too much of them lately ! I would add also most of them are envious and tend to overestimate themselves quite a lot ...I've seen a lot of these characters where I live ...too many
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I remember having a toxic classmates in my elementary days before. They always talk bad about me and only came to me when they needed something from me. So then I was forced to draw away from them and stay lonely all throughout the year.
*The biggest sign for a fake person is when they don't act as they speak. Their actions aren't congruent with their words.* *Look for what they do, not what they tell.*
It’s sad when you enjoy and look forward to be in someone’s company because you just like having them around, but they don’t feel the same. One-sided relationships are so common, it sucks.
@@williamvaughn2237 Yeah it happened to me with a boy I really liked. Looking back now I realized he had narcissistic tendencies and I'm so glad I left. If someone is really your friend, they won't keep you guessing if they care about you; you'll know. Don't let people like that convince you to stay in a one-sided relationship; they'll eat up your soul. Continuing to be with them isn't true love; it's desperation and immaturity. I learned that the hard way, and now my progress in life has been delayed because I didn't learn sooner, but I'm healing and moving on. I wish you all the best, and I hope you have/find true friends you can trust and who will lift your spirits and encourage you towards your dreams.
This is unrelated, but u are the most likely to respond so, can someone help me know I'm not boasting and being proud? I dont know how to handle this, approach somebody and say "I got first place in the 100k yesterday!!" W/o really having bragging attention to it. Help, I want to be as nice as I can to humanity
dying star I have the same situation, more then 18 years i think i have real friend. One day i tell him everything in face and move him from my life. The moment i did that i feel so good and i meet much better friends after that.
same lol. my so called "best friend" covers his selfishness with self pity. We basically just hanged out for a long time because of games. After the gaming phase is over, we broke off naturally. He hates people better than him physically, mentally, etc.
If you REALLY want to know a person.......... *Put them under pressure. OR *Give them power for a while. They will be CRYSTAL CLEAR for you to see. Guaranteed.
I am 21 right now..I wasn't exactly centre of attraction in my class but I only had 6-8 friends in my high school ..yet all of we make time to meet each other..once a month/twice.. And others didn't even tried to contact us..see? The people I personally considered were only 6-8 although whole class was behaving friendly before end of school..but none if them were there after that
Izuku Midoriya they do that to me and I come back harder and say so did you ever get rid of that std that guy gave you from the party? And they get so mad and I start laughing
I don't have a lot of friends for that reason and the problem for me is that my family is like that. Back in 2002, I quit my 13 year, high paid, high stress corporate job and am not all materialistic. I used my salary to buy gifts for the family including cousins and their kids. Now, they love to take pock shots at me at family gatherings comparing their life to mine. Now several of them are trying to reach out to me since I haven't been around lately and I can't really be bothered. The fakery is too much! We were a closer family when no one had anything.
Fake people never apologize. Their self is too elevated that they can't swallow their pride. They'll even think they're the victims when they're the offender. Two types of self centered people: 1. Boaster- talks about himself all day long and ignores others needs 2. Baby man- feels he's the victim all the time and has extreme self pity. Everyone should give his needs while he himself doesn't give.
TIMESTAMPS: Social status doesn't matter? Or does it? 0:26 Fake people are manipulators 1:22 They crave attention 2:16 They never ask you about you 3:01 They're bragging all the time 3:53 Fake people break their promises 4:54 Fake people are opportunists 5:46 Fake people put others down 6:39 Fake people feed off drama 7:27 They gossip 8:10 They're only nice when they need something 9:06 They disappear when you need them the most 9:58
1. When they're a walking contradiction. 2. They never hang out with you unless it's in a group, or... 3. They talk about themselves and don't let you get a word in edge-wise when you DO hang out together, but when you're in the group, they talk more to everyone else than you. 4. They only ask you over because they need an extra person in the game. 5. They suddenly ditch you when your money is tight, or it's going to be a loooong time before they hang out with you again. 6. They make you question your goals and dreams, "Are you sure you want to do XYZ," or, "Are you sure you're able...?" 7. They claim to love being around genuine people. 8. They claim to dislike drama, but they're the first to start it. 9. They make snarky remarks about a luxury item you worked for or inherited (or, they discourage you to work towards owning it by saying it's a pipe dream). 10. Everything is one sided; they never make an effort. You're always the one that has to make the first move: calling, making plans, etc. 11. They ask you what you do for a living upon first meeting you. The only people who enjoy answering this question are doctors, lawyers and rocket scientists. They're using it to judge you. Forgot one: 12. They only invite you to parties when it's an MLM product they're selling. 13. They constantly ask you for favors but can never be found when you need a favor. 14. When you call them on their 🐂💩 and they turn on you and make you out to be the bad guy for simply defending yourself.
