Really appreciate this info brother! Not all dates require spending $. Usually take a woman out for free the first time (scenic walks, museums, etc.). If she’s receptive to a second date, that’s when you know you found someone who is for YOU. Results may vary… Edit: Apparently everyone has a different interpretation of hiking
i met my girlfriend by taking her out to coffee and a walk at the lake. We ended up spending hours there. Once we felt comfortable to continue seeing each other. we then went out to thai food. I paid of course. But... my point remains is you dont always gotta break the bank to meet women. Just take intiative, make plans and make it special! shoutout to my brokebois.
@@louisbromfield7794 Hiking is okay if its a popular spot. You aint gotta climb mountains, but if you go on a trail/light hike during the day and shes into it it's not a bad suggestion. You just gotta gauge the vibe with the person and whether they're into that or not.
As a woman I appreciate you and these tips so much. It’s the small details that get me and guys STAY consistent ♥️carry this same energy into the 2nd 3rd and as many dates as you can… because it means a lot.
@Sieg And, your bitterness is the exact reason why my comment triggered your attention. Nothing in the video nor my comment implies about women being one-sided throughout the dating process. Go somewhere🙄
@@eboniivaationalblackrosebonaè So if the man has to pay, set up the date, initiate conversation as per usual according to this video, how is it not one sided? You’re literally getting a free meal and fun time.
@Ariana Hyundai Yes, he is very much bitter. His response came from emotion and past experiences. Women like you need to stop cradling men fragility when it comes to dating with a purpose and showing women respect. "Listen to men's logic once in a while," like that's not something we haven't been doing since forever. I stand by what I said. Period.
I agree with everything he said. As man dating in 2023 I always plan dates and I always choose something I enjoy because if the date goes left at least I still had a good time and don't feel like I wasted my money.
Guys you don’t HAVE to spend money on the first date if it makes you uncomfortable or uneasy.. but IF you are in a situation where you invite her to movies, dinner, lunch, etc where a payment is required for entrance or services.. PAYING THE BILL often leads a good impression.
I really admire Trell for his mannerism and respect for women👍🏽he can mentor other young men and gentlemen how to be more respectful of a real lady. Kudos to you Trell stay💪🏽 you will always have my support💃🏽
As a guy slightly older in the game; agree but do not text her straight away give it till she tells you she got home safe or the next morning. Leave that message without a hope to catch-up again soon but a have a great week - try link it into an inside joke you had together or a topic like if she had exams etc; all the best for your exams go get em’. You need to give girls a moderate feeling of not knowing where they stand without thirsty immediate reassurance.. I know it’s fked up but this is how women in the west operate.
Of course u agree it benefits u, to do all this and you ain’t even earned it or even know you well enough? Hell Nah, plus u ain’t the one paying for all dis jus to NOT smash? 😂*he said,a kiss on the forehead? Gtfoh. First date is gonna be a coffee date or meet up at the park for conversation n to get to know one another, dinner dates are reserved for 2nd or 3rd dates only, we gotta see if u worth it.
I appreciate it man! Do you have a book out or anything I could learn more from you? I will be doing my best to learn how to become more of a mature man while I’m grinding and trying to do better. I appreciate the content and I’ll be watching more!
This man is 100 perCENT correct good Lord I want to date him RIGHT NOW because he's giving this fantastic, accurate TRUE advice WHILE he is completing his skin care...wow BE still my heart!!! Guys listen to this man!
I don't really like dating coaches as most of them seem to prey on vulnerable, naive men. But I noticed your content is actually suited for matured man who just need a bit more guidance. Love your work, brother!
@Sieg huh? No, you just don't treat people that way. If they're that comfortable treating a complete stranger, that way you can only imagine that that's how they'll treat you.
Teaching young men gentle man ways. It's perfect! Hope they follow your lead. Well, said. Now older men need to listen as well instead of asking a woman to their home instead of a proper 1st date. It's not happening ppl. Bless you for making this video.
@@antoinemantoux1520 word all that cream and oils and shit and they’ll still let stinky Brad who left the gym and didn’t even wash his ass blow their backs out 🤣
Trell the Trainer, You are a husband for a wife. Cause only a true husband and real gentleman. Continue to be a foundation and blessing. May Jesus Christ of Nazareth continue to be the head of your life Amen!!!
