Fixing Those Daddy Issues! 🧔🏾♂️ II STEVE HARVEY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
- Steve knows a daughter’s relationship with her father can influence how she allows men to treat her later in life. That’s why he wanted to sit down with this particular group of ladies, who have all been struggling with dating. His goal was simple - understand their past relationships with their fathers, so so he could help them build healthy connections with men in the future.
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‘Stop looking for a man for what he’ll give to you. And look for a man for what he will sacrifice for you.’ Yes ❤️🙏🏽
Thanks for such advise it went a long way.
Can we be friends?
Pure truth
Ephesians 5.. 📖⚖️💎
Bad advice given to the second lady, why not invite both of them( the lady and her boyfriend) and listner to each other's problem? How can anyone last 12 years in relationship if there was not happiness in that relationship?
"Kids would rather be from a broken home than live in a broken home"... I felt that real hard 💯
That's exactly what ended up getting me to take my eldest to leave my ex husband. I stayed because I thought it was what was best for him. One day I looked at him and realized he was going to think this is how a relationship should be and how he should treat a future partner in life. I decided that was it then.
My mum took me out of a broken home.
@@bronsonperich9430aaaaw your mum is a strong woman I wish my mum could have done the same
The moment I understood that I never lacked a father because my Heavenly Father came through EVERYTIME I understood that i lacked nothing. Of course I wanted my actual dad to get it together but I was 28 years old when I put that together and I'm so thankful for that. Jesus is so good! 🙌🏾
For me it was my mom.. but God filled me with ALL the mother love I needed and wanted!
Yes He sure is! Jesus gives what we need, if we walk with Him ❤
@@susannecarolinehoff7847 Praise God! My mother is evidence of your experience. She did not have that close bond with my grandmother but she raised me and my siblings with the fullest heart of love. That was God as well! We are all evidence of his love and that Jesus is real. I couldn't imagine a world without Him!
AMEN
Keep praying to a wyte Jesus.
Yes sister preach!!! You and I are worthy and He loves us no matter what!
“The person that finds real peace and joy is the person that can sit somewhere by himself and be alright with that”
That's me all the time.
AMEN...
Are you a real man yourself, Steve Harvey?
@Jess so Bless
True that.
Absolutely ✔️
Children would rather be in broken families with their mom smiling than in unhappy homes,thanks Uncle Steve 😁
Definitely
Your heavenly father is always there!! A big Amen ❣️
This whole segment is so necessary! I pray these ladies and everyone who comes across this clip receive God's love, healing, peace, joy, encouragement, wholeness, and strength 💖
Ameen
❤️❤️❤️
🙌🙌🙌
Thank you. That was beautiful! 🙏🏼
Amen and Amen 🙏 🙌
I loved that Steve kept bringing our Heavenly Father into the conversation. He really will and is with you when no one else is. The One who makes the impossible possible. If you haven’t already, give Him a try. God bless you all ❤️
I freind of mine was engaged young and she wanted to live alone and find herself. Her fiancé was fine with that and waited for her . They have been married forever and are very happy. If he loves you he will wait and respect you.
Right!
Watching how all these beautiful women feel bad for being treated bad just makes me want to be a better man than I am
That's a good take away!
That’s so good❤️
They like being treated bad. 😂
@@championofeternity5215 🖕🏻 treat this bad sir in ur anus.
@@championofeternity5215 🤦🏾♂️ if I was uneducated and unemployed I’d probably have a model type! They love a struggler
Sometimes the break up is the blessing ; it’s exactly what we needed! I concur
I miss Steve Harvey's talk show! He knows how to help women & gives great advice! We need more of his talk shows like this! Never will understand why this show went off the air! Please bring it back ASAP! We love you Steve Harvey!
I totally agree and couldn't believe it ended. Love ya Steve!!!!
I used to be a collage kid at Colorado (I’m from saudi) and the only thing I looked for everyday after coming from school was he recorded show. I remember the day his show stopped. Couldn’t believe it. I thought it was temporary but no 🥺
When did it end
He still does?
Is okay we can watch from here!! TV people want him to dim his light for them !! Let them say there
The first girl looks like she about to cry … she looks so hurt … i hope she finds healing and stay strong ❤️
She did almost start crying.
