We’re $4.5 Million In Debt (I Had My Head Buried In The Sand)

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  • @robertthompson5908
    @robertthompson5908 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6665

    Let’s face it. How many of us watch these videos just to remind us that we have not completely effed up our own lives?

    • @joycewright5386
      @joycewright5386 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +227

      Yes! I made that comment on another video and people replied how horrible I was.

    • @maxinef6654
      @maxinef6654 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      😂😂.

    • @robertthompson5908
      @robertthompson5908 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

      @@joycewright5386 I don’t know if we’re horrible or not but we’re not alone.

    • @alkatmsu
      @alkatmsu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Absolutely 💯

    • @_CPerk
      @_CPerk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      😂😂 facts

  • @Nonsense116
    @Nonsense116 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3165

    imagine having a boss with 6 figures-worth of cars telling you he can't afford to pay you. What a failure.

    • @mcw2553
      @mcw2553 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

      But he doesn't own those cars 6 figure cars though - he's in $140K debt that can he can't pay off. He might as well be driving a rental.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mcw2553"sorry, I spent your paycheck on car payments and I'm still underwater"

    • @TheExdraconian
      @TheExdraconian 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +159

      @@mcw2553 Hows the employee supposed to know that, ya dingus. The wife didn't even know

    • @Gruuvin1
      @Gruuvin1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      ​​@@mcw2553imagine it from the employee's point of view.... And who cares if the cars are paid off or not? He's making those payments, isn't he?

    • @HoustonTom
      @HoustonTom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      If you can’t make payroll, it’s time to call it quits on the business.

  • @desimo147
    @desimo147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1579

    It's absolute insanity having $140,000 worth of automobiles at the same time you owe over $100,000 on your credit cards, owe the IRS, owe your in-laws, and have a 2nd mortgage that you are behind on. Zero business sense here, which means zero chance of the business succeeding.

    • @TheWartechgaming
      @TheWartechgaming 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

      Not even just 0 business sense. It’s 0 sense in general. It’s common sense not to bury yourself even deeper in the hole you yourself dug

    • @OrionOlamPiksie
      @OrionOlamPiksie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yeah this story is weird. His advice later is running it together .

    • @88smjls
      @88smjls 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Would be funny if it was 4.5 million in car loans lol

    • @Fpan87
      @Fpan87 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ‘Murica!

    • @SpicyDragoon
      @SpicyDragoon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      And still not paying his employees their wages.

  • @mullenio4200
    @mullenio4200 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1346

    He bought a $3.3m warehouse, using the house as collateral without asking his wife. I'm sorry, but that's a line for me. I'm gone.

    • @SLOBeachboy
      @SLOBeachboy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

      Not only that but the fact that he felt he needed to buy it at all tells us a lot about this guy’s mindset. Normally you only need to buy a bigger and better warehouse when sales are increasing so rapidly that the old warehouse cannot hold everything. But some people get into this if-you-build-it-they-will-come mentality, and they expand based on what they want the business to be and not what it actually is. Basically, he cannot accept that his business if failing and so instead of either just scraping it and starting over or coming up with a sound game plan to get it back on track he thinks that if he just throws enough money at it that everything will be okay. In other words, I think he most likely bought the warehouse to make himself feel like he is running a successful and expanding business rather than because he actually needed it.

    • @Iwantallmymoney2024
      @Iwantallmymoney2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s why they want you to submit to them. Don’t question any of my poor decisions. Smh

    • @jpm7049
      @jpm7049 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@SLOBeachboyor business was good enough to justify the warehouse but then fell off.

    • @AmaraOkpechi
      @AmaraOkpechi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes, sir! Gospel! TRUTH!

    • @maryanne2939
      @maryanne2939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Isn't her name on the deed to the house??? Did she just sign off on the 2nd mortgage? If the house is not co-owned her problems are even bigger!!

  • @ihaveadreamformykids4400
    @ihaveadreamformykids4400 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1411

    The homeless person with $0 is in much better place than them.

    • @20maxilo
      @20maxilo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      Unfortunately yes

    • @bigstar66
      @bigstar66 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      Dave Ramsey stans would rather be homeless with no cash than in debt.

    • @cryptidian3530
      @cryptidian3530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      @@bigstar66 No sane person would want to be 4.5 million in debt.

    • @bigstar66
      @bigstar66 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cryptidian3530 sell the house, cars, warehouse and pay off the credit cards and you’d be debt free with like half a million dollars in cash. But sure, homeless people have it better.

    • @bigstar66
      @bigstar66 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      @@cryptidian3530 they can sell the warehouse, house and cars, use the sales to pay off the debt and they'd have hundreds of thousands of dollars. But sure, be homeless.

  • @Mr_D555
    @Mr_D555 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1444

    No payroll = no business, shut it down.

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      Right... the guy has millions of dollars in home and car and he cannot even pay his workers!! Unreal!!

    • @bryandelcid4065
      @bryandelcid4065 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Yes, unfortunately once you start getting other people involved and start messing with their livelihood then it’s time to call it quits. It’s no longer morally and ethically right to keep that business.

    • @RichardQuaid
      @RichardQuaid 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      What are talking about? Just ask the King of Debt, Donnie. You don't have to pay people till they take you to court.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      200 %

    • @jodo7814
      @jodo7814 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@bettysmith4527
      Lots of business owners like that out there. Bunch of broke users. And then of course they close the business and leave all the employees out to fend for themselves as they whine about “how hard life is” driving home in a luxury car to their luxury condo.

  • @naomirachel9161
    @naomirachel9161 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +994

    Rachel’s heart stopped for a moment when she heard 4 million 😭 mine too tbh

    • @kendrapratt2098
      @kendrapratt2098 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I was having a little trouble breathing hearing this, honestly!

    • @MiraMira0ntheWall
      @MiraMira0ntheWall 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I saw that!!! My inhale was deep 😂

    • @JerseyDevilJerseyGirl
      @JerseyDevilJerseyGirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      All of our hearts stopped

    • @joey7253
      @joey7253 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s not 4.5 mil in debt.

    • @jordansimard
      @jordansimard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Its litterally the title, wym… plus they have 5m in assets lol, relax

  • @nailatiyllufm7325
    @nailatiyllufm7325 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    I’m sorry but her head wasn’t in the sand. She has a million dollar home and $140k in cars but is asking her parents for over $100k? She is an active participant in this whether she admits it or not.

