How it does that when it literally says: if he is uncomfortable slow things down" ? This video told the truth, if a guy doesn't want it don't chase him
This is dumb. Basically, you are saying men must chase women but women must not chase men. This is toxic gender roles. If no one makes a move, you think anything will happen between you? Why should it be the man? Back at ya: if a woman is not giving you that attention you need, you're not the one. That you finish with "period" is a red flag.
Not necessarily. In my case we are colleagues. So there is a risk of it being awkward and there is also the fear of rejection on both sides. I can tell he likes me at least as a person, and wants to be around me.
Not necessarily. It could be that there's some sort of hurdle like you're already friends and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Or maybe he's a coworker and office dating is a no-no.
Exactly what I was thinking. All of those phoney signs might also mean you are making him uncomfortable in your presence and he’s not that into you. I found that video preposterous. Ladies: be clear with him. If he backs away: he’s not into you. Move on.
not always. now i understand why people are single, cuz they easily give up. i had an experience with a guy like that, he was fighting his feelings and acted exactly as described in the video, because he actually thought i didn't like him! eventually i told my friends about my feelings for him, and they asked him about his feelings for me. that's how we got together.
I'm a guy and Once I had this Magnetic experience... she was like a Empress. And she too used to steal glances at me. Whenever I caught her she would gasp and look away. She would do the preening and all , do pass-bys ... We never talked . I tried but she used avoid me in 4ft distance. We both were Incredibly awkward just by seeing each other. Idk never have I felt such magnetic forces before.
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
But also if a guy treats you like this, stay away from him. Idc if he's insecure, that's no excuse for him to make _you_ feel insecure as well. If he can't build a solid foundation of trust with you, he's mentally immature and not the right one for you.
Or he’s doing it because he’s mirroring the almost consistent indifference/ wrapped around the finger attitude she gives him. The push pull/ cat and mouse mind Fck games they play
A man’s perspective on this: 1. Mixed signals We are not all immature, we do not all give mixed messages to women we fancy. I suggest you avoid men who do.
That's just stupid. There are tons of reasons why a man would show mixed signals, you just said ALL of them are immature just because they are not you. Fancy yourself the specimen of manhood, huh? 🙄
There’s a a guy behave like that fighting for his feelings because when a guy is taken or married already and he get attracted to a married woman he’s behavior is very different. I’m a woman and I have a good instinct.😊
I have to disagree with the one where he is dating other people and talks about other people in front of you...Either he's not interested, or is a narcissist. and any self respecting women would not put up with that.
You are so right if he sees other girls. This videos got some BS. I'd cut off a girl for good if she sees other guys or even if she were to try to make me jealous 😅
@@aymanyounes2196 true...If someone is dating me and another woman at the same time, He's not interested in either one, trust me. So, I am gone...I just won't give that guy an ego boost by sticking around...and I'm not desperate to have a man in my life.
@@juliealbright5191 Excellent leave a guy if he acts like that. It could also mean he's a player. You deserve a good guy that's the complete opposite and loves you. Good luck
Actually, they do it to be playful, they expect you to say something sassy that will show him or her that they are stupid to pass up on you. It happened to me and I didn't know, so instead I felt the guy was trying to hurt my feelings, so it hurt my pride and it caused me CPTSD. I would bottle up feelings, instead of touching him. They love to be touched.
Except for number 3 about body language, I believe the rest is full of red flags. The hot/cold behavior, dating other people, don't asking the person out, and not being sure about his feeling, is completely unmature. I wouldn't advice to date an unmature guy, which shows these "signs".
I agree with you. Immature or had a trauma from a previous relationship and is afraid to take actions, but date only other people who he thinks he can have the situation under control (meaning not engaging in feelings). Both are wrong and do not allow him to enjoy life. I know a man who reacts like this with me. And while he is intelligent, admirable etc, I think he is the second case: he felt in love before, got deeply disappointed, and now is afraid to have responsibilities. 😏
@@stupidityshouldhurt1 the first thing is to ignore them but trust me you will know that this person like you later ,they will show you signs .... The eyes never lie 😌 the fact that i ignore this my crush is because my eyes aren't the same when I'm in front of someone i like ,my face always turns red and they can see clearly that i like them 🤭
This is horrible advice. Ladies, a man that wants you will have no problem expressing that to you. You will have no doubt that he is serious about you. Men are not as complicated as people make it seem. And in the rare case that he does have feelings for you but can’t express his true feelings to you, this means that he is emotionally immature. In this case, let it go because you don’t need someone who cannot communicate or who has emotional damage. That simple.
