Why Do Men Sexualize Women?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- The following is a clip from the video series, “Shattering Sexualization”. To watch the full video, click here: www.drdougweis...
In our society, the objectification of women has increased at an alarming rate. But why is this behavior so persistent in men?
Dr. Doug Weiss, a renowned psychologist in the field of sex addiction, dives into the primary reasons why men engage in this behavior. As he explores a range of factors, Dr. Weiss emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility in the decision of whether or not to sexualize others, as well as getting the right help to stop this action.
If you find yourself struggling with these behaviors, remember, you are not alone. At Heart to Heart Counseling Center, our team of sexual recovery therapists are here to support you on your path to recovery. Call us at 719-278-3708 and our staff can get you started with an individual session, couples counseling, or one of our 3 or 5 day intensives to quicken the recovery process with a lot of counseling in a few days.
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Thank you Dr. Weiss for all the knowledge, research, and wisdom. I have watched many videos and have learned a lot from you. Thank you for your ministry and work to help many people, especially Christians who need understanding. I would like to kindly make a suggestion to your videos. 1) tape from the waist up 2) Please don't laugh at the beginning of the video on such a serious topic.
Because thats all they think about 24/7.
It’s creepy
@@MalesAreDemons You seem really healthy
@@shieldmcshieldy5750 I am tell men to stop sexualising every women they see
@@MalesAreDemons lmao your name, me after my first break up
@@MsKaystra I don’t like men
So basically what I understood is this …..MEN CAN NOT SEE ANYTHING ELSE BUT SEX ……THIS ITSELF ITS TROUBLING ….
While sexualizing is a common thing among men, not all men do this. There are many men who are honorable in the way they view and act toward women.
In the end, it's a choice they make to sexualize or not to do so. They can also be healed from sexualization if they are willing and put in the necessary work.
Very troubling
Thank you Dr. Weiss for all your videos, I watched almost all of them but I can't find a video where you talk about what the partners of sex addicts who fight for their marriage should do when their spouses lie about doing their "work " ( therapy and 12 steps group support)just to keep us around to use us as sex outlets while they continue to act out? and if we complain about it they end up discarding us and replacing us with a new supply? I know there are more women like me who can relate to this.
It’s great to hear that you’ve found the videos on this channel helpful and informative. Regarding your questions, you are correct in that there are plenty of women like you who have experienced this. In cases where an addict is not fully committed to their recovery, it can be very challenging for partners. To be used or manipulated is not only wrong, but creates much pain and confusion.
A critical step for those undergoing this is for them to have support for themselves, through counseling or a support group for partners of sex addicts, where one can share their experiences and feelings in a safe, understanding environment. Even if the addict refuses to mature and recover, the partner can still get healing for themselves.
If you are dealing with this, you can get connected with one of our therapists at 719-278-3708 or join our Partners Facebook group.
facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa
I do cover these issues in a few of my products. In “Boundaries”, I discuss the importance of having boundaries in a relationship going through recovery and making sure there are consequences when those boundaries are not kept.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/boundaries-video-download/
There’s also “When You Marry a Child, Don’t Expect a Man Right Away,” which dives into the issue of a woman dealing with the immaturity of a man going through recovery, and“Why Do I Stay” provides insight and tools for evaluating your relationship and its factors as a whole.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/when-you-marry-a-child-dont-expect-a-man-video-download/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-do-i-stay-video-download/
My ex bf is a sex addict , his dad was not there for him - his mom shoved him off to go live with his grandmother - he basically did whatever he wanted to and got into drugs, alcohol sex at a young age
He had older women when he was young. He probably wasn’t even of age yet so that was sexual abuse, but he won’t admit it. I’ve talked to him about it.
He watched a lot of porn and has hundreds of pictures on his phone
He cheated on his wife
Which eventually with the alcohol and the cheating led to the divorce
And now I feel very used
It wasn’t always about the sex though (he said )-
What’s he trying to do the right thing I don’t even know - he said he didn’t have the urge anymore and that he wouldn’t cheat on me He’s still an addict
I think in his mind, he was trying to do that because he knows I’m a sex and love addict
Still hurts 😢💔
He’s also an alcoholic so he pushes all this stuff down
He definitely is escaping !
I don’t know what to think
I’m so hurt & confused
Last Night I "slipped" /Acted-out ;Felt disgusted With my self
Are we supposed to share these videos with our husband?
Yes, you can share these with them.
Please help to get out of sex addiction.My own is so worst,sometimes I've been beating my self, insulting my self and hating my self.I do promise to my self for many times but still I want to sex with any body I've met. I'M 25 living in Ivory Coast.Please how to deal with it
DR WEISS …YOU DID NOT MENTIONED THE PARAPHILIAS A MAN CAN HAVE , IN ADDITION TO WHAT YOU HAVE SAID .
Dr weiss, i really fear for my beautifull daughter,2 years ago i found out my husband of nearly 29 years has been watching seedy ,filhy grotesque porn ,he knocks me sick to my stomach, the man i thought he was ,isnt,! His reaction / shame on his face was priceless, uf he reacted like that then how does he think i view him ,i still dont feel myself 2 years on, i want a divorce but he is making things very difficult ,my daughter who is only 10 has asked what has he been doing,imagine me telling her the dad she thinks is great ,she would be traumitized like me, ive never stopped crying he has taken 29 years from me and destroyed our family and the kids,too, i hope you reply to my comment, p.s if evey woman knew about what men do behind there backs /porn ,there would be no marriages,i know so many marriages destroyed,something needs to be done to make it illigal,i know use talking about it when the end game is still there. Nothings going to change !
What you have described about your situation is heartbreaking to hear. To constantly experience a spouse’s porn use for years on end would indeed create feelings of revulsion and heartache towards him and the marriage. Your partner betrayal trauma from this is real.
If you haven't already, it would be best to consider the importance of your overall wellbeing. If you’re interested, you can make an appointment with one of our certified therapists here at Heart To Heart Counseling Center by calling 719-278-3708. They will help encourage you and provide guidance through the process of healing. There’s also the availability of community support through our free Partners Facebook group.
facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa
Additionally, you might find a few of our resources helpful for healing and gaining insight on the matter.
The Partners: Healing From His Addiction book and Partners Recovery Guide workbook are great resources to validate what you have experienced and how to walk towards healing.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-healing-ebook/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-recovery-guide-ebook/
The “Why Do I Stay” video also provides information and tools for evaluating your relationship and the issues regarding it overall.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-do-i-stay-video-download/
In the case of your daughter, your concerns are valid, as it is natural to want to protect her from what’s going on. We have a video download called "What To Tell the Kids" which would give you more insight into how to handle this particular situation.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/parenting-what-to-tell-the-kids-video-download/
Remember, your feelings of grief about this is normal. However, know that there is hope for healing and a path forward for you in life.
Thankyou so much for replying ,I'm in tears writing this, i live in the UK, I'm not sure if any of these numbers are ok.x
Some days I feel like I'm going insane, it's lucky I've had a friend for support, she found out the same about her child's father!
Hi dr Weiss, ive had terrible pins and needles in my fingers ,really sore to bend, I'm thinking this trauma has takin it's toll on my body ,after losing over 1 stone in weight too ,is that possible, that's why I hate him even more, aswell as all the lies ,and accusing me of things to justify his beyond seedy behaviour! Do you know any decent men who have morals and respect for women ?
@@vickyclausen4631 You should be able to use the number for our office. If you're having issues with it, you can email us at heart2heart@xc.org