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  • @kathelaineee
    @kathelaineee 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +653

    “Small task” being pregnant is not a small fking task.

    • @AhSatan
      @AhSatan 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

      That, and in some places there's a requirement for a surrogate to have had at least one pregnancy to term.

    • @dulcilass
      @dulcilass 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      This I can agree with. Childbirth was the most hellish 32 hours I have ever spent. And don't ask about how I felt after having an emergency C Section which went wrong. "A small task" words spoke by a person who never gave birth.

    • @flamelily2086
      @flamelily2086 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Only a person who has never been pregnant would call carrying a child a "small task". I have had three children and being pregnant is not a small task!!

    • @jnnccnfs9600
      @jnnccnfs9600 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Agreed

    • @lordfreerealestate8302
      @lordfreerealestate8302 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      The US still has a fairly high maternal death rate, too.

  • @edwardstrudwick9851
    @edwardstrudwick9851 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +605

    If the BIL isn’t unalived in one of these updates or a future update, justice will not be done.

    • @justincooper5189
      @justincooper5189 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

      Damn right. Wood chipper 2024.

    • @Yue_Jin
      @Yue_Jin 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

      Not sure how the dad would ever be able to sit by and not "solve" the problem.

    • @shanel4294
      @shanel4294 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Like he needs to GO.

    • @VeliThaGawd
      @VeliThaGawd 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Jealous of her not being able to have kids?

    • @edwardstrudwick9851
      @edwardstrudwick9851 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      @@VeliThaGawd huh?

  • @fianafarrington6899
    @fianafarrington6899 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +234

    Three HUGE requirements for being a surrogate is you must have at least two kids first (proof your body can handle pregnancy), you can't do it for any family (it always gets messy in some way), AND the potential parents have to prove they're fit to raise the child (evaluation of mental and emotional wellness, which IVF clinics also do). OP does not meet the first two requirements, and SIL and BIL clearly don't meet the last. She needs to run. Far and fast.

    • @cheyennecannon3609
      @cheyennecannon3609 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      That's what I think a lot of these people don't seem to understand. The fact that I've heard other stories like this irritates me cause you know the ones pushing it heard all of this before

  • @angelcookie1024
    @angelcookie1024 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +438

    The sister is so pathetic, she literally saw her husband threaten to SA her sister, stalk her, physically assault her, break in her appartment and yet in the end she was still debating wether or not to report him. Op is a much better person than me

    • @yesthatmousyiris4887
      @yesthatmousyiris4887 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

      Not to excuse the sister but you can tell how warped she is from the abuse. Abusive partners can change you for the worse. I hope she can get help and get a therapist.

    • @SoundGZ
      @SoundGZ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Not sister but TWIN SISTER

    • @lunamoonracer8899
      @lunamoonracer8899 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Abuse is a hell of a drug

    • @TEM348
      @TEM348 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      She is spineless

    • @luka.renoir
      @luka.renoir 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@yesthatmousyiris4887 who fking cares

  • @pretzelicious4200
    @pretzelicious4200 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +429

    What kinda sister sees her family being treated like this and makes excuses for her garbage husband?

    • @onepieceisking5493
      @onepieceisking5493 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

      A weak and desperate woman. Especially when she doesn't realize that she's been abused by her own husband.

    • @jayking2228
      @jayking2228 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      The kind that would threaten to disown their sibling in order to force them into doin what they want

    • @thegem597
      @thegem597 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My sister. She sat around when her crazy mother in law was screaming at my dad after inviting us for dinner. I took a stand and didnot go back screaming..and never returned. Fuck her

    • @SamriddhiSharma128
      @SamriddhiSharma128 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      The sister is crazy too, not setting boundaries with her husband. someone isn't crazy enough to attack and threaten to grape someone before being abusive enough to their partner. Poor OP has to watch her sister losing her sanity and get harrassed by her psycho husband.

    • @lunamoonracer8899
      @lunamoonracer8899 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      A sister who's mind has been twisted by serious abuse. You think that man just flipped a switch and became a psycho? No way. I guarantee he's been torturing his poor wife this whole time.

  • @11rahimis1234
    @11rahimis1234 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +91

    Dude needs to permanently lose his ability to have any kids. This will teach him a lesson he will never forget.

    • @Endev_Prime
      @Endev_Prime 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Lessons are useless if you can't use any conclusions you got from those lessons.