This isn’t always the case.. my ex husband had no issues with expressing how much he loves me but treated me the opposite. My best friend however, has a very difficult time expressing how much he loves me but isn’t afraid to show it! It just depends on the man!
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you. 💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
This makes so much sense with the guy I once got close with til he said he was no longer interested in me and doesn't like me whatsoever , and yet his actions and body language is the complete opposite. Despite these mixed signal I moved on even if this guy' truly did have feeling for me I know my worth and deserve to be with a man or won't be afraid to admit his feelings for me . And won't be in denile , and won't date either people as he know I'm the only for him , I'm with a better guy now who loves me and respect me for me , and refuses to date either people accept me , yea so I still have feeling for the old guy , but I also have really strong feelings for the new man in my life , but I wasn't going to hang around and be messed around with for the rest of my life , waiting for the old flame to realise his loss. Xx speaking out of experience here
@Carol-bs6lulol but if men go out of their way to basically flirt or send signals people think it’s creepy. Women litterally do the same thing, every human gets cold feet. Hell, this is even worse with gay people because no one ever knows if the person is straight or not. There’s so much hypocrisy in the comments
If he's fighting his feelings, then obviously I'm not worth his time/emotions or whatever, I shouldn't have to convince him to ditch the hoes and choose me, or what am I missing?
Lol I was thinking about delulu Today.…. We got to Trust our Instincts… Guys who make us Feel Delulu are the Ones we Need to Stay AWAY From. ……….. They use Girls & Women to Mess + play with our heads…. Gaslighting n Such
If this is one man we are talking about and he is exposing 2-3 of those signs, then this is a man with a trauma and definitely not a viable relationship material, sorry. if I have to walk on eggshells and baby a guy because he is "scared", "afraid", or "insecure", I'd be way better on my own. Take notes, women, don't sell yourselves cheap.
Perfect recepie to date a narcissist, stay away ! As the video advances, it gets worst. If he seems jealous and questions you about other men, run run.
Because he doesn’t want you to think you have power over him, sooooo to flip it around they ignore you or mistreat to gain leverage and stay in control of the relationship… or and they will slow things down and pace it or disappear and come back ….Men 🤦🏽♀️
Lol then just move on and stop bitching about it. If you ignore them and they instantly start giving you more energy than they ever have before then you know…and if they don’t then you know
What a load of rubbish- if a guy likes you then you will know about it. If not he is using you and get him out of your life if he is not a true friend. Too many mucked up blokes out there
All these comments not understanding this video. Literally in the video title it says “fighting” like fighting AGAINST his feelings for you, which yeah, doesn’t take a genius to realise a man fighting his feelings for you will be confusing/wishywashy. If you wanted a video with more direct/confident signs of men having feelings for you, then go watch another video that provides 10 examples a “confident” man fancies you. You read a video title, and then proceed to complain about the video, despite the video mentioning numerous times “he’s BATTLING his feelings for you” 🤦🏼♀️
The problem is in todays world people think they are not good enough and fear rejection especially with social media and stuff where everyone strives for perfection. So don’t think someone is not interested just cause he’s too affraid to ask you out.
Ladies I have had good training on knowing if a man or friend is serious about you. The only way to know is when you ask for anything your true friend will do what you ask of them. So my advice is to ask your true friends for a favor.
Love how all of these except for no. 3 USUALLY mean he's just highly uncomfortable around you or simply not into you. Or maybe he is, but he's mentally still a child 😑
I act the same way. If I'm struggling with my feelings, I ignore you to a point. If I see you coming I will go down a different path. I will speak and have a good conversation with you if we can break the ice. Then, I will struggle with my feelings if it's something unattainable to me and I will ignore you in order to get myself under control. So frankly, if they are ignoring you then I think it's not because they don't like you or aren't attracted to you, but because you are off limits for some reason. If YOU don't think there is a reason a relationship should be off limits then I think ladies should pursue a tad. Go talk to him, get in his space. As long as you don't settle for anything less than what you really want. A long term forever relationship marriage thing lolll
The man who really wants you will NEVER playing games. He will NEVER put himself in place to lose you. The real mature man will make it crystal clear and bind you. Any other than that is just immature boy not good enough/ not really care/ not ready for you. NEVER entertain a clown if you want THE KING, QUEEN. ❤
Yea I know a guy like this. He started yelling at me at simple things, talk over me, and command me to do things rudely. If Im given the choice i would love to stay far away from him because of other red flags but i cant for now
This explains so much for me, yet at the same time, it only makes the situation look even more like murky water.... if I just take things slow and stick to the plan, then perhaps something positive can come out from this. My interest in my co-worker comes from knowing that he's a bachelor by choice, yet, he has a lot of friends that are female. If his resolve is fading when it comes to remaining single, then I guess I can just rest easy knowing that I'm playing my cards right.