@@foressekeeshjaramillo4783 im really happy and proud of my small group of friends cause they are like family and always there for me and im willing to do the same
Mindprovement I think you are confused or maybe you’re fake yourself. No! Everyone is not fake! A person can’t be fake and have a good heart. A person is either fake or not fake! A person can’t be a little fake. A person is or is not.
I remember when I first watched this all of these fit me😂😂😂.just want to say if your reading this and if any of these applies to you its OK just look at your mistakes and learn from them.
I know I was looking these over to see what I did wrong as a friend. I've always have tried to be there for my friends. But- now that I'm in poverty, they don't want me around, like I'm the plague or something. 🤷 Oh Well- time to make better friends.
I’ve learnt that lesson so many times, when I see a new person, I can straight away tell- “they’re the snake in the grass” from their attitude & respect they give
@@suyeesia7770 Did you mean, "What did you mean in number 2"? Well, to simplify it the commentor is saying your friend makes excuses by having no time or any more excuses when you need them.
It's very tricky to tell if someone is real or not, lots of people can act real or authentic for a very long time and change on you when you really need them.
Sadly, I've watched this video a few months too late. It could have spared me a lot of grief and pain. I'd never have thought that there are such corrupted persons in this world.
If you realise that you know someone who has this signs or maybe it's even you best friend, slowly cut them off.. it might hurt right now but you will be better in the long run.
*They say: "I'm just kidding" and then they dont want anyone to do it to them. They exaggerate things a lot, are very sarcastic, rude, obnoxious and then blame you for it if you're offended. They point their fingers and say things like: "No you," "what's that?" "Who told you that?" And insist on always being the center of attention.*
also they aren't wrong when they say it's your fault for getting offended it's literally called you got offended or i got offended huh so did i make you that way with what i said why is this offensive to you why not not get offended by it is the viewpoint of it
*One doesn’t always have the option to leave and not be around these folks in a school, church, or workplace environment; and it becomes more problematic when the person bothering you has authority (boss, professor, clergy, etc or at least more clout as a higher status or older person). My recommendation is to audio/video record them and then report them to an attorney and so on*
@mra irs True, it becomes our Responsibility but that does Not absolve them of causing us harm in the first place and continuing to do so (especially after we’ve told them to stop)
Great! All true. I wish they taught this stuff in school. Fake people are everywhere and they cause a lot of damage. They should be avoided, and if encountered, run from them and forget them.
Sadly it's in my family, my grandpa, father, brother and grandma. I stopped visiting my grandparents because they always criticize me for all my flaws and insecurities that I have. Then they tend on asking me why I don't spend time with them.
When young, you often think the quantity of friends is more important than quality. However, as you age, you see that quality is more important than quantity.
@@Robespierre-lI Theodorius Ghandeli states, one does not necessarily have to make the mistakes, it is also possible through observing one's own surroundings and environment and possibly, question [almost] everything.
This makes a lot of us realize that we don't have any true friends. I'm sick of dealing with folks who only have an agenda or want to cause drama. I value peace more than anything. I would rather be alone than to waste my limited time on people who are only out for trouble.
I really felt the “opportunist” part cuz once they find someone that’s more entertaining or they find that other ppl they just met or worth their time and not you, it really shows
I can sense easily when someone is fake by listen what they say and how they treat other friends. When I find out that someone is fake, I just avoid contact with them...life is too short to spend time with those toxic fake people!!! I prefer to spend time with the few friends that I have...
I always cared and help my bestfriend. I needed someone like him so he can help my out. Then when he's in trouble i help him out too and some work that needs to be done. I care about him the most more than my family. I dealt with hella fake ppl and i hope me and my bro will be together like brothers.
How I know if someone is a non genuine- person • They sabotage relationships • Lie about their so called personality traits such as being loyal • play with other people’s emotions • loves to talk really loud cause they like hearing themselves • they don’t listen to other people’s advice when they try to look out for them • May pull a victim card if the are confronted from a situation that they created
My biggest mistake/regret in life was to assume the best in ppl and see them in a good light which was/is to my detriment! Glad that now I can see thru most nasty toxic losers and avoid em like the plague!
Why is it so hard to find genuine nice ppl who respect n listen to u :( i have ‘friends’ at school who literally dont talk to me unless they want sumn, and ive known them for like 6 years edit: okay stop attacking me, i listen to ppl, i try so hard to be kind to everyone but is my kindness returned?, no
I don't just see a fake person coming my natural energy is disturbed being near them in the worse way and I'll will immediately remove myself from that person's presence. I despise it when people gossip it's a bad trait for any human to have.
