Especially if you move into a woman's house 😮. Please make sure if you make the mistake it's always her moving into yours. Most men don't have independence, government give women the privileges, priorities and benefits (not bitching). But yea, These women get annoying, controlling and aggressive. I'm glad I didn't have kids. My life would be hell. Yea 4 year set back, they drag you down too. Waste of time fellas. Just date, but don't let it side track you from your goals.
You may think at the start that the woman may promise she will stay eternally with you, truth is that as long as she finds the big better deal, most women will try everything to cause an emotional reaction into the men so that while they act like victims and innocents and forgiving angels, she is preparing your death trap on your back where she will steal all ur money and escape with the BBD, and even if most of the times she can't get a reaction over you, she can just make a scene and society will listen to her beacuse she's a woman, doesn't matter if she was the emotional one. This is not all women, but a lot of them are like that sadly.
@@shinrinyokumusic1808 "Going out with friends!" That's feminine phrase and mentality. As a single man I spend my free time mostly in solitude, reading, working out, beer with neighbors (friends) sometimes and meditating. See, hardly no time to think about vagina, and I'm loving this.
You are correct on that time line. Change them out like filters. And take monk mode breaks here and there...cuz women are just children with breast. Save your sanity. Lol😅
I dunno dude. One time my now ex gf stayed with me for a week and I never realised how distracted I'd be when she was around. I got nagged for stupid inconsequential nonsense like buying the wrong type of towel or taking out the rubbish at night instead of the morning. Im not doing that again.
“I know you cook for us, you pay for things, you take us on trips…but it’s not enough. I need more.” When she told me that, I immediately looked for a way back to living by myself.
Once I started living by myself after divorce, 90 percent of my stress was gone. I can't imagine getting married again/ living with a woman again. I don't have to hear her bitching about when am I coming home or how many hours I have to work... it's quiet and I love it.
@@gothamindembaum He talking about women of today, I couldnt imagine getting with a young girl these days. Hell, even Gen X women are off the rails now.
You have to give them an eviction notice and start the process immediately once you want her out. In Florida, it will cost you about $450 and 30 days. Well worth it!
Always, always keep a women guessing about your: - money - goals - emotions - future Moving in together is how they get you to spill the beans. They get to conquer you.
I'm a single Man with no kids, never been married, I just retired at 51 with a fat pension and more money than I could ever spend before I die. In excellent health, shape & HAPPY! My life journey has shown me that Single Men that have been on their "PURPOSE" always have an overflow of finances. Single Women are "ALWAYS" in DEBT! And Married People are "ALWAYS" barely making ends meet! They usually live check to check, because SHE always wants "MORE!" A quick way to lose in life is to get married or move in with a Woman!
FACTS! I'm 52yo and just lost everything because of my wife. She has everything and I'm crawling out the house with nothing. 32 years a wast of life. I'm starting all over at 52.😢😭
What's the point in making more money than you can ever spend. Sounds like the slave matrix got the better of you.... you exchanged too much time for money when it clearly wasn't needed. The system had it over you
People always think Im insane for being 38 years old and having never lived with a woman. But seeing how miserable all these guys are I think I saved myself from a disaster.
@@mattyrock2467 considering I (probably) have autism, I doubt any woman would ever want to live with me anyways so I probably don't have much to worry about regardless.But even if by chance someone who is a bit more open minded would show up, I still wouldn't do it.
I'm in my 40s & I've lived with so many women throughout the years.....however from experience, no matter what NVR live with a woman everrrr!!!! Women bore easily in addition to the natural chaos she brings! I've lived alone now going on 10yrs & it's been the BEST! Women can visit but never live in.
Any man who lives with a woman is a domestic quarrel away from being homeless and losing everything. Married or not. No matter whose house it is or who pays the bills. WE'VE ALL SEEN THIS HAPPEN!
@@4yajustblazin Yep once they have that position of power they will abuse it and won’t even be rational about it either. That’s why I don’t understand some of these fake alpha channels being like your not a man if you leave a woman out in the cold knowing full well women don’t have any problem doing it to us in the first place
@4yajustblazin yeah I'm just sharing my experience from my younger days. I own my apartment outright and when I look back at the decisions I was making back then from what I'm doing now I could of gone back in time and slapped myself silly 😅 but at least I didn't put a ring on it
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all different. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were on the verge of divorce because we had problems in our marriage, but we found a way to fix things. It was difficult, but we managed to overcome it.
I genuinely want to find happiness as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different approaches, like therapy, to fix things.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
it was once (decades ago) best for men to be married. Before feminism, the man and the woman had their roll and worked together. Each gave more than they took. The mindset today is self absorbment (what's in it for me). Both men and women today are much more selfish and narcissistic than people in the past.
Im 34 and have to temporarily move back into my dads house with 2 of my older sisters. It doesn’t even have to be a love interest. Living with women will mess up your peace and happiness.
@@kumkan3588 thank you. It feels good to be understood. I have no brothers and all my boys don’t understand this unfortunately. Or maybe not to the extent that we do.
My relationship with my ex died shortly after I moved in with her.. You see a different side of them, I was so miserable, she always argued with me over anything and everything. I grew to hate her.. I learned my lesson
She will become annoyed with your physical possessions especially the ones you cherish most as her goal is to eliminate anything that takes attention away from her but in a cruel twist is turned off if you devote your attention to her. It is a fine line to walk but remember who you are and you were happy without them.
🤣 They are jealous of your financial stability. They want to chop and finish your money because their one main flame is not doing anything for them. Deep inside they are jealous of girls who are pampered with love, gifts and attention because it makes them feel like losers or unattractive.
Yes sometimes it does get lonely but when I see a lot of issue some men are passing through I just become more thankful for the peace I have living alone,I must say women are overrated no wonder I ancestors never gave them any chance..