  • @joannegregory3024
    @joannegregory3024 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    Carrying a child that is biologically yours and handing it over to you sister is NOT a small task…. That will affect you for a lifetime

  • @reneeharper84
    @reneeharper84 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +172

    Sis is an abuse victim, and it is hard for them to break free. I understand this, and yet i don't know if i could forgive as easily as OP

    • @hollyshaw-elliemae
      @hollyshaw-elliemae 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      its so much harder than one thinks.

  • @brusselsproutses
    @brusselsproutses 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +281

    once again, the police are entirely unhelpful. surprise surprise

    • @jameslyons6655
      @jameslyons6655 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Unfortunately when you ask anyone for help there are two problems present: your problem and their problem of you being in front of them with your problem. People who have no business being in law enforcement usually try to solve the latter as it is always easier. I worked with some of these creatures, an empty shirt would be more useful. I did 32 years of military and federal LE and never took that approach, my responsibility weighed heavy on me every day.

  • @destineeadams2720
    @destineeadams2720 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +118

    9 months of pregnancy isn’t a small thing. Also a baby won’t fix this

    • @nancythane5672
      @nancythane5672 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      A baby will only add to the Hell.

  • @megamiet1210
    @megamiet1210 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    This is ridiculous. OP was willing to donate her eggs, but that wasn't good enough??? Crazy people will do crazy things. Please keep yourself and your family safe. Her sister is in need of a psych evaluation immediately..

  • @erickaennis2738
    @erickaennis2738 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    I would not easily forgive my sister for this mess. I think the BIL had a thing for Op for a long time already. He didn't need Op or her sister for a bio child. He just wanted Op. This is pretty scary.

    • @silentmuse6660
      @silentmuse6660 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Probably. There's also the fact that Op and her sister are twins, and a lot of people view twins as a unit more than an individual. And not to mention how most lewd content seems to treat twins. So the BIL could've had some sick fantasy about impregnating twins or just has a sick fetish. Either way, man was a complete and utter creep to both sisters and I hope both of them get the help the need to get through what that man did to them, because unfortunately their relationship is forever changed now.

  • @BridgetKF
    @BridgetKF 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +83

    I read one similar to that where the man burned down OP's old house to try to force OP to come out where he could "catch" her, not realizing she'd sold the house, and the furniture in there had just been the staging furniture that had been placed there for the sale.
    When in court, the man said he had "the right to do that" because "He'd been promised a child and by hell or high water he was going to make them keep their promise"

    • @tryme9740
      @tryme9740 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Men like them need to lose that right of having kids. Tell me he gets jail time

    • @MarinanaBR
      @MarinanaBR 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh god is so dangerous being a woman this 2024 we aren’t in the 1920s

    • @ohno7153
      @ohno7153 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      what story is this?

    • @MC_Silvereyes1
      @MC_Silvereyes1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@ohno7153 I don't know but it sounds extremely disgusting that any man would say that but yet it's far, far too common these days. that's why I have pepper spray on me all the time even though I'm under age. I started carrying it at 15 and I got another one soon after my first one was taken by a cop when I forgot to leave it in the car during a concert. nothing happened beside it getting taken but I still never want to be without one. it's because of how common this is that I refuse to be left defenseless.

  • @ladyofthemasque
    @ladyofthemasque 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Pregnancy is NOT a "small" task. The body of the pregnant person goes through as much damage, as much physiological stress & change, as going through a major car accident, save only that it's spread out over 9-ish months and not suffered in an instant. It requires literal MONTHS of commitment, and carries significant and potentially *life-threatening* and/or *long-term* health risks. IT IS NOT A "SMALL" TASK!

  • @biaostockioddziaawcy5735
    @biaostockioddziaawcy5735 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    This story is so disturbing and heartbreaking! It’s one thing to be asked to help family in such an intense way, but the moment your boundaries were disrespected, it crossed a serious line. Your sister and brother-in-law’s desperation doesn’t excuse the pressure and stalking you’ve been subjected to-it’s terrifying and totally unacceptable. You have every right to say no, and your decision should be respected without question. I hope you stay safe, and that they come to understand how serious and personal this decision is. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s a powerful reminder of the importance of respecting boundaries, no matter how sensitive the situation.

  • @RichHurtz
    @RichHurtz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +135

    "Probably won't update anymore" I see sections for three more updates. ruh-roh.

    • @onepieceisking5493
      @onepieceisking5493 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      For real, that usually means that the op is underestimating the situation and how it can still escalate or go on.