I know. Its sad. Many many of us are suffering at the hands of them.They are Narcicistic,Narcs for short.Learn how to spot them,and avoid them like a plague.
@@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL I choose to stay away so I won't trip off and hurt anyone or myself. Or even end up in jail. My family don't ask me if I'm well, if I'm in the country, if my head hurts, how is my business doing... nothing. Only when they want money, my phone rings night and day till they get me. And they come right to the point, no good morning/ night... nothing. I have zero tolerance for people who have and still begging. Do you give me wrong ??
This describes one of my coworkers. He probably knows that I can see through him so he limits contact with me. At first I just found him annoying and lost my cool with him but eventually realised what an insecure fake he is.
These are all good points of views and potential signs. But, I feel that none of these can be a solid 100% sign a friend/a person trying to get close to you is fake.
When you’re dealing with someone who talks about themselves doesn’t always mean they’re fake. It could simply mean they need to vent or they’re proud of themselves on how far they’ve came because that’s what I do at times and I’m far from fake . I have 1 maybe 2 friends and that’s it.
1. Are concerned about the social status of others 0:26 2. Are manipulators 1:22 3. Crave attention 2:16 4. Never ask about you 3:01 5. Brag all the time 3:53 6. Break their promises 4:54 7. Are opportunists (Takes advantage of others for personal gain.) 5:46 8. Put others down 6:39 9. Feed off drama 7:27 10. Gossip 8:10 11. Only nice when they need something 9:06 12. Disappear when you need them 9:58
My friend: •Always treating me •She always allow me to copy her assignment •Always cheering me up with my Crush •She is very nice to me luv you so much
Imagine your insecurities being so high you can only make yourself appear somewhat civil by bringing others down. Whew chile, so toxic it burned my edges off
Hey guys, when was the last time someone tried to manipulate your opinion? What was the situation like?
too much of them lately ! I would add also most of them are envious and tend to overestimate themselves quite a lot ...I've seen a lot of these characters where I live ...too many
My name is Montel Dublin I am a fake friends to my friend s all-time I do it to my friend in BCA college Marlow town , England,uk .
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I remember having a toxic classmates in my elementary days before. They always talk bad about me and only came to me when they needed something from me. So then I was forced to draw away from them and stay lonely all throughout the year.
Kiril Mihaylov how do you interact with them?
I don't want to admit it, but fake friends and family is mostly what I've had in my life... So I learned how to be by myself...
Same here
Same
Smart choice I agree with you.
Me 2
Got to
*The biggest sign for a fake person is when they don't act as they speak. Their actions aren't congruent with their words.*
*Look for what they do, not what they tell.*
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Actions speak louder than words!
*Absolutely*
Hypocrites basically
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me do you know many fake people?
Fake friend- someone who uses you till they don't need you anymore
CookieCrumblesify trueth
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True
East european womens.....exactly....
all my friends growing up
It’s sad when you enjoy and look forward to be in someone’s company because you just like having them around, but they don’t feel the same. One-sided relationships are so common, it sucks.
Agreed, it’s honestly just best for you in the long term to leave them, even if it hurts at first.
Yeah I Kno how that is
@@anonymouse7773 that's the worst especially when you love the girl
They really are and it pissess me off
@@williamvaughn2237 Yeah it happened to me with a boy I really liked. Looking back now I realized he had narcissistic tendencies and I'm so glad I left. If someone is really your friend, they won't keep you guessing if they care about you; you'll know. Don't let people like that convince you to stay in a one-sided relationship; they'll eat up your soul. Continuing to be with them isn't true love; it's desperation and immaturity. I learned that the hard way, and now my progress in life has been delayed because I didn't learn sooner, but I'm healing and moving on. I wish you all the best, and I hope you have/find true friends you can trust and who will lift your spirits and encourage you towards your dreams.
Crows fly together,
Eagle flies alone.
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This is unrelated, but u are the most likely to respond so, can someone help me know I'm not boasting and being proud? I dont know how to handle this, approach somebody and say "I got first place in the 100k yesterday!!" W/o really having bragging attention to it. Help, I want to be as nice as I can to humanity
@@rice3306 Well if it's true than it's the truth.
Which bird is smarter?
This is not true cause wolves succeed together even if its in small groups
Fake ppl act differently one on one, vs when around others in groups
That's normal tho.
Yeh.
Yesss
Right!
Everybody does that. Im quiet most of the time when i am in big groups tho
Too many of these people exist.
too many !
Yeah, most of the world.
So true
Sorry can't help it 😁
Kobe Lambert 🙄
The moment you realize your best friend has all the characteristics of a fake person.
dying star
I have the same situation, more then 18 years i think i have real friend. One day i tell him everything in face and move him from my life. The moment i did that i feel so good and i meet much better friends after that.
