This Dude Ghosted… But Liked Her IG Pics??! | MTV's Ghosting: Love Gone Missing
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ก.ย. 2020
- On this episode of Ghosted, Rachel and Travis try to figure out why a dude ghosted his GF and blocked her number, but still liked her IG posts. And his reason? No one saw it coming.
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Ghosted: Love Gone Missing helps distraught people track down former friends or lovers who suddenly cut off all contact with them. Hosts Rachel Lindsay and Travis Mills meet the haunted and come up with theories about the cause behind the ghosting. Then the hosts look for leads in order to track down the ghost. Finally, the truth is revealed during a confrontation between the two parties.
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Some of the prettiest girls have the lowest self esteem
Its me. I'm girls.
Cause these bunk ass dude ruining their confidence
Kanye West said a lot when he said that in all falls down
🙈 myself
If you guys are claiming yourself as the “prettiest girls” pretty sure your self esteem isn’t low
WE WERE DATING!!! WHY WOULD I TELL YOU THAT I'M MARRIED???? I mean, he's just a terrible person. He deserves to be alone, and she deserves a man who isn't a terrible person.
"I'm not gonna leave the one I love for the one I liked" oooohh weeeee
That was a word in itself. He already showed and told her what it is and she should have listened. He's shady and is always going to do what is best for him only.
@@MsVeracity7 Yup and he’s gonna do it again. I was in that same situation and the guy ghosted me twice.
To me it seemed like his ex wife was playing games with his head, so he began dating and moving forward and then she gave him an ultimatum. Like he said that cause he clearly loved his wife and she didn’t love him. But when she saw another woman was about to keep him she gave him the ultimatum and of course he took the offer of being with his family. He chose his child. He should have told her from the jump of course he was separated. I don’t know I hope he doesn’t screw it up. Positive vibes only. I know when I was leaving my ex-husband of 12 years who was a horrible man to me... he tried so hard to get me back all while dating another lady. He ended up getting her pregnant. He was NEVER gonna have me back but after all the years of abuse I had it in my head to make him think “I was gonna take you back but now she’s pregnant” I was never gonna take him back but I so badly wanted to be the manipulator this time. I didn’t of course but I definitely wanted to. Sometimes good people do really stupid stuff. So maybe he’s not as bad as he seems. Then again... we all know the best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior so who knows. Either way Shannon has it going on and no doubt whether it’s him or someone else, she’s gonna be ok.
THAT PART‼️🥰🤣✨🦾🦾
@@MsVeracity7 èsèsèèeeeèseseeeè5eeès5
Sis if he ghosted you, respect the dead and leave them alone. They WILL come back, they always do, you just have to be smart and ask yourself if you wanna be a clown or not.
🧢
Respect the dead lol
R.I.P.😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉
Separated = married. You should've told her the truth and given her the choice to walk away or stay.
That is something you mention on the first date! Even before you get to the date! Just 🗑
Dylon Jones right 🤦🏽♀️
yes.
She thinks just cause he’s separated from his wife that he’s a good guy. But once a cheater always a cheater. What’s to say he won’t cheat on you too homegirl?
exactly smfh. anyways hey armyyyy
The way you get them is the way you lose them!
She a club promoter she cheating as well.
@Lala Erwin how is it sexist? You guys justify women cheating all the time
@@WGPhil-uw5cs I don’t see anyone here justifying cheating 👀
Wrong choice sis..he's gonna do her dirty again she's way too beautiful for lames.
First of all shes pan sexual so lets not talk abt looks 2nd of all he never did her dirty his wife gVe him a altumatuim and he had to choose his family u sound dumb rn
I think he might see his mistake and know she is a good woman and stay.
@@mr.m8112 first of all calm down, you sound dumber. It wasn't fair to her to keep that a secret.
@@lisafrance6019 hopefully for her heart's sake he won't let her down.
Reina E thank you ❤️
JAYDAY....that was the mistake right there...👀😂
i'm dead 🤣🤣🤣
😂
I hope that’s not his legal name
I hate that the person who has been lied to, finds it so hard to let go, even though they've been shown what kind of person, the ghost is...👀
He loves the book, not its contents.