I agree with you on these things but for me this is mostly a second date thing. In these modern times I never know if a women is on date for me or just because, so I’d rather go to a coffee shop and spend $20 than on a date somewhere nice and drop $150 plus on someone who isn’t taking me seriously
Im a woman and I agree with you!!! I get so disgusted at the audacity of these little girls trying to take their friends, order the most expensive thing. On the flip side I’m tired of seeing these boys who think they paid for a meal and that entitles them to sex. Glad this chat is for grown men and women!!!! Not these kids. When me and my man started dating I always had my money just in case, ordered appropriately, offered to pay/tip ( he never lets me pay but I always ask to treat him). I snuck and did it once and he didn’t like that. Therefore I spoil him on his bday and other times. Cook/clean. I guess I’m old school. But we spoil each other!
@@TonyEbukaSG not complaining I’m saying for men in the dating landscape to protect their wallet. I have the money to drop but why would I do that when at the end of the date she ghost me? Most of the time women that are there for you don’t mind those $20 initial dates. I’m 34 and dated a lot in my 20s so I have seen it all
Brother you having that mentally will make them ghost you, enjoy yourself, that’s all, people will want to spend time with you. Like he said in the clip, don’t expect anything in the end. You protect your wallet by Choosing your dates carefully in the first place, I am learning a lot from the clip creator btw one love
The pay the bill part was spot on and funny, definitely us as men we gotta pay up, (at least on first date). me rn im broje i aint thinking about dating anyone soon cos i gotta get myself right 😂🙏 thx for advice king, it hit home
Find a good woman that doesn't care about that stuff and is happy to split it. I was lucky to find that in my wife, if she expects you to pay for everything she isn't the one
All great advice! Mind you, even IF you do all this, if it's not a match, it's just not a match. Don't take it personal and dont stop doin these things for other women. Best wishes yall! I know it's wild out here...
As a man using dating apps, the first "date" isnt even a date. I wanna see if you're real, if you have all your shit together, if you're not a catfish. I also aint paying for a stranger, I wanna see that you're independent and humble. We can then set up a FIRST DATE.
My Ninja! 💪🏽 Always good to see a young black man contribute good energy. Jesus Christ loves you! All that a woman need is a man who is a good leader that she can trust, then her feminity will naturally gush out and her aggression and self defense will dissappear while in his presence. She'll become like a submissive little girl again because she found a daddy that can take good care of her, though she may be able to take care of herself in certain ways.
Sometimes I take a girl out for the first date just to find out that I’m not attracted to her. So all that texting after the date and kissing on the forehead stuff is out the window. I don’t do any of these things unless it’s a girl that I want to take off the market. Which is very rare
I understand you don't want to lead the lady on when you aren't attracted to her bit I believe he's referring to a guy who desires to get a second date, which implies the guy most likely likes the girl. Also the the ice breaking activity before dinner he talked about also gives room for both persons to see if they like each other.
@@OriginalAfricanTales his video is misleading to women in that it implies if a man asks u out on a date then u are in the clear and the ball is only in the man’s court to prove to you why he deserves a second date. When dealing with high-demand men who are successful this is furthest from the truth and why many u don’t get asked out for a second date. The point of my comment was to bring balance
This is the type of date any woman would love to go on. Only use these tips with women that you actually do want to pursue. No great date ghosts round here.
Don't confirm no dates. If she doesn't show up, you dodged a bullet. Don't hint at a second date, you want to give her room to tell it to you first, also no need to let her know how much you enjoyed your date either, same reason.
I did all of these tips on the date. We went to escape room for ice breaker and went to go eat for 1on1 talk and chill but later after she told me “we are not compatible, conversation wise” I feel like I was asking all the right questions but she was a little awkward and nervous, nevertheless she was cool. Maybe I have to improve my social skills a bit idk, I really think it just our chemistry just wasn’t connecting Hopefully next time I will get it right 💪
As a girl. Yeah I agree! Any time when anyone asks how my day was or say good morning I feel happy . And my goodness when I get a compliment (I don’t really get many) I feel a lot better about my body. And if someone gave me a kiss on a cheek or just a hug/ peck I would be thinking about it all day. I would be red af. But keep in mind all girls are different. :) Good luck
@@checharles5224 hmm I can’t quite answer this question but here is what I would do. I would ask them how they are doing and ask them if everything is okay. I would probably offer to pay the bill at time to time. (Just to be nice) I would do a lot of other things such as taking things slow, let him know that I trust him. There is not much I can really say but this is just what I would do. I would do a lot more. But to be honest I ain’t 100% sure. Depending on where the date is at it would be much different.
