Why I Stopped Buying Designer Bags| luxury minimalist wardrobe shopping tips| no more luxury bags?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ก.ค. 2024
- Hi guys, I'm Eileen. So it looks like I haven't bought any designer bags in nearly 3 years (remember I used to do handbag unboxing videos? 🙈). In this video, I shared why I stopped buying designer bags. At the moment, I feel really content with my current collection. If you've watched my decluttering/downsizing videos, you'd probably think I'm on the way to declutter all my designer bags. Well so far, I have no intention of selling all my handbags :-) As a luxury minimalist, I really enjoy and admire designer bags, but I also believe in making every purchase with intention. This video is meant to share the reasons I've managed to stay consistent with my low-buy. Luxury minimalism has changed my life and I hope you will join me on this journey xx
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Thank you for watching this video about why why I stopped buying designer handbags (Yes, Hermes, Chanel, Louis Vuitton, and Chanel included) xx - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Hi! You definitely grow out of handbag obsession, I know I did. I sold almost all of my LV pieces, with the exception of a few that have true sentimental value to them. I sold all of my Chanel bags as well along with other designer handbags. I can say that I don’t miss not even one!! I have my mid designer bags that I love and I’m beyond happy with them. I refuse to ever become that high level consumer again.
❤️ that’s really inspiring to hear, it’s really a wonderful feeling when you know exactly what you want xx
I have slowed way down on my purchases after watching your videos for at least 6 months now. I find that I am more appreciative of what I buy and get more pleasure if I carefully choose what I truly want instead of just impulse buying and then not really caring about an item later on. There will always be lots of nice things to want, but I want to really care about what I bring home and I really hate too much clutter and too many choices. It gets overwhelming and kind of frustrating when I have too much. That takes the pleasure out of having nice things. Your videos have been tremendously helpful in assisting me with thinking things through before I spend. Also, I feel a lot less guilt because I'm not making mistakes and buying things on a whim.
I agree with you! Since I watch Eileen and low buy advice, I’m so much better. I hardly buy now. I know I will buy at some point but I’m truly enjoying and loving what I already have. And I credit Eileen for helping me see the light!
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for taking the time to write this beautiful message. It really keeps me going xx
You nailed it when you said it takes the pleasure out of having nice things. Thank you.
I agree with you!
I remember first stumbling across the makeup channels on YT. First I was so shocked that people have entire rooms dedicated to just makeup, but I slowly became engrossed in the subject. Eventually the constant releases, collections and reviews became boring. I moved on to skin-care channels and the same thing happened. Then handbag channels and, yep, the same thing happened. I learned a huge amount about all of those subjects, but there comes a point when it becomes repetitive and excessive. I still enjoy all of this, but I've figured out what works for me - I like what I like, and I'm not obsessed about anything in particular.
Haha that totally was me not too long ago xx
I agree with you!
The luxury handbag phase I went through was definitely a “TH-cam made me do it” moment, LOL. It was also a difficult time in my life and luxury shopping was a distraction for me. So, I am definitely over it. Sold it all. BTW I noticed in your last video you mentioned that your former content (unboxing, etc) got more attention. Reading the comments now, though, it has to feel good that your content is making a real difference in people’s lives and helping people! Anyone can open a box. You think of creative and new ways to share your message week after week. Bravo!
Thank you for taking the time to write this beautiful message, it really keeps me going especially during doubtful times xx
I agree with you!
Honestly, it's refreshing to see someone on social media who is NOT buying something new every five minutes. I have to say, I really appreciate your perspectives, the experiences you've shared, and I look forward to your videos. I know social media has driven the buying frenzy of luxury everywhere, but it has not really influenced my purchasing since I didn't start using Instagram until a couple of years ago (I'm old - lol) Although I've been buying luxury since the late 1970s, some of it was/is preowned. That's not to say that I haven't made mistakes, overbought, purchased items (clothing/bags/accessories) and later regretted or asked "Why the heck did I buy this?" My closets were full of such mistakes as there was a time when I also used shopping as an outlet :( Alas, no longer as I'm in a better place now and similar to where you are. I have spent the past few years clearing things out, in fact. I have also not bought any bags since 2019, and honestly, I am fine with that. In all, I have about 20 bags now in my collection, all of which are high quality, and I am happy and content with what I have. Do I get tempted sometimes? Sure. I occasionally run across something in a magazine or online or see someone wearing that I admire, but in the end, I just say No, and don't pull the trigger. I did buy some loafers from Tod's to wear to work since my old ones were worn out and beyond repair. LOL Otherwise, I'm just saving my money, practicing gratitude and enjoying the things I have. My focus now is maintaining my health and well-being more than anything else. All this crazy conspicuous consumption plastered all over social media is just utterly obscene given the things going on in the world anymore and a huge turnoff.
