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  • One thing Ghosted makes clear: people have some pretty shocking reasons for disappearing without a trace. Here are some of the most unexpected reasons ever.
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  • @missmusicality5351
    @missmusicality5351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7084

    Ended up here because I thought it was "Catfish"
    Stayed because it was interesting

  • @rae.x3654
    @rae.x3654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1931

    Soon as he said “ wait what did he tell you “ I knew he slept with her man !!!

    • @lovely.ameeeee485
      @lovely.ameeeee485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Mhm same.

    • @mtlcaramel
      @mtlcaramel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yup lol

    • @drippedtipz
      @drippedtipz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      For me it was the comments on his FB 😂. Then "what he tell you " o yea for sure 😂😂😂

    • @britgaddis
      @britgaddis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He don’t even care julia. Baby bye

    • @skyeye.
      @skyeye. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too i knew it they were bumming

  • @savannahs8914
    @savannahs8914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1190

    I am WAY MORE emotionally invested in the friend ones than the dating ones

    • @rxpunzi
      @rxpunzi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      literally samee

    • @AL_1314
      @AL_1314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yah

    • @xthe.gasping.willowx9216
      @xthe.gasping.willowx9216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @icyunvme2400
      @icyunvme2400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same but people tell me that’s weird.

    • @p1ekna.
      @p1ekna. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@xthe.gasping.willowx9216tells me you’re a healthy human being.

  • @Wandia462
    @Wandia462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    That poor girl thought it was because she didn't attend a silly party. That poor girl. So heartbroken 💔

  • @Jezabel-in-Hell
    @Jezabel-in-Hell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2913

    As soon as they interviewed this first girl's ex, I was like...oooh oooh! I know what happened!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @waitahawhat
    @waitahawhat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4067

    Devin said that Julia was using him... ummm how? Homie didn’t even have his own place 💀

    • @anjab4459
      @anjab4459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      He was just using her at that point

    • @meganmarie3517
      @meganmarie3517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +345

      that’s how narcissistic people think.

    • @her0807
      @her0807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      he’s lame and dirty

    • @hannah19adan58
      @hannah19adan58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Snm he said she left him high and dry so how did she use u?

    • @michellekay223
      @michellekay223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Classic Narcissistic Abuse. He will never take responsibility or have remorse.

  • @monicamlotshwa4531
    @monicamlotshwa4531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    Julia's ex is the villian here, he tried to destroy their bond to punish her for leaving him. This dude is a pyscopath

    • @thethrowawaythatstayed7055
      @thethrowawaythatstayed7055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      He totally wanted to see her just to be the one to “dump her”

    • @tikkiemerald8176
      @tikkiemerald8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Julia's ex can feel love and emotions.
      Psychopath: "diagnostic features such as superficial charm, high intelligence, poor judgment and failure to learn from experience, pathological egocentricity and incapacity for love, lack of remorse or shame, impulsivity, grandiose sense of self-worth, pathological lying, manipulative behavior, poor"
      He did show bad behavior and manipulated the situation. Also didn't care if it hurt them.... wow. Psychopath and Sociopath sound so similar and defined similarly. But yet so different...

    • @holibash7282
      @holibash7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Devin is a 'hobo- sexual'...he sleeps with people so that he has a place to stay...smh😑

    • @christinamccarthy6326
      @christinamccarthy6326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree

    • @nuttybuddy14
      @nuttybuddy14 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Predatory behavior

  • @catchloe_
    @catchloe_ ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I can’t imagine how heartbroken Jordan must have been sitting at that comedy show, watching the person she thought was her love using her trauma as a joke, feeling good about himself.

    • @jenniferjimenez6228
      @jenniferjimenez6228 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 you can tell her to

    • @DarknessHashira
      @DarknessHashira 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 he's an asshole that didnt respect her deep stuff. fuck him

    • @awaholswilder9271
      @awaholswilder9271 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@___xoxo___if someone confides in you in private about their personal life, and tells you you stuff they struggled with, that’s a very big trauma for you, what gives that person the right to make jokes about that? he could have asked her in the beginning, hey, is it okay to make these kinds of jokes? i agree with her, it was never his place

    • @awaholswilder9271
      @awaholswilder9271 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@___xoxo___like imagining getting to know/ dating someone, and your mom or dad dies while u are dating that person, you confide in them, heartbroken, and the next thing you know they are making jokes about it at a comedy club, would u be okay with that? it’s fucked up

  • @p0t69
    @p0t69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2019

    "he seduced me" GIRLLLLLLLLLLLL PLEAAAAAAAA

    • @istan9682
      @istan9682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I laughed at that bit and then I felt like something stabbed me in the side

    • @bahachick242
      @bahachick242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lmaooooo 😂🤣😂

    • @Freedomrings4433
      @Freedomrings4433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😫

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Ain't no body put a SPELL on yo punk ass 👈😂

    • @angelorose1337
      @angelorose1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Right!! They were together for 2 months.

  • @sam56677
    @sam56677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3533

    im sry but del's nose contour is bothering me a bit too much.

    • @erich1070
      @erich1070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Sh!t looking like a boxing glove thumb🤣

    • @curlycanna2440
      @curlycanna2440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Sanjana Vaddadi I can’t stop looking at it 👀

    • @sarahlindsay7767
      @sarahlindsay7767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Now I can't unsee it.

    • @ellaj5975
      @ellaj5975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Shocking job

    • @moeee429
      @moeee429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      He doesn’t know his shade or how to blend! Lol

  • @konige-tochteru.9295
    @konige-tochteru.9295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    Loosing a baby is so traumatic. His abandonment was just cruel

    • @dasdead
      @dasdead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      fax 📠

    • @emlucero0
      @emlucero0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She probably fell in a depression and it was too much on her and it hurt the baby 🥺🥺

  • @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior
    @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The comedian - from the first sec. his smirk.. i would RUN.. he is a typical creep!!!

  • @Benjamin-zp5ds
    @Benjamin-zp5ds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3006

    That gay guy doesn't care about their relationship, you cant throw away 15 years like that, something wrong with this.
    Edit: thank you for all the likes dam

    • @sidthekid456
      @sidthekid456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      Benjamin1669 I’m thinking maybe they were friends out of obligation and proximity bc it is def strange to ghost your friend of 15 years

    • @hollyannbrumback1104
      @hollyannbrumback1104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @Torchy Brown Dated him for 2 months also.

