Foreigner shares tips on Philippines online dating... Look out!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2024
- In this video I talk about my history leading to dating in the Philippines and things I've learned since starting online dating to meet a Filipina. I share some tips, some pitfalls to be aware of, cultural differences to look out for and more. More videos like this to come stay tuned and thanks for watching!
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This is a long video that goes into detail of my experience and things I've learned, not a vid for everyone but to those interested in this stuff I hope it helps!
Just wanted to say I can't thank you enough for your videos and the way you share the information as if you were talking to a friend. I can't even describe how absolutely tired and disgusted I am by these entitled, argumentative, disagreeable, materialistic, disloyal, selfish western women. I've given up hope of ever meeting a quality woman here in florida (and I'm considered a decent looking, kind, intelligent financially stable guy). Nothing is ever good enough for them here. I'm having a difficult time convincing myself to actually go outside the country, but I really want what you describe, so we'll see what happens. I appreciate you giving us hope that there are still some good women left.
@bran-qt7ds , I got tired of the westernized females. Planned on going back to the Philippines. Met a beautiful Filipina online and this b4 all the social media. Only emails.
We didn't fall in love maybe lust. But I fell in love with the islands! Then wanted a real loving relationship! I knew I was going to retire there in the Philippines, but where? So I got online, and found many scammers, so I had my guard up! Culled many because 1 red flag and she was gone! I really like this one Filipina but I threw her back. Then couple months later realized I really love this Girl and behold she sent me friend request! I was trying to hook back up with her. Well we was in love nd I took short visit so we could sell the deal. I had to change my flight home couple times. We got married and I'm happiest man alive! I'm here in States, liquidating everything! I'll probably give away lots of stuff so I be with my family! O she has the sweetest 9 year old Princess! Who also will have my name!
Yeah man, pull that plug and find a lovely Filipina! Many there and they love Americans! O yes we building a Sari, Sari store for their future! Yes I'm in heaven! O I'm 71 and she is a beautiful, Gorgeous, sexy Hot 41! Looks maybe in early 30s!
Having come out here to the Philippines after online chatting for 2 years , i would definitely suggest not to rush into a relationship with a girl you meet after a LDR ,best thing is to forget online dating and just come here and meet the girls in person
What a good and truthful comment‼️ thank you
Kinda tough some of these girls online are so accommodating. WOW. But totally don’t jump into anything ‼️
That doesn't work with young ladies anymore, they are stuck in their phones 24/7
I've been living in the Philippines for a year here in Bohol, I've dated province women and have had a different experience than other foriegners. The woman i dated were definitely not submissive in anyway, they could be super demanding and overly sensitive and easily hurt but they will point out and criticize any fault you have but are totally unwilling to criticize themselves or unable to have any self awareness.
I've been in the philippines for 2 months and in cebu specifically for three and a half weeks in total, and all eight of the women that i met romantically were incredibly submissive, agreeable, asking to give me a massage at night, cooking meals for me, etc. i don't mean to make this a criticism system of you but the issue is probably with you and the message you're sending to these women. Reevaluate and adjust
I’d say wait a bit more than 1-2 dates to generalize also. Submissiveness isn’t going to last in most cases.
I've found these yellow flags:
1. Asking for even a small amount of money, or hinting at same.
2. impatience as to meeting certain requests or criteria.
3. won't do video chat.
4. Sends naked photo without being requested (I wouldn't ask for one).
5. Online tampo or losing temper (e.g. typing in ALL CAPS about a disagreed point0.
6. Won't show a pic of her outside or the view out of her window.
These are red flags lol
Great points and thanks as always for commenting!
If those are your yellow flags, I cringe to think of what your red flags would be.😮
@@Lawrencerice asking for large investments and claiming their aunt is a CEO of a major international bank who feeds them inside information 😂I literally have seen that one. They had someone do the video calls too in poor quality who had a similar skin tone to the woman in their photos. But the woman in the photos was korean and the voice was indian accent 😂
@Sniper.424 Because to me "red flag" is an instant "no." Pinay are shy, so there might be a reason for avoiding video, at least at first.
