I need some advise please a girl I don’t know has smiled at me a few times and it caught me off guard So I paid attention to her one day she wasn’t smiling at any other guys and she smiled at me when we crossed paths I have seen her since then but wasn’t in her bubble so no smiling But today I came across her and said hello and she smiled and said hey I think she may have slightly looked down Are these good signs or they fuckn normal shit I know I should be a man grab my balls but my game is rusty I just got out of toxic bs relationship for almost 8 years any help or advise please
Dude I did this one time, there was no one behind me and she kept looking smiling eyes wide open at me, I triple checked, refused to elaborate and went out 🥲
Honestly, I just taught myself no beautiful woman would be interested in me so I started to treat a beautiful woman like a normal person... No hitting on her, no special treatment, no stupid pickup lines I was just myself which allows all my nerves and fears to vanish. Little did I know it makes your confidence look HUGE. This is how I met 3 of my long-term gfs. It actually caused a few of them to ask for my number especially if we had something in common. I was a guitar player so at one point I was asked to give her lessons because she always wanted to learn, found out later she didn't care about the guitar lessons 🤣
It's all about being relaxed. Match her energy, build rapport, and then it's all about keeping it interesting. Don't push the conversation if it's ending. You guys are studs 🤜🏼🤛🏼
I think if the person is interested then she will make it known by coming up to you, make conversation, proximity etc. So my advice to any bro out there is to always be in position of strength. You dont show interest if she dont, you dont be friendly if shes not. Treat them as they treat you. Key thing is, for any succes, the person has to find you physically attractive. If she dont then theres no point. Attraction is hair, face, body and cloathes. So make sure your hair and cloathes are stylish and dont be overweight. The only thing you cant control is your face/genetics.
@@NicoSimonPrincely Looks first before personality or game...She need to find you physically and sexsualy attractive before she can even notice your personality and game...Can you upload you personality and game on dating app?
REMEMBER,.. The thing is, you miss all the shots you don't take.. a friendly smile or hello doesn't mean your hitting on her, and if SHE does take offense at that, TRUST, she is not anyone you want to be with.. jus match the energy.. the bad rap cold approaches get is that 99% of dudes can't read the ZERO INTEREST signs and misinterpret friendliness as flirting.. so jus get out there!!
I started watching your videos about 2 years ago . It is literally noticable how great the videos turned out to be . Keep it up this is what we call "Quality Content"❤
Just use eye contact to your advantage and just smile back. And pay attention to her body language. If she looks away, could be she is also nervous. Just think she is looking at you for a reason. If you weren't even in the picture, her eyes wouldn't lock on to yours in the first place. They love sending signals. So play the game and play a game of your own. The results are pretty staggering when I treated them like they were equal to me and not above me in anyway. Even if you fail the shot with conversation, it still sends signals that are positive. So just practice your art and delivery. Then things start getting easier. It takes practice guys. So get out there with conviction and have some fun.
*A simple, confident smile back or a nod can do wonders in showing that you’re interested but not desperate. If you want to take it further, approach with a light-hearted question or comment based on the situation you’re in, making it easy for her to continue the conversation.*
The trick, is forgetting everything he said in the video, and just being open, honest, and yourself (don’t put on an act, show her immediately the real you, take it or leave it). Go in with an attitude of “I find you attractive, but if you are not into me right now, that is fine, there are literally billions of attractive women out there”. When you care too much about the outcome, you mess up, if you don’t care at all about the outcome, you might be too distant and seem unmotivated, BUT when you care + you have the courage to be rejected + the self respect to not be needy or let a woman walk all over you.. you have a winning formula. In the end, it doesn’t really matter, there is literally millions of women besides the one you are approaching, many of them might be more beautiful, or of better character, or a better fit for you.. so just chill man, take it easy, and the right women will always reveal herself in the end. (I recommend you look for a good woman to marry, don’t just fuck around with casual sex. Even if one women is not enough for you, get multiple women in long term relationships, take care of the women you are with, don’t just treat them as sex dolls).
question. i feel like girls always smile, but its meaningless. like they do it to everyone, and they are just being polite and would rather not engage in actual talk. is this incorrect?
