for the birds/ portals phase, a quick way to deal with them is to be in intersecting line of sights of opposite colors regardless if ur black or white. Example: if your debuff is making you stand in the line of sight of the red rear portal, stand in a side blue portal's line of sight.
I've done this a few times as tank and it's actually okay to bring the adds together since they don't necessarily become more durable or stronger. While also the donut AoEs will be stacked, making the safe spot easier to identify.
Yeah had some green leafs call me an idiot in mentor roulette for suggesting it because this guide said to put them together. Don't you love when guides don't have proper information?
I found this one to be way more difficult than the others the first time. It gets hectic really quickly but now I understand it more. Thank you for these videos!
Usually you can just watch these short guides during the time it takes to queue up for the duty and you'll be mostly fine. This is one in particular where it's a _terrible_ idea to watch a quick guide like this while you're queued up. Unless you can _fully_ grasp the way the mechanics work in literally less than 5 minutes, don't watch this while you're queued up. Sit down, pay attention, rewatch this multiple times if you have to or find a more in-depth guide, _then_ queue up once you feel confident. Otherwise, prepare to be kissing the floor the rest of the fight as soon as the portals start to get more complicated.
dont worry, trust... i have studied savage and extreme content before like it's the finals, this is no match- _famous last words_ edit: you were right... i totally ate shit on the portals beause i skipped out on the last part thinking id figure it out
sometimes the dark/light debuffs don't switch even if you get hit by the opposite color. you need to pay attention to your debuff color as you get hit by the birds. if it doesn't switch you need to adjust to the correct bird color and or correct portal that the correct bird color will come out of. for the teleport yourself to your new location, your debuff tells you which way "forward" is. moving forward will rotate your personal telegraph 90 degrees in the direction. for example if you have >> in your debuff icon, moving forward will rotate your telegraph 90 degrees to your right. moving back will rotate your telegraph 90 degrees left. if you have
@@OrphansCorpse I think the problem is with people that don't understand how difficult fights can be for others that haven't had practice yet. This is savage to them until they get used to it, then they see what savage really is. It's nothing awful, but people like you need to be more understanding. Smh
@@Sairiui that's a long way of saying bad players... You have no idea how I am with new players, I help people if they need it. But like bads in this game, I don't cry for everything to be nerfed...God forbid a game have some challenge.
Sounds like youve just been unlucky i got my clear yesterday as a blind tank (i refuse to watch guides till ive atleast attempted it) other tank was new too as was one healer and two dps we only wiped once on the second part
The fight is just horrible. The portal mechanics are way too hard. Too much shit to watch out for and debuffs to manage to effectively do anything else - at all.
The very first Words of Motion + portals can be "cheesed" by standing behind the portals facing the boss and move forward. Melee can also still attack at this position with max range. If you're confused by portals, when they spawn look behind and stand on the matching back portal and the side portal 's lanes (e.g. standing on a square where if you look back AND side, you see the same color). When you adjust for the first wave, you can move diagonally to make sure you're still standing on the matched-colors square. After the birds are inside the portals, wait for the 1st wave to spew out before moving back/forward... For umbral astral birds + portals... You'd want to stand on non-matching portals square. Like say, if you look back you see Red and if you look side you see Blue. When you're adjusting for the in-wave, you still adjust diagonally. But you DON'T adjust after that in-wave as your color is switched now. Stacking doesn't have to be balanced; you can survive with just 2 people on the stack if they're not overlapping with the other stack and you're topped. Pick your stack of choice and stick with your buddy. If you're one of the Legacy Control users, you can adjust your camera so if you're facing the same way the camera does, your destination portal will land where you want it to. Then just attack the boss till you have like 3 seconds, and press strafe right/left; it'll face you the same direction as the camera does and tadaa easier teleportation planning.
just overcomplicating it buddy. you stand so that the portal on your side is the opposite colour to the portal behind you. problem solved. Say you get white debuff. stand in front of purple birds. purple birds going into blue portal behind you? Line your flank up with the red portal. All about opposites.
After comprehending almost every aspect of this fight, I still constantly died to the white/black + back and side portals part when I didn't follow other people. That makes so much sense now. Thank you for this!
