How To Attract A Woman Who Is NOT Interested | Alex Costa

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  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

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  • @mikkotrades7686
    @mikkotrades7686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1576

    0:59 Be extra confident, take control and know what you're doing
    2:28 Dress well, take care of yourself
    3:19 smell nice, apply fragrance
    6:08 Don't come strong, be smart with your chit chat
    8:50 Compliment her but don't overdo it
    10:16 Show her you're interested, keep an eye contact
    11:14 Be a good listener. Initiate deep conversations and pay attention
    12:43 Body language. Fix your posture, don't slouch, don't cross hands, try to be approachable

    • @JohnSmithAnythingChannel
      @JohnSmithAnythingChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks.

    • @se.i.4393
      @se.i.4393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@JohnSmithAnythingChannel sorry but if a guy who'm I'm not interested in does this, it will not help at all, best thing is cut her off

    • @eyesofitachi55
      @eyesofitachi55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Why not just do these things for yourself and eliminate them as a problem and an obstacle? Focus on yourself and on your goals. If a fish jumps in your boat along the way, by all means make a meal out of it and then move on.

    • @DanteWesker612
      @DanteWesker612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not coming strong might be a little tough if you're a gym rat like me. I mean, I do full-body workouts at the gym, 6 days a week. I also have plans on signing up for classes in the art if Kung Fu, for I have been interested in martial arts ever since I was 6 years old. In fact, I was inspired to learn them by one of the best martial artists that ever lived: Bruce Lee

    • @se.i.4393
      @se.i.4393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DanteWesker612 don't believe every bullshit get as high as you can come as strong as you can

  • @PhoenixG113
    @PhoenixG113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3204

    Tip 1 - Work on improving yourself, don’t focus on girls with low interest. Kings don’t chase. Stay strong my friends.

    • @rayyanshan416
      @rayyanshan416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      100%

    • @HYDROBLAST-c3u
      @HYDROBLAST-c3u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      What do you mean dont focus on girls with low interest

    • @captainscary9307
      @captainscary9307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Facts

    • @abhisheksao8196
      @abhisheksao8196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Why are you watching this video then

    • @ashhishbhardwaj
      @ashhishbhardwaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Man I skipped watching this video so that I wouldn't start trying again, down bad

  • @muhammadmuradmahar2134
    @muhammadmuradmahar2134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1258

    1: Be Extra Confident
    2: Dress Well
    3: Smell Good
    4: Let's Meet ( take her out )
    5: Compliment Her
    6: Eye Contact
    7: Do not Look at other girls while talking to that Girl
    8: Be a Good Listener
    9: Have interesting conversation
    10: Body Language ( Posture )

  • @jkfd97
    @jkfd97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    First step to dealing with a lady that has zero interest in you: turn around and walk away. Zero interest means zero effort on your end. Do not waste your time. Look for reciprocation and if it never arrives, that's your cue to exit.

    • @Сте-е4ь
      @Сте-е4ь 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Many a smart man advice is that no woman can resist to persistance. If yu see she refuses yu, try harder, if yu see she is annoyed disappear for a while and make sure she finds out yu have many other options/women. If she still shows no interest disappear again for a while and come back with completely different outfit and buy yurself a new house. Ask yurself is she out of my league, if she is, then work on yurself to be higher than in her league. Always keep near yu a woman whonis under yur league, and while yu step up, yu chase the other ones. I have exactly the same success rate now with great career and salary higher than 4 times average salary in this country, as i had it when i was a student. The difference is that women i chase now are also far better than the ones i used to chase when i was a student.

    • @jkfd97
      @jkfd97 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Сте-е4ь The c***s that run this Commie site aren't letting me reply to you. Go check out Rollo Tomassi, Entrepreneurs in Cars and Alexander Grace before this scummy website bans them. You want the truth of the dating market, there is your holy trinity. I wish you the best, sir. Sorry for being unable to give you a more detailed response but my hands are tied by NaziTube.

    • @jkfd97
      @jkfd97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Randall Swanson You do not persist with modern women. Unless you're looking for a harrassment charge or a slow destruction to your confidence and self-esteem. No, you focus on you, and if a nice girl presents herself then sure, shoot your shot - but only once. It's either a definite yes or it's a "huh, well, onto the next one".

    • @Miandros101
      @Miandros101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s my reasoning as well. If they’re not interested, I ain’t wasting my time!

