10 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings for You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- 10 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings for You. In this video, we uncover ten signs a guy likes you. You'll learn tips and tricks to help you spot if a guy secretly likes you.
It makes no difference how long or how briefly you've known a guy. It’s always possible that some of the men you know may develop feelings for you. There are guys in your life right now who have romantic feelings for you, and you have no clue. They may be fantasizing about having a genuine connection with you, but you will never know since they are so adept at concealing it. What if this man happens to be the kind of person you'd want to date as well?
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Mixed signals means they don’t like you enough to make a move plain & simple.
Exactly. This video is giving people fake hopes!
It could be fear of rejection I advise you to break the ice and be direct. You don’t know if you don’t try
Not necessarily. In my case we are colleagues. So there is a risk of it being awkward and there is also the fear of rejection on both sides. I can tell he likes me at least as a person, and wants to be around me.
Not necessarily. It could be that there's some sort of hurdle like you're already friends and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Or maybe he's a coworker and office dating is a no-no.
No ! I TAKE MIXED SIGNALS AS NO !
Exactly lmfao 😂😂😂😂
Amen
Same.
thank you!
Same
Dont try to decode someone! IF they want you they should be able to say it to you! IF NOT MOVE ON!
Brilliant! Mixed signals come from hell. They never lead to anything worthwhile
Amen
Included: He got married to another lady cause he is battling his feelings for you😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂screamin
Yea I got that for me too
This gave me a good chuckle.😀
😂😂
If he is concealing it, then he is looking for someone better but keeping you on the hook.
No. We think you are out of our league, afraid of rejection
@@bintarmupiza542 interesting perspective
@@bintarmupiza542 Agreed... sometimes.we meet someone we are not ready to
@@bintarmupiza542that could be true but there is some guys also think that they could do better
No it doesn't what makes u think he's looking for another person from what I've heard women do this called monkey branching
So this video is dangerously validating all of us girlies that are in a delulu situationship. I’ll take it. 🤧🎉
delulu=solulu
@@vlogs.bymila yes ma’am😭💅
😂
Exactly what I was thinking. All of those phoney signs might also mean you are making him uncomfortable in your presence and he’s not that into you. I found that video preposterous. Ladies: be clear with him. If he backs away: he’s not into you. Move on.
Lol
But also if a guy treats you like this, stay away from him. Idc if he's insecure, that's no excuse for him to make _you_ feel insecure as well. If he can't build a solid foundation of trust with you, he's mentally immature and not the right one for you.
thank you 👍🏻 yeah i've met a guy like this before, and now i'm moving forward
True. Very true.
what about one sided lust
This video just turned all the red flags into green 😂
You’re too real for this 😂😂
Yes
I was thinking that too … sounds to me he is just not into you 😂
i wish i could like this comment more times so its the top one. because WHOA nope those are red flags.
This is definitely all very middle school. 😂
Ladies this video actually makes you a chaser to the guy you like...if a man not giving you that attention you need you're not the one. Period
They also act like this while they're playing you.
Yep!!
All the time!
My sign is always ignore the person i truly admire and have more conversations with people around them but never with them 😂
way to make your crush feel insignificant and insecure about themselves lmao
I am the same 😄😄😄
Same.. he too beautiful to look at🙈
If my crush would do this, I would think they're not interested and probably don't even like me as a person.
@@stupidityshouldhurt1 the first thing is to ignore them but trust me you will know that this person like you later ,they will show you signs ....
The eyes never lie 😌 the fact that i ignore this my crush is because my eyes aren't the same when I'm in front of someone i like ,my face always turns red and they can see clearly that i like them 🤭
A man’s perspective on this:
1. Mixed signals
We are not all immature, we do not all give mixed messages to women we fancy. I suggest you avoid men who do.
Thanks saved me type time 😅i agree
Thank you, I think this is something immature men do.
YES.
💯FACTS💯
I have to disagree with the one where he is dating other people and talks about other people in front of you...Either he's not interested, or is a narcissist. and any self respecting women would not put up with that.
You are so right if he sees other girls. This videos got some BS. I'd cut off a girl for good if she sees other guys or even if she were to try to make me jealous 😅
@@aymanyounes2196 true...If someone is dating me and another woman at the same time, He's not interested in either one, trust me. So, I am gone...I just won't give that guy an ego boost by sticking around...and I'm not desperate to have a man in my life.
