@@BDAthleticInsiderwhat legacy is there left in 2024? Letalone many of us not ready yet even if the women were ready. So give or take 2028. 4 years later, the economy is going to be 10 times f-ed up
@BDAthleticInsider No such thing as a "legacy" lol. Only legacy you're subscribing to is neverending consumerism as you stay trapped in the capitalistic cycle
@@thedoghouse8900 Those married people always be lying about what goes on behind closed doors. Seriously. They don't call it Fakebook for nothing. I had a friend who actually told me he gets sex Anytime he wants from his wife. Anytime. 😂 Sure buddy, whatever you say. 😂
Almost every married and divorced person that I know has told me not to get married if I want to be happy. Just a few days ago, my married friend told me to stay single and keep traveling. I intend to do just that.
34 and a 9 year old son but single just trying to be the best father I can be at this point I actually avoid women there’s a girl who is pissed at me for that very reason im hearing through the grapevine smh 😂
It made sense with traditional wife husband roles, because the women spent her life as mother, wife and homemaker. But now absolutely no way unless it’s contributing to a family they will pay for their own luxuries, definitely not 50/50 share of assets unless things are done traditionally.
@user-fm3tu6gu4r ill be 48 on the 27th. Been married 2 long times been single 7 years. My first marriage gave me a inkling like this don't seen right but this what everyone does. Wife ,kids,house,cars bla bla bla. Keep I'm mind both came at me I didn't chase chit. Seems easier to go with what likes u right? But my fist was lazy,couldn't clean, cook definitely a fore head poker lol. She eventually cheated. So I thought mabe cuzz we young .I was definitely happier alone. But married. Stuck basically. So I meet my 2nd at her job nutshelling here we talked 2 weeks later got an apt. She was like my escape plan🤣🤣ff 18 she cheated took everything. 7 years later here I am🧍🏽♂️🥳🥳
I have to admit, women are the “sole” reason I was hampered in my progress in life…..even the so called “serious” relationships…all just a fckng waste of time. In my 30s right now and decided to stay single. I have made so much progress in such a short time that I have really regret not doing it earlier….I avoid relationships like the plague. DO NOT DO IT….it ain’t worth it.
I was married for 20 years . After i pay all bills i use to be broke . Get divorced 2 years ago in less then 2 years i saved 60.000 $ please do not do the same mistakes i did is not worthy
I live the “Free Agent” lifestyle and I don’t regret it one bit. Gentlemen, save and invest your money. Keep yourselves in good shape (physically, mentally, emotionally, etc) Please protect your wallets like your life depends on it.
My brother gets like a lot of women and he hates relationships he says women have no value other than their body for the most part atleast shit imma believe him
Oh, I am voluntarily single/unmarried by choice and I have no regrets. I love my autonomy and freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want. I don’t EVER WANT a life partner for a lengthy laundry list. People like to say shit like “You just haven’t met the right one.”, “You’re in for a sad and lonely life.”, “I feel sorry for you.”, “Who hurt you?” and the list goes on. At 40 years old, I have zero regrets.
Im a 24yo black man. I'm suicidal, alcoholic, always been single (never been in a relationship), poor, and I grew up an orphan. Its a bleak experience. Sometimes it's easier to die, years.......... Of waiting is bleak.
Agreed Bro. I learned this from Aaron Clarey from his book Black man's guide out of poverty years ago. " Basically, 60% of life is not f-ing up. #1 Only have children you can afford (i.e. #1 cause of poverty in the world.) #2 No useless knowledge / stupid degrees #3 Don't having stupid addictions. #4 Don't commit crime. #5 Don't overspend your income. (optional) #6 avoid the family court system as much as possible and common-law marriage scenario with a live-in girlfriend. "
I wish I understood this better 10 years ago. I'm also going to be 30 a couple of years. I don't have any kids thankfully, but I definitely was not protecting myself as well as I should have. It's shocking that I've made it through most of my 20s without kids.