As with me, it is better when I regularly deactivate my Instagram account and I only shop when I have a forth trip planned/booked.
I agree with you!
I’ve just lost interest in luxury. Everything looks the same to me these days that I haven’t bother to keep up with what’s new. The price increases just turned me off. I feel like there is better things I can do with my money. My kids are getting older and I think I rather help them with their future. Instead of $10k for a bag I rather spend it on helping my kids get a car so they can get around independently for work and school. Plus it’s not like I don’t already have plenty of bags and luxury jewelry. I don’t know. Maybe because I’m in my middle age phase so these things aren’t important to me anymore.
Every time I look at the Chanel website the prices always give me a shock without fail lol xx
@@ColourfulNoir I was shocked when my friend told me the Jumbo is over $10k now. I haven’t been following for 3-4 years now so I wasn’t aware of how much the prices have gone up.
@@tippytoe1250 oh my, I'm definitely keeping my Jumbo for travelling. Been with me since 2012 and already had it cleaned and polished.
I agree with you!
Very good ideas, honey. 👍🏽
Your videos have really helped me find better peace of mind in my life. It is so nice to hear someone else has gone through the same struggles as me. I just wanted to let you know that this channel has been a great help to me and that I really appreciate you and the work you put into your videos!
I agree with you!
I feel like I'm slowly growing out of my handbag obsession! I used to think about handbags 24/7, which one I was going to get next and then as soon as I'd get it, the cycle would repeat. It's slowed down quite a bit recently and I'm hoping to get to your point! 💛
Sending you lots of positive energy ❤️
I have been bored, and went from one bag to thd next, and the next.
I am putting a stop to it now.
You have really inspired me to stick to my budget. So many luxury channels glamorize impulse buys. Thank you for making a positive difference in my life. I truly appreciate you and your content. I look up to you a lot.
Oh Heather, thank you so much for making my day! It truly makes me happy to hear my content is helping to make some positive changes xx
I've gotten more on board with intentional shopping after realizing how difficult it is to manage things once you have them. Selling bags is tedious and for vast majority of brands/styles its a money loss. I have to have a Birkin 30 before taking a buying break :-) But saving for the Birkin made me realize what is worth the money to me. And intentional shopping gives me gift of time to be doing other things!
Oh definitely! I now read a lot more and I've also started doing yoga and ice skating xx
I've definitely slowed down. Designer skin care is something I no longer buy. I am more aware of cruelty free products and now I find myself drawn to high quality obscure brands, eco-friendly clothing, vintage and thrifts finds. Thank you for sharing your journey
Hi Eileen! I have definitely slowed down on luxury purchases within the last two years. With the recent inflation, my views on luxury have changed. I have also been more mindful of what I bring into my home. Thank you for sharing. ❤
I totally agree! I'm now also mindful with everything else I buy, clutters are expensive to deal with xx
It is so easy to get tempted to want things that others have. Especially if we are constantly seeing things unboxed on TH-cam. I took a break from watching videos and focused on career and it has really given me some perspective. I do miss watching certain influencers because they are really cool people. I still love fashion but I realized I can admire things without putting them on a wishlist and trying to acquire them. I also realize that many people in the luxury TH-cam community are collectors and it is a hobby they enjoy and that is great but I am not a collector. I have limited funds and I don’t want to go into debt or sacrifice other things like self care to buy lux items especially with the continued price increases. I can still treat myself to something on my wishlist for my birthday but it would have to be something within my budget and no impulse buys. ♥
I think luxury channels are valuable in their own way for sure. If I’m interested in a certain bag, that’ll be the first place I drop by xx
Three years without buying a bag girl you’re amazing keep it up.
I’m really trying ,I’m now 17 months without a new bag because I turned it down with watching unboxing.
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Thank you Eileen! I know I’ve mentioned it in the past but you have really helped me slow down with my luxury shopping and to become more intentional with my shopping in general. I am still a work in progress but I definitely see a big difference in my choices. Shopping is a large black hole 🕳 and it’s never ending. I’m so happy I am not as shopping obsessed and compulsive as I used to be😂. Keep up the good work! ❤
It always makes me so happy to hear my content is helping to make positive changes, thank you for making my day xx
I have slowed right down on not only luxury purchases, but also just in general. I usually buy a bag for my birthday each year, however, this year with the interest rates going up significantly and inflation in general, I don't feel comfortable doing so. I am usually very intentional about what I buy, but lately I have been even more so.