You can't imagine the courage, the motivation, confidence and inspiration I have got from this video. Thanks Mr. Harvey, the world could use a million of You...we need more of your kind. God bless you 🙏
Watching uncle Steve teaches me a lot in life. I thank God for uncle Steve in our generation. He gives us (young ladies) some knowledge of what is going on out there and how to set our priorities right. Stay blessed Uncle, The Daddy to all young women without a father.
Very humbling.....
Hey where are you from?
👌👌👌💯💯💯
"The daddy to all young women without a father"🤨
I called him a dad I never had, I'm in love with all his editions
“It’s not about what a man can give you, it’s about what that man is willing to sacrifice for you.”
Powerful true words, love this👍🥰🙏
Kids rather come from a broke home than to be in a broken home.... exactly my words for YEARS!! ❤
"The person that finds real peace and joy is the person that can sit somewhere by his self and be alright with that" 🗣️wise words Mr Harvey
I met my dad as a teenager and we had some good time together then he disappeared shortly after. When I was in my late 20s (unmarried ), I started yearning for him and I had relocated to another country and didn't know how to get hold of him. I was very sad about it and there's this one day when I was crying and praying and got in a foetal position on the floor crying. A gentleman I knew called me to their family home and told me that as he was praying, he saw me while praying and narrated the foetal position and he said God told him to tell me that He (God) was my father. Since then, I believed that and I've never looked back. I started my healing journey and I've been very okay without my dad in my life and have never desired even to look for him. That's almost 20 years ago.
That's an amazing testimony.
Amen!
Steve needs to do a show about mothers who were not there for there daughters!! My mother was a horrible mom! Thank God ! I had my Dad!! He was always there for me!!
I agree
@@speranzagatakaa1916 🙏❤👍
Unfortunately Steve Harvey believes women are always Right it is the men that are always missing it.
But in reality it could be the opposite ?
Great suggestion. Some mom just have the ability to procreate but lack nurturing skills.
Personally, Steve Harvey don't get to lecture people about family and dating.This mf has been married 3 times.
He cheated on his first wife with his then second wife. Then, he cheated on his second wife with his now third wife.
He also cut ties with his kids from previous marriage.
Hey Steve I really love your show, I’m a 28yrs old lady from Nigeria.... I come from a poor background from the hood and lost my daddy at very tender age was 4yrs when death took my father and have been without a man in my life ever since then, I wake up hit the street to make sure to put food on the table for my mum and siblings 🥲 in the Nutshell Steve I’m a big fan ❤️.
Bless you Jenifer
@@lesleyburgon Big thanks.
So true...the lady in a 12 year relationship...your children will be happier coming out of a broken home than staying in one.
I'm loving every minute and second of this show right here. God is using him to speak to all of these beautiful women. If this was me on here I would've already been crying looking a mess because this is a very touchy subject for me and I'm a very emotional person I cry over everything lol. May God continue to bless them all 🙏🏽 🙌🏽❤️🥰 much love God bless.
You are a normal person who wants happiness for everyone.
Separated my abusive husband in 2018 and filed for divorce in 2019, and it was finalized in 2020. He ran off and was dating the day after I left him, and I chose not to date and focus on my kids. Learned a lot about myself doing that.
Good im happy for u
I’m currently trying to leave my abusive boyfriend we were together for 12 years and I’m trying to get out he’s very controlling and we have 5 kids together. Any advice because I’m scared to be alone with 5 kids.
That’s right Steve, your Heavenly Father is always there🙏🏼 Amen!
Thank you Steve for being respectful towards women and wanting to help us! I wish that all men were respectful towards women and didn’t see us as pleasure and entertainment.
I did that with a therapist and got a chance to discuss my daddy issues. It really helped.
At this point in my life, I'm where you're at Steve. I have had about 3 "adult" conversation with my father to try to figure out 'WHY'. I have a pretty clear perspective of the type of man that he is and I have decided that in this chapter of my life I do not require communication with him. This does not make me any less of a person. I will be 30 years old in a few months. I am healthy, joyful, educated, and thriving while living on my own in LA. I can attribute much of my success to my diligent mom, my grandparents and my Heavenly Father. I am more than enough. 💜
"stop looking for a man for what he'll do for you, look for a man for what he can sacrifice for you"
Something I try to practice is not to have relationships with people that don’t show they want a relationship with me. That goes for friends, family and men.