    • @graphic6605
      @graphic6605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@sidthekid456 maybe he just felt reallly guilty

    • @kandyperez9917
      @kandyperez9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      He was ghosting her because he slept with her ex. That's not right, but it's understandable. If I slept with my bestfriend of 15 year's ex boyfriend and baby daddy (I would never do some nasty shit like that), I would be scared to see them, too.

    • @ijustwatchsomeyoutube2186
      @ijustwatchsomeyoutube2186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carmen Lynn What?

  • @Mali-or4uu
    @Mali-or4uu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1957

    DONT APOLOGIZE FOR NOT GOING TO THE PARTY HE WAS BEING SELFISH AND NOT UNDERSTANDING

    • @jonathantorres363
      @jonathantorres363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Fr boy no one cares that you're gay 🙄

    • @asa-qz9zl
      @asa-qz9zl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Lol ikr

    • @MoNehNeh17
      @MoNehNeh17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      “here with all my real friends celebrating ME” its a difference between being the subject of the party and basically asking to be worshipped.

    • @noriii
      @noriii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jonathantorres363 what

    • @hiphiphoogray
      @hiphiphoogray 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @tori it’s his anniversary of coming out as gay not a relationship anniversary

  • @merceydezzzlosaline4572
    @merceydezzzlosaline4572 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The female host is such a good negotiator the way she got them to agree to meet up every time lmao

  • @contessaboggs4831
    @contessaboggs4831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    I felt that to my core when baby girl said, "I Still Have The Pictures, The Ultrasound Everything." Mad me ball in pain for her. As a mother and someone who lost a pregnancy I totally understand this agony. Nothing no woman should ever go through 💔😭

    • @treeve13
      @treeve13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cried that was so passionate the poor girl. Even her sister you could tell was hurt by it when the subject came up. When they brought up the baby before she came she was so hurt by that. One of the most painful things a woman can experience I am sure.

    • @pameladaneenviau3572
      @pameladaneenviau3572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had the same reaction. My husband and I recently lost our second child to a miscarriage in September of last year. It happened one week before we were supposed to have our first ultrasound. Lately, our 5 year old has been saying she wants us to have a baby.

    • @euuuughhhh7799
      @euuuughhhh7799 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i’ve never been pregnant and that still hit me. i can’t imagine the pain she was/is going through. i hope she’s healing

  • @niqueness2988
    @niqueness2988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2430

    When he said "Revenge is sweet" and Rachel hit him with " Karma's also a bitch."

    • @HooLeeYo
      @HooLeeYo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Yeh and she even gave him a stank face to let him know she wasn't playing!!! That dude is horrible. All sorts of mess going on inside of him. Yuck.

    • @Asuma492
      @Asuma492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Because this is all scripted.

    • @Giuseppe326
      @Giuseppe326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@Asuma492 You really think they scripted the last part? Either way I don’t really care. There are people like that in this world whether that one was real or not.

    • @Victoria-nu4td
      @Victoria-nu4td 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I really liked that lol

    • @TeejayeeeeMartin
      @TeejayeeeeMartin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯

  • @Xo.crysmae01
    @Xo.crysmae01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2074

    she needs to not be stressing as much as she is, being pregnant.

    • @maximillion8442
      @maximillion8442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      She was already stressed and heartbroken. She just had an opportunity to truly express it. Stress can be bad for fetuses. But healing and godfathers can be so v good.

    • @sigurdlittle465
      @sigurdlittle465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yeah but now she's going through even more emotional turmoil trying to deal with it and process it. Plus going on this show, anticipation and the outcome is really stressful. She needs to think of her baby or babies. Everything in the world can wait if it can wait until after the baby is born.

    • @Im_alivexx
      @Im_alivexx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It killed me when she said she still had the pictures

    • @marlea1988
      @marlea1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hormones. It makes sense. I have 3 kids, 5 pregnancies.

    • @sweetathegreat
      @sweetathegreat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I guess she needed somebody and for her friend she was ready to go through all that

  • @supergirltalz
    @supergirltalz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    My heart absolutely broke for Destiny, she is so strong and shows incredible maturity for forgiving Russell. And Russell's struggle of finding himself is also very real and heart-breaking, it isn't easy not knowing who you are. I feel for both of them and I hope they're both much happier now despite going their own ways at the end of the day

  • @ZeeLicious1996
    @ZeeLicious1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    My best friend of 6 years ghosted me for 5 years and just messaged me to be my friend again out of the blue 3 days ago like nothing ever happened. She told me she was jealous of my family and her family was manipulating her to hate my family... girl bye. I done 5 years without you.. i got married last year and I’m moving on with my life.

    • @sambanks9670
      @sambanks9670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      PERIODTTT

    • @dbzjr1080
      @dbzjr1080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @imafamilyguyfamilyguy7890
      @imafamilyguyfamilyguy7890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Peridot pooh, my best friend was having sex talk with my bf and I confronted her but she got upset about me reading her messages. We are stills friends but on a level. No one really knows y we aren’t best friend anymore

    • @Beth676
      @Beth676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Burn 🥴🥴😂👏🏾

    • @MarvelousMarrah
      @MarvelousMarrah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@imafamilyguyfamilyguy7890 girl why are you even putting up with that, now Everytime you have a new man you gotta wondee

  • @elsalulya2149
    @elsalulya2149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4702

    Y’all imagine getting ghosted by someone you considered family.

    • @hamsoka5571
      @hamsoka5571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      My best friend of 9 years recently ghosted me. I dont know why

    • @JAJ0101
      @JAJ0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      My sister & my brother...left the family and we’ve been strangers ever since

    • @freaxfilm
      @freaxfilm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      It happened to me aswell . After 8 years

    • @curlycanna2440
      @curlycanna2440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Elsa Lulya it’s heartbreaking, it happened to me. She was my best friend for 12 years, she ghosted me for 3 years. When she did call me, she was months away from passing. She was diagnosed with liver and lung cancer. I’m glad I had the remaining time with her.