This should be common sense to most men is to never live with a female especially if you're not married. I love my peace at the end of the day. If you're in a relationship, both parties should have their own place anyways
One time I asked my ex-girlfriend to cook something for me and she said that she is too beautiful to cook and my response was “I’ll stop to go to work tomorrow and will spend my time on the couch with PlayStation drinking alcohol instead” it’s about how complicated to live with woman
Well, it's your fault. You should have told her "the rules" of the house before moving in with her. If you pay for everything, she has to cook, clean and do things around the house, if she disagrees then you don't move in with her.
if she is not "the one" to marry and spend your life with, have a kid - then you are burning money in a toilet. imagine spending $$$ on vacations and restaurants just to "have some girlfriend"
If she wants a baby… tell her you want to see at least 100k to her name! 🤣 They want you to give them children, and for YOU to pay for them and just ONE child will COST YOU BIG TIME!
Good video young man….At 52 I’ve never lived with a woman…True story,I got a hood chick pregnant the first time I had sex(20 years old)…I tried shacking up for 2 months, and it was absolute hell…Over the years I got caught up in two additional pregnancies(1 lied about birth control,the other got a hold of my condom)…I have raised all three children on my own….The amazing thing about women,when you show any signs of trying to invest with them and build,it’s in their nature to pull in the other direction, and chip away at your power…Before you know it, you will be broken in every way…And the reason for me leaving home at 17,is because my mother indulged in chaos…at 7 I told her I didn’t like her style, and I need to have more input on my life…Fast forward to 2024,I give her love,I cook meals and bring her a portion, gave her a car for Christmas…but even more importantly,I give her a lesson on life every single week that we talk…My oldest kid is now 31,she’s a mental health therapist, and just bought a house down the street from Dad(and her ghetto mom has reappeared)…Last I knew she was getting beat up by a thug our daughter’s age!
You can never take a nap after a hard day of work, you will be automatically called lazy !and they'll cheat on you with the hard working work husband!just because!🤷
@@user-td4ys2pv7p Over the years I’ve learned that the less you do and the less you care about them you will be treated better so why bother doing more when you get treated like sh!t
To make matters worse if the woman is not working 😭.I’m talking from experience,you’ll hate it.She will use you,drain you whilst getttin laid behind your back and in the end tell you now we should go back to friends cus i don’t like you anymore.Relationships are trash nowadays man
My wife and i live together, i made my intentions clear in the beginning, pay 50% of the bills, or im not interested. As we lived with each others we made adjustments and been fine. You are the man, set the rules, dont be afraid to walk away
As a older man, I'm happy to see a young man who is insightful and aware of women cunning abilities to distract men their purpose. Stay strong on your journey.
Agree Relationship Work way better when time is spaced between the man & Woman...If She Says She Wants To Stay With U Tell Her No, U Will Be Arguing in conflicts less than a months time period...
Appreciate this, bruh. I knew i made the right decision to NOT live with my recent ex or any other woman so far. Me and my recent ex couldn't even get along with each other for a couple of months without her breaking up or arguing with me. Why would I marry, have kids, or even live with something so unstable? I might be slow on certain things but I can clearly see that none of those things would help or improve the situation.
Living with different women from 17 to 40s at that point I owed the bank about 13k, Went to live on my own at that point paid the bank off got focused will retire in 3 years time at 65 own house and half a mill in the bank all being well. I will never live with a woman again.
An older gentleman said. Women have a tenancy to not want anything to have attention above them, so they will discourage you from anything that will take attention above them. Then, when they are satisfied, they will focus on themselves and children then, the man will have nothing because he didn't invest anything in himself, which is where the bitter men come from.
I am a woman and I am married, maybe I’m old school. My husband, is on his purpose, he has his own space and freedom to do things on his own. He makes his own decisions, I’m really laid back. I prefer my space, I’m an introvert and even with my husband, I need a lot of space to recharge. I work from home but, we both take pride in doing our own things. We like to work out and enjoy our personal space, when we are together it’s great but, we know that we both need to do our own things. Our marriage has gotten better every year, our intimacy is great but, we understand that we still are two individuals. Also we save, a lot of our money, do not eat out lol, I also do all the domestic labor and cook. I enjoy those things but, I understand that we both need our space. So I think if with the right person it can work. I’m not sure how I subtle across your video. But, I think as a woman, we can never be satisfied so if a man thinks that it’s his mission to satisfy us, he’s in for a rude awakening. So that is why I say, you have to have space and understanding in your relationship. My take, but, I’m happily married and understand that we are both grown and have to be accountable for our own actions and lives.
*True talk Brodie!!* All women are honestly distractions, and I’ve honestly love the freedom I have from not being/wanting a relationship. It’s refreshing to say the least!! Now here an there I may chop it up with some females, but my purpose is to spread love, positivity, and create ample opportunities while staying True!!!
@@cellokingdomzzok so.. I had to come back to this for it intrigues me so… Now then Mr Cello when you say ‘stop the cap’ are you meaning the cap’ as in us woman folk or is cap’ a typo for a different less savory word hahah I mean no worries either way because I’ve liked your reply regardless.. just so you know.. many thanks and good day to you all the same bro ;)’
Good post. Living with a woman when un married is not wise. She’ll have too many opinions and bad suggestions of how you live your life i.e. work, lifestyle. You’ll lose money and sanity.
Arguments start and it’s “her house” If you don’t like it you can “leave.” If you get extra unlucky she will get physical and will apply her get out of jail card and preemptively call LE on you
since my mother kicked my dad out the house (she said my dad left...) i've been the man of the house by force, my mum is driving me insane... treating me like a husband, conatant nagging about little things like peices of rice in the sink... fucking hell man...
Even if you're married, you should still live in separate houses. Humans need their own space, living with anyone would get me irritated yet alone a woman. Treading on eachothers toes, annoying habits etc. Healthy relationships are when people appreciate the little time you spend together because it's scarce. And it's more authentic if you actually miss eachother and desire to see eachother. When you're always together it's forced, manufactured, and never have the chance to reflect if it's genuine or you really are attracted to eachother/ in love , whatever ...