  • @RubyGB
    @RubyGB 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Don't -- your sister and brother-in-law would make awful adoptive parents. As an adopted child with no family ties I know what it is to be loved unconditionally by my parents and I seen the misery friends patented under "conditions" have gone through. Unconditional love by heart trumps family only by blood every time.

  • @M.W.2
    @M.W.2 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

    Let's gooooo he was caught by the police and his ass is getting divorced

    • @ElizabethHamato-fz2jt
      @ElizabethHamato-fz2jt 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      THANK YOU JESUS!!!

    • @Albme94
      @Albme94 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      @@ElizabethHamato-fz2jt jesus is a lawyer?

    • @roxychowchow
      @roxychowchow 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@Albme94 yep because I once hired him to sue a plushie that killed another plushie

    • @nancythane5672
      @nancythane5672 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      No. There's no proof that he will 'let gooooo.' She needs to BE SAFE~~NOT LET A PREDATOR ATTACK HER WHEN HER GUARD'S DOWN!

  • @SandraNelson063
    @SandraNelson063 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

    • @nancythane5672
      @nancythane5672 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I've always loved that saying.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      dont let yourself drown just to keep someone else afloat? idk

  • @williamahrens5737
    @williamahrens5737 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    "I live in the US, what law can help me?" Girl.... it's called the second amendment...

    • @MarinanaBR
      @MarinanaBR 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Tho it depends on states cuz I know Florida has a stand your ground law but in other states she will have to prove she was in immediate danger and since the cops weren’t helping it would be hard as fuck, also I know for me personally no matter what I don’t want a gun in my home due to mental illness that runs in me and my family. So she might not have a firearm for reasons too.

    • @nancythane5672
      @nancythane5672 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@MarinanaBRHe has an arrest on file now, alongside his own wife's testimony against him. A decent lawyer will get her acquitted. A GOOD one will keep the DA from pressing charges.

    • @MarinanaBR
      @MarinanaBR 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@nancythane5672 that’s true finding a good lawyer will help tremendously. I’m glad she is safe and hopefully she doesn’t have to kill him to stay safe. It can be traumatizing and she already has enough trauma for this situation too

  • @Krillos
    @Krillos 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +77

    I read this story before, minus the three new updates, and I just knew this story will be updated soon enough from what I read about the BIL… 😅

  • @gottathinkupanewone
    @gottathinkupanewone 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Carrying a pregnancy and going through childbirth is NOT a "small favor." It's a life altering, body-changing and potentially psychologically damaging event.

  • @noisynerg9854
    @noisynerg9854 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Op has to recognize that theres no way in hell she'll have her sister back, her sister is letting on this harrasment and abuse, ops sister doesnt love them at all

  • @whocares6698
    @whocares6698 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Glad the sister finally wised up but worried about how he will take the divorce. Hope they all stay safe.

  • @prestonestes1388
    @prestonestes1388 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Op should have been talking to a lawyer the minute her car was damaged and he followed her home, and certainly after he pulled her hair hard enough to bleed. Restraining Order.

  • @tinahardman1525
    @tinahardman1525 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Women die during child birth! She's asking her sister risk serious health complications.

    • @Endev_Prime
      @Endev_Prime 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      By your logic, a husband asking to have a baby is a terrible husband who risks his wife's health because of serious health complications that are possible.

    • @ritaerror7829
      @ritaerror7829 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@Endev_Prime if wife is against it, then yeah. It's more likely that unwilling person, that have trauma with pregnancy (OP's mom) would be a lot more stressed, and affect the baby and her own health. Add to this complications like not liking doctors (again, OP's mom because doctors failed) and you have a recipe for a diseaster, while hubby can be just "hehe, cute baby" ;/
      The risk might not be always big, but there always IS one, and should be discussed

  • @j-ymoney5112
    @j-ymoney5112 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    “Not enough evidence” BULL 🐂 who else is doing that to her 💀 jeez

  • @CBNM1
    @CBNM1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    The sister is horrible she could got op killed.

  • @albertgongora6944
    @albertgongora6944 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    The story of the definition why sometimes you got to buy a gun

    • @BridgetKF
      @BridgetKF 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That depends on what country you're in.

    • @drevnikocur54
      @drevnikocur54 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      And have access to abortion.

  • @Minty-cs7br
    @Minty-cs7br 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This is another level of insanity

  • @hobisoon
    @hobisoon 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I hope she ditches her sister the minute all of this is over

  • @Kinsfire
    @Kinsfire 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I suspect that STBXBIL was contemplating kidnapping and raping her just to have that child he so desperately wanted with 'family' DNA. Sister's divorce should go well, what with the proof of stalking and such.