@@juliealbright5191 Excellent leave a guy if he acts like that. It could also mean he's a player. You deserve a good guy that's the complete opposite and loves you. Good luck
Agreed
Actually, they do it to be playful, they expect you to say something sassy that will show him or her that they are stupid to pass up on you. It happened to me and I didn't know, so instead I felt the guy was trying to hurt my feelings, so it hurt my pride and it caused me CPTSD. I would bottle up feelings, instead of touching him. They love to be touched.
Mixed signals means NO. Men are not that complicated. No guy who is attracted you behaves this way… he might have options or you’re a placement holder
Except for number 3 about body language, I believe the rest is full of red flags. The hot/cold behavior, dating other people, don't asking the person out, and not being sure about his feeling, is completely unmature. I wouldn't advice to date an unmature guy, which shows these "signs".
You mean immature lol
@@PrettyDreadie😂😂😂😂
I agree with you. Immature or had a trauma from a previous relationship and is afraid to take actions, but date only other people who he thinks he can have the situation under control (meaning not engaging in feelings). Both are wrong and do not allow him to enjoy life.
I know a man who reacts like this with me. And while he is intelligent, admirable etc, I think he is the second case: he felt in love before, got deeply disappointed, and now is afraid to have responsibilities. 😏
@@kekp3791 do you mean being afraid to be hurt or disappointed again?
@@nazxra more afraid of be hurt. That's why he is careful to not fall in love, and is always prepared to end the relationship.
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you.
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That was very nicely said. And so right
The "right one" isn't necessarily going to "find you"! 🙄
Not gonna lie the best advices on these men are coming straight from the comments😂
This is horrible advice. Ladies, a man that wants you will have no problem expressing that to you. You will have no doubt that he is serious about you. Men are not as complicated as people make it seem. And in the rare case that he does have feelings for you but can’t express his true feelings to you, this means that he is emotionally immature. In this case, let it go because you don’t need someone who cannot communicate or who has emotional damage. That simple.
I agree with you I got so tired of this guy at work who just keep on staring at me and smile.
@@rolansanchez7046maybe he's not single but can't help liking you
That’s not true. Most men aren’t good are expressing their feelings. It’s normal.
This isn’t always the case.. my ex husband had no issues with expressing how much he loves me but treated me the opposite. My best friend however, has a very difficult time expressing how much he loves me but isn’t afraid to show it! It just depends on the man!
@@ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104 this is not normal for a emotionally mature man. If he cant express himself then you’re dealing with a boy.
Idk what to do :') liking someone is getting harder day by day
easy: don't give the time of day to this 12 year old dude described in this video. Problem solved
Everyone is so rough in this comments. Not everyone acts the same, some people won't ever admit it because they think you are way out of their league.
@Carol-bs6luhow about women stop thinking men don't have confidence stop pretending u understand men whrn u truly don't
@Carol-bs6lulmfao your EQ is probably below 50
@Carol-bs6luNobody is perfect.
@Carol-bs6lulol this girl thinks she understands. Wish I could help.
@Carol-bs6lulol but if men go out of their way to basically flirt or send signals people think it’s creepy. Women litterally do the same thing, every human gets cold feet. Hell, this is even worse with gay people because no one ever knows if the person is straight or not. There’s so much hypocrisy in the comments
How to spot an emotional immature person:
If this is one man we are talking about and he is exposing 2-3 of those signs, then this is a man with a trauma and definitely not a viable relationship material, sorry. if I have to walk on eggshells and baby a guy because he is "scared", "afraid", or "insecure", I'd be way better on my own. Take notes, women, don't sell yourselves cheap.
Most of the time its infatuation but not love ;I have got infatuated many times till now in my life
But that's commonly how love starts...with infatuation that hopefully matures into real feelings of love.
This video is horrible. This should've been directed towards teenagers because a grown ass man will be open and honest about their feelings.
If someone is behaving this way, depending on the time, just run.
whyyy my crush acts like this and he confessed he has a crush on me
Lol if you just run away after one instance of “mixed signals” then you’re litterally no better though
Or he could be a narcissist
Idk, I dated 2 of those, and they were quick to tell me they wanted to date/ be together.