I didn't realize at first that the white/purple birds were flying through their portals at the same time, and was expecting them to take turns like the previous group was doing. Didn't make that mistake twice. It's also pretty easy if you just line up with the opposite color on the side right away. If you need to stand in front of the red portal due to your debuff, just find where the back red portal and the blue side portal intersect and stay there. Your color will change and you'll already be in the right place. Unlike Ifrigaruda, I think future runs of this will go pretty smoothly.
I keep getting this one as a healer through roulettes and it’s the portals that really mess me up :/ ty for the vid and I hope this sinks in, for me 😬🙏🏻❤️
So THAT's what I missed the first time I did this: I missed that the light/dark debuffs swap when you are hit with the opposite. I'd have a dark debuff, get hit by the light on the first pass then get crushed by the light ones coming out of the portal.
I'm playing on controller and can't seem to understand what the game is basing my voidgate line on... It's not based on the direction I'm facing that's for sure... everytime these voidgates appear, I really can't even move because the purple line just start whipping all around me so I just have to stand in the middle and accept that I'm gonna be warped out to some random location.
It's based on your character's facing, not your camera. If you are continuously attacking and have autoface on, then every time you attack your character will turn to face the boss again, swinging the line around like you're seeing. best thing is to completely stop attacking and just position yourself. You also have to pay attention to which way the line is going, because it's not always going to be in front of you. for me it was going out behind, in this video you can see it's going out the right side.
@@JohnDCrafton Hi thanks for replying. Do you happen to know, when the voidgate lines first appear, does the game just choose a random cardinal direction on your character? I've seen it be directly behind me and to my sides.. never in front of my character. It's really hard to get it to point into a safe area because with controller on legacy mode, I need to run in a wide circle to have any semblance of control over it. Can't rotate my character while stationary unless I go into first person mode. This was a huge problem for me in Orbonne Monastery - Mustadio sniper mechanic too. Hope this doesn't become a regular thing.
@@probably_afk I use legacy mode as well. It's really simple. Your character faces the direction that you push the stick. My suggestion is to turn the camera toward where you want the line to go, then move your character appropriately. If line is behind your character, tap down on the stick and your character will face the camera. If it's to your right, tap left. Just barely tap. That's all you have to do.
I fucking hated doing this one, the camera is so bad for a boss like this, you can't angle it properly to see where all the portals are, if we could zoom out more it would be so much better
Hi MTQ, I was wondering if you or anyone has done diagrams of this yet? What the developers don't seem to realise is that they have players, like me, who have Asperger syndrome (or another form of autism) or with learning difficulties. There are ways in which we can effectively learn such fights, but for those of us with Aspergers, we tend to have brains that think rapidly with some things but very slowly in others. Half the time by the time I've figured out where I need to stand, the mechanic is over and I'm probably on the floor. It would be useful if someone did diagrams of the ways in which the portals spawn, so people like myself can use them as a reference point. I found a few for other fights in the past that really helped, so I'm hoping that something similar for this fight might be helpful.
So Square Enix should program the game for you? For those with Aspergers? Someone who posts videos for free should accommodate you and your condition. Your arrogance is staggering.
Square Enix should redesign this fight for those with Asperger's? How about those with depression, anxiety, etc.? Aren't you ignoring THEM? Should PLAYERS ALSO respond to your disorder? Your arrogance is staggering.
I just did this for the first time, and the portals were confusing me. Does the debuff also affect the portal blasts? So if I got the dark debuff, I need also need to choose the red portal lane? I watched that part several times and didn't really get it. OR are the portals always blasting in the order based on which color is hit by the birds in during the first portals?
If you have any sense you will do this once and never queue up for a random raid again just incase you get this one, its not worth the weekly reward trust me.
Yea, ok, something here just doesn't add up. Every time I do this boss, and ever since it came out, I have not been able to figure this one out. I see the birds go in the blue portal, and then it comes out the blue portal, which makes sense. But sometimes it goes in the blue portal, and then shoots out like normal through the blue portal, but then the 2nd one shoots into the red portal and it just seems to randomly pick red or blue exit portal, and it doesn't just stop there, it then shoots again through the other exit portal, even though only one set of birds went in.
any advice on how to handle the teleportation? i'm having really hard time to adjust where to go... especially when i hit the boss again, after positioning it at the right spot
Loved this fight, and can't wait to get back in and do it again. It's one of those fights that feels so hard at first but will feel masterful once you finally "get it." Best fight of the new raids and probably one of my favourites in the whole game. One note on the add phase though. It seemed like the Explosion raid wipe cast is triggered if one of the adds is killed too much before the other. The guide doesn't really make that clear and it comes across as if it's just a timed enrage (though maybe that triggers it too?). Try to burn both down at approximately the same time.