    • @gordonshumway7465
      @gordonshumway7465 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Sounds like she was just happy living an apparently wealthy lifestyle while being massively in debt. Hey, as long as the neighbors are impressed!

    • @RandomNoob1124
      @RandomNoob1124 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gordonshumway7465right 🤣

    • @rebeccaburgess5333
      @rebeccaburgess5333 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why should your parents bail you out? They worked hard all their lives for their money.

    • @mattmatt6572
      @mattmatt6572 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Fake it til you make it. Most the time don't make it.

    • @dana102083
      @dana102083 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@gordonshumway7465 sounds like she grew up wealthy but maybe im stretching..

  • @Scottyv12
    @Scottyv12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +523

    If the business isn't profitable it isn't a business, it's an expensive hobby!

    • @rachelmaddowswife8713
      @rachelmaddowswife8713 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      On average, it takes a business 2-3 years to turn a profit. You shouldn't start a business expecting it to be in the black in the first week, you need a very large financial cushion to tide you over. That said, you should have a solid enough business plan from all your expertise in that field to secure funding from banks and investors. When it gets to the point that you want to double mortgage your family home, it's time to call it off.

    • @aceapolonio7284
      @aceapolonio7284 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Uber became proftable after 15 years, what are you talking about? Lol

    • @Scottyv12
      @Scottyv12 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aceapolonio7284
      You can't sink money into something for 15 years thinking you have the next Uber, Tesla, Microsoft, or Amazon. The odds are infinitely higher that you just have a failing business.

    • @rachelmaddowswife8713
      @rachelmaddowswife8713 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aceapolonio7284 They were able to pay salaries due to investors though. It's not the same situation at all.

    • @theeggreat4
      @theeggreat4 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aceapolonio7284Uber shouldn’t be the example you use, what they did should be illegal. They basically used money to take over a market while losing billions. In most countries you just can’t do that.

  • @robinmoody-o2p
    @robinmoody-o2p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +480

    We started with Dave in 2003 and are millionaires with a paid for house. We’re just average folk who followed his advice. We are now 70 & 66, my husband was laid off in 2014, became disabled so was unable to work. I had to leave my job to care for him however because we’d followed his plan, we never had to worry
    about money! Listen to them it works!!!!

    • @kiariowhippin
      @kiariowhippin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dang shouldn’t you guys be retired already

    • @rodneydenlinger8890
      @rodneydenlinger8890 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      ​@@kiariowhippinread her comment again. He is disabled and she retired to care for him.

    • @margiemurray1100
      @margiemurray1100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The more I listen to these videos,the more I realize howany Americans are wacko when it comes to money! This does NOT happen in Europe !

    • @gsxrgirl2007
      @gsxrgirl2007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@kiariowhippinyup, she explained that. They haven’t worked since 60 & 56. Sounds like a good age to me.

    • @Albert12893
      @Albert12893 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Done the same .I totally agree

  • @JohnDoe-td3xx
    @JohnDoe-td3xx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +877

    The business is done when you can't pay your employees

    • @jasonleatherwood2172
      @jasonleatherwood2172 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Yeah past done

    • @JayWerx
      @JayWerx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Yep, he better hope physical harm doesn’t come his way.

    • @tamedromantic9924
      @tamedromantic9924 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@JayWerx now why would you go and say a thing like that?

    • @kamarwashington
      @kamarwashington 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tamedromantic9924Because not paying employees puts their livelihoods at risk.

    • @DatS1ck_LML
      @DatS1ck_LML 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tamedromantic9924owners get shot cause of it more often then not

  • @malknowsitall
    @malknowsitall 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1163

    This is insane. There is no more discussion, sell this business and get a job sir. It failed.

    • @cannednolan8194
      @cannednolan8194 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It has not failed it has hit bumps in a road. Just the payment on the warehouse is 26k a month. But the warehouse over extended him.

    • @TruthandReality2
      @TruthandReality2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@cannednolan8194 if you are drowning in progressive debt to the point you can't make payroll, unless there is a turnaround within a month at most, the business has completely failed and needs to be sold. Breaking the law by not paying employees is not acceptable.

    • @ChrisCardenDrums
      @ChrisCardenDrums 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      He made a HUGE mistake buying a warehouse that's probably way more than he needs. Luckily, they've got just enough equity in it where they can get through this by the skin of their teeth. Another couple hundred grand in debt, and they're bankrupt no question.
      He needs to sell it and use the equity to clean up this mess, rent a warehouse that's no more than 20k a month, and move WAYYY down in BOTH their cars.
      They can make it. It'll cost them that half million in equity they have in the warehouse post closing costs and stuff, but they'll get there.

    • @notpublic8961
      @notpublic8961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sell it to who? I think you meant, file for bankruptcy.

    • @gadriver
      @gadriver 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      @@cannednolan8194bumps on the road ? The guy failed to pay his employees and still not sold his cars. It’s over, this guy is an employee

  • @tessaoshea5697
    @tessaoshea5697 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +635

    I am so proud of my husband. He asks me everytime he makes a financial decision even though he's a professional financial planner and i can't add up straight.

    • @elizabethallen4353
      @elizabethallen4353 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      You are good team TOGETHER!

    • @lisaroper421
      @lisaroper421 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      That's a keeper!

    • @cmonsta27
      @cmonsta27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Communication. Bless 🙏🙏

    • @snowjae9380
      @snowjae9380 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      He’s a keeper!!!!

    • @InStevenWeTrust
      @InStevenWeTrust 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Let him know not us! 😊

  • @ij1376
    @ij1376 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +410

    If the IRS is angry about delinquent taxes, I doubt the business is sustainable any longer...

    • @carpediem6431
      @carpediem6431 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      🎯 also different levels of IRS tax ‘issues. ‘ Clearing 80 grand and not paying the appropriate income or business tax is one level. Taking in tax on behalf of government (state sales tax etc.) and NOT submitting it, is a whole other level.

  • @mikedoyle5901
    @mikedoyle5901 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +764

    Sell everything and get a studio apartment. You don't deserve all your expensive lifestyle. You survive on debt. House of cards has crumbled.

    • @DynAmisch69
      @DynAmisch69 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jealous because you’re a loser that could never?

