You Can't Save a Girl With Daddy Issues
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- In this video you will see why it's better not to waste time on trying to save women with daddy issues.
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I used to go out with a girl with daddy issues and she was also a covert narcissist
Same !!!!
Same
Same
@@shkrsimpson44just recently the same
same
A more descriptive term for 'daddy issues' would be 'toxic imprint by disfunctional role model', and girls subjected to that will NEVER trust the opposite sex, ever in their life. Although on the surface it may be mad love and care etc, but in most critical\stressful moments that deeply-ingrained distrust will surface like the stench of buried skeletons. In moments like this a girl suddenly behaves as a total alien to you.
Disfunctional fathers have done more damage to the world than some big armies. I've seen beautiful, talented women ruin their lives because they can't seem to be in control, this goes far deeper than they can actually reach.
Only some profound transformation can hope to remedy that, like a month of guided ayahuasca retreat or some such)
On the side note, disfunctional mothers often slap similar trauma onto boys, producing rows upon rows of maniacs, toxic jealos dudes and even serial killers, wreaking revenge for that fateful day mother threw a teddy bear\dish plate at them.
Yeah , it can happen the other way as well . Or if you get a step parent situation where the parent and child dont get along .
Disfunctional mothers also prevent good Alpha males from taking their proper order with their daughters. I'm an example dad who did what I could and then some and the mother was wacky. Hated alphas wanted simps who compromise their manhood roles.
Now I'm a Single Fulltime Father taking full care of my beautiful Autistic 28yr old son from a 2nd relationship/marriage. He volunteers with our local Fire Dept also our local city Park dept. Very well socially adapted...Manly traits...and reaches out and sacrifices for others!
He has never left my side. Dont lump all Fathers as disfunctional.
Be Alpha ....we created all civilizations on the earth for thousands of years! Sweet track record
Out
My mom beat my ass every day I was with her when my dad was out fighting fires in LA city for days on end sometimes. She took him to the cleaners in a divorce and acted in a way to ensure he would go behind the marriage for security, create what she hoped would be a broken relationship between him and I, and proceeded to attempt to fill my head up with bullshit when I went to live with her.
Because of that experience, I don’t give women grace at all, I believe a goddamn great many of them don’t deserve any man’s sympathy or feelings. They definitely don’t deserve to be defended or shown up for, and it’s mostly their fucking fault for being so fucking stupid as to let themselves be hyjacked by feminists and liberals to push their shit, only to end up on the short end of the stick on all matters, including living a satisfying life as a woman probably should.
They destroyed nuclear homes, marriage, and respect for women at large, from the one part of society that up until maybe 50 years ago, actually extended respect to them they rightfully deserved.
Men ain’t picking up the tab for your shit anymore. 💯🤌🏼
I mostly gree with your great comment, but luckily some exceptions exist. I grew up without my father (I know him, but I cant respect him). I am conservative and I am christian, despite not being raised this way. I have no issues trusting men and I get along with men better than with most women. I have issues trusting women if anything. I know I have good judgement and I might be careful and not naive...but not so damaged that I wont give myself to a man truly and fully.
My daughter of 22 hates me and never spoke to me after her mom walked away from the marriage wanting to be free. I wasn't the perfect father but I was always present in my daughter's life since the day she was born to the day they left(19 yrs) I was hurt she wrote me letter saying horrible things. It was to much for me. I did what she asked me and I didn't look for her in 2 yrs. Last year I try to contact her and she still doesn't want to talk to me. I did what I had to do as a father who still loves her daughter.. now Its her decision . I know she's wrong about this situation... I wish the best for her but I know one day she will regret it.
Go to her please... my gf was in the same situation and they haven't spoke for 20 years now
As i girl wnat content with her father but he is not in good mood (he is good but did alot harm things i hope he find forgiveness from Allah)
your daughter doing things her mother did fhink seh more powerful when _no need dads_but this fack, because i feel Insecure alot of time and if my father will give me safe place to sleep i will back to him.
It's difficult situation on fathers really love there daughter, sorry for asked you do this but send her a text until you know her place and or her college. Then be freindly with her freinds like say good things about her and how much you miss her and still care because "she is my heart whatever
Mom and dad did.. Still part of you".
Then her freinds will be Her friends will encourage her to meet with you and remove doubts because you honestly admit how much you love and care for her, and you meet together in (restaurant, cafe or garden).