Definitely! The inflation is pretty unbelievable at the moment xx
Hi Eileen,
Your videos helped me so much especially during the pandemic. What I found was that my spending habits and lifestyle caused my anxiety.
Since then, I’ve decluttered my entire home and changed my outlook on my life’s treasures that are priceless such as spending time in nature.
I like to treat myself to Chanel so I’ll continue paying the price but I’m at handbag peace having gone from 10 pieces down to 4.
Thank you for another great video🤍
Thanks for sharing your inspiring journey with us, Melissa xx
I have definitely slowed my purchasing down and I‘ve sold a number of pieces I bought on a whim because I just wasn’t reaching for them. I really relate to what you say about shopping being a hobby. I grew up in the UK in the 90s and shopping was just what we did at the weekend, every weekend! It has taken a long time to get out of that habit and fill my time with other things. Thanks for your videos btw, it’s nice to hear a sensible voice!
Oh yes it’s crazy how shopping has become a common past time xx
Completely agree that our environment do play a role in our expenses. I used to work in the CBD area (where all the shopping malls are) but after changing my job couple years ago to a more residential and sporting environment, I feel less pressure to buy 😅. Of course, I still buy but less frequently and compulsive these days.. thanks for sharing!
Very valid point! I'm posting a video about that in 2 weeks, do join us xx
Your video came in the good timing. I was kinda lost in the buying handbags game…. Kinda of tired now and suddenly think that they are just bags …. I don’t think I am disciplined enough to go to straight minimalism now, but I think I’m trying to spend my money on myself instead which made me feel better, like paying for gym and really attending it everyday, and spending on skincare that I use religiously daily and see good results with.. thanks for the video like this and please keep enlightening us 🙌🏻
Yoga, books, learning apps are all good options too xx
Thank you so much for yet another inspiring topic. I am happy and confident to say I am currently enjoying bag peace. It feels rewarding and peaceful not having the urge to rush out immediately to hunt for a new bag.
Look forward to your next videos.
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Thank you for the 3 years. I have stopped purchasing bags even clothes. Working with what I have love it. Even house stuff. If I go to a store is to purchase what I need and out I go. Don’t stay looking around. Even stop watching some TH-cam channel everything is buying and bags jewelry clothes. Love your channel
Thank you for your continuing support xx
I used to be the mindful shopper who would never spend money on designer bags. But just over a week ago, I placed and won a bid on a Mulberry bag. And before the bag even reached my overseas shipping address, I was already eyeing the same model in a different colour and considering whether to get it. 🤦♀️ all I can say is, I attribute this current craziness to a multitude of factors, chief among which is that I'm trying to improve certain circumstances in my life right now, and that those bags are a symbol of what I hoped will be my desired outcome.
Thank you for being real Eileen!❤
You have definitely helped a lot of us to become more mindful with our purchases! I bought a new bag just recently though but it was to fill a gap in my closet. Whenever I feel tempted, I’d ask myself if I have a similar one in my closet and if I already used my current ones well enough for them to be replaced.
We all get tempted but sometimes we can actually just appreciate from afar (we don’t need to actually own it!)
Plus I always keep in mind that what works for others might not necessarily work for me
I’d love to know what (and how many!) bags are left in your closet now! Hope you can make an updated bag collection? I’m always challenging myself to have fewer bags..I have only 15 now! (From almost 30!)
My collection video is coming next week! Certain prices are taking longer to sell but I’ve covered it all in that video xx
I have had retail addiction/obsession for a very, very long time. I have a very bad financial status right now bc of this. But I never cared before that my finances were bad. As long as I had my fave luxury brands. Thank God I have changed this!
Thank you for sharing this with us! It’s refreshing to hear first hand personal insight that a shiny cover doesn’t always mean everything xx
I love your videos, they make me stop and think about my spending and if I really can't live without the new bag. thank you!
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I really enjoy watching your videos. Your desire of minimalism has really inspired me to reflect on myself and how I spend my money. I’ve also stopped buying luxury pieces (recently) due to the crazy price increases and the inflation is no joke. Nowadays, I only buy what I need. I appreciate your content and it really helps keeping me in check😊 cheers!
Hi Linny, it’s a refreshing feeling to take control of our own spending for sure 😕 I’m glad you found the same peace and joy xx
Wow, so inspirational. Thank you, Eileen!
For me this goes with my online “surroundings”. That content absolutely affects my spending habits. Working on skewing this in my favor.
There are some intriguing content on TH-cam! I'm currently really into tiny house movement lol xx
Dear 'former crazy bag lady' (lol), I feel you. Thank you for another lovely video.