@@HonestySaying The reality is that men and women really don't have much in common. Passion ❤️ naturally diminishes with time. Reason why we need to revert back to the old relationship traditions. Instead of spending years accumulating debt working on meaningless careers, we should be focused on bonding with a potential life partner. 😳
As a man - your potential and your purpose is to build a family. Have children, raise them and be a good father. If everyone just decides to not do that - we are doomed as humans. It won't be easy - it's damned hard - but men and women are meant to get together and make babies and raise them with good values. You can't deny that fact - without that - what you'll have is a bunch of broken families and children raised without a father figure. Those kids will grow up all messed up.
The point is for the men who are actually watching to make better choices. We know that men will continue to create families. Let’s be real. My video could only potentially impact less than 0.025 percent of men worldwide who actually see this video. Please stop and focus on the message, stop setting men up for disaster. (Please)
Stop it!!!!!!! Not today times!!!!!!! These modern day women are a trip!!!!!! So no, a man doesn't need to get married and have kids. It depends on that men. But those qualifications doesn't make you a man. Fuck marriage and have children.
I lived with my wife for 8 years before we got married. I knew what I was getting myself into. Made my bed and accepted what life will be like. It can be a wonderful thing, but it can also be nerve-wracking! Her clothes all over the place. Her stuff migrating from her side of the sink to yours. Her hair getting everywhere. Papers, pens, notebooks, and things all over the place. When you have children, man that stuff get craaaaazy. You start realizing your home is becoming more her and the children’s home LOL!! It's true!! It’s all good though, I look at life as a series of decisions, with errors and lessons learned. If you’re a young man, my big suggestion is, get your career going, buy yourself a home. Keep your home, and never sell it. When you meet a woman, preferably meet one who has her own home established already. This way, if things go bad and she tries to kick you out, you got spot to always go to. Build in your own self-protection. I would have done this if I thought about life that way at 20. It’s too late for me, but not for you LOL!! Either way, I’m glad to be married, it has its challenges, but that’s life!
@@hitterandrewpickles4649 LOL, I'm chillin, life is a series ao good times and bad times, and there's nothing fake about that! i"m in control of my own destiny, so I'm completely content !! Maybe your miserable though, I suggest you seek a good partner in life, or go solo for the rest of your life, your choice!
I should have listened to my mother I had to learn for myself. I got rolled over and thrown in the ditch a couple of times. But now I'm 59, had my first kid and doing well alone. I get the shakes now just thinking about it
Best a man can do is focus on his self fist... live alone and do you! . One doesnot need a women before he is the best off hes life... pussy option... focus on you king... women will come do you! .why cant you be alone? Cuz your friends have a women so you need one? Do you first king. Enjoy life . I have bin there done it all. We men need to do us first enjoy life without the drama stress.
My ex moved in with me for a week and we didn't work out we were a new couple. She started moving her stuff in my house 🏠. When she left, she took some of my clothes, the TV remote, chords to my speaker. It just disappeared when she left after a week. What set her off was she wanted her name added to the deed to my property and I said No
A husband and wife should be together, saying a man should live alone is one of the reasons why young men and women are messed up now, it's about family.
I moved in with my wife her mother uncle and brother.. fast forward 5 years 5 months her mom passed away uncle left..now shes trying to evict her brother then we are going to get a divorce brutal..
@@Brandanmayhew 😂 well I don't have proof on the cheating..it's been 33 months of zero intimacy so go figure but I'm divorcing her soon it's unbearable at this point
Im currently living with my mom and sister. I tell you its draining as hellllll. My mom is a full cup of toxic. I've lost my self esteem because of them. I am saving up to get my own space. 2025 won't meet me with them by God's grace. Shit has made me scared of getting married cos I feel I'll relive the whole event forever
Brother see this as a testing ground. You'll know better how to deal with women. Whether we like it or not, there will always be misunderstanding between both sexes. It's this beautiful chaotic blend when handled right that makes marriage beautiful. God may be sharpening you up. It's not just about fleeing. Although you should move asap. But, while you're there, educate yourself and sharpen yourself to raise your self esteem. I've gone through the same battle as you. And I can tell you that women are very strong mentally/emotionally. So renew your mind and they will actually start fearing you(in a good way), respecting you because you're tougher mentally/emotionally. Women fear and respect men they can control or manipulate(and these are men with strong minds and strong emotions, not just muscles). God Bless
I made it 4 years, and that was 2019-2024. The pandemic had her working from home too, just like me, so we were together 24/7! I can't believe I made it that far, it was not good for me. Isolation from friends, I became a stow-away in the basement, when I wasn't busting my butt maintaining her house and yard.
@@TheMchyaby they manipulate you to keep performing more and more, and hardly crack a smile like you did nothing. The 4 years prior to that, we had our own places and it was way better! Her behavior changed within like a month of us living together. I moved all of her things and my own too. I am a very hard worker, and really I see I can be prone to being a slave really if I am not careful.
@@atmosrepair Yes many people really showed their true colors living together during the pandemic. She tried throwing me out like 4-5 times doing the epidemic. I maintained the house and worked from home as well. She ended up assaulting me once I was done with her
@@SwaggSkillz1992he’s part of the reason ur here. He didn’t have social media then to know about all this stuff. Be grateful for him you’ll miss him when he’s gone
I am now in my 80s. I have always lived alone. I have always had my own money. I have always invested my time and my money in me. I have excellerated in my growth. You have to have a certain discipline in you. What he is saying is correct.
NICE MYGUY! WHEN YOU POP UP WITH YOUR LOUDER VOICE YOU HAS A YOUNG MAN ARE DEFENDING YOUR FEMALE IN LIFE. YES ITS HARD TO LIVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE BUT YOU DONT JEOPARDIZE YOURSELF FROM REPECTING AFEMALE.
Lets also consider the fact that family is also important. It's as important as achieving one's purpose. Else, after making all the money in the world who would you enjoy it with?? It's just a matter of undertanding and bearing with each other
Got divorced 22 years ago. My life has been stable & happy ever since. My ex still contacts me once in a while to ask for help of one sort or another. I just laugh & hang up. Her latest one she was stuck with a flat tire. I said " and that's my problem because ?? " then hung up
I found marriage to be draining in so many ways, it's always someone needs helps, can we talk, endless I need money, and the drama. I still get the look now and again but it just gives me the chills thinking about how awful it can be. Don't get me wrong a good partner is gold but these days it's a unicorn.