Say it louder!!!! I 2nd that!!!
Yes, and see it early. Stop making excuses for ppl and imagining that they'll do or be better. And if it seems too good to be true it is.
Most women choose a man based on looks and most men is after what is in between the legs. I am talking about poor mentality people. Don't blame father figure in this picture, this has to come from you. Real men are conditioned to provide, protect and lead and women should learn how to please her husband and become submissive. Sometimes your father may not be a superman.
It’s really hard to tell when some people don’t want relationships with you though. Atleast for me
@@xKouture You can eventually tell. Give that relationship time and time will show you their true self.
How true Steve's words are. What a great man. No matter how far we live, our problems are the same.
Ooh man these ladies just touched what what I been sweeping under the rag for 10 years 💔
Love yourself before you try loving others
The Bible says different. 'Love your neighbour as you love yourself.'
Message to Stormy: Some things you have to accept in life. Like, who gave birth to you, and who raised you. Who abused you. You don’t have to accept the abuse, but you must acknowledge it happened, to heal. And look at who you believe to be responsible. Sometimes it's not the people around who are responsible. They are simply picking up the pieces. Trying to cover the abuser. And if they are doing that, then, they are to blame as well.
•But the main thing I want to tell you is that you are beautiful. And I know you know that. Pimples, or weight, or hair, have nothing to do with the woman you become. The choices you make as a woman are what define you in your lifestyle.
•You can choose to be like the women you’ve seen. Or you can choose to be something else. And whatever you choose, its okay. It's your life.
•And by now you know that the choices you make, also come with repercussions. So keep that in mind.
•One thing I learned, early on, about myself, stormy, is that I didn’t like confinement, bail, or vicious cycles of domestic problems.
•So every decision I make in my life keeps me free from those things. Because for me, those are the things that a lady should not have to endure.
•As far as you having a failed marriage, or a bad marriage. Stop trying to define it. It just didn’t work. Be okay with that answer. Think like a woman, and stop keeping Tally of how many times you have to restart.
•One thing I have found in life is that everyday is a new and fresh start, if you are blessed. And if starting over brings you down, you will be down all your life. Just ask the artist around you. The only reason they are “famous” is because they are always making adjustments and restarting.
•And in relationships, it doesn’t seem that, is what is going on. People are restarting. But it is. Either you restart in your love, on a daily basis, with the same person, or you realize why you need to remove yourself, and start over with another.
•So starting over can't be the issue. Because starting over is a part of life. Not a part of your history that makes you a “bad person”, “Negligent person”, or “irresponsible”.
•Starting over sometimes, means you are healthy. It means you saw danger, and you averted it. You loved yourself, you moved to a healthier place in life. How can managing your health be bad?
•The thing is you just don’t want to end wrong, or start wrong. You never want to damage another on your way out. Or you're coming in.
•But you always want to make sure your life, is what you want it to be. But make a rule never to sacrifice the health, safety, or peace of another to achieve that.
•Dog or be dogged, should never be the mentality of a lady. So don’t let it be your mentality. Dress like you want. Wash like you want. Sex like you want. Eat like you want. Work like you want. House like you want. But remember each choice you make, has some level of consequence that comes with it.
•Decide who you are, and become the best you you can be. There is no right or wrong answer, unless you have a moral book, judging you, and holding you accountable to a standard, you have chosen for yourself.
•And one more thing, trying to understand the line by line, of why it didn’t work, is okay. But thinking that using the changed answer on another man, won't. So understand it, but don’t obsess. Usually when you see one roach, there are ten thousand behind it, hiding. So one problem, is not just one problem. It’s a series of issues, that are hidden, in both of you.
Thank you for taking the time to write this. I am 24 and had my first boyfriend in May 2022. I chose not to date because I was not emotionally stable for a long time and I needed to focus on myself. I was ready to date this year and met him. It has been a journey. I still do not know if I am "dating" right but I really needed your comment
Your comment was very insightful for me. Thank you.
I love Steve's encouraging words!!, it helped me today!!!!🙏🏼🙌🏽❤️👏🏼😊
Nice ...the ladies have a role to plays as well
I love you Mr Steve! "Kids will rather be from a broken home than live in a broken home".