    • @aworte3266
      @aworte3266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I "ghosted" my dad and brother. I've told them they're arrogant and treat me like shit for years. Then I got tired and stopped talking to them

  • @justinnegron4843
    @justinnegron4843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2008

    This dude playing victim after ghosting his pregnant girlfriend that he cheated on with another guy? He is not a good person

    • @Altanicorn
      @Altanicorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I dont think devin is the father of julias baby. They broke up 7months ago, and shes 6 months preg

    • @ted6607
      @ted6607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      _Unicornicorn uhhhh they’re talking about the two people at 46:55. Obviously 🙄

    • @Altanicorn
      @Altanicorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@ted6607 oops, hadnt finished watching the video at that point. My bad

    • @alchi7533
      @alchi7533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I don’t think he was trying to play victim, I think he just really wanted to be there for the baby and right his wrongs.

    • @sherylbutler9999
      @sherylbutler9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Is he the baby daddy?

  • @shelbychris3
    @shelbychris3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    That miscarriage episode destroyed me 😭😭😭

    • @iAmGratchet_
      @iAmGratchet_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honey listen! Had me tearing up 😖

  • @ashleytavarezz
    @ashleytavarezz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Delmond as a real friend almost family all he had to do was confront and speak to Julia instead of listening to a manipulative person like Devin. That poor woman was going through so much. Julia sending you love 💕

  • @fal5174
    @fal5174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1495

    “You could’ve told me not to say those jokes” bro she didn’t even know about the standup to begin with???

    • @lharris4791
      @lharris4791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Looked like an idiot.. Probably was his first time too

    • @RachelDoesntknow
      @RachelDoesntknow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Right like he hid it. He genuinely can't comprehend that the things you do are an indicator of who you are, and of your character. Then he's insulted that it's the reason she ghosted him like how dare she 👿 he just wanted the final word I swear he wanted to be the one to dump her bc he felt emasculated

    • @JeanneBook
      @JeanneBook 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@RachelDoesntknow he has that vibe honestly, the whole time i was just like. The problem is him probably.

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      He's saying she could have communicated, anyone who ghosts anyone is a coward. Who tf cares anyway he's a comedian, that's what they do make fun of any and everyone lol. Get over it

    • @Sergeespaillat
      @Sergeespaillat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@Ashley-og9ti Negative miss. They say comedy is time + tragedy, my boy just a prepubescent all around. Moron got the timing all wrong and fucked up.

  • @TaylorJaneK
    @TaylorJaneK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1889

    Never make jokes about someone's trauma. Gross

    • @lavisdizzi3903
      @lavisdizzi3903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I know omg.

    • @mousey2501
      @mousey2501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      You’re right.

    • @ThayGPrieto
      @ThayGPrieto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      And then playing it as "aah, U should have told me :(", like she should teach a grown man to respect
      Pathetic

    • @tragiciankilljoy
      @tragiciankilljoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      It’s different when you’re making jokes about your own trauma. This is bullying but he’s too cowardice to do it in front of her

    • @MusaKitty
      @MusaKitty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      He didnt tho. He made a joke about her calling him daddy and he didnt know if he was ready for it. She took it to mean something else. Like us women do is twist shit.

  • @teapotlizard
    @teapotlizard ปีที่แล้ว +54

    russell and destiney's story absolutely broke my heart. she clearly tried to remain very stoic but when she broke down, saying she still had the ultrasound pictures and everything, it was pure pain. and russell, even though what he did was terribly wrong, when he brought the baby a gift not knowing what had happened and saying "we have a baby now", i just felt like crying bc i'd seen the comments and knew destiney had a miscarriage. so terribly sad 💔

  • @lipsohlips97
    @lipsohlips97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Its really inappropriate to joke about someone personal to you without asking their permission as a comedian. He was in the wrong. He is clearly a noob in relationships and a dude lol

  • @harluquis1229
    @harluquis1229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2384

    This is soooo fake but i still watched all 59 minutes of it 😩🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

    • @twanation2162
      @twanation2162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

      It’s the ‘Rona, we ain’t got nothing else to do 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @janiahg5779
      @janiahg5779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      TWANation for real🤣🤷🏾‍♀️‼️

    • @creamekay
      @creamekay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Don’t say that omg 😱 me too 🤣🤣😂🤣

    • @dustinlopera655
      @dustinlopera655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’m eating this all up 😭😭

    • @lillith77
      @lillith77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true

  • @joejonava4341
    @joejonava4341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    That miscarriage one hit hard man..

    • @katelynrenaeoyler7572
      @katelynrenaeoyler7572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I cried. I know how hard it is to have one as well as to lose a child (still born) and the fact that she had to go through it alone is heartbreaking. Even if the others are scripted, that one just seemed too real. Especially with their reactions.

    • @KillSickJoyride
      @KillSickJoyride 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@katelynrenaeoyler7572 I'm so sorry you've experienced that. I have experienced a miscarriage as well, I find it difficult to imagine a woman making something like that up. wouldn't be the first time, unfortunately, but still.

    • @BluBarbie95
      @BluBarbie95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I cried and people in the comments talking about it's fake nawl I felt that

    • @Xx_8s595a_xX
      @Xx_8s595a_xX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I cried too

    • @thiccbumblebee9694
      @thiccbumblebee9694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I felt so bad for the guy trying to do right and finding out that the baby is no longer. Like I saw the hurt in both of them.

  • @Verbatim.
    @Verbatim. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Ghosting a woman after finding out she’s pregnant. Didn’t think men still did that.

    • @Fareeda212
      @Fareeda212 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s the LOWEST of the LOW

  • @adakins_6463
    @adakins_6463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    When she mentioned the miscarriage, it always makes me cry
    I wish I could hug her 😢

  • @Nina-ox6ro
    @Nina-ox6ro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1660

    This is literally the Fisher Price version of Catfish lmao

  • @joan0922
    @joan0922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    Julia is 6 months pregnant. She didn't need to be going through that right now but I guess she needed closure.

    • @dinxey4789
      @dinxey4789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Frl i cant beleive she really went with all that drama at that time

  • @eileenmatos5792
    @eileenmatos5792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I totally agree with the second girl. Having daddy issues is not funny. Abandonment is real and it messes up with your life forever. My dad also abandoned me and my 6 siblings when I was 4 years old. It did caused damaged in my marriage but I never knew that was the reason why until I went to marriage counseling. Don't joke about other's painful feelings and experiences.