I for one have very little desire to make these companies even richer than they already are. Especially since quality has definately not risen with price. Have a lovely day!
Maybe I will, lots of people have been recommending Polene xx
I commented in a thread but you might not see it so I just wanted to say that I love this content..! ❤️ I came across your channel the other day and I can’t stop watching! I think I might have seen you before maybe when you were doing the unboxings but the content you’re creating now is really gripping me! I don’t have any pieces yet but I’m really passionate about the topic and I have a list of what I want. And what I love most is finding meaning in the topic of luxury items and hearing how other people get meaning from what they have even from a small number of items and why they chose what they chose, what they use the most, how they make them feel etc. And I’m loving every single video! It’s really inspirational and so nourishing to hear about the meaning these items bring into your life rather than just seeing unboxings which can be the focus with some channels ☺️❤️
Aww this made my day! Thank you so much xx
Thanks so much for sharing Eileen.
I would say the pandemic does change the way of my lifestyle. I used to buy 3 - 4 handbags per year, please don't get me wrong, I still love handbags but I only acquire one bag this year, which makes me think thoroughly before the purchase. Besides, downsizing my handbag collection does give me peace. Now I'm happy with and appreciate more of what I have already own.
I also feel less distracted when I downsized my things to a more manageable amount xx
For few years already I am an aspiring minimalist and do only intentional shopping 🛍. I noted though that I moved to other extreme of not finding anything what would be worth my effort and spending my money. I buy when I have to but as I don’t have to really, I go shopping 🛍 to my wardrobe as much as possible.
The last bag I bought was also three years ago and it was an Hermès Birkin 30cm in a bright yellow because I knew it was likely the last. I’m there with you.
Wow a bright yellow! Must be quite a piece. I'm a coward when it comes to colours lol xx
Hi Eileen,
I’m with you on this topic. Not only am I at peace with my bag collection, being intentional with my purchases has helped me stay grounded.
Earlier this year, I have every intention to add a VCA holiday pendant to my collection. As the day approaching, my SA has reached out…and I realised I no longer fancied it, and would rather keep that money for investment.
You see, once we make a habit of living intentionally, it becomes our second nature…we don’t get too excited with shiny new things…
I still very much enjoyed my jewellery, bags, clothes, but now chose to shop within my closet.
With everything opens up again, we were able to go out more. I didn’t find the need to buy new things for the occasion…yet still look very well put together.
Your channel has inspired many. Don’t be discouraged by few negative comments. You do you Eileen. Stay true to yourself 🌹
As for me…I have reached & stayed in my Zen zone…will now move on to my next phase…financially independent…it might be sooner than I anticipated 🤞✌️
Thank you for sharing this with us! You put my thoughts in such articulate way. At times I do doubt if I’m odd for feeling the joy of having less, but the many genuine messages here tell me I’m not alone, and I’m glad so many people in this community here have found the same peace xx
Oh I can totally relate. Also, if you're not careful, TH-cam (social media) will have you LUXURIOUSLY BROKE.🤣 I can't be controlled like that. I'm still waiting for that perfect bag for me with NO PRESSURE. Pushing 5 years, I'm waiting on the bubble to burst.🤣 Another Awesome Video Eileen. 🧡
Wow 5 years! Kudos to you xx
Yes city life affects how we live. It takes discipline to say no to such temptations. I’ve stopped buying for now too. I’ll only celebrate real milestone birthdays with designer bags now if I can afford them 😊😍
Very sensible indeed xx
I have not gone to the way where i bought a few Chanel's handbags in a year but your video definitely a wake up call. Yes, i do love luxury handbags, jewelry but am really mindful of what i purchased. Yes definitely adding a stocks that can grow the investment is surely better than a handbag. As much i hope to have a piece of Hermes handbag, be it Berkin or Kelly but i really hate the rules of buying other stuff before being offered. Not building any of my purchase history but if i have it, perhaps if i am in Paris and get one. I am a happy of my small handbags collection of LV, Chanel and YSL but am really careful of adding more. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing ❤️
I found your video because I was struck yesterday with the strongest urge to sell off my luxury bags and invest in a few bags that I know are well made and reasonably priced (Frye, for example). I have been so turned off my the significant price increases and, in some cases, the simultaneous downturn of quality. Your video made me feel not alone. Thank you!
I’m working on this. It’s almost a hobby and it’s kinda making me sick when I look at them. I want to pay off my debt and get myself more grounded and make my money work for me. I’d love to go one year.
You can do it! It’s amazing what a difference we can make just with a bit of intention xx
Your videos helped me enjoy my current collection and sold a bunch!!!!!
