Develop Your Dark Masculine Sexuality
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- How can you get deeply connected with your dark masculine sexuality?
How would women behave differently around you?
Today I'm going to share an exercise to start getting you connected with this long forgotten part of who you are as a man.
Can you believe that being better connected with this part of ourselves as men, that we will feel more confident, more sexual, more deserving of amazing women.
More than that, women will start to take notice of us and see us for the men we really are.
Most men hide their dark sexuality or their shadows from women, especially when dating, and this is the absolute wrong thing to do, and causes women to see us as 'just friends'
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This is so true women are able to feel that energy this is really true
When is male sexuality ever depicted as a good thing?
what is female equavelent of this. to develop a dark feminine ? thank you smuch!
Yep you got it in one :) th-cam.com/video/5zNwXMQATjM/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=SchoolOfAttraction
The guy you showed at the beginning is a football coach or was lol.
Yo any advice
Semen retention
I think this only works if they are "hot". Otherwise you're seen as a creep.
Is not only about hotness but also about looking clean and trustworthy. I know people who are physically meh looking or overweight and they still managed to get a beautiful girlfriend. The key is that they all look very clean, they dress with style and they are very confident. That's the main turn on for many women. If you interact with them in a friendly and respectful manner while looking clean and trustworthy then you have many chances. On the contrary if you look like a homeless meth dealer then yes, they are gonna see you as a creep.
This is pretty meaningless and vapid advice . “Feel her feminine energy” lol what does that even mean
If you want the more scientific version - we're very sensitive pattern matchers - the way a woman walks is different, her gait, her way of keeping balance - subtle smells outside of perfume - the way women talk outside of pitch is different as well, the timing of speech patterns, and word emphasis is slightly different too. There are thousands of tiny differences that we pick up more subconsciously than anything else and this generates a 'feeling' being around her. We're wired to pick up on these differences but we generally dont' think about them much. but focussing on them will make us more present to the moment, but also more sensitive to our own arousal and sexual desires - that will come out in our body language.
@Jack K that, but also doing QI gong. It helped me immensely to nurture and feel my sexual energy more
@Jack K He's basically explaining a form of mindfulness. But using mindfulness in a way in which you become fully nonjudgementally present with you masculine sexual energy. You don't hide it or deny it that presence. You allow yourself and others to sense it. Women that do this are incredibly seductive. You can feel that feminine sexual energy radiating from her body. It's animal magnetism - use your intuition as a man to feel the sexual chemistry in women.
The thing is most women especially in the U.S don’t display their feminine energy most give out masculine energy.
Age seems to play a role here too - Modern working life pushes women into their masculine and many don't know how to get out. So, by 30 - many women are used to living more in their masculine.
To be fair, most men are equally stuck in their feminines too. So it sort of balaances out.
That's not really true. When most modern men see women as "masculine" it's usually because they feel their own powerlessness and see the world through that lens of impotence. Most modern women have a huge problem saying "no". Disrespecting your boundaries is not a sign of "masculine energy". Sleeping with too many people is not sign of "masculinity" in females or males. It's just a sign of disrespect for yourself. Men who think this is "masculine" just don't respect themselves.
@@patrickmcmanus1360 True
Love your channel Damien, you manage to keep a healthy middle road between the redpill-y bullshit and overly-PC platitudinous advice, you seem more focused on forming connections and less on this "battle of the sexes" rhetoric and that's a good thing.
Having a harder time with this concept though. Like another commenter has said, it sounds vague to me. I know that there are certain women when I wander outside that exude a strong energy. Or at least that is how it feels. But most of the time (moreso in my younger years) it just made me nervous.
The latter part of this vid makes me think of something that I learned from Anthony Recenello's channel and that is "presence". Being there in the moment, being intensely focused on the other person while engaged in conversation, making them the center of attention, making them feel like the most important person in the world for you at that moment. Not by overloading them with compliments or entertaining banter necessarily, but just by focusing your attention deeply on them, taking your time to "drink in" their presence.