  • @HeyitsVicc
    @HeyitsVicc 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I would’ve pressed charges after the car incident!

  • @ladylily
    @ladylily 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    1st thing every victim should know: The police don't GAF. Period. End of sentence. They don't care until physical contact is made, and even then, it has to be proven assault. The only thing they are good for is filing reports, and at least, that does help when it comes to restraining and/or protective orders.

  • @sylvesterthekiibokinnie1637
    @sylvesterthekiibokinnie1637 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Surrogacy is not allowed for people with no children, so????? How is that selfish

    • @katherinehutton9870
      @katherinehutton9870 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Do you know what surrogacy is? The women who will become pregnant with the baby needs to have had a baby. Not the women who can't have children but will raise the baby. The reason is you do not know how they will be during the pregnancy. It is I higher risks carry a a baby that's been implanted. To women and child, if the women has had a child those risk go down. All the would have to do is find any women willing and who has had a child. It dies not prevent the couple from that route. The BIL is just fixated on it having to be her.

    • @emoneestep
      @emoneestep 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@katherinehutton9870That’s not what the OP comment meant. If you are doing surrogacy through a clinic, they typically require the woman who is volunteering herself as a surrogate to have been pregnant before. Aka, the clinic wants proof that the surrogate can carry a child to term before moving forward with the procedure. The OP in the story has never been pregnant and has no children, meaning a clinic would not likely approve her for surrogacy even if she wanted to do it.

  • @StoriesToFallAsleep79
    @StoriesToFallAsleep79 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    That’s an incredibly disturbing situation-stay safe and protect your boundaries 🚨

  • @RedditFamilyyy
    @RedditFamilyyy 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is such a heartbreaking and complex situation. I can't imagine the emotional toll it's taking on you, especially with the added pressure and the safety concerns. You’ve shown incredible strength in standing your ground, even when faced with so much opposition from your sister and her husband. You’re not wrong for prioritizing your boundaries and well-being. It’s clear you care deeply about your sister, but her husband’s behavior is extremely concerning and completely out of line. I hope the authorities take your situation seriously and provide the protection you deserve. Sending you strength and support-you’ve been so brave!

  • @ladylizifer
    @ladylizifer 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I still don't understand how Foster Care isnt an option here. There are millions of reported cases of infertile families adopting or opening their home to foster care only to get pregnant shortly after, and naturally too. Theres something about being thrown into the parental position that rewires the body and mind and makes it possible to get pregnant. I've literally seen it, woman only had 1 set of eggs after an accident, tried for years. She fostered 3 kids for a couple of months and BAM, preggers.

    • @ritaerror7829
      @ritaerror7829 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's not a common fact (and seems pretty outlandish, no offense)
      Also, the BIL is clearly not in the right mind. I don't know if it's family values or whatever, but seeing misscariage as murder, and thinking he's entitled to his wife's sister isn't normal. Maybe they would pretend for a while, but no child should be near man like that

  • @trinalifehappens49
    @trinalifehappens49 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Let us know what happens after Court and the consequences to BIL

  • @grobanite4ever85
    @grobanite4ever85 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Restraing order is needed and a jail term for BIL

  • @j-ymoney5112
    @j-ymoney5112 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Some sisters do things like this, other sister would lay down their lives for their sis 😂 couldn’t imagine being the first type

  • @Zarai_Numbers
    @Zarai_Numbers 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Why is she letting her sister live with her? Why can't she stay with her dad?

    • @silentmuse6660
      @silentmuse6660 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I would assume it's part the sister wanting to make up for everything, and part that the (soon to be ex)BIL was probably ordered to stay away from Op or more charges would be put against him, so the sister has some level legal protection while staying with Op.

    • @cosmickel
      @cosmickel 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      RIGHT!!!??? I would NOT feel safe with living sith someone who was sitting on evidence because they had to choose between SAVING MYLIFE and saving their abuisve stalker husband. I do genuinely hope the sister gets the appropriate help to unpack all that but shed HAVE to stay with mydad. What happens if the sister invites the husband over if charges arent pressed or if hes easily bailed out????? She let him keep harassing OP for WEEKS after the hair pulling incident!!!! Whynwould you trust her so easily to be around you ??