    • @prettyperfectpagne6226
      @prettyperfectpagne6226 ปีที่แล้ว

      @🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 why she call him daddy if she so sensitive bout it

  • @tijuanahendricks1911
    @tijuanahendricks1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Oh wow Julia's ex manipulated them both to get back at her. I'm glad they're friends again..

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1703

    This show exposes how messed up people can be lol

    • @Makingmoney4u
      @Makingmoney4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yuck this guy's a nut. I can't stand the over feminine thing he's trying to do. I don't know how she could stand to be around him that's him

    • @Makingmoney4u
      @Makingmoney4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😇

    • @rinelenny4946
      @rinelenny4946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Makingmoney4u homophobia is sooo 1960s dude

    • @Makingmoney4u
      @Makingmoney4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rinelenny4946 I'm not homophobic for your information. Actually homophobia is really irrelevant and a lot of people do suffer with homophobia. I just have a pet peeve when a guy that is gay just acts like that sorry. Some of these guys just have the most snotty feminine attitude. Sorry bro👣👣

    • @rinelenny4946
      @rinelenny4946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Makingmoney4u you....just described homophobia....

  • @happyhali
    @happyhali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3266

    I like the idea of this show and but there’s something about it off for me

    • @temperino
      @temperino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +418

      Acting 😂😂😂

    • @JJ-94
      @JJ-94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +617

      I think it's trying way too hard to be catfish. I feel the same way I can watch it for a little bit but then it just gets more and more unpredictable as it goes on

    • @JaredHarris-lw5bj
      @JaredHarris-lw5bj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Same

    • @lamimijae
      @lamimijae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Yeah way too scripted.

    • @h222ley
      @h222ley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      the hosts seem a bit off to me too

  • @donsolo7860
    @donsolo7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    We used to call this show “it’s not my place to talk about it” because every episode could be 3mins if the friends were the least bit helpful.

  • @emilym3791
    @emilym3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Destiney , girl your strength is something I have never seen before. I seriously am wishing you the best in life because you deserve it!

  • @KingVarTV
    @KingVarTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1981

    My heart feels so heavy for the girl with the 15yr friendship with the dude who slept with her boyfriend

    • @4ngel514
      @4ngel514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Fr. I was actually tearing up watching it

    • @spreadthevegemite8064
      @spreadthevegemite8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      That is messed up, i teared up

    • @donotsupportterroristgroups
      @donotsupportterroristgroups 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Julia is one of those unfortunate women who does not have a gaydar. Her ex Dev is not straight, it was very obvious during his interview.

    • @Nora-sw6uh
      @Nora-sw6uh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I love her. When she said: "How could you... chose him over me" to her gay friend ❤️ She showed how much their friendship really meant to her. She wasn't hurt about her ex actions or about her friend having a relationship after with her ex. She was hurt after so many years her friend chosed to believe to a trash like her ex and leave her behind 💔

    • @drivingwithjaz
      @drivingwithjaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank You because I didn’t have one hour to watch!

  • @LoLuvLo
    @LoLuvLo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    I'm sorry but the first story you dont just do that to your REAL friends period

  • @hgiles7280
    @hgiles7280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It seemed like the hosts accepted that guy’s excuse for skipping out on his child. Being gay is not an excuse not to love and support your child.

  • @kikirich
    @kikirich 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    When someone ghost you let them stay dead

  • @kyrstenlindblad8432
    @kyrstenlindblad8432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1389

    Bro when she said she had a miscarriage and he just hugged her. Bro. I’m balling my eyes out.

    • @haleighdriggers8144
      @haleighdriggers8144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too!!😔

    • @val3sha
      @val3sha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Hurt people hurt people. And broken people steal pieces of other people to fix themselves

    • @sarahmyers60
      @sarahmyers60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same dude 😭😭

    • @user-bw6ml1kk7l
      @user-bw6ml1kk7l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here

    • @mauropereira187
      @mauropereira187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I feel like they shouldn’t have added that sad music, if they let the scene go out without music, it would’ve been a bit more affective on the emotion.

  • @charliii7053
    @charliii7053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +974

    i clicked on this too fast i thought this was catfish 😂🤭

  • @ladylecter636
    @ladylecter636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Good god that situation with destiny is horrendous. He wasn’t ready to be a dad...okay but it takes two to create a baby and he just dropped his responsibility and left her to it. Sexuality issues or not, you don’t just ditch your unborn child.

  • @emlucero0
    @emlucero0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The fact that Brittney claims to be her “best friend” but sent pictures AND still talked to him, regardless if she wasn’t dealing with greg he’s always gonna be apart of her life because he’s her baby’s father she was WRONG and I wouldn’t trust her to be around me after that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @shayla7930
    @shayla7930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1650

    bruh the comedian guy really did not deserve her i genuinely feel really bad for her

    • @cookiemonster1669
      @cookiemonster1669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I really want to slap him. When he said "I thought we had open communication" and got cheesed she didn't explain why she wanted to leave... Like dude do you not smell your own shit??? What an ass hole. Dumbass is going to give her shit for not telling him why she's leaving yet he's totally okay to expose her life , things she trusted him with & their sex life? What a trash human, truly.

    • @josiahwilliams3552
      @josiahwilliams3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I don't. He never said her name. She already knew he was a comedian. When it comes to comedy nothing is off limits. I will admit that talking about that stuff is mean but comedy is meant to make bad situations funny so people can laugh at there problems rather than dwelling on them and be depressed. My dad left me also but If somebody made a joke about it I would probably laugh. I had a girlfriend who was funny she made jokes about our sex I laughed. It's not meant to be a dick😂😂😂lol

    • @twoguyskissingpng
      @twoguyskissingpng 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      you can just tell what a creep that dude is, idk how she managed to stomach dating that creature lmao

    • @gardenfairybabe
      @gardenfairybabe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      He literally said nothing actually offensive. The “call me daddy” thing has been going on for years. He was trying be funny and newsflash, a lot of other men respond well to that kind of humor. She’s a child for not just bringing it up to him. What adult ghosts someone after 6 months of dating?