What if it’s a situationship/ fwb and he ask you are you sleeping with other men? Then he ask was I talking to other men ?? Is he insecure, jealous, fear of losing you, catching feelings, or being selfish
Tbh.....mixed signals equals zero connection. Almost equates to electric shock therapy. Hey Im feelin pretty good.....then ZAP!⚡️⚡️⚡️.....wait....who are you again?
why?? casue my crush acts like all of these after he said he has a crush on me and he ghosted me for like a week and we’re talking again and im genuinely confused
If he is acting this way he has issues and you should ignore him for good. If you are unsire about a mans feelings he isnt the one. the right one will make it known for sure and will not let you get away. you wont have to do anything at first but exist.
Honestly, the best way to know if someone likes you is to just ask them. Sure, it’s tempting to overanalyze and convince yourself they’re into you, but let’s face it-everyone’s different, and the "signals" mentioned in the video cannot be applied to everyone. So, if you like someone, be brave and tell them! Worst case, you get clarity; best case, you take the first step toward something amazing. Don’t let fear hold you back, guys.
You should probably do the opposite lol. They will never find out and if you keep going that route, not sure how you'll end up with someone you like. :( Inch towards showing them a LIIITTLE bit more daily.
Been in a FWB/situationship with someone for, idk, 9 years now? And I said something he thought was a lie (i said something dumb, like i eat mustard on pizza) and so i told him to tell me a lie to make it even and he said, "i hate you." I've thought about that every second for the last week. It's stupid, i know. I am stupid, it's okay, no secret there. I always feel like he and I are walking on egg shells around each other and im just about ready to make an ass out of myself and rip the bandaid off. It's becoming insufferable holding my feelings back. It's honesty giving me nightmares.
@hellokitty2848 nothing yet, really. I've hardly talked to him since. I'm keeping my distance for now to determine if I actually, truly have feelings for him or just the attention he gives to me.
@@thescarletsith ugh I’m in the exact same boat! In the past he’s told me he loves me but it was always like after doing him a favor. I feel our connection so to avoid any heartache, I just tell myself he loves me as a friend. I’ve never said I loved him back. So complicated. Ugh. Keep me posted!!
@@thescarletsith after 9 years it's normal to feel attached and it should be normal to talk about many things. Just tell him about your struggle. He clearly appreciates you given the 9 yo connection!
What sparks women's interest is the exact opposite of what sparks men's interest. Women are turned off by any challenge or playing hard to get. Men love it.
Sometimes they just want to see what they can (still ) pull in. Having no interest in a real loving relationship. A male ego boost and nothing more. What this gay man knows… advice for all the sistas out there. ❤
If a man is fighting his feeling for you be careful,when he actually embrace his feeling and is honest he will love you unconditionally so don't hurt him that why we fight our feeling in the frist place we already been hurt and wants to make sure it's real, because people who have been hurt know the feeling and won't hurt you cause they don't want anyone to feel that way and people who hurt inside they love the most
What if a guy you have been mutual friends with for years tells you he cares for you but wouldn’t even dance with you? I tried dancing with him and he totally dodged it even though i was trying to be friendly about it(We have danced together before either of us got married to different people)
Unless you’re both widowed/divorced I wouldn’t recommend dancing with him either. Can’t lead to anything good if you’re both currently married. For future reference, the thing you need to understand about guys is they can like you but not necessarily enough to pursue a relationship with you. As a rule of thumb, flirt for a week or two and if he doesn’t ask you out move on. It’s the best way trust me.
Maybe he wants to so much, it physically hurts him not to be with you, so needs to hold back …. No point in having you in his arms for 5 minutes if it can’t be longer.
@@MissJJoan I see what you are saying but I don’t understand why it’s and issue to dance now when it wasn’t before? Yes we are married to two other people, who also know one another very well. We are all friends at the end of the day 🙂
This is too much. Is not as difficult as everyone thinks. No one is more important that you and what you want. If you like someone just be honest and let them eh or she know your feelings. If they like you, wonderful. If they don’t, so what and move on. Everyone goes through the same crap so why do you put yourself through it. People think too much.
That's it express yourself and if someone is not respectful and appreciative, we did our best and their poor treatment is upto them. If they respond that they do want us clear. If not ok cry but bye.
I had this co-worker who looks at me and smile and I look at him too in the eye but I feel so self-conscious so I walked away, I don't know what that stare means.