Isn't the umbral/astral light/darkness association wrong in this fight? The white one should have been umbral. (Desptie the name, since the people of the source were wrong when they associated astral with light; light is stagnant, which is umbral.)
Yo... Mizzteq why do the adds in normal have to separated? they don't tether each other in normal mode and so you are just losing out on cleaving damage. Some green leaf watched a guide for this in my mentor roulette and called me an idiot because the donuts are apparently harder to dodge when they are together. I normally like these guides for newer players but not when there is inaccurate information that people are religiously following.
this fight is actually easier than I thought, hell every eden fight is, there's plenty of time to avoid every mechanic, that or there are very obvious signs
I came from WoW and reached max level 3 days ago and now reached this fight. I really hope that the raiding actually gets more challenging in savage raids because these tile based fights are so predictable and telegraphed.. The random people in my group still manage to die left right and center but it doesn't seem to matter at all, the boss still dies at the end. The infinite number of battlerezzes and seemingly unlimited mana of healers make this way too easy.
Yea, you certainly sound like you come from WoW: (1) criticism of the game, (2) criticism of players, (3) more criticism of the game. Take your poison back to where you came from.
Everybody gangsta until the portals show up.
for the birds/ portals phase, a quick way to deal with them is to be in intersecting line of sights of opposite colors regardless if ur black or white. Example: if your debuff is making you stand in the line of sight of the red rear portal, stand in a side blue portal's line of sight.
A$APshaman Oh my gosh thank you I might actually survive one of these now
@@alexestler8521 np! happy raiding everyone
You saved my life THANK YOU 😂♥️
Oh....... thank you so much
After a good many tries, I figured this out and tried to explain it to others. Maybe I should create a graph to show people.
I've done this a few times as tank and it's actually okay to bring the adds together since they don't necessarily become more durable or stronger. While also the donut AoEs will be stacked, making the safe spot easier to identify.
can confirm
Handy to know thanks
Definitely preferable to bring them together bc of stacked donuts + easier on your AOE casters to hit two at once.
Yeah had some green leafs call me an idiot in mentor roulette for suggesting it because this guide said to put them together. Don't you love when guides don't have proper information?
Now I understand why Geralt hates portals
I found this one to be way more difficult than the others the first time. It gets hectic really quickly but now I understand it more. Thank you for these videos!
That death animation at 1:30
lmao, that is amazing.
Got flattened by a linebacker
is like "I don't have bones anymore" XD
Haahahahahahaahahahahahahaa
Floored
Usually you can just watch these short guides during the time it takes to queue up for the duty and you'll be mostly fine. This is one in particular where it's a _terrible_ idea to watch a quick guide like this while you're queued up. Unless you can _fully_ grasp the way the mechanics work in literally less than 5 minutes, don't watch this while you're queued up. Sit down, pay attention, rewatch this multiple times if you have to or find a more in-depth guide, _then_ queue up once you feel confident. Otherwise, prepare to be kissing the floor the rest of the fight as soon as the portals start to get more complicated.
Absolutely agree with this, as I just learned the hard way LOL.
dont worry, trust... i have studied savage and extreme content before like it's the finals, this is no match- _famous last words_
edit: you were right... i totally ate shit on the portals beause i skipped out on the last part thinking id figure it out
sometimes the dark/light debuffs don't switch even if you get hit by the opposite color. you need to pay attention to your debuff color as you get hit by the birds. if it doesn't switch you need to adjust to the correct bird color and or correct portal that the correct bird color will come out of.
for the teleport yourself to your new location, your debuff tells you which way "forward" is. moving forward will rotate your personal telegraph 90 degrees in the direction. for example
if you have >> in your debuff icon, moving forward will rotate your telegraph 90 degrees to your right. moving back will rotate your telegraph 90 degrees left.
if you have
I knew I wasn't imagining it. This is why I died sometimes, despite positioning 'correctly'.
this is relatively easy until the portals start....
yeah thats the annoying part of this raid, ive died to things i know about cause i'm watching the portals
Don’t worry by the end you’ll be saying this was a triumph.
only the portals along with the colors, it's what confused me on my first attempt xD
aye
@@Dragonian05 Making a note here: huge success!
what is this , savage lite?