This dude is teaching guys how to be simps!! I do like the other videos he makes tho about men’s hygiene and etc. but he definitely doesn’t need to be giving any dating advice.
Just something for y'all to think of before you get serious you have to understand if your in a relationship you gotta believe not just show that you are actually interested in your partner coming from someone who continues to make this mistake
Do you have a skin care video? Those products you use look very helpful and expensive. I’m 21 and still suffering from acne and finding out what works best for me. I don’t have problems with talking to females, but I suffer a little bit with confidence issues because my skin doesn’t look the best and I just hate looking into the mirror some days. I literally do all the traits you say it’s just me battling myself. What is that machine you are using in the beginning ? Does that take away the dark spots or acne scarring? What does it do?
I'm in the beauty industry and he's using pretty good skincare. You should go to your nearest department store, preferably Nordstrom, Ultra, Sephora or Neiman Marcus, make an appointment for a facial and go from there. Many many price points, you don't need to start with the most expensive. There's great moisturizers, serums and cleaners for men from Clinique, Kiehls, Clarins, Atwater, and Jack Black. Nordstrom gives great samples too so you can try before you buy. It's not hard....go for it! Good luck!
You said all the amazing things that are important. They all work for me as a Woman. It's the small things that matter. All the flexing is a immediate turn off
I feel like men would say your being a simp, but that’s just corny. Bro treating a girl right isn’t corny at all, it’s actually how you keep and have a great relationship with a woman.
Let’s say u do all that and she’s rude unappreciative and uses you as a foodie date now u spent ur resources and time on someone who don’t give af about u. First date is always a coffee date or a meet up at a park to get to know one another. Don’t be simp or beta like this 🤡
Bro a god man!! This video definitely just helped me have a great 1st date. With a super nice girl hella beautiful!! Can you make a video for post date and how to gurantee the 2nd date ?? I feel tht wud be very helpful to a lot of men. Cuz reality is even if you do all those nice things and impress a girl. You could still lose her interest b4 solidifying tht 2nd meet up!! And i cud use some tips myself to make sure I don’t fumble it. Cuz after tht 1st date im in a great position!! Don’t want to lose the momentum!!
Really appreciate this info brother! Not all dates require spending $. Usually take a woman out for free the first time (scenic walks, museums, etc.). If she’s receptive to a second date, that’s when you know you found someone who is for YOU. Results may vary…
Edit: Apparently everyone has a different interpretation of hiking
I know the sentiment you're going for but hiking is a terrible idea! Don't get a woman to go into the woods or hills with someone she doesn't know!
i met my girlfriend by taking her out to coffee and a walk at the lake. We ended up spending hours there. Once we felt comfortable to continue seeing each other. we then went out to thai food. I paid of course. But... my point remains is you dont always gotta break the bank to meet women. Just take intiative, make plans and make it special! shoutout to my brokebois.
@@louisbromfield7794 Hiking is okay if its a popular spot. You aint gotta climb mountains, but if you go on a trail/light hike during the day and shes into it it's not a bad suggestion. You just gotta gauge the vibe with the person and whether they're into that or not.
Man said hiking for a first date lol mean like walks in parks or just walks in general not no hiking
Coffee as well
As a woman I appreciate you and these tips so much. It’s the small details that get me and guys STAY consistent ♥️carry this same energy into the 2nd 3rd and as many dates as you can… because it means a lot.
what about the guys you let smash without a date? did they even have a car to take you home?