What do you think it means...????? I do that with my crush (male classmate but friend): Giving contract eye for a second Smile and smile back Usually reply each other A bit of honest each other Batman (trouble sleeping) We know English each other Hug and hug back Dap and dap back Nervous smile He gives me a heart-shaped cookie with ice cream in bar laboratory when everyone have different shaped cookies. Nervous each other.
No ! I TAKE MIXED SIGNALS AS NO !
Exactly lmfao 😂😂😂😂
Amen
Same.
thank you!
Same
Ladies this video actually makes you a chaser to the guy you like...if a man not giving you that attention you need you're not the one. Period
How it does that when it literally says: if he is uncomfortable slow things down" ? This video told the truth, if a guy doesn't want it don't chase him
Painfuly it's a true fact .they don't like us,so they don't even consider us
This is dumb. Basically, you are saying men must chase women but women must not chase men. This is toxic gender roles. If no one makes a move, you think anything will happen between you? Why should it be the man? Back at ya: if a woman is not giving you that attention you need, you're not the one. That you finish with "period" is a red flag.
Mixed signals means they don’t like you enough to make a move plain & simple.
Exactly. This video is giving people fake hopes!
It could be fear of rejection I advise you to break the ice and be direct. You don’t know if you don’t try
Not necessarily. In my case we are colleagues. So there is a risk of it being awkward and there is also the fear of rejection on both sides. I can tell he likes me at least as a person, and wants to be around me.
Not necessarily. It could be that there's some sort of hurdle like you're already friends and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Or maybe he's a coworker and office dating is a no-no.
@@Morrisseys7thFriendJim from the Office did not get the memo😂 he dated 3 of his coworkers and even married 1 lol
So this video is dangerously validating all of us girlies that are in a delulu situationship. I’ll take it. 🤧🎉
delulu=solulu
@@vlogs.bymila yes ma’am😭💅
😂
Exactly what I was thinking. All of those phoney signs might also mean you are making him uncomfortable in your presence and he’s not that into you. I found that video preposterous. Ladies: be clear with him. If he backs away: he’s not into you. Move on.
Lol
Dont try to decode someone! IF they want you they should be able to say it to you! IF NOT MOVE ON!
Brilliant! Mixed signals come from hell. They never lead to anything worthwhile
Amen
not always. now i understand why people are single, cuz they easily give up. i had an experience with a guy like that, he was fighting his feelings and acted exactly as described in the video, because he actually thought i didn't like him! eventually i told my friends about my feelings for him, and they asked him about his feelings for me. that's how we got together.
I'm a guy and Once I had this Magnetic experience... she was like a Empress. And she too used to steal glances at me. Whenever I caught her she would gasp and look away.
She would do the preening and all , do pass-bys ...
We never talked . I tried but she used avoid me in 4ft distance.
We both were Incredibly awkward just by seeing each other.
Idk never have I felt such magnetic forces before.
If he is concealing it, then he is looking for someone better but keeping you on the hook.
No. We think you are out of our league, afraid of rejection
@@bintarmupiza542 interesting perspective
@@bintarmupiza542 Agreed... sometimes.we meet someone we are not ready to
@@bintarmupiza542that could be true but there is some guys also think that they could do better
No it doesn't what makes u think he's looking for another person from what I've heard women do this called monkey branching
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
This video just turned all the red flags into green 😂
You’re too real for this 😂😂
Yes
I was thinking that too … sounds to me he is just not into you 😂
i wish i could like this comment more times so its the top one. because WHOA nope those are red flags.
This is definitely all very middle school. 😂
Included: He got married to another lady cause he is battling his feelings for you😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂screamin
Yea I got that for me too
This gave me a good chuckle.😀
😂😂
But also if a guy treats you like this, stay away from him. Idc if he's insecure, that's no excuse for him to make _you_ feel insecure as well. If he can't build a solid foundation of trust with you, he's mentally immature and not the right one for you.
thank you 👍🏻 yeah i've met a guy like this before, and now i'm moving forward
True. Very true.
what about one sided lust
Or he’s doing it because he’s mirroring the almost consistent indifference/ wrapped around the finger attitude she gives him. The push pull/ cat and mouse mind Fck games they play
@@annbarclay3825lust is never a good way to start a long term relationship. It's love that makes a relationship long lasting
A man’s perspective on this:
1. Mixed signals
We are not all immature, we do not all give mixed messages to women we fancy. I suggest you avoid men who do.
Thanks saved me type time 😅i agree
Thank you, I think this is something immature men do.
YES.