Yes, literally.
LMFAOOOOO
@@OrphansCorpse That and bad spelling!
@@OrphansCorpse I think the problem is with people that don't understand how difficult fights can be for others that haven't had practice yet.
This is savage to them until they get used to it, then they see what savage really is. It's nothing awful, but people like you need to be more understanding. Smh
@@Sairiui that's a long way of saying bad players...
You have no idea how I am with new players, I help people if they need it.
But like bads in this game, I don't cry for everything to be nerfed...God forbid a game have some challenge.
Living near the ocean, this was by far the scariest part of the entire raid.
This is by far the most difficult Normal Raid in the game.
Currently 200 minutes of wiping on this with various groups.
Really? My random group did it in about 20 mins day 1 before any guides were out :o
Sounds like youve just been unlucky i got my clear yesterday as a blind tank (i refuse to watch guides till ive atleast attempted it) other tank was new too as was one healer and two dps we only wiped once on the second part
The fight is just horrible. The portal mechanics are way too hard. Too much shit to watch out for and debuffs to manage to effectively do anything else - at all.
@@Malachor01 < The problem with the FF14 Playerbase
@@OrphansCorpse And elitist twats like you make the gaming environment as toxic as wow.
I hate this raid so much. Thanks for clearing it up
Way too difficult mechanics and it's only normal mode...what the fuck Yoshi P.
@@bloodyDeagle77 cope
You don't need to split the adds in normal, really helps them go down faster if there's been deaths to stack them.
The very first Words of Motion + portals can be "cheesed" by standing behind the portals facing the boss and move forward. Melee can also still attack at this position with max range.
If you're confused by portals, when they spawn look behind and stand on the matching back portal and the side portal 's lanes (e.g. standing on a square where if you look back AND side, you see the same color). When you adjust for the first wave, you can move diagonally to make sure you're still standing on the matched-colors square. After the birds are inside the portals, wait for the 1st wave to spew out before moving back/forward...
For umbral astral birds + portals... You'd want to stand on non-matching portals square. Like say, if you look back you see Red and if you look side you see Blue. When you're adjusting for the in-wave, you still adjust diagonally. But you DON'T adjust after that in-wave as your color is switched now.
Stacking doesn't have to be balanced; you can survive with just 2 people on the stack if they're not overlapping with the other stack and you're topped. Pick your stack of choice and stick with your buddy.
If you're one of the Legacy Control users, you can adjust your camera so if you're facing the same way the camera does, your destination portal will land where you want it to. Then just attack the boss till you have like 3 seconds, and press strafe right/left; it'll face you the same direction as the camera does and tadaa easier teleportation planning.
just overcomplicating it buddy. you stand so that the portal on your side is the opposite colour to the portal behind you. problem solved. Say you get white debuff. stand in front of purple birds. purple birds going into blue portal behind you? Line your flank up with the red portal. All about opposites.
Thank you!! I couldn't figure out the deal with the red and blue portals.
"Now you're thinking with portals and polarities!"
What helped me : White flock - Blue portal, Dark flock - Red portal.
Not always, the video shows white flock emerging from the red portal
Thank you!! I'm currently doing these now, & your videos help me soooo much! Thank you :)
After comprehending almost every aspect of this fight, I still constantly died to the white/black + back and side portals part when I didn't follow other people. That makes so much sense now. Thank you for this!
damn... im scared now. lol here we go! thanks for the vid!
I didn't realize at first that the white/purple birds were flying through their portals at the same time, and was expecting them to take turns like the previous group was doing. Didn't make that mistake twice. It's also pretty easy if you just line up with the opposite color on the side right away. If you need to stand in front of the red portal due to your debuff, just find where the back red portal and the blue side portal intersect and stay there. Your color will change and you'll already be in the right place.
Unlike Ifrigaruda, I think future runs of this will go pretty smoothly.
I keep getting this one as a healer through roulettes and it’s the portals that really mess me up :/ ty for the vid and I hope this sinks in, for me 😬🙏🏻❤️
all those hours of playing portal and portal 2 are gonna pay off today!
Hm. The swarm of white bird-like figures cast "Explosion"? This is art.