@@freeyourmind7324 I wish I could do that someday.
same lol. my so called "best friend" covers his selfishness with self pity. We basically just hanged out for a long time because of games. After the gaming phase is over, we broke off naturally. He hates people better than him physically, mentally, etc.
Yeah .... Man I'm sad. I'm only 9
dying star I don’t really care who is a fake person, I believed what I can do for them matters more
If you REALLY want to know a person..........
*Put them under pressure. OR *Give them power for a while. They will be CRYSTAL CLEAR for you to see. Guaranteed.
This is very trye
Facts
Okay this makes sense, but these aren't easy things to do.
This is so true.
Agree
Back in high school, I was mocked for not having friends. But as I got older, it's better to have no friends than to have bad friends.
You are not alone..
I am still alone now, tried to push toxic people out of my life, and getting insecure about new people come in to my life.
@@lourenssianturi4373 don't take stress, make yourself better 👍
@@charnjitsingh3365 🙂
@@charnjitsingh3365 okay
#13. They change their statements and thoughts according to the person front of them.
#14. They constantly try to please others.
And the list goes on!
100% facts
#15. They yell, ESPECIALLY when they’re trying to manipulate you when you’re not doing what they want.
#16
They invite you to a sleepover and close you in empty room and they go to an other friend
To much fake in this world and that's why I ride alone.
Truth
You're right there aren't good people in the world.
Church..... our circles tend to get smaller when we level up.
Yeah It’s better to be alone rather be with fake idiots or find new genuine people
Never around on daily basis but will be the first to come around when they want something
A fake person always said one thing and does complete opposite 🤔
Not always... sometimes they say and do exactly what people are looking for.
Sad this is my husband
Ikr
like a politician coming to power
Maybe it’s Opposite Day or a joke
I actually rather than being alone in school rather than hanging out with people that are fake.
That’s big facts
Same its ✨ f a c c s ✨
“Why don’t you have many friends?”
Me: Quality Over Quantity 😉
it would be sad if you wrote Me: “Why don’t you have many friends?” :D
Yes!!!!!!
Sick of people meaning more to me, than I mean to them.
True because a a small but organized loyal pack of wolves will always out live and survive more than a big unloyal unorganized pack
I am 21 right now..I wasn't exactly centre of attraction in my class but
I only had 6-8 friends in my high school ..yet all of we make time to meet each other..once a month/twice..
And others didn't even tried to contact us..see? The people I personally considered were only 6-8 although whole class was behaving friendly before end of school..but none if them were there after that
I think that biggest tell for me has always been when they try to put me down in public, so they look better. Or when they just don't respect me. Bye.
guess who what about when taking jokes from you!? Just to simply get credit! Now that’s disgusting had a “friend” name Shawn
I do that i kinda regret it, i usually do it to my close friends
@@Hogib35 Yes! Omg happens to me and can't really call them out in front of people.
Izuku Midoriya they do that to me and I come back harder and say so did you ever get rid of that std that guy gave you from the party? And they get so mad and I start laughing
I don't have a lot of friends for that reason and the problem for me is that my family is like that. Back in 2002, I quit my 13 year, high paid, high stress corporate job and am not all materialistic. I used my salary to buy gifts for the family including cousins and their kids. Now, they love to take pock shots at me at family gatherings comparing their life to mine.
Now several of them are trying to reach out to me since I haven't been around lately and I can't really be bothered. The fakery is too much! We were a closer family when no one had anything.
Fake people never apologize. Their self is too elevated that they can't swallow their pride. They'll even think they're the victims when they're the offender.
Two types of self centered people:
1. Boaster- talks about himself all day long and ignores others needs
2. Baby man- feels he's the victim all the time and has extreme self pity. Everyone should give his needs while he himself doesn't give.
What are you gonna do other than point a finger and make the kind of people you speak against feel harsh?
@@RiayToons did I hit something? not my problem. Just speaking the truth. As far as I'm concerned I try to do good but that's none of your business.
This is true!!!
What you are talking about are the two types of Narcissism: Grandiose and Vulnerable.
I love your comment.
Im going to print it off and slap it on someones forehead.
TIMESTAMPS:
Social status doesn't matter? Or does it? 0:26
Fake people are manipulators 1:22
They crave attention 2:16
They never ask you about you 3:01
They're bragging all the time 3:53
Fake people break their promises 4:54
Fake people are opportunists 5:46
Fake people put others down 6:39
Fake people feed off drama 7:27
They gossip 8:10
They're only nice when they need something 9:06
They disappear when you need them the most 9:58
Hey bright side, that's not prince charming pls check
1. When they're a walking contradiction.
2. They never hang out with you unless it's in a group, or...
3. They talk about themselves and don't let you get a word in edge-wise when you DO hang out together, but when you're in the group, they talk more to everyone else than you.
