How WOMEN Classify Strong Men From WEAK and Emasculated Men when dating (hypergamy secrets)
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They mistake kindness for weakness.
100% yes
lol exactly. I have seen this umpteen times. Love them and push them away.
No lol nice men let women walk over them they ain't mistaking nothing
@@toptiercrip You have the brain of a girl if you think that. If I stopped being kind you'd be dead.
Bro you are very full of yourself 😂@@soulfultraveler8957
Brother says the stuff so well it’s like black magic. Main thing I need to keep in mind is that they are built that way and are not toxic. They are like kids and emotional so be fun and don’t take anything they say or do seriously. They themselves change their mind all the time. They also do not want you to take them seriously.
Like your grandmother telling you we’re going to church at a certain time, only for her to change her mind to go at a different time or not at all, making you wake up real early for nothing
I choose Jesus over some stupid broad.
Why do they not want you to take them seriously
@@unravelsoulbecause they know that their emotions are always changing. What they want one day is totally different from what they want the next day.
@@unravelsoul Because then they'd have to step up to take accountability.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
@@AzielTobiasjj I was in love with the most incredible girl. When she left it crushed me. In fact for 10 years I thought this is the end of my life. I would rather be alone then get hurt like that again. One day the most incredible girl came to work. Everybody wanted her. She talked to me I didnt respond. The more I pushed her away the more she pursued me. It got rediculous. Then she asked me out. All the guys were pissed at me. She kept asking. I finally gave in. Told her if I go please dont tell anyone. Everyone is mad at me. She took me to a very nice restaurant. I just talked about the food. In the middle of the restaurant she jumped up and said in a loud voice . I CAN HAVE ANY MAN I WANT!!! Then grabbed her tits and her ass. You should have seen all the mens eyes pop out of their heads. I just looked up and said I believe you. Then kept eating. Well she took me to her home while watching TV she said I do believe I had enough. She took of her shirt and kicked of her pants. And got down on all fours. Look!!! I AM ONLY HUMAN.
I was almost 50 by the time I learned this lesson to be true. Save yourselves the time, gentlemen, and learn from CASEY now!
Amen brother
Bro this is so true because I have been testing being indifferent and ignoring her beauty and she is actually trying to be even more feminine and pretty 😂. CRAZY but it’s happening
Women are backward
Keep yourself in shape and handsome for her. Please her and make sure you add something to her life, so that she wants to pick you over her life single or another better man.
Make sure you do enough that she wants to keep you around.
@@Sam97-oi4vc ???
@@Sam97-oi4vc buddy no high value man tries to please or impress a girl u make sure SHE adds something to your life not the other way around
@@Sam97-oi4vc u sound like a sad limp
A wise man once said "men are here to test ideas... Women are here to test men"
Honestly pretty true. Every girl I've slept with that I got post nut clarity with right after was wrapped around my finger and is willing to do my bidding. I don't use this for evil or to manipulate girls, but conversely in situations where I was too invested, cared too much, or expressed feelings for her too early that shit never ever panned out, and always ended in me getting hurt and heartbroken.
Women are good at sniffing this stuff out, and its not like you can hide it, you'll subcommunicate it through your actions and even subtle things you mention in conversation.
Casey, i really like your channel. Its not some crazy redpill stuff, it just objective truths.
Women aren't wrapped around your finger or doing your bidding lmao. You're just trying to sound cool online. You like to think of yourself as a sultan making a different in the world, but you're just an anon watching a bitter manosphere channel.
I get so bitter and pissed off when I watch casey's videos
Because I know he's right about everything and it highlights all my mistakes 🤣
Haha fr, for me is a sick feeling in my stomach lol oh can’t change the rules gotta learn how to play
But at least you admit it, many wont
Casey's Insecure and jaded and will remain paranoid and miserable if he carries on down his current path. He already is going to freak out women if they come across his videos, esp The ones with the insane scribbling on whiteboards, serial killer obsession
Brother is fucking comfy 😂🔥
Also don’t be overly nice or generous toward them before you’re in a relationship relationship. We always think that we’re just trying to show them that we’re good guys and we will treat them better than the losers do. But all the woman sees is weakness. She might take advantage of it for a while, but it will get you nowhere except for in the friend zone or worse.
This, this, this!!
I used to ignore and act indifferent to girls I was sleeping with. I felt bad about it. But they were always so nice to me and available when I acted that way.