    • @Ririkrd
      @Ririkrd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@josiahwilliams3552 does she makes jokes about your personal family problems in front of a lot people?the daddy joke is not good.talking about those peoblems hurt its not something you can think about it in a funny way and make jokes when its not about you

  • @Diana734
    @Diana734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +844

    Devon is a user. Delmond and Julia got played by him.

    • @princessmimi9693
      @princessmimi9693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Glad they friends again

    • @Proutprutproutprout
      @Proutprutproutprout 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smells like it.

    • @GuerrillaNationTV
      @GuerrillaNationTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nah everyone was telling the truth about each other and they made devon the bad guy

    • @RachelDoesntknow
      @RachelDoesntknow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Classic abusers utilize isolation. Devon split up Delmond from Julia, his anchor. Devon slips in to fill the emotional gap that HE CREATED for Delmond. Devon cries to that Julia hurt him, meaning it looks like Devon is the vulnerable one, not the manipulative one. Delmond feels that emotional gap and of course clings to the Devon because they are both seemingly hurt by the same person. Devon takes advantage of how intensely intimate that experience is, inching it towards an even more intimate (romantic) relationship.
      Delmond is so ashamed that he can't face her and thinks so much time has passed that surely she's better off without him.

  • @briannamarangiello2040
    @briannamarangiello2040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    how did no one in editing catch at 33:30 when the narrator starts too early and corrects himself?? they fully left in the mistake LMAO

  • @tlangi8983
    @tlangi8983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    "I decided to ghost giovanna "
    "Why"
    "Cos i already did that 8 months ago"
    👁👄👁

  • @BlueBabyAkaAj
    @BlueBabyAkaAj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1242

    This is the darkest thing I ever seen! Its hilarious. "Call him, call him".
    " I cant call him"
    "Why cant you call him?" "Cause his in jail"
    "Oh" 👁🐽👁

    • @Chelsea-ws7bi
      @Chelsea-ws7bi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is fake

    • @isabelhamann4412
      @isabelhamann4412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      the drama bro got me : 👁️👄👁️

    • @lexussykes
      @lexussykes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There are always instigators to every drama scenario...

    • @aleafe5069
      @aleafe5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @thiqlykepoundcake
      @thiqlykepoundcake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂😂 its the pig nose for me 🤣

  • @loveleighladey7945
    @loveleighladey7945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    I don't like the black & white reunion effect

    • @christinazito7438
      @christinazito7438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Loveigh Ladey makes them look like shit lmaoooo

    • @tylernichols2187
      @tylernichols2187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ik I hate it to 🙄

    • @Jacqueline888
      @Jacqueline888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      they had to do that to make the gay dudes contour blend 😂

    • @charliemarchione3297
      @charliemarchione3297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Jacqueline888 LMFAOOOOOOOOOAOAOOOAOAOOAAOAAOOO

    • @lucymueni2254
      @lucymueni2254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ya reminds me of the bad ass kiddsss on Maury in the confessional

  • @BR.1991
    @BR.1991 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It kills me that they call the ghosted person "the haunted " 💀💀🤣

  • @euphoricallygemini4969
    @euphoricallygemini4969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The Donte 'what did you decide?' And he said 'Ghost because I already did it eight months ago,' Then Rachels response had me weak. LMAO

  • @juxtaboo
    @juxtaboo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    "We can arrange a safe space..."
    20 cast and crew in the studio 👁 👄 👁

    • @lindsey5659
      @lindsey5659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Lmfao that emoji face always kills me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ashes2Ashes_Blush2Blush
      @Ashes2Ashes_Blush2Blush 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣

    • @loveandlight_
      @loveandlight_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @britgaddis
      @britgaddis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @nuclearichloader1179
      @nuclearichloader1179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i mean safe spaces as they are used now are largely detrimental to human psychological development anyway , these people werent being openly judgemental and they must have felt that enough to come clean about themselves

  • @clarkkent1521
    @clarkkent1521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    First guy: I called it. I knew the ex bf was gay the moment I saw when they met up with him. Man, I watch too many of these shows.

    • @marietanner7538
      @marietanner7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the same thing! I was getting gay vibes the minute I saw him

    • @malorybazillion2799
      @malorybazillion2799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh from the moment I heard about Devin I was like yup. They slept together

    • @Hannah-zw9ow
      @Hannah-zw9ow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He easily could’ve been bisexual, it’s not just gay or straight.

    • @maurreese
      @maurreese 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely bisexual or pansexual but definitely a manipulator.

  • @destinyrenee5739
    @destinyrenee5739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That last dude, I can relate a little. I had an ex like that and it was soooo annoying to the point where I would act sleep. I used to wake up to him staring at me touching himself. I was not here for it at all.

  • @veehill4769
    @veehill4769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Rachel and Travis are the cutest hosts ever. The facial expressions of both throughout the show are priceless.

  • @simmona_342
    @simmona_342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    The one with the miscarriage i literally BALLED MY EYES OUT 🥺😪😭

    • @magickmiiror2853
      @magickmiiror2853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I literally just got to that part, I'm crying right before I gotta head to work 😭

    • @kokoririg
      @kokoririg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bawled

    • @survivingstudent7062
      @survivingstudent7062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The baby clothes and her ghosting him again is just so tragic

    • @jannahportiz8146
      @jannahportiz8146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I cried sooo much...I feel so weak watching that

    • @lydiao5039
      @lydiao5039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Someone stop cutting the onions that one hurt me so bad😭😭

  • @annamarieisms
    @annamarieisms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    Wait wait - so the last one, this man really ghosted her instead of just talking to her like a human being and then had the nerve to say she was immature?? 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @zataishasims9732
      @zataishasims9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right 💯

    • @dissonantdreams
      @dissonantdreams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      When he called *her* immature I almost choked on my drink! Delusional mate, just delusional 🙄

    • @missb198
      @missb198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so surprised she didnt hit him w. The fact that he ghosted her after calling her immature like girl! You better tellimm!