@@mattiaslp9645💀🤣
@@mattiaslp9645 😂😂😂
@@mattiaslp9645😂😂😂😂
@@mattiaslp9645nahhh facts tho she want niggas to simp for her ,hell naw🙅🏽😂😂😂😂
Are you a Mentor? If not, please consider bc our young men need someone like you 🙏🏽
We don’t
We don’t need more simps 😂
Hmmm so this guy has all the advice, but his results stink! No wife no kids no family 😂lol
@Ariana Hyundai turn them into simps and playas 😂😂
@Ariana Hyundai you don’t like his advice too? Fr
I appreciate men like you. You're one of the rarest gems to find. Folks lack time, effort, emotional maturity, and communication. I love this
Yet women don’t have to do anything or put effort towards dating. That’s the only reason you like this
@Sieg And, your bitterness is the exact reason why my comment triggered your attention. Nothing in the video nor my comment implies about women being one-sided throughout the dating process. Go somewhere🙄
@@eboniivaationalblackrosebonaè So if the man has to pay, set up the date, initiate conversation as per usual according to this video, how is it not one sided? You’re literally getting a free meal and fun time.
🙊 ooga booga
@Ariana Hyundai Yes, he is very much bitter. His response came from emotion and past experiences. Women like you need to stop cradling men fragility when it comes to dating with a purpose and showing women respect. "Listen to men's logic once in a while," like that's not something we haven't been doing since forever. I stand by what I said. Period.
Dude didn't waste a single second in this video...appreciate you my guy, God bless. 🙏🏿
Your advice encapsulates all ages, not just young men. Trust me when I tell you that some older men are clueless and can use some coaching.
Big time.
@@arianahyundai480”Skeeza”, you’re hurt bro, go heal.
@@arianahyundai480 idk if you’re a guy or a pick me girl but that attitude you got is so unhealed n sad lmao
This man gey as hell though
Surely the answer.😊
I agree with everything he said. As man dating in 2023 I always plan dates and I always choose something I enjoy because if the date goes left at least I still had a good time and don't feel like I wasted my money.
Invite her over to smash. Only option.
Thank-you for your understanding and guidance for our brothers.🙂
ALL FACTS!! SHARING ALL YOUR VIDEOS. It's the little things, take the time and make the effort.
This man knows a thing or 2 about what women love 💕
Guys you don’t HAVE to spend money on the first date if it makes you uncomfortable or uneasy.. but IF you are in a situation where you invite her to movies, dinner, lunch, etc where a payment is required for entrance or services.. PAYING THE BILL often leads a good impression.
You really know how to tug on those heart strings.♥️♥️🔥
I really admire Trell for his mannerism and respect for women👍🏽he can mentor other young men and gentlemen how to be more respectful of a real lady. Kudos to you Trell stay💪🏽 you will always have my support💃🏽
As a guy slightly older in the game; agree but do not text her straight away give it till she tells you she got home safe or the next morning. Leave that message without a hope to catch-up again soon but a have a great week - try link it into an inside joke you had together or a topic like if she had exams etc; all the best for your exams go get em’. You need to give girls a moderate feeling of not knowing where they stand without thirsty immediate reassurance.. I know it’s fked up but this is how women in the west operate.
I love his videos. He is so informative and thoughtful.
Probably a woman 😭
this video format is fire. no bs, straight to the point, just the key info. youre a legend
Just here to give a woman’s perspective:
Men….listen to him. HE’S ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
You are So…So…So…RIGHT ABOUT FIRST DATE, and the Kiss on the forehead… this guy stole a kiss from me I was so mad…Ugh!
Finally someone who doesn't actually bullshit us but goes straight to the point and actually gives good advice
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿I sent Too My GROWN Son's🥰🥰
Thank You🙏🏿☺️ For Helping The Younger Men 🙏🏿And The...OLDER Men🙏🏿
Beautifully done 👏👏👏
I have nothing but❤ for you!! I binged watching your shorts. I can only wish 😔.
You give the absolute best advice. Men should use every video you bring out on TH-cam. I salute you, my brother. Keep educating!
Of course u agree it benefits u, to do all this and you ain’t even earned it or even know you well enough? Hell Nah, plus u ain’t the one paying for all dis jus to NOT smash? 😂*he said,a kiss on the forehead? Gtfoh. First date is gonna be a coffee date or meet up at the park for conversation n to get to know one another, dinner dates are reserved for 2nd or 3rd dates only, we gotta see if u worth it.
Thank you so much, all your tips through out all your videos have improved me so much thank you so much again
See if I would have met a guy like this, I'd be a happy wife and a mother by now.
