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Hello dear
Agree❤
You are welcome 🤗 my brother
This is a pure fact
salute and yes sir
I miss this man frfr. He not only helped the black community, but also woke up alot of the other communities to the current system. Hes a real 1
35 year old white dude here - KS was def a major help to many men, and women as well. I from back in the days where he would moreso address men. Because of his advise and other men like him (JP, Aaron Clarey, CGA, FnF), i was also able to get my life in order. I was 388lbs Jan 2020, now i'm 196 (got down to 161 and bulked, now i'm cutting back to ~175). I was making LITERALLY 12k/yr, now i make 82. I was playing video games 16 hours a day, now haven't played video games this year. I was obsessed and consumed with media (game of thrones, marvel movies, etc). Now i don't even turn that shit on. These men are the men that made me realize all the stuff my Grandpa had been telling me since i could barely walk were truths. The stuff i wrote off as 'that's just old folks talk'. As i grew older i realized that 'old folks talk' was all true. KS was the first man to help me realize that.
These men, and other men like them helped me realize that even though i was doing everything i was 'supposed' to be doing, i def was NOT doing everything i 'should' be doing. Last time i was this happy was 1998, with all my friends over on a friday night, playing smash bros/goldeneye, and waiting on Dominos to show up. In other words - i've never been more satisfied as an adult than since i've taken this advice, and actually applied it to myself daily. Just get 0.5% better every day. That's all you need. Life is a marathon! Not a sprint!
I hope one day I can become a great man like KS.
EDIT - "Things Your Father Should Have Taught YOU" was the first KS video i ever saw, and one of the catalysts for my transformation.
Sri lankan here!He has helped me too😅
I fr fr believe he was murdered😢
@ejrwm I can see why you would think that, but unfortunately Kevin had already had underlying health issues. He was a cancer survivor, had recently caught covid, and was drinking redbull left and right months prior to his death. He pretty much predicted he would die early too. In one of his live shows about 2 months before his passing he stated, "HVM like myself don't have time to wait, don't have time to waste. Men like myself spend 20 hours a day trying to keep our value, and work ourselves into an early grave for us to be waiting around for women to work on themselves".
There's alot of poor white people he helped too
“Men who don’t have enough leverage tend to get run over.”
I really agree with how Kevin talked to this man. He kept him on point.
It’s true if you don’t have leverage with women or leverage in the workplace you will get run over
Money is leverage, Power is leverage, Mental awareness is leverage
Agree❤
That’s true
I miss him and feel guilty about it because it was branded as hate.
I think people need like 1 or 2 of his videos to wake up but not to continually watch bc then you’ll start hating.
But I feel so sad thinking about his death ❤
in order to have a wife u need to make enough money to control her environment. that was probably the most eye opening quote about women I've ever heard.
for sure, that quotable was powerful.
My son in his late twenties was making $150K and he had no desires to get married. He is happy where his life is. He travels around the world whenever he feels like it and he said it's a good feeling not being tied down with a plastic pretentious woman. He has many girlfriends and doesn't go further than being a girlfriend and he's happy.
Remote work?
It makes sense right now. He’s thriving at the moment but I definitely believe that that lifestyle will get tiring and that he’ll want to settle down eventually.
He’s having his fun being a high value man and the girlfriends he’s around are having fun choosing & pursuing a guy like him: a high value man; especially in another country? He’s *higher* value there.
He’s doing his thing!
Hats off to him!
Fornicators will not enter the kingdom of heaven
By traveling and experiencing women from other countries he sees his true value and he probably realized early American women are among the worst anywhere in the world. In the US, she holds the leverage in so many areas in society. If he really wants to get married, move to another country and stay there.
Congradz proud..father..tell jr. Keep it wrapped up...