Thank you my Heavely Father for loving me🙏🙏
Love this!! This is so needed!! To the young lady that is getting into another relationship without closing the door of the last relationship I pray she see things clearly and re-evaluate her life. Some good advice came her way just hope she takes heed!!
Thank you so much for what you said at the ending uncle Steve
" You were not created by your father, but by your heavenly father" thank you so much, very saving a life here
From Congo Brazzaville, in central Africa
True
Steve Harvey, you are a very wise and intelligent man. I enjoy your show always. God bless you
This is a very good platform for those women who are living a difficult life because men thanks Steve
Praised be to God! To God be the Glory!
These women are really beautiful and they seem very nice and humble, that's a shame that they keep running into the or have bad men. We men are not perfect but us good guys are willing to at least work on a relationship and fix the problems that way we keep the spark
Man this was therapeutic! And also when she said '5' that was an IMMEDIATE response. She didn't waste no time saying that, which is a pretty good indication (and her friend also telling her) that she needs to leave him. I have daddy issues myself and also come from a very broken home. Your kids can definitely tell when you're unhappy. You're not doing them a favor by keeping a clearly toxic and dysfunctional family dynamic together. Society's idea is to raise you kids with both parents, stay married and live happily ever after..but you're not happy. And if you're not happy, deep down, your kids aren't either. So what's the point? You're NEVER alone in this life and like Steve said, you ALWAYS have God. Do what you need to do to be happy because when you're truly happy and at peace, your kids will be too ❤️
Wow Steve!! Wow Steve!!. You're teaching such valuable great life lessons to all of us. Making so much sense Sir. Thanks for this medium you have provided. Love and appreciate you so so much. Blessings always 🙏🙏💕👊
When I hear her talking about her father tears pass through ma eye coz I hv non of them and all ma trust is in God and every thing I ask God first loveu all
Steve be speaking some crazy truths.
For each of these ladies: May the Lord bless you & His peace & comfort overshadow each of you 🎉 🙏
I love the honesty of the first girl
I LOVE that Steve talks about God throughout his conversations unapologetically. Thank you Steve 🙏🏽 Highly
Favored. Your Heavenly Father IS ALWAYS THERE . YES HE IS.
You are such a generational blessing. Thanks for yielding yourself to living a purposeful life
I love how down to earth Steve is. He is no psychologist but he just makes sense and especially with this, he is able to offer a male perspective.
I no longer talk with my dad and my two older sisters and two younger brothers were raised by our mother after she and my father divorced when I was nine.
It still amazes me to see the differences between me and my sisters with how we turned out.
My oldest sister really held onto the faith we were raised in, living by the bible as much as she could and she is still together with her very first boyfriend.
The second sister was the complete opposite. She was that very insecure type who would attract jerks who'd only go for the booty call and no commitment. Seriously, all of them were just plain creepy and give me those stares when she would bring them home (after all, I was basically a six year younger and skinnier version than my sister). She ended up married to the last jerk and now she is in the midst of a huge divorce where the guy has even threatened harming their kids if she won't come back to him.
I was more left in between. I went out more than my oldest sister, but I did not date every guy that approached me like my other sister. My mother always taught me to stand up for myself if a guy did anything I did not want or like and this was something I emitted. If a guy bothered me I gave him one fair warning and if he wouldn't stop I'd punch him in the face. Simple as that. Before my now husband I have had 3 boyfriends and only the last of those was more serious (the other two were just me and them figuring out the definision of a relationship and simply not being compatible). I never put up with any jerk-behaviors from guys and all of the men I know among my husband and I's mutual friends are extremely respectful and kind.
I know this was over a year ago but this was lovely to read!
This is healing!!! God bless you, Steve!
I'm in tears.. Thank you uncle steve. ❤️
@steveHarvey #STEVETVshow I'm having serious mental health issues lately, have Cancer and a whole lot of other health issues but lately I listen to you at night before falling asleep and throughout the day, you make me smile and take away some of those mental health issues... I'd just like to say THANK YOU for being you!! 👌❤️
Cancer is healed from your body, and your mental health is restored. Peace and blessings upon you🎗#15yearsurvivor
I pray God blessing over you
I wish that we were in close proximity right now and I’d give you a big hug 🤗 I know firsthand what mental health challenges are like and I hope that you have a support system bc it was my support system and creator who helped me through my dark tunnel. I send you positive energies of wholeness and mental and physical healing 🙏🏾 ❤
Please bring it back Steve, this show is amazing. We need more of your great advice 🙏! Thank you.