I can't wait to get a group from duty finder so i can finish this
So THAT's what I missed the first time I did this: I missed that the light/dark debuffs swap when you are hit with the opposite. I'd have a dark debuff, get hit by the light on the first pass then get crushed by the light ones coming out of the portal.
Got this one as a roulette while being me first run, definitely was not prepared for it x.x
thank you for the guide!
I'm about to queue for this...
Went in as a man came out as a boy.... Imma have nightmares because of them portals
I'm playing on controller and can't seem to understand what the game is basing my voidgate line on... It's not based on the direction I'm facing that's for sure... everytime these voidgates appear, I really can't even move because the purple line just start whipping all around me so I just have to stand in the middle and accept that I'm gonna be warped out to some random location.
It's based on your character's facing, not your camera. If you are continuously attacking and have autoface on, then every time you attack your character will turn to face the boss again, swinging the line around like you're seeing. best thing is to completely stop attacking and just position yourself. You also have to pay attention to which way the line is going, because it's not always going to be in front of you. for me it was going out behind, in this video you can see it's going out the right side.
@@JohnDCrafton Hi thanks for replying. Do you happen to know, when the voidgate lines first appear, does the game just choose a random cardinal direction on your character? I've seen it be directly behind me and to my sides.. never in front of my character. It's really hard to get it to point into a safe area because with controller on legacy mode, I need to run in a wide circle to have any semblance of control over it. Can't rotate my character while stationary unless I go into first person mode. This was a huge problem for me in Orbonne Monastery - Mustadio sniper mechanic too. Hope this doesn't become a regular thing.
@@probably_afk I use legacy mode as well. It's really simple. Your character faces the direction that you push the stick. My suggestion is to turn the camera toward where you want the line to go, then move your character appropriately. If line is behind your character, tap down on the stick and your character will face the camera. If it's to your right, tap left. Just barely tap. That's all you have to do.
Didn't know my Portal and Portal 2 gameplay experience would one day help me play FFXIV...
curently watching these one right after the other cos im doing them all in a night
I fucking hated doing this one, the camera is so bad for a boss like this, you can't angle it properly to see where all the portals are, if we could zoom out more it would be so much better
1:34 That dancer though XD
Hi MTQ, I was wondering if you or anyone has done diagrams of this yet? What the developers don't seem to realise is that they have players, like me, who have Asperger syndrome (or another form of autism) or with learning difficulties. There are ways in which we can effectively learn such fights, but for those of us with Aspergers, we tend to have brains that think rapidly with some things but very slowly in others. Half the time by the time I've figured out where I need to stand, the mechanic is over and I'm probably on the floor. It would be useful if someone did diagrams of the ways in which the portals spawn, so people like myself can use them as a reference point. I found a few for other fights in the past that really helped, so I'm hoping that something similar for this fight might be helpful.
Yes! Lol, Ive done savage raiding in this game since stormblood and I struggle so much with this mechanic in particular lmao
Do you still need one ?
So Square Enix should program the game for you? For those with Aspergers? Someone who posts videos for free should accommodate you and your condition. Your arrogance is staggering.
Square Enix should redesign this fight for those with Asperger's? How about those with depression, anxiety, etc.? Aren't you ignoring THEM? Should PLAYERS ALSO respond to your disorder? Your arrogance is staggering.
Great guide as always!
It was the first mechanic in THIS video that made me realize the pun in your channel name.
I just did this for the first time, and the portals were confusing me.
Does the debuff also affect the portal blasts? So if I got the dark debuff, I need also need to choose the red portal lane? I watched that part several times and didn't really get it.
OR are the portals always blasting in the order based on which color is hit by the birds in during the first portals?
Now you're thinking with portals
Thank you.
Is this suppose to be normal raid?
I lost count how many times my character dies in this raid.
Yeah this is normal...
Now I'm thinking with portals
If you have any sense you will do this once and never queue up for a random raid again just incase you get this one, its not worth the weekly reward trust me.
Thanks again for a great guide!
shaky moving camera makes this harder to understand since its hard to see what she means.
It took me a few attempts to realize how the colored portals worked. I didn't put 2 and 2 together at first lol.