💯 the truth…..had it done to me enough times. I wouldn’t even bother in this day and age your better off having your own digs than sharing a place with someone who will eventually move on when they get bored of living life in reality and not partying 24/7 women are there for the good times and never there for the struggle because it’s too hard apparently 🤷♂️
While dude advice is on point, some people need to experience it in first-person view. Life is all about experience. Some people will call you dumb for what you did, but that's in the past. Your future is more important. Act, fuck up, Do something different. That's how life works.
She will drain you financially and mentally
She will slow you down for her benefit, she's always looking out for herself first.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 99% of women are liabilities fr!! Stay safe, and on your purpose Kings!!! *Peace & Light* ✨
@@williamj.dovejr.8613yeah👍 truth
Financial for sure
@@SwaggSkillz1992 agreed. They are walking liabilities
Don't do it. Never. Once arguments start, it's done.
Real.
A man who argues with women doesn't understand women.
Real!!!!
Especially if you move into a woman's house 😮.
Please make sure if you make the mistake it's always her moving into yours. Most men don't have independence, government give women the privileges, priorities and benefits (not bitching).
But yea, These women get annoying, controlling and aggressive. I'm glad I didn't have kids. My life would be hell. Yea 4 year set back, they drag you down too. Waste of time fellas. Just date, but don't let it side track you from your goals.
You may think at the start that the woman may promise she will stay eternally with you, truth is that as long as she finds the big better deal, most women will try everything to cause an emotional reaction into the men so that while they act like victims and innocents and forgiving angels, she is preparing your death trap on your back where she will steal all ur money and escape with the BBD, and even if most of the times she can't get a reaction over you, she can just make a scene and society will listen to her beacuse she's a woman, doesn't matter if she was the emotional one.
This is not all women, but a lot of them are like that sadly.
The root of suffering is attachment.” The Buddha
It's desire as well, desiring anything.
For Buddha, the root of suffering is life in general. But in this context, ...well chosen.
Exactly and Buddhism my faith thanks for this quote
Jesus is God
@@michaelmeaiky3166
Only in your imagination. 😳
Behind closed doors 80% of these couples are miserable as hell. And hate each other. But out in public they look like the perfect couple.
Hahaahaa true story yes
Facted
That’s so true don’t believe what you see believe what you don’t see
@@kenthompson9357Your statement doesn't make no sense.
@@rahimfreshhh6610 if you don’t understand it..I can’t help you bro. I can’t make it any clearer
47 years old and I am happy as heck with my total freedom
What is your daily life routine like being single? Going out with friends?
@@shinrinyokumusic1808 "Going out with friends!" That's feminine phrase and mentality. As a single man I spend my free time mostly in solitude, reading, working out, beer with neighbors (friends) sometimes and meditating. See, hardly no time to think about vagina, and I'm loving this.
@@cesarbolet2181 no babe mamas🤣🤣🤣...me to turning 49 living peaceful
49 and happily married so I don't know who y'all dating to make you feel that way.
@@TrollinOn22s Village bicycles are everywhere the dudes that get screwed have no pity
Yea it’s cool living with em for maybe the first 3 months, but then they’ll slowly drain your soul
@@aaronkirkland5211 🤣🤣
Yup they will find anyway possible to drain you inorder to conquer your success
You are correct on that time line. Change them out like filters. And take monk mode breaks here and there...cuz women are just children with breast. Save your sanity. Lol😅
I dunno dude. One time my now ex gf stayed with me for a week and I never realised how distracted I'd be when she was around. I got nagged for stupid inconsequential nonsense like buying the wrong type of towel or taking out the rubbish at night instead of the morning. Im not doing that again.
@@kaptinbarfbeerd1317had a ex in Los Angeles like that
“I know you cook for us, you pay for things, you take us on trips…but it’s not enough. I need more.” When she told me that, I immediately looked for a way back to living by myself.
It's never enough.
Wow man thats tough. Lived that life dont think I can mentally place myself in that type of lifestyle again
i know you lying aint no f-ucking way
@@FWGFX Fam, its really women out here like that…trust. Sneaky too..its truly never enough.
A woman is insatiable 😂...you give her the world she will get depressed you haven't got the universe yet. Lol😅
Once I started living by myself after divorce, 90 percent of my stress was gone. I can't imagine getting married again/ living with a woman again. I don't have to hear her bitching about when am I coming home or how many hours I have to work... it's quiet and I love it.
They always turn it into a complain fest after a few months 😢
@@blueboyd5297 not if you can really control them. I meant if you’re rich & powerful enough to do so.
The worst mistake ever
I live for one year with a woman!!
Not anymore never again
a year? LMFAO. TRY 15 YEARS BRAH!
@@gothamindembaum He talking about women of today, I couldnt imagine getting with a young girl these days. Hell, even Gen X women are off the rails now.
Me too
It's crazy out there! No dating, no cohabitation, certainly no marriage.
@@gothamindembaum a defacto relationship can be a jail sentence. It doesn't matter if it's for 1 year,or 15 years as in your case
The hardest thing to do is to get a women out of your house.
had too literally take my ex-girl friend too court too get her outta my house!!!
They hate you but won't leave 💯
No that is easy, just start acting all beta and sh17
@@Yggdrasill8 Nah thats worse. She will increase her manipulation tactics
You have to give them an eviction notice and start the process immediately once you want her out. In Florida, it will cost you about $450 and 30 days. Well worth it!
Always, always keep a women guessing about your:
- money
- goals
- emotions
- future
Moving in together is how they get you to spill the beans. They get to conquer you.
In Mexico they say" To a woman: never give all your love and all your money".
@@RubenWalsh-iv5ik Wise words!
“Always keep a woman guessing.”
I like that
The moment she figures you out your toast chapter closed
Facts
Think about it, fellas: what you would call a great weekend (pizza, video games, reading, saving money) is HELL to a woman.
