Yeah that’s not gentle parenting, that’s permissive parenting. Folks always get that confused, but gentle parenting still gives consequences and discipline without being verbally abusive. Like sheesh that woman needs to truly get her kids in order. Op is NTA
Honestly op sounds stupid. " You should scream at your children cuz other people will" maybe if we all stop shouting the Next gen wont scream at other people's faces
@@carolinaazevedo2088 that’s what I’m saying, like I’m sorry we don’t want to raise emotionally stunted kids. You can get your point across without talking down to them and making them feel like crap.
@@carolinaazevedo2088 that isn't what she said though. She never said you should yell at your kids, just that someone in this world will eventually when they act out, and they will crumble. You don't prepare your kids for that by yelling, again not what she's insinuating, but letting them do whatever they want and then simply explain it away with feeling will not help them understand anything either. Discipline is not abuse. Consequences being enforced for misdeeds is not oppressive. It is a lesson in cause and effect that reflects how the world works. Punishments should never be enacted in anger, but they are definitely necessary even when gentle parenting, something that many seem to misunderstand.
Yeah, gentle parenting does often include some form of punishment, just no yelling and nothing physical. But a time out wouldn't be out of the question as long as duration is set with the child's age in mind (five minutes for a five year old, for example). But the main thing about gentle parenting is the calm discussion with the child about the feelings the child was feeling that led to the behavior, the feelings felt by the people/animals affected by the behavior, an explanation for why the child is being punished for the behavior and why any other consequences if any are happening, and possible suggestions for what the child could have done instead for the next time the child feels that way. The whole point of gentle parenting is that you're teaching the kid how to recognize and process their own emotions while also teaching them to be mindful of the feelings of others
yes the sister is in the wrong here not disciplining her kids at all and basically spoiling them but what the older sis did was kinda wrong too by posting their personal matter online for strangers to see in the first place. I get that she was frustrated by how her sister and her family were making a chaos of her home but sharing ur personal matter with people you don't know doesn't justify it.
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That doesn't sound like gentle parenting.. that sounds like there is no parenting happening at all.
Yeah that’s not gentle parenting, that’s permissive parenting. Folks always get that confused, but gentle parenting still gives consequences and discipline without being verbally abusive. Like sheesh that woman needs to truly get her kids in order. Op is NTA
Exactly! Gentle parenting doesnt mean "just talk about your feelings" it is also talking about your feelings but explaining consequences
Honestly op sounds stupid. " You should scream at your children cuz other people will" maybe if we all stop shouting the Next gen wont scream at other people's faces
@@carolinaazevedo2088 that’s what I’m saying, like I’m sorry we don’t want to raise emotionally stunted kids. You can get your point across without talking down to them and making them feel like crap.
@@carolinaazevedo2088 that isn't what she said though. She never said you should yell at your kids, just that someone in this world will eventually when they act out, and they will crumble. You don't prepare your kids for that by yelling, again not what she's insinuating, but letting them do whatever they want and then simply explain it away with feeling will not help them understand anything either.
Discipline is not abuse. Consequences being enforced for misdeeds is not oppressive. It is a lesson in cause and effect that reflects how the world works.
Punishments should never be enacted in anger, but they are definitely necessary even when gentle parenting, something that many seem to misunderstand.
Yeah, gentle parenting does often include some form of punishment, just no yelling and nothing physical. But a time out wouldn't be out of the question as long as duration is set with the child's age in mind (five minutes for a five year old, for example). But the main thing about gentle parenting is the calm discussion with the child about the feelings the child was feeling that led to the behavior, the feelings felt by the people/animals affected by the behavior, an explanation for why the child is being punished for the behavior and why any other consequences if any are happening, and possible suggestions for what the child could have done instead for the next time the child feels that way. The whole point of gentle parenting is that you're teaching the kid how to recognize and process their own emotions while also teaching them to be mindful of the feelings of others
yes the sister is in the wrong here not disciplining her kids at all and basically spoiling them but what the older sis did was kinda wrong too by posting their personal matter online for strangers to see in the first place. I get that she was frustrated by how her sister and her family were making a chaos of her home but sharing ur personal matter with people you don't know doesn't justify it.