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  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta
    Thank you for watching and have a great week!
    -AC

    • @fahim.ahmed9118
      @fahim.ahmed9118 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩

    • @far.flungtv
      @far.flungtv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hair👈 Indonesia

    • @Shadowrunner7551
      @Shadowrunner7551 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with so much of what you are saying and what promote however I am curious if there is something similar out there specifically for women. Is there someone you know or would recommend out there who you think would have a positive influence or good input on this type of topic for the girls?

  • @OfficiallyArmani
    @OfficiallyArmani 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +422

    Started watching you at 15-16, turned 20 in jan- my style has completely changed, my health has completely changed and feel as the best version of myself in a long time. I’m so in love with self development I’m so happy to join this community. Thank you Alex for amazing content congratulations on your success

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

      congrats on the changes! Keep it up man

    • @mr_x718
      @mr_x718 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I turned 20 in jan too 😅

    • @MuhammadTaha-s8z
      @MuhammadTaha-s8z 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      hey im starting to change too but im 00 with 5 foot 5 inch can i change like height increase etc

    • @MuhammadTaha-s8z
      @MuhammadTaha-s8z 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@alexcosta 20 years old

    • @najjasisarwar8962
      @najjasisarwar8962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alexcosta ur great man!

  • @sebastianrodriguez8692
    @sebastianrodriguez8692 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    This man at around 2:20 said that, as kid, he felt guility to ask his parents to buy him expensive clothing because he understood they worked hard and did not have a lot of money... while I, as a kid, would be angry because my mom could not buy me things that I wanted while she was a single mom and could not afford it.
    Man, I instantly subscribed to you.

  • @tjazraf7293
    @tjazraf7293 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    bro, you really made me change the way I think about fashion and looks in general.

  • @wisemaster8470
    @wisemaster8470 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    U can really see how genuine and honest kind hearted and humble this guy is its amazing

  • @batabun
    @batabun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I have been following you since i was 22 years old, i am 26 now and i cannot thank you enough! You have helped me develop as a man and become the best version of myself, God bless you brother

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Love hearing that. Keep pushing 💪

  • @alexp601
    @alexp601 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I'm actually really loving these last few videos from Alex recently. Seems to be a change of focus and style which I'm liking.

  • @Lica860
    @Lica860 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Man i have been following you since past 5 yrs u always inspired me nd made me level up my style nd personality . Luv from 🇮🇳

  • @JustaKhorne
    @JustaKhorne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Woah!😮 After watching your content for 4 years, learning and applying constantly, this seems like doing the same things in 4 months. I don't know how to thank you.

  • @abhishekdeo4325
    @abhishekdeo4325 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’ve seen this guy growing and improving massively over the past 3 years. Kudos to your genuine content, which is very rare to find in this ‘trend hoping’ generation.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      thank you man, this means a lot to me

  • @athdam2005
    @athdam2005 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I love how you find opportunities in every situation! Keep going brother 💪

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I try my best, thanks man

  • @Outlastthedarkness
    @Outlastthedarkness 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is amazing, brother! I totally understand how you feel. I'm Brazilian too, and I'm on the same journey to grow in style, fashion, and life. It feels like climbing a mountain, but it's better to keep climbing than to fall back down. I'm here for the peak-to be a kind, handsome, and overall better man. I might not be one of the 500 because I saw this video late, but you're incredible for giving so many guys the chance. I'm going to fight to grow just like you did, through research and learning. You rock, just wanted you to know!

  • @ZrianFilms
    @ZrianFilms 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the depth on these type of long form videos. Learned a lot about you and it feels like a more efficient version of a podcast. Thank you!

  • @ZackaryArmstrong
    @ZackaryArmstrong 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This man and Alpha M are my go to’s for many years. 3 accounts later even! But, I’m 34 now, and the best version that I’ve ever been thanks to these pioneers. I’m no way near as attractive as these guys, but I feel good in my skin. Thank you! Zack from TN

  • @hansaldrin
    @hansaldrin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So proud of this guy. I started watching your videos wayback 2016 along with Jose Zuniga. You’ve been a big help to me because your videos inspires me to be more presentable and be a good man.

  • @shreechatane9215
    @shreechatane9215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for being vulnerable, proud of where you came .....❤

  • @GIOVANNIASSAF
    @GIOVANNIASSAF 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well said Alex. It's you vs you, gotta focus on yourself & keep pushing your limits, comparing with others is a waste of time and a gateway to toxic obsession.
    Btw you have inspired me to start my own looksmaxxing journey, which I will be documenting on my TH-cam channel.
    Wish me luck

  • @kashifshabbir6946
    @kashifshabbir6946 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You are changing lives Alex. Thank you

  • @wzshad8031
    @wzshad8031 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Been wathing you since i was 16. Now i am stepping into my 20s soon . I can proudly say you have made a very significant impact in my life . I am totally changed bcz of you jose and alpha . And lastly all i can say is thank you for everything you did and keep changing lives❤

  • @mohammadalmaz2
    @mohammadalmaz2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am so excited to join this community. I appreciate all of the work you do to help others, lets get to work❤!