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Instead of buying more things, I started decluttering and only keeping what I really like and use. Getting rid of stuff I bought for my "fantasy self" allowed some serious reflection on what not to buy again. Having less makes dressing up process so much easier and more creative. I still crave "fantasy self" items, but choose inexpensive second hand options.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us xx
I’ve adopted a luxury minimalist lifestyle as well. I stick to classic pieces in my wardrobe and it has caused me to shop less than before. I’ve reduced the amount of skincare and makeup products I purchase too. I realized I bought stuff just to try what’s new and most of it would expire. Now I’ve invested in what’s best for my skin and overall look. Instead of trying the latest Sephora launch I go to my dermatologist and get what’s best for my skin health. I was shocked to see how much of my former products were unnecessary and now I use Derm recommended Drugstore products and a prescription retinoid. My skin has never been better.
Totally agree! Paying to see a professional dermatologist is one of the best things I've done for myself xx
Hi Eileen! Youate such an inspiration for me! Because of you, I am literally decluttering my closet with things that doesn't make sense to me anymore. Mostly things i don't wear anymore or bags that have been stuck in my closet. I love the idea of luxury minimalist because of what it comes with it. After watching a documentary about fast fashion and cheap buys, i have even more reason to buy things with a purpose. I only have two designer bags. Of course I have a small list of things that I would like to have because is classic and i see as an investment. Your comment about living in the city and it's temptations, i agree 💯 with you. I just came back from New York city with temptations everywhere! I own the same watch for 10 years! It's a MK one that I love very much but is oversized and it does not match with some jewelries i have,, but this last trip to NYC I bought a Rolex. It was not brand new, it was from a famous consignment store that I think it was a great deal. It will match my wedding ring and bracelets I own. I do live in the suburbs in Philadelphia. Thank you for this chanel! I am always here and on your IG ;)
Hi Diane, I’m so happy my content has brought some positive changes to your life! It really made my day 🥹
I feel like it’s all about contemporary bags right now. Like coach, longchamp, etc. it’s making a comeback. I see it happening.
Oh I do love Longchamp xx
The way that lv, chanel and others have doubled or even trippled their prices during the last 5-10 years is just crazy in my opinion because the quality of the products didn't increase at all. That is why I took a step back from buying luxury items. If there is anything that I really want for a long time and the item is high quality and timeless, I will still consider saving some money for it. But I will check the pre-loved market first.
Very valid points xx
Thank you for being honest. I stopped years ago. I’m happy with the bags I have. I’m wearing them and enjoying them. Don’t need to spend money. I rather save and prepare for the future
Love the idea of Hermes stocks!
I love your videos. I have not slowed down my bag purchases BUT I only started buying a few years ago and only ever have bought 1-2 bags per year. I haven't ever bought anything like Chanel or Hermes because they are just too expensive. LV and Dior you can often find secondhand at reasonable prices, and new I have a few from Lanvin and Loewe, which are very good quality and have unique styles often in fun colors (I am not at all a "classic bag" person and am more a "what is THAT" person in terms of bag style). If the prices increase beyond what I am willing to pay, I will reduce to even less than that or just be happy with what I already have. But I am also not a changing-handbags person and just carry one at a time and as recently as four years ago would carry the same one for 2-3 years. Now I carry the same one for 6 months to a year but have a few old ones I keep in my closet to change out with for a few days occasionally. I doubt I will ever be the sort of handbag lover who has a different bag for every outfit, so that really keeps my buying in check. Even if I love a bag, I know I will simply not wear it every day if I already like the one I'm using!
It’s great that you’re intentional with your decisions, you’re in a good place xx
Well done! I hope I am growing out of this too. 5 bags in 4 months, and enough is enough.
Much needed Thanks
Thank you for showing up xx
Apart from where you live and work, your kids’ school also puts pressure on one’s spending on clothings and cars. My kid goes to a private school. A private school event is like a handbag, car and Jewellery show. Some moms really look down on you and do not talk to you if you do not carry the most luxurious handbag or drive a luxury make of car.
At first, I felt the pressure of social comparison. However, the more I know them, I realize that they are nowhere financially stronger than me. They have expensive taste and high consumption habits. On the other hand, my husband and I are the millionaire next door (those who doesn’t look but are actually wealthy). We live below our means and save as much as we can. So I told myself I should ignore what others consume or use, and more importantly, how they view us. I do own a small collection of handbags and Jewellery I truly like.
I can totally relate and I’ve been warned it’ll only get worse because the kids will also start comparing between themselves. I have that yet to come xx
@@ColourfulNoir Yes. That would be one of the most challenging parts in parenting.