I got married before biggest mistake I ever make, I stayed single for 4 years got into a relationship last July ended it in December not doing that again
6:32 now that part is very true women do not care about men self deleting themselves and not knowing they be the main problem or one of the problems because of it. That’s why self love is important and self respect. Been there before with a toxic ex girlfriend and been single ever since. These women do not care
You are on the right track. I'm 44 single, no kids , I been in nyc my whole life and I'm buying a condo in Panama next year and moving there, plenty of beautiful traditional women there and a great place to start a family . The US is for making money and entertainment only... US wealth / foreign family legacy. Stay focused gentlemen
Bro you right im 35 im on child support for 3 kids but it was 4 just that my oldest turned 18 already. But like half my check be gone with child support and taxes smh. Women wont care that you cant provide for your self as long as she getting that money she wont care even if you bout to get put out your crib. Cold blooded 😂
There's no way to carry a women on your back these days, I would even be wary of the working type too since they expect you to pay for everything which isn't economically feasible.
You learn from your failures in business, relationships and fitness. You need the experiences and experiments when you are younger. 36 now and I judge people solely on their behaviours. Words have no value. ❤
I'm 48 and Ive been single for a lil over 20 years. I date here and there but i have very low expectations for marriage or relationships. I love being single, it gives you a chance to work on you. Its not a nagging women trying to tell you how to be a man or trying to change you into the man she wants you to be. I have a job i love, i have a grown kid, and i own my own house. Thing people need to learn whether man or woman is that happiness comes from within, you can't depend on others to find happiness. Once you come to this realization...work on you, and find the better version of yourself then everything you seek will follow. I'm still single cause i enjoy my freedom and alone time. Stop looking for love and let love find you. People have these crazy expectations and preferences that you wont ever find. Fellas you not gonna find the pretty chic with the curves, thats gonna like you for you...and ladies youre not gonna find the tall muscular guy with the six figure job. Those types have options, and 9 times out of ten their gonna make you jump thru hoops to even get their attention. Go for someone thats gonna like you for you...looks fade and money can be gone in an instance. Im not saying pick just any person that likes you, but try dating out yiur comfort zone and you'll get better results.
BRO....I am on that same journey. I'm 43. I'm trying to figure out who I am without an echo-chamber. Who I am at my core. Discover things that make me genuinely happy. I am happy that I have had enough @$$ in life that it has become irrelevant . I am evolving and learning to love myself.
Especially if your a black man there is absolutely no need to be in a relationship. Most women look at you as a player anyway if ur handsome so they assume u on demon time. Other races are expected to play the game but black men have an easier time getting away with the bachelor lifestyle.
True, society places no expectation on black men for marriage. But for some reason, black women get all the heat for being single. I guess because we still tend to have children in that circumstance, which some probably depend on welfare to care for. I don't know for sure. But the bw and men who can remain single and still take care of all their needs until they die should be respected. That is hard!
Ever since I got my divorce years ago. The hair in the top of my head is growing back, and I am beginning to look young again. I am at peace with myself and God.
One unplanned Child cost me $1300 a month. I’m 30. I make good money but I set myself up for failure before I even got the money now she got me on the hook for the next 14 years unless I can get custody.
I’m in the same boat bro. My daughter is 12. Been paying child support since she was 4. Staying single building my life up making good money now. My ex ran off and had another kid with another guy. I just spend time with my little one when I can and do my own thing. Had a few flings here and there but nothing serious. And I plan to keep it that way.
thank you I'm happy that I seen this video I was thinking to get married through pressure but now I'm gonna wait for a while and focus on myself and my career
I'm good and I'm going to keep it that way. Right on track! (SOLO/DOLO with no distractions) I don't miss something I've already had and had plenty of ijs. I'm GOOD
My sons are alone and SO depressed. Good luck, men. This makes me sad. Enjoy your success and money alone, as well as your own hands. Not all women are out to destroy your lives. Good grief!
It's way better to be single. In high-school i knew something was not right. Thats why i didn't date. Then later on at age 21 i discovered the truth about dating and women. It was a hard pill to swallow. But then i realized i was saved by this crazy system. Saved by watching/listening to the experiences of other men with their relationships with women and learning how the divorce courts are highly corrupt against men. It was DEFINITELY not what it was advertised to be. Now i know why they shame single men. Especially ones that haven't received p sleeve yet. Its a crabs in a bucket mentality they want to bring you down to their suffering and tear you apart like a flock of buzzards that haven't ate in a month. In the end, i learned that hypergamy will never love you, it will only love you for what you have. And its just nature, nature doesn't care about my subjective view of hypergamy. I can be disgusted all i want by it. But nature will continue to dictate hypergamy, as hypergamy is how we got here. This has been going on for thousands of years. Correct me if im wrong but i remember hearing someone say that a king somewhere in asian history had thousands of women to himself and he left none for the other men. I remember him saying they made a giant Dynasty doing that. Not sure what happened next but i guess it was violently ugly sooner or later.