I fell into a trap early on, and couldn't agree with this advice more. As soon as we had done the deed and are lying there, she says it seems like I want to tell her something. I ask what she means. She says she thinks I want to tell her I love her, and that it's okay to say it. I had strong feelings and walked right into this one. She goaded me into saying it first, then reciprocated. Despite seeming like all was good for about a month, acts of disrespect began happening more and more, and she would get angry at me for nothing. Eventually, she said she thought I was too good for her. Sufficed to say, we're not married today. I wish the red pill had existed for guys without a father like me back then.
the old too good for her line. What a load of crap. The things they say on break up "You are too good for me" or "I am too stressed and not ready for this" or......" I am not ready to date anyone " ..."Things are too busy with my kids" . Its bull crap bud.
The truth is in her mind you arent good enough for her, but her definition of good is actually toxic. Been there this sounds like my experience to an absolute T
@@Stumben2 thumbs up but why in h3ll you dating single moms?
@@Stumben2ngl there could be some validity to those cause I’ve felt the same way before
What makes them leave you and cheat is that 46% of people are avoidants, and they are serial cheaters. It rarely has anything to do with you as a man and everything to do with her daddy issues. Let these broken people trigger their way right out of your lives, they are saving you from MASSIVE problems in the future.
Healthy mindset right here
That definitely makes sense
Trust me. This is the absolute truth. And once you swallow this pill and it becomes your new normal then not only will women treat you differently you will be able to spot men making these mistakes everywhere and I mean everywhere. Another thing I’ve noticed is one you start acting this way women treat you different which in turn makes men see you as a role model instead of competition
Yeah, I can see the simping a mile off now 😂 while he's buying her drinks she's handing out Snapchat codes over the table 🤯
so TRUE Man. I see what guys do and I am like yet - he is never getting laid. Nope not him etiher...or him and doesnt matter how jacked or well dressed they are.
the thing is, I go through stretches where this game just is not worth my energy.
@@Woodys238 The simping is everywhere. And hey if we are all being honest we have all done it - and we were scratching our heads.
Women pick handsome respectful men who invest. Bitter men who play mindgames end up like Casey. 😮😮
Personally, these problems always showed up no earlier than the 6th month mark.
Either it goes nowhere from the beginning, or maybe a 1 nighter, or 2 week fling, or it is about 6 months trouble free.
Then comes the "I'm going to do something unacceptable and see if he accepts it"
The crazier or more mean spirited the girl, the more extreme the "test" will be.
The only right course of action is an immediate rejection, an immediate ultimatum.
Think of it like a business partnership, and your business partner calls you and says "remember that piece of equipment we went half on? I'm going to sell it and keep all the money!"
What would your reaction be? Even the most timid guy would at least say "no"
Same thing here. "I don't like that, if you do that, we're done" or however one wants to say it assertively.
You get this. You understand correctly.
yep my experience as well all though for me more like the 3 month mark. MANY go nowhere ( thats when you are lucky lol ). Also do you notice the ones that advertised or say "No hookups" are the once that invite you to their place or bed FIRST freaking date? Those typically last a week and leave me with that "ick" feeling.
Oddly the best relationships I had are the ones that seem like the BAD Girl. oddly they seem to value the Gentleman ( you still gotta play the rules described here ) but inevitably they still will pull something shitty. I actually was never cheated on but they betray you in other ways or just start trying to change you
An uncomfortable truth while being comfortable!
2:22 Makes Total Sense. Made those Mistakes many Times... and got me Dumped. We learn those Lessons.
I tell them upfront. "I might be a gentleman, but I'm not a nice guy."
Translation: "Don't f*ck with me."
Every time I say this, I end up falling inside of her a few hours later.🤷
Well said Brother. I'm going to use that analogy.
Sure you do. 😊
@@eckhardt76It's not an analogy.
Things that never happened
Each time i listen to you......id be like" this dude is toxic and crazy" but after i apply what you say in the videos id go "damn!!Casey is an unprecedented genius"
Sad world we live in but it is what it is. Thanks Uncle C!!
Yesterday I saw a couple at the park where only the guy was initiating hugging and kissing. Seeing this, I thought in my head: oh my god man, what are you doing.
I see everything differently now, after listening to Kacey for the last few minths
Let’s go 🔥 love you Casey 😤❤️🔥 you’re a godsend
congratz on the 500k man ! top content
4:45 of course you can, but then you need to pull away, and not remain attached to that feeling. She has to feel things, we don't have to, but we can show our love..
Great info, direct and simple. Easy to digest
Casey big respect for you bro !
I’m in this exact situation right now spot on fella 🤞🏼
Ohh, waawo! from Lusaka Zambia, thanks
You’re the best at this Casey. Nobody can top your knowledge and advice here on TH-cam.
But he's single and bitter? No woman is choosing him.