    • @jessica8471
      @jessica8471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He definitely looks like a jerk, but she does seem pretty irrational

    • @kaylove5622
      @kaylove5622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I HIGHLY doubt it's because she's a "sex addict"..... he must've lost interest/love for her or found another "more attractive" girl or something that he doesn't wanna admit because he didn't wanna seem like hes the asshole. So instead made her seem "low". It's like... idk I don't believe that guy... I'm on the girl side for this one 🙄

  • @khazanys
    @khazanys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Britney is a possessive friend...you should give friends freedom to have other friends, that's ridiculous.

  • @anonymousonly4934
    @anonymousonly4934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    This is what happens when you give a balding-struggling-stand up-virgin comedian a chance! Gurll, I'm proud of you. I would have taken him on blast on that very show. You were so patient to hold all that for so long!!
    The audacity of this man- I-

  • @tar4604
    @tar4604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    "Because he's in jail..." "Oooohhh... ._." LMAO. same reaction sis. whelp..

    • @naia1362
      @naia1362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmaooo

    • @asnalem4391
      @asnalem4391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @It's Mrs. Bossy Trick You're missing that Shay didn't know Brittney wasn't aware that she wanted to be serious with Greg, she felt betrayed and assumed her friend explicitly chose to go for the guy that was with her best friend, plus she was more emotionally vulnerable because she was pregnant at the time. Yes, it would've been better to talk it out with her before just deciding to ghost her but she isn't perfect, her friend also had the flaw that she didn't want her to be friends with other people and they are happy now so I'm pretty confident not making up would have been a mistake.

    • @carytreasure
      @carytreasure 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like oooooooo awkward ctfu

  • @NgoziGrace
    @NgoziGrace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    I'm thankful no one has called me to be on this show...they know why I ghosted them lol.

    • @lalnunpuii200
      @lalnunpuii200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ngozi-Grace word... 😂😂😂 same sis

    • @wtfvenusss
      @wtfvenusss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      right, as they should !

    • @WestIndianAK
      @WestIndianAK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      No, they probably *DON'T* know why you ghosted them. That's actually kind of part of the definition of ghosting. If they'd known why you cut them off, it wouldn't have counted as ghosting.
      If you really had a good reason for cutting those people off, you shouldn't have had any problem communicating that to them-even from a distance, e.g. online or via text message (followed immediately by blocking, if necessary, so you wouldn't have to deal with their reaction).

    • @Lillpixeychic
      @Lillpixeychic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Akil Alleyne 100% this! This is why I have no more drama! I just say whatever is wrong and be done

    • @amelialouisa8541
      @amelialouisa8541 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @minjinx05
    @minjinx05 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Devin was deflecting for the fact that he, ahem, was in the closet with Delmond. They both made Julia seem devious because they were being devious…with each other 🤢

  • @Andoron
    @Andoron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Dante : “the maturity level is just not there girl...”
    Also Dante: I better ghost my girlfriend and never tell her my problems because that’s easier.
    Also Dante 2: she is a sex addict and I don’t want that and I better not tell her about it.

    • @52hello25
      @52hello25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's not even a sex addict, he just has a low libido. It was so fucking immature for him to label her with an actual psychological illness when he just didn't feel they had matching sex drives. What a chode.

  • @kelligracehernandez8777
    @kelligracehernandez8777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    Dante: “our maturity level is just very different.”
    Boy you ghosted you’re girl because it was easier than talking!

    • @ammcd2012
      @ammcd2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Giovanni is a beautiful confident young woman who is comfortable with her sexuality. He obviously couldn't measure up and fakes a trip to the other side of the country instead of being a man. . .Dante is very small minded, if you catch my drift.

    • @uglygeguri
      @uglygeguri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@jonathanclarke5763 bruh the fact that she was so surprised shows he didn't express to her it was an issue; he said her high sex drive was the reason for the ghosting so i bet he never spoke to her about it. If they had talked it out like adults she could've been ok with that

    • @moistapple
      @moistapple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jonathanclarke5763 yea i felt i could relate to him even though im a girl because in that situation i would feel the same way

    • @niketalemoth6674
      @niketalemoth6674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He was right. She is way more mature

    • @niketalemoth6674
      @niketalemoth6674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jonathanclarke5763 that isn't the issue. Be mature and say it instead of ghosting and putting the sole blame on the other person.

  • @keyysoslim1342
    @keyysoslim1342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Devin was mad because she didn’t want to take care of him

    • @carboy101
      @carboy101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That guy is a douchebag. I wouldn't be friends with him.

    • @TheMillsRevival
      @TheMillsRevival 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      fUN FACT: Devin, now has a new baby mama and works at Home Depot.

    • @tysonrogers1419
      @tysonrogers1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicole Mills whats the social media for devin?

  • @Osis101
    @Osis101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Shay: Can you guys be there when we talk? Because I don’t want to talk to her by alone
    Female hostess: *salivates in reality TV*

  • @Ania-cd2sh
    @Ania-cd2sh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was rooting for the first two, I cried like a baby for her when she cried talking to Dell and said how much she missed him. So glad they didn’t let that dirtbag break up their friendship ❤

  • @3tents93
    @3tents93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    What’s the purpose of sending a final text in front of each other??? This is so silly 😆

    • @iamsincerelyjas
      @iamsincerelyjas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right lol

    • @Magiaimelissa
      @Magiaimelissa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Idk but im guessing its so they dont change their answer after they hear the others decision? idrk

    • @3tents93
      @3tents93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Magia i melissa 🤔Maybe when it’s gets to that part they should both be in two rooms with their own exits and separated by one door in the middle

    • @smithcampbellpowers4674
      @smithcampbellpowers4674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      they need that final commercial break...

    • @QueenRed2023
      @QueenRed2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

  • @Darcy000
    @Darcy000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    "he didn't say anything else?" was the moment I knew he slept with her man

    • @CosmicSoul333
      @CosmicSoul333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The moment I knew was when he was commenting on his post online lol.

  • @vvvvvalentine
    @vvvvvalentine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This Giovanna and Dante thing was tooooooo funny 😂 I bet there are 1,000's of guys looking for her @ now 😂

  • @TheWittFactor
    @TheWittFactor ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I knew it the moment Destiny tried to change the topic when they originally talked to her. My heart ACHES for her.

