DO NOT wait for them to return. DO NOT play the no contact game!! Move onnnnn Because if they loved you, they would never have left in the first place!!! 😊
I am currently blocked by my ex partner. I'm already moving forward and building a better, happier life without her. So if she unblocks me, I won't be interested.
I am a recovering alcoholic I have been sober almost 10 years . I made mistakes in my relationship . It ended as a result of those mistakes . All I have been doing is putting the work in to change . Recovery is about change . Those that aren't willing to change are those that have zero accountability or humility to see there flaws and change them .
Facts like always awesome points! I think when they liking or commenting is a first step for them lowering there barrier. But also is a way that they are testing the waters to see your reaction. They expect you to look for them when they do that. Best thing is to not think of it at all and keep sitting back. Best thing to do is focus on yourself. You will see many good things start turning to your favor.
I'm going almost 8 weeks since the breakup. I'm working on myself. But yes, you have to wait for them to contact you. I hear on a number of channels it seems to happen when you've basically moved on. Don't know if they sense it somehow. But it sounds like that happens a lot. If true that is probably actually a good thing because if you decide to take them back at that point, you know it's because you think there's still potential there, that what was good about your time together makes it worth it. You're not getting back together out of desperation
If y’all had a good relationship and it was something special, eventually they will reach out… especially when they realize the grass wasn’t greener on the other side
@@TheShady380 I been in no contact for a month… I feel like I’m going to reach out to her once and see how’s she’s doing……. We had a good relationship… and see how it goes and then go back into no contact after that…
@@MM-kf3gq Only a month? That’s rookie numbers dude. Don’t do it. I’m telling you, you have to let women come to you. It will look incredibly weak if you reach out. It’s on you though
Hey, I found your channel yesterday after the girl I've been talking to for 2 months lost interest and rejected me. These videos help a lot, however I would love to see videos about more specific situations like something similar to my situation for example.
Dated a girl for 7 months - lots of bf/gf things, sleepvoers what not -- i got too close one day and showed up to her place earlier than we had planned, freaked her out. After that she slow faded and ghosted me . Made no sense after months of what i thought was a great connection. Toothbrush at her place kinda thing. In the 4 months that i was ghosted i was devastated and depressed. Cried weekly not making contact, and just baffled. Im a kind and considerate person and would he sensitive to her overwhelmingly busy career life. Ghosted. 5 months later, when i finally healed, i get the text. We end up dating again heavy for almost 4 months when she starts to slow fade and well.. seems like she ghosted at this point. Fool me once..
@@versatilelord8893 Thanks Bro - no idea She and I had a great little afternoon date in late May, then she hosted her gf who was in town. Subsequently went out of town to see her sister for almost 10 days. In those 10 days she got super unresponsive. She gets back in town hosts her gay best friend. After that shes down visiting her family and then comes back and hosts her grandma for almost 10 days. Super busy - checking in and all but still in those days she would just check in less and less. 3-5 days with no texting always. Last message I sent was forward asking - hey would love to catch up with some clarity, feel like you're avoiding though. Haven't heard from her in a week. So no idea really. Was always good, always kind. Somewhere in between the 2 months she asked how I was - i let her know i was confused and a bit hurt - she didn't acknowledge that. No idea why I hold on. I guess it is the sleepovers in which we hold eachothers hand and make coffee for each other in the morning after a night of fun and passion. I feel the connection was there. I'm thinking it's because I got too close and her indepence/career felt threatened. I've vowed now to no contact unless she messages me and to see what else is out there. It's sad. I'm at a stage of questioning myself to know if I'm adequate but these are just the feels and I know I'm better than that. Thanks for listening Hope your situation gives you clarity and strength. Hang in there
Guys. When you get into a relationship with a woman. After too months you compare to how you were treated in the beginning. If you notice the thing you to have going on starts losing steam. Then prepare for the let down. It's on the way.
My wife and I haven’t talked in 6 weeks, she need space and is focus on herself, she said she still loves me, she said if I want a divorce I can grab a lawyer and paper and she’ll sign it, she see a possible family with me, when she finds herself she will contact me could take a year, no not a year!!
She's just telling you what you want to hear. If she truly wanted to start a family with you then you would've had 2 kids by now. She's just using you for attention and validation. Don't simp for her, it's over.
and in the meantime whilst your waiting for her she will be with everyone she can then when the fun is over shell come back to you is that what you want? man up mate tell her if she stays out of your life then she won't be coming back
Thats Bull man , imagine that she 'll be sleeping with her boss, with teenagers, threesomes, be the misstress of someone, hook up a fiend of you. Theeen when she founds that you are the guy , you will take her Back. NO MAN If she loves you theres no point to hav doubts. Maybe shes already hooking up with someone.