  • @urbansoulsteve
    @urbansoulsteve 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Really long & very honest video about your life. Congratulations how you designed the Life you wanted to live all by yourself. Only a few people do this, even if we might all could archive this and would be happier in our own skin.

  • @kavitaheda9188
    @kavitaheda9188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey Alex,
    I have been watching your videos since a year. They have helped me a lot in building a whole new me , who is more confident and responsible.
    Thankyou Alex

  • @TheOtakuWeeb-gm9jc
    @TheOtakuWeeb-gm9jc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex you have really changed and helped me improve myself. I have been watching you for 7 years now. You are amazing. Keep up the good work ❤

  • @sk8girldecks11
    @sk8girldecks11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I went through a very similar situation as you. I experienced heavy bullying in elementary and high school, constantly put down my whole life. I am super into self image and have improved so many things about myself over the years but I still struggle with depression/not having any friends. I’m in a new city and it’s very hard to meet people let alone like-minded people at 25. Would love to be a part of the community to help others and make friends ❤

  • @daveguliani1174
    @daveguliani1174 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You have changed and touched many lives with your contents , keep up the good work.

  • @trxndesign3331
    @trxndesign3331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Been a subscriber since 2018 and I still remember when it comes to male self improvement how back then it was big emphasize on style and gym only, no looksmaxxing, no redpill, no Tiktok/Reels etc. Crazy how internet and social media changed over 5-6 years

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      when I started making these videos people would make fun of me. Funny how things change so quickly. Have a great weekend man

    • @theworldisimmense
      @theworldisimmense 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually I became a red piller in late 2018, that’s when I discovered the thing before it was popular like now

    • @trxndesign3331
      @trxndesign3331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theworldisimmense Who were popular redpillers back then?

  • @legaspiaudio9830
    @legaspiaudio9830 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You impact people to make lifelong changes thats a gift bro!
    Thank you for everything🙏🏻

  • @radu9150
    @radu9150 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great video Alex!
    Your content is getting amazingly good!
    Can you do a video for guys in their mid / late 30’s for improving their looks ?
    Would be awesome

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Definitely. I'll make more of those videos asap

  • @m2rafik
    @m2rafik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your story is inspiring, it feels good to be tough and have a steel moral.

  • @aatirhasan14
    @aatirhasan14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Man i like you. Straight to the point and honest. Thanks!

  • @alonbiran2011
    @alonbiran2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Adorable, Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us !

  • @BaoNguyen-ew8pj
    @BaoNguyen-ew8pj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have been staying away from videos from youtube for 9 months, was working on myself. Tbh, I was amazed how you changed your contents. I like this new version of you. And for my part, grad school is now in process and running strong, have a relationship that I look forward to investing in, hitting the gym, doing skincare, hair care everyday, etc. . Cheers to all the dudes out there making changes to their life ❤. Keep it up Alex.

  • @subhankarmahapatra4494
    @subhankarmahapatra4494 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have been following you since 2015 and brag people about your channel, and they laugh at me. They say stop advertising Alex in every places. Pleasure that i recently went to New York and kind of figured out where you live and made me happy. you are the last of the stars.

  • @PhilipNikolaidis
    @PhilipNikolaidis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Alex Thank You For the Value , Great Video 🥇

  • @B1inded3agle__
    @B1inded3agle__ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You know its gonna be a good day when Alex uploads (and when you have to go to work). Thanks for the greatest content Ive ever seen 🙏🏼

  • @mateii.ph1
    @mateii.ph1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I started watching your videos in 2020 and I'm telling you man the way you grew in everything really inspired me. I'm still kinda skinny and I'm still dealing with acne but I'm slowly getting there and it's all thanks to you. Thank you for helping and inspiring me man !!

  • @roblarsina7819
    @roblarsina7819 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men, thank you Alex. Wow, that’s inspiring. Appreciate you are sharing this video.

  • @paneercheeseparatha
    @paneercheeseparatha 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you bro and your amazing journey.

  • @artmx91
    @artmx91 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex, where were you when I was 20? I had to learn the hard way, just like you. You have really made it man! Specially as an immigrant in the US. Just keep doing what you are doing, I´m sure you are still helping a lot of guys, Congrats!

  • @WajidSabri-so4ou
    @WajidSabri-so4ou 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All thanks to you Alex! Thanks for being my top guide for my life. I learned so much from you. I dont have words to explain that how much you influenced me. Been following you from last 5 years. More power to you.

  • @FJislands
    @FJislands 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Humble beginnings really took you to greater heights/success ✨️ Thank you Alex costa

  • @noelveigacoutinho
    @noelveigacoutinho 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you give something of this magnitude free , we know that your journey was a long , heavy one with a tonne of ups and downs. Probably more downs , which is why today most of us feel your energy , your strive and your passion in wanting to help us guys and no amount of thank you will suffice. Guess the value of your efforts shine across the world within the thousnds of not millions of lives you have changed. I am one of those! Please continue to do what you do. You got us as we got you!
    Muito obrigado campeão!