When married guys find out I'm not married & childless.....they say I'm lucky. Meanwhile I want children, but without a woman casually destroying my life.
Let me quote King George, keep on rollin If you want to leave, baby go ahead and leave. Can't have one woman got to have three. This train going to keep on rollin
@@germainechris yea bro things are so easily more obtainable outside of New York it’s not even funny like my credit ain’t all that and I still get accepted for dam near anything
Crazy thing is that once you create a bunch of problems for yourself like a wife and kids and bills you forget that you still have to compete in life with all the people that don’t have those problems. looking for work, traveling, and day to day life, now all of a sudden you have a huge handicap that only benefits the women and children NOT YOU! SORRY IF THIS BOTHERS ANYONE TO HEAR BUT IT IS 100 PERCENT TRUTH.
Thank you so much for this video, man. You're so wise and You know what you're talking about. Yeah! I've always been single, I've never had a girlfriend and I don't want to be in a relationship because Women cheat a lot. I like being single because I have the freedom to do whatever I want. 🙂👍
Much is said about the pickiness of contemporary women. I say that guys need to be as picky if not pickier, when you take into account the increased costs, risks, and responsibilities associated with contemporary relationships. It’s just the way it is
You are wise! And innocent! And covertly versed! A true Light! And your Words are built on a secure foundation! Having words that are generations old! I’m very pleased to see a man who speaks eloquently. You are throwing pronounced jabs and hooks at the adversary! A great warrior spirit! Selah!🤔😀🎼😇❤️
36 single no kids live alone love my freedom and peace love that I can travel the world no headaches women are like a bill that I don’t need glad I don’t have kids they expensive this world is all messed up and I hear people say have kids leave a legacy ? Man please I got no legacy to leave behind love that I can stack my money like my mom told me it’s just u you only taking care of yourself u go to the supermarket to buy u something to eat u can buy whatever u want and still have money left over to stack up
True brother, but don't tell me you just found this out now?? Smart man bud, neither have I ever met a trustworthy woman. I am 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible and 304s women were since high school. Did you not see how women were since high school also??
@@germainechris But just only a few years? Why not since 1st day of high school brother? MANY men have been through high school, how could you and them not see this even since day 1? (and im talking early 1990s when I was in high school LOL. Why is that??
Just saying never thought what I was missing out on til I got single now man I'm a very happy guy I have more money,more time,more focus,more energy, an can take a trip or vacation without worrying.
You''ll experience true love from a woman when you"re not successful already. I agree, never chase women. However on your path to greatness if a good women sees, understands your vision, and wants to supplement your life, as a man who values family and longevity you should highly consider this novelty. If you can maintain keeping her in your frame and having her follow your lead, this type of woman will be more honorable than the woman who waits for you at the finish line. Behind every great man is a great woman and that's the type of woman you can truly count on.
I'm nearly 10 years totally single. Ive recently reassessed my life choices. I'm going for another 10 years. I'm much older than this gent making this video, yet I second his advice. He is speaking truth we were denied. We need more of The Waltons and not s3x in the city bs. Modern women are bad news for men and children.
Chasing excellence, working hard, spending money on a woman, Loving, marrying a women with high notch counts is painful, having a daughter is painful since some guys will do her. Being single avoids all this.
Hello Germain. Just found your channel. It’s nice to see a younger generation of peeps waking up. Ime 53 yrs young, single, no kids( been in relationships with women over the years with a few GFs ) but as a wise “ ol head” I like to give share a solution how to handle horniness or excessive thereof, that has worked for me whether single or with a partner, that may work for other fellas, ol heads and young men: a book called Multi Orgasmic man, by Mantak Chia. There are other books like it but the essentials is learning not just how to alternate ways of channeling one’s sexual energies that can not only yield more self control but how it can build better health with it too.
After my kid's mother, i swore off dating women. Im good doing things on my own, striving to be the highest version of myself, & living my life to my desire. I'll smash & that's it. Seeing how my exes moved, married women that be in my DMs, and "committed" relationship women be in my DMs, why should i even bother my peace on it? Live this life smart, Gentlemen!