  • @mrseddiealva7897
    @mrseddiealva7897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I can’t believe the first dude so superficial only cares about his own needs and feelings. Girl you don’t need that type of energy in your life. He will hurt you again girl

  • @pixiepie3774
    @pixiepie3774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +866

    The first guy didn't shed one tear about his friend. You can tell he means more to her than she does to him x

    • @hazelrajiah3474
      @hazelrajiah3474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so sorry about this 😢. Hope you are doing okay

    • @demonadonia1490
      @demonadonia1490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      lol he doesnt need to cry to show that he cares for her....

    • @Ana-fm7ik
      @Ana-fm7ik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      There’s nothing wrong with that lol most of the people don’t like to show tears because they feel vulnerable and weak

    • @Hannah-zw9ow
      @Hannah-zw9ow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      People handle things differently. The idea that everyone should be the same level of upset has literally gotten mothers falsely accused and convicted of killing their children, it’s a shitty way to judge how someone actually feels. Some people don’t cry until they walk away, some people don’t cry at all. It doesn’t mean anything.

    • @johzeydanler4898
      @johzeydanler4898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I don't think he can shed a tear after all the plastic surgery. 😀😀😀

  • @Charcoalcrackbaby
    @Charcoalcrackbaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bruh Dell and Julia got a whole riverdale script going on

  • @TheBaileyandashlyn
    @TheBaileyandashlyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I dont know how I feel about this whole texting ghost or makeup. People have complex emotions and I dont think having them to make a choice right then and there is a good idea. Someone is gonna make a choice they regret after sleeping on it. I mean, have the text thing if you want, but do it after letting them sleep on it. Not right then and there.

  • @nurache
    @nurache 4 ปีที่แล้ว +836

    If you ghosted me you aren’t a friend and never will be. That’s my mindset in 2020. I’ve given so called friends second chances after ghosting me and found out they were all users. Fair weather friends...

    • @bethanywilhelm4451
      @bethanywilhelm4451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes, same here. I'm such a forgiving person. The year before last my best friend whose birthday is on May 13th never told me happy Birthday, which was on may 10. I excused her behavior as being busy with her 2 kids. This year it happened again. I even text her the night before my birthday and no response. Well, among other thing's I will truly "ghost" her. I hope you get the same courage to not let people mistreat you. You should be with friends that bring out the best of you and who make you happy.♥️😊

    • @laurajeckelshmeckel5174
      @laurajeckelshmeckel5174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You invest to much in ppl. Enjoy life, it's very short.

    • @jamaican1876
      @jamaican1876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here! That includes family members too!

    • @jamaican1876
      @jamaican1876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bethanywilhelm4451 omg my birthday is May 10th! I'm the same, I will give chances but when I'm done..... I'm done.......

    • @nakitaheartsu9746
      @nakitaheartsu9746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      When God removes someone from your life, let them stay gone.

  • @abanks7675
    @abanks7675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    Why would you send a picture of yourself in a bra to a man your "best friend" been involved with

    • @danngspeed1732
      @danngspeed1732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Martine Davis dude she knew she was pregnant with his baby! I don't care if they were together or not you don't mess around with your supposed best friend's baby daddy come on now

    • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
      @ScribblebytesWorldwide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cos you're trifling.

    • @danirae8996
      @danirae8996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      IDC if she was currently with the guy or not. Any guy your "best friend" has been with is OFF LIMITS. Girl code. I could never trust her again. She says it was just pics but she was sneaky about that so how does the other girl truly know that nothing happened? I wouldn't believe it.

  • @nikkiharvey9261
    @nikkiharvey9261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Julia and Dell brought tears to my eyes

  • @MsEmDoubleYou
    @MsEmDoubleYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mans chose 'ghost' purely because he knew she was going to ghost him and he didn't want to look like he was taking an L. People that regularly have sex don't feel the need to disclose that information to a group of strangers for some cheap laughs.

  • @rosevyyy7836
    @rosevyyy7836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1044

    Use me as "I'm here because of quarantine" button

  • @anikabutler8945
    @anikabutler8945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    Maybe I’m alone in this but the first one felt real to me 😭 I was so sad for Julia!

    • @murjanipeterson9825
      @murjanipeterson9825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You’re not alone on this one sis 😔

    • @EmpressKima
      @EmpressKima 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      People really ghost because they are deceptive

    • @gamingaccount1353
      @gamingaccount1353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I burst out in tears

    • @laila8163
      @laila8163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Have you seen the one with the women who was ghosted by the father of her child when he found out she was pregnant? I've never wanted to punch anyone more than that

    • @softpinksativa3606
      @softpinksativa3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      felt real to me too

  • @nekopunch9081
    @nekopunch9081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As someone who was ghosted by my “best friend” years ago, it hurts so bad to have someone be such a huge part of your life be gone just like that. I wish she talked to me and gave me a chance to fix what’s wrong. Instead she made passive aggressive posts on social media and then blocked me. I reached out a few times but didn’t beg. She had history of ghosting other people while I was friends with her so I figured I was next on the list, she cut everyone out one by one. I really wish we had talked it out. I love her to this day and her absence is felt everyday, I just wish she talked to me.

    • @rebekahoj
      @rebekahoj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry about that babe❤️

    • @washingtonshunte
      @washingtonshunte หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too it hurts but I won't beg anyone to express their issues

  • @kaelajohns8455
    @kaelajohns8455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My lord the way she didn’t want to be seen, didn’t want to be seen, and just curled up shattered me. I don’t have family so finding myself pregnant and recently out of a super abusive relationship- without my best friend?? She will be the most amazing mother and I wish her so much peace and prosperity!! A heart that beautiful will find true and deserving friends☺️

  • @mardcon2002
    @mardcon2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    Russell and Destiny. My heart just aches for them. Destiny went through a life changing event without the one person that should have been there. She has shown maturity and grace by forgiving Russell.

    • @heartlessoni13
      @heartlessoni13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @F A the reactions sure are real. Destiny was really crying, you can tell because one of her eye lashes were coming off because of her tears.
      Then the female host, her lip muscles were pressing downwards when Destiny was crying after revealing she had a miscarriage. The host was trying really hard not to lose her composure, but failed.
      Even I cried because of how genuinely traumatized the miscarriage left Destiny. Maybe its a feeling we as women feel. I am not even a mother, but I can only imagine carrying a life for a few months to then lose it. The most painful thing is, she probably lost it due to the stress of Russell ghosting her all the sudden.
      Not against Russell, his side of the story is also very painful.
      Its just a very sad outcome for these two.