The one time I was scammed, the woman INSISTED on a nightly video call.
Expect most women here to be 100% financially dependent on you if you enter into a relationship with them , if not then you'll see them rarely cause most jobs are 10 hours a day 6 days a week
100% not true. The women i have met all had high interest in me and even the province girls without a lot of money make an effort to spend what money they can and not a single one have asked me for 1 peso.
The girls with 'good dialogue and banter" are almost always the players and streetwise
That's a good point in a lot of cases you are absolutely right. I've had good dialogue with girls who work in call centers also teachers/nurses etc. but they are harder to meet.
Well done Chad! Ur climbing up that ladder where u are the best!
The right one is out there for you Chad; just keep living your best life , keep being positive and definitely stick to your core values , goals and aspirations !! I love how you keep your videos positive and it really is a testament to how much of a stand up guy you are. Keep on keeping on … 🥰
Thank you for saying that! Appreciate you watching and supporting the channel
Very valuable info Chad. Keep up with your good work! Thanks
Thank you! More to come :)
Thank you! I had not considered what you said about making your own short video, excellent idea!
You're welcome thanks for watching!
My experience here is that 90% of the women will put there immediate and extended family first
The biggest problem with dating filipina 😅😅I just ended a 3.5yr relationship and it's sad bc you waste time, energy and resources. I just date short term noting serious and enjoy my early retirement..I'm only 50yr old but look 35yr
Nope. You are just not meeting women who have a high level of interest in you.
It's not uncommon for Filipina in her 20s to have one or both parents deceased as well.
They might put their family first but they are submitting to me and treating me like a king so far that's what I've seen..
@@addictcar69😂😂you "only 50 years old"???
Bro you just 10 years away from your 60.
10 years is nothing nowadays
You are in your last decade to enjoy life fully, after 60 you louse mobility rampantly, you become senior citizen, life after 60 don't make any sense bro.
You look 35?????
Bro you foolish, people thinking coz they jogging, do gym , they think looks 10-15 years younger, that is a disease bro, is a illness, trust me .
You are 50 , you looking 50 , or as much you can look as a 45 .
Me I am 40 and I look 40 , that's it.
😂😂😂😂 don't Fool yourself.
Great info!
Just spent 3 months in the Philippines and I agree 100% on what you experienced, including the last instance where you just met the girl and she wants to sleep with you immediately. It might sound a good idea, but it never is in my opinion. Thank you for your video
Creating soul ties......It's a common strategy! You'll pay a high price for it later
Great information just started watching ur channel truly appreciate your insight
Hey you're welcome thanks for watching!
Very well explained
Sadly most women here have dental issues
Good stuff Chad. We should meet up sometime if you have time. See you around the neighborhood:)
Are you in cebu?
@@ChadFosterExplores Yeah man. I'm in the Business Park. :)
You are an expert 😊. Maybe you could start a dating service business to help westerners find true legitimate Filipinas who are really looking for love 😊
I also recommend going there and side stepping the online scammers. Maybe the online thing can work out for some. Also, there's a lot of foreign workers in the west if you have not noticed.
I know that there's a lot of older gentlemen that think they are in onto something with finding women in the Philippines. Personally, I think that can work if the age gap is not real huge and the guy is rather eligible. I've seen some guys in their late forties with a girl in her early thirties. That seems to work. However, I've seen a guy in his sixties with a girl in her twenties and then, I didn't see them again. I'm not sure what happened there.
The person who will clearly do the best is the younger fellow who has a bright future. For example, maybe he just graduated with a STEM degree and is looking for a wife but the local girls are not the best. For this guy, he could absolutely find a princess in the Philippines. This is a no brainer for that kind of guy. I've known a few that have done this and the world is their oyster.
Thank you for that thoughtful comment I appreciate it!
Filipinas go for the older guys in most cases for obvious reasons.