  • @madeleinalazaris8138
    @madeleinalazaris8138 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I'm not excusing the sister bit she's going to need some serious therapy because not only was she suffering abuse from her husband but also her inlaws. Sister had been with the husband since college so goodness knows how long that abuse was happening.
    It really does take something monumental for the light to switch on. Also, there is an element of shame involved, the sister may well have felt ashamed that she was abused.
    Not too sure I'd have the sister living with me while the divorce and legal proceedings against ex BIL were happening but I wouldn't cut the sister off entirely. I'd forgive.

  • @virtualatheist
    @virtualatheist 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    In Dad or boyfriend's shoes, the first comment by BiL would have eared him a savage beating.
    Also, I wonder what we are paying the police for... Clearly, it's not to do their actual job! After all, if OP's sister could find out what he was up to and the police couldn't, wtf *do* they do!

  • @lulubelle24
    @lulubelle24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is scary.

  • @InSearchofaFeministUtopia
    @InSearchofaFeministUtopia 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    From what I understand, someone who has never had a child will be approved as a surrogate.

    • @princesssofiyagm
      @princesssofiyagm 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      No they won’t. It’s a liability issue for the hospital as well as an insurance issue. Like it was pointed out by the sister there are ways to get around that but no reputable doctor or agency will allow it.

    • @RedPanda74
      @RedPanda74 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You do mean “won’t” don’t you? Because No. Any woman who has not had a child will definitely NOT be approved legally to be a surrogate.

    • @InSearchofaFeministUtopia
      @InSearchofaFeministUtopia 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @RedPanda74 actually I meant will not. I left out the not.

    • @Meep55412
      @Meep55412 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@InSearchofaFeministUtopia That happens to me when I type. I somehow forget the negatives so instead of "can't" I'll type "can" and won't notice. Gotta read things multiple times T^T'

  • @NadoriKaija
    @NadoriKaija 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hearing this sent me into my own PTSD spiral. Had to backtrack the video a bit to re-listen to the part I zoned out at. I'm glad she's safer. They need a restraining order, and maybe to move from the area while he's not following her.

  • @justmepercy720
    @justmepercy720 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Just how the OP would get pregnant is a moot point. Hopefully not the traditional way. Yikes! What a frightful thought. Especially with that particular BIL. Erik.

  • @pokefan213
    @pokefan213 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    hey if this particular story DOES get updated again can anyone lemme know, I'll leave my comment so folks can check the replies if anyone tells whether there's an update or not but the cops BETTER do something to the soon-to-be-Ex BIL

    • @levmelone32
      @levmelone32 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      me omg this was crazy bro.

    • @Skylaramix
      @Skylaramix 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Pretty sure this is fake AI bullshit. It has no trace anywhere on Reddit. So it’s most likely made up

  • @reginafarley1325
    @reginafarley1325 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    S1. Your bil is a creep who has a "I got to have s*x with twin sisters mentality. He's telling her it'll be cheaper to force himself on you & she doesn't care if he hurts you as long as she gets kids out of you. I suggest you go ahead with the egg retrieval/donation if you're comfortable doing so. Then give info to sis & tell her you did it cause you don't want kids & you had your tubes tied right after egg retrieval. Later on if you decide to have kids, just say procedure reversed itself & you're so shocked about being a mom. Good luck

  • @TEM348
    @TEM348 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I would’ve just told them I’m infertile they would’ve backed off

  • @johannageisel5390
    @johannageisel5390 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    WTH? The couple could have gotten IVF and then gotten another woman as surrogate. Does not have to be the sister.

  • @blvdurocher3255
    @blvdurocher3255 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    In a firm believer that our dna chooses which dna were willing to connect with. Like ive known some women and even read up in similar stories that women or even men will have partners for long time and unable to have any child together and once they leave those oartbers theyre able to concieve. Its mindblowing. Theres alot more i believe but i won't get into it.

    • @jasmineandstewie1271
      @jasmineandstewie1271 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I believe it too, mainly because it happened to me.
      Was with my ex husband for 6 years. Tried for 6 years and nothing. He was an abusive alcoholic gambler. Would lie to avoid work.
      After 3 years with my current husband, I went off birth control and fell pregnant 3 months later.
      My current husband rarely drinks and never gambles. He also works hard. And doesn't lie.

  • @mm4894
    @mm4894 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Get a lawyer and get a restraining order.

  • @aaliyahlewis-8213
    @aaliyahlewis-8213 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    OK, so I just looked this up on the web what your sister’s husband is doing is actually against the law and United States, there is a extreme law of harassment texting and stalking is a serious felony Only that is, if he also assault you made you believe that should be enough evidence for cops to realize that he did that they also can get fingerprints from the nails or from the fabric Like, what is the United States cops doing like step up do your job?!