    • @johndone8045
      @johndone8045 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Think they were doing good before, the house worths 1.1 and first mortgage was down to 400k, they took another 400 for the warehouse

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DynAmisch69 If you were listening you'd realise the caller is also a loser that could never but did anyway.

    • @1337Jogi
      @1337Jogi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      In many parts of California 1.1m IS an apartment or a very modest house.
      One that he des not really own if he has 800k mortgages running.
      Depending on when you bought it and with what interest you could be worse off selling the thing and renting.
      I am not from the US but I though renting prices in California are wild.

    • @theguyonyoutube4826
      @theguyonyoutube4826 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      A 1m house in Ontario is about average, expensive lifestyle idk

  • @OUTDOORS55
    @OUTDOORS55 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    If a company ever misses paying you your paycheck, IMMEDIATELY find another job. Not only will they go under, but they will take you down with them.

  • @thomasdalton1508
    @thomasdalton1508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +665

    The point where you shut a business down is the point where you can't make payroll. You can't have people you work for you if you aren't 100% sure you are going to be able to pay them for that work.

    • @manoftomorrow5987
      @manoftomorrow5987 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Facts. He would’ve had to have exhausted all the line of credit he would’ve had with the banks. His business must’ve been cooked at least a year ago.

    • @barnabusdoyle4930
      @barnabusdoyle4930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not being able to make payroll is definitely a bad sign for any company, however there are plenty of situations where that is only a temporary thing. The only way for that company to be able to make payroll again and get that back pay made up is to continue running the company. Shutting the company down is a 100% guarantee that payroll will never be made.
      Of course that doesn’t mean that you should stick with a company with this problem. There are a lot of reasons why this could happen, from vendor issues to bad management.

    • @thomasdalton1508
      @thomasdalton1508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@barnabusdoyle4930 That's why you have to shut things down before you are unable to make payroll. You should always have enough cash on hand to pay the current month's payroll plus severances - ideally several month's. That way, if something goes wrong you can wind up the business in an orderly fashion. The way businesses usually ensure that is by having a revolving credit facility with a bank, but if you are like Dave and have a strong aversion to debt you can do it by holding cash reserves. If your business is large enough to be audited, this is something auditors will ensure you do as part of signing off your accounts on a going concern basis. You should still do it if you are a smaller firm, though.

    • @taylamayde
      @taylamayde 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Took me a while and rereading to know exactly what you said but very true

    • @thomasdalton1508
      @thomasdalton1508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@taylamayde I do tend to use a lot of double negatives!

  • @webbie1891
    @webbie1891 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

    Living way above your needs and wants is the recipe for debt

  • @tracyaf6084
    @tracyaf6084 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +194

    I love Rachel smiling at Dave doing his impression of her mom. It’s so wholesome how he speaks of her ❤

    • @JudePi-jx7yo
      @JudePi-jx7yo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It sounds cringey but she seems to genuinely think it's funny so it's said out of love... I guess.

    • @snowjae9380
      @snowjae9380 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this

  • @johnwilburn
    @johnwilburn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    Caller: “4.5 million in debt”
    Dave: stone cold
    Rachel: may have pooped just a little

    • @HanSDevX
      @HanSDevX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Her eyes wide opened lol

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yeah Dave’s reaction took me by complete surprise 😂 I was more like Rachel

    • @mahadali619
      @mahadali619 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Because Dave has been there and done that

    • @gearhead1308
      @gearhead1308 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't stop laughing

    • @gracie7389
      @gracie7389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂 Dave has been there before so he wasn't phased

  • @vicavell1
    @vicavell1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Sadly someone is looking at the house and the cars and think this couple is killing it

  • @Shay-yg7nm
    @Shay-yg7nm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +154

    This is the craziest call I've ever heard.

    • @jet4415
      @jet4415 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Whole other level from the usual under 100k debt.

    • @MichL_71
      @MichL_71 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm in South Africa and R4M in personal debt would blow my mind, now x that by ~20 for the exchange rate and 🤯🤯

  • @OspTheOG
    @OspTheOG 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    suddenly my debt doesnt seem so bad anymore lmfao

  • @hongliennguyen8839
    @hongliennguyen8839 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    Besides the 2 mortgages (house and ware house) they have almost $500k in debts:
    Credit cards $120k
    Personal loans - $115k
    Property taxes- $100k
    Car loan - $140k

    • @mysticquetzal87
      @mysticquetzal87 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      and she said 3 years of unpaid income tax I think?

    • @inthebooks3947
      @inthebooks3947 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      They got bout 500k in equity

    • @HanSDevX
      @HanSDevX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      All that in 6 years since they got married.

    • @mattesser5027
      @mattesser5027 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      How do you amass 100k in property taxes, even in California? That's gotta be years. How has the city/state not come for them?

    • @1337Jogi
      @1337Jogi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Apart from the moronic cars most of it could be due to the business..
      I am guessing not only one 400k mortgage but also the personal loan and maybe credit cards are for the business.

  • @martinreynolds5905
    @martinreynolds5905 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +462

    He committed financial infidelity by taking out mortgage without her knowledge

    • @hiddenprofits216
      @hiddenprofits216 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      He couldn’t legally do that. She knew just didn’t care. A amazing submissive wife.

    • @tduck828
      @tduck828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      She would have had to signed for this

    • @Blittsplitt5
      @Blittsplitt5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@hiddenprofits216I wouldn't call her amazing

    • @random-nz7dy
      @random-nz7dy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      She didn't say she was unaware. It sounds like she did know, She was just going along with everything.

    • @privacyplease1556
      @privacyplease1556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@tduck828not if her name isn’t on the house

  • @JoeRNNE1
    @JoeRNNE1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Wow. This is one of those "my life ain't perfect, but boy it could be worse" calls. This guy sounds like an out of control spender and I don't think he'll change. Best of luck to this lady; she's going to need it.

  • @cluckieschickens
    @cluckieschickens 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Sell the home, sell the cars. Sell the business. Pay off your debt. Live within your means going forward.