Wow. Thank you for describing how a real man should perform on the first date. I truly enjoyed this.❤
,second, third, forth and fifth....in the words of Miss Faye "It cost to be King".
I appreciate it man! Do you have a book out or anything I could learn more from you? I will be doing my best to learn how to become more of a mature man while I’m grinding and trying to do better. I appreciate the content and I’ll be watching more!
Active dates leading up to the dinner date are a must.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 amazing tips.. I wish more men came across videos like this and were receptive to the advice you’re giving.
Love your energy 🤍
This man is 100 perCENT correct good Lord I want to date him RIGHT NOW because he's giving this fantastic, accurate TRUE advice WHILE he is completing his skin care...wow BE still my heart!!! Guys listen to this man!
I don't really like dating coaches as most of them seem to prey on vulnerable, naive men. But I noticed your content is actually suited for matured man who just need a bit more guidance. Love your work, brother!
Common sense prevails, great advice.
Etiquette is so important. A date I went on the guy was rude to the waiter, and it was such a turn-off.
Cuz he wasn’t good looking enough
@Sieg huh? No, you just don't treat people that way. If they're that comfortable treating a complete stranger, that way you can only imagine that that's how they'll treat you.
@@mart2023 cope
@@sieg6635 👍🏾
So if a stranger is an asshole to you, you can't be mean to them. Got it, you are delusional.
Teaching young men gentle man ways. It's perfect! Hope they follow your lead. Well, said. Now older men need to listen as well instead of asking a woman to their home instead of a proper 1st date. It's not happening ppl. Bless you for making this video.
Your attunement and leadership is top tier.
Love the starter. Never give questions.
Have a preplanned trip. If she accepts than the ball rolls.
I really hope dudes are watching him and learning
I'd rather not learn than listening to a dude putting cream on his face in every single one of his videos like a woman 😂
@@antoinemantoux1520 word all that cream and oils and shit and they’ll still let stinky Brad who left the gym and didn’t even wash his ass blow their backs out 🤣
This message isnt directed to any men..just for his women followers he panders to
Trell the Trainer, You are a husband for a wife. Cause only a true husband and real gentleman. Continue to be a foundation and blessing. May Jesus Christ of Nazareth continue to be the head of your life Amen!!!
My man clearing his pores while he’s spitting facts 🔥
You've nailed all the tips, hopefully, this video will be viewed by single brothers seeking lastly relationships. Thanks for sharing 👍🏽 😊
I agree with you on these things but for me this is mostly a second date thing. In these modern times I never know if a women is on date for me or just because, so I’d rather go to a coffee shop and spend $20 than on a date somewhere nice and drop $150 plus on someone who isn’t taking me seriously
Im a woman and I agree with you!!! I get so disgusted at the audacity of these little girls trying to take their friends, order the most expensive thing. On the flip side I’m tired of seeing these boys who think they paid for a meal and that entitles them to sex. Glad this chat is for grown men and women!!!! Not these kids. When me and my man started dating I always had my money just in case, ordered appropriately, offered to pay/tip ( he never lets me pay but I always ask to treat him). I snuck and did it once and he didn’t like that. Therefore I spoil him on his bday and other times. Cook/clean. I guess I’m old school. But we spoil each other!
Bro you’re the one picking them, how are you complaining.
@@TonyEbukaSG not complaining I’m saying for men in the dating landscape to protect their wallet. I have the money to drop but why would I do that when at the end of the date she ghost me? Most of the time women that are there for you don’t mind those $20 initial dates. I’m 34 and dated a lot in my 20s so I have seen it all
Brother you having that mentally will make them ghost you, enjoy yourself, that’s all, people will want to spend time with you. Like he said in the clip, don’t expect anything in the end.
You protect your wallet by Choosing your dates carefully in the first place, I am learning a lot from the clip creator btw one love
Don’t listen to @danaglass1265 I don’t understand a single thing she’s saying ,it’s called pity, it doesn’t apply to men.
The mic being clipped on the beard is hilarious to me 🤣🤣🤣
The pay the bill part was spot on and funny, definitely us as men we gotta pay up, (at least on first date). me rn im broje i aint thinking about dating anyone soon cos i gotta get myself right 😂🙏 thx for advice king, it hit home
Good luck getting your 💰 in order. We all have to be real with what we have and what we don’t. No shame in being on the come up. We’ve all been there.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 you too, we deserve to get ourselves right 🙏🏾🗣️
I always assumed paying the bill was standard bad date or not!