Let alone working out since most women don't like working out
Especially saving money
That sounds awesome
💯 percent!
working out, hiking, sleeping … anything else with my free time lol
I'm a single Man with no kids, never been married, I just retired at 51 with a fat pension and more money than I could ever spend before I die. In excellent health, shape & HAPPY! My life journey has shown me that Single Men that have been on their "PURPOSE" always have an overflow of finances. Single Women are "ALWAYS" in DEBT! And Married People are "ALWAYS" barely making ends meet! They usually live check to check, because SHE always wants "MORE!" A quick way to lose in life is to get married or move in with a Woman!
I’m totally with you…but do you think we need a purpose outside of ourselves if it doesn’t include a family? Perhaps some sort of philanthropy?
FACTS! I'm 52yo and just lost everything because of my wife. She has everything and I'm crawling out the house with nothing. 32 years a wast of life. I'm starting all over at 52.😢😭
You are correct. I really just wanted marriage for kids. I have 3....mission accomplished...now just line up the girlfriends 🎉🎉🎉
😢
What's the point in making more money than you can ever spend. Sounds like the slave matrix got the better of you.... you exchanged too much time for money when it clearly wasn't needed. The system had it over you
People always think Im insane for being 38 years old and having never lived with a woman. But seeing how miserable all these guys are I think I saved myself from a disaster.
im much older than you and have never lived with a woman and it has been the best thing ever. Dont let anyone shame you into doing it.
@@mattyrock2467 considering I (probably) have autism, I doubt any woman would ever want to live with me anyways so I probably don't have much to worry about regardless.But even if by chance someone who is a bit more open minded would show up, I still wouldn't do it.
you did
😂😂😂
Your be alright you missed a bullet
I'm in my 40s & I've lived with so many women throughout the years.....however from experience, no matter what NVR live with a woman everrrr!!!! Women bore easily in addition to the natural chaos she brings! I've lived alone now going on 10yrs & it's been the BEST! Women can visit but never live in.
Any man who lives with a woman is a domestic quarrel away from being homeless and losing everything. Married or not. No matter whose house it is or who pays the bills. WE'VE ALL SEEN THIS HAPPEN!
FACTS! I'm going through it right now! I F*cked my life up! She has everything, I'm crawling out the house with nothing. I'm 52yo.
I’m homeless now ….she drained me for everything
good point dude didnt think of that sh#t😬
Definitely been there done that
@@Kinggabriel86idiot
When she get mad, she'll kick you out. Don't do it
Yep well said.
@@4yajustblazin Yep once they have that position of power they will abuse it and won’t even be rational about it either. That’s why I don’t understand some of these fake alpha channels being like your not a man if you leave a woman out in the cold knowing full well women don’t have any problem doing it to us in the first place
Thats why you need your own house 🤷🏾♂️
@@Djohnson89 that's why I don't live with a chick
@4yajustblazin yeah I'm just sharing my experience from my younger days. I own my apartment outright and when I look back at the decisions I was making back then from what I'm doing now I could of gone back in time and slapped myself silly 😅 but at least I didn't put a ring on it
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all different. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were on the verge of divorce because we had problems in our marriage, but we found a way to fix things. It was difficult, but we managed to overcome it.
I genuinely want to find happiness as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different approaches, like therapy, to fix things.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
You should... I promise you will not regret it
it was once (decades ago) best for men to be married. Before feminism, the man and the woman had their roll and worked together. Each gave more than they took. The mindset today is self absorbment (what's in it for me). Both men and women today are much more selfish and narcissistic than people in the past.
Im 34 and have to temporarily move back into my dads house with 2 of my older sisters. It doesn’t even have to be a love interest. Living with women will mess up your peace and happiness.
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I agree with you 120%
@@kumkan3588 thank you. It feels good to be understood. I have no brothers and all my boys don’t understand this unfortunately. Or maybe not to the extent that we do.
@ericdube8884 your only purpose here is to laugh at people cas3s
Well you're about to do it again as you've stated. How stupid are you?
I've done it. And it made me go MGTOW for life. It's that bad
They're running us out of town
Unfortunately in this day and age, the only way to defend yourself is to go mgtow/monk mode. Wahmen have way too much power over guys.
@@berictover simps
@jkw6196 even guys who stand up for themselves can get falsely accused its better to just stay away.
@@jkw6196 naw dude. Im no simp believe that, but im not doing time or taking a lead shower from a cop because my live in GF decided she wasnt happy
When you live together the sex slows down and the interior design speeds up.
Slows down to damn near non existing
The way you worded that is horrifying 😂
Ask any married man how much he’s getting….its zero or once a month if that
33 months no sex from my wife@@trevorjohnican1685
@@lowbloodprsure na not true. It’s the opposite for me and mine lmao
My relationship with my ex died shortly after I moved in with her.. You see a different side of them, I was so miserable, she always argued with me over anything and everything. I grew to hate her..
I learned my lesson
😂😂😂....just go back fix things
@@ericdube8884 I can’t fix someone who is damaged and doesn’t wanna fix herself
@@epo615She's not damaged. They're all like that. Shout out from Africa.
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She will become annoyed with your physical possessions especially the ones you cherish most as her goal is to eliminate anything that takes attention away from her but in a cruel twist is turned off if you devote your attention to her. It is a fine line to walk but remember who you are and you were happy without them.
🤣 They are jealous of your financial stability. They want to chop and finish your money because their one main flame is not doing anything for them. Deep inside they are jealous of girls who are pampered with love, gifts and attention because it makes them feel like losers or unattractive.
Ur ambition is a bird
Ur girlfriend is the hunter with a gun
Well said …she killed my ambition with a rifle
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I made that mistake years ago. I learned my lesson. That is why I’m still single at 53. I have my own house and Peace Of Mind.
I've traveled with women. And it's just as bad.
Working with them sucks
Oh Yeah!!!
Traveling with a chick...is Torture!!!
@@Oscar_239don't get me started
I'm not prepare to do that
I can't believe so many guys have trouble seeing the benefits of living alone. Maybe they get lonely or something.
Yes sometimes it does get lonely but when I see a lot of issue some men are passing through I just become more thankful for the peace I have living alone,I must say women are overrated no wonder I ancestors never gave them any chance..
