This Dude Ghosted His GF & Then LIED About Why?? | MTV's Ghosted: Love Gone Missing
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ย. 2020
- On this episode of Ghosted, Travis and Rachel help Mariah figure out why she was ghosted by her friend-turned-BF after almost a year. And when they come face to face, he lies straight to hers.
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Ghosted: Love Gone Missing helps distraught people track down former friends or lovers who suddenly cut off all contact with them. Hosts Rachel Lindsay and Travis Mills meet the haunted and come up with theories about the cause behind the ghosting. Then the hosts look for leads in order to track down the ghost. Finally, the truth is revealed during a confrontation between the two parties.
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okay but why did he hook up with the entire cheese cake factory LMAO
He wanted his cheesecake and eat it too I guess. 🤷🏾♂️
@@wideawakeanimal1 he be spreading his cream inside allllll those cakes
@@Hexighost IF YOU DON’T-😭😭
He wanted more cake that’s why
YOOOOO 🤣🤣🤣
DONT DATE COWORKERS.
This situation is just like a close family member's last 10 relationships... She met them all while working at Cheesecake. All ended TERRIBLY. Not to mention that everyone she dated also dated other coworkers... So STI wise, that's nasty af.
There are so many people in the world!! There's no need to date your coworkers! I wonder if people see it as convenient.
Yeah I learned the hard way several times 😬
And DON'T DATE FOLKS WHO LIVE IN YOUR APARTMENT COMPLEX!
@@the_emmasculator it's definitely convenient and most folks spend half their lives at work so it's kinda inevitable unless you have a strong will....
Love how he made her breakup with her original bf because “it couldn’t be a thing” and then ended up cheating on her anyway!!! Classical.
That’s how the game works
She said it should have ended sooner - that’s how she justified her cheating 🙄 - karma
Right she was probably already cheating before that guy
Bc ...
He didn't think she would .....
Making it easier to be a dick without her getting attached..
Since she did ! He knew he was in to deep with her and kept the lie bc he felt he needed too ..
Let me add on lol
Nobody was right. Her nor him .
He was a dick and she was a skank .
A relationship that starts on a lie will always be a lie and it will never succeed into a true loving relationship.
Ok, emotional lady is done lol
He was prolly trying to cut her off after feeling bad about her cheating but she got feels and actually did it. Regardless karma's a bitch tbh.
he was pissed at her for saying he couldn’t make her finish like his ex yet he was full on using her for her body anyways??? this dude has the most fragile ego omfg
Nod Pmurt ...what? I’m not a dude bc I think this way? I don’t think it works like that ❤️ go back to school
I know!! While that would be hard to hear and could be worded more diplomatically, people should take it as an opportunity to learn their partners needs. When the host was like as a guy that's the worst thing you can hear, i thought no. Perhaps as a fragile little boy that's the worst thing you can hear. 🙄. There are way worse things, people can always step their game up physically.
The Emmasculator periodt!!!
@@mikoletea you just never know online, i could be a woman or trans or man or whatever i want to be online, iam everywhere and nowhere.
utom jabank wtf does that have to do with anything I said
So wait. Dude wasted time acting like her "boyfriend" for an entire year because he was attracted her? Lol. So dude really went on dates. Stayed on the phone with her all night. Telling secrets. For pretend. For an entire year? Lol. Relationships should require a maturity level, much like credit scores require getting assets. Ha.
Sounds like he didn't love her, or even like her, just using her for her body... I mean sure but for an entire year??? Bruh.
Karma for her cheating on her boyfriend....the game is the game, just like the streets, what you do will come back to you 90% of the time
3165dwayne I do not speak for Mariah, but for me, and probably for a trillion other young women, I would not want my future boyfriend to be a Zeus sort of guy. It’s plain disrespect and I will not be dragged down to that level.
BAD true
You sound surprised lmao? When you have your clevage out like that there's only one thing a guy wants. If girl want to be respected they need to start of by respecting themselves. Make a guy earn the right to you don't just give it all free to everyone or they'll happily take it.
@@alizcool1 showing cleavage doesn't mean you don't have self respect. Wtf
I think ghosting someone is so immature. Just say the magic words and end the relationship.
It depends. Sometimes they won't leave you alone and it's your only choice.
I’m so tired of people thinking that just because someone has great looks means that they won’t get played.
Beyoncé got cheated on by a man who can’t even compare to her looks wise, so did Saweetie. Being a beautiful woman does not mean men will treat you right.
Absolutely,being beautiful sadly means you attract people who likes you for your looks .so those people will most defo get cheated on
All these women falling for dude rocking his great grandmothers jewelry?! Lmaoooo
Yikes.