💯FACTS💯
That's just stupid. There are tons of reasons why a man would show mixed signals, you just said ALL of them are immature just because they are not you. Fancy yourself the specimen of manhood, huh? 🙄
Mixed signals means NO. Men are not that complicated. No guy who is attracted you behaves this way… he might have options or you’re a placement holder
There’s a a guy behave like that fighting for his feelings because when a guy is taken or married already and he get attracted to a married woman he’s behavior is very different. I’m a woman and I have a good instinct.😊
They also act like this while they're playing you.
Yep!!
All the time!
😂😂😂I don’t know what to say…😂😂😂
Boosts their ego.
True!
I have to disagree with the one where he is dating other people and talks about other people in front of you...Either he's not interested, or is a narcissist. and any self respecting women would not put up with that.
You are so right if he sees other girls. This videos got some BS. I'd cut off a girl for good if she sees other guys or even if she were to try to make me jealous 😅
@@aymanyounes2196 true...If someone is dating me and another woman at the same time, He's not interested in either one, trust me. So, I am gone...I just won't give that guy an ego boost by sticking around...and I'm not desperate to have a man in my life.
@@juliealbright5191 Excellent leave a guy if he acts like that. It could also mean he's a player. You deserve a good guy that's the complete opposite and loves you. Good luck
Agreed
Actually, they do it to be playful, they expect you to say something sassy that will show him or her that they are stupid to pass up on you. It happened to me and I didn't know, so instead I felt the guy was trying to hurt my feelings, so it hurt my pride and it caused me CPTSD. I would bottle up feelings, instead of touching him. They love to be touched.
Except for number 3 about body language, I believe the rest is full of red flags. The hot/cold behavior, dating other people, don't asking the person out, and not being sure about his feeling, is completely unmature. I wouldn't advice to date an unmature guy, which shows these "signs".
You mean immature lol
@@PrettyDreadie😂😂😂😂
I agree with you. Immature or had a trauma from a previous relationship and is afraid to take actions, but date only other people who he thinks he can have the situation under control (meaning not engaging in feelings). Both are wrong and do not allow him to enjoy life.
I know a man who reacts like this with me. And while he is intelligent, admirable etc, I think he is the second case: he felt in love before, got deeply disappointed, and now is afraid to have responsibilities. 😏
@@kekp3791 do you mean being afraid to be hurt or disappointed again?
@@nazxra more afraid of be hurt. That's why he is careful to not fall in love, and is always prepared to end the relationship.
My sign is always ignore the person i truly admire and have more conversations with people around them but never with them 😂
way to make your crush feel insignificant and insecure about themselves lmao
I am the same 😄😄😄
Same.. he too beautiful to look at🙈
If my crush would do this, I would think they're not interested and probably don't even like me as a person.
@@stupidityshouldhurt1 the first thing is to ignore them but trust me you will know that this person like you later ,they will show you signs ....
The eyes never lie 😌 the fact that i ignore this my crush is because my eyes aren't the same when I'm in front of someone i like ,my face always turns red and they can see clearly that i like them 🤭
Not gonna lie the best advices on these men are coming straight from the comments😂
This is horrible advice. Ladies, a man that wants you will have no problem expressing that to you. You will have no doubt that he is serious about you. Men are not as complicated as people make it seem. And in the rare case that he does have feelings for you but can’t express his true feelings to you, this means that he is emotionally immature. In this case, let it go because you don’t need someone who cannot communicate or who has emotional damage. That simple.
I agree with you I got so tired of this guy at work who just keep on staring at me and smile.
@@rolansanchez7046maybe he's not single but can't help liking you
That’s not true. Most men aren’t good are expressing their feelings. It’s normal.
This isn’t always the case.. my ex husband had no issues with expressing how much he loves me but treated me the opposite. My best friend however, has a very difficult time expressing how much he loves me but isn’t afraid to show it! It just depends on the man!
@@ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104 this is not normal for a emotionally mature man. If he cant express himself then you’re dealing with a boy.
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
That was very nicely said. And so right
The "right one" isn't necessarily going to "find you"! 🙄
If they are acting in this way then they are not ready for a relationship because they shouldn't have to fight it.
This makes so much sense with the guy I once got close with til he said he was no longer interested in me and doesn't like me whatsoever , and yet his actions and body language is the complete opposite. Despite these mixed signal I moved on even if this guy' truly did have feeling for me I know my worth and deserve to be with a man or won't be afraid to admit his feelings for me . And won't be in denile , and won't date either people as he know I'm the only for him , I'm with a better guy now who loves me and respect me for me , and refuses to date either people accept me , yea so I still have feeling for the old guy , but I also have really strong feelings for the new man in my life , but I wasn't going to hang around and be messed around with for the rest of my life , waiting for the old flame to realise his loss. Xx speaking out of experience here
If someone is behaving this way, depending on the time, just run.
whyyy my crush acts like this and he confessed he has a crush on me
Lol if you just run away after one instance of “mixed signals” then you’re litterally no better though
@@bastian9693probably worse to be honest
Makes you wonder how people ever get in relationships at all if everybody’s just always scared and never asks anybody out.