    • @Dogwalker447
      @Dogwalker447 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or they just sell the warehouse… it’s like 4mill you sell the mortgage you get the 4 mil liquid and you lose that portion of the debt and I’m sure it was over 500k so that’s all your debt gone by just selling the warehouse…

    • @jinorimo6090
      @jinorimo6090 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Dogwalker447 True. You’d get $600K after taxes. Pay off all the non-mortgage debts and you still have approximately $100K to find a different profession or make it a one man show:

  • @JoeyNYSDnomad
    @JoeyNYSDnomad 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    In LA they all look rich, yet they do not have 2 nickels to rub together.

    • @New-bw4kz
      @New-bw4kz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So you would think

    • @alexlopez5800
      @alexlopez5800 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Exactly. That's the LA lifestyle 😂

    • @jacquelineglitter4328
      @jacquelineglitter4328 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I read that you need 2 million a year to live on and that was before inflation. So probably 3 or 4 now. I wouldn't want to live there. I drive an old vehicle and don't get work done. I never keep up with the Jones but my home is almost paid for and my credit card debt is 30.00.

    • @1dingerr
      @1dingerr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jacquelineglitter4328 uh what. Cost of living in LA is not 2 million.

    • @heyjude2109
      @heyjude2109 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true.

  • @SweetlyHome
    @SweetlyHome 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I couldn't imagine this being my life. I'd be selling everything, moving, and closing the business stat. What a frightening nightmare.

  • @AnthonyMcNeil
    @AnthonyMcNeil 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    His imitation of his wife was hilarious. Seeing Rachel laugh shows that the imitation was on point 😂😂🤣

  • @Mac-oj1vm
    @Mac-oj1vm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    No one should forget this is, "The family" that people will see and be envious of. If only they knew it was a house of cards

  • @tatianastarcic
    @tatianastarcic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +690

    Managing money is different from accumulating wealth, and the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains. The examples you provided are relevant, and I personally benefited from the market crisis, as I embrace challenging times while others tend to avoid them. Well, at least my advisor does too, jokingly.

    • @JohnSmith060
      @JohnSmith060 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Investors should exercise caution with their exposure and exercise caution when considering new investments, particularly during periods of inflation. It is advisable to seek guidance from a professional or trusted advisor in order to navigate this recession and achieve potential high yields.

    • @ChristianKelv
      @ChristianKelv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This is superb! Information, as a noob it gets quite difficult to handle all of this and staying informed is a major cause, how do you go about this are you a pro investor?

    • @KarenLavia
      @KarenLavia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's often true that people underestimate the importance of financial advisors until they feel the negative effects of emotional decision-making. I remember a few summers ago, after a tough divorce, when I needed a boost for my struggling business. I researched and found a licensed advisor who diligently helped grow my reserves despite inflation. Consequently, my reserves increased from $275k to around $750k.

    • @ScottKindle-bk3hx
      @ScottKindle-bk3hx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      this is definitely considerable! think you could suggest any professional/advisors i can get on the phone with? i'm in dire need of proper portfolio allocation

    • @KarenLavia
      @KarenLavia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’ Melissa Terri Swayne for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

  • @BirdDogey1
    @BirdDogey1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I used to work with small businesses on their tax issues in California. Starting and owning a business is supposed to be just that...business. But for people it tends to be very emotional. They tend to throw good money after bad hoping things get better. It is akin to chasing the loss in Vegas. There is a time to cut bait in order to preserve your personal assets. Smart people don't lose personal money when the business isn't doing well.

  • @Christina-fk9ke
    @Christina-fk9ke 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +471

    Imagine working for a boss that has a million-dollar home and over $100,000 worth of cars and he tells you he can't afford to pay you.
    TWICE.
    IN ONE MONTH.
    I'd be so gone! Unfortunately, not everyone has that luxury.
    He's "pushing through" while the people who are helping him live out his dreams suffer. If the business does survive, he's got got his dream job and they're still catching up from his poor management. He should be ashamed of himself.

    • @cornishpasty4344
      @cornishpasty4344 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yeah that business isn't recovering with no employees.

    • @MisterNightfish
      @MisterNightfish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Yea, this is ridiculous. On the flipside, if I was the boss, I could not in good conscience have these things while not paying. I would downsize first, before letting my people go without pay. Makes me wonder about these people's character, to be honest. Like, their employees all got bills to pay, too.

    • @johndone8045
      @johndone8045 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      A mil house in CA is nothing..... their cars are the problem, and his management also

    • @dr_pinna543
      @dr_pinna543 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      $1million house in CA is a $400k house in Texas.

    • @ObiBassoholic
      @ObiBassoholic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      1.1 million isn’t multi million

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Love these two together; you can see by the expression on Rachel’s face that she has so much compassion for this situation.

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her voice is shrill though....

  • @sirheisenberg4459
    @sirheisenberg4459 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +821

    Successful investing is hard work because it means disciplining your mind to do the opposite of human nature. Buying during a panic, selling during euphoria, and holding on when you are bored and just craving a little action. Investing is 5% intellect and 95% temperament.

    • @belobelonce35
      @belobelonce35 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Government policy has thrown the future under the bus for decades. The day of judgment is near. I predict an 80% drop in the stock market. Investors will abandon stocks in favor of real estate. There will be no money in banks... You must devise a strategy for survival.

    • @MarcyLoccy
      @MarcyLoccy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's often true that people underestimate the importance of financial advisors until they feel the negative effects of emotional decision-making. I remember a few summers ago, after a tough divorce, when I needed a boost for my struggling business. I researched and found a licensed advisor who diligently helped grow my reserves despite inflation. Consequently, my reserves increased from $275k to over $750k.

    • @SavannahMitchell-b3d
      @SavannahMitchell-b3d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Recently, I've been considering the possibility of speaking with consultants. I need guidance because I'm an adult, but I'm not sure if their services would be all that helpful.

    • @MarcyLoccy
      @MarcyLoccy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      REBECCA NASSAR DUNNE is her name. She is regarded as a genius in her area and works for Equity Services inc. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @antoniaribeiro8073
      @antoniaribeiro8073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.

  • @johnpublic5169
    @johnpublic5169 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I like “the rest of the story” in the second segment. I also enjoyed seeing the grace displayed by DR because he knows what it’s like to be “that guy” like this lady’s husband is. Let’s pray for this couple that they can build a stronger marriage as they navigate these challenges.