    • @VikasKumar-pm4nd
      @VikasKumar-pm4nd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn straight

  • @FFlores_
    @FFlores_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    I know I bunch of guys can relate to this one, it's only the FIRST interaction with a female that scares us, after that it's no problem, that's how it is for me at least

    • @KakaoPfoteMsp
      @KakaoPfoteMsp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ah yes females, something completely different jk i understand if you've never talked to a person of the opposite gender haha

    • @DanteWesker612
      @DanteWesker612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. The first time I talked to a woman was pretty nerve-racking. But after that, I don't have any problems talkin' to 'em

    • @xchalibur77
      @xchalibur77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KakaoPfoteMsp ya.... saying the creature that only gets approached

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

  • @amirkouchnezhad4058
    @amirkouchnezhad4058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    00:59 Be extra confident
    02:30 Dress well
    03:17 Memorable fragrance (ads)
    06:11 "Lets meet" (take it easy)
    08:50 Compliment her
    10:14 Eye contact
    11:13 Be a good listener
    12:45 Body language

  • @pranavrautfitness
    @pranavrautfitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    men dont chase women who arent interested in them , Men have a purpose , mission and a life to enjoy , A woman should be compliment to your life not the focus

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +14122387259⏯⏯💕💕

  • @luizz5069
    @luizz5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I don't know why but I can understand better when I'm a listening to another brazilian guy speaking in english than when I'm listening to another person who has english as their first language. A huge hug from a brazilian fan.

    • @Alex-archive
      @Alex-archive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm russian and I know english language about 50% when I listening, but whan I listen Alex Costa I get him for 80.

    • @ursa5328
      @ursa5328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm from an asian country my mother tongue is Hindi but I understand his words literally crystal clear....
      He is even better than my English teacher...

    • @jaystein7896
      @jaystein7896 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol bruh. I was 100% certain this guy was Brazilian by the way he talks. 😂 Salve.

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours..

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

  • @patrickbaja9800
    @patrickbaja9800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    As Notorious BIG said, ask her “what your interests are, who you be with, things to make you smile, what numbers to dial”. Biggie had game.

    • @voguehaven5154
      @voguehaven5154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol... Biggie had MONEY. If a girl doesn't want you...SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU! Leave her alone and let her be.

    • @papadontpreach6744
      @papadontpreach6744 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@voguehaven5154 facts💯

    • @ralph3183
      @ralph3183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@voguehaven5154 As a black man from here in Louisiana, who wuz bone in dem 70's, I must say dat kinda rap music still goes hard to this day.
      However, ni dat I analyze those lyrics, I wonder what is there to gain by asking women, "who dey be wit"?

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

  • @pf4773
    @pf4773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Alex, thanks! Underneath what you are saying is also that, if you haven't "worked on yourself" you are approaching the woman as though she will make you "ok," and no one can create self-esteem and self-acceptance but yourself. If you have no self-discipline in your career, spirituality, and health, you SHOULD NOT "get a 10." Raise your own level of achievement as well as your game to a 10 then you will not only be able to approach, but you can actually maintain a high-quality relationship. Too many guys are focused only on creating attraction, but when they "get the girl" they have no idea how to actually maintain a relationship. So, it's not JUST attraction game, it's also learning the communication skills, and building your own skills and attributes as a human, to be a "10" as a partner.

  • @darkmatter6878
    @darkmatter6878 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How to attract a woman who is not interested: you don't. She already made it clear that she's not interested in you. Leave her alone and move on.
    One thing I learned in life is to stop giving attention to someone who is clearly not interested in me. Always put your pride, dignity and self-respect first.
    Work on improving yourself and be open-minded about it, and just be the best version of yourself you can be.

    • @loopsvideoloops
      @loopsvideoloops ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true you may find yourself giving way too much into her games then she shows her true colors to you and its your fault you attracted a gold digger.
      women who like money choose wisely they know the men to get hooked are the ones that keep coming after her.

    • @darkmatter6878
      @darkmatter6878 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loopsvideoloops Exactly. First-hand experience.

    • @LeftHimDead
      @LeftHimDead 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts bro

    • @Sam-ms7hr
      @Sam-ms7hr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interest can develop over time.

  • @Tristan.p
    @Tristan.p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    2:19 except for this video ! Always here when we need it !

