Growing Up Gay In Barbados With Adam Goodridge

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  • This week Finlay sits down with Adam Goodridge, about his experience of growing up gay in Barbados. Embracing his sexuality and shining brighter than the binaries of gender, Adam opens up some of the struggles he faced growing up and on a daily basis. We get to understand life in Barbados from Adam's lens and what made him into the person he is today.
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  • @khalilgoodman1817
    @khalilgoodman1817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adam thank you for sharing your story here. It was good to have a different perspective and voice. I really appreciated you being open and vulnerable here.

  • @ottelisezipporah-isadora8070
    @ottelisezipporah-isadora8070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Family support is everything. It does not matter how much your friends understand and support you, if your family does not, it creates alot of confusion and depression. I speak from experience.
    I imagine that Adam tries so hard, on a daily basis and that he is constantly pushing through the pain. I wish him well.

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing, and you are right. Families do mean a lot to us, especially growing up, and they can shape a lot of our future selves. I love the term chosen family- Those around us who choose to embrace, nurture, love, and support each other regardless of blood or marriage and regardless of who we are. We can find a home in those around us, and that's so special.

  • @victoriagoddard4617
    @victoriagoddard4617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I’m sad knowing not much has changed in Bim in the last 35 years. Keep talking about it. Sending love - Happy Pride 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

  • @kyleporter2822
    @kyleporter2822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great episode! Thanks for sharing your story Adam - you are so FAB!!!!!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn't agree more!

  • @kristinethomas918
    @kristinethomas918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of you Adam, it was an emotional but inspiring day! Finlay, you were great too 🙌

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching again :)

  • @saffronoliver9780
    @saffronoliver9780 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey, my brother is going to barbados soon and is just wondering what would be acceptable swimwear for a gay man on a holiday complex?

  • @abikifelew698
    @abikifelew698 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanted to talk to you. How can I find you?

  • @raystraker1733
    @raystraker1733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hang in there Adam

  • @kellymalloy3670
    @kellymalloy3670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow all the feels ❤️ So proud ❤️

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching

  • @lailaphilomena8430
    @lailaphilomena8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So proud of you Adam! Thank you for being so brave and sharing that. Lets change Barbados for the better from coast to coast. x

  • @blairjrwalcottfenty6076
    @blairjrwalcottfenty6076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do u get on this show

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi! send us a mesage on our instagram! @itquear

    • @abikifelew698
      @abikifelew698 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@QUEAR I wanted to talk to you. How can I find you?

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abikifelew698 On instagram @itsQuear

  • @marcomarko1759
    @marcomarko1759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    HUH??....HOW YOU MEAN WHEN DID HE CAME OUT??....CAME OUT FROM WHERE ??....IS THIS LIKE A PARODY OR SOMETHING??.

  • @karenporter7601
    @karenporter7601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's not a choice... Get educated people. Thanks for sharing Adam x

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely! Thanks for watching

  • @aurora3655
    @aurora3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree. There's a lot of depression and internalised hatred, and fear, that comes with oppression. It sux that there's still such insane backwardness in the world. You're guest is strong!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adam is a powerful human. So proud of him for being so raw and open. Thanks for watching!

  • @blairjrwalcottfenty6076
    @blairjrwalcottfenty6076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to him

  • @joannewest6598
    @joannewest6598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos to you Adam, thanks for allowing us a glimpse into your life, hope you meet your meaningful other soon and are able to enjoy the relationship openly in Barbados as you would be able to overseas x

  • @palomabeale666
    @palomabeale666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Got me here in my feelings!!!! So happy Adam was confident enough to shared his story the good and the bad. So brave and fierce, LOVE YOU!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fierce is right! :) Had me emotional editing it also. Thanks for watching

    • @alanaban1840
      @alanaban1840 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a top r bottom

  • @jamarstoute2823
    @jamarstoute2823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I admire Adam. Continue to be strong. Let’s change Barbados 🇧🇧 🏳️‍🌈

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely! it's time for a change!

  • @hazhu2153
    @hazhu2153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Smh

  • @suzasternadel4533
    @suzasternadel4533 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Incredible!!! Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. Cannot WAIT to come visit Finlay and meet you in person :D Much love!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Come on down!