I have a friend who is a “millionaire next door” type, even more frugal and wealthy. He sent his only kid to a more down-to-earth private school for the good education. Even though it is a not a too expensive private school, there are some rich kids (though in minority). His kid is in puberty so keeps asking him why their apartment (we are in hk) is so small, why they don’t have a car, if they are really poor, etc.
My friend is not a billionaire for sure. But he has a higher than average net-worth thanks to his early investment and frugality. His kid doesn’t know it.
Parenting is hard. It’s even harder in this technological advance worth where the price tag of everything can be googled at the tip of our fingers. And Your kid may get in your way to financial freedom. Let’s work hard on that, too. 😊
You have such a wonderful son, so nice to see you both walking down the street✨
😊 thank you
Loving your videos Eileen!
Honestly, similarly to you, I find the newer luxury handbags incredibly underwhelming and feel so uninspired when I go to luxury department stores. Now that I’ve found places that produce real leather luxury handbag dupes (no designer labels etc) for a fraction of the price, I no longer have desire to buy into luxury brand names. I feel similarly about perfumes now that I’ve discovered online boutiques that sell oil versions of well known luxury fragrances.
I rather spend my money on real gold jewellery now tbh
You're one rational shopper, kudos to you xx
Indeed, I have the same impression. The “names” of brands seem irrelevant nowadays and it seems more important to me to buy something real like real jewellery (not gold plated) or real estate.
I returned my brand new Neo Classic City Bag in size Medium due to the inflation! I loved the bag, got it with 25% discount plus a 10% voucher but carrying it during this times just felt wrong and irresponsible to me! I also own Hermes stock 😂 if i can’t have a birkin at least i have something from Hermes.
Wow that’s some serious discount there but it’s great you followed your heart! I remember years ago I came across an Hermes Jypsiere, my husband was encouraging me to buy it. I’m surprised I turned it down seeing I was really into shopping at that point. Anyway I came home and put that money straight into my investment account- best feeling ever ❤️
I can’t stop! LOL I quit buying ready to wear but I can’t give up bags!
Oh yes I know bags are the tricky ones lol!
Please share your current bag collection! I love looking at small collections.
Coming up next week xx
Not designer but on the contrary I’ve bought more bags this year than the previous years… some of my bags either got ruined from storage (humidity is a btch) or just gave up. I am mote intentional than ever in my purchases though! Been going for contemporary brands since that’s what in my price range but will still last long. Super duper happy with my 15 bags (seems a lot but they’re all different sizes and purposes I swear..😂)
The only bag I’m currently lusting ver is the Polene Beri but it doesn’t fulfill a gap in my collection so I haven’t bought.
Polene definitely sounds like it's a very well like brand here xx
I absolutely love your videos and am asking this with the most respectful and kind intentions :) I’ve seen so many TH-camrs (latest KatL) reach purse peace after getting their Birkin and Kelly. Nothing else seems to attract them and they sell off their other bags and don’t have a desire to buy more. BKC isn’t in my budget, but after getting my entry level Hermes bags in etoupe and gold, I’ve had almost no desire to buy more bags. So i guess I’m wondering, if you didn’t have the BK and chanel classic flap already, would you feel the same way? There are almost no other bags to attain that are “higher” than the BK/chanel classic flap. TH-camrs like Chase Amie or Sophie Shohet continue to buy a variety of bags, but they’re not into Hermes. So i wonder if it’s an Hermes thing as well :) Again, I love your videos and am just sharing my thoughts with the most kind intention. I could be absolutely wrong! Keep making your wonderful videos!
I think it's a valid point in a way, although I don't think it's entirely the reason I stopped buying. Before I came across minimalism, I was interested in MANY Hermes bags- constance, kelly pochette, mini kelly, kelly retourne 25 and the list goes on. My SA even said she would work on getting me all the bags on my wish list (of course it had something to do with my obsession with their fine jewellery as well at that point). So I think if I hadn't learnt about minimalism, I really would have just kept going, thinking I had achieved something by acquiring all the hard-to-get handbags xx
At the end of the day, there's 2 kinds of bags I would buy. Bags I would used very often such as my Mcm fanny pack and Chanel camera bag which I love using practically every weekend and some designer bags that I love it for its design, craftsmanship and don't mind putting it on display to admire it cos I don't have a lifestyle to use it. Such as my Fendi pearl peekaboo. I think just indulge it in a single digit and at an affordable size. I have only 7 designer bags n I'm happy with what I have. 😃
I’ve been binge watching you , snd hello catwalk city -Erica’s girly world as well -I feel you all honest -not just unboxing weekly bags that most w large followings get for free -HCw calls it purse peace -
Thank you for your support xx
I needed this video….