  • @KakaoPfoteMsp
    @KakaoPfoteMsp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    2:28 yes, this exactly
    guys if you wanna meet up with someone, don't dress extra special to impress someone if you don't feel like yourself in those clothes. don't wear a suit if you think you look embarassing in it, if the girl thinks you're a loser because you're not wearing something ultra special, she ain't the one

  • @KinesisXBL
    @KinesisXBL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I once was unintentionally showing a woman a lot of attention because I found her very intriguing and attractive. She noticed and soon lost most positive interest regarding me. I got the hint and avoided interacting with her and she very clearly had a resurgence of interest in me when she learned more about who I am as a person. The rapid change in her opinion of me made me start to question my strategy when approaching, interacting, and even choosing when to and not to interact with them.

  • @Alpysf
    @Alpysf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I’m so early that even the summary guy hasn’t arrived!

    • @quora_quest5121
      @quora_quest5121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @zarchie
      @zarchie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This must the most 😂😂 thing i've read this day ;

    • @clearanatomy5608
      @clearanatomy5608 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Summary guy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @yuvrajsinghgangwar436
      @yuvrajsinghgangwar436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No he is here i just saw hum

    • @tanushbansal9353
      @tanushbansal9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And his comment is justtt jussstt above yours

  • @jaynnovack5646
    @jaynnovack5646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    His hair is at god level now🔥

    • @rohangarg6312
      @rohangarg6312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Looks like Jesus too 😂

    • @joego7924
      @joego7924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brandon Crawford of the SF Giants now giving dating advice!

    • @dhanush4132
      @dhanush4132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rohangarg6312 😂😂😂😂

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

  • @ursa5328
    @ursa5328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It feels like Alex is hammering those tips into us....❤️

  • @hihaters2004
    @hihaters2004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    Why would I want anyone that doesn’t want me? 😂

  • @jimlayden5199
    @jimlayden5199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @gamermaddy8070
    @gamermaddy8070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    And after seeing this video I just got it .
    First imporve yourself and second go for a girl you want .
    And main thing to notice don't change your personality just for a perticular girl who don't even noticed you . You should change your personality for yourself .first love yourself then only others will love you .

  • @jerewang1
    @jerewang1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You can tell these tips are very mature and backed with experience. Unfortunately/fortunately, I learned these tips the hard way through dates and going through life. I can relate with every point mentioned in this video. Awesome video man, keep it up! For me, I wish you could have came out with this video sooner.

    • @Lo-to7zh
      @Lo-to7zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You need to be good looking and tall to succeed in dating , these bullshit doesn’t work if your look is not good enough. Women want tall men with a good face like us men want attractive women.
      Women In Western countries also chose white men in general so you better be aware that your skin color may eliminate you straight away. Sometimes it’s over before it ever began.

    • @Lo-to7zh
      @Lo-to7zh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Randall Swanson Yes but you’ll be always the second choice as a short guy. This world is crazy lol

  • @tweekgaming2124
    @tweekgaming2124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Alex Costa the man we need in such times🙏

    • @Danekim_
      @Danekim_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loser 🤣

    • @tweekgaming2124
      @tweekgaming2124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Danekim_ ur father?😂😂😂

    • @veerendranath7980
      @veerendranath7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tweekgaming2124 🤣🤣

    • @AncientYouth64
      @AncientYouth64 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gotta buy that chit bro... Do people actually fall for these infomercials lol

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours

  • @meiduandingangmei6719
    @meiduandingangmei6719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Coming back after 2 years,,, alex has changed alot.... The hair style, the way he speaks is much faster with changing tune n the channel has run up higher subscriber....
    Nice keep up ..

  • @abhyudaykumar6938
    @abhyudaykumar6938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love you Alex❤️!! It's really good to see you after so many days, since I was stuck in my academics, that's why😅. You did not lose the energy man, and the way you connect with us. It's always good to hear you. It's always like we are talking to our big bro who's talks are no bs. I am really glad to have you, truly appreciate your work! And no to mention the authenticity and positivity you're spreading😊. Have a great day and take care!

  • @zinousahraoui3530
    @zinousahraoui3530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    one of the thing that i like in alex it's your language bro you use a simple world you talk slowly i can understand perfectly so thank you so much bro and keep going inspiring us 😘

    • @sayyer10
      @sayyer10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alex is bringing the American accent to a new level.

    • @zinousahraoui3530
      @zinousahraoui3530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sayyer10 yes we can see 👌

  • @AbdulRauf-lt6vq
    @AbdulRauf-lt6vq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Hey Alex, these are the much needed tips that I’ll try to utilise to make my crush be interested in me . Thank you .