@@GoodyJoneswho said they never gave them a chance ? They were where they were supposed to be.
This should be common sense to most men is to never live with a female especially if you're not married. I love my peace at the end of the day. If you're in a relationship, both parties should have their own place anyways
It shouldn’t have to be like this, but the American woman has become such a tyrant that they need their own space you can’t even live with with them
Nah my peace and tranquility is what I want most💯
One time I asked my ex-girlfriend to cook something for me and she said that she is too beautiful to cook and my response was “I’ll stop to go to work tomorrow and will spend my time on the couch with PlayStation drinking alcohol instead” it’s about how complicated to live with woman
Damn man you deserved better than that
ur better than 90% of guys out there already. At least you pushed back. Simps would have just accepted her reality 😂
Well, it's your fault. You should have told her "the rules" of the house before moving in with her. If you pay for everything, she has to cook, clean and do things around the house, if she disagrees then you don't move in with her.
Keep your own place and you will keep your respect.
AGREED.And also you'll have peace and quiet,no arguing over stupid and petty stuff either.
That's a fact
if she is not "the one" to marry and spend your life with, have a kid - then you are burning money in a toilet.
imagine spending $$$ on vacations and restaurants just to "have some girlfriend"
You're very right
I would never because she can take half of my house. In my country after certain time you become common law.
Yep, if it his house, she'll get squatters protection. If it's her house, he's getting dragged out.
Australia? Yeeeeeep 2 years
If she wants a baby… tell her you want to see at least 100k to her name! 🤣
They want you to give them children, and for YOU to pay for them and just ONE child will COST YOU BIG TIME!
Good video young man….At 52 I’ve never lived with a woman…True story,I got a hood chick pregnant the first time I had sex(20 years old)…I tried shacking up for 2 months, and it was absolute hell…Over the years I got caught up in two additional pregnancies(1 lied about birth control,the other got a hold of my condom)…I have raised all three children on my own….The amazing thing about women,when you show any signs of trying to invest with them and build,it’s in their nature to pull in the other direction, and chip away at your power…Before you know it, you will be broken in every way…And the reason for me leaving home at 17,is because my mother indulged in chaos…at 7 I told her I didn’t like her style, and I need to have more input on my life…Fast forward to 2024,I give her love,I cook meals and bring her a portion, gave her a car for Christmas…but even more importantly,I give her a lesson on life every single week that we talk…My oldest kid is now 31,she’s a mental health therapist, and just bought a house down the street from Dad(and her ghetto mom has reappeared)…Last I knew she was getting beat up by a thug our daughter’s age!
Well done brother
The fun will be gone within 1,5 years of living together.
You will be thinking:
“What have I put myself into”
It’s downwards from there on.
You can never take a nap after a hard day of work, you will be automatically called lazy !and they'll cheat on you with the hard working work husband!just because!🤷
That's a fact!
@@user-td4ys2pv7p 💯 feel you bud…it’s always the hard working guys that get shafted for being a pleasant human being
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@@user-td4ys2pv7p Over the years I’ve learned that the less you do and the less you care about them you will be treated better so why bother doing more when you get treated like sh!t
you boys listen to the game he spittin....his content proves he understands life better then 99% of ya'll
Too right
They suck you dry of your last penny and blame you for being poor .
Especially with a woman who's lazy I learned this
The worst prison on earth is a home without peace.
To make matters worse if the woman is not working 😭.I’m talking from experience,you’ll hate it.She will use you,drain you whilst getttin laid behind your back and in the end tell you now we should go back to friends cus i don’t like you anymore.Relationships are trash nowadays man
My wife and i live together, i made my intentions clear in the beginning, pay 50% of the bills, or im not interested.
As we lived with each others we made adjustments and been fine. You are the man, set the rules, dont be afraid to walk away
Being the youngest of 4 sons, I witness my brothers situation and will never ever cohabitate with em.
@@antares3097 🤣🤣🤣
I'm 66 never been married never had to pay child support never had to pay alimony I've gotten all my money I never spent a dime on a woman
As a older man, I'm happy to see a young man who is insightful and aware of women cunning abilities to distract men their purpose. Stay strong on your journey.
Thanks so much 🔥🙏🏾
I lived 15 years.....near death, i walked away
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Agree Relationship Work way better when time is spaced between the man & Woman...If She Says She Wants To Stay With U Tell Her No, U Will Be Arguing in conflicts less than a months time period...
@@user-iz4zi7kb9d 🤣🤣🤣....say no
This man speaks the truth, believe him and live a better life stress and drama free and with money in your bank.
Appreciate this, bruh. I knew i made the right decision to NOT live with my recent ex or any other woman so far. Me and my recent ex couldn't even get along with each other for a couple of months without her breaking up or arguing with me. Why would I marry, have kids, or even live with something so unstable? I might be slow on certain things but I can clearly see that none of those things would help or improve the situation.
When she moves in , that's when she gives up her corporate job or whatever job she had claiming independence
LOL LOL
Living with different women from 17 to 40s at that point I owed the bank about 13k, Went to live on my own at that point paid the bank off got focused will retire in 3 years time at 65 own house and half a mill in the bank all being well. I will never live with a woman again.
An older gentleman said. Women have a tenancy to not want anything to have attention above them, so they will discourage you from anything that will take attention above them. Then, when they are satisfied, they will focus on themselves and children then, the man will have nothing because he didn't invest anything in himself, which is where the bitter men come from.
I am a woman and I am married, maybe I’m old school. My husband, is on his purpose, he has his own space and freedom to do things on his own. He makes his own decisions, I’m really laid back. I prefer my space, I’m an introvert and even with my husband, I need a lot of space to recharge. I work from home but, we both take pride in doing our own things. We like to work out and enjoy our personal space, when we are together it’s great but, we know that we both need to do our own things. Our marriage has gotten better every year, our intimacy is great but, we understand that we still are two individuals. Also we save, a lot of our money, do not eat out lol, I also do all the domestic labor and cook. I enjoy those things but, I understand that we both need our space. So I think if with the right person it can work. I’m not sure how I subtle across your video. But, I think as a woman, we can never be satisfied so if a man thinks that it’s his mission to satisfy us, he’s in for a rude awakening. So that is why I say, you have to have space and understanding in your relationship. My take, but, I’m happily married and understand that we are both grown and have to be accountable for our own actions and lives.