😭😭😭
🤣
dead💀💀
Flintstones jewelry
Thats not grandma jewelry ma'am
I know the Cheesecake Factory is known for their endless options but damn this man really took that literally
Damn!
Oh shittt
😂😂😂😂😂
You lose them how you get them. You got him with cheating, you lost him with cheating. 🤷♀️
@Mug_Tea_Coffee she still cheated on her bf with this dude.
@thehappyhuman DO NOT make excuses for her. She also needs to take accountability. And yes, a female, needs to own up to her wrongs in relationships and that goes with anything.
I like how she in a professional way told him he was lying 🙄🤣
"we've done heaps of research"
Literally just talked to her coworkers
Let's be honest these people aren't ready for relationships. Y'all want to feel good
Previously on The Cheesecake Factory Scandal...
damn I would watch it 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I kinda hate ghosted but damn, it do be entertaining asf
Can we take a second and just admire Rachel's beauty in this video? Stunning!
"That's a big no, dating a co-worker" 😂
Can confirm it is. Done it twice - really bad idea.
I concur.
It’s not a bad idea if you’re on contract and the contract is about to end...or if you leave for another job
@@joanneking170 I fucked the supervisor really really really bad idea 😭😭
Hard to believe a relationship beginning with lies ended with someone cheating!
* *eyes roll so hard they fall on the floor* *
He’s totally not worthy of another moment of anyone’s time.
Well if he's not worthy of anybody's time she is not worthy of anybody's time too because she did the same thing she cheated on her boyfriend
spiritoflove ipi You’re right- we need to value one another far more than we do. We are precious in God’s site, maybe if treated on another more often in that way, perhaps we see more relationships flourish and far fewer fail. We all seek a love that lasts forever- you can see here that it’s not about hooking up, it’s about making one another better for having been in each other’s lives. We can act like we don’t care but all that does is place more tears upon our pillows- make for a tougher shell the next person has to work even harder to crack. It’s most obvious as is here that no one wants to be treated like yesterday’s “hook-up” or a simple throw away - you are far more precious.🙏🏽
@@silvrliit I concur with what you say. I just hate that we versus them attitude I hate when men talk bad about women and I hate when I see women talk bad about men there are some evil people on both sides but there are good people on both side and because I grew up with a good father I don't like when people Bash man and talk about men like their they're nothing they're good out there and their bad out there and there's people actually just made mistakes and sometimes you just have to try and understand and try and see what is going on with them and not just throw them a side and say they're no good. I am watching the program and I'm just saying that nobody's calling her out on what she did to her boyfriend they're glossing over what she did and that is not right I'm not saying what the guy did to hers right either he is wrong the two of them have made bad choices in their life and they need to grow up, but favorite one over the next is just counterproductive.
spiritoflove ipi I agree, I had forgotten that she had momentarily reciprocated. If you notice, they both made a passive reactionary negative move that in the end they both regretted. They should have communicated instead, before acting which would’ve saved what they had of their relationship. ❤️
That part
On today's episode we dig up all the hot drama at the cheesecake factory
Why chase after someone that doesn’t want you? It makes you look pathetic to track down someone who couldn’t even respect you enough to say goodbye.
Coz she cheated on her bf to be with him now she's got nothing left lol
@@alizcool1 😂
Yeah I don't get this show, I couldn't do it. Catfish at least makes sense, you're being dragged along by the person, but when you're ghosted? It's not right, but it's a pretty clear sign there's something about you they don't want to keep coming around, why push it?
@@nicoleowens2318
Could be something about the "ghoster" possibly?? 🤔💯❤🙏🇬🇧
Exactly, I always wonder at these videos, thinking, "why didn't you just take the hint and stop wasting your own time?" Especially them being so young and beautiful people, the world is your oyster!
She resembles queen naija
On god😂
Yup
I was looking for this specific comment .
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Yesss
I hope these two learn really quickly that in life, any relationship that starts with deceits always end with deceits. But men and their childish insecurities. If a girl is actually being expressive about sex, what you do is you asked her what she does like an you try to deliver. You take a step to be a grown ass man.
Right???? Dont bitch like a baby. If she says do it like this, do it that way? What you want her to lie and then the next chick says you suck in bed? Lol
It was because he came to play thinking he was it and later realized he wasn't that crushed him. It was revenge for attacking his nassisitic ego. Such a duch
Anddddd I betttt it was her friends too
it was her coworker friends they posted another video on this before and that one said he did it with the friends
Of course it was one of her friends! People are trash
Yeah, of course..