4. They only ask you over because they need an extra person in the game.
5. They suddenly ditch you when your money is tight, or it's going to be a loooong time before they hang out with you again.
6. They make you question your goals and dreams, "Are you sure you want to do XYZ," or, "Are you sure you're able...?"
7. They claim to love being around genuine people.
8. They claim to dislike drama, but they're the first to start it.
9. They make snarky remarks about a luxury item you worked for or inherited (or, they discourage you to work towards owning it by saying it's a pipe dream).
10. Everything is one sided; they never make an effort. You're always the one that has to make the first move: calling, making plans, etc.
11. They ask you what you do for a living upon first meeting you. The only people who enjoy answering this question are doctors, lawyers and rocket scientists. They're using it to judge you.
Forgot one:
12. They only invite you to parties when it's an MLM product they're selling.
13. They constantly ask you for favors but can never be found when you need a favor.
14. When you call them on their 🐂💩 and they turn on you and make you out to be the bad guy for simply defending yourself.
Bruh : that's me and my friends like me first joining The Army
That's won of my people freinds ...
Bruh my “bff" has all these signs-
I'm disappointed.
Certain people I’m friends with have something like this...
I think I am lucky enough to not have such friends
This is why I dont trust people as soon as I seen them, cause it's hard to spot a fake person
xxblueoceanqueen xx amen . Smart approach. Always test the spirit
This is why i dont like friends and crowded places.
@@foressekeeshjaramillo4783 i have a phobia of crowds but i love my small group uf loyal friends like the love that a wolf has over his pack
@@speedyboi349 my friends always leave me but im happy ya
@@foressekeeshjaramillo4783 im really happy and proud of my small group of friends cause they are like family and always there for me and im willing to do the same
No matter who talks about you, just keep talking to "The Most High"; He'll bless you above all fake people.
Amen
I agree. Jesus really is my Best Friend.
@@susanstanley7942 one and only trusted...you can tell him your secret and sadness and happiness and success in life.
100%
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''A 'nice' person who isn't nice to the server isn't really a nice person.'' -Mae West
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Waitor
Almost everyone is fake these days in one way or another..
I think it is somewhat necessary! But having a good heart is what is more important!
Mindprovement I think you are confused or maybe you’re fake yourself. No! Everyone is not fake! A person can’t be fake and have a good heart. A person is either fake or not fake! A person can’t be a little fake. A person is or is not.
I think most ppl are fake, esp with this social media era.
I think it depends on whether they can take the mask off when you really need them to. We're not used to being vulnerable in public.
Mindprovement I agree with you. People CAN be fake in one situation and not another. I think it is also a trend.
@@4thamigo776 yes like Facebook lol I'm off of it for that reason alone so many toxic people
I remember when I first watched this all of these fit me😂😂😂.just want to say if your reading this and if any of these applies to you its OK just look at your mistakes and learn from them.
Wow same feeling😅
Kudos to being able to admit your faults. It’s not the easiest and says a lot about you already
@@frankiebob1191 well done for owning up and I'm praying for you to learn from your mistakes and to turn your life around 🎉🙋♀️
Thank you for taking the time to look at your mistakes and I hope you can turn your life around 🤗
I know I was looking these over to see what I did wrong as a friend. I've always have tried to be there for my friends. But- now that I'm in poverty, they don't want me around, like I'm the plague or something. 🤷 Oh Well- time to make better friends.
I’ve learnt that lesson so many times, when I see a new person, I can straight away tell- “they’re the snake in the grass” from their attitude & respect they give
Don't be fooled. I thought my daughter in law was lovely. Boy. was she a nasty rattle snake. She has torn my family apart.
Two easy ways to identify a fake person:
1. Look for you only when they need something.
2. Find an excuse when you needs them
What do you by number two
@@suyeesia7770 Did you mean, "What did you mean in number 2"? Well, to simplify it the commentor is saying your friend makes excuses by having no time or any more excuses when you need them.
It's very tricky to tell if someone is real or not, lots of people can act real or authentic for a very long time and change on you when you really need them.
Facts 💯👊💪🏆🎖️🏅🥉
That is what happens too me...
I think those are manipulativ...
They know what they do to get you...
Sadly, I've watched this video a few months too late. It could have spared me a lot of grief and pain. I'd never have thought that there are such
corrupted persons in this world.
You'll see how fake I am ,when I've got heaps of moolah!
Same
Yeah Trump is pretty hard for me too.