Thanks for the honesty, good luck to your marriage🙏🏾
Subscribed. This guy is extremely articulate, and I can sense he has genuine wisdom. Which is from life experience.
*True talk Brodie!!* All women are honestly distractions, and I’ve honestly love the freedom I have from not being/wanting a relationship. It’s refreshing to say the least!!
Now here an there I may chop it up with some females, but my purpose is to spread love, positivity, and create ample opportunities while staying True!!!
The wrong women will drain you yes… but the right one will uplift you… Nuff said ;)’
Stop the cap
@@cellokingdomzz Ok so I don’t know what you meaning here bubbs but my response is… No… you stop it first !!
@@cellokingdomzzok so.. I had to come back to this for it intrigues me so… Now then Mr Cello when you say ‘stop the cap’ are you meaning the cap’ as in us woman folk or is cap’ a typo for a different less savory word hahah I mean no worries either way because I’ve liked your reply regardless.. just so you know.. many thanks and good day to you all the same bro ;)’
@@JOEYDEEZ369 you are not a virgin period
There's a lot of right women... and a lot of wrong women. Find a good women and if she wasn't as expected... dump her
I'm a woman and I tell my son this. Focus on your money and yourself 🩷
Thanks for the honesty and your son is on the right path 🏆
I wish I was your son.
Good post. Living with a woman when un married is not wise. She’ll have too many opinions and bad suggestions of how you live your life i.e. work, lifestyle. You’ll lose money and sanity.
99% of the time its horrible she will look down on you .
Arguments start and it’s “her house” If you don’t like it you can “leave.” If you get extra unlucky she will get physical and will apply her get out of jail card and preemptively call LE on you
Amazing video man!!! Keep at it please man plus audio volume is perfect!
since my mother kicked my dad out the house (she said my dad left...) i've been the man of the house by force, my mum is driving me insane... treating me like a husband, conatant nagging about little things like peices of rice in the sink... fucking hell man...
Nooooo, not the rice in the sink…lol.
@@thinkaboutit6148 bruh
Fr it be like that
leave bro. listen to your instincts
Even if you're married, you should still live in separate houses. Humans need their own space, living with anyone would get me irritated yet alone a woman. Treading on eachothers toes, annoying habits etc. Healthy relationships are when people appreciate the little time you spend together because it's scarce. And it's more authentic if you actually miss eachother and desire to see eachother. When you're always together it's forced, manufactured, and never have the chance to reflect if it's genuine or you really are attracted to eachother/ in love , whatever ...
Facts 💯
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@@HonestySaying 🤣🤣
You really pragmatic. No one ever proffered thıs solution. U smart
@@HonestySaying
The reality is that men and women really don't have much in common.
Passion ❤️ naturally diminishes with time. Reason why we need to revert back to the old relationship traditions.
Instead of spending years accumulating debt working on meaningless careers, we should be focused on bonding with a potential life partner. 😳
especially if your not married. It's like your saying you'll loose your ability to focus
Typically, things tend to deteriorate when two people get married.
Great video brother I understand what you are saying been there done that they will slow you down and drain you good message.
As a man - your potential and your purpose is to build a family. Have children, raise them and be a good father. If everyone just decides to not do that - we are doomed as humans. It won't be easy - it's damned hard - but men and women are meant to get together and make babies and raise them with good values. You can't deny that fact - without that - what you'll have is a bunch of broken families and children raised without a father figure. Those kids will grow up all messed up.
The point is for the men who are actually watching to make better choices. We know that men will continue to create families. Let’s be real. My video could only potentially impact less than 0.025 percent of men worldwide who actually see this video. Please stop and focus on the message, stop setting men up for disaster. (Please)
Speak for yourself Jase, and stop giving people purposes.
@@denzel1877 It's not me - it's nature. We seem to be promoting failed crops these days.
@@jaseman, he got advice ,but don't forget, he is just trying to make money on TH-cam ..
Stop it!!!!!!! Not today times!!!!!!! These modern day women are a trip!!!!!! So no, a man doesn't need to get married and have kids. It depends on that men. But those qualifications doesn't make you a man. Fuck marriage and have children.
Once you get kids there is a reason and purpose for living together. Otherwise, absolutely not.
Honest conversation brother, yeah what you are saying for the most part is right thank you. Taddeo from Durham, North Carolina
I needed to hear this video.
I lived with my wife for 8 years before we got married. I knew what I was getting myself into. Made my bed and accepted what life will be like. It can be a wonderful thing, but it can also be nerve-wracking! Her clothes all over the place. Her stuff migrating from her side of the sink to yours. Her hair getting everywhere. Papers, pens, notebooks, and things all over the place. When you have children, man that stuff get craaaaazy. You start realizing your home is becoming more her and the children’s home LOL!! It's true!! It’s all good though, I look at life as a series of decisions, with errors and lessons learned. If you’re a young man, my big suggestion is, get your career going, buy yourself a home. Keep your home, and never sell it. When you meet a woman, preferably meet one who has her own home established already. This way, if things go bad and she tries to kick you out, you got spot to always go to. Build in your own self-protection. I would have done this if I thought about life that way at 20. It’s too late for me, but not for you LOL!! Either way, I’m glad to be married, it has its challenges, but that’s life!
You're giving off such gay vibes.
People still talk like you in the world, amazing!🤩 you’re a funny guy!!
@@MrAlexanderTheG8 Thanks man
you sound truly miserable underneath that thin veil of fake happiness .
@@hitterandrewpickles4649 LOL, I'm chillin, life is a series ao good times and bad times, and there's nothing fake about that! i"m in control of my own destiny, so I'm completely content !! Maybe your miserable though, I suggest you seek a good partner in life, or go solo for the rest of your life, your choice!