@@foreverkaina9312 where link please
@@nathanielsheppard4216 go to the page and scroll until you find the video that says “James bombshell secret”
This Cheesecake Factory sounds LIT lol ! I wanna work there. 😂
😂
😂😂😂😂
ROTFL!!!🤣🤣🤣
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Yea work at the one in atl 🤣
Coworkers never work out at the end🤔
I married mine 😂😂 but you're right. It hadn't worked out for me well the 1 time I did before him.
It just gets messy if it doesn't work and one of you would have to leave the job at the end
Why not?
you found a guy at the cheesecake factory what did you expect from him? 😭😭
😂🤣 Right! The man is about as good as the food! Makes sense.
@@the_emmasculator 😭😭 i don't feel sorry for her honestly , but the guy did her dirty but like she's expecting him to be a prince charming 💀
A cheesy guy lol ding ding ding 😄
@@jyslog I feel a little bad but I know I shouldn't. Damn they wiling out at the cheesecake factory. Definitely serving more than just dessert 👀
Christine she probably expected him to be a decent human being but ok
Damn I didn't know people can just disappear without actually breaking up with who they are dating. It's crazy
The girl looks like Queen Naija
I’m sorry but .... I have that bed set lmao 😩
Lol walmart special 🤣 😂 I had it too
That bedset is dope, one of my favourite things about the video
Rachel called it tho...
Ciao B thank you so much for actually listing! I’m out here in Berlin tryin to get it in ❣️
They messy af🤣🤣🤣 texting back and forth
Part of why I watch! 👀🍿
TRAVIS REACTION IS SENDING ME WHEN HE FOUND OUT THE REASON WHY!
LMAOO she cheated and then got cheated on. how it feel girl 😭😂
I think that's why James cheated cause he knew she was no good. James probably felt that since she cheated on her boyfriend then it was only a matter time before she cheated on him so he beat her to the punch 🤷🏽♂️
TBH this so on point yeah he was an asshole but she was also doing the same this something that doesnt start right will never end right
Exactly
So True!!
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How have they got cameras set up in their rooms?? This show makes no sense smh🤦♀️
At first, I was on his side like "why she said that to him?" Then after hearing him, he deserved that shit.
I wonder if it's any of her 3 friends that were part of this show.
Indeeed it is I don’t work with them but I can tell
Same! That was my first thought when he said they worked there too.
Probably the girl that said Annie 😬
She cheated and now she's mad she got cheated on 🤔
this is so fake the extra camera in the house, tells you he was always going to answer anyway 😂😂😂 paid actors :)
That or they ask to be on the show for publicity and the producers give them a scenario to act out. I knew some people who were on Jerry Springer and that's how it was for them.
I need to stop reading comments during the video, there's always a million spoilers lol
THEY could HAVE HIM!! I would not even be fazed over that dude!
She can’t be upset if she cheated on her ex to be with James who ended up cheating on her. That’s karma sis!
We gonna act like she literally didn't do the same thing with her ex?
She didn’t tho. she cheated on her ex with one dude, he cheated on her with multiple people that she works with...neither of them are right but still
@@mikoletea that's called karma
Mikoletea Cheating is cheating. Both are equally wrong.
"Well, she said her previous relationship, before James, wasn't really good. And admittedly, extended it longer than it should have been. James proceeds to tell her end it with the other guy so he can be "exclusive" with her. However, he was only ever interested in her physically. So why go on dates, talk all night, pretend to be faithful, and then just leave? *Then,* initially refuses to tell her face-to-face (pretty much, lol) about why he truly ghosted her. Lol."
"I'm sure she's done things she regrets in the relationship, and she even admitted taking responsibility in the video. But we can agree, he could've been way more honest about his intentions. Saves a lot of time and stress, lol."
at least she actually broke things off with her ex face to face and didn't run like a coward
Losing a friend and your boyfriend is difficult and I feel for her...
He wasnt a friend
She's a bad actress and he's Austin Mcbroom 2.0.... tf
I agree kinda lame:/ the def coulda found some better hosts with more personality on the show that guy is dull as a doornail.
I wouldn't feel bad about those comments after finding out he cheated LOL
Giving up the cookies hoping he stays for another treat lol
I was ghosted 4 years ago and I still have no idea why. I have not made any new friends since because trust is broken and I need to keep recovering. I haven't been the same since and I'm not feeling sorry for myself, I'm just glad I know they were never my friends, there a bunch of drama queens who love hurting others and lie to others to be against me.