33 years old making 50k AFTER bonuses isn’t gonna fly anymore if you want a wife. This is why so many men even those who make more than 50k are opting to not be married
Big facts bro. I was making 48k at 25 and was told that was "broke Boi money". I'm 30 now and currently on pace to double that this coming year. Keep working, keep building brother. Find someone willing to play by your playbook
Even making over 6 figures is the bare minimum and you'll still get disrespect from your woman and if you don't continually make more she'll lose attraction cuz you're not ambitious enough. And to top it off when you are ambitious you don't give her enough time lol 😂
@@nrtemp9ambitious men won’t put a women 1st
@@WestsideWillie agreed but women will find an excuse to get their "needs" met. Basically women's wants are unattainable. You've got to make bank but also be a good father and also meet her emotional needs which never end and take her on dates but still be attractive and not too invested. The list goes on and on and on
@@jbaru648 💯 finding a long term marriageable woman in this day and age is like finding hay in a needle stack
I’m 30, make 130k. The best thing I did was swear off dating in my 20s. I work toward my goals, and I have my fun 5-6 times a year, traveling and skiing, I deal with women when I’m on vacation.
Thats dope
🔥🔥🔥🔥
So you only fraternize with women 5 or 6 times a year?
@@troythemighty3683bro some of these men sound like they never had success with women before their finances and as a form of compensation and or resentment they take the passport Bro route and sound like they just want to die alone with money and chase a goal and ignore women until they die.
Damn, that's sad. Do you have any social skills? Do you even know how to plan a proper date? You missed out on some key dating tools in your 20s! Do you know how to make love to a woman mind or body?
He has stated it himself that times are different. People use to have no expectation of going to college or having white collar careers. Most Americans were lucky to have a 5th grade education and you became an adult at 21. It was harder for black people. Most married after high school and work together to raise a family. My advice, work on yourself first and have realistic expectations. Getting married as a male is not hard. Making the right choice and then staying married is another story.
Salute
Word.
he changed the world. rip ks
my best tip for young men is to focus on becoming the best man you can become focus on achievement if you meet the right women that wants to ride with you on your journey to success than that's the women for you if not stay single work on growing yourself physically, money, spiritually, mentally work on growing In all aspects in your life the women will come later trust me. remember men women want winners
Big facts
1st tip, don't make a 304 a housewife.
Bad part is, America has a 304 culture and 99.9% of the women are useless to men.
Preach
Preach
Hard to tell the difference these days
@@user-pp9bl5gr1n And that's the truth.
I am in the 300k range now at age 50. Starting a new business that should give another half of that on top but glad i met my wife 17 years ago, found her rather submissive, respectful and devoted… she is a pearl
Still doesn't seem real that you are gone ...definitely miss you my brother.
Absolutely.
Where he gone? Is he ok?
He was assassinated 😢
Speaking too much truth!@@jameschestnut7786
How can you miss someone you never met or knew. His channel still uploads content. If no one told you he was dead you wouldn’t even know lol
You are watching the "Greatest of All Time" on this subject a.k.a. as The GOAT! Thank You Mr. Samuels for your guidance.
He was solid, but any dude with a father worth a damn got the same information if not better because it was tailored to his kids.
Sir: I never had a solid father and I doubt more than 10 percent of boys ever do. Am I wrong? @@rgood1204
@@rgood1204You say that and this country doesn't in anyway reflect that outcome. Instead of trying to tear a black man down, practice what you preach scrub. His generation is the one that gave those principles in the first place Cornball. You're dismissed.
Unpopular fact but there are many broke dudes pulling attractive women. Somehow the hardcore red pill guys skip over this fact. You get more women by being and talking to more women. I have always dressed nice, been on my purpose and drove a nice car. Women aren’t gonna crawl to you no matter what you got, you gotta take the action to get the results. Hit 2024 hard kings 👍🏼
Fr redpill guys just think it’s all money. Which helps locking down a wife but you still gotta have everything else in order
You are right bro, they do get women, but do they get marriage out of these encounters? He is talking about getting married and commanding traditional values on a woman. This is the reason a man must be equipped to take care of his woman and children if it needs be
Its the wordplay. I know a lot of guys far from financial literacy or freedom scoring all kind of chicks. However, they not looking for wives
@@AFROKAHit is easier to do that, those women are not quality aswell. You need good money and stability to keep a woman and create a house and a family. This is way harder , especially in prezent days
This man changed my life for the better thank you Mr. Samuels.
