Talking To My Dad About His Three LGBTQ+ Kids

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  • I did it, friends. I finally did it. I got my dad on QUEAR. BOOOM. Honestly, it didn't take much convincing as he always wants to be on camera.
    In this episode, I put dads in the hot seat. Just kidding. We chat about his experiences of having three LGBTQ kids, some of the things he had to overcome, and his journey to acceptance. If you don't know already, I have four siblings, and three of us are Queer AF. I love you, sam. And my queer siblings.
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    Also, check out the other LGBTQ+ organizations from Barbados we are working with this season:
    She Barbados
    Instagram: / she.barbados
    Website: shebarbados.org
    Butterfly Barbados
    Instagram: / butterflybarbados
    Website: www.butterflyb...
    Equals Barbados
    Instagram: / equals246
    Website: equalsbarbados...
    If you are not in barbados- Below are some links of organizations that I found helpful
    LGBTQ+ Drug and Alcohol Treatment Resources
    www.therecover....
    Sexual assault and LGBTQ+ Community
    www.hrc.org/re....
    Mental Health Resources for LGBTQ+
    www.nami.org/Y...
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    Special shout out to some friends that aided with the creative
    Music & Sound effects- Braydon Germain- / braydongerm. .
    Logo & Branding- Kristi Hemingson- / west.emeral. .
    Intro clip animation- M'c Kenneth Licon- / lilfashioni. .

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  • @shonalashley6737
    @shonalashley6737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "There's not enough shepherds, there's too many sheep" - LOVE this!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Shona. I really appreciate your input. Blessings.

  • @victoriagoddard4617
    @victoriagoddard4617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    David has always been so accepting of all people and I think that’s why children have always gravitated towards him, loving him as a coach throughout the years! You guys are all lucky to have such great parents.

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely! We are so privileged. thank you for all the love and support!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Victoria. I really appreciate your kind words. Blessings on your journey.

  • @rosiehartmann1747
    @rosiehartmann1747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful interview. Much, much love here. Well done, Dave and Kerry Porter!

  • @Sundancer8
    @Sundancer8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's really good that you are doing this much needed effort...far too many still exist in boxes filled with old habits formed from ignorance and unreasoned fear.
    I appreciate you.

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Appreciate you too! Thank you for the support!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Derek I really appreciate your input. Blessings my friend

  • @MalouMorgan
    @MalouMorgan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for being so open and honest about your journeys. There were so many nuggets of wisdom in this episode. I hope everyone continues to share this message of love far and wide ❤️

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Malou. Blessing on your journey.

  • @deborahmarshall2576
    @deborahmarshall2576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You all have a super dad - but you all already know that. Now the world knows it! Fantastic episode!

  • @zaltan0
    @zaltan0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good to see piggy speak, man's been like a father figure to me.. Hope you guys are staying safe out there.
    Shub

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I am humbled by your words. Take care my friend. Blessings

  • @deadtermites
    @deadtermites 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Papa P! A second dad to alot of us out there. An absolute legend and a great watch!
    Finally got to see his side of the journey!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate you.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pappa P misses BBQ Boy. Thanks for your kind words

  • @LeilaniOfBarbados
    @LeilaniOfBarbados 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry to keep commenting but this was so moving! As a TH-cam creator myself, this is amazing content! Well done you. Subbed and liked x

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching and all the love!!! I watch your videos also, couldn't believe I wasn't subscribed maybe it was my personal account. Keep killing it on YT!

  • @tasherzable
    @tasherzable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a special episode! Love what you’re doing!

  • @nkellybarbados
    @nkellybarbados 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow thank you for sharing this @Keith Miller!! Had me in tears. There's no love greater than the love for your children!! Rock on Fin! Love the name of the show btw. Very clevear!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Nicholas! Appreciate the support. Glad you got the name, took me a while to come up with but I love it.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks. I really appreciate your words. Love and Blessings

  • @bethany780
    @bethany780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so inspiring!! LOVED THIS EP AND YOU BOTH.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Bethany. Thanks for your input. I hope love is taking care of you

  • @bgolding20
    @bgolding20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so so so special

  • @Loretoduffy
    @Loretoduffy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well done guys. Absolutely fabulous!! As Dave says there's always someone out there who will listen!! Congrats!!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the love and support!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Loteto, Great to hear your input. Love and Blessing to you

  • @MagnoliaPantherWoman
    @MagnoliaPantherWoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great episode. It warms my heart. Compassion, learning, love, family, life. 💗

  • @aintthatab-tch
    @aintthatab-tch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m your #1 fan PAPA P!!! Such a beautiful video, so excited to see quear forging paths with stories of not only queer people and their journey, but the various journeys of parents and loved ones! Keep it up Finlay, killin it!!!

  • @callumwright246
    @callumwright246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was absolutely amazing! Two of the most incredible, inspirational people I have the pleasure of knowing. Thank you both for sharing ♥️♥️♥️

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Callum. Really appreciate your kind words. Blessing and Love to you

  • @ashleighdeane9997
    @ashleighdeane9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely loved this episode! 🤍

  • @sharentuach2815
    @sharentuach2815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great episode!