    • @asmabegum879
      @asmabegum879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ur crush is watching this 😂

    • @tikgaming8104
      @tikgaming8104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@asmabegum879 😂😂😂

    • @nickiminajsbiggestfan7921
      @nickiminajsbiggestfan7921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If yo crush ain’t interested in you then drop it! She probably getting piped down right down by a dude who treats her like shit while mr nice guy over here is thinking about her all the time 😂

    • @roscavlogs1708
      @roscavlogs1708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U got this g

    • @AbdulRauf-lt6vq
      @AbdulRauf-lt6vq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nickiminajsbiggestfan7921 I got you dude ✌️

  • @dhl0706
    @dhl0706 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I once stood in a club with some friends talking when a group of girls walked by and one of them stopped because she smelled a great fragrance, asked me what it was and came close to my neck to smell again. Her other girlfriends then all did the same! She then left and said "See you around pretty boy" haha. I hereby approve of this message! (Fragrance was Dior Homme and your welcome 😊)

  • @cosmicchicken2416
    @cosmicchicken2416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hope everyone is having a great day

    • @osaidalrawi01
      @osaidalrawi01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're awesome

    • @HeadsUpTV
      @HeadsUpTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't really reply to these comments. But thanks dude.

  • @starkindustries7429
    @starkindustries7429 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    bro your channel is fire, glad I found it. I was originally looking for a good hair blow-dry "how to" video and now see your content covers much more.

  • @varadkamble9291
    @varadkamble9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    1) Be confident, take a deep breath before talking to her
    2) Dress well, have a good fashion sense
    3) Have a good fragrance (most important)
    4) Don't pressure her/ beg her
    5) Compliment her (don't be cringy, be honest)
    6) Make eye contact (don't keep staring)
    7) Be a good listener, ask interesting questions to her
    8) Have a positive body language, straight posture, keep your hands free while you are with her

    • @tmafungo84
      @tmafungo84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nonsense 🐷

  • @Bagreciever9000
    @Bagreciever9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I was expecting another video about BS “psychological tricks” but the advice here is way more powerful. Show your interest by actually listening and coming up with engaging questions based on details in the conversation. Yes

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I still contend the "problem" is not her or how she thinks or even feels.
      To me if anyone approaching a single female for the first time cannot be at ease within himself my contention is I (as the man) am the one with the bigger issue of why is this "so important" to me that I actually start to feel as though I am losing self-control and becoming anxious?

  • @pedrob.5021
    @pedrob.5021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There is NOTHING you can do to convince a woman to stay with you. if she does not decide for herself, forget about it. You can maybe "convince" her for a while, but if this decision does not come from her, im sorry. Stay strong brooo!

  • @AdarshKashypFilms
    @AdarshKashypFilms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    1:56 oscar level acting. So what i learn from this video is to stay real, clean, calm and look your best a little self obsession

  • @rohandebbarma24
    @rohandebbarma24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In India, things are different. Also, from what it's been observed it quite seems like we gotta live with the virus and just be careful enough. Going out is crazy!

    • @sachintondwalkar4935
      @sachintondwalkar4935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We can utilize the tips post virus situation!

    • @kleo2983
      @kleo2983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      tripuri people are weak they've overrun by bengalis

  • @ArunKumar-ep8ex
    @ArunKumar-ep8ex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Sir, personally I'm a HR in Learning & Development. But when I saw you raised about Body language skills & Learning Skills and the tips you have given is top notch and it's very useful in terms of professional life as well.

  • @hm_nn_5633
    @hm_nn_5633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well ... these are my 3 traits that I've took tons of effort - Confident, Independent & Self-Reliant & of course all ears.

  • @gla300
    @gla300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    THE worst mistake is chasing a woman who is not interested in you, for a fair comparison it's like being approached by the most neutral or least attractive woman and she keeps trying to get you to like you, it will never happen....or at least in extreme cases and even it's not worth the hassle, you will damage your only mental health if you do all that effort just to get a woman, it will only prove that you have placed her onto the pedestal and view her as higher value than yourself.
    Been there, done that, things get better when you age :)

    • @lucasrojo986
      @lucasrojo986 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±14159976694⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

  • @pf4773
    @pf4773 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also, SUCH great advice on hygiene, grooming, and men's fashion. You have really filled a need in this market.