I should have listened to my mother I had to learn for myself. I got rolled over and thrown in the ditch a couple of times. But now I'm 59, had my first kid and doing well alone. I get the shakes now just thinking about it
Glad you survived the chaos that Jezebel tried to bring!
Best a man can do is focus on his self fist... live alone and do you! . One doesnot need a women before he is the best off hes life... pussy option... focus on you king... women will come do you! .why cant you be alone? Cuz your friends have a women so you need one?
Do you first king. Enjoy life . I have bin there done it all. We men need to do us first enjoy life without the drama stress.
A real women wont drain you these arent real women, stay faithful. There are happy relationships out there.
My ex moved in with me for a week and we didn't work out we were a new couple. She started moving her stuff in my house 🏠. When she left, she took some of my clothes, the TV remote, chords to my speaker. It just disappeared when she left after a week. What set her off was she wanted her name added to the deed to my property and I said No
A husband and wife should be together, saying a man should live alone is one of the reasons why young men and women are messed up now, it's about family.
Living with two women long term the is the realest video on the net great job man .
I moved in with my wife her mother uncle and brother.. fast forward 5 years 5 months her mom passed away uncle left..now shes trying to evict her brother then we are going to get a divorce brutal..
This was a recipe for disaster
She's giving it all up for chad and instagram
@@Brandanmayhew 😂 well I don't have proof on the cheating..it's been 33 months of zero intimacy so go figure but I'm divorcing her soon it's unbearable at this point
@@RJ12347 yes it was..
I am 71 and unmarried. Sex? Brief affairs with women, that is all. Most, nearly all, the married men I know are miserable :)
Hmmm. The reality of our lives!
Bro aint never lied
thanks for your honesty brother
THANK YOU....your vid is helping me from creating the same mistake I did seven years ago.
Doing it right now - Would not recommend.
Thanks for the honesty😂
Absolute sucker
did it a few times, by myself now, yup, this is all facts
Im currently living with my mom and sister. I tell you its draining as hellllll. My mom is a full cup of toxic. I've lost my self esteem because of them. I am saving up to get my own space. 2025 won't meet me with them by God's grace. Shit has made me scared of getting married cos I feel I'll relive the whole event forever
Brother see this as a testing ground. You'll know better how to deal with women. Whether we like it or not, there will always be misunderstanding between both sexes. It's this beautiful chaotic blend when handled right that makes marriage beautiful. God may be sharpening you up. It's not just about fleeing. Although you should move asap. But, while you're there, educate yourself and sharpen yourself to raise your self esteem. I've gone through the same battle as you. And I can tell you that women are very strong mentally/emotionally. So renew your mind and they will actually start fearing you(in a good way), respecting you because you're tougher mentally/emotionally. Women fear and respect men they can control or manipulate(and these are men with strong minds and strong emotions, not just muscles). God Bless
Intelligent argumentation. Great stuff. Best greetings from Germany😊
THANKS FOR THIS DEEP KNOWLEDGE,
A WORD TO THE WISE IS ENOUGH!!
Plz….plz don’t ever do this. Your life will change. You will be miserable. If your independent and do you this lifestyle will slowly kill you
I made it 4 years, and that was 2019-2024. The pandemic had her working from home too, just like me, so we were together 24/7! I can't believe I made it that far, it was not good for me. Isolation from friends, I became a stow-away in the basement, when I wasn't busting my butt maintaining her house and yard.
Almost the same identical thing happen to me!
@@TheMchyaby they manipulate you to keep performing more and more, and hardly crack a smile like you did nothing. The 4 years prior to that, we had our own places and it was way better! Her behavior changed within like a month of us living together. I moved all of her things and my own too. I am a very hard worker, and really I see I can be prone to being a slave really if I am not careful.
@@atmosrepair Yes many people really showed their true colors living together during the pandemic. She tried throwing me out like 4-5 times doing the epidemic. I maintained the house and worked from home as well. She ended up assaulting me once I was done with her
He is speaking straight Facts 💯
Facts. You'll be the simp provider.
My goofy pops… Dude is miserable & hides behind his over inflated ego…. He’s a joke 💯
@@SwaggSkillz1992he’s part of the reason ur here. He didn’t have social media then to know about all this stuff. Be grateful for him you’ll miss him when he’s gone
I am now in my 80s. I have always lived alone. I have always had my own money. I have always invested my time and my money in me. I have excellerated in my growth. You have to have a certain discipline in you. What he is saying is correct.
Huz this guy with all this deep talk. Mandem is speaking to my soul fam
NICE MYGUY! WHEN YOU POP UP WITH YOUR LOUDER VOICE YOU HAS A YOUNG MAN ARE DEFENDING YOUR FEMALE IN LIFE. YES ITS HARD TO LIVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE BUT YOU DONT JEOPARDIZE YOURSELF FROM REPECTING AFEMALE.
Lets also consider the fact that family is also important. It's as important as achieving one's purpose. Else, after making all the money in the world who would you enjoy it with?? It's just a matter of undertanding and bearing with each other
Never ever do it ever ! Just see your girl 2-3 times a week & don’t move in together it ruins your relationship
Got divorced 22 years ago. My life has been stable & happy ever since. My ex still contacts me once in a while to ask for help of one sort or another. I just laugh & hang up. Her latest one she was stuck with a flat tire. I said " and that's my problem because ?? " then hung up
I found marriage to be draining in so many ways, it's always someone needs helps, can we talk, endless I need money, and the drama. I still get the look now and again but it just gives me the chills thinking about how awful it can be. Don't get me wrong a good partner is gold but these days it's a unicorn.
💯 the truth…..had it done to me enough times. I wouldn’t even bother in this day and age your better off having your own digs than sharing a place with someone who will eventually move on when they get bored of living life in reality and not partying 24/7 women are there for the good times and never there for the struggle because it’s too hard apparently 🤷♂️
Yes bruv, I will never do it again
While dude advice is on point, some people need to experience it in first-person view. Life is all about experience. Some people will call you dumb for what you did, but that's in the past. Your future is more important. Act, fuck up, Do something different. That's how life works.