Everyone is so rough in this comments. Not everyone acts the same, some people won't ever admit it because they think you are way out of their league.
@Carol-bs6luhow about women stop thinking men don't have confidence stop pretending u understand men whrn u truly don't
@Carol-bs6lulmfao your EQ is probably below 50
@Carol-bs6luNobody is perfect.
@Carol-bs6lulol this girl thinks she understands. Wish I could help.
@Carol-bs6lulol but if men go out of their way to basically flirt or send signals people think it’s creepy. Women litterally do the same thing, every human gets cold feet. Hell, this is even worse with gay people because no one ever knows if the person is straight or not. There’s so much hypocrisy in the comments
Idk what to do :') liking someone is getting harder day by day
easy: don't give the time of day to this 12 year old dude described in this video. Problem solved
How to spot an emotional immature person:
Most of the time its infatuation but not love ;I have got infatuated many times till now in my life
But that's commonly how love starts...with infatuation that hopefully matures into real feelings of love.
If he's fighting his feelings, then obviously I'm not worth his time/emotions or whatever, I shouldn't have to convince him to ditch the hoes and choose me, or what am I missing?
This is making me more delulu
Lol I was thinking about delulu Today.….
We got to Trust our Instincts…
Guys who make us Feel Delulu are the Ones we Need to Stay AWAY From. ………..
They use Girls & Women to Mess + play with our heads….
Gaslighting n Such
If this is one man we are talking about and he is exposing 2-3 of those signs, then this is a man with a trauma and definitely not a viable relationship material, sorry. if I have to walk on eggshells and baby a guy because he is "scared", "afraid", or "insecure", I'd be way better on my own. Take notes, women, don't sell yourselves cheap.
he is a fcking 10/10 and I am heading out the door! he wants to fight his feelings? I’m out, dude!
Bunk! I don’t play games like a high school kid and neither does my guy. 🙄
This advice is like Gina's dreams in He's not that Into You! If someone likes you, he will make it happen!!
Perfect recepie to date a narcissist, stay away ! As the video advances, it gets worst. If he seems jealous and questions you about other men, run run.
This is game playing ladies and you don’t need to be with a BOY, you want a real MAN.
This is SO immature!! Do NOT give this type of guy the time of day. No emotionally stable woman would ever be ok with this immature behavior.
Ugh. Flirting with others. Irritability. Ignoring. RUN
this
Great to know …. Not to date ….. grow up and just be who you are ….. no don’t put up with this no one needs a little boy.
True fuck buddy usually x
Mixed signals can also indicate he changed his mind and it's time to move on.
Why can’t he just tell me? 😂
Because he doesn’t want you to think you have power over him, sooooo to flip it around they ignore you or mistreat to gain leverage and stay in control of the relationship… or and they will slow things down and pace it or disappear and come back ….Men 🤦🏽♀️
That part 😒
If he can't tell me how he feels about me then to hell with his mixed signals because real men knows what they want in a woman they fancy. 🤔😃
@@teanna4569what is this “relationship” control if you haven’t even started dating?? Lmao
This video should be titled Noticeable red flags to avoid 😅
😂😂True
Lol then just move on and stop bitching about it. If you ignore them and they instantly start giving you more energy than they ever have before then you know…and if they don’t then you know
😂😂😂😂
What a load of rubbish- if a guy likes you then you will know about it. If not he is using you and get him out of your life if he is not a true friend. Too many mucked up blokes out there
Tooo many games
Men are very emotional more so than women when they fall in love
Not true
*I love you, and I will love you until I die, and if there's a life after that, I'll love you then.*
Keep fighting, because I'm running. In the opposite direction.
All these comments not understanding this video. Literally in the video title it says “fighting” like fighting AGAINST his feelings for you, which yeah, doesn’t take a genius to realise a man fighting his feelings for you will be confusing/wishywashy.
If you wanted a video with more direct/confident signs of men having feelings for you, then go watch another video that provides 10 examples a “confident” man fancies you.
You read a video title, and then proceed to complain about the video, despite the video mentioning numerous times “he’s BATTLING his feelings for you” 🤦🏼♀️
it is always most helpful to get the inside look into a "guys headspace" & their reasoning!! Thank you. :)
Absolutely! Gotta figure out who are the psychopaths first! 😂
This video is horrible. This should've been directed towards teenagers because a grown ass man will be open and honest about their feelings.
