10 Steps to Crush a Narcissist's Smear Campaign Permanently

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2023
  • 10 Steps to Crush a Narcissist's Smear Campaign Permanently. If you're dealing with a smear campaign from a narcissist, then you know it can be tough to get through. In this video, we'll share 10 steps that will help you permanently shut down the narcissist's smear campaign.
    Narcissists are masters at spreading rumors and lies, and they will do whatever it takes to damage their targets. In this video, we'll show you how to shut down the smear campaign and protect yourself from further damage. We'll also provide tips on how to deal with the smear campaign once it starts, so you can start rebuilding your life and reputation!
    These steps will help you regain control and put an end to the narcissist's malicious attacks. If you follow these steps, you'll be able to move on and heal from the experience. Let's take a look at how to deal with a smear campaign from a narcissist and crush it for good!
    Are you sick of being on the defensive when it comes to the narcissist and their allies? Well, then we have the video for you! Smear campaigns are an extremely common tactic run by narcissists, and it's very common in friend groups, the workplace, and even in relationships. These attacks on your character can seemingly come out of nowhere, but are actually clever tactics that toxic people use to devalue you and slander your character. If you want to finally kick the narcissist and their group of henchmen to the curb for good, make sure you stick around until the very end of today’s video and we’ll teach you how!
    ___
    📕 The Narcissist's Nightmare eBook 👉 go.psychologyelement.com/the-... 📩
    ___
    🧠 RECOMMENDED VIDEOS:
    10 Tactics to Put a Narcissist in Their Place
    • 10 Tactics to Put a Na...
    Narcissists Will Lose their Minds if You Do These 10 Things
    • Narcissists Will Lose ...
    10 Examples of What Gaslighting Sounds Like
    • 10 Examples of What Ga...
    ___
    📺 DARK PERSONALITIES PLAYLIST:
    • Dark Personalities
    ___
    👕 CHECK OUT OUR PSYCHOLOGY MUGS & MERCH:
    psychologyelement.com/merch/
    ___
    Psychology Element helps you to understand your own psychology, your relationships, and various mental disorders. Learn about Narcissism, Dark Psychology, Dark Personality & Dark Traits, Empaths, Highly-Sensitive People, Love, Romance & Relationships, Self-Improvement, Myers-Briggs & Personality Types, Psychological & Personality, Disorders, Mood Disorders, Body Language and more.
    Delve into the personalities of partners, loved ones, and colleagues. How do you work with different personality types? How can you build and strengthen relationships? How do you spot a narcissist? How should you deal with dark personalities?
    Bringing you a new video every 2 days - hit the SUBSCRIBE button so you never miss out.
    Subscribe - bit.ly/366FI0Z
    Disclaimer: These videos are meant for educational purposes only. Do not use information in this or any other video to self-diagnose or diagnose other people. If you feel that you or someone close to you may possess some of the characteristics mentioned in this or any other video on this channel and need help then please, consult a licensed mental health professional.
    Affiliate Disclosure:
    This video and description may contain affiliate links, which means that if you click on one of the product links, we’ll receive a small commission. We will never recommend anything here that we haven't verified and/or personally used ourselves.
    #smearcampaign #narcissists #psychologyelement

ความคิดเห็น • 70

  • @l0I0I0I0
    @l0I0I0I0 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Narcissist AND THERE MINIONS! Minions can be worse than the narcissist. Why? People may not pay attention to the narcissist but they will often listen to their monkeys.

    • @GaslightingIsEvil
      @GaslightingIsEvil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes because they believe the majority. They think if multiple people say things it must be true, even though people know that rumours can be just mean and false

    • @kat-75
      @kat-75 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      fleas, I call them fleas

  • @FoulOwl2112
    @FoulOwl2112 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    And most importantly, DON'T WAIT!
    They're not going to change. They won't learn by example. They wont be inspired by your loyalty. They'll never grow to respect others boundaries etc.
    It's all just a waste of time and energy.

  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:31 So true, they need a common enemy in order to make themselves look better to the people they’re trying to impress.

  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s so true that when you have a normal reaction to being smear campaigned, it unfortunately makes you look guilty. Staying calm and kind at all times is key.

  • @jodibonser5531
    @jodibonser5531 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I spend too much of my life defending myself against my narcissist daughter and mother. It's predictable and frequent. I haven't learned the skills to completely disregard it and still get upset and defensive. I go no contact then get sucked back in...thank you for your support and guidance! I'm working actively every day to be healthy...