I know you can do it for her, also take kare waill do this... May the angels guard you
@@ekl2947 @josec3823 stated he was present in his daughters life for 19 years. That in and of itself speaks volumes. It doesn't appear that he is expecting "instant forgiveness". If he had just "disappeared" from his daughter's life and many years later attempts to reconnect with his daughter and then he is disappointed for her not wanting to pick up where they left off, then yes I think your point would be valid. I would be willing to bet that the Mother of this girl filled her head with shit about her Father to the point where she (daughter) lost interest in her Father. Literally, there is a 99/100 chance that the daughter will never be able to have a long term, fulfilling relationship with any man because of her relationship with her Father-or lack thereof. She will also at a later point in her life develop a guilt complex because of her behavior towards her Father. The clinical term is "Attachment Disorder".
My last LTR with a daddy issues girlfriend last 6 months, when the uncomfortable questions and topics start to flourish she break up with me, my reaction was fine I respectfully accept the situation and I move on because I realized I couldn’t do anything for her
My ex had some underlying daddy issues. I knew her dad he was a good guy that loved his daughter and would do anything for her. However, my ex hated him. She treated him like a pack mule/atm. She had no respect, admiration, or appreciation for anything he did for her. He put her through school, he helped her out financially every month, he was always there when she needed something done that she was unwilling to do. So as our relationship was progressing it became pretty apparent she did not respect, admire, or appreciate me. Her view of men was the exact same as her view of her father. I was quickly becoming a pack mule/atm because she views men as only good for that. I broke up with her about a month ago. Don’t date women who don’t at the very least respect and appreciate their own father.
No you're just spiteful about the break up. You don't have respect for her, how can she have any for you?
bro read again @@freddieellis5144
The only people I want to save is myself and my child…..modern women are not my problem 🙄
You can't be her partner, and psychiatrist/ counselor. It never ends well. These problems should be resolved before entering into a relationship.
Agree 100%! Its not your responsibility to educate other adults in how to behave and live life. All you can do is live your best life.
Rather have my stable 6 then my old crazy 9. Daddy issues and red flags I choose to complicate my life and justify the relationship. Girl boss issues, narcissistic and manic moments.
Yep!
Agreed
All the men I know who have successful marriages have women that are less attractive than the men. You get a simple looking girlfriend, you got a stable relationship. At least it seems to be that way.
It takes us a level of maturity to get to this point. And almost feel like many of us can’t get to this point without experiencing how that character and personality overrides the looks/body
6.5 is the sweet spot. If she can get dressed up to a 7.5 I’m good!
Dated a girl half my age who openly admitted having Daddy issues. Amazing sex and lots of fun, but she’d never settle in one place or job. She broke up with me in January but I could see she wasn’t 100% sure about it. The guy she’s with now is gonna find out the hard way what I did.
Yo, I'm with you. I'm 39, she was 23, same story as you. It was a total mindfu*k for me, the whole 90% sure about breaking up thing.
@@sterlingforbes3872 You said it bro. And you bet your ass they’ll come sniffing around again one day!
@@disorder_go Amen brother!
@@sterlingforbes3872 And just like that, guess who just followed me on TikTok 🤣🤣
@@disorder_go Dude! The mind-games they play. Good luck in how you proceed brother. I'd give advice but I'm in the same spot :-)
If neither person is doing work around their trauma / wounded patterns, the relationship can’t function. Best case at that point is one person stays abused or disempowered the whole time.
We all have some level of trauma. It’s inevitable with growing into adulthood. For those with good families, they will be minimal comparably
The toxic trauma imprint girs get from disfunctional fathers often goes far deeper than a woman can reach. We should ask women who faced this, got their intent to fix it, and went to great lengths successfully dealing with the imprint. Maybe who went through guided ayahuasca retreats or some such thing.
@@oleksybabansky I'm with a woman who has done all of this. I have my own shit with my family so we were a perfect match in that regard. We both have done and still do work around our parental wounding. I don't think you can ever fully heal this stuff but you can do deep work and live a different life. This is work that must be guided. The individual can not do it alone. The ego will not allow certain truths to the come into the light. We will deny certain truths to protect ourselves.
Don't save her, she don't want to be save. Never be like that simp Mario.
Hey hey Luigi also was a simp, don't put all the weight on Mario.
She’s still a human. Wtf is wrong with you.
Since I got red pilled I have always called Mario super simp and always give it as an undeniable example of the blue pill psyop that infected a whole generation.
There are few things that have a greater impact on a woman than her relationship with her father.
Could you tell us a couple
The relation with the father is a pattern that she will have with her future partners.
Fathers keep daughters off the stripper pole and sons out of prison.
Like?
Being in a relationship with gents who had their own parental issues that has just messed up her mind
Fathers are Just as important as Mothers!!!
Actually mothers are more important to boys and fathers to girls. The lack of one of those for each case have serious consequences in their future relationships. That's why 95% of feminists have no dad because of abandonment, death when they were young or just cause the guy didn't do anything to raise her other than walking around the house.
That's why the first thing you need to know about a woman you like is her relationship with her father. It tells you so much about her.