Love yourself first! You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first. Keep God in the midst of your life 🙏🏾
I love and respect Mr. Steve.
He is so natural. So imperfectly perfect!
Thank you sir.
Steve is right!
I will not remain in a relationship or marriage unhappy. Period
Steve ismart,byeey dad died four years ago,and what a blessing it was,and is to have know.him,so was,sorry he is gone,forever missing u,daddy
When you feel like something is wrong then something is wrong
I pray for these wonderful ladies. May God give you courage and fortitude to know that you’re priceless.
Well said Mr steve, God is our father, be yourself, bring out your own personality
"50% is a F at all schools!" 12 yrs. You are so beautiful mom of 3. All of the ladies are amazing but my heart is aching for this momma. You are not alone sister.
Love this shows .....from Botswana Africa 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
Steve is God-sent. Thank you for your wisdom and for directing hurting people in the Right Direction. God bless you
I wish i had Steve on TV, these short clips on TH-cam are killing me.
I need the whole thing
Ladies please pay attention to Steve's every word! Words of wisdom! Purpose can't die........ God created each and every one of you for a purpose! Am praying for you all.
You must work on yourself before jumping into another relationship. Date yourself, understand your deep rooted issues, discover yourself and become self aware. This was the best thing I could have ever learned. My biological father is a narc and he lived a double life between my mother as his now wife for many years. I longed for my fathers love and the moment I opened up to it, he stole from me and our last conversation he hung up on me. I cried, but my personal relationship with my father in heaven kept me through this. Had that happened before my deliverance I would have never been the same.
Here I am today with an amazing husband who genuinely loves me and the 3 children I came with. I love me! I am love! I produce what I have not been given. I don't need a man, my man is a bonus too who I already am!
I wrote a book called releasing the enemy from within! Release ladies!!!!!💪🏾🥰❤️🙌🏽
I love your comment date yourself...I will love to read your book releasing the enemy from within.... Wish I could get and read your book
THAT BEAUTIFUL QUEEN 28 YEAR OLD QUEEN IN THAT BLUE DRESS TOUCHED MY HEART. WHATEVER MAN HAS DONE HER WRONG DIDN'T SEE THE BLESSING THAT GOD PLACED IN HIS MIDST. I PRAY GOD WOULD BLESS ME WITH A BEAUTIFUL QUEEN LIKE HER.
Bruh you heard one side to the story ..smh.... And it's everybody else fault but hers?
Thank you Uncle Steve and may God strengthen these wonderful ladies
True words,Stormi is looking for her daddy,may you be guided to first find you...thx Steve
Ink hasn’t even dried on the papers yet and she’s already in a new situation. Great advice Steve. 🙏🏾 Take some time for YOU. People are so scared to know themselves.
She is co dependant! I was like that until I found myself and love myself first!and JESUS CHRIST!! WAS THE ANSWER!!
There’s no ink on any papers & she’s engaged & living with someone else, how deep is that.
Joy lives within..i felt that thank you steve.🥺
Uncle Harvey. U are a blessing to show so many women how to correct their situations and the better way to be for just them without having to rely on a man. U can have the best man in the world & tragedy strikes. Then u have to be able to stand on your own 2 feet, provide for your children & teach them by example. God had a plan for your life & I think it was so rough in the beginning to strengthen you and give you wisdom to teach all of us. Bless u sir & ur family. I wish u many more years of health and the desire to keep teaching w/o preaching. I believe that that is the style that attract so many in your audience and take your advice to heart. I thank you for all u have instilled in me. Kind regards, Ani
You betta PREACH Steve!!!!
I follow your channel from a persecuted country, some of you have not heard of it. It is Libya in North Africa. When I watch the problems of women and listen to your advice and how you deal and listen to their problems, I find myself as if you are talking about my problem and I feel as if you are giving advice and solutions to me. Thank you very much, Mr. Steve Harvey, for raising topics of interest to women in any spot from Earth😊😍
Steve, u are a gift from God to us women.