Do you think this has any relation to that? I find that Anthony's advice rings true from personal experience. Focusing on the other person helps to get you outside of the overly analytical part of your brain. But this only really applies to someone you're already engaged in conversation with, while the first part of your video seems to talk about engaging in this dark masculine energy by being aware of women's energy around you.
If you want the more scientific version - we're very sensitive pattern matchers - the way a woman walks is different, her gait, her way of keeping balance - subtle smells outside of perfume - the way women talk outside of pitch is different as well, the timing of speech patterns, and word emphasis is slightly different too. There are thousands of tiny differences that we pick up more subconsciously than anything else and this generates a 'feeling' being around her. We're wired to pick up on these differences but we generally dont' think about them much. but focussing on them will make us more present to the moment, but also more sensitive to our own arousal and sexual desires - that will come out in our body language.
@@SchoolOfAttraction These more in depth explanations are really good. One thing I would really encourage you to do in your videos is make sure that you never dumb anything down. I hate it when youtubers try to simplify content, thinking it will make it more accessible and reach a wider audience. Keep it sophisticated and interesting. (Not saying you are dumbing it down, but it is worth emphasizing!)
so glad you are teaching this to men, ive dated hundreds and had zero attraction to them due to no sexual energy from them
Thank you Honor
I'm glad the secret wasn't a decade of semen retention! That community is annoying me.
That is the power of what he is talking about....lol...
Its all about full balls energy
Thanks for explaining something inside me that confused me for years...
This is something I struggle with weather I should do or not...
video starts 5:02
Thank u!
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Thank you
This is good stuff, gonna try it out!
Thank you 😍😍
The problem with embracing your Dark Masculine Energy or Dark Feminine Energy is that. So many people are delusional about what they think it is Vs what it Truly is!
Every thing is too Black & White for what people need to understand about these dynamics.
I work at a women’s college and am constantly feeling that feminine energy
Guys calling their girls “partner”… lol I thought I was bout to have to click out this shit quick….
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I know i was about too
Challenge accepted !:)
BS. Looks are everything. Not what most want to hear, but it's the truth.
Wow, this suprised me a lot, great work!
I’ve always thought that Lilith on Frasier was super sexual in a dark sexuality type of way. She barely does anything overtly, but it’s the way she holds her mouth and her gaze. Since she’s an actress, I imagine that this is the real her, and she’s just sharing that with the character.
Great example, and Morticia Addams as played by Angelica Houston.
So basically i need to channel my dark side and become darth vader…Fuck yeah!
The Afrikan group discovered this 3 million years ago
Bless them, they're a young species
I am so confused so in men it's the dark masculine, what is the equivalent if that in a women? You say it turns on a man on when she is feminine yet you describe it in a more sexual way, if it is feminine she wouldn't be sexual she would be more reserved. So my question is what is the equivalent of the dark shadow( u speak about in men ) in a women? And what is considered feminine ?
Oh the dark feminine - and it'is definitely not more sexually reserved ;)
This is deep wisdom folks. Humans put out an electromagnetic field other humans can sense. Fact. Not woo woo
You are aware I didn't say that right? If you want the more scientific version - we're very sensitive pattern matchers - the way a woman walks is different, her gait, her way of keeping balance - subtle smells outside of perfume - the way women talk outside of pitch is different as well, the timing of speech patterns, and word emphasis is slightly different too. There are thousands of tiny differences that we pick up more subconsciously than anything else and this generates a 'feeling' being around her. We're wired to pick up on these differences but we generally dont' think about them much. but focussing on them will make us more present to the moment, but also more sensitive to our own arousal and sexual desires - that will come out in our body language.
@@SchoolOfAttraction yes I am aware you didn't infer any of what I said in my OP. Yes there is a ton of subtitles in a womans(and mans) body language for sure. No doubt at all. All I meant to add or offer up was that there is also an electrical field around the body that others can also pic up on. Some people pic up on this easier than others. Science is just beginning to accept this. The charge or field frequency can subtly send and receive info about those around you. The body's own wifi in a way.