He holds the guys just as accountable. ...the guy wants to be romantic, with little income, and it's just not what the women want. Sage advice all men need to understand because most have been led to think it's otherwise.
I’ve heard a woman say it’s not about money so work on all your weakspots
RIP Mr. Samuels🙏 Your extraordinary work will be always be remembered. Thank you for all you gave to inspire
please, keep his content going. Hispanic, American-born and a vet. This man has SAVED lives, including my own. Please, keep his content going.
KS was dropping gems on a podcast that he charged very successful people for. We all should be honored by his contributions men and women. He was actually trying to help people not degrade them it's a different.
My advice to men, especially those who makes less than than 100,000, is simple. Find a real good friend with benefits. Someone who helps you get your rocks off when needed. Take her on dates twice a month or so and buy her some gifts from time to time. But don’t marry anyone yet. You’re not financially ready. Modern Women are for sale to the highest bidder. These are NOT our grandmothers type of women anymore. 👍🏿 Y’all stay safe out here.
Wise words. Military man, american-cuban and divorced...men need to discriminate when it comes to future spouses. We hold ALL the power and if we don't use it wisely we will fall.
You ain’t lie but then again we gotta understand and let them know where you stand cause they catch feelings and keep it strapped up
Kevin wasn't against renting em.
But dawg I don’t even know any girls I’m fkn scared
Lol
We lost a sage, the way he spoke to this man with love and mentorship is unparalleled in the manosphere. Rip 🙏 goatfather.
The best advice for young men is to follow God and don’t live in sin get married don’t have kid unless you married
This is exactly what I needed to hear in the exact moment I needed to hear it. Thanks Kevin. Rip you will be truly missed
i loved his intro song ...ks was the truth
Damn this actually added a new mindset for me as a young man in his early 20s, why should I compare to previous generations/eras outcomes. Keep building, keep grinding
200k is the new middleclass
Okay, this is definitely a surprise!
Thank you for posting this it was extremely helpful.
I appreciate the way Kevin Samuel talks. I was raised by a single mother and she tried her best to be the authority in my life. Kevin talks as if he’s trying to give us the same tough love and some ppl don’t know that.
Insightful breakdown of navigating the complexities in modern dating! Understanding the nuances in male and female dynamics is crucial. The advice on self-awareness and financial readiness is spot-on. Great content!
god bless this man’s soul
Salute to The Godfather man said Maximum leverage dropping game 💎
This man is talking fax
Lets improve ourselves kings!
I stressed this to the girl in my last relationship. About being established before marriage. I took that serious but I broke frame after a year and was pressured into marriage more when we ended up pregnant with our 1dt child together. I was willing to pay for abortion but she didnt want it. Fellas no matter how much you like a woman take heed to the red flags, the ignorance and disregard of your position with a woman. Never let a woman pressure you into commitment when you know you arent ready otherwise you'll be excruciatingly sorry. Have the leverage you need to win in today's society. Hes right, that 1950s wont work in americ. You'll be one lucky guy if you find a GOOD woman. It's easier to find that overseas but it's still a risk trusting any woman. Fellas, DO NOT GET MARRIED. It is not worth it.
You attract what you are. The fact that you were so ready and willing to get an abortion means you will NEVER attract a “good” woman. Stay single forever buddy, you’re screwed
Gotta wear condoms too
@@niemebrooker bingo
@@niemebrookergang can’t pull out of a parking lot
@@niemebrooker I swear! He talking like she got herself pregnant. Zero accountability. lol
exactly what i needed to hear thankyou
It's either go the religious route and marry young or play the modern game of who got the most value... "Real love" still exist though out there, just that it has gotten alot harder to maintain, unfortunately.. We are still Men at the end of the day, so it is what it is..