Uncomfortable truth on a comfortable couch wow
Hope you feel better
Casey I find your content a treasure amongst other youtubers. I've been dating dozens of girls, twice that much ONS, I was in a 8 year relationship in-between - that girl gave me a son and after I left her she was hoping for almost 4 years for me to take her back - probably still is. I'm aware most of your content is legit and I can confirm it works in 90%+ cases, so let me ask you a question. What was the longest relationship you've ever had and for how long were your parents married?
Men are realising we are the prize in 2024
Hardly. Women earn our own money now. You add to a woman's life, or you get ditched.
Sick of reading about the male loneliness epidemic though. Can't you be happy and fulfilled without women? Make some friends and have hobbies?
@@Sam97-oi4vc American men can travel to any country on earth and find better looking loyal loving wives, American womens best choice is staying in America to find a husband
@AscendVista Don't come to Europe. We don't want redpill abusers. Stick with the poor disadvantaged countries.
@@AscendVistaAsian is not better looking lol
@@sinistersoundinteractive Brazilians?
This man speaks truth in all he says…. I have done exactly what he says and had sex but after totally ignored the woman to an extent and she’s all over me now… but you gotta stay strong and not fold cause he’s right soon as they see weakness they are moving one and then u get the dear John letter or “it’s not you it’s me” BS !
This is G O L D ! 👍
Yea Headman , we come here cuz we be fuccin up my boy 😩💯🅿️
Oh guys, it isn't just limited to man-to-woman situations, let alone post-sex ones. Generally clingyness and neediness is appaling, because people don't like being pushed TOO hard. But... a total indifference is another extreme, and we know since Aristotle that no extreme is ever optimal.
Also, once she sees that you don't get attached post-sex, she will try to make you feel bad for not pursuing her consistently, once he falls for this, is when he will be labeled as weak.
Nice
What should I do when the girl I like starts saying stuff like “you’re so sweet” “you’re the best”
Casey, can you make a video on how to not go weak for her beauty? Like how often do I call her cute, tell her she looks really good, etc? Do I say it once a week? Once a month?
She should be telling you that stuff. You should be telling her, "You're almost as hot as your sister."
You are not the one ❤
You can't tell a modern woman she's cute or looks good. She'll know she's got you, will get board & will monkey-branch you.
Better idea: Stand in front of a mirror while she's in the room & arrogantly tell her how cute & good-looking you are. 😆 Remind her how lucky she is to have you. 🤣 Then tell her those jeans make her look fat & she should put on a dress. 😆 🤣 😂
(I was kidding about the last one; DON'T tell her that. But the 1st two, I'm being serious).
The more you know about wahman, the less appealing they are.
When u see the dark side of females it's quite disgusting
Well the Bible warned us!!😂
You can either love them or understand them
And inadvertently thats more attractive to them 🤯
@@Woodys238 indifference is attractive
"Uncle C" is there a way to book a consultation ???...If so, please send me a link 🎉
A Zander a day keeps the heaetbreak away
High level game.
Casey certainly have cracked a part (and a good one) of the code of female/male dynamics. Problem is: if you've watched some 3 or 4 videos, you've alreary got practically all of his insights, and then all the subsequente videos are only a repetition of those same important but few insights. Casey should definitelly go deeper on the subject, study it in more detail, add some philosophy, some biology, sociology etc. to it. The way it is, he is only recycling himself and soon will loose his audience.
100% agree i have about a year since ive started watching his videos, always feels like a waste of time...
Yeh facts a girl told me I was too clingy post sex a year ago and it turned her off but at the moment I didn't get it but now I do. Everything u said I practice it and the results are what u say they are
So true
Honor God
Be Strong Brethren
hypergamy is a feeling, this thinking is revolutionary and sadly millions of betas may never know these facts and get to transfer into men. luckily 500k of us can help evangelize these facts that only the highschool athletes, musicans, and badass bros (or men with alpha fathers) lucky enough to know at younger ages. Thank you for making men.
Gold
1:57
What's the advice when the woman waits until marriage?
Hey Casey, how do you think race factors into a man's dating prospects? For example, as an Indian man, I find that despite implementing a lot of the strategies you teach, women (other than Indian) still see me as a non-sexual entity and I don't really get any of the choosing signals that indicate their desire for me.
If they don't choose you then you are out of luck. I do have indian friends getting chased by white and asian girls but they do got that "bollywood" look and vibe. You just gotta keep at it I guess. Maybe tweak things here and there see what works and what don't. Don't give up bro.
If it makes you feel any better, White women don't want me either. And I'm German/Irish.