But we knew he was fake back in the 80's.
If you realise that you know someone who has this signs or maybe it's even you best friend, slowly cut them off.. it might hurt right now but you will be better in the long run.
This is the hardest part of dealing with these ppl
So true! let all the snakes go, and your life will instantly improve.
It’s so very difficult
I had a friend who I trusted with everything and than one day she decided to make a rumour about me that spread around the whole school, it sucks man
*They say: "I'm just kidding" and then they dont want anyone to do it to them.
They exaggerate things a lot, are very sarcastic, rude, obnoxious and then blame you for it if you're offended.
They point their fingers and say things like: "No you," "what's that?" "Who told you that?" And insist on always being the center of attention.*
also they aren't wrong when they say it's your fault for getting offended it's literally called you got offended or i got offended huh so did i make you that way with what i said why is this offensive to you why not not get offended by it is the viewpoint of it
There's nothing wrong with sarcasm if you do it nicely 👍
Well in a way it is your fault for continuing to hang around with someone this low class and ignorant so how else can a person look at that?
*One doesn’t always have the option to leave and not be around these folks in a school, church, or workplace environment; and it becomes more problematic when the person bothering you has authority (boss, professor, clergy, etc or at least more clout as a higher status or older person). My recommendation is to audio/video record them and then report them to an attorney and so on*
@mra irs True, it becomes our Responsibility but that does Not absolve them of causing us harm in the first place and continuing to do so (especially after we’ve told them to stop)
Great! All true. I wish they taught this stuff in school. Fake people are everywhere and they cause a lot of damage. They should be avoided, and if encountered, run from them and forget them.
I agree
Agree 2
So true wish I'd done that 2 an ex friends and boyfriends
I despise people who talk incessantly about themselves.
Lol
I mean I do it but like I’m not toxic everyone has flaws
Edit: apparently I do it because of my anxiety that people won’t understand me
@M C yeah I feel that.
Sadly it's in my family, my grandpa, father, brother and grandma. I stopped visiting my grandparents because they always criticize me for all my flaws and insecurities that I have. Then they tend on asking me why I don't spend time with them.
@@lore5751 same i try not to be toxic either, i just have trust issues that im trying to fix:>
Fake friend: knocks on door gently
Real friend: breaks door down
FBI: "Agree"
:0 That means FBI is our friend
Why
@@suyeesia7770 why not
true
When young, you often think the quantity of friends is more important than quality. However, as you age, you see that quality is more important than quantity.
I've knowing fake people my entire life. I used to be disappointed by witnessed they lying to the other people.
I am genuine so I only have few friends
Same here :)
Society
Same here!!
Same here
Same
So a fake person is a narcissist? Basically
How are you mate? Life's good? :)))
Right.
@@marialuyan narcs are fake that's for sure
@@Robespierre-lI Theodorius Ghandeli states, one does not necessarily have to make the mistakes, it is also possible through observing one's own surroundings and environment and possibly, question [almost] everything.
I think not. I am a narcissist but I didn't hit the 99% marks of a fake person
This makes a lot of us realize that we don't have any true friends. I'm sick of dealing with folks who only have an agenda or want to cause drama. I value peace more than anything. I would rather be alone than to waste my limited time on people who are only out for trouble.
Yes, this 💯
I really felt the “opportunist” part cuz once they find someone that’s more entertaining or they find that other ppl they just met or worth their time and not you, it really shows
I can sense easily when someone is fake by listen what they say and how they treat other friends. When I find out that someone is fake, I just avoid contact with them...life is too short to spend time with those toxic fake people!!! I prefer to spend time with the few friends that I have...
I guess I've come to the conclusion that ...
I have no friends
Quite painful😢😣
Rhythm Darlami same 😭
dats alright... u can always look for one
Everyone has a friend in Jesus.Accept him into your heart.He always loved you.
I deal with it by listing to some linkin park songs🎸🔥
I listen to sad songs and let out my negative emotions by crying😐
Join the crowd. I am happy to admit by best friends are my kids, parents, and pets.
Now imagine two fake friends are ‘friends’ with each other just to use each other :P
😂
Its like two allied countries.
that’s literally how like me and 2 of my friends are ones just a little too close to me
The moment your realize that you don't have friends.
We can be friends :)
Lol @AngelHalili2 same here
Count me in
Me I need frnds
Me
I will be nice if i need help from anyone not many people willing to help but people who did help, i will remember their kindness the rest of my life
So avoid fake people at all costs, and only go for the people who are genuine.
@Shamma Lath but why
Boy u cute
Easier said than done
@@yogaflame4128 NAH B
I am so sick of this FAKE LOVE
Army here
Here
Get a dog. That’s true love.