  • @alr7202
    @alr7202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man You deserve more than a thanks for your quality contents

  • @poetrealoisio9942
    @poetrealoisio9942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw that Aqua de Parma!! Wow! Scentbird has that?!! I wear it and it's amazing! Hardly any other dude knows about it so you'll always smell better than 99% of others

  • @ayaanmusani6756
    @ayaanmusani6756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Alex can you please make videos on losing fat or getting lean with a workout and diet. I'm a great fan from India🇮🇳❤

  • @thecuriouskid3942
    @thecuriouskid3942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh man! I just tested one of ur methods on a girl i know who was obviously out of my league. Now she is madly in love with me. She is totally addicted and not leaving me, actually she is a headache sometimes 😅
    Now I'm thinking of being serious with her. She is such a pure heart.🥰
    Thanks to you.

  • @itsomar03
    @itsomar03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Hey Alex ... a video on how to make your girlfriend happy and care for her on a call or something like that because of this covid situation.. hopefully you understand what i mean to say ..

    • @LaRueDuConsommateur
      @LaRueDuConsommateur 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A woman can't be happy.

    • @mrmillennium2697
      @mrmillennium2697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be kind of aloof they love that, dude note ; if you're asking this question it may be too late

  • @Oktover24
    @Oktover24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All these points are helpful. Only if you’re already handsome. If you’re ugly then I’m sorry, no amount of self maintenance will help you. It’s over.

  • @RaidElMocho
    @RaidElMocho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just a week ago I've date with a girl and I did exactly wath alex said in this video. Appreciated and thankful for all

    • @SS-np3jo
      @SS-np3jo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And could you tell me the result now, please?

    • @RaidElMocho
      @RaidElMocho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SS-np3jo the date was good, we were some time together but the relationship wasn't what i want

    • @SS-np3jo
      @SS-np3jo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RaidElMocho Thank you my friend 😊. I wish you find your soulmate very soon. Good luck with your life

  • @gym_freak.2._.
    @gym_freak.2._. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex is the best. He know how to give us confidence. Alex if you are seeing this, thanks man. You helped me a lot.

  • @jonathancrippen1615
    @jonathancrippen1615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful advice Alex,spoken as a true seasoned proffesional!.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    *When a guy focuses on becoming the best version of himself, it can spark interest, even in women who initially seem uninterested.*

  • @weekndz_xo
    @weekndz_xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Truly Alex , you're like a god of everything a man need 😂

  • @danielblack1240
    @danielblack1240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this has got to be one of the best videos I've ever watched on YT... fantastic video man

  • @sabidshad.2830
    @sabidshad.2830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is honestly worth our time.I feel this is the best from Alex❤🔥

    • @sayyer10
      @sayyer10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dare say I’ve told myself this: If I can’t have my crush then death to my crush!

  • @danohp1
    @danohp1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being calmly, don't too much react, act slowly and confidently

  • @adityagulhane4
    @adityagulhane4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    When you are fast enough to beat the summary guy 🔥😎

  • @kellerattraction
    @kellerattraction ปีที่แล้ว

    Let them chase, focus on becoming as great as you can become, and you'll naturally start to draw in all the girls you could ever want💪

  • @lanzyyy__
    @lanzyyy__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    me trying to follow all Alex's tips
    Also me-
    I dont live in America or Europe :(

    • @krzysztofpaliga4190
      @krzysztofpaliga4190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where do you live bruh?

    • @therealsobhan_ahmed
      @therealsobhan_ahmed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@krzysztofpaliga4190ASIA MAYBE 🙄

    • @blueshanks1
      @blueshanks1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@therealsobhan_ahmed why the "🙄" emoji? Could also be South America? Africa? The Caribbean? Australia?

    • @cianchim9034
      @cianchim9034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same.there is no good chance

    • @jkfd97
      @jkfd97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You say that like it's a bad thing... I'd much rather be able to deal with Asian and/or Latin women every day. Most of them are still just that, WOMEN.

  • @nihitguha4774
    @nihitguha4774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Alex , I was just thinking to search this kinda video on TH-cam today and then u're video popped out in the recommendations 😌 u're always a life saver like a big brother .

  • @JB_Editz125
    @JB_Editz125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The reason I watch this is because my crush rejected me and spilled everything she hates about me out at once. Ever since than I've avoided her and when I got over her I had a crush on somebody else but I avoid her because I don't want her to find out like the other one did and get mad.