Keep your hands busy, mind busier and body moving. No time for distractions when your building. Especially when no one will help you (for better or for worse - mainly becuz most ppl have no vision and therefore will only wait to see yours, never aid to it in a proper way without your guidance)
I see bunch couple living together they fights like crazy. I try to meet beautiful women , but sometimes I scare living with someone.. I used to have a lot of girlfriends, but now I'm living by myself. Still single.. But yes I would like to meet a woman but I feel I'm no ready yet. I'm trying to save money investing in the stock market . But no all women are bad , there are humble single women looking for good men, Thanks for sharing your thoughts .
I agree unfortunately because I do believe everyone is better married it’s best for our society. However the way it’s done now isn’t right so I tell all men don’t get married you’ll absolutely regret it.
No wife, no kids, no problems.
Disagree bro have kids leave a legacy just do it with a woman who won’t leverage them against you.
🍻🤙🏽
@@BDAthleticInsider children aren't legacy
@@BDAthleticInsiderwhat legacy is there left in 2024? Letalone many of us not ready yet even if the women were ready. So give or take 2028. 4 years later, the economy is going to be 10 times f-ed up
@BDAthleticInsider No such thing as a "legacy" lol. Only legacy you're subscribing to is neverending consumerism as you stay trapped in the capitalistic cycle
Staying single has definitely put me ahead of a lot of ppl. Just get ready for the hate and envy
Facts lol
Yep
yep. i received alot of it from so many people
@@thedoghouse8900 Those married people always be lying about what goes on behind closed doors. Seriously. They don't call it Fakebook for nothing. I had a friend who actually told me he gets sex Anytime he wants from his wife. Anytime. 😂 Sure buddy, whatever you say. 😂
Almost every married and divorced person that I know has told me not to get married if I want to be happy. Just a few days ago, my married friend told me to stay single and keep traveling. I intend to do just that.
Lol, of course. They're divorced. Did you talk to any people who are still married?
@@bradleyboyer9979 Yes. I stated in my comment that even the married couples told me not to get married.
@@VictorVonnDoomexactly you said my married friend.. they just want to get married and want to act like they didn't read that part lol
@@Jo-jackson I literally asked myself, did you skip over the married part on purpose? Lolol
Yoooo
Victor
Thanks for you words, that meke me feel good!!
Single life is amazing
36 no kids no gf… I got money.
I don’t know sometimes I think we are looking in the wrong pool of women. I think feminism went too far, to capitalize from womens workforce.
Same. Now we just gotta keep it on auto pilot at this age
34 and a 9 year old son but single just trying to be the best father I can be at this point I actually avoid women there’s a girl who is pissed at me for that very reason im hearing through the grapevine smh 😂
A women won't split the bills 50/50 but wants 50% of everything in the divorce
They want 50% but some how get 75%
It made sense with traditional wife husband roles, because the women spent her life as mother, wife and homemaker. But now absolutely no way unless it’s contributing to a family they will pay for their own luxuries, definitely not 50/50 share of assets unless things are done traditionally.
Divorce with children is a lifetime payment get a prenup
@@Jo-jackson how about dont marry in the first place?
And cheat on you
45, single, no children, and retired.
Looking to retire early too
45 get divorced after 20 years of marriage I was broke lost everything. In less then 2 years i saved 60.000$ please do not get married
Me too, same age. In Asia travel !
Lucky man
@@denzel1877don't give up on love...real women are there
Im staying single for the rest of my life.i realize that women are a waste of time.
Complete 😮
@@williambrucesanders6878 I agree.
@@JohnJunior-l9z do u mind if I ask u some questions 🤔🤔
@user-fm3tu6gu4r ill be 48 on the 27th. Been married 2 long times been single 7 years. My first marriage gave me a inkling like this don't seen right but this what everyone does. Wife ,kids,house,cars bla bla bla. Keep I'm mind both came at me I didn't chase chit. Seems easier to go with what likes u right? But my fist was lazy,couldn't clean, cook definitely a fore head poker lol. She eventually cheated. So I thought mabe cuzz we young .I was definitely happier alone. But married. Stuck basically. So I meet my 2nd at her job nutshelling here we talked 2 weeks later got an apt. She was like my escape plan🤣🤣ff 18 she cheated took everything. 7 years later here I am🧍🏽♂️🥳🥳
You weren't getting any bro stop acting deep
I have to admit, women are the “sole” reason I was hampered in my progress in life…..even the so called “serious” relationships…all just a fckng waste of time. In my 30s right now and decided to stay single. I have made so much progress in such a short time that I have really regret not doing it earlier….I avoid relationships like the plague. DO NOT DO IT….it ain’t worth it.