    • @moncerat305
      @moncerat305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was crying, I get him but my heart hurts for her

    • @rlrealy8134
      @rlrealy8134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah that was so big of her

    • @Ass_of_Amalek
      @Ass_of_Amalek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      he didn't own up to what he did properly. he repeatedly claimed that he thought it was good for the future kid for him to not be there. he said he didn't want the kid to not have a dad to be proud of... but how is the dad leaving as soon as he hears of the pregnancy supposed to help with that? he left because he was scared of the responsibility like everybody else who is about to become a parent, and he didn't own up to that. it wasn't about the kid's future, and him being gay was secondary. primarily he didn't want to be a parent.

    • @gianna526
      @gianna526 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Russel was even worse than Ross. He lied to his boyfriend, got his girlfriend pregnant when he was pretty sure he was gay, he didn't even explain or properly break up with her, said that he didn't want his kid to be ashamed of him even though supporting his girlfriend even if he isn't attracted to her is much more admirable than just leaving. He's such a horrible person, but Destiny was so mature to forgive him. Ok, now that I finished that entire portion it does seem like he's genuinely sorry for being so selfish. He did seem to feel bad for what he did, which is good. Hopefully he's continuing to improve himself. Poor Destiny though, what a horrible horrible thing to do through. Getting ghosted by her boyfriend and then losing her baby, ugh I hope she's doing ok.

  • @l0vechas
    @l0vechas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1043

    to chase down someone that ghosts you is weird behavior. i know we all want closure. but chill out. imma keep watching though.

  • @mrznesha318
    @mrznesha318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I was ghosted by my best friend late last year and I honestly don’t know why ! I reached out to him multiple times asking what happened and no response... I still even have his location on my phone via iMessage, but I did make it clear as well I’m not going to beg for someone that isn’t giving me anything to work with . I left it there and it is what it is Life Lesson ! I’m not the only close friend that he’s ghosted in the last few years so essentially I feel until we have an idea of what the issues are, he’s the problem

  • @canisha-anncalloway6997
    @canisha-anncalloway6997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The comedian one was ridiculous lmao 😂😂

  • @tempestatiseye
    @tempestatiseye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +950

    Ross was too immature for Jordan. He said I'm going to use this to get the girls I really want.....jokes are jokes but when you are feeling a girl enough to say she's the one you don't joke about her pain.

    • @mochi.m
      @mochi.m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      It's Mrs. Bossy Trick - There is literal video evidence-and the reason why she has those daddy issues is because she doesn’t have a dad. Yeah, it’s a joke, but that’s disrespectful that he’s joking about his girlfriend’s issues.

    • @JacksonBegleymusicguy
      @JacksonBegleymusicguy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      That matter could have been resolved in person. It's even more immature to disappear without any explanation. Despite what some people may think, closure is a right, and not giving it is an inexcusable act of cruelty. They are both shitty people.

    • @tempestatiseye
      @tempestatiseye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@JacksonBegleymusicguy Ah you're probably right. I'm sure both sides could use a little work and alot of healing.

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      A comedian jokes about any and everyone, even they damn selves LMAO. No one is safe. Regardless, if she was butt hurt about it she could have easily communicated that to him smh

    • @psychodollcorpsex7973
      @psychodollcorpsex7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@Ashley-og9tiAnd he could have communicated that he was going to take a private issue that not many people knew about it, and that he planned on not only making it public, but also taking the piss out of something that caused her great trauma and distress.

  • @cadavher
    @cadavher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    Part of me thinks this is fake but then again people really are this petty lmao. I think the stories are real and that they just have them follow a script when they finally meet. So that it's not messy. Like person 1 speaks, then person 2 kind of deal

    • @lharris4791
      @lharris4791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This comment makes alot of sense..... Need more likes. I was really enjoying the show untill I started reading comments stating that it's fake.

  • @fatimasg1
    @fatimasg1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “I said yeahhh I’m your daddy” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @HellfireHeather
    @HellfireHeather 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was really good ❤️❤️❤️ shortened PERFECTLY. Not TOO short that you only get an issue and reaction but short enough that basically the important stuff was left so I really got a good sense of the situation.

  • @lilanthony21O_
    @lilanthony21O_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I would already be scared if someone was ghosting me.

    • @Hunterese123
      @Hunterese123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It's happened to me, but I learned to move on, it's tough, but, there's other fish in the sea

  • @amccullon9952
    @amccullon9952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    The last one got me! How can he say she is immature but you ghosted her for being passionate about you. Not talking about issues seems more childish to me.

    • @JJ-94
      @JJ-94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Someone who has a lot of insecurities

    • @morningstar4873
      @morningstar4873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      He talked about a specific occasion on the beach when she pulled his pants down, implying he didn't like it. No one is obligated to tolerate sexual harassment just cuz their partner is "passionate" about them. Wtf? You just don't do that to someone. He is a person, not a sex doll.

    • @sorrynotsorryforbeingbias318
      @sorrynotsorryforbeingbias318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Scientifically women mature faster and it really showed

    • @no_one2197
      @no_one2197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@morningstar4873 Agreed, at first I thought he was being immature cause I didn't catch it at first when he said it but her behaviour is not acceptable at all. Still, I think he should've talked to her about it instead of just ghosting her.

    • @morningstar4873
      @morningstar4873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@no_one2197 if I was sexually harassed like that I wouldnt bother talking to my bf. I wouldnt talk to him again.
      The thing is, he didnt show his emotions (cuz men are taught to put on a brave face) but he talked about a specific occasion - he didnt delve into it because he was immediately shut down and knew that no one would listen. But you dont know whether he felt violated or not. I know I would.

  • @timourkhadashev8697
    @timourkhadashev8697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Britney and Shay are sooo gorgeous ! ❤️

  • @keniguillen1520
    @keniguillen1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The Russel and Destiny episode 😭😭
    The grief they shared in that hug.