Dealing with almost the same nonsense constantly can be soo damn exhausting though. It still stands though, it is what it is. We as men need to make sure our minds, our financial stability, and our body's right.
I disagree sir
@@richdevaysolid1 ok.. care to explain
Great show
Miss this man so much we need him. All men took a L when he passed.
The realest advice!
LONG LIVE THE KING!!!
Women marry who they can. Men marry who they want.
🔄
It’s the other way around, Chief.
It's the opposite bro...
@@ThatDoesntWorkForMeBrotherno, he’s right like Kevin said "man have ACCESS to relationships" independently from the status
@@TonyBandzz I mean, he's technically right. Men gatekeep marriage/relationships, women gatekeep sex. *"Women settle for who they can. Men marry who they can get"* would've made more sense tho.
Continue resting in peace King. Your work will forever live on🎉
Thank for this video
Thank you for helping me uncle Kevin
Kevin, we miss you so much. All men across the world are mourning the loss of you.
I have a homie who has a stay at home wife when we earn around 50k. They swore traditional Christian vows at their wedding and have a kid now. But MAN I just hate it for him economically.
1. It’s prob hard on him but trust me nothing like coming home to food cook, house clean and not having to hear about her day at work
2. Most women cheat with their coworkers
3. If a women stay home that usually means she have no income coming in, which means she trust you enough to no have her own money
Tell him to look for ways to earn more. That's if you don't mind what he will say to you after or break up the friendship. Maybe he's comfortable living that way. Some ppl like to live frugal
Man Kevin is the truth. Rest In Peace
This is gold to any 20 year old who stumbles here. Welcome to the cheat code!
Some of us were brainwashed to disney movies, it's good to wake up to reality 💯💯
i needed this fr
Kevin is on point, I hope he's with the father in heaven right now looking over all of us.
Kevin isn't talking about passoort bros, but literally everything he is saying is pushing men to look for women outside the US.
Passport bros will encounter the same issues outside the US.
@@CommonJ676 It's true that women are women everywhere. But men have advantages in other countries that they don't have in the US. At least women in other countries are raised in very different environments. The problem I see with passport bros is when they go to another country and act in the same weak way as they do in the US. The passport bros themselves need to change.
He’s pushing men to work harder to provide…
@@ericjames7819i'm not a Passport bro but i'm Currently looking at a Future with a Brazilian and i 100% agree
No need for passports, don’t date american women in the usa.
Thanks Kevin. Rest in paradise
Truth tellers are rarely liked in this world.
Post more stuff like this and short
It's sad. In modern times it's almost as if men have to pay for love. The world is DOOMED ‼️
We’ve always had to pay for it, nothing is free in this life, for there are choices and trade offs with every decision. In these times with these new technologies and industries, the primitive exchange is more prevalent than ever before. Just asses your finances, and buy what you can afford
Bro ong. Like I might as well pay for an escort once or twice a month
@@zb2747or get a couple girls on rotation
Hunter gatherer. No woman wants a man who can’t get coin. They will be homeless.
@@jamescheaye927what’s he’s implying is that more women are just goldiggers. real love doesn’t involve money
People this is the reason why it's so pivotal to know the difference between wants and needs. With obligations to your wife and mostly likely 2 or 3 kids where she doesn't feel she have the extra energy to work. You will always be a slave to everything and everyone to always make ends meet with no free time for yourself. This is why Kevin asked him are you already there yet far as making the money and not will you be there soon. It's no way any of us should need to work until we can't physically work anymore to still have nothing good to show for. And family doesn't count when I say something good, families are not hand picked.
The realest.
the fact of the matter, dont let your income describe yourself, let yourself describe your income. be your worth, and you will have your money.
The father all of us needed
I came back to the channel for a quick reality check
Bro this double agent stuff is wild I wish someone taught me this when I was a kid
This is one Confident. Intelligent. Assertive. CIA Man. The Highest of the High Value Men. I am only saying that to me . . . he is the Highest of them all because I feel like that about him. I love him and respect him and carry him with me in my Heart and in my Soul. He means everything to me. Therefore, his vision and his passion about and for our black family :
salute and yes sir
Here's the disconnect. The current situation we face in the simplest terms:
Average earning men cannot support a family today, while average women think they deserve 6 figures, 6 pack, 6 foot tall.