The Juice aint worth The Squeeze 🍊🍋
I sleep w my Chop
I was married for 20 years . After i pay all bills i use to be broke . Get divorced 2 years ago in less then 2 years i saved 60.000 $ please do not do the same mistakes i did is not worthy
@@pauldini5121 😊 heehee yeah its surprising how much of Parasite and how much of a Burden they are on your back
The amount of money i save each year from funding a woman or paying child support is something to strive for.
Facts
I live the “Free Agent” lifestyle and I don’t regret it one bit. Gentlemen, save and invest your money. Keep yourselves in good shape (physically, mentally, emotionally, etc) Please protect your wallets like your life depends on it.
🙌🏽
I've been in many relationships. And I found myself much happier everytime I'm single.
My brother gets like a lot of women and he hates relationships he says women have no value other than their body for the most part atleast shit imma believe him
Oh, I am voluntarily single/unmarried by choice and I have no regrets. I love my autonomy and freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want. I don’t EVER WANT a life partner for a lengthy laundry list. People like to say shit like “You just haven’t met the right one.”, “You’re in for a sad and lonely life.”, “I feel sorry for you.”, “Who hurt you?” and the list goes on. At 40 years old, I have zero regrets.
That was great never let women lead the relationship
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Fellas protect your sanity and your wallet in these current times!!
I’m happy to be single and living a simple life. No drama or major responsibilities.
Im a 24yo black man. I'm suicidal, alcoholic, always been single (never been in a relationship), poor, and I grew up an orphan. Its a bleak experience. Sometimes it's easier to die, years.......... Of waiting is bleak.
Hang in there
I'm 50, single and do you think I want to be in a relationship in 2024? #ell no!!
Hahaha yeah Got you my Guy 😂❤
Times have changed and women have changed for the worse. Get money, travel, and have fun. Dont rush into any longterm relationships.
Agreed Bro. I learned this from Aaron Clarey from his book Black man's guide out of poverty years ago.
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Basically, 60% of life is not f-ing up.
#1 Only have children you can afford (i.e. #1 cause of poverty in the world.)
#2 No useless knowledge / stupid degrees
#3 Don't having stupid addictions.
#4 Don't commit crime.
#5 Don't overspend your income.
(optional) #6 avoid the family court system as much as possible and common-law marriage scenario with a live-in girlfriend.
"
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Gotta pick up that read.
You have a link to the book?
This is good stuff
Gotta check that out. Thanks man💪🏾
Choosing single peace and focusing on my purpose in life.
I'm staying single as long as I can and if she doesn't accept my kids and granddaughter the way she expects me to accept hers than she can kick rocks
Thanks for posting this video. I really appreciate it, so that way people that are really lost in their lives.... make man strong again
Yessir
I wish I understood this better 10 years ago. I'm also going to be 30 a couple of years. I don't have any kids thankfully, but I definitely was not protecting myself as well as I should have. It's shocking that I've made it through most of my 20s without kids.
You’re blessed your time is coming
@@germainechris 🙏🏿
MGTOW for life
It's the unrealistic expectations that will cause many relationships not to succeed
I got married before biggest mistake I ever make, I stayed single for 4 years got into a relationship last July ended it in December not doing that again
6:32 now that part is very true women do not care about men self deleting themselves and not knowing they be the main problem or one of the problems because of it. That’s why self love is important and self respect. Been there before with a toxic ex girlfriend and been single ever since. These women do not care
You are on the right track. I'm 44 single, no kids , I been in nyc my whole life and I'm buying a condo in Panama next year and moving there, plenty of beautiful traditional women there and a great place to start a family . The US is for making money and entertainment only... US wealth / foreign family legacy. Stay focused gentlemen
The fact that you were in expensive ass nyc and prospering says enough. Single life has helped you!