Find a good woman that doesn't care about that stuff and is happy to split it. I was lucky to find that in my wife, if she expects you to pay for everything she isn't the one
Chivalry ain’t dead. Who cares if the women deserves it or not. As a MAN if you invite, you pay.
Word of wisdom !! He who has an ear have to listen !
Love all your videos fam. All great points that I hope our young guys learn and implement in their dating lives.
All great advice! Mind you, even IF you do all this, if it's not a match, it's just not a match. Don't take it personal and dont stop doin these things for other women. Best wishes yall! I know it's wild out here...
this is great advice. also personal hygiene is very important. women pay attention to every detail.
Sir,we want a video on how to organize things like wardrobe, clothes and saving space.
No liquor on a first date.❤
Wine with dinner?
There's hope for men out there and you could teach a community.. It's time men. Get it together.
As a man using dating apps, the first "date" isnt even a date. I wanna see if you're real, if you have all your shit together, if you're not a catfish. I also aint paying for a stranger, I wanna see that you're independent and humble. We can then set up a FIRST DATE.
My Ninja! 💪🏽
Always good to see a young black man contribute good energy. Jesus Christ loves you!
All that a woman need is a man who is a good leader that she can trust, then her feminity will naturally gush out and her aggression and self defense will dissappear while in his presence. She'll become like a submissive little girl again because she found a daddy that can take good care of her, though she may be able to take care of herself in certain ways.
Sometimes I take a girl out for the first date just to find out that I’m not attracted to her. So all that texting after the date and kissing on the forehead stuff is out the window. I don’t do any of these things unless it’s a girl that I want to take off the market. Which is very rare
Bro so, what exactly are you saying?
@@anulakshmi1630 No, he's trying not to lead his date on and have them hoping for more, when he's decides he's not interested.
@@kwasiahenkora6583 Thank you
I understand you don't want to lead the lady on when you aren't attracted to her bit I believe he's referring to a guy who desires to get a second date, which implies the guy most likely likes the girl. Also the the ice breaking activity before dinner he talked about also gives room for both persons to see if they like each other.
@@OriginalAfricanTales his video is misleading to women in that it implies if a man asks u out on a date then u are in the clear and the ball is only in the man’s court to prove to you why he deserves a second date. When dealing with high-demand men who are successful this is furthest from the truth and why many u don’t get asked out for a second date. The point of my comment was to bring balance
Classy stuff right here! I know old men that can learn from you. Bless you abundantly..
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This is the type of date any woman would love to go on. Only use these tips with women that you actually do want to pursue. No great date ghosts round here.
Low key feels like he date ghost girls, or just post for going on a date with himself. Or he's gay.
Great tips. Most women will appreciate the effort
“It’s the toes for Me” ahh hell nah 🤣🤣
Thank you. You are so wise, some men just don't get it.
Such a gentleman!!!
And a sucker too!
He gets it 💙
A very handsome gentleman And that is the truth 100%❤❤
Thank you for teaching them. 💛
Real Grown Man Rizz right there. Respect 🙏
Don't confirm no dates. If she doesn't show up, you dodged a bullet.
Don't hint at a second date, you want to give her room to tell it to you first, also no need to let her know how much you enjoyed your date either, same reason.
Trell raised the bar so high I think I should just date him at this point.
At this point where is MY Trell 😩😂 I need a man in my life who thinks like this, grooms like this, looks like this lol. All the above.
Ima have to take that line ”is the toes for me” fr
Can you possibly do a video similar to this women .. what women can/shouldn’t do from a man’s perspective if that makes sense
Nice
Damn!!!!!! I thought 😢he was in the community. 😢😊
We’ll treat him like a king ladies!!!!
I did all of these tips on the date. We went to escape room for ice breaker and went to go eat for 1on1 talk and chill but later after she told me “we are not compatible, conversation wise” I feel like I was asking all the right questions but she was a little awkward and nervous, nevertheless she was cool. Maybe I have to improve my social skills a bit idk, I really think it just our chemistry just wasn’t connecting
Hopefully next time I will get it right 💪
As a girl. Yeah I agree! Any time when anyone asks how my day was or say good morning I feel happy . And my goodness when I get a compliment (I don’t really get many) I feel a lot better about my body. And if someone gave me a kiss on a cheek or just a hug/ peck I would be thinking about it all day. I would be red af. But keep in mind all girls are different. :)
Good luck
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What do you think the girl should do on the first date then?
