • @ewelinak1575
    @ewelinak1575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My dog is 15 years old and looks like 15 months old. She is eating 2x a day with 19 hours fasting. Never got a "human food ". It is really working:)

  • @gjcountry1
    @gjcountry1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you both for this beautiful interview. Nameste

  • @mariusbergseth219
    @mariusbergseth219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful conversation. Thank you for the wisdom Jack and Shane!

  • @normandnieminen4857
    @normandnieminen4857 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sagesse et humanisme. Merci !

  • @shirdisaibabagermany
    @shirdisaibabagermany ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You, beautiful to hear you, how you transformed to inner silence. We can learn a lot from despair, inner and outer war. LOVE is

  • @QiqoQi
    @QiqoQi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It was really awesome. I kept saying to myself the gentleman doing the interview was really good and then you mention that I was so pleased you told him

  • @Tinyteacher1111
    @Tinyteacher1111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So many pearls of wisdom said so well❣️

  • @katiethenaturelover
    @katiethenaturelover 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Proud to say, I understand what you are talking about.

  • @SuketaPatel
    @SuketaPatel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mighty conversation! I see it...🙏🇨🇦❤️🌈🌎🦋🌺🛹🏄‍♀️✌️

  • @thenary4342
    @thenary4342 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you. ❤❤❤

  • @rabbitholem2942
    @rabbitholem2942 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you❤ I heard Empathy and intention...I needed to hear this as a very sensitive empath.

  • @dagtooff5949
    @dagtooff5949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Abstention from all evils,
    Cultivation of the wholesome,
    Purification of the heart,
    This is the messege of the Buddha.