@@juniorthedon823 yea it's always been M.O.B. Lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the woman will cook you over there
@@Himunich I'm from nyc.... u can't cook a chef lol
@@FrankAmil 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️third world is different 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but good luck
Bro you right im 35 im on child support for 3 kids but it was 4 just that my oldest turned 18 already. But like half my check be gone with child support and taxes smh. Women wont care that you cant provide for your self as long as she getting that money she wont care even if you bout to get put out your crib. Cold blooded 😂
I feel you bro, just remember anything is possible and you can get through it. I hope you figure it out and everything goes well for you💪🏾
NO ONE IN THIS COUNTRY CARES ABOUT MENs ISSUES OR MENs MENTAL HEALTH AT ALL. LISTEN TO THIS GUY WISH I HEARD AND SAW THIS AT 18 FOR REAL.
There's no way to carry a women on your back these days, I would even be wary of the working type too since they expect you to pay for everything which isn't economically feasible.
You learn from your failures in business, relationships and fitness. You need the experiences and experiments when you are younger. 36 now and I judge people solely on their behaviours. Words have no value. ❤
Marry the 💰
I'm 48 and Ive been single for a lil over 20 years. I date here and there but i have very low expectations for marriage or relationships. I love being single, it gives you a chance to work on you. Its not a nagging women trying to tell you how to be a man or trying to change you into the man she wants you to be. I have a job i love, i have a grown kid, and i own my own house. Thing people need to learn whether man or woman is that happiness comes from within, you can't depend on others to find happiness. Once you come to this realization...work on you, and find the better version of yourself then everything you seek will follow. I'm still single cause i enjoy my freedom and alone time. Stop looking for love and let love find you. People have these crazy expectations and preferences that you wont ever find. Fellas you not gonna find the pretty chic with the curves, thats gonna like you for you...and ladies youre not gonna find the tall muscular guy with the six figure job. Those types have options, and 9 times out of ten their gonna make you jump thru hoops to even get their attention. Go for someone thats gonna like you for you...looks fade and money can be gone in an instance. Im not saying pick just any person that likes you, but try dating out yiur comfort zone and you'll get better results.
BRO....I am on that same journey. I'm 43. I'm trying to figure out who I am without an echo-chamber. Who I am at my core. Discover things that make me genuinely happy. I am happy that I have had enough @$$ in life that it has become irrelevant .
I am evolving and learning to love myself.
been there done that four time, im out and im staying out 😎⛵
I’m 52, good advice
Especially if your a black man there is absolutely no need to be in a relationship. Most women look at you as a player anyway if ur handsome so they assume u on demon time. Other races are expected to play the game but black men have an easier time getting away with the bachelor lifestyle.
Factssss
This is so true
True, society places no expectation on black men for marriage. But for some reason, black women get all the heat for being single. I guess because we still tend to have children in that circumstance, which some probably depend on welfare to care for. I don't know for sure. But the bw and men who can remain single and still take care of all their needs until they die should be respected. That is hard!
@@MsLotusBlooms I would actually argue it's much harder for a black man to live with a women than to be single. Marriage/cohabitation is a joke.
Ever since I got my divorce years ago. The hair in the top of my head is growing back, and I am beginning to look young again. I am at peace with myself and God.
You are talking BIG FACTS
Yessir 💪🏾
I am a women no more relationship no to men ❤
😂I feel you
One unplanned Child cost me $1300 a month. I’m 30. I make good money but I set myself up for failure before I even got the money now she got me on the hook for the next 14 years unless I can get custody.
Why did u bust in her raw?
@@dogman683 It feels great, ever tried it?
It’s not the end brother. Adversity builds strong men
I’m in the same boat bro. My daughter is 12. Been paying child support since she was 4.
Staying single building my life up making good money now. My ex ran off and had another kid with another guy. I just spend time with my little one when I can and do my own thing. Had a few flings here and there but nothing serious. And I plan to keep it that way.
thank you I'm happy that I seen this video I was thinking to get married through pressure but now I'm gonna wait for a while and focus on myself and my career
Good choice, I hope everything goes well brother
I'm good and I'm going to keep it that way. Right on track! (SOLO/DOLO with no distractions)
I don't miss something I've already had and had plenty of ijs.
I'm GOOD
Its no longer worth it
My sons are alone and SO depressed. Good luck, men. This makes me sad.
Enjoy your success and money alone, as well as your own hands.
Not all women are out to destroy your lives.
Good grief!
Wish you had more subs. Rock solid advice and talks. Older guy here.
