Healing my relationship with myself & the start of my healing journey

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  • @SydTheCreative
    @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Not us almost being at 10K!! I'm so grateful for you guys. ✨ What has helped you on your healing journey?

    • @joshuachela2505
      @joshuachela2505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      10K is coming sooner than you expect 🌻. What has really helped me on my healing journey is mostly your videos 🖤🙏

    • @waffle9627
      @waffle9627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i like to listen to music and go on walks :)
      one healthy thing a day goes a long way :D

  • @kobeashton9148
    @kobeashton9148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Currently, I’m working on my patience. I’m working on being more patient with myself and others. I’m working on speaking my honest feelings without my inner child feeling it needs to cower from confrontation. I’m helping myself be more assertive with my boundaries. My inner child gets so frustrated with me and everyone over the smallest things and I am having an issue controlling my mood swings because of that one tiny thing. I’m hurting and just want to heal. I really feel everything.

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mmm... patience is a big one. I resonate so deeply. Being able to be patient with yourself is such a strong form of self love. You've done an amazing job simply becoming aware of how not being patient with yourself manifests and acknowledging the needs of your inner child and current being. Thank you so much for your sharing this. 🙏🏾

    • @MelodyMerritt
      @MelodyMerritt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is currently my exact situation and the things I want to improve on as well! I really hope your journey was successful ❣️

  • @accordingtojaz7412
    @accordingtojaz7412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    i am currently on my healing journey and i am working on trusting myself and giving myself grace

  • @aahijlm3967
    @aahijlm3967 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i’m 17, and the transition from high school to the rest of the world is tough. i’ve lost touch with myself and my emotions, but this video helped me in ways you can’t imagine. thank you.

    • @Goldwithelocs
      @Goldwithelocs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I relate so much, I realize that there’s no one who has my personality, everyone has the personality of a grown adult at such a young age

  • @tiachante
    @tiachante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The part where you mentioned giving grace to ourselves for not showing up or having the capacity to really struck home for me. Since 2022 started (and truthfully even before this year) I’ve been having such a difficult time with that. In 2019 I got diagnosed with a chronic illness that has really rattled my life in a painful way and has caused me so much heartache for not being able to achieve some of my goals when I wanted to. I’m 21 and I beat myself up so much because there are so many things I want to do when sometimes I can’t even get up in the mornings without severe pain. It’s made me so depressed honestly and last week I literally cried every single day, but I’m trying to remind myself that it’s not my fault and I still have time. So grace is very much needed right now and I need to stop comparing myself to my peers and feeling like I need to be where they are right now because I simply can’t, and that’s okay.

    • @inv8890
      @inv8890 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Tia, I send you a big hug. Your last line is the absolute truth. I believe in you!
      Take care ,lots of love from India

  • @KDee0110
    @KDee0110 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 29 and this is my first time ever feeling so broken like this. I can say I’m definitely not that confident woman I was before. So many things happened. But I’m on my healing journey! Instant follow

  • @DoreenWhite-nl5qq
    @DoreenWhite-nl5qq ปีที่แล้ว

    So refreshing someone shared their vunerablity bold leadership and self-love journey you are a God send rn. Thank you and your very beautiful ❤️❤️❤️🙏🌹🌹👏👏👏👏👏

  • @sydshenanigans
    @sydshenanigans 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Although this video is old, I really appreciate your vulnerability and honesty throughout this video. I am starting a healing journey and this video was the only one I watched that I felt resonated with me (New sub)❤

  • @VenusGemz
    @VenusGemz ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m restarting my healing/self love journey while In a relationship and I love your video And you are SO beautiful 🙏🏽

  • @Iamjackeeee
    @Iamjackeeee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m going thru the exact same thing. Your journey has really resonates with me and my journey with Christ.

    • @ERIN-n1r
      @ERIN-n1r ปีที่แล้ว

      mine also

  • @kacysspace
    @kacysspace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi! First time commenter but I've been watching for a while. I'm in my early 30's and dealing with this right now. I have low self-confidence/self-worth and apparently am so fragile that a conversation with my dad sent me into an existential crisis so when you said you wanted to be “A strong person. More structure when it comes to my own being so that when things happen outside of me, externally, I don’t feel so shaken up internally. If I can create that stillness within myself I will be able to maintain and keep that stillness." That really hit me to my core. That is my goal and right now I am in therapy working on that goal.
    Its one I just started working towards so at the moment the plan is to try to challenge my negative thoughts with realistic truths and positive rebuttals.

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg hi! Thank you for commenting and sharing this message. You are definitely not alone in seeking out that stillness. But it comes. Maybe only momentarily for a while but it becomes more frequent with time. At least thats been my experience. Im wishing you the best on your journey✨

  • @lizz8728
    @lizz8728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here. 👑
    It fell off your head.
    Thanks for arriving to me in this moment, stranger.

  • @XobaybayelisabethXo
    @XobaybayelisabethXo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Right now I’m healing my chakras starting to do yoga meditation and getting the trauma out of my body and going in dates with myself I have focused on all the rest and I still do daily things to focus on all the rest of work I’ve done and made happen ❤️‍🩹

  • @AreUTakingTheBubble
    @AreUTakingTheBubble ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This resonated DEEP I cant fully describe. But thank you
    Side note: you are stunning!

  • @forevergenella
    @forevergenella ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this. I haven’t been using YT for super personal healing research and it was on my heart to get some advice and discussions from a stranger and you popped up. Thank you. Your tone and aesthetic also helps. 🌷

  • @gregoryjones6974
    @gregoryjones6974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love the transparency

  • @shy7449
    @shy7449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think this might be the first YT video I have commented on but wow this was so relatable and vulnerable. Thank you so much for sharing your reflections. I am dealing with a similar journey to healing my relationship with self after realizing that now I have alot of the things always wanted but still feel like there is something missing, I'm having to digger deeper and now focus on my inner child because I have been so focused on my higher self and keeping that projection up that I haven't had enough compassion for my younger self, it's alot, but necessary. Thank you girl!