  • @kevind8752
    @kevind8752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome=insanity

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like me going to the gym and expecting to gain muscle mass when I'm as skinny as a rail. 😂

    • @TheOutsider840
      @TheOutsider840 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hate this quote, because perseverance can be the right thing to do. It disregards that the doing action may not be flawed, and that other external factors may be at play influencing the outcome.
      In this particular scenario however, it's definitely the wrong thing to continue.

    • @nonenow857
      @nonenow857 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@TheOutsider840
      So do I!
      It doesn't apply in all cases.
      If I save regularly I'll have wealth eventually.
      Not insanity 🤔🤑

    • @ConnorJara
      @ConnorJara 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kevin, what an insightful comment. I'm sure you are the first to think of something so profound.

    • @kevind8752
      @kevind8752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ConnorJarahaha, no way kemosabe.

  • @noobboy81
    @noobboy81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    I love watching these. They make me feel A LOT better about my financial situation.

    • @coderider3022
      @coderider3022 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a bad one.

  • @isabelm5438
    @isabelm5438 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Everyone is forgetting that they’re in LA, so 1.1 million for their house is not that much there!

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Driving around 140k worth of car knowing you owe your mother and IRS money, alone makes me think this people are special.

  • @cuz129
    @cuz129 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    One of Dave's best! Been married 46 years and that's how we do it too.

  • @enricopallazzo3244
    @enricopallazzo3244 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +468

    Lady your head is in the earth’s core.

    • @creolelady182
      @creolelady182 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      FACTS!

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😮‍💨😵‍💫

    • @times7171
      @times7171 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      that made laugh

    • @tennysoneffie6943
      @tennysoneffie6943 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe his head is so far up his ass that he can see daylight!

    • @thewheeldeal8439
      @thewheeldeal8439 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I think it poking out of Australia lol

  • @Geminirock6186
    @Geminirock6186 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The next time you’re jealous that someone has it all, don’t be.

  • @Todjcam
    @Todjcam 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    They’re driving “ridiculous cars” now suddenly she wants to start asking questions 😂

    • @EverElia
      @EverElia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Right?! 😂 the cars aren’t the only thing. Once he couldn’t make payroll, EVERYTHING became ridiculous.

    • @tommyjones6866
      @tommyjones6866 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Any man who has ever been the breadwinner knows exactly how this goes. Wife has no idea about the finances but keeps spending money like crazy. Every time you bring it up it starts a huge fight...so you stop bringing it up. You find ways to keep bankrolling the lavish lifestyle you guys are now accustomed to. Eventually, your house of cards falls and your wife takes the kids and leaves your broke @ss 🤣🤣

    • @shanreta
      @shanreta 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tommyjones6866 Good, Loser. 🤡

    • @sonofben3322
      @sonofben3322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tommyjones6866 doesnt sound like the guy has any idea about finances either. not sure if this story fits your narrative here

    • @pauljansen6650
      @pauljansen6650 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      + a house over 1m.....everyone will give the guy a hard time and rightfully so but she's certainly not innocent and probably expects that lifestyle

  • @kendrapratt2098
    @kendrapratt2098 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    Anyone else ever feel concerned for the family’s safety in situations like this?

    • @paulk8473
      @paulk8473 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      You mean like the guy blowing everyone up due to stress?

    • @fusionreaper
      @fusionreaper 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I would be if she files for divorce

    • @elizabethallen4353
      @elizabethallen4353 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      YES

    • @stephmeister0714
      @stephmeister0714 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paulk8473 that or an angry employee who hasn’t been paid for a month 😬

    • @Observer100-cn7gv
      @Observer100-cn7gv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No

  • @deer9311
    @deer9311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The best part of this video is @3:09. The look on Rachel’s face and how Dave’s face made no facial expression🤣🤣

  • @Lucasroxx33
    @Lucasroxx33 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I am with Rachael on this one. His financial practices and incredibly irresponsible business decisions all feel incredibly deceitful towards the wife. The wife said "he's just so motivated" and that immediately set off alarm bells for me as someone who either believes or was assured that the husband managed finances well, and that he is a master of business. From the way she was talking, It kind of sounds like he decided that he was going to handle the family his finances long ago so that she could just stay at home and be a mom, so he purposefully left her out of most financial disclosure until he absolutely had to bring her in on it. Like, in my family, my mom handles the finances, but her and my dad had to come to agreement on any major purchases. Financial transparency is so important, to the point where even if one person is managing all the money, they need to have complete disclosure and veto power if something seems frivolous or irresponsible.

  • @gardenofe12
    @gardenofe12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    The wife is partly to blame too - she turned a blind eye to everything that is going on in her life by NOT checking her bank accounts and discussing the finances with her husband. You NEED to know where ALL your money is going and what’s COMING in at ALL times !! Don’t rely on your spouse to take care of the finances !! BOTH of YOU need to check in with one another !!

    • @linhaton4957
      @linhaton4957 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes, using equity from your home to use for a business warehouse is a huge problem.

    • @pioneerprepper2048
      @pioneerprepper2048 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She admitted that in the beginning, it's not necessary to bring up. She's the one working on fixing it which is what's important

    • @nailatiyllufm7325
      @nailatiyllufm7325 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@pioneerprepper2048it sounds like way more than having her head in the sand. Deciding you want a million dollar house and $140k in cars while asking your parents for over $100k loan? She’s not just blind she’s actively participating.

    • @1dingerr
      @1dingerr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In my marriage, I manage our finances and my wife knows how much she can typically spend per month. I'm not juggling million dollar businesses or houses, but I think a dynamic of one spouse handling finances can work as long as that person is responsible and transparent about money issues.

    • @heyjude2109
      @heyjude2109 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It takes two to tango, so the financial health of the family is their both responsibility.

  • @WOHM8274
    @WOHM8274 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +219

    This is another example of trying to keep up with the joneses for no reason.

    • @Hegelian10
      @Hegelian10 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're right, keeping up with the Joneses is the root of financial instability. Don't be a slave people.

    • @joshuamartinez7113
      @joshuamartinez7113 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@silentnot4812you will never be happy unfortunately in life. Nothing wrong with wanting more for yourself but it is wrong if it derives from envy.

    • @HewyHikes
      @HewyHikes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@silentnot4812 horrible mindset tbh

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I stopped trying to keep up with the Joneses in 1990. 😂

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@joshuamartinez7113You can be happy in life, just not by chasing after more money and buying stuff that brings a temporary high. It's a constant cycle of never being happy in that regard.