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I can totally relate ❤
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Congratulations🎊👏
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You are very smart! Like your videos
Thank you cx
I recently traveled to Denmark via London, and shopped. UK no longer offers tax refund to foreign buyers, and prices of LV bags are lower than those in US but higher than those in European countries. Prices of Chanel classic flap bags are almost the same in US, UK, and European countries. They are outrageously high. European countries are the best places so far to buy LV for people from US. I guess LV has a very strong market in US where they can raise their prices more aggressively than they do in UK and European countries.
The UK reversed that decision within the last week.
I am officially done! After I did my last purchase at LV last week.
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I slowed down buying any bags because I am so tired of playing games and chasing down the Items I love…I am still willing to pay the prices but then I expect „a red carpet“-feeling 😅
And some champagne too lol xx
How did you buy Hermes stocks? I thought they are a private company and not public..can you please share info? Thanks!
They have been publicly trading since 1995 if my memory serves me right. They are fairly accessible through most established brokers, but I certainly recommend doing some research before investing in any individual stocks xx
@@ColourfulNoir thank you! I will look into it..
Love this video! Thank you! Would love to know how did you invest at Hermes stock? It would be interesting to find out! Thanks for being an inspiration! 🙏🏼🥰x
Hi, dear. I love your videos. I would love to hear which minimalism content creators you recommend.
To be honest I don’t watch much luxury content. At the moment I’m loving
1) Cottage fairy
2) malama life
3) apartment therapy
4) never too small
5) tiny house movement
Hope that helps xx
Thank you for the video. But don’t you think that you don’t feel the need to buy more handbags because you already have Hermès bags ?
Hi! I recently been into perfumes and was wondering if you could share your collection? I watched several videos on TH-cam but mostly everyone has such an excessive collection (no judgement). I just want to know essential scents you need and how many ask I do not want hundreds of perfume bottles 😅
I have a very small collection but my fav is the Hermes Twilly xx
@@ColourfulNoir thank you for the response 🥰
Used to be obsessed with sneakers until I ended up settling with comfy vans and nb 574s. Im no longer a sneakerhead!
It’s struggle not to buy things just because I’m bored, it’s always something new to buy. Something is really wrong with that.
I think I am at purse peace as well. I can look but I am not tempted to pull the trigger.
Being able to admire without the compulsive urge to buy is a superpower x
Prices are way to much now it's taken the fun out of it for me.I would feel guilty to buy at these price points.I have sold all of my collections except for a few I really like and don't miss them at all.I think you can get involved in collecting many different things and before you know it you have to much and you sell it or give it away.Candles I joined a club and in a year I had boxes of them that I sold so now I don't sign up for monthly boxes because it's a waste of money really and how much do you really need at some point it gets to be all to much.
Totally relatable! If we just go through the motion, things can really pile up xx
I also have slowed down as i start working, knowing how hard it is earning money makes me feel like spending thousands on a handbag is such a waste of money
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Dear Eileen thank you for a wonderful video content again. Can you please give some recommendations about youtube videos that you watch also can you please provide some guidance in teeth whitening? regards, Ana
Hi Ana, at the moment I love Cottage Fairy, Malama life, tiny house movement, just to name a few. As with teeth whitening, it really depends on where you’re based. In the uk, the gel concentration is quite a bit lower than in the US for example xx
❤ My price range has always been in the Coach/Kate Spade/Dooney/Micheal Kors area. I recently went to the outlets near our home to find a new black bag. I had paired down to only one handbag and found it to be a mistake. I don’t think it goes with everything I wear & I have realized it’s a bit too big. So I regrouped and decided I may need 3-5 bags for my collection so I don’t wear out one. I noticed Coach raised their prices and the quality of my current bag has changed. I’ve noticed that the inside flap is a different fabric. Sooooooo…I went to a store I have never stopped in. Tory Burch-and I found a very well made saffiano leather crossbody that is really well made. The inside flap is leather and the hardware is minimal. The inside zipper is weighty and the fabric inside looks and feels very thick. 🤔 I’m going to go back and hopefully find other styles that will work with my wardrobe. Thank you for this helpful topic, my hope is to one day own a Bally handbag in the signature logo collection. It’s my very fav. ❤
Bally definitely looks like a solid low key brand xx
Did you end up getting your new tote bag? A tote is on my list but a small one ❤
I have never owned a luxury handbag but we all have our little thing that we like and tend to buy to much of.
I guess we can get carried away with anything if we’re not careful. I was obsessed with dangling earrings and high heels at one point, but I didn’t even enjoy wearing them xx
@@ColourfulNoir I think that it is human to get attracted to things and we do sometimes get carried away. Over time we learn what is important to us.