  • @DeidresStuff
    @DeidresStuff 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There is absolutely a law to help. It's called the 2nd Amendment.

    • @katherinekurzius290
      @katherinekurzius290 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Unfortunately in this case, the 2nd Amendment protects ownership but not use

  • @noircross4140
    @noircross4140 วันที่ผ่านมา

    looks like the main problem here is the BIL pressuring his wife to convince her twin

  • @DragonsSpirit559
    @DragonsSpirit559 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    get a lawyer!!!!!!

  • @susanbailey3715
    @susanbailey3715 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Please do a part2 and part 3 of this story thank you

  • @thefiretailedweasel6206
    @thefiretailedweasel6206 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Extremely common police L

  • @maryleung1425
    @maryleung1425 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    No way ...i heard of a mother being a surrogate so her daughter could have a baby ...that is a creep factor big time

  • @denizkaragullu6239
    @denizkaragullu6239 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The way her sister and the police keeps failing her...

  • @Cywren
    @Cywren 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We're twins if she cant have a baby how can i? So shes infertile from a car accident.

  • @Exiled.New.Yorker
    @Exiled.New.Yorker 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Id go get an IUD and show it to them. Sister needs a therapist who can do deprogramming therapy. The BIL is a Narcissist, possibly the most dangerous known type, the SocioNarcissist.
    Reply

  • @Nahhreally
    @Nahhreally 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    “My BIL is stalking me until he can get me pregnant” WHAT

  • @deamea5098
    @deamea5098 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The fact that he could call his own wife a murder for an accident she was the victim in, is disgusting. I get the impression his wife was damaged goods to him the moment he found out she couldn't give him a baby and OP became the prize in his eyes. I think this goes beyond just wanting her to be a surrogate I think he genuinely wants OP to replace his wife and be a baby factory.

  • @RanchoSantaAnadelChino
    @RanchoSantaAnadelChino 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It would make more sense if the sis and BIL paid for the damages.
    Though many places make that illegal.

  • @shelbykeesling5373
    @shelbykeesling5373 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Don't surrogate's use the bio moms eggs so why didn't she just use a agency cause she would be using her own eggs so the baby would still be bio her's and her husband

    • @kellyvaters1689
      @kellyvaters1689 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Some surrogates use their own eggs if the legal mother can't produce her own. Some use a different donor egg altogether. The reasons for surrogacy vary widely. It is possible to a baby to be born to five different parents - the carrier, the biological parents (gamete donors) and the legal parents who will raise the child.

    • @joannegregory3024
      @joannegregory3024 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Apparently she had issues with egg retrieval for IVF

  • @raynewithhorns
    @raynewithhorns 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That boyfriend of op SUCKS! I hope they break up

  • @ruthdragon962
    @ruthdragon962 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No

  • @Starchild-1116
    @Starchild-1116 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    He just wanted to sleep with the sister 🤦‍♀️

  • @Akalim
    @Akalim 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ????
    So.. she wants to experience being pregnant, yet declined op's suggestion to donate her eggs?
    everyone else in the comments brought up other problems i took issue with so im just.. im baffled, im gonna be baffled about that logic. If i was the sister id take op's first offer

  • @tiffanyphoenix-zitz5106
    @tiffanyphoenix-zitz5106 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The sister is literal trash with a psycho as a husband. The boyfriend sucked until it got scary. Just a lot to unpack with this story...

  • @iTales-y7o
    @iTales-y7o 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    why sometimes you got to buy a gun

  • @dewo929
    @dewo929 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    AI BS.

  • @annwilson6606
    @annwilson6606 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh please, stop these graphics, it's making nauseous.

    • @hayamirin6795
      @hayamirin6795 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Then don't listen

  • @gtforeo7068
    @gtforeo7068 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Dang

  • @tatianaflack6772
    @tatianaflack6772 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I LOVE modern😅 Family

  • @CuentosdeEmociones-v4l
    @CuentosdeEmociones-v4l 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hi

  • @ai_d_in
    @ai_d_in 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    🐛🐛🐛

  • @PeacefulRedditNights-n6k
    @PeacefulRedditNights-n6k 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🤓🤓🤓

  • @maddiewaters7112
    @maddiewaters7112 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is so fake I just physically can't stand it

  • @tkstories3968
    @tkstories3968 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let's gooooo he was caught by the police and his ass is getting divorced