  • @birdie4263
    @birdie4263 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    if I found out even ONCE that my boss, who owns 6 figure cars and probably a mansion, can't afford to pay me my salary the first thing i'm telling him is when he'll sell the cars/mansion cause I'm getting my damn money no matter if I have to sell those cars MYSELF!

    • @andidede3653
      @andidede3653 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The cars yes you have a right to be upset but in all honesty a 1.2 million dollar house in california is probably 2500 sq ft. Not a mansion by any definition. I think he just stretched himself to thin with all these loans and making payments and it seems clearly he was trying to keep this afloat by hoping it would turn around.

    • @InStevenWeTrust
      @InStevenWeTrust 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You think 1.2m gets you a mansion in California?😂😂😂

    • @MarcoAshford
      @MarcoAshford 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m behind on my pay check for a few months this year. If I switch my job I won’t be able to stay in US. Sometimes you don’t have a choice. You are getting spoiled, life is too good.

    • @270Winchester
      @270Winchester 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@andidede3653I don't know how people can look at California home prices in even consider it. Where I live $1.1 million would easily get you a 6000 ft² house with 30 acres or a normal sized house with over a hundred acres. On Zillow it says the same price gets you anywhere from a 1200-2500 ft² house.

    • @Anniekitty1016
      @Anniekitty1016 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not you having the entitlement to commit a crime 🤭 *his* cars will land you in jail if you try selling them.

  • @Anwarmeahkat
    @Anwarmeahkat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The fact she calls her cars ridiculous and they're not on sale is just laughable

  • @pinkyshoes22
    @pinkyshoes22 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Being $4.5 million in debt means the wife can no longer afford to be a stay at home mom. It’s time to roll up her sleeves and get back into the outside job market. She seems pretty smart so since her husband can’t hack it, it’s time for her to take charge and move this train forward

    • @caprumra782
      @caprumra782 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When I was growing up, I was raised in an household where men work and women managed the home and finances. Most men know how to make a kill but we can't make it last through winter like eifet can. That's why it's important to get a wife and not a tramp who only knows how to spend money.

    • @CCrispyyy
      @CCrispyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It all depends on her job experience though. Especially in CA, child care is INSANELY expensive. Sometimes it cancels out any money she would bring in

    • @Iwantallmymoney2024
      @Iwantallmymoney2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No she needs a divorce! No rolling my sleeve to save him! I’m saving my kids and I!

    • @iHeartAmySue
      @iHeartAmySue 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@CCrispyyymost men can’t understand that.

  • @brigitteadams5679
    @brigitteadams5679 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Sell everything, start over

  • @nancyskilton136
    @nancyskilton136 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was a nurse for a medical needs child. His parents lived in a beautiful house with top of the line everything, ate out 4-5 times a week, drove expensive cars, had a membership to the fanciest country club, and mom shopped constantly. Dad's subcontractors for his construction business were constantly coming to the house asking for payment, sheriff deputies came to serve papers and the postman brought registered letters daily. Many became indignant with me when I explained that I was not a relative and couldn't accept any of their papers. Parents just laughed when I told them who stopped by the house that day. Fortunately, my services were paid thru state insurance and I didn't have to rely on them for my salary!

  • @tommyjones6866
    @tommyjones6866 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I agree with Rachel. Taking out a 2nd mortgage on the house without telling your wife is wild. Thats beyond just poor money management. You don't touch the home your family sleeps in.

  • @emmajones7560
    @emmajones7560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m 22 and love these videos. They way the interact with the callers is amazing, tough love! Also it’s a big warning for my future financial and romantic relationships!

    • @patriciamiller9317
      @patriciamiller9317 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're very wise. Being in a relationship with financially irresponsible person can destroy your financial future. Watch out for redflags.

  • @tyndni
    @tyndni 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    These people are actually extremely lucky. They still have equity in two properties and they can sell literally everything and start over. You could not do this in any previous market crash especially 08.

  • @mikesawyer4707
    @mikesawyer4707 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was in trouble, I had been for some time everyone I trusted to talk to about my dept issues strongly suggested file bankruptcy. I did not feel that was the good choice. I knew what I had to do, sell everything and payoff my overdue bills some bills were more than I had but I did negotiate a lump sum pay off. I had just enough to buy a used car I have my home yet but little else. Thank the good lord I woke up and took control of my bills and stopped ignoring them. I hope my story will help someone out there. 😊

    • @marysaltlife1427
      @marysaltlife1427 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mike, good for you. So glad you turned it into the right direction.

  • @lynnebucher6537
    @lynnebucher6537 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When I was in college, I lost 3 different part time jobs and my last paychecks when my employers went belly up. They didn't even have the decency to let me know. I showed up for work to find a locked door, and one of them was chained shut with a deputy standing outside. Really fun when living in poverty.

  • @yomoma6141
    @yomoma6141 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    They could just sell everything and walk away with no debt and like $500,000. Buy a different house with cash and both just work normal jobs and have no debt, life will be easy.

  • @noahrose1able
    @noahrose1able 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Crazy that a homeless guy is doing better then them.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Far from the truth! I would rather be in their situation vs homeless anyday

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Or me making $60k a year. 😂

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@reese85Not me. That's too much stress.

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Better *THAN* not then

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@BREEZYM6015 Boo hoo. Cut your spending and then come cry.

  • @SoUnDMaN831
    @SoUnDMaN831 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I wish Dave would have asked what kind of business this is.

    • @jsimmons9969
      @jsimmons9969 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Probably sneakers or something like that.

    • @robloxvids2233
      @robloxvids2233 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Crossfit probably lol. Or RE "flipper."

    • @SoUnDMaN831
      @SoUnDMaN831 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jsimmons9969I don’t know, but the husband felt the need to buy a warehouse. That’s a lot of space to fill there.

    • @mominthe209
      @mominthe209 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s what I wanted to know too. It seems it was successful in the beginning and that’s why he bought the warehouse. When business slowed, the lifestyle had to continue.

