Why Women Don't Like "GOOD" Men (DATING ADVICE)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ย. 2024
- Why women don't like "good" men or "nice guys." In this dating advice video, I discuss why women don't like inauthentic good men, or nice guys - and why they prefer men who are more direct, confident, and honest.
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I can’t tell you how tired I am of hearing that women want masculine men with leadership qualities…
Then proceed to argue every single decision, suggestion, or proposal, because… feminism (?). At some point the man gets tired of having a partner that’s an adversary, rather than an ally.
Then we’re the a-holes because we give in, or leave.
This is so true. They say men are intimidated, but in reality men want an partner. Not war in his own home
Oh please, there are females obsessing over losers who have no masculine or leadership qualities. They are just physically attracted to them.
Nothing to do with being a bad boy or being nice guy... its all about looks.
I disagree with you regarding following up on scheduled dates. My time is valuable to me, and so if I’ve made plans with someone and am not sure if they’re committed, I’ll send a quick “Hey checking in to confirm we’re meeting here at this time.” I don’t see that as needy, but as being protective of my time and energy. This actually happened to me recently, and I’m glad that I followed up instead of driving an hour to be stood up.
The rest of this I completely agree with.
Most women want to be "strong & independent boss babes" but still expect men to make the first move. If you constantly wait on men to make the first move instead of taking initiative yourself, you are not strong nor a boss.
THIS 👏👏👏
Be a man that doesn't care. Just be happy be yourself. Women will not enhance your life. When you dont care your life will be simple and rewarding doing other things
Women........'i like bad boys'
Women........'where have all the good men gone?
Me...........🤔🤨
They are in her friend zone
I don't know if this is was intended or not, but the comic delivery in this video is on point. I lol'd bunches. Thanks for helping me get all this sorted out in my head. Been stumped by this for ages. You make it make sense.
I feel compelled to point out that it sounds like what you are actually referring to here is "weak and needy men" rather than "good men". True, if i was a woman i wouldn't like a weak man either. Yet the problem is many women nowadays have mistaken men's "kindness" for "weakness". A good and decent man isnt necessarily weak, and you don't know whether a guy is weak or not if you won't even bother to find out more about him a little bit just because he isn't good looking, tall or naturally good with women in the first place
My brother told me that women are hardwired to want men to be strong. If men are weak they don’t have a chance with most quality women. Christine is just saying the facts in her videos.
I've been struggling with this for years! I can't seem to ever get it right! I find it hard to change who I've been or how I was raised!
I know when i was young ( and i think this still stands true today ) girls did like the ass holes who treat them like crap, but they will tire of this behaviour over time and move on, and contrary to belief they do like the nice guys, who are kind, can make them laugh and have empathy for others BUT you cannot be a doormat who let's them walk all over you, all women will push this limit ( especially nowadays ) every now an then you have to push back and show dominance, basically you have to have self confidence, an inner confidence, and if one is insecure, lacks self confidence females sniff this out very quickly.
I fixed this situation by dating and soon marrying a woman who is submissive by nature and into BDSM. She not only accepts that I’m a gentleman but she requires it for me to lead, be masculine and dominant. I open doors, help her out of the car, pay for everything, do everything around the house that’s required and protect her. We’re quite the couple with me at 6’4”, broad shoulders and her at 4’10” and very curvy. She not only allows me to be the “man” but it’s expected. In return she is an amazing wife, she’s super feminine, dresses and acts like a lady in public though she always wears a “collar” to let others know she’s taken. She can cook…..I mean she can cook guys! Keeps a clean home, dresses sexy for me, and the bedroom playtime is simply insane. Do to her submissive/BDSM culture she is hyper loyal and really cares about me. When she’s says “I love you” I can really feel it. This is the most loving and intense relationship I’ve ever been in and I feel like I cracked the code on finding a loyal, loving woman. She currently has a really good career but when we are married I’ve told her she can stay home if she wants as I make more than enough to take care of us both.
So many women are wanting men to change, however no one’s perfect, we all have faults, but don’t accept faults of their own. Men, if you’re sensitive, just be you
Be your self but don’t have the piss taken out of you. Make them laughing. Don’t promise the world & remember every woman is different. If your with a woman that wants you to do everything think of everything and arrange everything and does nothing for you. Ask your self is this the woman you want to be with it’s give and take in a relationship.
Beautiful vid!😘
I think you are very spot on here. Maybe I'm not relationship material yet and could be hiding from them until I get my leading role back or as I would say in billiard terms "Getting my killer instinct back". Which means missing because of shooting with lack of authority. Thanks for the video
I wonder why men have given up 😂 good video, though. Thanks
True , no wonder there are lots of single men , I’m told to stop being nice but also don’t treat them bad , I’ve asked girls out after being friends if a girl can’t see how great you may be move on is my mantra.
I only saw yours video mam ,,, I want to know ,,, how woman involved her feelings in information ,,,and messed up ,,,,
They love guy's who have plenty woman.
They love bad guy's who cheat.
They make children with the bad guy's and later in life choose the good guy to be a simp stepfather to help them raise her childrens.
This is a woman giving you advice. So, she is speaking womanese. Woman assume if you take her desires into consideration, it's because you are insecure. They think that because they are insecure and so if they consider others, it is out of insecurity. Most men do not do this out of insecurity. Most men are easy-going and do not get easily ruffled if they don't get their way about what to do on a date, what restaurant to go to, etc. To most men, these are minor matters, and it is not a big deal. The problem is that women interpret this as insecurity and it triggers their own insecurity if they are with a man they perceive as being insecure. It is their perception that matters, not the reality. You could be the most confident, secure guy in the world, but if she perceives you as insecure or lacking confidence, she will freak out and lose attraction for you. The advice she gives is correct but because she is a woman, she does not understand the underlying psychology of how a man thinks.
Exactly, you’ve said it perfectly. It’s so irritating.
Very true statemenrs in this video. the man lacking understanding of his masculine role will face these problems.
thank you
Again you are on 🔥
I did a lot of what you said not to do
What about if I am somewhat interested in someone but not completely sure if I want to pursue something with her. I've been in situations where I've hanged out with a girl as a friend just to see if she's someone worth pursuing but eventually lost interest in that person because of various reasons. Is it right or wrong?
I thought that going from good to bad it’s not me to be bad so I can’t do it
I understand the whole false pre thence thing but I’ve always found these videos confusing , I’m genuinely nice to woman should I stop this if I like someone 😊
I'm a 'Good Guy' ; juzt waiting for my life to end Baby!😁❤ Ya Witch! haha.
The title should be nice guys, rather than good men.
I'm not sure that 'nice' is the correct label for these types. More like effeminate or insecure or uncertain. Some are just desperate crawlers.
You can be nice, but still take charge.
It all depends on how attractive you are. Because players do the exact same thing especially if the girl already has a boyfriend . Start being friendly and then try to slide in. Players then try to make it seem like the other guy is more nefarious. It's all mind games my man. Only reason the friendzoned guy is friendzoned in the first place is because the girl already had a boyfriend or she doesn't find them overly attractive.
Women want to be backseat drivers. If your leading everything it's not a relationship and her input doesn't matter.
Do you like good men?
Any man who thinks they're good probably aint so good. I always say that I'm an asshole, I know that I'm not "good" or "bad"...mostly bad lol
Make a woman work for you and you the Boss.
Speaking as a Short Man, I'll make sure to make my wife get an abortion if it is a daughter.
Let tall guys have daughters.
and men like bad women😆🤣
Not for Marriage