Thanks brother 🙏🏾🔥
It's way better to be single. In high-school i knew something was not right. Thats why i didn't date. Then later on at age 21 i discovered the truth about dating and women. It was a hard pill to swallow. But then i realized i was saved by this crazy system. Saved by watching/listening to the experiences of other men with their relationships with women and learning how the divorce courts are highly corrupt against men. It was DEFINITELY not what it was advertised to be. Now i know why they shame single men. Especially ones that haven't received p sleeve yet. Its a crabs in a bucket mentality they want to bring you down to their suffering and tear you apart like a flock of buzzards that haven't ate in a month.
In the end, i learned that hypergamy will never love you, it will only love you for what you have. And its just nature, nature doesn't care about my subjective view of hypergamy. I can be disgusted all i want by it. But nature will continue to dictate hypergamy, as hypergamy is how we got here. This has been going on for thousands of years.
Correct me if im wrong but i remember hearing someone say that a king somewhere in asian history had thousands of women to himself and he left none for the other men. I remember him saying they made a giant Dynasty doing that. Not sure what happened next but i guess it was violently ugly sooner or later.
When married guys find out I'm not married & childless.....they say I'm lucky.
Meanwhile I want children, but without a woman casually destroying my life.
You don't beat around the bush and are so on point.
Thanks for your support. Stay blessed.
Let me quote King George, keep on rollin
If you want to leave, baby go ahead and leave. Can't have one woman got to have three. This train going to keep on rollin
Lol !! Fucking right
that's my song
I wish I could of give this wonderful advice to my Lil Bro 💯😇 Fr I lost him too Fast
Happy Fathers Day to my Lil Bro 🌞😇🌹
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I been single for 31 years!!
THIS MAN ONLY SAID FACTS
Great message.
Love yourself and respect yourself.
im a native new yorker moved out two years ago to nevada best deceision ever
I feel you
In Nevada rn, yeah that was a great choice
@@germainechris yea bro things are so easily more obtainable outside of New York it’s not even funny like my credit ain’t all that and I still get accepted for dam near anything
Crazy thing is that once you create a bunch of problems for yourself like a wife and kids and bills you forget that you still have to compete in life with all the people that don’t have those problems. looking for work, traveling, and day to day life, now all of a sudden you have a huge handicap that only benefits the women and children NOT YOU! SORRY IF THIS BOTHERS ANYONE TO HEAR BUT IT IS 100 PERCENT TRUTH.
Good Advice Brother
Love your video bro keep cooking🦅💰💯
Single and happy!!
Nothing but facts
100 PERCENT TRUTH SAD TO SAY.
Thank you so much for this video, man. You're so wise and You know what you're talking about. Yeah! I've always been single, I've never had a girlfriend and I don't want to be in a relationship because Women cheat a lot. I like being single because I have the freedom to do whatever I want. 🙂👍
Glad I found this channel. I'm probably going to start making content like this. My perspective is a little different, but the message is the same.
Cool, good luck 👍🏾
Much is said about the pickiness of contemporary women. I say that guys need to be as picky if not pickier, when you take into account the increased costs, risks, and responsibilities associated with contemporary relationships. It’s just the way it is
*"Best Option?" how bout **_Only_** OPTION. hahahaha LOL*
Great video bro. You told not one lie
You are wise!
And innocent!
And covertly versed!
A true Light!
And your Words are built on a secure foundation!
Having words that are generations old!
I’m very pleased to see a man who speaks eloquently.
You are throwing pronounced jabs and hooks at the adversary! A great warrior spirit!
Selah!🤔😀🎼😇❤️
Im definitely about that solo life. Aint no way
36 single no kids live alone love my freedom and peace love that I can travel the world no headaches women are like a bill that I don’t need glad I don’t have kids they expensive this world is all messed up and I hear people say have kids leave a legacy ? Man please I got no legacy to leave behind love that I can stack my money like my mom told me it’s just u you only taking care of yourself u go to the supermarket to buy u something to eat u can buy whatever u want and still have money left over to stack up
41 years old.no girlfriend and no kids.
