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Honestly wouldn’t surprise me if she’s playing that act so that her friends will help her find sex elsewhere or perhaps she does like having sex but just not with OP.. idek it all confuses me

Don’t ask him to cut ties w her instead cut ties w him if he obviously likes her

I have heard this one before.

what an interesting take on such a sensitive topic! i really appreciate how you brought attention to asexuality and its representation. however, i can't help but wonder if some of the reactions you received weren't a bit overblown. i mean, isn't it possible that people have different views on sexuality that deserve respect too?

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They can be hella mean and violent, not all DS kids are the same.

Yta tell her to deal with it bc shes not the one eating meats Ara is a intitles,spoilt brat

Sounds like parents had two kids and then acted as grandparents to the remaining 7. Jane is unhappy because she ended up as a single parent to 7 kids. Those parents are a waste of space. They weren't there for you as a child they aren't going to be there for you now. The parents need their own councilling sessions to teach them their responsibilities.

freaking religious nuts

I'd take it too

The guy’s boss was definitely the one who stole it

If she were truly a sexual and truly did not care about sex she wouldn't care if you had it with other people

😂😂😂

I feel so bad for the half-brother, but he is not OP's responsibility. The mom is really setting the kid up for failure & issues down the line as he grows up 😔.

Beggars can't be choosers honey

Dump him!! Time for him to learn to cook.

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3:34 well sorry lady but it's your fault that you let those people gang up on your husband. You could have been firm and told them that it was not their business at least. But YOU decided to KEEP quiet. You LET them continue.

If he had just said "I give my wife oral as often as she wants" that would have been enough. Nobody would be able to accuse him of being selfish and if she wanted to push the subject it would have been her fault that things escalated. I'm pretty sure she would have backed off quickly.

She's cheating on him. It's clear as day.

Its true that "there is more to romantic relationship than sex", but one still might want to have full, complete relationship. Just like car is more than just brakes, but I would not drive a car that has none.

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I was about ready to call him the AH because I had an ex-husband that told me to suck it up after 8 days when I came home after the funeral when my mom died and I laid on my bed and cried. Then I heard 5 years. There is some other mental disorders in play here. Serious ones.

The party stuff sucks thats for sure.. For some reason i cant help but feel that these two could just break up.. remain best friends.. and life wouldnt change much..

YTA, In my mind my body my choice applies to both genders. He is better off without you. Also can anyone guess the most effective way prevent pregnancy? having self control, go celibate, or strictly stick women.

Heck I've seen parents kiss their child on the lips thats something i wouldn't do but some people think its normal kissing a forehead is completely innocent

Update 2 - My (M50) wife (F48) abandoned me to find herself My wife texted me in the middle of December that she’d be home for Christmas. I told her that we (our daughter and I) would be at my brother’s, she obviously wasn’t welcome. I’d leave her car in the driveway and the fob in the backyard. She wasn’t allowed in the house unless I was there, she didn’t have keys to get in. She spent Christmas with her sister. When we got back I met with her. I decided not to be overly confrontational because I didn’t want to give her the satisfaction of thinking I cared enough to be mad. She was taken aback about how detached l was, I could tell it bothered her that I didn’t show her much emotion, not even anger. I just wanted her to agree to a divorce. This is a summary of several different meetings, both with and without our daughter (she hasn’t wanted to meet with her mom alone yet). I asked why she left without telling anyone. She said she didn’t want to wait a year, She didn’t want anyone talking her out of it, she didn’t want to work anymore, she wanted to leave before her mental health got worse. I’m sure it was mostly because she didn’t want me to stop her from taking the money. She knew I would take care of everything with the kids and house when she left. We had decided to go summer of 2024 for a few reasons. Packing everything and getting the house ready to sell was going to be a lot of work. We wanted to make sure our daughter graduated college, got a job, and was settled. We wanted to make sure we had money when we got back. We wouldn’t have a house, cars, or jobs so we needed money because it could take months to find work and a place to live. We didn’t want to have any worries or deal with a mess back home. At some point in our planning she began questioning (to herself, not me) if she ever wanted to go back to our old life. She didn’t want to work full time or buy a house and stay in one place after we got back. She wasn’t sure what she wanted but she didn’t think she would figure it out talking to me. I told her that’s the reason we were taking the trip, to figure those things out together, to see what we wanted for the next part of our life. I asked her why she didn’t just get a divorce before she left, then she wouldn’t have had do do this behind our backs and she would have had plenty of money without stealing our joint savings. She claims that she didn’t want a divorce, that she wanted us to live whatever life she figured out. I told her that’s not how marriages work, one person deciding for the other. In talking/texting our daughter, her family, my texts and voicemails she realized I might not forgive her (she was right about that), so she might have to “visualize a future” without me. This is where I had hoped she would say some stupid shit like she was going to squander all her money living in a van and make travel vlogs or she met some guy that she needed to wire money to so they could open an ice cream shop in Alaska. Instead she wants to be a digital nomad, working part time fully remote and living in new places. She tried to convince me to go with her, but I’ll never be able to trust her, plus I don’t love her anymore. Traveling like that for a few years doesn’t sound bad but she doesn’t have a job or any work lined up. She’s not in her 20s and that way of living will get old quick, no close friends, no family. I want her to make it work so she won’t be here trying to get back in our lives. How are the kids doing? Our son wouldn’t have seen us the entire time she was gone anyway. He only responds to her with very short texts. He told me she wanted to see him but he said he was too busy and wouldn’t be able to get away. He lives in the barracks so it’s an easy excuse to avoid her. My daughter stopped talking/texting her. She’s pretty upset, her worry turned to anger when she realized her mom wasn’t having a mental breakdown but was just being selfish. If her mom was sticking around, they could probably work through it eventually. I just care that my daughter is happy, so whatever she decides I’ll support. 2. Did she spend all the money? About half. I think she realized she needed to figure it out before she completely ran out of money. 3. Did she sleep with anyone? I didn’t ask because I didn’t care. Asking would imply I wanted her back or it would matter. Even though I didn’t ask she claims she didn’t, not sure if she’s lying or not, she might just be saying that because she doesn’t want the kids to have another reason to be mad at her. 4. Does she feel bad for what she put us through? She claims she does and she wishes she had handled it differently. She said getting away and figuring herself out was best for her. I told her she was just being selfish. When she first left we were worried something would happen to her and we would never see her again. She’s always been self centered. I told her she’s taking the easy route and letting everyone else handle the difficult parts. If she gets sick? Kids will take care of her. Goes broke? Live with family. Abandon everyone? They’ll forgive her. She thinks her siblings and our children will let her live with them like we let her mom live with us. I’m sure when she “visualizes her future” she sees our kids there; they might not be and definitely not in the same way they were before. Despite how it might sound, I’m actually really happy with how it all turned out. Our divorce is far from final, but we’ve agreed on the big things; we’ll sell the house, how to split the retirement and profit from the house, how to payback the money she took and what I spent maintaining the household. I got most of what I wanted from the settlement and she’ll soon be (mostly) out of my life. I won’t have to pay alimony, and because she’s choosing to make significantly less money than she was, I won’t be forced to support her. That would have been a kick to the teeth. She isn’t my responsibility anymore and I won’t have to care for her if she does get sick or goes broke. I figured I’d start dating again. I didn’t realize a 50 year old man with children out of the house, a good job, and in decent shape would be a catch. I’m not fighting women off with a stick, but I’ve had a lot more interest than I expected. It’s been kind of nice meeting new women. I’ve worked out the numbers and I’ll be doing pretty well after everything is settled and I only have to support myself. Not where I wanted to be; 50, getting divorced, and using Reddit as free therapy sessions. But, I’m happier now than I’ve been in a while. I’m even planning a little vacation of my own. P.S. thank you to everyone that has responded and reached out. It meant a lot.