  • @themachinethatgoesping7376
    @themachinethatgoesping7376 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    When my former partner discarded me he tried smearing as well. He failed because I was open to all relevant people, my family, my friends , my colleagues and my boss. I told them that we split and that he may want to smear me. He failed in the then obvious attempt to smear me.
    I counsel you on being open. If you want to hide something, be sure the narcissist will use this against you.
    Good luck and have faith in you!

  • @smolville
    @smolville 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If you're willing to quit right now, than you have a lot of power over the narcissist. A narcissist can destroy a whole company.

  • @SoniaProteau-cj6tk
    @SoniaProteau-cj6tk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    They just look for a reaction 😂 🤣 💯

    • @DeRussellMasina
      @DeRussellMasina 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what I surmise

  • @markaugustus4064
    @markaugustus4064 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was quite a comprehensive presentation. It perfectly matches how my journey with a narcissist at work unfolded. Solid advice. I'm so grateful

  • @TallulahBelle3276
    @TallulahBelle3276 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for the great advice. 👍🏽💯✨😊

  • @Vicky-jh3ci
    @Vicky-jh3ci 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Just ignore the flying monkeys unless they get violent.If they get violent you'll have to involve the police.Its a simple as that.Oh,and never take the bait and react to them.

  • @nicoleharrington9086
    @nicoleharrington9086 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    What if i don't have friends?

    • @wolfesound
      @wolfesound 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Remain grounded and know you are supported. Walk as though you have an army behind you. These people are absolute cowards. Your energy alone can make them not mess with you. If you can get them completely out of your orbit, then great. If not, focus on creating your own life and routine, make friends, get support here, and follow your higher calling in life. Surely you got goals to fulfil and I know it isn't wasting time with these jerks. Much love to you

    • @TheRizzrd
      @TheRizzrd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@wolfesoundthanks for your comment ❤️

    • @shafiq154
      @shafiq154 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @nicole I don’t have friends either but Quran the speech of our creator is with us , get a copy of Quran in English language, read it with open heart and mind ask God to guide you and protect you from devils then you will see the truth and life becomes much easier , and with difficulty you find strength to cope and you feel at ease.

    • @Thomas-jl3gn
      @Thomas-jl3gn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@wolfesound
      Each person's situation is unique to them.
      I have found that knowing myself to be very helpful. They are attempting to manipulate events around me to trigger what they perceive as weak areas. I have been able to avoid issues by recognizing these efforts for what they are. There are many avenues on TH-cam that I use to help as well. From comedians to advice & guidance outside my normal comfort zones. For me.
      I found it helpful to consider the differences, in the things I "think" I know & what someone who "does" know. It always educated me & has taught me to avoid making assumptions. Which has helped me reduce my tendency to exaggerate or mislead my thoughts. Making situations worse for me mentally.
      Hope this helps.

    • @GaslightingIsEvil
      @GaslightingIsEvil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I don't have friends either, that's probably why they target us

  • @amygradybsw
    @amygradybsw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful video. Sharing ❤

  • @vinitawagh3223
    @vinitawagh3223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🙏🙏❤️

  • @mandiebeth229
    @mandiebeth229 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I subscribed.😊

  • @socalautisticman1975
    @socalautisticman1975 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Steps to crush smear campaigns : (pretty much paraphrasing here)
    • Push back firmly but calmly
    • Got nothing to prove ( the narcissist is trying only to win & you lose )
    • Show flying monkeys 🐒🐒🐒🐒 kindness for a while (they're going to the cool click)
    • Stay professional
    • Cut out common links (activities etc.)
    • Stay focused on other aspects of your life ( narc only want your attention )
    • Block on social media
    • Point out their actions to their flying monkeys 🐒🐒🐒🐒 (create rift drive wedge between them and narcissist but careful with this tactic, pointing out when narc was unethical to them ...)
    • Stay close to friends (support system, updating them always & how affecting you)
    • Wait for perfect moments (to them it's a complex game ; want person out of life not looking to win *I add* play the silly game) keep emotions and feelings as far as possible be kind to "agents" be patient.

  • @muma6559
    @muma6559 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanks mate

  • @SoniaProteau-cj6tk
    @SoniaProteau-cj6tk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It has been going on for ages, I m happy 😊, it s only story telling

  • @09kirad
    @09kirad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I subscribed! Good videos by this channel! My husband is having hard time dealing with 92 year old heavily grandiose narcissistic boss that also happens to be his stepfather. He is super dumb and hates my husband guts. Unfortunately leaving the business is not an option. And the 92 yo narcissist needs the business to feed his ego. And he knows that my husband is the only person that can operate the business, and I suspect that’s why he hates him and he wants to destroy him. I’m wondering if it’s any way to trick the narcissist to stop his hate?