There is always people like that and I know it hurts but sometimes it’s best to move on and I know that’s difficult but I know it will be better..and you can always meet new people :c
He should post his photo on the notice board at work and be like "If you work here and you are with this dude - he is cheating on you I have him on video saying it out loud on national tv"
He definitely slept with Elizabeth. The way Daja said, "OH, Elizabeth.." I bet
First glance, I thought it was Queen Naija lol
Same
@@nessaboo20 right I was about to be like girlllllaaaaa what happened with Clarence?!? 🤣
how does she conveniently have the snapchat saved 😂
This is crazy! He had told her to break up with her boyfriend and then he went to date other girls? Like, seriously?
I really hate guys like James because they think they can do whatever they want including cheating. In fact, I think they believe that it's their right to cheat. That's sick!
Why are ppl saying Mariah cheated on her boyfriend? She was in a relationship when they were friends and the Ghost said that if they want to be together she'd have to dump the boyfriend which she did. It does say that in ep
Still it’s dirty she chooses a dude over her previous bf she should’ve been focused on him instead of James if she did that then she leave her dude for money or a rich dude she got what she deserved and she not loyal
@@scrappgangkodie2342 u must be a kid because it’s always better that someone tells you they don’t want to be with you instead of being unhappy. That can lead to unhealthy behavior
@@itzel8406 are u a kid and what is u saying it’s not even relevant to this episode she never told her previous she didn’t want him she up and left because she wanted James then she turns around and tell James her ex better in bed than him causing James to cheat and ghost her u need to get your reading comprehension up because never once did she tell her ex she was unhappy she cheated and got cheated on
So, if he was sleeping with other girls where they both worked, does this mean it could've been one of her friends? Maybe even one of the girls that joined the zoom chat!
If I had a list of rules on how to succeed in the work place at the top of it would be getting along with you boss and it'd be tied with not hooking up or dating your co-workers.
This Guy....Really separates The Boys from the Men,And not in a good way!
If a person ghost me
I'm not even bothered
Bye...😂😂
That apology he gave after he told he cheated was garbage
I love how they handled this like true adults and not kids. & Both of them are right . For A Women , to leave her alone when things feel unbreakable is shattering . But he hit the nail in the head , that hurts for a women you love or call yourself in love with to compare you to someone at all , more or less sexually . But he should of have let her know instead of ghosting.
You should just let ppl ghost u though
Honestly 😂
Seriously! Let the cowards run!
Say good bye to byegons those are bye gone.
Right I'm not about to go searching. Yes it'll hurt for a while but I'll get over it
@@khaliyahliyah6444 your search is over. I'm right here
Wow she’s gorgeous & I pray she finds happiness elsewhere that relationship was doomed from the start because she already had a boyfriend. Learn from you’re mistakes
i live an hour away from this cheesecake factory...omg im hooked
This is actually crazy cause I work at CCF and I got to know this guy for a whole year before we started dating. He also works at the CCF with me. So when she said cheesecake factory (after I was hoping she wouldn't say), my face dropped lol.
Oh no she messed with his ego
Her ex that she dumped for him prolly watched this with a smile
Never date your co-workers - from someone who dated their co-worker
Mariahs eyebrows tho
Does anyone actually believe this dude is hooking up with all these different women? This woman that he was dating is gorgeous. I doubt he was pulling anyone better than her.
It's not about looks. I have known stunning beautiful girls and their men have cheated on them with women who would definitely be considered ugly 😬😢
See this is why friends stay in friend zones and you don't date co-workers. More times than not it ends in disaster.
All the MTV videos have so many great songs like--
MTV DROP THE PLAYLIST, C'MON
Rachel was Right!!✌🏾
This episode is brought to you by THE CHEESECAKE FACTORY
How are they all getting so many angels
Looks can be deceiving, i felt that weight coming off her shoulders and then boom she fell when he told her the truth my heart sunk for her but she instantly bounced back real quick... she gonna be ok she’s strong 💪🏽. He will meet his karma HIS MATCH one day
Yup and the same thing will happen to him.
@@pamelafuller4447 not his fault lol she should’ve been patient any man would leave if a woman tell him that
@@scrappgangkodie2342 duh. But we all have different perspectives about the whole thing so I expressed it.
@@pamelafuller4447 thank you 😊
@@scrappgangkodie2342 be that as it may....but we all have different perspectives about things
i need one of those tiktok kids to come check his chain rn
Just looks like karma to me. Cheated on your bf with the new guy, instead of moving on then starting a new relationship...surprised?
Everyone wants to be a player then shocked when they meet their match.
The level of disrespect is just unfathomable!!! Like dude tf smfh
How do they get the shots of these people outside of the computer? Like there must be cameramen at James house and at her house.
They send someone to set it up for them and then take it down after.