Thanks for sharing Chad, as you know I've followed your channel from pretty much day one (before you ended up with rose), even though your advice is sound for would be newbies like myself, I way prefer your other content where you're visiting different places, hotels you're staying in, the prices of them and what's on offer in the area, the food and cost of that etc etc, I couldn't really watch this to the end tbh, no disrespect or offense meant as I always like to leave positive comments, just my humble opinion that's all, regards from England 🍺🍺👍
You are probably my number one subscriber because you have been here since the beginning and always leave a great comment on every video, this comment is great as well and I appreciate your feedback! I will talk about it in one of my next few videos but the traveling around has stopped the last while as some circumstances changed and I will be heading back to Canada in a few days to see family and then to take care of stuff at my own place. However I will be coming back to the Philippines for sure in a few months. My content will be different for the next while and I apologize for that because I know you like the travel Vlog content with info on different places. I will be making some videos similar to that talking about the different areas I've been to and making general recommendations probably using some of the footage that I already have. But I understand not all of the content coming up will be suitable for you but I'll try to make it obvious in the title so viewers can decide if it's a good video for them to watch. Thank you always for your support and once again thank you for the feedback I appreciate it!
Thanks for the great onsite intel Chad new subscriber here all the way from Toronto Canada planning my move went in to I T looking to work remotely all systems go lol thanks again keep up the good work brother 👍🏿🇨🇦
Hey there you live in my hometown! Thanks for subscribing and watching I appreciate it and good luck with your adventure!
@@ChadFosterExplores right on man whenever I'm in Philippines I'll keep my eye out safe travels man 👍🏿🇨🇦
Good information doing a great job Chad. I hope you’re still with your girlfriend that was in the last few months of VLOGs. Seemed like a very nice young lady.
Hey Neal thanks for watching and thanks for the comment I appreciate that! Unfortunately I wish I could say otherwise but Rosie and I have parted ways, I'll always remember the adventures we shared together, unfortunately sometimes things happen behind the scenes and moving on is the best thing. Thanks again for watching I really appreciate it
I saw your interview with Paul and then just watched this video all the way through that is very interesting and informative. I am going to look at the two websites that you recommended but is seems the best thing to do is to go to the Philippines in person, so I may go there when it gets too hot in Spain around April time. Information about how to find suitable but CHEAP accommodation would be most helpful, and the cost of living. There is so much to think about and when does it rain there? How much is a reasonably priced car? How does one get a driving license driving test? I do not have a driving license as it expired and I am an experienced driver both in the UK and in Spain & other parts of the EU. What side of the road do they drive on....I could go on forever asking such questions.....
So I am not really for dating apps or websites. For me I am probably too old school lol. But I prefer organic build up in a relationship basically the unexpected meeting someone out of the blue and see how things take off. but that's me also. I am sure you will find your way and the ultimate relationship. Cheers
I actually agree with you online dating can be a good way to go for a lot of people but natural organic build up for a relationship is always the best, thanks for commenting!
Online dating apps are good for a hookup most girls have multiple guy's on the go maybe even a fillipina boyfriend
They will hookup with a foreigner when he goes back home They will hookup with another foreign guy
But it can be fun way to date around meet lost of pretty girls
If your looking for a serious relationship its best to try to meet someone in person a girl that hasn't dated a foreign guy before
Thanks for sharing
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Eight months? You are a newbie! Ive been here 9 years! Right now back in Manila. In that time 5 trips to Mindanao, inc Zamboanga, Gen San, Butuan, Surigao, Catabato etc... maybe Im missing one.... Ivve seen NPA in the mountains in Samar... and some not so nice Muslim gents just outside Gen San that gave me some problems. I've done at least 10-11 trips to Cebu, Dumaguete, Samar, Leyte and so on. To Palawan and all over Luzon. I could write two books a novel about this place. But, even after all of that time I'm still shocked at times about this place. And, its not just with the ladies too... almost all of it... Good luck gents, you're going to need it and hey think with the head God put on your shoulders and not the other one.
Ok, that's great, but you didn't say anything of value here, other than you traveled, ..What shocked you.? what are your tips for the ladies.?
of value? are you the comments police? I was just sharing my experience. If you want "value" watch more youtube vloggers is my suggestion.@@Postofficejoe
@@dollarjilt1 Yes, and you are arrested for wasting my time reading your comment, again "no value" to it, I've been there too, but you brag about 9 years there, "could write 2 books", but don't give us anything from you experience, just good luck...hahaha.