Thank you. Thank u very much.
You always put the truth on the ground ❤️🔥🔥
THANK YOU STEVE FOR SAVING SOULS AND TURNING WOMEN TO OUR HEAVENLY FATHER 🤍🤍
Thank you 🙏🏾 Steve, you are an earth angel 😇 of positivity. Ladies there’s a new season on it’s way, when the leaves fall the change YOU make begins.
Peace and Love 💕
Steve is amazing he is preaching
I love Steve Harvey, I wish he was my father 😢😢
So true and such wisdom from Steve!! God is real if only you seek him with faith.
This is very nice of you Steve to see the daughter in these women who didn’t have a healthy relationship with their fathers and I had my father in my life but he went to work when I got out of school and I was asleep when he got home so the timing was off and the weekends was Saturday all the family and children got together and on Sunday my parents and my sister went to church and my mom passed at an early age I was 17 and my dad passed when I was 21 and I’m fine secure in my life ……
Yes Steve! Teach the ladies right!! Our Heavenly Father is always there!!!🙏🏽🥰
I had 4 children by 3 men
And I had to learn about what is to be a mother to my children
And let them go and I am loving what God has blessed me too take care of my children and my self and now I'm am 60 years old
And looking forward to getting a hubby
I think you are now qualified for a new man, since you don't produce any more children.
Getting a hubby is possible...I hope I do get a hubby cos you deserve to be happy....... Is age a concern for you? I could hook you up with my uncle that is looking for love .... You too can see how things work out .. you never can tell
Fun and Joy 😂yes indeed Steve, bringing Brotha yes 🙌 Amen 🙏🏿.
I think the respect and the appreciation in the relationship is key👍🏻
Love u Steve I love that I had 24years of being unhappy I finally left my kids are happy with out their dad
You're like daddy I never had, watching your editions had thought me more than I could ever imagine.
This is a good one. I feel so sorry for the lady with the supporting friend. She is hurting bad. She need to take the step of faith. JMO
Very well said Sir Steve. I was touched by your thoughts and building up or regain the confidence of us, as a women. I am a single mom too and you are right, that the father of my daughter is not the architect of her life. She can have.a happy and blessed life with the grace and love of our heavenly Father. God bless you Sir Steve. Continue to inspire more people through your hosting with wisdom and to enlighten us to live happy a life with God's grace
Hello, how are you doing
Steve You are dropping so many Jewels on this show...I appreciate your words steve the world needs to hear you...
Steve, you explained something it took me years to understand, even with my mother showing me; and, it took me becoming a double-amputee to be introduced to meaningful meditation practices and know, “the law of attraction”. Now, I live it.
I am glad that Mr. Harvey did recommend clinical (therapeutic) help and he acknowledged that he is not a therapist. However, his commitments show that he does not understand the effects of childhood trauma. Childhood trauma shapes everything about its victims. It takes empathy, compassion, deep understanding, consistent and unconditional love and care, and non-judgmental approach to help victims of childhood trauma or any type of trauma find themselves in a place of healing that would help ease their pain and restructure/reshape them. All I heard are people speaking from a place of deep trauma as they were talking.
I would suggest that before he allows the participants to attend this show, he needs to make it mandatory for anyone that wants to participate in this show to go through therapy first before coming to this show because everything he is saying right now will only sound reasonable to them while they are on those seats. Immediately they walk out of the door, everything he said is forgotten because the trauma envelops them and takes them back to their struggles since they were not equipped with clinical interventions that would help them retain and work with what they heard. Trauma is very diverse and complicated and it does not disappear overnight. This is why I love CBT(Cognitive Bavioral Therapy), CPT (Cognitive Processing Therapy). They will benefit greatly from theses modalities and with combination of Solution Focused Therapy. This is just my opinion! I love you Mr. Harvey and I think you would be a good Solution Focused Therapist.
If only there was love than hate in the world... too many failed relationships leaving ppl destroyed
Steve is very wise with a lot of common sense. People listen to him if you want to grow and be a responsible productive person.
Bless you uncle Steve ❤❤❤
God bless you Uncle Steve !