I think how they do it is they find out who's involved in thr story then they get thr equipment at each person's house I presume. When the filming ends then they take the cameras back. With Travis and Rachel they keep the cameras at all times as they are the hosts.
I’m almost certain the other shots are just filmed on an iPhone
This dude took the saying" pump n dump/ bend her than send her" "ghost em the mostest " to her friends bedroom 😂😂😂
New viewer.
I love this show 🤔 👌
if anyone wants to know the song at 9:27 is "I Lost A Friends" by Finneas
Rachel put that law degree to WERK and I’m HERE FOR IT!!!!📖👍 #read
I just gotta say I remember listening to Travis like 12 years ago, and he still looks just as good today as he did then🥵 and the girl that likes him has the same name as me😂
It honestly seems as if he wanted to be with her just to sleep with her bc she's pretty and just to say he "hit that" in a sort of sense
What a gigantic COWARD........... This is a child not a grown man and his actions prove it. But this is the funny thing about life and karma. That ish comes full circle. He not only lost a gf but a true friend. He'll meet a girl who is just as childish as he is and put is all in her only for whoever to do it back to him. What's the saying 'Play stupid games win stupid prizes"...
As someone called Mariah and my partner's called James, this was weird to watch 😂
Damn MTV doing it again, uploading the same video within a week
I think how they do it is that they upload the confronfion at the end and then later in the week they upload the show condensed into 20 mins so people can see the highlights and most important bits from the 60 mins of the show. So it's not the full show but it's most of it.
@@damiagunbiade thanks for the clarification. The other video I saw was like 10 minutes long of the beginning of her side of what happen.
Wait ... she knows the girls 🚼 Don’t tell me it was one of the girls who video chatted them with the info.
You know it was
Dating co workers never works. I never have but seen it go wrong too many times
Ugh 😔 I know my bf is gonna ghost on me anytime soon and it really hurts knowing that. I can't go up against his religious parents that won't accept me because I'm older than him. Been together for a year, he's literally my world but yeah..
(Sry, I had to vent I got no one to talk too)
sending u love and light. hope u can talk abt it and get it settled before it comes to ghosting.. :(
😭😭
did u get ghosted 🥺
♥️♥️Hope you guys are still together
Communication is key
Nev and kamie really set it off for these new shows
yous upload these so out of order-
He's a "good guy," "respectful," etc.. Welp, the lie detector determined that was a lie.
Definitely never date your coworkers, ESPECIALLY in the restaurant industry. I got semi ghosted because I busted the guy I was seeing who was a cook at a bar I worked as a waitress as, and figured out he was seeing someone else but she lived far away so I was basically the fill in. Before I figured it out I had suspicions because one day I came over and I had separate shower stuff (shampoo, conditioner body wash, razor, toothbrush etc) that I left at his place because I was there so often so I had stuff that stayed there and stuff that stayed at my house so I didn’t have to pack a bag every other day, well when I got there I couldn’t find any of my stuff, all my stuff was not in the shower, not in the bathroom and I was confused and I asked him where it was and he said in his backpack and I was like ummm why? And he said he was cleaning so I was suspicious and told him that was weird but he assured me that was the reason, then the next thing that happened was I found panties on the side of the bed that weren’t mine and right after that happened I went to his house like we planned and I was gonna just straight up ask like wth, first all my stuff is hidden, then I find panties that weren’t there so clearly he had another girl over so I got to his house and I texted him and didn’t get a response I figured he was at work still so I waited and waited and I texted him and called him and didn’t get a response I ended up falling asleep and woke up alone with no texts or calls his roommates didn’t know where he was but looking back they obviously knew he wasn’t just with me. And this obviously caused issues at work and I ended up not working there anymore. Idk why I went into so much detail but yeah I guess just sharing my semi ghosting experience and why it’s bad to date where you work because if it goes to 💩 then your job most likely will too. When I mention don’t do it especially in the restaurant industry is because often times there’s a lot of pretty girls working and guys like this idiot on this episode will try to catch em all like they’re Pokémon
He doesn’t deserve her she’s pretty she can find another man .
NOT FINNEAS MUSIC PLAYING WHEN SHE LEFT
What a LOSER!
Wait but who was the friend?? Cause they work together
All three of the girls they talked to 😂
BAD noooo😂
Jess mentioned this girl named annie. Mayb her. Hopefully
@@badddd that was my instinct too! He said more then 1. And how would the first two not know about Annie if they all work together. The baker also had a smirk the whole time lol. Poor girl.
@@badddd that was my instinct too! He said more then 1. And how would the first two not know about Annie if they all work together. The baker also had a smirk the whole time lol. Poor girl.
wow he just used her like that! that makes me worry so much