Perfect comment
Stealing that. Thanks King 🙌🏾
@Kj equivalent to liking the cover of the book, not the contents.
Well said
“I think he’s got a secret, and it’s a secret we just don’t know” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
I almost scratched the skin off my scalp behind that 1 😆
her smmiling and giggling at him unblocking her must be the most clownlike shit i done ever seen smh
🤣🤣🤣🤡💀
Facts!!
don't be fooled...... I bet dude's still legally married and they're separated AGAIN. he'd have to show me REAL LIVE paperwork. I know, because I ended up dealing with someone like him, only to be neglected, then started doing foul shit, and now seeing someone else all of a sudden 😭 AND I have a child, so I was nervous to see anyone. but dude started with the shits, so I went elsewhere (tried to anyway) then he took me back only to play me 😂 needless to say I've been depressed and fucked up ever since, including dealing with alot of other things that's very unfortunate. she better be careful.............
That was sad. Just embarrassing. 🤦♀️
She just like me tho fr
How is it weird to say you are married? I don’t get it..... he was hella hesitant 🙃I honestly feel that was not why he ghosted tbh
Ikr.
Exactly, hmm I swear she met him in a gay club🤔
@@gem4294 I was thinking that too
6 months he had more than enough time to tell her.
divorces cost quite a bit of money and can be a big hassle
“ you want me to tell you that I love peanut butter and jelly sandwiches too? “ 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 lollll
That had me deadd 😂
YUP, I wanna know that 😪😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I was weak🤣🤣🤣😭
If you ended up getting a divorce anyway, why not get back in touch with her after that and explain what happened.....? Not like you would have been doing something wrong at THAT point, although the whole time you were seeing her you could have just said you were separated..... seriously. That's kind of an important detail after you've been dating someone for 6 MONTHS 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Proably still sleeping with his ex wife and has feelings for her.
He may have felt that he was at the point of no return. Like when you know in your heart you did something fucked up to somebody that you care about. But you're scared to go to that person and ask for forgiveness because you think they have a grudge against you. That's why communication is of the utmost importance!
He deadass compared having to tell someone that "they're married but separated" to "liking pb&j sandwiches", when dating
@@blackmuzicluver35 exactly what I was saying too. Apples to oranges
@@ahzar4384 Most likely. You put it off to the side for so long that eventually you're in too deep and don't want to lose what you have by fessing up. I get that, been there. But not with something as pertinent as still being MARRIED 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️😂😂😂
He was hella distant at the beginning of the episode and then he was overly excited toward the end... idk he doesn’t sit right with me and her decision was stupid 😂
Exactly he started with ive moved on blah blah and after he saw how stunning she was his attitude changed🙄
💯
I agree
RIGHT! I noticed that too...🤔
Tru 602 you exactly right... craziness
She let me down by her choice.
....baby mamma's dont disappear
Exactly. And she will give him another ultimatum
Right?
Wife. Ex-wife. Not “baby mama.”
@@VoltairesRevenge sorry , I offended you lol childrens mother
Baby daddies don't either
Him: I knew on Monday I wasn't coming to get you on Friday. Let's make up.
Her: Ok. Tee hee hee 🥰
😂😂
Right.stupid girl!!
Has me soooo upset. I was coaching her saying girl tell him kiss you a s s but noooooo
The Girlfriend Experience LLC 🧐That didn’t happen at all i was there 😂😅
Not the tee he hee🤣🤣🤣 I thought she was gonna ghost him
He was all yelling, upset, and seemed so uninterested at the beginning-just to be jumping with joy at the end... make it make sense?🤔 Probably just excited he gets to play her again... idk
bipolar af.. he'll ghost again
April for sure... also hey name twin lol
Well, he said it himself. It feels like he won a championship. Seems to me as if she's just a trophy to him.
That part
@@AprilShowersz he sure will
One thing I don’t like is how the host referred to the ex as his baby mama , perpetuating that negative narrative we see too often on tv, when she was in fact HIS WIFE not just some baby mama.
Sabrina Johnson did you watch the clip ?