Why you sad? I don’t know nan molla
Do you know BTS?💜💜💜💜😏
When someone shows you Who they are the first time "Believe" them....
Choose friends wisely. I like the quote “I’d rather have four quarters than 100 pennies”.
Same
True
You will never know the depth of the heart and that lies in it.
You are just lucky to have good, genuine and caring friends. Thats it.
Everyone has done at least one of these things once or twice in there lives, it only makes them fake if it’s continuous
Leah’s Here yea I have a theory that everyone is fake at least once in their life
It’s like Jesus said “ he who has not sinned, cast the first stone “
Bragging is not always being fake. Sometimes it just shows confidence and causes others to respect you .
“Real friends let the fake one go.”
Correct
Oh, I had a whole group of friends like this, very glad I got out of that
Same here
Same
My friends make me strong but my haters make me unstoppable 🤣🤣🤣😎😎🔥🔥🔥😎😎
Lol ikr!!
Haters gona hate
Lucky
I always cared and help my bestfriend. I needed someone like him so he can help my out. Then when he's in trouble i help him out too and some work that needs to be done. I care about him the most more than my family. I dealt with hella fake ppl and i hope me and my bro will be together like brothers.
This sound Like NARCISSIST behavior🤔🙄
*BULLSEYE!!!*
many people have narc traits it doesn't they're a narc
True, there’s a spectrum.
@@cesttmoii when you try to justify your're a narcc yourself lol
NARCISSISTS=FAKE
2:53 When you realize BrightSide has never watched a Shrek movie. 1. That's Shrek the 3rd, 2. That's Arthur, not Prince Charming.
that hurt seeing for my Shrek passion
or prolly he hates the Arthur character XD
Thank you for pointing that out because I was waiting for someone to point it out.
Apparently he hasn't actually watched 10 Things either. What was he trying to say??
They also never watched a Harry Potter movie. It’s pronounced Dray-co, not Drah-co 😞
How I know if someone is a non genuine- person
• They sabotage relationships
• Lie about their so called personality traits such as being loyal
• play with other people’s emotions
• loves to talk really loud cause they like hearing themselves
• they don’t listen to other people’s advice when they try to look out for them
• May pull a victim card if the are confronted from a situation that they created
Almost everyone exhibits at least some of these traits at some point in their lives,
My biggest mistake/regret in life was to assume the best in ppl and see them in a good light which was/is to my detriment! Glad that now I can see thru most nasty toxic losers and avoid em like the plague!
I love being friendly not being friends I love to ride alone it’s just me 🤔
Todd Smith facts!!
Same
Todd Smith sameee😎
thats wise
I do the same but maybe too much, bc now I am lacking some social skills.
I knew all of these already!!
I knew these the hard way.
My buddies who got used by fake people, where y'all at?!
Essemble!
here boiii
my so called best friend used me for 4 months and disappeared when she found someone better
It's hard to find a real friend.
Be careful what you say in front of others.
My ex is the biggest fake ever
A narcissist. Liar, cheat, thief.
An ex for a reason!!
You described my ex. So, I'll second that with my ex missus.
@@AMARUT180 we gotta be careful out there
he probably thinks the same about you
Why is it so hard to find genuine nice ppl who respect n listen to u :( i have ‘friends’ at school who literally dont talk to me unless they want sumn, and ive known them for like 6 years
edit: okay stop attacking me, i listen to ppl, i try so hard to be kind to everyone but is my kindness returned?, no
I saw your comment 1 minute after you posted it
I know what your saying I feel the same way
No it isn't, they just don't come to you, you gotta go to them, surround yourselfself with the right people.
Kobe Lambert i wish it was that easy
@@Softerhaze it is 😄.
Should be entitled "12 Signs You're Dealing with a Narcissist!"
The real question is how to deal with fake people?
Ignoring them is the best way to deal with them
I just noticed that my female classmates are calling out other girls in facebook that they're fake when they're usually the fake ones lol
Lilly L the real question is how to deal with fake Humans
Gray rock
Play with them or ignore them
I don't just see a fake person coming my natural energy is disturbed being near them in the worse way and I'll will immediately remove myself from that person's presence.
I despise it when people gossip it's a bad trait for any human to have.
#10 is the most important and common thing that happens to all of us sadly
I am not afair about death.
I am afair about fake people that have two face .
afraid*
two-faced / hypocritical*
Afair? That's a word, OMG somebody help I cba to go on Google.
“Most” ppl aren’t what they “post” to be!! ✌🏻
I find when you meet a person and introduce yourself and shake their hand...fake people seldom make eye contact!