Narcs pull u in really quickly
They know right off the cuff they want to F your whole life up and go in for the kill
If he's fighting his feelings, then obviously I'm not worth his time/emotions or whatever, I shouldn't have to convince him to ditch the hoes and choose me, or what am I missing?
This makes so much sense with the guy I once got close with til he said he was no longer interested in me and doesn't like me whatsoever , and yet his actions and body language is the complete opposite. Despite these mixed signal I moved on even if this guy' truly did have feeling for me I know my worth and deserve to be with a man or won't be afraid to admit his feelings for me . And won't be in denile , and won't date either people as he know I'm the only for him , I'm with a better guy now who loves me and respect me for me , and refuses to date either people accept me , yea so I still have feeling for the old guy , but I also have really strong feelings for the new man in my life , but I wasn't going to hang around and be messed around with for the rest of my life , waiting for the old flame to realise his loss. Xx speaking out of experience here
Bunk! I don’t play games like a high school kid and neither does my guy. 🙄
If they are acting in this way then they are not ready for a relationship because they shouldn't have to fight it.
This advice is like Gina's dreams in He's not that Into You! If someone likes you, he will make it happen!!
he is a fcking 10/10 and I am heading out the door! he wants to fight his feelings? I’m out, dude!
This is making me more delulu
Lol I was thinking about delulu Today.….
We got to Trust our Instincts…
Guys who make us Feel Delulu are the Ones we Need to Stay AWAY From. ………..
They use Girls & Women to Mess + play with our heads….
Gaslighting n Such
This is game playing ladies and you don’t need to be with a BOY, you want a real MAN.
Great to know …. Not to date ….. grow up and just be who you are ….. no don’t put up with this no one needs a little boy.
True fuck buddy usually x
Why can’t he just tell me? 😂
Because he doesn’t want you to think you have power over him, sooooo to flip it around they ignore you or mistreat to gain leverage and stay in control of the relationship… or and they will slow things down and pace it or disappear and come back ….Men 🤦🏽♀️
That part 😒
If he can't tell me how he feels about me then to hell with his mixed signals because real men knows what they want in a woman they fancy. 🤔😃
@@teanna4569what is this “relationship” control if you haven’t even started dating?? Lmao
Makes you wonder how people ever get in relationships at all if everybody’s just always scared and never asks anybody out.
Men are very emotional more so than women when they fall in love
Not true
What a load of rubbish- if a guy likes you then you will know about it. If not he is using you and get him out of your life if he is not a true friend. Too many mucked up blokes out there
This video should be titled Noticeable red flags to avoid 😅
😂😂True
Lol then just move on and stop bitching about it. If you ignore them and they instantly start giving you more energy than they ever have before then you know…and if they don’t then you know
😂😂😂😂
This is SO immature!! Do NOT give this type of guy the time of day. No emotionally stable woman would ever be ok with this immature behavior.
Tooo many games
it is always most helpful to get the inside look into a "guys headspace" & their reasoning!! Thank you. :)
Absolutely! Gotta figure out who are the psychopaths first! 😂
Tbh.....mixed signals equals zero connection. Almost equates to electric shock therapy. Hey Im feelin pretty good.....then ZAP!⚡️⚡️⚡️.....wait....who are you again?
This is my damn co-worker. Focus Josh😂
lot of these actually apply to how I act around my crush... ugh
why?? casue my crush acts like all of these after he said he has a crush on me and he ghosted me for like a week and we’re talking again
and im genuinely confused
I love how dramatic my life sounds>🤣
Ugh. Flirting with others. Irritability. Ignoring. RUN
this
This is like a get out of jail free card for all the wishy washy men out there...they should be a man and be real!
The problem is in todays world people think they are not good enough and fear rejection especially with social media and stuff where everyone strives for perfection. So don’t think someone is not interested just cause he’s too affraid to ask you out.
Love how all of these except for no. 3 USUALLY mean he's just highly uncomfortable around you or simply not into you. Or maybe he is, but he's mentally still a child 😑
This explains so much for me, yet at the same time, it only makes the situation look even more like murky water.... if I just take things slow and stick to the plan, then perhaps something positive can come out from this. My interest in my co-worker comes from knowing that he's a bachelor by choice, yet, he has a lot of friends that are female. If his resolve is fading when it comes to remaining single, then I guess I can just rest easy knowing that I'm playing my cards right.
He could be gay.