This prob also applies to women shouldn't date men that have mother issues or Harbour some type of deep disdain for there mother ;) ;) ;)
Because maybe she forgot something on the stove;)
@@con2mms2000 not 100% accurate. Girls need feminine Mothers who raise them to be good wives so they can value and appreciate the role of a husband and a father. Both Roles are critical for kids, however the dads role should be as the leader of the household and the wife needs to submit to his husband in order to properly raise the family
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Last thing she ever told me after 3 years together and an apartment for 1.5 years. “If I can cut my dad out of my life I can cut you out if my life.” She was so damaged from her broke relationship with her father she was constantly projecting his faults onto me and there wasn’t a god damn thing I could do about it. Should’ve left earlier but was blue pilled thinking I could be Superman and save her and change her mind. When she’s looking to catch you on any little mistake because her father was one way, just run. It doesn’t get better/ easier. Lessened the hard way. But much better off now, especially with Rich’s videos.
I’ve been dealing daddy issues with my wife for a while now, it is true. I wish I would’ve known better before we started having kids.
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Dam u had kids with her too?? Sad to hear sucka I mean brotha
How is your relationship?
Yup. I thought I could save her. For awhile it was great. But then there was always something else to rescue her from. Her step dad, this guy, that guy. On and on. She started sleeping with my friends. My plans ended quickly.
I dated a girl who was 19 and I was 34. We both lied about our age when we met. I can tell you the relationship was horrible the first 5 years. She obviously had daddy issues but I stuck with her. Now she’s 29 and I’m 44. She’s an amazing woman who made me better and I helped her become who she is today. But bro I will never go through that again. That was mad hard and hurtful.
well at least you two are making it work, it can be done
And "Daddy's Girls" are the complete opposite. Emotionally stable, good with money, mentally with it.
A girl with daddy issues automatically views the opposite sex as an antagonist. You have no chance in saving her. Give it up.
Yep
Yep, fixing women is NOT in my pay grade.
altough its kinda late but thank you for the reminder
It’s my seventh question to any girl before I’ve even met them, those with a bad relationship ALWAYS ask if “this is an interview”…….
that probably means they recognize that they have a big problem.
Good man, same here - they always tell on themselves, they don't even try to hide it nowadays anymore.
Which question?
Title of the vid says it all. Almost all other red flags can come out of "Daddy Issues."
- Competitive, high body count, unhappy & unlucky...party girls, bunch of tats, pseudo-feminist ((as i call them, there's a difference)), drugs, drama queens, hyper jealous etc etc you name it!
Here in Brazil its the same... its VERY interesting that women are women everywhere! their experiencies are pretty much relatable even in quite different environments
In the words of Jermaine Cole “Don’t Save Her, She Don’t Wanna Be Saved 🎶”
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It's basically beating a dead horse if you're trying to be " captain save a hoe " or trying to think you can fix or change someone . The only person that can is the one who died on the cross for our salvation. ✌🏻
Men can’t fix broken women…
You can't fix anyone else except yourself. For some people you can give some helping hand for some extend but for some, not at all. How can you help someone else when he/she not willing to fix themselves by even a tiny bit.
Soooo many women with daddy (and mommy) issues. It's a question I ask on the phone and again on the 1st date. I've yet to find a woman that had a great relationship with their father...except for my daughter...and she married a fantastic guy! (Don't worry...I didn't try to date my daughter LOL)
So sad, that there is a need to clarify that 😂
Once your red pilled:
Her: "your never allowed to talk about it"
Me: "You need therapy, also i will talk about whatever I want. Best of luck."
Father's who are still in their lives doesn't mean that they have no daddy's issues. pay attention on how she treat her dad.
They could have also had a great dad but the dad was around working. Those are the ones you need to watch out for and vet further.
@@Ggg-nv5ly Pretty much, really depends on their relationship to begin with. Do those girls belittle their father, do they listen to them? Do they nag them? etc.
Men can have daddy issues as easily as women. My dad died when I was 5 yrs old, and being that my mother never remarried and I was left without a father figure in my life, that was and is my plight in life.
My personal advice for other men in this situation is to stay away from marriage. The chances that you’re not wired for it go up rather exponentially imho.
You don't see fatherless boys going around acting like w h o r e s. - unless they are corrupted by feminist mothers
Stay away from marriage is not an advice. One of the best things that can happen to you is to get married - but not in the c u n t culture where you live
You're pretty feminine for bringing up a point that's not really cogent to the conversation
I wouldn't call it daddy issues, but a lack of masculinity. I had something similar, but it's because my dad spent all his time working, I often didn't see him even on weekends. That meant I was mainly raised by my mom. My dad did his best and is great, but I think I have the same problem. Almost like no foundation for the basis of your own masculinity. It also makes it difficult to start friendships with most typically masculine men.