When I realised my friend fits all of this😥
Me too🥺🥺
I know. Its sad. Many many of us are suffering at the hands of them.They are Narcicistic,Narcs for short.Learn how to spot them,and avoid them like a plague.
Then he’s not a friend!!! 😠😠😠
Get u some new friends girl!!
Mine 2
I deal with people who are #11. They are called "My family". That's why I moved out and avoid them altogether.
sky fox lol
sky fox how did you realize it was better to stay away?
@@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL I choose to stay away so I won't trip off and hurt anyone or myself. Or even end up in jail. My family don't ask me if I'm well, if I'm in the country, if my head hurts, how is my business doing... nothing. Only when they want money, my phone rings night and day till they get me. And they come right to the point, no good morning/ night... nothing. I have zero tolerance for people who have and still begging. Do you give me wrong ??
100
Preach girl!!!
They used the wrong prince in the Shrek example
oof
Yeah and he said Draco like Drawco when it's really pronounced drayco
I thought it was pretty funny mistake. Fyi to those who don't know, it's prince charming that was toxic. Not Arthur.
Rite that was King Arthur the underdog of that movie🤣
Thank you! I was like no wait it's Arthur not Charming! I know blonde hair makes it hard, but Charming just looks self absorbed. Arthur looks kind.
Arthur did not deserve this
This helped me alot
The key to be happy is to not relying your life on anybody at the first place
Remember! Who is the most important person in the world!
It's YOU! 👈 Remember that!
Have a great day whoever reads this. 👍
Awww how sweet
@@smritisonar8992 Thanks, I try to be sweet most of the time 😁 👍
Thank you!!
@@user-xr1er7jn2j You're welcome. 👍
What about your family???
You're being selfish no offense
By that, only one thing is for sure. Even if you're the most kindest person, there's always and always people who will fake you.💔
This describes one of my coworkers. He probably knows that I can see through him so he limits contact with me. At first I just found him annoying and lost my cool with him but eventually realised what an insecure fake he is.
This video was awesome.. Now I will be able to keep track of such ppl and avoid them from the start..
Haha, I don't have to deal with this! I have no friends!
Everyone hates me!
I really like your comment😂
Mutual equality is an excellent radar for toxic behavior. If you're not receiving as much as u put in, keep em at arms length.
These are all good points of views and potential signs. But, I feel that none of these can be a solid 100% sign a friend/a person trying to get close to you is fake.
I can't remember what a fake friend is like.. My circle is smaller than a Cheerio 🤷🏽♀️
It's better my boy
Same.. best way..
Same
I only have 2
I don't even have a circle...
About number 4 Im talkactive and its not my fault. I do talk bout myself but i always ask bout them and when they talk i listen
No one really cares, sorry
Lol
@@CakeLuck yea abt ur opinion
If they keep asking for favors from you and you get nothing back, especially those who consistently ask to borrow money from you.
I see if they want to start conversations with me and if I can’t start one with them they are fake
Perfectly put!
A fake person doesn't speak up and only cares about themselves!
Avery Crist they're just quiet?
What about the people who start telling old stories of yours as if it had happened to them?
When you’re dealing with someone who talks about themselves doesn’t always mean they’re fake. It could simply mean they need to vent or they’re proud of themselves on how far they’ve came because that’s what I do at times and I’m far from fake . I have 1 maybe 2 friends and that’s it.
Or maybe they LoVe their life so much and they have so much to tell you!
I got 1 true friend who was toxic last time but knew her mistake and is really nicer and we are now besties and we seldom get into fights. :D
1. Are concerned about the social status of others 0:26
2. Are manipulators 1:22
3. Crave attention 2:16
4. Never ask about you 3:01
5. Brag all the time 3:53
6. Break their promises 4:54
7. Are opportunists (Takes advantage of others for personal gain.) 5:46
8. Put others down 6:39
9. Feed off drama 7:27
10. Gossip 8:10
11. Only nice when they need something 9:06
12. Disappear when you need them 9:58
Quick and to the point, more youtubers should take note. Awesome editing and video, subbed!
You forgot one: they yell when you don’t do what they want.
true
True
My friend:
•Always treating me
•She always allow me to copy her assignment
•Always cheering me up with my Crush
•She is very nice to me
luv you so much
I'm guilty of bragging but I know I'm not fake
Da Plug it’s good to know!
Says u lol
You're just insecure
I told my best friend that my other friend was a tomboy, but I felt sorry afterward . am I fake??
Da Plug are you sure about that ?
It's nice to have friends however friends do you not run your life you do it's up to yourself for, happiness,success, everything else. Aww
Imagine your insecurities being so high you can only make yourself appear somewhat civil by bringing others down. Whew chile, so toxic it burned my edges off