The problem is in todays world people think they are not good enough and fear rejection especially with social media and stuff where everyone strives for perfection. So don’t think someone is not interested just cause he’s too affraid to ask you out.
Sometimes this behavior just means they may believe you aren't interested at all and doesn't want to appear pathetic.
This is my damn co-worker. Focus Josh😂
Ladies I have had good training on knowing if a man or friend is serious about you. The only way to know is when you ask for anything your true friend will do what you ask of them. So my advice is to ask your true friends for a favor.
Truth.
Sounds like you're talking about an employee or slave!
Sweetie that sounds like Friend with Benefits .
Love how all of these except for no. 3 USUALLY mean he's just highly uncomfortable around you or simply not into you. Or maybe he is, but he's mentally still a child 😑
I act the same way. If I'm struggling with my feelings, I ignore you to a point. If I see you coming I will go down a different path. I will speak and have a good conversation with you if we can break the ice. Then, I will struggle with my feelings if it's something unattainable to me and I will ignore you in order to get myself under control.
So frankly, if they are ignoring you then I think it's not because they don't like you or aren't attracted to you, but because you are off limits for some reason. If YOU don't think there is a reason a relationship should be off limits then I think ladies should pursue a tad. Go talk to him, get in his space. As long as you don't settle for anything less than what you really want. A long term forever relationship marriage thing lolll
I love how dramatic my life sounds>🤣
The man who really wants you will NEVER playing games. He will NEVER put himself in place to lose you. The real mature man will make it crystal clear and bind you. Any other than that is just immature boy not good enough/ not really care/ not ready for you. NEVER entertain a clown if you want THE KING, QUEEN. ❤
Yea I know a guy like this. He started yelling at me at simple things, talk over me, and command me to do things rudely. If Im given the choice i would love to stay far away from him because of other red flags but i cant for now
This explains so much for me, yet at the same time, it only makes the situation look even more like murky water.... if I just take things slow and stick to the plan, then perhaps something positive can come out from this. My interest in my co-worker comes from knowing that he's a bachelor by choice, yet, he has a lot of friends that are female. If his resolve is fading when it comes to remaining single, then I guess I can just rest easy knowing that I'm playing my cards right.
He could be gay.
This is like a get out of jail free card for all the wishy washy men out there...they should be a man and be real!
What if it’s a situationship/ fwb and he ask you are you sleeping with other men? Then he ask was I talking to other men ??
Is he insecure, jealous, fear of losing you, catching feelings, or being selfish
He probably cares about you and wants to know where you both are at.
Asl him with a smile; why do you want to know?
Tbh.....mixed signals equals zero connection. Almost equates to electric shock therapy. Hey Im feelin pretty good.....then ZAP!⚡️⚡️⚡️.....wait....who are you again?
lot of these actually apply to how I act around my crush... ugh
why?? casue my crush acts like all of these after he said he has a crush on me and he ghosted me for like a week and we’re talking again
and im genuinely confused
If he is acting this way he has issues and you should ignore him for good. If you are unsire about a mans feelings he isnt the one. the right one will make it known for sure and will not let you get away. you wont have to do anything at first but exist.
Honestly, the best way to know if someone likes you is to just ask them. Sure, it’s tempting to overanalyze and convince yourself they’re into you, but let’s face it-everyone’s different, and the "signals" mentioned in the video cannot be applied to everyone. So, if you like someone, be brave and tell them! Worst case, you get clarity; best case, you take the first step toward something amazing. Don’t let fear hold you back, guys.
For me, I 100% of the time DON'T KNOW WHEN MEN ARE FLIRTING WITH ME. I just don't pay attention.
What do you call a shy person in this situation? We are talking about extroverts that act like introverts during sexual tension.
Who else likes someone rn and you're watching this so you could hide it better😂
You should probably do the opposite lol. They will never find out and if you keep going that route, not sure how you'll end up with someone you like. :( Inch towards showing them a LIIITTLE bit more daily.
Ahhh....red flags!!!...
#1 is a freaking massive red flag right there. Passing off this video
If he struggles to know how he feels about you, then he's not sure about you. You better leave!
Now I’m more confused 🫠🤣
My guy texts then don't texts. Sometimes hes talktive sometimes not. When we see each other everything is great
He confuses me
Reading reading reading while learning to comment section 😅 many advices here hahaha
Been in a FWB/situationship with someone for, idk, 9 years now? And I said something he thought was a lie (i said something dumb, like i eat mustard on pizza) and so i told him to tell me a lie to make it even and he said, "i hate you." I've thought about that every second for the last week. It's stupid, i know. I am stupid, it's okay, no secret there.