I agree to a certain extent, but when you’re a boy who is raised almost entirely from birth by his mother, it adds a whole new wrinkle to the fabric in which you have never been taught the first thing about being a man, a father, etc. and puts you ridiculously behind the boys and ultimately men you’re around. I was always well behind in nearly category. I’m comfortable where I’m at now because I’m missing on a lot of the societal wrath which I listen to so many of you folks talking about.
@@Mr.McWatson : I suffer from nearly identical issues. Lack of a strong father in one’s life is extremely destructive to the success of it.
I have severe "daddy issues", my parents are still married, 46 years but father broke me. My father was never my protector, he let harm come to me😞
Sadly, I will never get over my childhood.
What happened? You said he didn't protect you? So does that mean something happened
This is really sad to hear. My ex has alienated me from our daughter for over 6y. What kind of person will my daughter be as an adult?
Sad to hear but there is a high probability that she will end up like the girls described in this video. With no boundary enforcement and a strong masculine male authority, she will end up choosing men based on feelings and not principles...
My last relationship was with a woman who's mother neglected, then abandoned her as a todler, and who's father was hardly ever around but when he was, would ask perfection of her and use her as a trophy to reflect on his own self worth, sort of, very controlling and never available. We were on and off for nine years, and it ended in cul-de-sac because she never fully trusted me and in her off-days, she belittled me a lot, as if I should take that and be quiet about it. I always thought she was deranged mentally, and emotionnally, but I wanted to give it a try. She really damaged me, but I'm proud to say I'm out now, for good. I ended our thing like the perfect gentleman I always was, not blaming her for anything, merely pointing some of the things she should look into HERSELF to heal, as I am no longer willing to pay the price for somebody else's abuse. I love her in an angelic sort of way, she had to be too strong too early, and she's fonctional in her life, which is no small victory, but she's afraid to love and to trust, and generally denies her affective disorder, so she can't heal, therefore she can't grow. I help people who help themselves and show gratitude for the help I provide. Otherwise, all help is useless. Set your limits. Human love can't overcome anything. It's only wise to protect yourself. Peace be with you.
The girl I’m with now have no relationship with her father & never did. I try to help her see what her issues are but she’s so in denial. She have good quality’s like cooking, cleaning & sex whenever I want, but she has no control over her emotions at all. She always cry’s over the smallest shit so it’s blocks us from having proper communication & sometimes I catch her trying to manipulate me but I’m too smart for her own good. What I don’t like the most is she love playing the victim like most women & overall I’m getting tired of this girl, at this point good sex just isn’t enough. Should I leave this girl? I truly need advice.
Does she lie to you about anything?
@@sa-amirel-hayeed699 yes, about small things that she loves to call white lies but a lie is a lie uno?
@@BuildingLegends_ watch her like a hawk bro, mine lied to me about them small things too, till I caught her on drugs with another man about to fuck in bed bro. Trust but verify. Them white lies always grow cuz she knows you'll let them go, you catch the white lies, she admits, promises she won't lie, you tell her if you can lie about this what else can you lie about and then it's the waterworks. They're for the streets bro a lie is a lie as you say.
If you are even having to ask the question ..then the answer is yes you should leave her or downgrade her to a plate
You can "fix" her, but not psychologically, only spiritually. Trying to get to the crux of her problems via the labyrinth that is her sub conscious is absolutely a dead end. If you are spiritually enlightened you can crack the shell of her ego...maybe, but there is a chance. The root of the pathology lies in accumulated pain buried in the enteric nervous system. That pain has the keys to the car so to speak. By helping her to get her conscious awareness into her body, she can finally come face to face with it.
YOU have to be enlightened to pull this off because it will take immense resilience and compassion when her defenses are activated to protect her from facing the pain. You'll have to stay in an ALERT conscious presence when she directs the shame/anger toward you. You're not taking it, you are letting it pass through you. Your non-reactivity will not feed her ego, there will be nothing to bounce off of. Once she can get enough space between her true self (pure consciousness) and the pain (+thoughts it generates), she'll be able to sit with it, surrender to it, or surrender to her non-surrender, accept her non-acceptance.
If she can sit with it long enough, stay neutral with the pain, not labeling as good or bad, a fucking miracle will happen. The pain will be transmuted into life affirming energy. It will be like Atlas Shrugged for her, all that baggage GONE, the end of suffering.
Or maybe her shell won't break and that's ok as well. She just isn't ready. Then you'll have to remove yourself from the situation or she'll do it for you. If you are enlightened, then you aren't attached, you won't create a narrative over it and you won't suffer.