Same. Sometimes it means nothing at all to be honest. I had tried once to speak at her first but it seems she don't want to talk. Failed miserably!!! 😂
@@chrizmarkdeasis7761 after waking up ill have everyone all peppy and saying "good morning how are you". i respond with "good". and thats it lol. so when i finally wanted to up my socializing game i said, "good, how are you" the girl misheard me and though i said only "good". i missheard her and thought she said she was doing "bad" lol. i wish things are clear. people seems cheery and talkative one day. then quiet another day. ill put in work brushing my teeth and using deodorant. then everyone gets quiet. life is confusing and i already dont have enought motivation to deal with this shit. single for life baby, ima live the best life i can i guess lol
Alex sir! I and my friend just had conversation on this topic and you uploaded this video... Helpful for us we both watched your video also I got some positive energy from your speech... Thank you... Btw i changed my dressing sense by watching you .... Love from India🇮🇳
The honest truth about the friendzone is.... If she puts you in the friendzone and you're being yourself, honest, you feel things have gone well and she still puts you in the friendzone... She's not for you. A mature woman who is genuinely into you won't put you in the friend zone they ACTUALLY communicate. Theyll make sure you're not interested before assuming based on your scew ups because women know we are human and we mess up. Like he eaid they can sense fear, confidence and nerves. The intelligent ones can also sense when you are full of crap or you are being real. If you're being real, your chances of getting her are much higher. It's the materialistic, high standard woman who put their value on the outside that put you in the friendzone and assume without communicating. You don't want that! They want that alpha male take control b.s. and lemme tell you that can get the girl but years down the road it'll get old and you'll get tired of it unless thats your genuine personality.
Trust me Alex costa is the only person Marvel's should contact if anyone in the world deserves the place for the next Iron man role (He almost looks like the RDJ from 2012 ❤)
Don’t reciprocate. She’s smiling at a lot of dudes. Men are in love, women are in business. If she truly wants to get to know you, she will circle back. Trust me on this. I’ve been there done that and succeeded getting to know women that matter. Signed, Lieutenant Colonel, United States Marine Corps (Retired) and wiseman
how to check if this advice it true and good: scarily sharp jawline ✅ no ring/ single ✅ speaks fluently but also stumbles over sometimes but it is subtle ✅ understandable evedience ✅ yup, he is that one guy who somehow can't pull (no offence Alex, im in the same boat or i got it all wrong and you don't wear a ring/ are merried im just trying to see if my one friend fits this bill)
The whole “we live in a simulation thing” y’all ever think something bigger is controlling media? I know some people may think this is harmless situation but the core problem of influencers all doing the same videos around the same time is alarming. Why/how do TMF/Alex and other influencers roll out the same video on the same time and no it’s not part of a trend.
Probably the best guide in such a short time. Asking for too much here though, how do you do this when you are having a bad day? Or even worse, if you have not gone out with friends in 2 weeks and are not 'warmed up' socially?
Does it still mean attraction if you smile first? I work retail and during my breaks and after work (When not in uniform) its very common (Multiple times a day) that I lock eyes with a female and smile, then they give me a smile back. Is that still a sign of attraction or a common courtesy? I just couldn't imagine locking eyes with a girl and NOT smiling, it just seems so cold and serial killer like....
I've been in that same kind of situation I just don't know what I'm going to do so I just looked in different directions and try to get out in that situation as fast as possible.
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whenever i smile, it feels like i am sexually harassing someone.. darn it.
Start talking to another girl😂
Q😊
Some girls might smile but doesn’t mean they want you to ask her out
I need some advise please a girl I don’t know has smiled at me a few times and it caught me off guard
So I paid attention to her one day she wasn’t smiling at any other guys and she smiled at me when we crossed paths
I have seen her since then but wasn’t in her bubble so no smiling
But today I came across her and said hello and she smiled and said hey I think she may have slightly looked down
Are these good signs or they fuckn normal shit
I know I should be a man grab my balls but my game is rusty I just got out of toxic bs relationship for almost 8 years any help or advise please
When a woman smiles at me, I look to see who is standing behind me.....up to 5 miles
I just assume she wants to sell me sth.
consequences of being ugly, I do it too brother
To pickup a girl at a supermarket, you have to be Mr. Casanova or else forget it.
Dude I did this one time, there was no one behind me and she kept looking smiling eyes wide open at me, I triple checked, refused to elaborate and went out 🥲
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855not if she sends a choosing signal
I find not getting attached to your desired results helps maintain confidence. Just put yourself out there and have fun.
Sure
That costs me energy I don't like to spend that much energy without getting something in return.
Exactly, this is magic !!!!!