*I love you, and I will love you until I die, and if there's a life after that, I'll love you then.*
Perfect recepie to date a narcissist, stay away ! As the video advances, it gets worst. If he seems jealous and questions you about other men, run run.
It's time wasted just say how you feel gentlemen 😜
Ladies I have had good training on knowing if a man or friend is serious about you. The only way to know is when you ask for anything your true friend will do what you ask of them. So my advice is to ask your true friends for a favor.
Truth.
Sounds like you're talking about an employee or slave!
Sweetie that sounds like Friend with Benefits .
Ahhh....red flags!!!...
This was interesting but i just dont buy it. most men who ignore you ect end up ignoring you permenantly
i dont deal with beta
alpha will make sure you know they mark their territory 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂🤣love this
Now I’m more confused 🫠🤣
Who else likes someone rn and you're watching this so you could hide it better😂
You should probably do the opposite lol. They will never find out and if you keep going that route, not sure how you'll end up with someone you like. :( Inch towards showing them a LIIITTLE bit more daily.
My guy texts then don't texts. Sometimes hes talktive sometimes not. When we see each other everything is great
He confuses me
All these mixed signals is most likely a NO
Not really, usually men would say or give direct hints that they aren’t interest. Mixed signals can turn into a yes.
This is all true for a man that is immature emotionally and in the age range of 6-15 imo.
My dick head was 63! I ran😂
Simply put… men r a walking contradiction…🙄
Everyone is saying “mixed signals this, mixed signals that” but honestly the way I see it, everyone is different. Can a man possibly be emotionally immature if he’s hiding his feelings from you? Sure. Does it confirm that he doesn’t like you enough? No it doesn’t confirm that at all. A man is an individual with his own experiences. So many things can be holding him back. I’ve never been a hardcore supporter of the phrase, “if she/he wanted to, she/he would” bc there are things that get in the way. It all depends on the person and their “reasoning.”
Well said, sister.
This gives a lot of clarity to this issue.
If he is acting this way he has issues and you should ignore him for good. If you are unsire about a mans feelings he isnt the one. the right one will make it known for sure and will not let you get away. you wont have to do anything at first but exist.
The man who really wants you will NEVER playing games. He will NEVER put himself in place to lose you. The real mature man will make it crystal clear and bind you. Any other than that is just immature boy not good enough/ not really care/ not ready for you. NEVER entertain a clown if you want THE KING, QUEEN. ❤
These are all toxic traits.Run Ladies, Run!!!!!!
Come on, David! I know you're concealing it. Go ahead
Ummm it’s an absolute NO for me on a lot of these so far. Sound like huge red flags for a trauma bond and cat mouse breadcrumbing game. Not real love or stable healthy relationship start. My advice: Pay WAY less attention to what they are doing and feeling and what YOU are feeling/what your body/Solar plexus is telling you. If you don’t feel peaceful it’s too much of a project. You deserve better. Keep moving…
What if it’s a situationship/ fwb and he ask you are you sleeping with other men? Then he ask was I talking to other men ??
Is he insecure, jealous, fear of losing you, catching feelings, or being selfish
He probably cares about you and wants to know where you both are at.
Asl him with a smile; why do you want to know?
I have a crush on a married guy and he knows about it .
Edit: I felt like I had to confess my sin
What the...
Wickedness!
@@mikewilkins2030 I just burn in hell for this…😢
@@mariea82 so shall you believe, so shall it be!
@@mikewilkins2030 😭😭
Thank you I know a guy like this now I know how he feels this really helped thank you for sharing
Same here too, my guy best friend has a crush on me these 4 months but he knows that I am married.
What if a guy you have been mutual friends with for years tells you he cares for you but wouldn’t even dance with you? I tried dancing with him and he totally dodged it even though i was trying to be friendly about it(We have danced together before either of us got married to different people)
Unless you’re both widowed/divorced I wouldn’t recommend dancing with him either. Can’t lead to anything good if you’re both currently married. For future reference, the thing you need to understand about guys is they can like you but not necessarily enough to pursue a relationship with you. As a rule of thumb, flirt for a week or two and if he doesn’t ask you out move on. It’s the best way trust me.
Maybe he wants to so much, it physically hurts him not to be with you, so needs to hold back …. No point in having you in his arms for 5 minutes if it can’t be longer.