@@Badbostonbitch they def didn't know bc Travis said it in the beginning
@Equality ForEveryone you don’t even know wtf I’m talking about so don’t address me . The point went over your head because you don’t give af , the narrative isn’t painting you a specific way so you could really care less. You’re clearly NOT a woman either . Now tfoh, respectfully or disrespectfully 🤷🏽♀️
@@missincognito2666 and they could’ve EDITED that out to make sure it was politically correct. This isn’t a made up thing , it’s been proven how the way we reference ppl can sway the perspective who they are and what role they play . It’s not by accident , and also mother of his child is even more respectful than “baby mama” ... so yea
@@Badbostonbitch it wasn’t editing they legit didn’t know she was his wife until he told them you’re reaching
I was like bro. There ain’t even 10 comments. Didn’t realize that it was only posted 12 min ago lmao
He hit and quit it, plain and simple.
That’s what I was thinking and she over there falling all over the place in love and dude is already on to about 4 other girls. His marriage wasn’t the reason-he’s just a typical player. Lol
She gonna take him back tho and it’ll repeat itself, sad.
@@ceelettice Lol assumptions asusmptions.
If he’s still worried about what she’s doing while he’s still married...dude needs to stay single.
This man is BEYOND strange and started gaslighting her when HE was the one who ghosted her. He seems like a clout chaser or like he's super caught up in the social media world. Why even mention her job and how she's "in the club with rappers and everyone in the city loves her". He didn't want to man up and deal with the situation but he wanted to keep an EYE on her and have access to her? Just so he could have something pretty to look at? He is so cringy. Also, why was it such a big deal that he doesn't drink? Some ppl take medication and can't consume alcohol. It's not that deep.
I was all team her until she said makeup. GIRL I WAS ROOTING FOR YOU
Wow.. the first time I’ve ever watched this show and thoroughly disgusted that she took him back. She doesn’t deserve the confusion. Had I found that out, I’d be Casper The Friendly Ghost 😂😂😂 they should do updates! #Hooked
NIYAH MARCEL i didn’t take him back... i explained that i didn’t want to ghost him and we could at least try to have a friendship again
This girl said Casper 😂❤️
Maybe Shannon sis, what's tea? was this for his comedy career or what. Cus this don't make sense.
@@MaybeShannon_ you are a 10/10!!! Treat yourself as such !!!!!
@@MaybeShannon_ so his he gay? Cause apparently being married wasn’t the only issue here.
He wasn't a ghost, he was a poltergeist
What a damn joke lmaoo. He was irritated af to even speak with her and then he’s JUICEDDD at the end. This gotta be fake
🤣🤣🤣
I could honestly forgive someone for making a bad decision in the heat of the moment and then being too ashamed to reach out first...BUT what did it for me was he said he knew on MONDAY that he wasn't showing up on FRIDAY. Done. Fin.
😂😂
Uhm YEAH you're supposed to tell people on a first date "ey yo I'm married but separated, I'm in the process of getting divorced tho" etc. Yeah, you're supposed to tell stuff like that.
I would have picked let him continue to be ghost, because how we went about it shows his character as a man. It would be a no for me.
True. By the way your so pretty 🥰🥰🥰❤❤ what is your ethnicity?🥰🥰❤❤
@@moons4363 Thank you. Antigen/Jamican
@@moons4363 Nope
@@IamQuisey okayyy🥰
I'm ghosting you but yet I'm still watching 🤔🤔wtf!!
I'm gonna need a update on these two.
Rocki Karter Shannon here🙋🏽♀️ they did an update at the end of the show
@@MaybeShannon_ girl youre beautiful...he dont deserve you.
Right
I call it haunting lol
Ghosting someone is so cowardly!
I feel like that was so weak, she should’ve ghosted him and blocked him on everything.
waitttttttt, her contact name was "maybe: shannon"... he never even had her saved in his phone. he's so shadyyy dude.
she deserves so much better 😡
Hes gay is my guess......
Right like..
That's what I really thought he was going to say.
Forreal
I thought so too....thought he messed with the friend or something
I still think so lmao he just didn't want to come out on live TV (and I feel that) but yea hes uh.....🍭🍭🍭🌈🌈
It’s the “maybe: Shannon “ for me 💀
I WAS DEAD
That's her name. She's a Jumpoff!