I always feel like he and I are walking on egg shells around each other and im just about ready to make an ass out of myself and rip the bandaid off. It's becoming insufferable holding my feelings back. It's honesty giving me nightmares.
What did you end up doing?
@hellokitty2848 nothing yet, really. I've hardly talked to him since. I'm keeping my distance for now to determine if I actually, truly have feelings for him or just the attention he gives to me.
@@thescarletsith ugh I’m in the exact same boat! In the past he’s told me he loves me but it was always like after doing him a favor. I feel our connection so to avoid any heartache, I just tell myself he loves me as a friend. I’ve never said I loved him back. So complicated. Ugh. Keep me posted!!
@@thescarletsith after 9 years it's normal to feel attached and it should be normal to talk about many things.
Just tell him about your struggle. He clearly appreciates you given the 9 yo connection!
Thank you I know a guy like this now I know how he feels this really helped thank you for sharing
Same here too, my guy best friend has a crush on me these 4 months but he knows that I am married.
Come on, David! I know you're concealing it. Go ahead
This advices is true for certain type of men.
This is all true for a man that is immature emotionally and in the age range of 6-15 imo.
My dick head was 63! I ran😂
What sparks women's interest is the exact opposite of what sparks men's interest. Women are turned off by any challenge or playing hard to get. Men love it.
Sometimes they just want to see what they can (still ) pull in. Having no interest in a real loving relationship. A male ego boost and nothing more. What this gay man knows… advice for all the sistas out there. ❤
I'm happy all the narcissists are finally decent and mature men according to this video.
Tjis is one of the most helpful videos yet....ty
I'm a woman and I do ALL of them when I really like someone!! I'm an introvert.... THAT'S WHY 🤣😂😅🙈🙈🙈
Me realizing I fit all the signs... Yeah...
If a man is fighting his feeling for you be careful,when he actually embrace his feeling and is honest he will love you unconditionally so don't hurt him that why we fight our feeling in the frist place we already been hurt and wants to make sure it's real, because people who have been hurt know the feeling and won't hurt you cause they don't want anyone to feel that way and people who hurt inside they love the most
All these mixed signals is most likely a NO
Not really, usually men would say or give direct hints that they aren’t interest. Mixed signals can turn into a yes.
i dont deal with beta
alpha will make sure you know they mark their territory 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂🤣love this
What if a guy you have been mutual friends with for years tells you he cares for you but wouldn’t even dance with you? I tried dancing with him and he totally dodged it even though i was trying to be friendly about it(We have danced together before either of us got married to different people)
Unless you’re both widowed/divorced I wouldn’t recommend dancing with him either. Can’t lead to anything good if you’re both currently married. For future reference, the thing you need to understand about guys is they can like you but not necessarily enough to pursue a relationship with you. As a rule of thumb, flirt for a week or two and if he doesn’t ask you out move on. It’s the best way trust me.
Maybe he wants to so much, it physically hurts him not to be with you, so needs to hold back …. No point in having you in his arms for 5 minutes if it can’t be longer.
@@MissJJoan I see what you are saying but I don’t understand why it’s and issue to dance now when it wasn’t before? Yes we are married to two other people, who also know one another very well. We are all friends at the end of the day 🙂
Dont xaste your tome. My advice.
This is too much. Is not as difficult as everyone thinks. No one is more important that you and what you want. If you like someone just be honest and let them eh or she know your feelings. If they like you, wonderful. If they don’t, so what and move on. Everyone goes through the same crap so why do you put yourself through it. People think too much.
That's it express yourself and if someone is not respectful and appreciative, we did our best and their poor treatment is upto them.
If they respond that they do want us clear. If not ok cry but bye.
advisable not to go into a serious intimate relationship with an avoidant
It's time wasted just say how you feel gentlemen 😜
loved this, this is fun 😁 thanks for feeding my fantasies 🥰🥰
This fits him because he’s taken and is trying to fight his feelings for me lol
Chasing then get ghosted
Yep plus feelings can turn to once they've got some friendships over showing they weren't a good friend in first place .
I am not 20… mixed signals are a BIG NO… step up, or step back!
I had this co-worker who looks at me and smile and I look at him too in the eye but I feel so self-conscious so I walked away, I don't know what that stare means.
What do you think it means...?????
I do that with my crush (male classmate but friend):
Giving contract eye for a second
Smile and smile back
Usually reply each other
A bit of honest each other
Batman (trouble sleeping)
We know English each other
Hug and hug back
Dap and dap back
Nervous smile
He gives me a heart-shaped cookie with ice cream in bar laboratory when everyone have different shaped cookies.
Nervous each other.
Damn...gentlemen...we've all been outed.