Not uncommon behavior. Women are so used to denigrating men with no consequences that it surprises them that men react to it.

Love the victim blaming. "Yes you should just make more for the people who are stealing from you" what a fking joke

I'm sorry she dropped the baby in the lake???????? INSANE WOMEN!!! How is she even alive because I know some mothers who would have killed somebody for that??

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Creative writing falls apart when you forget that the woman was already married and cheated on her husband getting pregnant with someone elses baby being the impetus to have her move in.

As I get older I realize that a lot of the mistakes of our parents were made because we are imperfect beings, lacking in wisdom but most of the time without bad intentions. She gave in to her selfish temptation for an exciting affair with a capable man with other family ties, he gave in to the temporary frustration of not getting any action with the woman he loves and went with another woman seeking fun. She holds on because she wants the victory taking something away something that is a "challenge" since he is already married with kids, he wants the sexual gratification and extra affection she is showing him, it's the same old story.

So, boyfriend’s friends are all AHs, with the homewrecker being the queen. And boyfriend becomes an AH around his friends. Oh, and with the conclusion, he’s an independent AH also.

Wow! I get OP's stance and her feelings but that's cold. Might as well evict... cuz the emotional is doing damage. Not that her sister doesn't deserve it- it's just there's another life involved. If OP wants to be angry and upset with someone here, it's the man- baby daddy. He is the root of the problem. The wife, and OP should be upset more with him. He did a # on OP's sister ... cuz if not, he would have never come to OP'S door. I hope that OP can find it in her heart to be more forgiving. Watchful, yes. Forgiving, yes.

NTA.

You arent even married lol. If you arent having sex she not only isnt your wife shes not even your girlfriend. You barely have a functioning friendship.

No. Absolutely not. No tolerance for this BS, she should have never been with him in the first place, she's just wasting his time. Toxic at best and abusive at worst.

God help families.

I HOPE MISS SUGAH CAN BE AT THAT WEDDING AND ENJOYS EVERY SECOND! YOU DESERVE THIS HAPPY ENDING! I never expected to be in tears staring at a subway surfers video or whatever game that was lol

Holy shit that house must look like an abomination. But it for pettiness sooooo

Blood vs water doesnt mean what most people think it means

This seems super fake. Maybe it's not but just how it's written seems off

that double proposal is so cute. I feel bad for them having to deal with their neighbour, though in the end, all is well

HELP THIS WAS SO CUTE

Gods I hope this wasn’t an AI written story I fucking love how this woman types

This is relatable but worse than I experienced. Why was the story repeated within the story?

The dad is vile, the mom was a piece of work but just….gross people

The last line of the story always pisses me off yes there is much more to a romantic relationship other than just sex. However there is more than one leg to a chair if one of the four legs are gone people call that chair broken