Again after 9 years, What shocked you.? what are your tips for the ladies.?
I didn't even read all of what you wrote... man GET A LIFE@@Postofficejoe
Just my opinion I feel Rosey was good for you, and you were good for Rosey surely do miss her hope y’all reconnect granted you decided to part ways and don’t know the circumstances behind you and Rosey departing but either way good luck to you
Hello Chad from Montreal, Canada🇨🇦❤️🇵🇭
Hello there! Montreal is an awesome city 🙂
Thanks as I am doing the online thing but taking it slow as I have 2 trips planned before I am officially boots on the ground. I have a good friend here who is married to a Filipina and been a wealth of actual advice from him being married 15 years and traveling back to visit as they now plan to retire there. The best advice is take it slow and don't jump as some do committing to LDR and then actually date others. Since it is for a Lifetime ya just got to take your time and because of the culture it is slower and harder to learn some details or know if it's the truth. And split your time up and meet several people just as you visit multiple locations but Stick to Your List and have her and the location check off as many boxes because settling too quick can lead to the disaster stories.
Yes, I cruised online dating and went through many! Finally, I found a keeper! But it's so frustrating trying to find honest, sincere Filipina! I went throw at least 50 and wow some of their stories! They must think old guys are stupid and always horny!
I just spent 7 weeks in Cebu. To accomplish one little task like make a simple trip to the grocery store? It ends up being an All Day affair. Bumper to bumper traffic out the *ss‼️ pollution thick enough to cut with a knife. Please experience for yourself 😮
I honestly like BGC or Makati better
Hey thanks for that information.....useful
You should consider writing an ebook and offering it to your Audience… start at the beginning
And have multiple chapters…and perhaps a bonus.. keep up the good work..
Thanks for that recommendation it's a good idea I've been thinking about different things similar to that I really appreciate the comment 😁
I found Filipino Cupid to be good.
Chad chat. Rosey is a dalagang filipina for a lucky guy.
Hey we’ve been watching your videos since the beginning , just wondering if you could share what happened with your 2 filipina girlfriends, like why r u travelling solo now?
Thank you for your comment and I totally understand why there is curiosity, the reason I haven't gone into detail is more out of respect for them and to not share personal details that they don't have any say in. I can say this, for my first experience meeting someone that was the video where I went to Bohol and met Sybelle, that didn't actually evolve into a full relationship we decided to go our separate ways somewhat early on because of some compatibility differences, and then most recently all I can say is sometimes things happen behind the scenes that lead to having to move on from a relationship. I will be making lots of videos on relationships here in the Philippines and some of this will be discussed in these videos, however it'll be generalized so I don't target them. I wanted to leave you a longer message because I do realize the importance of why many of my subscribers are wondering about these things...I wish I could give you more details. Thanks for watching and supporting the channel
@@ChadFosterExploresDon' t give them any details .You doing right thing to keeping as a private .They should not even ask ,they should respect your privacy .
Period
Good luck !
Do you have a video on the whole traveling to the Philippines process, do you need a visa or passport??
Hey there thanks for watching the videos! Yes you definitely need a passport and it cannot be expiring soon so look into that, you will receive a 29 day automatic visa when you arrive but I believe they are extending that if they haven't already, if you plan on staying longer you have to do a visa extension.
I'm coming in October. I thought about not even getting online dating and try to meet someone there in person once I get there. Is that even feasible or is online dating better?
Good idea lol. The worst that could happen is you're not compatible then you kindly excuse yourself. Lol
Hey Shane I meant to respond to you the other day, I think both options are really good and it depends a little bit on your comfort level and personality. Online is relatively easy to make connections and you will have a lot of conversations going that could lead to something good, however the challenge is navigating all of those options to find the good ones and also find the type of girl that you are looking for. Depending on the dating app there are a lot of girls that are looking more for money than a relationship. But there are a lot of really good ones too so you just have to put the work in. As far as meeting in person, the best way to do that is to get to know someone slowly rather than walking up to them and quickly trying to get their number. Try to find ways to meet girls that you know you can see again or do something that allows you to spend a little more time with that person. I recently spoke to someone that did a Cebu City tour and met someone on the tour he had the whole afternoon to get to know her before asking for her number. Just some thoughts to consider but I will be making more videos talking about all of this
@@shaneross64 I'm online dating but no luck at all ..I'm 37 single live in province ..