Honestly, I just taught myself no beautiful woman would be interested in me so I started to treat a beautiful woman like a normal person... No hitting on her, no special treatment, no stupid pickup lines I was just myself which allows all my nerves and fears to vanish. Little did I know it makes your confidence look HUGE. This is how I met 3 of my long-term gfs. It actually caused a few of them to ask for my number especially if we had something in common. I was a guitar player so at one point I was asked to give her lessons because she always wanted to learn, found out later she didn't care about the guitar lessons 🤣
@@jay-pg2ib nah actually thts good
I remember when the thumbnail tweet said "don't smile back"
Click bait 😅
It's all about being relaxed. Match her energy, build rapport, and then it's all about keeping it interesting. Don't push the conversation if it's ending. You guys are studs 🤜🏼🤛🏼
Great tips Scotty!
This Man posts the right video at the right time for me...
His content is just the right one
Happy to help in any way
Just.. the thumbnail could also be genuine. That's not nice!
Relation with girls and understanding girls overall is like learning about some new species everytime to me 😅
That's the fun part imo
No matter a girl or whatever person smiles at me, I always just look back with a straight dead face
That's a mistake.
like someone with a brain injury or a severe mental illness
When a girl smiles at you, the best thing to do is leave - quickly.
If you want to be alone and an Incel.
It's a trap!!!!
Not always
Only if you’re in Thailand 😂
@@atreyasaha why?
This man changed the way of my style thanku so much alex ❤❤
That means a lot thank you
I think if the person is interested then she will make it known by coming up to you, make conversation, proximity etc.
So my advice to any bro out there is to always be in position of strength. You dont show interest if she dont, you dont be friendly if shes not. Treat them as they treat you.
Key thing is, for any succes, the person has to find you physically attractive. If she dont then theres no point.
Attraction is hair, face, body and cloathes.
So make sure your hair and cloathes are stylish and dont be overweight.
The only thing you cant control is your face/genetics.
And you've been with how many women?
And you're wrong. Personality & Game over rule looks.
@@NicoSimonPrincely Looks first before personality or game...She need to find you physically and sexsualy attractive before she can even notice your personality and game...Can you upload you personality and game on dating app?
Have you ever heard the word superficial ? Cause you just described it, social media dreamer.?
Cope.Looks are everything.@@NicoSimonPrincely
no women is coming up to a big scary guy they don't know, that's just unreasonable. Obviously you have to make the first move.
If a Girl really loves you, she will move a mountain and if she doesn't love you, she'll add a mountain in-between. It's that simple.
but, she doesn't even know you...
My experience has shown this to be true. They will let you know and make themselves readily available.
@@RockyVegaTVnot true a women won’t talk to you first.
Oh they wont but they will drop hints when started talking to you . But sometimes those hints are just difficult to read@@blastorange2460
Day by day Alex improve their content quality.
Keep it up bro👍🏽
Their/bro
Watching Alex is going from zero to hero,
going from Alex Free to Alex Costa
REMEMBER,.. The thing is, you miss all the shots you don't take.. a friendly smile or hello doesn't mean your hitting on her, and if SHE does take offense at that, TRUST, she is not anyone you want to be with.. jus match the energy.. the bad rap cold approaches get is that 99% of dudes can't read the ZERO INTEREST signs and misinterpret friendliness as flirting..
so jus get out there!!
Congratulations! Very clear, no bullshit, and most of all genuine. Thank you for sharing.
I started watching your videos about 2 years ago . It is literally noticable how great the videos turned out to be . Keep it up this is what we call "Quality Content"❤
The level of these videos are going crazy 🔥🔥
Crazy good
Just use eye contact to your advantage and just smile back. And pay attention to her body language. If she looks away, could be she is also nervous. Just think she is looking at you for a reason. If you weren't even in the picture, her eyes wouldn't lock on to yours in the first place. They love sending signals. So play the game and play a game of your own. The results are pretty staggering when I treated them like they were equal to me and not above me in anyway. Even if you fail the shot with conversation, it still sends signals that are positive. So just practice your art and delivery. Then things start getting easier. It takes practice guys. So get out there with conviction and have some fun.
thank you Alex for teaching men, you will create more and healthy relationships out there ❤❤❤
The fact that I got a reel on ig where girls ask and us guys answer and then literally i got recommended this video 💀🔥🔥
Some girls might smile but doesn’t mean they want you to ask her out
*A simple, confident smile back or a nod can do wonders in showing that you’re interested but not desperate. If you want to take it further, approach with a light-hearted question or comment based on the situation you’re in, making it easy for her to continue the conversation.*
Thanks for the advice but I don't think Ana De Armas is ever smiling at me 💀
Never heard of her, whats her OF so I can research
@@phabeondominguez5971shes an actor bruh, man said OF
@@phabeondominguez5971if that's the first thing that came to your head you got bigger problems
Great video Man , Absolutely love your content!!
what 😭
thanks Alex, you broke it down really down for me to see where you going at with this. good inserts in the videos!’ 👍🏼
Your emotional state should not shake infront of her. It is that simple. She is just a human being no matter how beautiful she is.