Fellas, do you want to be a pimp or a king? If you want to be a king read A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle for a more in depth illustration of this ancient wisdom. You can find it for free by putting "PDF" at the end of a Google search.
I cant believe how this resonates with what i went through and holy shit I didn't pick up on it
My dad raised me, and I don't get along with women because of the unnecessary drama they create. They expect me to pick sides, and I'm internally like: "you don't want me too- because I wouldn't pick yours." I know the value of money- having earned it myself, (not a lot- but it was still mine) I rarely take offense, seeing it as a waste of energy. I can shoot, fish, camp, and encouraged my own boys to go out after the rain and play in that puddle. I'm a Daddy's Girl - and my husband & sons reap the calm no nonsense Daddy expected of his girl. Be that dad for your daughter.
Girl dad here.
I don’t tolerate attitude or fatherless behavior. And I call it that because my daughter needs to know that shit won’t win her any awards with daddy or any other man in her life.
Her mother is fatherless, so my fight to raise her right is eternal. I’m the antagonist no matter how much what I say makes sense.
But at least she can see fatherless behavior coming out of my wife and call that shit out now. My wife can’t write checks with her mouth she can’t cash anymore.
it’s also true that there are women who have a good relationship with their father and yet are bat crazy. I know someone personally who does not have a relationship with her father yet she is an exceptional, virtuous woman
It happens....but the odds are not good.
FOR YOUR OWN PROTECTION! Find a woman who understands that she has to compete FOR 🏃♀️ a high value man, not compete WITH him. ⚔️ 🚨
I’m a 23 year old woman and I have thankfully understood through red pill content that I used to be terrified of high value men and WHY. I also observed the same dynamic with former friends of mine.
How does it go? She keeps up the facade of being skinny, kind and follows his leadership while he can still exit and throw her to the curb. Once she traps him in a marriage, she knows it’s go time and she can finally be LAZY again.
BECAUSE he is a good, moral, family value man, she KNOWS he won’t leave her +200 pound self with kids because that would make him a “bad” man and unresponsible father. If he tries to leave, she will use every trick in the book to blackmail him. 99% of times she will succeed and he will be miserable, as will she (ironically).
A man she can control is AUTOMATICALLY of lesser value than her. BECAUSE he is of lesser value, she can disrespect him, let herself go, keep the house a mess 24/7, pick stupid fights every 3 business days, refuse to cook, and stop following his lead altogether (in her eyes).
The reason she ironically LIKES that Chad dumps her after pumping her, is because she KNOWS she doesn’t have what it takes to keep him long term. For Chad, she will have to compete and upkeep herself HER ENTIRE LIFE.
Do you know how much work that is? That means constantly counting calories, working out, NEVER falling off track, possibly plastic surgery, constantly following his lead and trusting his actions and opinions, keeping the home clean and nice, following makeup and fashion trends and being submissive.
99% of women can only bite their teeth and keep up this Olympic charade for a few months, at MAXIMUM 2 years. Then they get tired and just want to chill the fuck out without anyone having ANY expectations of them.
But SHE will expect you to upkeep all promises and standards you have made from the start and more. If it turns out that you fooled her by lying about your super high salary or assets, she will be livid.
SHE wanted to be the one to get one over on you. Not YOU.
When you see land whales complain about not landing or keeping Chads, it is because they are complaining about having to compete and meet Chad’s standards 24/7 to even have a slice of a chance with him.
What they are saying is “GIVE ME THE OLYMPIC GOLD MEDAL, BUT LET ME SKIP ALL THE COMPETITIONS IT WOULD TAKE TO GET THERE.”
Women who BULLY “pick me women” who SUCCESSFULLY compete for high value men, are doing so BECAUSE they’re trying to kill off the competition for Chad and want to blackmail and guilt Chad into choosing THEM.
They will tell her that her being fat is BEAUTIFUL, that she doesn’t need plastic surgery to become more beautiful and socially powerful, that she is stunning WITHOUT any makeup and that she SHOULDN’T DRESS FOR MEN. They will tell her to not even waste her time dating men and should never even THINK of following a man’s lead.
The winner pickme is like the nerd kid in class who is the only one to hand in his homework and thus expose everyone else for not having done theirs. “What are you doing??? Stop!!! You’re ruining it for everyone else!!!! Get back in line and be as mediocre as us so that the teacher doesn’t notice how good all of us COULD have been if we weren’t lazy!!!”
Remember, SHE has to be the winner and there can only be one on top. That means YOU and her girlfriends have to lose so that she can gain and maintain TOTAL CONTROL.
“You aren’t fatphobic, are you Chad?”
“You obviously must be a feminist, right, Chad?”
“You aren’t shallow, are you, Chad?”
“You wouldn’t divorce me just because I love food more than you, right Chad?”