There are ways around this. Only one of these solutions can happen to solve the problem. All will work, but only one is needed.
1) Wages go up.
2) Women's standards drop.
3) Men and women work together and split 50/50 to maintain the standard of living.
None of this will work. What will work is expelling women from the workplace, especially from jobs paying $60k or more.
You've nailed it. We can't all just simply earn more money. Jordan Peterson talks about there being no net benefit to earning more than $60k. The sacrifices made to earn more, damage you in other areas. Working 60 hours a week. 10 hours a day for 6/7 days. On top of commuting. You literally have no time for anything else. Maybe 4 hours tops every day. No real time to even look after your own health.
I only think this is adviseable to do for a few years, to save up some cash.
I hear you buddy, but this world we live in won't go that route. Hell would have to freeze over before modern women lower their requirements of the guys and men would have to stop endorsing the foolishness.
This is a classic example of how different men respond to criticism vs women, especially westernized women.
If I saw this video 1 or 2 years ago I would’ve left my ex wayy sooner🤦🏾♂️ even Drake can’t change these women😭
RIP KS. 🕊🕊
Still Seeing new videos really keeps his spirit alive. I miss this man
He's one of the real ones
The woman is apart of this MATRIX!!!😱
It is important to understand male and female nature so that you can handle yourself and your ego and your sex drive. Because these are natural and ordained and wonderful aspects of a man.
However, it is so very important, gentlemen, that you not allow those gifts and strengths to overtake you and begin to control you.
Take a break from women you’ll save on food , clothes, extra barbershop visits etc save your money then invest after your money goal is reached then u can play & fly any girl out if you wanted to 😁
Incredible
If I could tell my 21yo self one thing it would be to invest a bare minimum of $20-$40 a week into any major ETF and let it ride until retirement. That and max out your 401k investment, especially if the company has a decent % match.
Hi @supamon I'm 35yr please how do I start going about this, I hope it's not to late for me.
Is My passion and My vision.✝
pretty crazy that Kevin is gone. I feel like he is still alive.
Shitt these days I don’t even have the desire to date
There’s so much I wish I could ask and talk to him about
Amazing 😍🤩😍💫
Loved K.S. Be rich or just date. ❤
So, a lot of men look at the issue from a scarcity mindset. The real question is, once you start making some real money, will you even want to get married?
Yeah you first folks
What is the name of the full livestream?
I miss Kevin so much I hope he knows his work was truly appreciated even though most women hated his brutal honesty
Money won’t keep a woman, money is not just enough. If you find the right persona money doesn’t matter at all, but you need money don’t be lazy though. Wake up go to work 60 hours a week as he said.
Love
Rip my man he was a real one
Right
Rest in Glory
I've changed my mind! Thank you Mr. Samuels
We miss you unk
I just got back from vacation in Indonesia n Thailand.
Da ladies are after me but they know I ain’t tryna tie nobody down.
THE GODFATHER
Get the French toast likes up
I make 110-120k a year in LA and there is no way I can afford a wife here 😂
you can't afford to live in your car in LA on that
Whats the moving decoration called? And where can i buy these?
He still looks good in a Suit RIP. Who choosed to hear have heard godfather.
RIP to this GREAT man !!
I live in Los Angeles i make over 120k a year and still single because i cannot stand a fake woman being around me just because i have a high income no thank you. I want her to love me without the money and unfortunately it doesn’t work that way anymore
120K is a lot in LA?
@@user-ke7mn3sv4dIsn't it?
Vett them like a job interview and make them pour into you more than u pouring into them.
Lead with money and she will lead your ass to bankruptcy…..lead with authority and personality and u will be good
120K in LA is 60K in most other parts of the country…
That's like a woman saying "I want men to love me without the looks" lol