Holding Space...Very Nice Content!
Appreciated!
So in response to welcoming that feminine energy, us men subconsciously will change our body language around women and they will pick it up, is that right?
um... very simplistically yes.
I've been doing this exercise for the past 4 weeks. It took me at least 10 days before I felt any energy from women at all. Since then, this feeling has been very hit or miss. l'd estimate only about 20% of the time. Either I'm really numbed myself out or I've got an undiagnosed case of asperger syndrome. The only other thing I've noticed is that I've gotten an unexpected greetings about 7 times during this time. Of course, these were low value women (3 or less). That is the only thing I've been able to notice. I've not noticed any change of of my attraction to women. It's still only the looks. It's still only superficial.
If your constantly getting dopamine hits from shit places , and live In numbness, it’s definitely going to fuck you ip
Did you just rank the value of a woman based off of her looks?
@camfuentes986 that's what it looks like....
Finally a video explaining how to become a creep ☘️
I experience a major change every time I see a women
I think I understand what you are talking about but fundamentally Masculine energy shouldn't be 'dark' it's the bright source, it's the confidence, warmth, honesty and integrity. Yang energy that attracts feminine dark magnetic energy is the light.
What you described here is actually feminine energy, 'feeling' 'tuning in' 'connecting to sensuality' 'being sensitive' that's all feminine nothing about that is masculine. What you are talking about is connecting to your own feminine energy and appreciating it. But don't call it 'dark masculine'
I think we possibly disagree fundamentally here... dark masculine is NOTHING like the feminine.. Nobody man or woman would confuse the two when confronted with it. Dark MAsculine is aggressive, cares little about others, it's one track minded, it's the hunter, it's great capacity for violence...
But I just want to clarify I didn't identify this as the only aspect of masculinity - only that it's a crucial part of masculinity that modern society tries to force men to be ashamed of and bury - as opposed to learn to embrace and manage appropriately.
@@SchoolOfAttraction I think that's totally what you made up as a concept in your mind if that's how you see it then I guess that's real in your own world.
Aggression actually comes from fear, caring a little about others means you are disconnected from the heart, yeah single focus is masculine energy but what is this 'great capacity for violence' are you glamourising violence?
Force and will power to protect the truth and those who are in need is masculine, going around 'hey look at me I'm magnetic I want attention or you will witness my fury' is just a broken immature person.
There is no dark side of masculinity or many side that's the point of masculine energy single point focus of burning bright truth just like the sun.
'Dark side' of masculinity is actually lack of real masculine energy. You don't embrace it you fix it.
There's nothing to be ashame for wanting to be attractive and magnetic as a male obviously but that's feminine energy expressed through a male vehicle. What you described sounds more like Venusian energy in men. If you are into energy work I suggest looking into vedic astrology. Claire Nakti's channel explains abundant archtypes of planetary embodiments it's fascinating and actually works in real life.
I mean, there are thousands of websites talking about dark masculinity - I'm sure I just made it all up and they copied me because I'm that insanely influential... You can see the absurdity of that statement surely?
At any rate though, we can agree ot disagree - The men I work with find this work hugely liberating and empowering and I stick by it :)
@@SchoolOfAttraction oh yeah I actually searched and saw how many ppl cling to this idea of 'dark masculine' and I see it now as a pathway to development than anything I mean if this idea helps lead men to gain more spiritual knowledge and inspire to empower, protect, provide for those who are more 'yin' then them (which is the true meaning of masculinity) that's great.
But I think in this video you mixed up so many qualities for defining this concept I wasn't getting it as this is the first time I heard of this.
I think what you described here is Tamasic quality of Mars + Venusian men energy but what I was trying to say is that the true masculinity (solar energy) doesn't need any attention, focus, warmth from others (as energy, not as human) it's the definition of independence that does not seek, intent or wish to 'attract' anything.