Yea, ok, something here just doesn't add up. Every time I do this boss, and ever since it came out, I have not been able to figure this one out. I see the birds go in the blue portal, and then it comes out the blue portal, which makes sense. But sometimes it goes in the blue portal, and then shoots out like normal through the blue portal, but then the 2nd one shoots into the red portal and it just seems to randomly pick red or blue exit portal, and it doesn't just stop there, it then shoots again through the other exit portal, even though only one set of birds went in.
Miss Take does not address this. Even if she does address it, she's talking toofast for any sane person to figure it out.
no one told me i would have to relive the birds (1963 movie) again nightmares will be had
so.... red is light and blue is... dark? im confused
any advice on how to handle the teleportation? i'm having really hard time to adjust where to go... especially when i hit the boss again, after positioning it at the right spot
did this for the firs time last night. How do u blm and check portals and move away accordingly all at the same time???? :'D
I don't understand the forced teleport it won't teleport where I want it to?
Does the red portal always goes first before blue one?
This sounds like hella fun!!! New mechanics!!!! Can’t wait to get into this raid
Loved this fight, and can't wait to get back in and do it again. It's one of those fights that feels so hard at first but will feel masterful once you finally "get it." Best fight of the new raids and probably one of my favourites in the whole game. One note on the add phase though. It seemed like the Explosion raid wipe cast is triggered if one of the adds is killed too much before the other. The guide doesn't really make that clear and it comes across as if it's just a timed enrage (though maybe that triggers it too?). Try to burn both down at approximately the same time.
Whatever you're smoking...
Isn't the umbral/astral light/darkness association wrong in this fight? The white one should have been umbral. (Desptie the name, since the people of the source were wrong when they associated astral with light; light is stagnant, which is umbral.)
Is this still super hard?
This shit is giving me anxiety as a fresh lev 80 lol
Just did this right now and I died like 5 times hahaha
Thank you
Portal 1 and 2 instinct kicks in
I heard you like mechanics... so I gave you a mechanic in your mechanic all wrapped up in more mechanics
Eden: Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds
I can't think with portals
I would recommend people to watch Mr.Happy's guide of this instead. I think he explains the portals way better.
Sexist.
Simp
Oh my good... this fight is having me in awe... it is astoundingly beatiful. And sooo freaking FUN!
Fun if you're not a caster
Portal meets ikaruga.
this is a savage raid but toned down just a little
Bro im to dumb for this
This looks like a nightmare!!
I will die.
Want this one on Savage plz
I can only imagine how savage raid will be
need danger noodle.
Yo... Mizzteq why do the adds in normal have to separated? they don't tether each other in normal mode and so you are just losing out on cleaving damage. Some green leaf watched a guide for this in my mentor roulette and called me an idiot because the donuts are apparently harder to dodge when they are together. I normally like these guides for newer players but not when there is inaccurate information that people are religiously following.
Oh god the puns! ugh
this fight is actually easier than I thought, hell every eden fight is, there's plenty of time to avoid every mechanic, that or there are very obvious signs
Thank GOD we have YOU around.
yeah hey i have a question: what the fuck
Hi Mom, I'm on the internet.
oh no
fk the portals TnT
I hate this one so much
That sounds like a pure cancer, I guess I'll just watch the rest of the cutscenes to know how the story ends...
you should cut less and leave in more of the fight, the vid is short enough
Fuck.
I came from WoW and reached max level 3 days ago and now reached this fight. I really hope that the raiding actually gets more challenging in savage raids because these tile based fights are so predictable and telegraphed.. The random people in my group still manage to die left right and center but it doesn't seem to matter at all, the boss still dies at the end. The infinite number of battlerezzes and seemingly unlimited mana of healers make this way too easy.
This is the LFR difficulty equivalent for the purposes of finishing the story.
@@jewman666 I feel like there should be a 3rd difficulty between normal and savage.
@@jewman666 idk. lmo, LFR feels FAR easier than normal in ff14, you barely even need a functioning brain for LFR.
Yea, you certainly sound like you come from WoW: (1) criticism of the game, (2) criticism of players, (3) more criticism of the game. Take your poison back to where you came from.
this raid is so easy. the only "hard" mechanic is the blue/red portals
Honestly, this is the easiest of the new raids.
No all the other ones are easier than this one
@@shara5985 different mind sets, I guess. I thought this was a cake walk.
No. It's not easy. You're an exception, and everything in life has exceptions.
thanks for the guide Mom!