@@MissJJoan I see what you are saying but I don’t understand why it’s and issue to dance now when it wasn’t before? Yes we are married to two other people, who also know one another very well. We are all friends at the end of the day 🙂
Dont xaste your tome. My advice.
What do you call a shy person in this situation? We are talking about extroverts that act like introverts during sexual tension.
Yep plus feelings can turn to once they've got some friendships over showing they weren't a good friend in first place .
This is me.. I'm not a guy... LOL
How about he is so afraid to talk to you for years being a sign lol
Cowards aren't attractive
this is a comedy channel right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You know what 🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣
I act the same way. If I'm struggling with my feelings, I ignore you to a point. If I see you coming I will go down a different path. I will speak and have a good conversation with you if we can break the ice. Then, I will struggle with my feelings if it's something unattainable to me and I will ignore you in order to get myself under control.
So frankly, if they are ignoring you then I think it's not because they don't like you or aren't attracted to you, but because you are off limits for some reason. If YOU don't think there is a reason a relationship should be off limits then I think ladies should pursue a tad. Go talk to him, get in his space. As long as you don't settle for anything less than what you really want. A long term forever relationship marriage thing lolll
I had this co-worker who looks at me and smile and I look at him too in the eye but I feel so self-conscious so I walked away, I don't know what that stare means.
Let’s not continue to normalize childish behavior
If he struggles to know how he feels about you, then he's not sure about you. You better leave!
#1 is a freaking massive red flag right there. Passing off this video
Bruh this video is feeding people’s delusion for real 🤣🤣
I'm happy all the narcissists are finally decent and mature men according to this video.
Mixed signals can also indicate he changed his mind and it's time to move on.
This is electronic harassment
This is too much. Is not as difficult as everyone thinks. No one is more important that you and what you want. If you like someone just be honest and let them eh or she know your feelings. If they like you, wonderful. If they don’t, so what and move on. Everyone goes through the same crap so why do you put yourself through it. People think too much.
That's it express yourself and if someone is not respectful and appreciative, we did our best and their poor treatment is upto them.
If they respond that they do want us clear. If not ok cry but bye.
Damn...gentlemen...we've all been outed.
WHAT EVEN IS 5:20 😭😭
Been in a FWB/situationship with someone for, idk, 9 years now? And I said something he thought was a lie (i said something dumb, like i eat mustard on pizza) and so i told him to tell me a lie to make it even and he said, "i hate you." I've thought about that every second for the last week. It's stupid, i know. I am stupid, it's okay, no secret there.
I always feel like he and I are walking on egg shells around each other and im just about ready to make an ass out of myself and rip the bandaid off. It's becoming insufferable holding my feelings back. It's honesty giving me nightmares.
What did you end up doing?
@hellokitty2848 nothing yet, really. I've hardly talked to him since. I'm keeping my distance for now to determine if I actually, truly have feelings for him or just the attention he gives to me.
@@thescarletsith ugh I’m in the exact same boat! In the past he’s told me he loves me but it was always like after doing him a favor. I feel our connection so to avoid any heartache, I just tell myself he loves me as a friend. I’ve never said I loved him back. So complicated. Ugh. Keep me posted!!
@@thescarletsith after 9 years it's normal to feel attached and it should be normal to talk about many things.
Just tell him about your struggle. He clearly appreciates you given the 9 yo connection!
loved this, this is fun 😁 thanks for feeding my fantasies 🥰🥰
don't you love it when a man is dating around and talking to other women near you to make you jealous, but then acts all jealous and mad when the woman he's doing all that bs to dates other men? I've been seeing a guy like this in the past, a green eyed monster when he saw me talking to another man, but he himself was dating other women the whole time he knew me, it's a major red flag. I can imagine these guys being the type of men to cheat on their partners several times or even on a regular basis, but once they think their partner's smiling a bit too often at another guy, they'll throw a temper tantrum, what I'm trying to say is, these guys are players and definitely not a good choice to be in a serious relationship with.
For me, I 100% of the time DON'T KNOW WHEN MEN ARE FLIRTING WITH ME. I just don't pay attention.
Tjis is one of the most helpful videos yet....ty
Lol. Many of these are also signs that he DOESN'T like you. (Um. Dating other women? Come on, now!) 😂
I am not 20… mixed signals are a BIG NO… step up, or step back!
I had these feelings for my manager while she was pregnant..