Then people speculate that you may be gay because of being a handsome single guy. I hate that so much when I hear that 😠
Yeah me too
True brother, but don't tell me you just found this out now?? Smart man bud, neither have I ever met a trustworthy woman. I am 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible and 304s women were since high school. Did you not see how women were since high school also??
lol yeah bro I knew this for a while I’ve been this way for years. I agree🏆
@@germainechris But just only a few years? Why not since 1st day of high school brother? MANY men have been through high school, how could you and them not see this even since day 1? (and im talking early 1990s when I was in high school LOL. Why is that??
@@Rambo-lv9hu yeah I made some mistakes in my early 20’s but thankful I got through. Feeling better then ever now
Just saying never thought what I was missing out on til I got single now man I'm a very happy guy I have more money,more time,more focus,more energy, an can take a trip or vacation without worrying.
Yessirrr
That's me man I been turning women down 42 no kids wife I'm not giving that up.im not settling for anything.
You''ll experience true love from a woman when you"re not successful already. I agree, never chase women. However on your path to greatness if a good women sees, understands your vision, and wants to supplement your life, as a man who values family and longevity you should highly consider this novelty. If you can maintain keeping her in your frame and having her follow your lead, this type of woman will be more honorable than the woman who waits for you at the finish line. Behind every great man is a great woman and that's the type of woman you can truly count on.
Facts🏆, in the future I’ll make a video about that as well.
Celibacy and singleness! All good! In God we trust! Following Jesus Christ!
amen
I just lost everything all my savings, my house and she cheated on me wirh our neighbor.. now i am MGTOW and 1000% devoted my life to Christ!
Im.44
Single debt free
No kids
Bacheleor 4 life😂
I'm nearly 10 years totally single. Ive recently reassessed my life choices. I'm going for another 10 years.
I'm much older than this gent making this video, yet I second his advice. He is speaking truth we were denied.
We need more of The Waltons and not s3x in the city bs. Modern women are bad news for men and children.
Bruh it’s social media that’s messing up everyone, we have options nowadays. It’s not like how it was back in the days when their was no phones.
Exactly, I’ve discussed how social media is ruining everything for men
Good video. Good advice.
Ithink relationships should compliment your life not take from your life.
They arent relationships these days. More situationships.
You dropping gems my g!
Chasing excellence, working hard, spending money on a woman, Loving, marrying a women with high notch counts is painful, having a daughter is painful since some guys will do her. Being single avoids all this.
Hello Germain. Just found your channel. It’s nice to see a younger generation of peeps waking up. Ime 53 yrs young, single, no kids( been in relationships with women over the years with a few GFs ) but as a wise “ ol head” I like to give share a solution how to handle horniness or excessive thereof, that has worked for me whether single or with a partner, that may work for other fellas, ol heads and young men: a book called Multi Orgasmic man, by Mantak Chia.
There are other books like it but the essentials is learning not just how to alternate ways of channeling one’s sexual energies that can not only yield more self control but how it can build better health with it too.
New york is a fabulous city !
🤷♂️big facts.
Im 23 making 11k a month never had a gf before
After my kid's mother, i swore off dating women. Im good doing things on my own, striving to be the highest version of myself, & living my life to my desire. I'll smash & that's it. Seeing how my exes moved, married women that be in my DMs, and "committed" relationship women be in my DMs, why should i even bother my peace on it? Live this life smart, Gentlemen!
Keep your hands busy, mind busier and body moving. No time for distractions when your building. Especially when no one will help you (for better or for worse - mainly becuz most ppl have no vision and therefore will only wait to see yours, never aid to it in a proper way without your guidance)
real facts
The lust for things n this 🌎🌎🌎 NOT for me , now that I'm 52yrs old 🤣👌 I'm going for Eternal Life in Jesus name Amen
I’m staying single because these men are married and taken I’m good!
Dating brings no return on investment
Amazing information
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I see bunch couple living together they fights like crazy. I try to meet beautiful women , but sometimes I scare living with someone..
I used to have a lot of girlfriends, but now I'm living by myself. Still single..
But yes I would like to meet a woman but I feel I'm no ready yet. I'm trying to save money investing in the stock market . But no all women are bad , there are humble single women looking for good men, Thanks for sharing your thoughts .
Stay strong 💪🏾
I agree unfortunately because I do believe everyone is better married it’s best for our society. However the way it’s done now isn’t right so I tell all men don’t get married you’ll absolutely regret it.
I like being alone and single.being alone brings you peace.
Trust, we wanna stay single to. No crusty dusties
Ick 🤢
😂😂😂
100% facts.