  • @navdeepdanner0088
    @navdeepdanner0088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro I'm doing streaks on snap with one of my classmates , she just joined yesterday....your tips will definitely help me....wish me luck

  • @morganhalpin7164
    @morganhalpin7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the most terrifying thing is the fact I am thinking about that exact situation (the one who got away) , only for the vid to start with 'every guy has the one who got away'.......

  • @jacobvaerst1300
    @jacobvaerst1300 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Scent bird is actually amazing. HIGHLY recommend

  • @gauravrathod674
    @gauravrathod674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Expecting like from Alex Costa ❤️🧡

  • @ronnellwashington9236
    @ronnellwashington9236 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Said exactly what I’ve been telling people from jump it’s about how your first impressions are , how you approach her how you focus on her how well you listen to her keep conversation keep her smiling , keep interest at all times talking to her don’t ask about her exs or is she messing or seeing with someone that’s not important your focus is trying to get the woman to reconsider ✊🏾ITS ABOUT YOUR MOUTH PICE BE CONFIDENT AND EMBRACE HER SND THE MOMENT . GAME

  • @razvanderecichei
    @razvanderecichei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Alex this video was great, so much great info, very helpful especially for men who really struggle with dating

  • @ashhishbhardwaj
    @ashhishbhardwaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The first line hit HARD.

  • @salvadorvilla7326
    @salvadorvilla7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Alex. Could you do a video on your go to fits for a college party?

  • @onewisedevil
    @onewisedevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So exciting to be here on your channel man. Love you ❤️

  • @stylesonly2607
    @stylesonly2607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alex can you do getting over a break up, I just got out of a relationship and I just need some advice.

    • @mohamedhussain3813
      @mohamedhussain3813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just be calm…. I know you’ll be better soon mate and congrats on the breakup tho’! Cheers mate !

  • @sirgentlemandinosaur8383
    @sirgentlemandinosaur8383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of the best videos I've ever seen on dating

  • @Pranjal_Gupta007
    @Pranjal_Gupta007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Useful video for singles trying to impress their crush . Just like me 😂. Thanks Alex ❤️

    • @abhiramachari8954
      @abhiramachari8954 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you a boy or girl??

    • @Pranjal_Gupta007
      @Pranjal_Gupta007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@abhiramachari8954 ladka hu bhai 😂😂🙏🏻

    • @abhiramachari8954
      @abhiramachari8954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Pranjal_Gupta007 aare tera naam dekh ke laga ki tu ladki hain. Sorry Haa 😅😅

    • @Pranjal_Gupta007
      @Pranjal_Gupta007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abhiramachari8954 koi na bhai 😂 har single ladka isi khwahish mein hota hai ki koi ladki baat karle 😂😂

    • @abhiramachari8954
      @abhiramachari8954 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pranjal_Gupta007 nhi re bro mein happy hoon single hoon toh

  • @faizanahmed5679
    @faizanahmed5679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My life changed after seeing you 🫂

  • @RSalvadorr
    @RSalvadorr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn Alex, eu estava muito interessado nessa subscrição de perfumes mas infelizmente é unica para US, sad stuff man! But thanks for the tips and all the work o take to help us guys, abração de Portugal! 🔥🇵🇹🤘🏻

  • @kdc5918
    @kdc5918 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks for your tips bro!! the girl i really like actually still continues to ghost me after all of these attempts i've made in this video!!

  • @daysgoneby3527
    @daysgoneby3527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's all about looks. That's all you need

    • @DrTenma17
      @DrTenma17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No bruh....

    • @Gatoradeia
      @Gatoradeia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No.without height you can never go alone with only looks

    • @daysgoneby3527
      @daysgoneby3527 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gatoradeia least you'd get matches. I see plenty of Manley's around with hoze. Maybe their females despise them but they don't have to be with them.. those females wouldn't even get to know me even if they don't like me I mean why will they let those guys know them even if they don't respect those guys but not me. I'm taller than some of these guys

  • @gyda5474
    @gyda5474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alex truly amazing man , you just gave me a big big confidence. and I believe I have done half of you said. am almost there thank you once again.

  • @shubhambiswas7212
    @shubhambiswas7212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think I'll get a girl soon with these tips😁😁

    • @gerodaugustine3580
      @gerodaugustine3580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol yes bro mabe a couple for me with those advices

  • @TheTruth-mi2yh
    @TheTruth-mi2yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude....you're good! I thought you were going to say the typical stuff all of these videos say, but you're right, because I've done it in the past, and IT DOES WORK!