@@checharles5224 hmm I can’t quite answer this question but here is what I would do.
I would ask them how they are doing and ask them if everything is okay. I would probably offer to pay the bill at time to time. (Just to be nice) I would do a lot of other things such as taking things slow, let him know that I trust him.
There is not much I can really say but this is just what I would do. I would do a lot more. But to be honest I ain’t 100% sure. Depending on where the date is at it would be much different.
@@arthurhudson3592 why the kiss emoji? (Not trying to be rude or anything)
@Tsuki that was a kiss for your forehead and please don't be rude the world is full of rude people
Facts. Well said my brother.
Damn this man is so wise
Simp 101 with some good ideas mixed in
This dude is teaching guys how to be simps!! I do like the other videos he makes tho about men’s hygiene and etc. but he definitely doesn’t need to be giving any dating advice.
Learn and adapt your own way that’s beneficial men
You that nigga bro im thankful for brothers like you straight up
Just something for y'all to think of before you get serious you have to understand if your in a relationship you gotta believe not just show that you are actually interested in your partner coming from someone who continues to make this mistake
THIS!!! Men please take note. 🔥🔥🔥
I really wish there were more men who thinks like this I live in Philly I give up its not enough good men here.
“It’s the toes for me” 😭
Bro it’s on Monday I’m so nervous
Bro keep us updated you the truth !
DO NOT TEXT HER FIRST AFTER THE DATE. He was right on the other things but do not text first
nice advice, no bs just straight facts
All of this is really good advice. This is healthy masculinity without all of that toxic, "alpha" male bullshit. Good vid man!
Only thing I disagree with is texting her after the date.
Do you have a skin care video? Those products you use look very helpful and expensive. I’m 21 and still suffering from acne and finding out what works best for me. I don’t have problems with talking to females, but I suffer a little bit with confidence issues because my skin doesn’t look the best and I just hate looking into the mirror some days. I literally do all the traits you say it’s just me battling myself. What is that machine you are using in the beginning ? Does that take away the dark spots or acne scarring? What does it do?
I’d say find a dermatologist in your area & get their opinion. That changed the game for me when I was struggling with acne.
I'm in the beauty industry and he's using pretty good skincare. You should go to your nearest department store, preferably Nordstrom, Ultra, Sephora or Neiman Marcus, make an appointment for a facial and go from there. Many many price points, you don't need to start with the most expensive. There's great moisturizers, serums and cleaners for men from Clinique, Kiehls, Clarins, Atwater, and Jack Black. Nordstrom gives great samples too so you can try before you buy. It's not hard....go for it! Good luck!
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You said all the amazing things that are important. They all work for me as a Woman. It's the small things that matter. All the flexing is a immediate turn off
Quick and to the point! I like it!
Absolute gentleman!❤️
“It’s the toes for me” 😂😂😂😂
Subscribed within the first 10seconds. Daaamn😍
I feel like men would say your being a simp, but that’s just corny. Bro treating a girl right isn’t corny at all, it’s actually how you keep and have a great relationship with a woman.
Let’s say u do all that and she’s rude unappreciative and uses you as a foodie date now u spent ur resources and time on someone who don’t give af about u. First date is always a coffee date or a meet up at a park to get to know one another. Don’t be simp or beta like this 🤡
I do and agree to all the tips except for the 'pay-the-bill' ...i split it always! Neither am I obligated to her nor is she obligated to me.
If this has no sound he's kicking the best freestyle
Protect this man 😩
Bro a god man!! This video definitely just helped me have a great 1st date. With a super nice girl hella beautiful!! Can you make a video for post date and how to gurantee the 2nd date ?? I feel tht wud be very helpful to a lot of men. Cuz reality is even if you do all those nice things and impress a girl. You could still lose her interest b4 solidifying tht 2nd meet up!! And i cud use some tips myself to make sure I don’t fumble it. Cuz after tht 1st date im in a great position!! Don’t want to lose the momentum!!