She left me 3 months ago. She texts me everyday, ever since the break up. Shes in a rebound. I gotta wait it out. No contact. Lost 50lbs. Still i dont know if its wishful thinking or she actually misses me
I was rejected by a girl march 2022, i didnt chase her bec she told me that wwere friends. so im fine witth that but from the period of march to june she unfriended me three times.. i reAdd her back at facebook. but for the third time i didnt bother to readd her back anymore.. i moved on , put her messages all in restricted mode. then last sept 2 she left me a message to come to their house bec her cousin will have a birthday celeb. saw the msg sept7 , but i didnt bother to respond. although i moved on what kinda offending is when she told me were friend and keeps on unfriending me that triggers me the most.. that makes me think she is not really a good person for me to talk or see anymore specially with my mental heallth. now shes using her mother who is also im friends at facebook.. using as a excuse that her mother invited me. but her mother didnt even msg me at all. I dont have any plan to go there nor see her anymore. faker,
Ive watched COUNTLESS videos on this. Its been a roller-coaster trying to figure this out. You are soooooo spot on. The ONLY video I've seen which is realistic and TRUE!
the simple solution is sit back and if they do try and come back don't give them the chance got to be strong if you do take them back they will only look at you as being weak so just say Adiós it's done 👍😁
Does this even work with a girl that you're dating? I am always texting first and making plans. Shall I pull back and see what she does? How long shall I wait?
DO NOT wait for them to return. DO NOT play the no contact game!! Move onnnnn
Because if they loved you, they would never have left in the first place!!! 😊
I am currently blocked by my ex partner. I'm already moving forward and building a better, happier life without her. So if she unblocks me, I won't be interested.
If someone rejects you once, they will most likely do so again. Remember the old adage: "first time shame on you, second time shame on me."
I am a recovering alcoholic I have been sober almost 10 years . I made mistakes in my relationship . It ended as a result of those mistakes . All I have been doing is putting the work in to change . Recovery is about change . Those that aren't willing to change are those that have zero accountability or humility to see there flaws and change them .
Facts like always awesome points! I think when they liking or commenting is a first step for them lowering there barrier. But also is a way that they are testing the waters to see your reaction. They expect you to look for them when they do that. Best thing is to not think of it at all and keep sitting back. Best thing to do is focus on yourself. You will see many good things start turning to your favor.
I'm going almost 8 weeks since the breakup. I'm working on myself. But yes, you have to wait for them to contact you. I hear on a number of channels it seems to happen when you've basically moved on. Don't know if they sense it somehow. But it sounds like that happens a lot. If true that is probably actually a good thing because if you decide to take them back at that point, you know it's because you think there's still potential there, that what was good about your time together makes it worth it. You're not getting back together out of desperation
If y’all had a good relationship and it was something special, eventually they will reach out… especially when they realize the grass wasn’t greener on the other side
Yes some how they can sence the detachment its qierd they feel that loss of energy. I'm learning alot about this
@@TheShady380 I been in no contact for a month… I feel like I’m going to reach out to her once and see how’s she’s doing……. We had a good relationship… and see how it goes and then go back into no contact after that…
@@MM-kf3gq Only a month? That’s rookie numbers dude. Don’t do it. I’m telling you, you have to let women come to you. It will look incredibly weak if you reach out. It’s on you though
@@TheShady380 im in the middle of doing brad browning program
I dated my ex again - I didn't take it at anything but face value - and it worked - until she dumped me again 🤣
Yup it's a vicious cycle that will repeat over and over and over as long as you allow it to.
Hey, I found your channel yesterday after the girl I've been talking to for 2 months lost interest and rejected me. These videos help a lot, however I would love to see videos about more specific situations like something similar to my situation for example.
Dated a girl for 7 months - lots of bf/gf things, sleepvoers what not -- i got too close one day and showed up to her place earlier than we had planned, freaked her out. After that she slow faded and ghosted me . Made no sense after months of what i thought was a great connection. Toothbrush at her place kinda thing.
In the 4 months that i was ghosted i was devastated and depressed. Cried weekly not making contact, and just baffled. Im a kind and considerate person and would he sensitive to her overwhelmingly busy career life. Ghosted.
5 months later, when i finally healed, i get the text.
We end up dating again heavy for almost 4 months when she starts to slow fade and well.. seems like she ghosted at this point.
Fool me once..
Felt the same way you felt bro. Going through that right now. I’m right there with you.
Do you have any idea why she ghosted the 2nd time around?
@@versatilelord8893 Thanks Bro - no idea
She and I had a great little afternoon date in late May, then she hosted her gf who was in town. Subsequently went out of town to see her sister for almost 10 days. In those 10 days she got super unresponsive.