    • @thirdcoast-nx7jx
      @thirdcoast-nx7jx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SoUnDMaN831 legal cannabis I bet

  • @alexsteven.m6414
    @alexsteven.m6414 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +532

    Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Instead of trying to predict and prognosticate the stability of the market and precisely when the change is going to happen, a better strategy is simply having a portfolio that’s well prepared for any eventually, that’s how some folks' been averaging 150K every 7week these past 4months according to Bloomberg.

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      @KatyaSantos-g4c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

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      @type-r3x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      who is your advisor please, if you don't mind me asking?

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      @vanessahopkins-g5y 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @vanessalangston6126
    @vanessalangston6126 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dave, I really appreciate the way you gather all the information, and become brutally honest with her. They really do need help.

  • @freddybastiat8299
    @freddybastiat8299 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    I do not envy folks trying to run a business in California

    • @lisaporter3301
      @lisaporter3301 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Psst--there are tons of businesses in California--most very successful.

    • @tommyjones6866
      @tommyjones6866 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I run a business in California. Pretty easy for me. I live within 50 miles of thousands of millionaires. Business is never slow...my clientele always have tons of disposable income. 10% more in taxes is nothing when my revenue is double what it would be in a red state.

    • @htorres11
      @htorres11 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you imagine living in a nasty trump loving red state (Mississippi, Tennessee) where half the people are living below the poverty line and hillbillies like Ramsey can only bray about “ the regulations”! Newsflash the “ regulations” are there to protect folk from predatory business practices and unregulated malfeasance from unscrupulous profit at all cost boobs!

    • @freddybastiat8299
      @freddybastiat8299 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tommyjones6866 Good for you. Seriously, always happy to see entrepreneurs flourishing. So do you think its strange that companies have fled Ca? HP, Tesla, Exxon, Schwab, and Chevron to name a few. Plus all the folks packing up and leaving ~400k net loss every year. Why do you think?

    • @dog7881
      @dog7881 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tommyjones6866Yep because millionaires only live in California lol

  • @seethemiddlefinger2759
    @seethemiddlefinger2759 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Dad always told me, you can't borrow yourself into prosperity. If you have 4.5 million, you don't borrow 5 million.

  • @stargatelover3
    @stargatelover3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    To be in 4.5 million dollars in debt and not be some sort of celebrity is truly mind boggling. My question for the wife would be: How did she not know about this? Was there any signs of maybe living above means?

    • @thomasdalton1508
      @thomasdalton1508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      They have $4.5 million of debt, but that's mostly mortgages against over $5 million of real estate. That's not particularly extreme.

    • @stargatelover3
      @stargatelover3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@thomasdalton1508 Ohhh okay, I thought that was a lot. I’m not exactly the most educated on this stuff.

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      ​FYI - Some women let their husband's handle the finances. You can see why that's not usually a good idea.

    • @thomasdalton1508
      @thomasdalton1508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@deirdrekiely6187 It's fine to let your spouse handle the finances. You just need to stay informed about what they are doing so you can intervene when you need to.

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@deirdrekiely6187I had to get a separate checking account because my wife was spending above our means. Now I'm doing 1,000 times better financially. Letting the wife control the finances can be just as disastrous. 😂

  • @tammi6174
    @tammi6174 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I worked at a small company where they weren’t able to make payroll every two weeks for a several months. It was sporadic and scary as a single mom not having consistent pay. But frustrating watching him show up to work driving his convertible Mercedes or his fancy Harley and ordering take out food for lunches while the staff wasn’t being paid.
    Luckily I found a great job and left on my terms.

  • @minervagalvez4748
    @minervagalvez4748 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    SHE DIDN'T QUESTION HER LIFESTYLE WHEN HE WAS LAVISHLY GIFTED HER WITH EXPENSIVE GIFTS AT THE BEGINNING OF THE COURTSHIP/MARRIAGE 😂😂😂

  • @dpc0809
    @dpc0809 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ramsey showed his experience by not reacting until he heard the numbers.
    Owes $.88 (H) + $3.3 (WH) + $.12 (CC) + $.115 (PL) + $.1 (T) + $.14 (C) = $4.52 M. If sold H & WH for $1.1 + $4.1 and replaced the cars with 1/2 value $.7, = $5.9 M
    So that gives them +$1.38 M before taxes and ready to start over. Not bad.
    Really, they don't even need to sell the house, just selling the WH & trading out the cars at half value will more than cover all their debts plus likely make up for the missed payroll if they close the business.

    • @HarrisonWilliams-bw7me
      @HarrisonWilliams-bw7me วันที่ผ่านมา

      You 10x the value of cars but yes good point there are c600-700k up before sales expenses and late business expenses

  • @africanqueen1655
    @africanqueen1655 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    I think Dave should have asked her to have her husband to call. I would have love to hear the type of business and if it could be saved.

    • @LetsGo6009
      @LetsGo6009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thats a great idea, its turn into a larger segment and we’d get alot out of it

    • @alexlopez5800
      @alexlopez5800 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      4.5 million in debt. In this economy? Good luck trying to salvage -4.5 million overhead on that mom n pop business.

    • @LetsGo6009
      @LetsGo6009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alexlopez5800 i think she said the warehouse they could sell is worth like 4m so its not that unrealistic to dig out of

    • @elainestewart6295
      @elainestewart6295 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think husband in denial. The business is basically bust and if she doesn't sell they go bankrupt

  • @Sequel7
    @Sequel7 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    If you are ever at a point when you feel like you need to withdraw from your 401k. Please stop and never do it again

    • @RobynSye
      @RobynSye 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wonder if the current LA fires have affected their home or warehouse?

  • @Polo22546
    @Polo22546 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I honestly watch these videos just to be able to realize that I’m in better financial shape than I thought. I couldn’t sleep if I owed this much money!

  • @bradleygraves5915
    @bradleygraves5915 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Look at Rachel's face at 17:21 when the lady says $4.5 million. I think her heart skipped a beat.

    • @MomoHitsujiOwO
      @MomoHitsujiOwO 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think my heart skipped a beat too 😂😂😂

    • @1981lashlarue
      @1981lashlarue 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @bradleygraves5915 17:21 is the very end of the video?

    • @UncleMichaelable
      @UncleMichaelable 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      At 17:21? At like 3:00 mins.

  • @theclothingcottage
    @theclothingcottage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    All of that omission is the same as lying in my opinion. I went thru something similar. He may not need to explain the day to day mechanics of his business but when he's bankrupting his family, she has a right to know those details.