You stopped buying because you already have the best of the best aka Birkins and Kellys! Lol 😂
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Not true. she could be unboxing every week and enable people with bad shopping habits which is sick but she’s not. And many people with her collection are still buying each week.
Not true. So many luxury content creators have multiple Hermes bags and continue to buy from other designers despite having 10 Birkens under their belt.
To be honest, back then I had such close relationship with my Hermes SA, it really wouldn’t be hard to get some other very sought after handbags, if I kept shopping the way I did. In fact I probably would have kept going if I didn’t come across minimalism.
I’ve done a video on this - “is Hermes minimalism”. That is, of course, if you’re interested 🙂
I've stopped buying designer to focus on my fine jewelry collection.
Bag spying...😄
Do you grow out of jewellery obsession too? Handbags don't excite me anymore but I am having a tough time saying no to jewellery!
I can relate! I've been browsing jewellery a lot more than bags xx
Could it be because you have already gotten the holy grail, there is no point buying the lower pricebrands, you will not love them as much as the Hermes ones... 🤔
I think it's one of the factors, but considering how good a relationship I had with my Hermes SA, I could've kept going and only stopped until I managed to buy all my other "holo grails", such as mini lindy, constance, kelly pochette, and the list goes on. It's how you look at it I guess 😉
I think it’s normal you are no longer interested in luxury bag’s because you’ve been there - you’be made the purchases in the past and you satisfied the craving for it. You reached your own peak and now it’s no longer appealing to you
I think I used to suffer from panic buying. In store and especially in consignment stores. I thank god for my bag peace now. I’m okay. I also now buy stocks instead. MC stock is at around 614 EUR today, I challenge you to find a bag at that price on the LV website 😅
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Please do give investment advice love - why not? thats would be very creative
You can pick up luxury bags at Costco, and on catchoftheday. That's how you know it's not a luxury any more! LOL
I don't think I will ever grow out of it 😟. I am a crazy bag lady
These days I am also feeling not inspired with the bags being released. I feel most of the houses being owned by the same group is starting to show. It's all slowly becoming the same.
Many flap bags do now look overly similar xx
Well, i ´ll never seller my Chanel`s bag or LV or Hermés, because i haven´t any of those. I have no money to buy such a luxury bags. I´m a minimalist for sure. 🤣
Due to inflation and financial crisis in the economy state nowadays forced me to priotize; i used to prioritize every single thing. Now i stick to 3 things to prioritize: travelling, skincare & investment
Smart decdecision
They're just thing! when you due you don't take anything you! buy experiences w loved ones.
Definitely xx
Well,maybe if you look at contemporary brands instead of the top tier brands.😂😂😂
I have never been interesting in luxury items even though the inflation is not affecting me much. I just simply don’t want to join the crowds carrying the same logo and products everywhere. 😁
All the knock offs people are buying made me not want to buy a designer
I feel like you have been repeating yourself for all your videos content. If you’re not buying luxury anymore, you should stop doing this topic. You’re going back and forth yourself with the same topic every time. I love watching luxury videos and understanding where you’re coming from. But the same old message over n over again? As if you have nothing to film anymore. It’s good that luxury handbags don’t excite you anymore, so you should move on.
I see creating content as a way to document my journey. I wouldn’t say I’m anti luxury at all, I’m just looking at it from a different angle now. Certain people came here because of my unboxing videos so I can understand if the current content doesn’t feel relatable anymore, however what I convey in my videos are just some honest thoughts.I think luxury content can be very helpful but I just wish someone was there to tell me to stay grounded.
@@ColourfulNoir Yes you can give honest thoughts and advices, that’s fine. But if that’s gonna be the sole content of all your videos, it’s weird. It’s like a chef on a cooking channel keeps asking people to stop cooking and gives out honest advices on how you can eat out or how amazing food delivery is. Once or twice is fine, but if that’s gonna be the only content of the cooking channel, it just doesn’t feel right.
@@ColourfulNoir I came across your channel the other day (I’m sure I’ve seen your videos before) and I am IN LOVE with your channel.. I can’t stop watching or reading the comment sections for conversation. I love luxury because I love the idea of buying things for the long-term that feel special. I don’t have any pieces just yet but I have a lot on my list! Im passionate about it and what I love most in the meaning I get from the topic. And your channel is FULL of so much meaning and conversation and it feels so good to watch!! I have loved every video so far! Definitely don’t stop creating this content, it’s gold!! ❤️ I don’t know whether you’ll see this because it’s within a thread so I’ll also comment on your main video I think! ☺️✨