“You wouldn’t leave me alone with kids, right Chad?”
ADMITTING TO HERSELF that a high value man could toss her to the side once SHE starts slacking is TERRIFYING.
She knows how hard it was to fool the first one and it will be even harder to catch and trap another one AGAIN. At a point where her body, beauty and social power has declined and she has to compete with fresh 18 year olds.
In life you must understand one vital thing:
YOU ARE YOUR RESULTS.
If you think you’re the shit but your results don’t back it up, you AREN’T ALL THAT WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE.
Women demand that men must cater to the female gaze (be tall, have big muscles, be well dressed, have sharp facial features) but are too prideful to cater to or ADMIT to catering to the male gaze.
“Yes I did a lot of plastic surgery/wear makeup/dress slutty but I DO IT FOR MYSELF!!!” they proclaim.
You’d get annihilated by the entire female collective if you admitted to doing anything with yourself FOR men.
But let’s be honest: if all women looked like clones and their body-based actions had no impact on their life outcomes, would they try that hard? Nope.
I’d stuff my face with cheese nachos and chocolate milk all day everyday. I’d be too lazy to wear makeup and do skincare. Not bother with feminine dresses, accessories and perfect hygiene. Not take great care on my hair. Not spend so much money on these things.
I am on 800 calories right now and am losing weight for the sole purpose of attracting a high value husband. If I was on a deserted island forever I would never bother with my figure, I’d eat everything in sight.
I get up 2 hours early to shower every day, do my makeup, wear the most feminine conservative cleavage-free knee-length outfit, smell like flowers and put on a necklace and earrings. I don’t do that for me. I do that for men who will see me that day - out of respect for their eyes and mood.
I used to think I was holier than thou for not being shallow and for dating men for their inner world. My ex who I loved dearly was 2 heads shorter than me. Later I got to formally know a family friend. He is 2 years younger than me but extremely tall, jacked and has a handsome face. Something about his looks triggered a male-like response in me for the first time in my life. I always admired him from afar and continue to, in part because he is terribly spoiled, irresponsible, reckless and would make a bad husband.
But no matter how idiotic he acts my purely physical attraction for him doesn’t go away. I have finally understood how men feel when they fall for beautiful hot women even when they’re crazy and destructive.
I have a lot of empathy for men now.
Women hate women who monetize their bodies (sugar daddies, Onlyfans, escorts) and/or improve their appearance by dressing for the male gaze, getting plastic surgery which truly elevates their SMV, learn to do makeup which makes their face go from a 6 to a 9 and alter their behavior to be more pleasant for men.
WHY? Because they’re terrified of getting LEFT BEHIND, of getting left in the dust and NOT CHOSEN. That’s why so many start onlyfans.
The only distinction here lies between being a short term winner and long term loser (onlyfans, plastic surgery that matches that of a porn star) OR a short term loser but long term winner (being celibate, overlooked by many due to dressing feminine but conservative, missing out on monetizing your body, losing friends due to being functional and careful with your life choices).
Wow... I mean you seem to have understood a lot.... I got to learn quite a few incites as well.
Do you have any advice for me? I am 5'8 not particularly attractive either I'm average nor am I rich... but I'm still young and very ambitious. Will I ever get that raw attraction from any women or is it just going to be an uphill battle?
@@butwhyyyy4870 The raw attraction will come from any woman socially ranked lower than you. Perhaps she’s not pretty, or very poor, or from a very bad neighborhood. As long as the life you can offer is 30% better than whatever she is used to, you’re golden. Above all make sure that she is grateful for you and stays grateful.
@@butwhyyyy4870 Women are seduced through the ears, not the eyes. Looks matter as a sort of cheat code to get you in the door, but they are not the end all, be all. In fact if you seduce her she'll rationalize her attraction to you. All of sudden your fucked up nose becomes cute.
Women like high status men, not because of the status in and of itself, but what the status imbues in the man. They just carry themselves a certain way. Most men need an external signifier (money, fame, trophies) in order to become high status. However, there is another way, a spiritual path. I don't have time to explain, see my other comment.
I’m always disappointed to see a woman’s comment upvoted on this channel.
I think it's good you can't comprehend how shitty some father's can be :/
I like your work and the way you are teaching. Thanks for the knowledge 😊
This just goes to show how moms and Dads have messed up their own kids. Gentlemen like Dr. Laura used to say on her radio program. If you rescue a damsel in distress all you get is a distressed damsel. There is a reason she was put up in that tower alone behind a locked door. Look at it as a red flag and not a chance to swoop in like a white knight on a horse to rescue her. She put herself in that position. Another is Daddy's little girl. Run! Run like the wind if you even get a whiff of her being that. And she will tell you she is as a sense of pride.When she does RUN!
married one who's dad died when she was 11 years old. Total disaster.