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    @DanielNoahD3w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +248

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  • @carolines3953
    @carolines3953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If they sell the warehouse, they’ll net $1-1.2M after costs.
    They can sell the cars, pay off those loans, get two junker cars.
    Use the warehouse proceeds to pay off debts (IRS, CC, parents, mortgage). The proceeds from the warehouse will go a decent way towards paying down those debts.
    Whether or not the business is viable - I agree with Dave, he needs to explain his business plan with his wife, or make the decision to cease operating and walk away.

  • @williamho7393
    @williamho7393 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    I have anxiety hearing the $4.5m debt

    • @skeezix8156
      @skeezix8156 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don’t even like $4000

    • @webfreakz
      @webfreakz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can not imagine making $22k monthly payments 😮

    • @20maxilo
      @20maxilo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I get scared of anything over 5k .. so 4.5 is not 🚫🚫

    • @Observer100-cn7gv
      @Observer100-cn7gv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why? Is it yours? Are you the one trying to live beyond your means?

    • @PitManenuver
      @PitManenuver 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You hear “$4,500,000 debt”. I hear 3,500,000(warehouse) $880,000(mortgage)
      +$140,000(cars)
      +$110,000(credit cards)
      -$4,100,000(what the warehouse is worth)
      -$1,100,000(what the house is worth)
      -$100,000(aprox value of cars).
      Meaning they have a POSITIVE net worth of $670,000. Or a lot better than most of you.

  • @pmwyy
    @pmwyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow this man has run his business and family into the ground. She has the patience of a saint.

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This biz model isn't working. Excited to launch my bouncy house business which is really going to take off.

  • @ianhoughton2426
    @ianhoughton2426 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Frankly, with this person living in LA, with this being their situation a few months ago, can we check in on them with what’s going on with the fires there and make sure they’re okay

  • @davidthomas-ot4cl
    @davidthomas-ot4cl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I thought I was poor but this video has made me realize I'm $4.5 million richer than that couple.

    • @AndrewDaley-lr9qg
      @AndrewDaley-lr9qg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And richer mentality. Can you include having this hanging over you.

  • @HerbertNorman-r6u
    @HerbertNorman-r6u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.

    • @CollinsShappell
      @CollinsShappell 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel your pain mate, as a fellow retiree, I'd suggest you look into passive index fund investing and learn some more. For me, I had my share of ups and downs when I first started looking for a consistent passive income so I hired an expert advisor for aid, and following her advice, I poured $30k in value stocks and digital assets, Up to 200k so far and pretty sure I'm ready for whatever comes.

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      @SamViens 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation

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      @AlisonDiezani-s6p 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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    • @Gregstuckey
      @Gregstuckey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      In the 50's my Dad worked a modest job, Mom stayed at home and raised the kids, and they lived a nice middle class lifestyle including owning a home. Nowadays both I and my partner works and can barely afford to make ends meet. Soon the kids and family dog will need to work to keep this household going. It's the destruction of the American dream right before our eyes.

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      @CollinsShappell 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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  • @Benjamin-wc8rj
    @Benjamin-wc8rj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This callers husband is the definition of fake rich. Complete poverty.

  • @Sweetamber222
    @Sweetamber222 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This call gave me gratitude for my current situation… I’m gonna be just fine. 😐

  • @missinde0723
    @missinde0723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    WOW I can't imagine taking a 2nd mortgage on my home!!!! Just for this reason . . . . Good Luck to Katie!!!

  • @shidinje
    @shidinje 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ultimately, i like how Dave summed it up with his personal story. Its easy to get carried away and leave your husband doing everything or get carried away and not want to burden your wife, but truly its best to be a team with finances. Having the talks cleared out. Unpack with your partner. So that you dont end up with a dead partner and no idea how to manage anything or pack up together

  • @DarkbaseTTV
    @DarkbaseTTV 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Once I heard about the credit cards and car debt, I knew there was no survival for this business. The guy has a business in order to spend money on personal luxury, nothing else

  • @lovethemflowers
    @lovethemflowers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was waiting to see Dave’s and Rachel’s expressions when the caller gave the dollar amount for the debt. That’s the most insane amount of debt I’ve heard in one of these calls. Boy, are they going to have a major lifestyle change if they’re going to turn this around.

  • @rachelmaddowswife8713
    @rachelmaddowswife8713 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oof, at least this woman is taking responsibility and trying to think about the situation now. My mom was a SAHM and watched as my dad took on more and more debt for new businesses after the old ones failed. When the banks stopped lending him money or approving credit cards, she agreed to let him take out new debt in her name. It was a freaking nightmare and I was so angry at her for not being the adult in the room and putting her foot down. Fortunately they were able to file for bankruptcy and then got some inheritance, but our childhoods were so poor and stressful, it really messed up my siblings and I.

  • @Johnyrocket70
    @Johnyrocket70 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When I was a kid growing up in 1970's my grandfather told me, if you can't afford to buy some thing's in cash you dont need it & save your money. I still live below my means even with a good income. I could of bought a new Mercedes every five years. Instead I bought pre owned leased car for $14k cash in 2005 & still drive it. The $$ for the 4 new Mercedes I could of paid for in cash is still in the bank. Not wasting $$ on cars gave me security & a extra $300k towards retirement or retiring e few years earlier.

  • @greendalf123
    @greendalf123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As someone who also had a scary experience with money (not nearly this bad) just ALWAYS talk to your family about taking out a loan, mortgage, major purchase whatever.

  • @KSMO1031
    @KSMO1031 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a friend that was in a similar situation. He was a business owner with a $1.5M home. During the 2008 financial crash he lost his business due to banks no longer lending to him. Overnight he was bankrupt since he was spending money faster than he was making it.

  • @erica1885
    @erica1885 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Rachel’s face when she said the total debt.

  • @mine1685
    @mine1685 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just want to listen to Ramsey in Ramsey's program, ...no one else!

  • @LOL_BOTS
    @LOL_BOTS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Overhead = Death" - Paul Jarvis

  • @AcreOfOrganic
    @AcreOfOrganic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    4.5M took even Rachel’s breath away.

  • @aliceedinburgh9203
    @aliceedinburgh9203 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Dave's face at 1:15!

    • @joseroblesj
      @joseroblesj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw that!!!!