Chad your from the US or Canada ?
Originally Canada but my place is in the US
ChadChat. Lol. New channel name.
ChadGPT
We're you from In the States?
nice video again, thank you, may i ask you a question whats happened with rosie
Hey thank you for the comment, unfortunately things had to end, sometimes bad things happen that you don't see behind the scenes, I don't want to share details out of respect and I don't want to take advantage of having my platform and share those details. It's unfortunate but life must go on. Thank you for your support and watching the channel
@@ChadFosterExplores its ok i can understand
Where did you meet that cutie in Bohol?
I met Sybelle online on an app called OkCupid we met several months before coming to the Philippines.
Do Not think PHILIPPINES is the only SE Asian country to find a GF or wife.
Do Not forget about: Thailand, Myanmar, Vietnam, Malaysia, Laos, East Timor, Cambodia, Singapore, and Brunei.😊
Quite true, and well worth exploring -- but the language issue is a big headache everywhere except Singapore and Philippines.
Filipinos speak English though. I don’t think Chad wants to have to learn sign language 😂
@@dalexfilms but remember in se asisn countries. If they speak good english. They learn that from talking to many western men which means that, 🤫
what is it that you do not like about dating a western women ?
Do you mind sharing, or have you already, what happened with your cute GF (Rose?). It seemed like a good match. You guys had a lot of fun.
Hey there yes I've had a lot of messages about this I've replied but I have not shared details just out of respect and I don't want to take advantage of having a platform to share details to everyone all I can say is sometimes bad things happen and you have to move on.
@@ChadFosterExplores I understand. Sorry it was a "bad thing."
It was always gonna end that way, she was basically Americanized so you get that American result. Get a virgin girl from the province, that has yet to experience anything the world has and let yourself be the one to show her and let her experience everything with you in tow. Let her imprint on you and that’s you build something real, a biblical marriage. Less banter but you can settle down with them.
@@ChadFosterExplores so you been in the philippines for 8 months. how many girls have you dated there ? they all seemed like a good match especially rosie . what happened ?
@@casmor08What happend in Phillipines stay in Phillipines .... that is all you need to know 🤡
Chad. Open up and be honest why you and Rosie broke up. Rosie was a sweetheart and we miss her
Sometimes bad things happen, it would not be fair to her to share those details and use my platform to do so.
@nigelthomas6475 I'm doing well. 😊
I'm happy and contented of what I'm doing right now. Enjoying my job . ☺️ Continue to follow his adventures and support his channel. I appreciate you all.
@@rosemariebelia good luck for the future Rose, kind regards from England 🍺🍹👍
@davidheyes4771 Thank you so much appreciate it.
@@rosemariebeliawe miss you 😘
I will just add that several women took it upon themselves to take a bus from the province 3 or 4 hours away or a boat from Bohol to come and see me in Cebu city. I think you are making this transportation issue more difficult than it needs to be. If you are only dealing with women who have high interest in you they will come to see you and that makes everything smooth and seamless.
Mate you get 100 likes most are scams 🤥
Look for a woman who has a job. Who’s financially independent. Who doesn’t look at you as an ATM. Don’t go for these girls that are from the Barrios, who can not even express themselves and who are expecting you to take care of her family. Don’t fall into the dramas about their hard life. Most of all don’t go with very young girls…people will judge you as a dirty old man.
Lol Elenor, those independent woman are already in America why would you go to Ph for the same thing? Clueless.
@@Omar_Facio there are still like these kind of women in the Philippines but, I guess they’re not in a hurry to be in a relationship. They just want to enjoy life before settling down.
Bro... Maybe you'd have better luck with them girls in Latin America. They're still probably just as traditional as those Filipinas and they're crazy hot. Just gotta avoid getting kidnapped by the cartels! 😂
Haha let's go!
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