She gets back in town hosts her gay best friend. After that shes down visiting her family and then comes back and hosts her grandma for almost 10 days. Super busy - checking in and all but still in those days she would just check in less and less. 3-5 days with no texting always.
Last message I sent was forward asking - hey would love to catch up with some clarity, feel like you're avoiding though. Haven't heard from her in a week. So no idea really. Was always good, always kind. Somewhere in between the 2 months she asked how I was - i let her know i was confused and a bit hurt - she didn't acknowledge that. No idea why I hold on. I guess it is the sleepovers in which we hold eachothers hand and make coffee for each other in the morning after a night of fun and passion. I feel the connection was there. I'm thinking it's because I got too close and her indepence/career felt threatened. I've vowed now to no contact unless she messages me and to see what else is out there. It's sad. I'm at a stage of questioning myself to know if I'm adequate but these are just the feels and I know I'm better than that. Thanks for listening
Hope your situation gives you clarity and strength. Hang in there
@@versatilelord8893 Probably didn’t want to get caught cheating unexpectedly.
Not always the case.
Guys. When you get into a relationship with a woman. After too months you compare to how you were treated in the beginning. If you notice the thing you to have going on starts losing steam. Then prepare for the let down. It's on the way.
Welp time to go off grid for a while
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I was just thinking of exactly what you said. I wish I had known her a long time ago. Meehn, she is giving a lot of games for free.
My wife and I haven’t talked in 6 weeks, she need space and is focus on herself, she said she still loves me, she said if I want a divorce I can grab a lawyer and paper and she’ll sign it, she see a possible family with me, when she finds herself she will contact me could take a year, no not a year!!
Does it mean my marriage might have a restoration in it? Possible reconciliation?
She's just telling you what you want to hear. If she truly wanted to start a family with you then you would've had 2 kids by now. She's just using you for attention and validation. Don't simp for her, it's over.
and in the meantime whilst your waiting for her she will be with everyone she can then when the fun is over shell come back to you is that what you want? man up mate tell her if she stays out of your life then she won't be coming back
what ended up happening?
Thats Bull man , imagine that she 'll be sleeping with her boss, with teenagers, threesomes, be the misstress of someone, hook up a fiend of you.
Theeen when she founds that you are the guy , you will take her Back.
NO MAN If she loves you theres no point to hav doubts.
Maybe shes already hooking up with someone.
She left me 3 months ago. She texts me everyday, ever since the break up. Shes in a rebound. I gotta wait it out. No contact. Lost 50lbs. Still i dont know if its wishful thinking or she actually misses me
If she’s in a rebound cut off all communication bro
But how does this work when it’s with your wife and you have children together?
I was rejected by a girl march 2022, i didnt chase her bec she told me that wwere friends. so im fine witth that but from the period of march to june she unfriended me three times.. i reAdd her back at facebook. but for the third time i didnt bother to readd her back anymore.. i moved on , put her messages all in restricted mode. then last sept 2 she left me a message to come to their house bec her cousin will have a birthday celeb. saw the msg sept7 , but i didnt bother to respond. although i moved on what kinda offending is when she told me were friend and keeps on unfriending me that triggers me the most.. that makes me think she is not really a good person for me to talk or see anymore specially with my mental heallth. now shes using her mother who is also im friends at facebook.. using as a excuse that her mother invited me. but her mother didnt even msg me at all. I dont have any plan to go there nor see her anymore. faker,
The two of you seem to act very childish to me.
Wisest information, helped me so much thank you
Love your information great video
I like your attitude about relationship, can I ask you a question, what is your personality type based on mbti test?
I was the one that rejected him
Ive watched COUNTLESS videos on this. Its been a roller-coaster trying to figure this out. You are soooooo spot on. The ONLY video I've seen which is realistic and TRUE!
Thank you
perfect video
After Watching Ur Video I am starting to miss her more..... Because She Looks Exactly like You😂😂
Don't watch my videos if that's the case 🤣 do all that you can to move forward
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6 weeks NC. And I didn’t beg or plead either.
Obviously she di t give a monkies about me
Very sound 👍🏽
the simple solution is sit back and if they do try and come back don't give them the chance got to be strong if you do take them back they will only look at you as being weak so just say Adiós it's done 👍😁
Does this even work with a girl that you're dating? I am always texting first and making plans. Shall I pull back and see what she does? How long shall I wait?
Top 😊👍
I let her go
3 years later she never reached out
I did 😔
looser!!!!
oh wait I'm talking to myself 🙄🤕
If she will msg I reply or no
My ex split with me 8 weeks ago and said she doesn’t love me anymore but she still cares for me, what are my chances of her coming back?
Put some value on yourself, the qstn should be what are the chances of u accepting them back?