Total disaster 🤣
1.) Daddy issue are one of the symptoms and causes of the decline of our society. Runaway fathers and fathers exiled by their ex-wives and ex-girlfriends. 2.) It's terrible that men aren't allowed to have opinions about whatever women say but women are encouraged to have opinions about us. I thought we had freedom of speech here. 3.) Most people just don't want to change or improve themselves in how they run their relationships.
Lol you can say what you think
Daddy issues, she will never trust youZ you will change everything and she will still not trust you and lose respect and attraction because you live to keep her happy and the funny thing is her “triggers” no matter how upset they make her are actually what attract her simultaneously.
In the DSM-V, the clinical term is "Attachment Disorder".
A woman who has a 'good' relationship with her father doesn't necessarily mean that she will be a good person - one that respects men. There is the case with the 'princess syndrome' whereby the dad would always cater to her needs and never enforce strong boundaries....these types of woman tend to do a lot of damage to society and households.
You gotta watch how the father enforces boundaries around her and whether or not she is a afraid of what her father thinks when she commits to certain actions.
Every man needs to ask this question to themselves if the girl that you're currently dating doesn't have or doesn't care to have a relationship with her father what makes you think she has real respect for you??
I married a girl with "daddy issues"... biggest mistake of my life.
Can I talk to you about this? I am going through it.
Why?
😮oh no….
In this day in age millions of women with daddy issues especially when they come from single mothers,worst two women to ever get in any relationship with ..
Usually they are besties and are highly narssisctic , right ?
Mommy issues can also cause a whole lot of problems.
for sure. men with mommy issues tend to be blue pilled as hell. constantly trying to please women in order to obtain validation.
Depends what kind of mommy issues.
Sometimes guys like that end up as legitimately violent, not just towards women but in general.
I dated one who grew up without her father and one who grew up with her father. Both have daddy issues.
Women with worst case scenario documentary type daddy issues. It’s not the lack of father representation or longing for my father. Imagine being so young and seeing the opposite sex be so cruel. You begin to learn that men are unsafe.
What does "cruel" mean in your experience?
Great clip.
As always, quality talk present.
In my experience tho- daddy issues = amazing sex
“Narcissistic Abuse “
Same experience ! Total disaster. She wanted me to drop school to take care of her. Thx God i was not such and idiot.
In psykolog they say everyone
Had issues dad, mom
Everyone
But therapy,. periode you might. Need peace to deal
Your own feelings
I think it's immature, to demand total " addicted' to
A relationship
We do, work to
Flip the script (and a genuine question) What if a girl dating a guy has mommy issues?
Most of my "redpilled" knowledge came from 80's and 90's rap lyrics. Mostly west coast.
If you have some disposable income and patience these kind of crazy chicks can be fun for a while. But you need to go in immediately understanding that this ain't somebody you're going to be married to or have children with
Maybe she didn't want to tell you she was abused...
Now, here’s my thing.
My gf has daddy issues, but thank god she never got ran through. She had 2 relationships before me. I deal with a lot of shit and annoying problems, what should I do.
Run , looks like u can't fix her
Be a calming influence around her but don't allow her to walk all over you by manipulating you, just be firm and make sure she knows she can't cross your boundaries.
Daddy issues can go the opposite way, when the women is self reflected. It doesnt always play out the same. I have daddy issues and I despise my father for several reason, but I turned out super conservative and always had a good relationship with men, wether its friends, colleagues or bosses...I would have rather died as a virgin, than throwing myself at random dudes.
Hi guys , I'm from Montreal and I wanna know how to join your community , here in MTL it sucks , a lot of simps no ambitious men to hang out with
Moff doesn't seem like a high value man and looks kinda bloated. He doesn't seem like happy. Maybe the red pill is not good.
man they don't want to be saved for real... I wasted time and recourses on a gogo-dancer who's also a single mother and in the end she resented me because I wanted better things for her. I wish this type of TH-cam content was available during my youth back in the day, it would have saved my time.
Growing up I only used to hear this stuff but didn’t really experience it firsthand. Now that I have, damnnn, it’s all true.
Fuck I’m up at 430am no matter what.
first comment don't date girls with daddy issue's
I agree. I discovered later in the marriage my now ex wife had daddy issues not knowing at a young age that was very important. I learned it's not possible to "fix her". Move on.
But you can save a man with daddy issues? Have to disagree with you on this one Rich.
Moff is Rich's protege.
What about fatherless daughters...whose dad passed away when they were quite young 😢
I like Rich but most of the alpha bros on his channel would make for really bad dads.
agreed
As me who has a very toxic relationship with his dad y’all can’t be saying things like these it’s not our faults that our dads are such narcissistic, selfish and toxic people we are victims.