Femininty is all about that as feminine energy is 'dark' and 'vampiric (seducing, consuming)' by nature.
It's as clear as how moon and sun behaves if you meditate on this, you'd actually realise it.
+ if anyone actually wants to study the energy that flows through you, study vedic astrology
Yeah you disagree all you want! still what you described here is how to embrace your femininity
Wow.. I’ve never heard of such thing! I been into daygame for 2 years and this is something I needed to hear!
Jumping into it now
Good tip, just don't understand the " dark " part. I definitely would not call it Dark Masculine Sexuality. its just Masculine Sexuality
I use the word dark becuase it's a part of 'shadow work' terminology - it's a part of masculinty that's usually buried/ignored/silenced - that takes it away from our conscious thought by force of will. I also call it drak becuase society likes to keep it in the dark and pretend it isn't or shouldn't be there. But yes you are right - technically it is just part of masculine sexuality.
@@SchoolOfAttraction thanks for clearing that up.
Alas, as a scientifically minded guy, I have a hard time interpreting this "feminine energy" concept. It seems to me too new-age-y, too spiritual-y. If I need to try to "feel" something, I need to understand how this "something" work non-metaphorically.
I understand where you're coming from, but let me ask you: how do you expect to understand a feeling if you're not open to experiencing it first?
@@Koettnylle I can be open to experiencing the feeling of neutrinos flowing through my body, but it will not mean that my senses will be able to pick it up.
If you want the more scientific version - we're very sensitive pattern matchers - the way a woman walks is different, her gait, her way of keeping balance - subtle smells outside of perfume - the way women talk outside of pitch is different as well, the timing of speech patterns, and word emphasis is slightly different too. There are thousands of tiny differences that we pick up more subconsciously than anything else and this generates a 'feeling' being around her. We're wired to pick up on these differences but we generally dont' think about them much. but focussing on them will make us more present to the moment, but also more sensitive to our own arousal and sexual desires - that will come out in our body language.
@@SchoolOfAttraction That's exactly what I needed. Thanks! =-)
Thank you for this video - I have some questions I’m not happy to post publicly - would you be open to that?
Hey mate - you're welcome to email me damien@schoolofattraction.com.au
Yeah I'd love to try this, but right now Quebec is in lockdown, no public or private gatherings are permitted :(
Yeah damn that sucks... hopefully the lockdowns will reduce soon
well it is developed already
the imagery in this video is terrible. All the women are young and stereotypically attractive belying what the speaker is saying.
Very underrated channel
Thank you :)
what is your e-mail?
damien@schoolofattraction.com.au
feel better soon buddy
Who is the thumbnail guy?
It's Hugh Mungus.
@@endofblackpill not Hugh Janus??
What a waiste off 7 min. off my life...
This would work if western women were still feminine..
Have you ever experienced that feeling of falling into your masculine when yoiu experience a really feminine woman? Like you can just feel your testosterone jumping? The same thing happens to women around a man in his dark masculine.
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Dude youv'e got so much masculine features ,you need to start hitting the gymn ,im serious
Oh I'm built again now - I had to take 6 years off of gym for serious health issues. But Yeah except for that break I've been training consistently since I was 14 ;)
My "partner" ... Seriously? Sounds like a gay relationship
I think it says a lot that you watch a video bout dark masculinity and your comment is to complain about the word I choose to describe my female romantic partner...
@@SchoolOfAttraction "female romantic partner" - how degrading. Sounds like you're describing an animal.
@@tigrantatulian5903 jeez who cares
@@bwmanhath3770 be very careful who you listen to
@@tigrantatulian5903 not you 😂 no offense
Would you say this is just a heterosexual thing? Or is this a universal energy within people?
It's defintiely not just a hetero thing - there's also dark femininity - both genders or gender sepctrums generally have this wild darkness. So if you're gay, regardless if you're butch or femme, there's still dark wildness in your sexual energy to tap into.