  • @jonohimself4566
    @jonohimself4566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly I feel like you just have to not give a shit about anything. Whatever happens you'll feel great, plus you pretty much always hook up when you aren't attached to it

    • @lucasrojo986
      @lucasrojo986 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±14159976694⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

  • @ZHwilderness
    @ZHwilderness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video👍 background music overwhelms me everytime I watch your videos 😍

  • @emmanuelvelazquez4694
    @emmanuelvelazquez4694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My tips is improve yourself being good looking is just part of it being athletic smart and talented adds more to you. These skills make girls want you also working out to look better and make her regret it and maybe she will come and if she don’t it’s fine get a new girl

    • @justinmendez4533
      @justinmendez4533 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said Emmanuel

    • @sayyer10
      @sayyer10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Sir! That’s the way!

  • @Nbafan2000
    @Nbafan2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude loving the fit/hair. Straight GQ 💪🏻

  • @gkourtzidis
    @gkourtzidis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why did I laugh so hard at this moment 1:55 ? LMAO

  • @jimmyalwat8486
    @jimmyalwat8486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you don't like your face it is not the end of the world cuz smelling good and self_confidence are good redeeming features that you might wanna develop and improve!

  • @vanlalsiamazlatan2300
    @vanlalsiamazlatan2300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Alex! I've been stuck on lockdown so long that I forgot how to attract women😂

  • @sphamandlampisane
    @sphamandlampisane ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video Alex. Much Love from South Africa

  • @Salman2ahmed
    @Salman2ahmed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Love you brother.🌹
    Im from pakistan. I watch your all videos keep it up. ♥️♥️🇵🇰

    • @quickgamingwalkthroughs9102
      @quickgamingwalkthroughs9102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sameee

    • @sharazxgill
      @sharazxgill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I thought I'm the only one

    • @sharazxgill
      @sharazxgill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pakistani

    • @freak1988
      @freak1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too lol

    • @akaza8835
      @akaza8835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad to see my neighbours are also seeing good content! Keep it up brothers! 🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @zahidboota8136
    @zahidboota8136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are probably gonna think that I am crazy, I listen to you for my listening skills in English. I am a kinda advanced learner of English. Not only do I learn English while listening to you, but a lot of other stuff too

  • @gabbbbbz
    @gabbbbbz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really outdid yourself with this one, this is a whole dating course, ngl 😂

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours..

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

    • @peggylisa8548
      @peggylisa8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +14122387259⏯⏯💕

  • @gorillafamily9299
    @gorillafamily9299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If she ain't interested, she ain't interested and never will .. a girl once told me there's nothing you can do to change a girl's mind and even if you manage to then she doesn't really feel the same way you do

  • @froytecpile1609
    @froytecpile1609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just take a shot of tequila before doing this cause it makes me more confident

    • @mistafyremusic
      @mistafyremusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's a set up for later to fail. It has to be natural otherwise she will see right through you later. Think about why you even need a substance to have confidence and fix where the problem begins

  • @hammibasgash845
    @hammibasgash845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waiting for this topic badly

  • @rishavpandey7332
    @rishavpandey7332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fun fact: Girls are also watching this video🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @parkyking1334
    @parkyking1334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The video is Powerful.. And i wish you to make a video of 'How to talk Professionally ' 🔥🔥❤

  • @rahul01202
    @rahul01202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Once Joey Tribbiani said "This man is my God". And now I can sense it.
    P.S Man you're funny too

  • @daniyalbhat
    @daniyalbhat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This put me in a good mood. Love the video Alex.

  • @gage.does.everything
    @gage.does.everything 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can you do a video on how to make a school uniform look good? Like polos and chino pants?

  • @nickmun8866
    @nickmun8866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    amazing tips Alex!!! please make more of these type of videos. it helps eventually

  • @NishantvedwalShelby
    @NishantvedwalShelby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    watching very soon will create a problem ........
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    we can't find those summary guys
    😂😂

  • @alaiaadam5767
    @alaiaadam5767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💥💥💥🖤😎🍾💥💥
    01:47 Stay calm (BE ON TIME) that is why
    06:08 To not to come off too strong

  • @moroent1003
    @moroent1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I approached her she curved me so i just stopped coming after her but i couldn't forget about her yet

    • @WARLOCGaming
      @WARLOCGaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay in the process you'll get her. "Patience. Don't do anything stwepid"😂🙌