  • @iamsimonpipe
    @iamsimonpipe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is really inspirational. fantastic interview. as a dad, i'm taking notes. very educational.

  • @giadaguerin4162
    @giadaguerin4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved every single minute! I hope I can meet your dad one day. 💕

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you will!!!! Thank my love!

  • @lynnewright1071
    @lynnewright1071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! So open and honest - love you boys lots xoxox

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Lynne. Love and Blessings

  • @ingridannquarless-rapson6207
    @ingridannquarless-rapson6207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love him! Love you guys! Love this! Spread the love!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Ingrid

    • @caketincaketin209
      @caketincaketin209 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@davidporter5120 Hello David & Kerry, We now live in Barbados and have our 22yr old gay daughter about to come and live with us post her degree. Your wonderful children are such an inspiration and give us hope that she might actually be able to create a life here with their support. How can we connect here with you all on the island?

  • @kaytashakbari3304
    @kaytashakbari3304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing dad you guys have. Very Inspiring.

  • @karenporter7601
    @karenporter7601 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watched this WOW so proud of you two. Loved it!

  • @CarolClarke-e5i
    @CarolClarke-e5i 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you all❤

  • @SeanChandler067
    @SeanChandler067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great episode - hi Piggy!

  • @joannewest6598
    @joannewest6598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great!

  • @kahluaqueen
    @kahluaqueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dad is right, live ur life and be your authentic self, gay or otherwise. Humans are interesting beings.

  • @LeilaniOfBarbados
    @LeilaniOfBarbados 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh wait you said you were the last kid so you are younger than your sister. I was gonna say…fountain of youth?

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha no no I'm 27 and my sister is 21, she was the first one to come out, I was the last.

  • @uearep1
    @uearep1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved every second of this. Had me tearing up! Thank you to you both for sharing so much. Love Ya!

  • @keithmiller6843
    @keithmiller6843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations Finlay and Dave for creating such a very powerful and easy-to-understand teaching tool that could help improve the lives and mental well-being of so many people in all walks of life. This is education in its purest form. Kudos and Blessings!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks young man. I appreciate you mate.

  • @georgiaporter642
    @georgiaporter642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LOVE YOU DAD!! thank you for sharing, and can't wait to see you.

  • @ethanshutt
    @ethanshutt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey there! I don’t know you personally, but wanted to say that your dad had a HUGE impact on me growing up. I moved to Barbados with my family when I was 3, and definitely was the American who felt out of place, even as a little kid. I was blessed to have your dad as a coach and I can’t express how amazing that was. He was like a dad to me, and helped me find an incredible family there during some of the most important years of my life. Good luck with everything, and hope the whole family’s doing well!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Ethan, he really is an incredible man. Thank you for sharing! I will make sure my dad sees this. Appreciate you.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ethan. Wow great to hear form you. I appreciate your kind words. How is your Mum? She "IS" Wonder Woman. Please keep in touch. Love and Blessings to your family

    • @ethanshutt
      @ethanshutt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidporter5120 Love you coach Piggy! I’ll tell mom hi for you. She’s being an absolute champion, like always. Cancer can’t stop her haha Hope to make a visit soon!

  • @kayliemiller3501
    @kayliemiller3501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such an incredible episode! So brave and so great to hear from Papa P - Simply the best ❤️

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you boo!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks you Kaylie. Love and Blessings to you.

  • @hazelduthie8778
    @hazelduthie8778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved it, especially the tartan! So fabulous to see you both sharing with everyone. ❤

  • @ogreen6274
    @ogreen6274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this!!

  • @sharonfairley3237
    @sharonfairley3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fabulous ... loved it ...such a strong family....held together with love and respect xxx

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you aunty sharon!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank Sharon.

  • @seamonetrotman294
    @seamonetrotman294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful!! Thank you for this💖

  • @kellymalloy3670
    @kellymalloy3670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yessss papa p!!!!!!

  • @Saradelys
    @Saradelys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a beautiful lesson for so many. Bravo! Keep it up!!!

  • @annemiekmackie7167
    @annemiekmackie7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best episode EVER!!

  • @emmaarmstrong1350
    @emmaarmstrong1350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love

  • @LeilaniOfBarbados
    @LeilaniOfBarbados 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What?!?! You CANNOT be 46? Sign me up!

  • @luvlindseyrae7689
    @luvlindseyrae7689 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahh Dad 🥺♥️ Great episode !

  • @bellalewis8634
    @bellalewis8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys!!

  • @rebekahhynam4934
    @rebekahhynam4934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very touching video Finlay! ♥️ Again, amazing Channel. Keep it up! Love you!😘

  • @HelenTurner46
    @HelenTurner46 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great episode Finley good one having Piggy good honest interview look forward to the next one xx