I would avoid White women if I was you. They have higher body-counts than a Ukrainian battlefield these days.
Try south east Asian women. It's the final frontier.
Practical unrequested advice: stop watching porn, stop masturbating, do 3 set of push ups to failure every 2 days, 3 set of squats every to days, take cold showers, go for a walk in nature every day, and take cold showers, do this for the next 6 months, let the girls alone and focus on your goals...one day you will meet your dream girl
The answer is no, you can’t 😂. Real.
First
I did all you said BUT I was so cold heart so I fucked up. Should I pursue her?
No. Let her go. If she wants you back she will come to you.
Amen
If you are in a monogamous, committed relationship should you text other women? Because I've seen marriages end because of her finding out.
Why would you risk losing it all unless she's not the one you want? The trick is to let other women chase and desire you even when you are off the market but you don't go around reciprocating any interest you get coming your way.
@@splashmoby Thanks for good advice. I guess you reciprocate in a normal way.
💯 🎯
I had a girl tell me last weekend why can’t I stop kissing you even thoe your not trying you to kiss me
Okay so if you showed this how do you fix it
❤
Honestly..... In most long term relationships cheating at some point is almost inevitable even if the couple manages to stay together.
I got drunk and text my gym crush that i find ger sexually artractive and ive had a crush on her fir months.. i woke up feeling ick about it... today i saw her and she worked out right across from me 😅 im not sure if she got the text😅
Never approach, or in your case communicate with a woman when you are under the influence. You are going to look a like a tool to her if you do. Hope you learned your lesson Bro.
Bro Cassy is splitting fact am a victim but how can I help myself from it, cause I have a girl that was giving me the green light, but once I text her and told her that I like her, she started pulling back
lol
u should NOT have told that girl you like her bru. next time…just vibe and be the one to end the convos and i guarantee she’ll be crawling towards you if there was past interest.
@@ShowtimeTre okay noted
Working out but not for women, for myself
I guess it's really not a bad thing for a boy to be shy in high school after all
Damn some it sound just like me 😤
so you're done if you fall in love or if you show it.
Yes because you are now beneath her haha
So for long-term, is that even viable? I'm talking having kids and being together and all that.
Nobody can keep a Western woman anymore. If you're wanting marriage & kids, you need to retire early and move south of the equator.
Obviously not, how do you think this shit advice is going work if you want to settle down and be married. Hell no!
You might have to give up on the long-term stuff like wives & kids. Today's women will eventually leave you & take half your stuff. It's just not feasible anymore. Think about retiring early and moving to a 3rd world nation if you want a wife & kids.
Bro is about to take a nap😂
We alk pp I sort of do this to us. You know I don't say but we got to get better at it cuz I'll tell you all the ones that are on here say no. I'm 50 years old and nobody wants me anymore and they look like a f****** model just say hey no tea available and block them. That's what I do
Nice blankey
Trust me bros, the women like this are to be avoided, there are good emotionally mature women. Find them and stay cool 😎
Treat her like a celebrity, and she’ll treat you like a fan.
More you know about women , the less you want them
When we are strong alphas...women call us narcissists and manipulators,but they still run to us !
When we get emotional...they call us weaklings and leave us !!!
Yeah it’s comical.
Secure attachment has nothing to do with those traits.
When u understand them, you can't love them
It’s just sad to realize the fact that as a man you can never show your true feelings without the risk of getting dumped… looks like as we’re doomed 💀
There's no such thing as unconditional love
Cowboy casey
The key is to remember OPPOSITES ATTRACT 💎
They don’t even know why they are attracted to this
Disney has conditioned men since wee Lads to perceive women as prizes to bear. They aren’t prizes. You don’t need to confess to them that they are the best you’ve ever had.
There poon tangs not paved with gold.
So, none of these women are worth shit!
Why don’t you look in the camera? It’s kinda weird looking at you, while you look at the ground.
If this is true, women definitely in trouble. There’s gonna be a lot of furious women out there.
Wearing a cowboy hat gets you an automatic dislike
No. She knows even when she meets you if you are strong or weak otherwise she wont even sleep woth you.
I did all you said BUT I was so cold heart so I fucked up. Should I pursue her?
You shouldn't be asking another man for advice on what's the next move with a woman. It's okay to get advice and apply it, but no one needs to give you a play-by-play, that's for you to decide.
You're your own man, you make the decision and be okay with either outcome. You're the only one who will deal with the consequences of your actions.
@@BasedRedemptionIt's okay to admit that you are know worse at something than some other dude and learn from him - no one is born a Casanova, but most people will never have their personal experience like Casey - so we can learn from his mistakes and wins