@@MisssKayy home girl… that means dude over here didn’t bother to save her name in his phone 🤣🤣🤣
He really put on an act like he was stoked to take her off block. She was a notch in his belt and that’s it. Dude even looked mad annoyed when they said who was trying to reach out to him. “Like ohh lord, what she want?” Lol. She should’ve taken her L and just gone about her business.
My god that girl is stunning! I’m a straight woman, but DAYUMN!
Sis should've known this was going to go left.. his name is Jayday 🤣
Shannon nooo, you deserve better girl!
"I'd rather you cut me off, and I move on"... yet here we are hosting a show about tracking down said cutters-off
Shannon, girl...you're roo freakin gorgeous for this typa nonsense
Girl do you not have a little respect for yourself? Now he thinks he’s done nothing wrong and can play with you 🤦🏻♀️ WHY???????????
I just hate bois like that...im too loyal to hurt another person♡´･ᴗ･`♡
She is so beautiful!! My gawd
his name start with J that was the red flag😭
Lmao Exactly
facts
She was a rebound he used to make his wife jealous on SM. It worked she was a tool, an after thought with a child that he likes not loves, as he stated. She doesn't love her self enough with her seeking love from anywhere she can get it. Focus on ur daughter and growing out of your low self esteem and that excessive drinking problem. He just said he sorta liked her 😣. Attracted to people that are on the fence and that are emotionally immature is for people with low self esteem. Very sad. He liked looked the cat that stole a piece of cheese in the end. He had no idea her esteem was that low to accept him back in her life. Toxic☢☣
I thought this show was fake before, but after this episode I'm definitely convinced. Ain't no way it's not scripted.
Yes because I thought he was gay
Unfortunately, this happens irl 😂 you'd be surprised
Why are they showing the mans sons face blurring her daughters face
They have to get permission to show people. Most likely he didnt care but she didnt want her daughters identity out there
@@deetgrogstin right
Stupid question
@@BK-eo9dr thats uncalled for
J B it was just an observation dude, chill
It’s amazing how some of the most beautiful girls seem like they addicted to being hurt he played you in the worst way and embarrassed you and you still make up it’s really sad
It be The Pretty Girls That dont know their worthhhhh
He has a child with her and to tell this girl that his ex wife gave him a ultimatum should’ve been left out . Just say you were married and wanted to work on things with you wife . Now that can cause drama between them .
Whew chile . Shes gonna regret that
"well i think hes got a secret.. and its a secret we just dont kno" 😐
😐
How is he so happy but hasnt reached out to her this whole time ? Lol
'I'm still married but its still your fault, we couldn't continue'
Just Bizarre how these dudes switch up on you and for no reason half the time like grow up 🤦🏾♀️🥴💯💯
Aye some dudes not all of em. Juss like some of these girls do the same thing not all of em tho. Welcome to Earth, the magical place of shit happens 🤷🏾♂️
When ladies do it to guys, do you have a problem with it ?
They explaining how to have a basic conversation 🤣🤣🤣
Idc , I'm not calling no body j day.... I'll finish tho👀
Girl! I can't stand when dudes introduce themselves by their street name like, "hey lil mama my name is Big Red".... I'm like sir, ya mama ain't named you big or red and furthermore, you're neither of the two 😒
I don't think that was the full reason. First off it is not that hard to say "I'm married but seperated". Also why didn't he hit her up after he separated from his wife the second time if he was still into her 🤔
Exactly. But he fixing to play her again though. Idk why she wants to re-do something with someone who didn’t even put in effort to reach back out to correct the situation in the first place. I’m almost positive it will end badly a second time too.
@@ceelettice True. He's just in it for the games and she will look even more dumb if she let it get that far
Why leave space in your life for someone who DISRESPECTS you like this?????????? Nooooo
Some of us have to learn the hard way… when he shows you what he’s capable of, believe him!
Whoaaaaaaaaaaa didn't see that one coming
Amazing how many dudes think it's not their girlfriends or dating partners business that they're married just because they're seperated
Her being pansexual supposed to be this big secret buuuuut you just said it TV. Smh
So y’all not gonna post what happened with Mariah and James?!
Or becuz he gay n got a man.u forgot it was a gay club
That's what I think too..
Right...