She probably didn't want Moff to talk or ask about her father because she was triangulating herself as a victim, Moff a hero and her farther as the perpetrator.
Hero-Princess-Dragon
I would like to join your live ones of these days rich, im a young entrepreneur on my way up to the top percentages of men & I believe me and you would have a fire conversation. Keep up the good work.
Don't lie to yourself. You can't
So many have this BS...
Daddy issues? How about saving them from everyday issues🤔🙄🤦♀️🤦
Learned it the hard way , I understand now that never date a girl with daddy issues
make gas cheap again
You pick your friends, not your relatives.
Daddy issues wasn’t that “penis envy” as defined by Freud?
Ok, what about mommy issues
She is raised by her mom who is a 304
This guy talked for 8 minutes and said nothing.
i know
Yea. This is my first time watching this video and I’m finding it rather pointless.
Imagine your son's being raised by a woman who takes them from you who has daddy issues imagine how they'll turn out
"High value male" my ass
"Alpha"
These so called "high value males" often lack depth which is unfortunate.
That leaves out almost ALL western women.
This is my ex wife. She was a 9, but she had so many issues on top of diagnosis of BDP, bipolar, and narcissism disorders. Looking back on it, I could have kept frame on her if I knew what I knew now, but I was absolutely plugged in. It always bewildered me that after the honeymoon period was over, we only had sex, after an argument or something. But then I would ruin it by apologizing and buying flowers and shit. Definitely not healthy either way, but it's amusing to look back on and she's basically why I found the RP in the end.
Rp ?
@@jaisonstanley Red Pill
thumbs up for using the word scamdemic
Damn, talk about the elephant in the room... she grabbed that elephant, set in down, then told you that it's not there. 😬
I like how guys can ret-con their past as a form of cope. I was plugged-in, i was blue pilled, AND an alpha male.
Personally, i gotta reject the premise that you can be an alpha while your being beta. Its transparent cope 🤷♂️
I'm curious to know about your unplugging. Mine came from being the classic nice guy who got rejected. Eventually I figured out that being a nice guu doesn't work. My dad worked long hours so he was not home much. I realized that we pedestalize women in society. Then I realized that we confuse the genders by calling male behavior toxic and making them look dumb on ads.There's so much to go over and I could right a book.
No guy is the same at 28 that he was at 20.
If they're repeatedly cycling in and out of this behavior then yeah, those tendencies are most likely innate to them.
@@hansblitz7770 It's ironic you mention that number 28 because my life just started lol. I'm in a relationship and have just started to find my purpose and started making more. Of course the woman comes as soon as I start changingy life for the better.
Scamdemic. Nice.
He had me at scamdemic...
The girl I was with had dad issues too... everything this dude said basically happened to me... she also told me I wasn't allowed to have any opinion on it or anything... idk wtf happend.. but they hadn't talked in over 18 years... idk what that was about
I love when a chick calls me daddy lol 😆 😋
Red flag
Let’s talk Cryptos 😂🤣🤣🤣
50 shades of green has daddy issues.
And most people have daddy issues smh
Not with that attitude.
Women with real daddy issues will avoid men especially toxic abusive narcissistic men so what you all saying is completly false and detached from reality 👎
i've met a girl from salvador, her father dealt with gangs, held a night club, people died one night and he exiled to the usa, then died (don't know how) 4 years later, leaving 2 daughters age 18 and 24 and the mom. The girl I met has given all her energy into giving her money to her mom and sister with little for herself. Now she wants to live in france and lives au pair. She's cold and keeps saying her heart is already full, and it's for her sister only. She doesn't trust men in general, and though we had a hot moment she told me to not get attached. I want to help her so bad but she said herself that the wound she has will never heal. I think she falls in the category you speak of. She's also on the defensive with most people around her, it's like she has a dark filter in front of her eyes. I catched on her phone lockscreen that she wrote a message to cheer herself up.
Thinking about poping some lsd with her in a park this comming spring (she never took hard drugs so that would be wild if she even agrees), maybe she'll have a little relief, a window to what could be...
@@pianospeedrun no no if you really want to help her and she seems to have depression and trauma as a result of her daddy issues then dont allow her to take drugs as much as you can she will fall in to addiction people with depression can easily be addicted to drugs and alcohol
And for her issues some people will say people like her should see a therapist but in my opinion having a friend or someone she can trully trust to talk about herself is better
I think you should earn her trust first but that will take time although it will help if you also have similar past or problems that will make her trust you more
But please if this girl trully loved you dont be a douche and leave her when that happens like a bad boy or what these crazy people say it will break her so bad and i think thats why she is afraid to trust anyone