"She is just a human being no matter how beautiful she is." 🔥🔥
The trick, is forgetting everything he said in the video, and just being open, honest, and yourself (don’t put on an act, show her immediately the real you, take it or leave it). Go in with an attitude of “I find you attractive, but if you are not into me right now, that is fine, there are literally billions of attractive women out there”. When you care too much about the outcome, you mess up, if you don’t care at all about the outcome, you might be too distant and seem unmotivated, BUT when you care + you have the courage to be rejected + the self respect to not be needy or let a woman walk all over you.. you have a winning formula. In the end, it doesn’t really matter, there is literally millions of women besides the one you are approaching, many of them might be more beautiful, or of better character, or a better fit for you.. so just chill man, take it easy, and the right women will always reveal herself in the end. (I recommend you look for a good woman to marry, don’t just fuck around with casual sex. Even if one women is not enough for you, get multiple women in long term relationships, take care of the women you are with, don’t just treat them as sex dolls).
OR the girl just being nice, smiling to to you ,not necessary mean anything .
question. i feel like girls always smile, but its meaningless. like they do it to everyone, and they are just being polite and would rather not engage in actual talk. is this incorrect?
Same. Sometimes it means nothing at all to be honest. I had tried once to speak at her first but it seems she don't want to talk. Failed miserably!!! 😂
Most men are invisible to women like a background or wallpaper. If you’re being smiled at then you’re halfway there champ.
@@chrizmarkdeasis7761 after waking up ill have everyone all peppy and saying "good morning how are you". i respond with "good". and thats it lol. so when i finally wanted to up my socializing game i said, "good, how are you" the girl misheard me and though i said only "good". i missheard her and thought she said she was doing "bad" lol. i wish things are clear. people seems cheery and talkative one day. then quiet another day. ill put in work brushing my teeth and using deodorant. then everyone gets quiet. life is confusing and i already dont have enought motivation to deal with this shit. single for life baby, ima live the best life i can i guess lol
@@saltgame5823 We're on the same boat buddy already!
*Smile back and nod head up and down, yes thinking "lets do it baby.* 🙂
Does this work for brown guys?
Alex sir! I and my friend just had conversation on this topic and you uploaded this video... Helpful for us we both watched your video also I got some positive energy from your speech... Thank you... Btw i changed my dressing sense by watching you .... Love from India🇮🇳
The honest truth about the friendzone is.... If she puts you in the friendzone and you're being yourself, honest, you feel things have gone well and she still puts you in the friendzone... She's not for you. A mature woman who is genuinely into you won't put you in the friend zone they ACTUALLY communicate. Theyll make sure you're not interested before assuming based on your scew ups because women know we are human and we mess up. Like he eaid they can sense fear, confidence and nerves. The intelligent ones can also sense when you are full of crap or you are being real. If you're being real, your chances of getting her are much higher. It's the materialistic, high standard woman who put their value on the outside that put you in the friendzone and assume without communicating. You don't want that! They want that alpha male take control b.s. and lemme tell you that can get the girl but years down the road it'll get old and you'll get tired of it unless thats your genuine personality.
Trust me Alex costa is the only person Marvel's should contact if anyone in the world deserves the place for the next Iron man role (He almost looks like the RDJ from 2012 ❤)
your editing skills are improving day by day 🎉
My Future dream couple in the thumbnail🥺❣️
IDK. It's never happened to me, ever.
3:00 "What do you say?"
"Chiti chiti bang bang Ya ba da ba doo"
Hell yah, works for me 🤣
winner 😂😂😂😂🎉
Hey a 10/10 chad could probably pull that off 😂
Nice non-toxic advice! 😄
Amazing , keep it up Alex costa ❤
Thank you, will do!
Hi Alex, I am from India love ur content. Got the insight of the lives in NYC by ur videos.
Don’t reciprocate. She’s smiling at a lot of dudes. Men are in love, women are in business. If she truly wants to get to know you, she will circle back. Trust me on this. I’ve been there done that and succeeded getting to know women that matter. Signed, Lieutenant Colonel, United States Marine Corps (Retired) and wiseman
Women just want to have fun, so just have fun. Keep it playful, a little funny or cheeky and JUST HAVE FUN with it.