They probably didn't want them to say that on camera
Yeah seemed like his whole mood changed when she said she was pan. Like ok I can squeeze some more fun out of you
I am a very straightforward person. I do not play games. Honesty is very important in a relationship.
Eww what did Shannon find attractive about this dude 🙄
he seems to have a fun personality funny guys be winning lmao
I dont get it! lol
He act like he couldnt take his wife to court to coparent
She made the wrong choice .. but hey that’s her .. lol
Rachel *IS* SO PRETTY THOOO 🥺
She is Gorgeous ! It’s hard being a single mom and trying to date when mfs seem to never be transparent now a days for their own selfish reasons . Once kids are involved that’s really fucked up to play games like that
“We’re dating, I don’t have to tell you everything on the first date!” And then he goes on to say that too many people know her so he didn’t feel secure? How was Shannon supposed to feel secure if you failed to tell her you were still married lmfao and tbh, to me, it doesn’t sound like him and his wife were truly separated, it seems like the wife EXPECTED them to get back together so THATS why she gave him an ultimatum. I see right through that BS.
Here is hoping that she got answers and kicked him to the curb. I think he was running around on the wife and got busted. The only explanation for the immediate ghosting. He couldn't call to explain as he probably had to ghost in front of the wife and she was checking his phone. So wife then came to her senses and kicked him to the curb two months later.
Anyone married, separated, or just divorced is a no go. People in these situations ain't tryna jump back in. 🤦🏾♀️
idk why this is so entertaining
Ikr like it shouldn’t be but it is..
The toxicity 😂😂
Sad watching her getting played like this. But love makes people stupid alright.
So does lust and convenience 😂
Whew. I thought he was gonna say he's gay 😂
That Ex Wife really conned him. Broke something good he had before she left. I was shocked that she decided to make up but I’m sooo happy! Both of them have feelings for each other, you can just tell by the way they looked at each other when they were on face time for the first second. He was soooo happy when she said make up. He seems like he has insecurities because she’s so beautiful, and he just needs to have confidence because you can tell she’s a real one, a loyal and loving woman. I hope these two make it. I have a feeling they will.
😬
I didn’t want to completely block her but keep an eye on her. Wtf? He’s possessive.
What has our generation come to? Blocking and unblocking each other. Hahaha its become such a norm. Unfortunately.
If they truly care about you, they’ll be honest from the jump. They’ll do anything just to be with you, remember that.
Did you love him ?
Us: Duh! Why we here then
Lets be honest it’s pretty immature to ghost her and not tell her the reason you have to cut her off in the first place. It doesn’t hurt to communicate and explain why you can’t be with someone. It’s childish unless you have a good reason for doing so.
Ghosting is fucked up but man listen no response is a RESPONSE. That’s all I need to move on with my life I’m not holding anyone back.
This is a crazy weird show
Seems fake as hell
What's Shannon's ig I'm tryna see something
Hell yeah 👌😂
@maybeshannon_
Reek Iverson you beat me to it 😂
LMAO
On god tho
I love these vids
She really blew me 🙄. I just KNEW she was gonna say ghost. He ain’t shit. She should leave him alone
The way he casually asked "uhh what's pansexual??" is EVERYTHING 😆
that eyeroll shannon did when jayday said yeeeeessssss sent me
Babygirl, noooooo. What are you doing?! 😩
Most ghosters have borderline personality or bipolar. When we experience highs we are really in love lows send us packing...fast and hard.
That makes sense… one of my friends ghosts women and happens to be bipolar, and my roommate just got ghosted by someone with BPD😮
uh, sir that's called lurking 😂
I got off the video so fast when she made up w him 🙄 he a fallen a liar n u finna let your kid around him? Hell nah bruh
Weird people. This doesnt make sense.
I'm confused first he didn't even want to talk to her and said it's been months and I moved on with my life now he's excited? This is the first time I felt that the shows fake
Rachel is gorgeous for real. Those eyes girl and Travis the grey looks good on you boo. being pan sexual is not a big deal. 💁🏽♀️ people just need to ask more questions about one’s sexuality. That’s all
I’m separated (for 3 years now!) and that’s one one of the first things I say to a guy!
Why not divorce?