  • @tityhuisman1478
    @tityhuisman1478 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Disengage detach don:t take the bait Igore the smearcampaign. See them for who they are.

  • @artmocha9901
    @artmocha9901 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rule no. 10: but rumours don’t reach you…just the weird laughs/giggles/ill treating or covert abuse occurs.

  • @ich6636
    @ich6636 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Na Ja.. I work with someone with narcisistic tendencies... I think. The fact is that yesterday I told the boss about my struggles with the person in cause and not only the boss sided with her but the biggest flying monkey from all kept shut and when she speaked was to badmouth me and today the colleagues that had a late shift with the "person in cause" tottaly ignored me and some gave me some strange looks. I think the smear campaign is fully in work. I quit that job but I must be there for the next 13 weeks. What do I do??? I'm not a strong person, I left a narcisist husband after more than a decade. I feel weak, emotional, and anxiety levels are really high right now.

  • @marisapaola9010
    @marisapaola9010 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What do you do if the narcs are your sister and father..and your mother doesn't want strangers to know or laugh at the family. What do you do when the two narcs want you out of the family? Give them everything? Sounds like it?

  • @diane1082
    @diane1082 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is not always the case
    You see my husband is very smart man. He knows that when women get together usually they get together to kinda trash their husbands a little bit.😂 yes we really do this throw a little shades at their faults,
    That being said, but my husband does is he puts me up on a pedestal real high, and he tries to show people how very much he’s in love with me and how he’ll go to the end of the earth to do stuff for me he’ll even buy plane tickets for me and my friends to go away even though I don’t want to so then they start to think he’s a great guy. All great stuff he does for her.
    And then my friend starts maybe I’m the one who pushing too hard

  • @StealthProfile
    @StealthProfile 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sigma empaths: childs play.

  • @jadegreen1554
    @jadegreen1554 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:40 what if the Narc never leave the situation and keep digging in or climbing higher and higher on the organization to keep getting newer and newer sources of supply. They will never go away.

  • @venomau5speedz
    @venomau5speedz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not reacting can also become a smear campaign. They’ll spread rumors that your a psycho because your so cold 🥶 at reacting etc. etc. so it goes both ways but long term it is better than letting them have it for sure. 👍

  • @illuminationgoddess3
    @illuminationgoddess3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It cost nothing to be kind.

  • @Mocheesemoeugene
    @Mocheesemoeugene 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're in a great place. You will gain authentic friends,if you stay connected to channels such as this.They may ene up being friends in the untraditional sense,simply because you may only be links by these common bonds on TH-cam ❤

  • @sydneysmith2545
    @sydneysmith2545 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What if it turns legal?

    • @wolfesound
      @wolfesound 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Keep gathering evidence, make copies at different safe locations, tell a trusted person to keep copies, and stick to the facts. Let your lawyer handle it, while you help them with info, weak points and know your rights by reading the penal code related to your case. Do not rely on lawyer to the point of not educating yourself but don't irritate your lawyer either :) Stay absolutely calm, stoic even, and do not show fear.

  • @SoniaProteau-cj6tk
    @SoniaProteau-cj6tk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It s entertainment 101 it s all story telling , at a certain age it does not matter what others think about u

  • @nuggetnoobx7298
    @nuggetnoobx7298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Expose them

    • @texaslovelylady
      @texaslovelylady 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How?

    • @nuggetnoobx7298
      @nuggetnoobx7298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@texaslovelylady talk to people ie people they know say quiet you will easily spot who they don't like then talk to them tell them what this person does to you you will find a new support structure and find your self again. I did this and it was like a Matrix moment my narc is now doing the silent treatment to me.

    • @nuggetnoobx7298
      @nuggetnoobx7298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You will also find they do the same thing to others
      Make notes on your phone who said what who did what with in a week of this I gathered so much evidence about what the narc was doing it was so small but it impacted me greatly

  • @dave23024
    @dave23024 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, this stuff is okay if you're still willing to make it work. It's exhausting, and it gets old. Besides, if you have to change your behavior, isn't that the very definition of narcissistic abuse? You think you're outplaying them, but they've already won.

  • @leighleigh8725
    @leighleigh8725 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NO CONSEQUENCES FOR MOLESTED BIG BOSS DOUG 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

  • @terrymillingtonsr4140
    @terrymillingtonsr4140 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Start spreading false rumors @ them to give em a taste of their own crap! 😅

  • @lysas781
    @lysas781 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Read too fast.

  • @user-nj1rn3qq2p
    @user-nj1rn3qq2p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Him and his wife teaming up against dude hate me he act like I gave him disease which I didn’t he’s actor telling people over my life