The Background Score is OP🔥
Make a video on the best summer floral shirt dresses for look maxing ❤
WHAT IS THE PROCEDURE for the visa and how many days will
the conversation should be true or rather genuine which then leads to that polarity
What if she's recorded for her tiktok and you don't know?!
I'm assuring that I'll definitely forget each and every step at that point
how to check if this advice it true and good:
scarily sharp jawline ✅
no ring/ single ✅
speaks fluently but also stumbles over sometimes but it is subtle ✅
understandable evedience ✅
yup, he is that one guy who somehow can't pull
(no offence Alex, im in the same boat or i got it all wrong and you don't wear a ring/ are merried im just trying to see if my one friend fits this bill)
Its not just that we dont know. Its more that we dont want to... we know what comes after. Most men nowadays prefer to end alone
This speaks to me
Tks. I’ve been barking at girls for 5 years and had no clue what was wrong
Lmao😂😂
Great one !
do another morning routine!!
Soon! I just posted a night time routine last week did you see that?
@@alexcostaYup it was really helpful and i can’t wait to see your next morning routine!!
Just keep walking!
Good video! Mostly too, you have to be ready , when your ready for the opportunity, they’ll fall in your lap
Girls never look at me. Or smile at me.
The same happens to me.
Its all about looks dont stress to much 😉😉
Give them lots of beer
You are a total heartthrob dude!😉
The whole “we live in a simulation thing” y’all ever think something bigger is controlling media? I know some people may think this is harmless situation but the core problem of influencers all doing the same videos around the same time is alarming. Why/how do TMF/Alex and other influencers roll out the same video on the same time and no it’s not part of a trend.
It's not that deep lol, it's a strategy many TH-camrs use. Copy the idea/title of a popular video but put your spin on it
First thumbnail was better alex❤
changed it back for you
Hey Alex, I wanted to buy the Forte Pomade, but its sold out everywhere and its not on the main site no more?
First, Love from UK Alex
Don’t forget guys….she also missed her shot.
😂
And that change anything? Its a missed shot, end of story.
She has 99 bros left on read
Cope harder goof
@@jcransome5616That she doesn't want...
The confidence we all want🌕🍷
Best way to get over the anxiety is to not expect anything just talk to her as you wanna be friends
''What to do when a girl smiles at you''
Lol jokes on you, women never smile at me 😅
For Ages 13 to 16
Go and study
😂@@jovith77
If a girl looks at you and smiles, look at her and ask, will I become a dentist now?
A very nice and helpful video.
Thank you Alex costa
Hi i am form india . Appreciate you bro
Alex is it okay if the guy smiles first ?
nah bro
Probably the best guide in such a short time. Asking for too much here though, how do you do this when you are having a bad day? Or even worse, if you have not gone out with friends in 2 weeks and are not 'warmed up' socially?
How do I talk to a girl who’s in her friend group? I have my eyes on someone atm but she’s always with someone.
Start befriending all her friend
Thanks brother ,really helped alot
If she smiles. DO the checks. Check your zipper. Check your wallet. Look behind you.
I am from India
I am also see your videos
It's really good 👍
First love from India Alex❤
Does it still mean attraction if you smile first? I work retail and during my breaks and after work (When not in uniform) its very common (Multiple times a day) that I lock eyes with a female and smile, then they give me a smile back. Is that still a sign of attraction or a common courtesy? I just couldn't imagine locking eyes with a girl and NOT smiling, it just seems so cold and serial killer like....
Me: i see a very stunning women look and blush's at me.
My brain: Run as fast as possible, and don't look back.
Just look away and do your best to not make eye contact again by mistake👍
What to do when a girl looks or smiles at you? RUN!!!
Run
Love from Bangladesh. I'm live in Texas.
Where’d you get that sweater my man?
Because they later say.....what are you looking at CREEP
Women CHOOSE the guy - that is the way it always has been - we just need to respond - have fun - and escalate. Woo Hooooo. Yeeeaaaahh.
Hi iam a very big fan of you alex love from india
Hey alex, can you plz do more videos on fashion
thanks mate
I've been in that same kind of situation I just don't know what I'm going to do so I just looked in different directions and try to get out in that situation as fast as possible.
I think if Ana De Armas smiled at me I’d just faint! 😂
for real, bro
I smile and ask them how they are today
Works everytime
damn bro , your videos are getting great day by day .
I lost my Job in 2023 and Started this TH-cam channel to move forward in life. Hope I will Make it and Wish me good luck brothers ❤️
Hey, what shirt is that? or at least the brand
I consult the manual immediately,
Those things rarely happen in Asia, where I am from.
Do you speak Portuguese?