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes to this whole message! I FELT that. I thought after I moved out, got a job and started living how I wanted to I would be happy. It makes sense on the surface but not when you haven't tended to who you are at your core. Thank you for sharing and please don't be afraid to comment more I wanna see you! 🥺🙏🏾

  • @nancynance1701
    @nancynance1701 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, I am truly grateful and graceful. Salute to you Queen!

  • @ava.tings1306
    @ava.tings1306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This really hit home for me. I’m fighting back tears watching this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

  • @ERIN-n1r
    @ERIN-n1r ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m going through this too and relate to your journey. Hope you’re continuing to heal and doing well.

  • @Soulgazer999
    @Soulgazer999 ปีที่แล้ว

    this made me so emotional, your vulnerability and grace..is inspirational to me. The breakdowns, the softness, the ups and downs..man. I feel it. Its a process for sure, Thank you for sharing this

  • @alisamy5148
    @alisamy5148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love you so much thank you so so much for uploading this. i needed it🤍

  • @naeb9486
    @naeb9486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was sooo needed. You are seen by your tribe.

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you for watching love. It makes me really happy to see us all healing together. 🥺

  • @Avalonfragrance
    @Avalonfragrance 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m doing the same shi and I’m having a hard time but hard time don’t last forever your skin is glowing and beautiful keep going 🫶🏼

  • @MetiyaChique
    @MetiyaChique 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is such a beautiful video. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and transparent about your healing journey. It has helped more than you know ❤ subbed

  • @thea7418
    @thea7418 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grace and giving to me.❤..tysm

  • @jasminnaboultane3017
    @jasminnaboultane3017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so pretty girl! Queen energy

  • @grayscar05
    @grayscar05 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This resonated with me ... I'm kinda in the same place in life as you are. But just know since you're doing the necessary work things will get better before thy get worse. Your best years are definitely ahead of you and not behind you. Keep shining boo

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      awww wow thank you so much for watching! Im anticipating better moments ahead ✨ Thank you again!

    • @crissykayyexpressions111
      @crissykayyexpressions111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so proud of you ...that you're doing the work at a young age.. I'm in my late 30s and I'm trying now to start more self-care. I'll stop and start but Im working on being more consistent with myself.

  • @Jiminsboost
    @Jiminsboost ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much because this video was very informative and helpful to me because I want to start healing in every aspect of my life but it is not easy but I know it will take time, but thank you for sharing this video and I hope everything works out with your healing journey. ❤

  • @liberatedwomb
    @liberatedwomb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you're starting your healing journey so young. It's a great way to start.
    Awakening the master feminine and Kendra Davis book reclaiming the black feminine. Both books are perfect.
    Thing with therapy in the western world. Is that they tend to keep you were you're at. Try to put you on medication. I would read the body keeps the score it talks more about methods of healing yourself. Rather than relying on a therapist
    I wish you all your best on this thing called life 🌼☺️

  • @angeldavis8154
    @angeldavis8154 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey! Thank you for taking the time to share and let me know I’m not alone. Also who’s video did you say you watched about listening to your inner child?

  • @jasminemiller3812
    @jasminemiller3812 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i’m going through a break up i’m not practicing self healing bc i’ve endured so many bad relationships i’m 34 i love hard and always got less

    • @healingwithzuristarr
      @healingwithzuristarr ปีที่แล้ว

      Im proud of you for choosing you and doing the work. Get to the root of pain points that you want to heal so you can walk in your higher self

  • @thissitt7709
    @thissitt7709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching ☺️❤️

  • @DuckyMomoInTheFlesh
    @DuckyMomoInTheFlesh ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video! Could you link the video about catering to your inner child that you mentioned?

  • @karmenelvis2735
    @karmenelvis2735 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovvvve this

  • @RoxyVanessa
    @RoxyVanessa ปีที่แล้ว

    Smart ❤

  • @IfraxIfka-u7n
    @IfraxIfka-u7n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was beautiful and happy i met a man he ask me relationship i eccepted after 3 years i got depression 100kg crying unhappy while we had relationship he was seeking other women i got enough we breakup when ever he come back i get sick now im trying to find my happiness back 🥰

  • @Caramelpufff
    @Caramelpufff 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @LoveSashaAmanda
    @LoveSashaAmanda ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why am I crying the first minute into this video😢😢😢😢

  • @qso246
    @qso246 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥

  • @jungleafreeca1111
    @jungleafreeca1111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11.1k subssss 111 ALIGNMENT! SYD U IN ALIGNMENT 🕊️ 🦄 the internet unicorn! U RADIATE UNICORN 🦄💎 GAL

  • @34missgreen
    @34missgreen ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @servantrose
    @servantrose 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pray to God that He will change you and show you who He's made you to be. Renew your mind with God's Word, He is the Creator

  • @bethzy335
    @bethzy335 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yohr voice is so therapeutic. Girl- i loved your channel and i instantly subscribed.❤

  • @AyathandwaN
    @AyathandwaN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whoa I needed to hear this😭😭😭😭
    I’ll be joining you in this journey, building a relationship with myself as well❤️‍🩹
    I’m working on healing from past traumas, it’s a difficult journey but I’m not alone because I’m seeing a therapist and everything said in therapy I’m able to try and put it to work in my life

    • @SydTheCreative
      @SydTheCreative  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm rooting for you! Therapy has been a huge saving grace for me too. Thank you for being here and thank you for watching :)