  • @TheGabrielSevero123
    @TheGabrielSevero123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don’t know if you’re see this, but, I’m Brazilian as well, I’ve been following you since the time you was in Machinima, i remember you receiving your Xbox 360 Machinima Special edition, but when you decided to adress your videos to only English public I decided to stick with you as well man, because at the time i was learning how to speak English, and damn that helped out, now i have a good English because of your channel, and I decided to do english videos as well (i did only one but I’ll do the next soon) so thank you man, tamo junto Made 👊🇧🇷

  • @Sachu0569
    @Sachu0569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciate you brother, changed many people's mindset ,you are an inspiration ❤❤

  • @Superish19
    @Superish19 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video was actually just perfect. Been watching you for a while and this just felt so authentic and legit and valuable. Thanks for sharing.

  • @youssefmuhamad3213
    @youssefmuhamad3213 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So relatable story man, great content 🇧🇷

  • @e10-anasbepari20
    @e10-anasbepari20 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    a much needed video!!!!...thanks for the content my man!!

  • @MuhammadAyaan-up5oe
    @MuhammadAyaan-up5oe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am watching you from past 4 years and i have came a long way and the process was amazing thank you Alex you are the best🖤

  • @chilakaikechukwu5939
    @chilakaikechukwu5939 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hardwork and dedication would take you far in life I.e putting in the work!!!👌🏾💯.
    Thanks Alex, learnt alot from this👏🏾.

  • @pandanganmatiyn1487
    @pandanganmatiyn1487 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your first video that i ever watched. Starting my looksmaxxing journey this 2024. Wish me luck! New subscriber here.

  • @Hishaam2.0
    @Hishaam2.0 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved these kind of longer more detailed videos

  • @MadelinePatal
    @MadelinePatal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I change my style. Specially my hairstyle when i started watching you. Specially your inspirational advice. I started change my style, i choose myself. The new version of me. Thank you Alex❤

  • @batmaninja1
    @batmaninja1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for giving me hope im about to hit 30 and I feel motivated to keep going and to make this changes....you look no where near 35 goddam good job

  • @micah6318
    @micah6318 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently bought your Forte texture clay… just wanted to say it’s a very good product

  • @suhasrb2396
    @suhasrb2396 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nsync was my dad's Era! Yet I've gotten more tips from Alex! The daddy we all need!

  • @afifulhaq3368
    @afifulhaq3368 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a hardworker , keep it up Alex !

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @irvinquijano
    @irvinquijano 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am 37 and I respect this ma'am a lot. Thanks, Alex. Viva Brazil 🇧🇷.

  • @Jurozaiten
    @Jurozaiten 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you man. You really did make a change in me, significantly.

  • @ThisisEnzoman
    @ThisisEnzoman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a real OG , and you have grown sooo miraculously brother , 💯 🙏 💪 Much love ❤

  • @RealBoravann
    @RealBoravann 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been inspired from you since 2018 brother, much love thank you so much ❤❤

  • @ayanahmadkhan7103
    @ayanahmadkhan7103 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Nice growth brother!✨️

  • @KarlMarked
    @KarlMarked 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love how he is giving back to the community. Doing something good without making profit. Real man

  • @fermolina2971
    @fermolina2971 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that Alex became the hero and guide he didn’t have at that time is completely inspirational, you’re the GOAT

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your journey with looksmaxing highlights an important conversation about self-improvement and societal expectations. 🌟 It's crucial for everyone to understand the balance between enhancing physical appearance and nurturing self-esteem without succumbing to extreme measures.

  • @vinnyv2238
    @vinnyv2238 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Brother for the motivation n uplifting my confidence 🙏

  • @ΘοδωρηςΜαδενιδης
    @ΘοδωρηςΜαδενιδης 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel motivated about me ,happy about you you are a great inspiration.Much love from Greece

  • @Ben86709
    @Ben86709 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your very relatable backstory.

  • @DeepakPrakash-oq9xi
    @DeepakPrakash-oq9xi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a Genuine video. Salute to you

  • @tajbeurallam3653
    @tajbeurallam3653 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been watching your videos for five or six years now, and I think they’re awesome. They have helped me a lot. Seeing you improve over the years has encouraged me a lot and recently I have started my own self improvement journey. I really want to join the men’s image lab, but the link you provided doesn’t work.😢

  • @siddhartverma9589
    @siddhartverma9589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Best creator ever

  • @MarvinVDVeen
    @MarvinVDVeen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for inspiring me the past couple of years and for sort of guiding me the past months with vids. Making some nice progress and I want to keep on leveling up!

  • @jsn3718
    @jsn3718 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩
    Love your videos!!!

  • @gundepudilakshmipavanaja445
    @gundepudilakshmipavanaja445 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you , you've helped me a lot 😊😊

  • @lucifer5829
    @lucifer5829 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate you for sharing your experience and giving motivation to me and all the guys who want to be the best version of themselves!

  • @sazi07
    @sazi07 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm older than Alex and have watched his videos for years. This is his best video yet. I wish I'd see more honest videos, even on this channel, not those promoting immediate transformation.

  • @FodayIKanu
    @FodayIKanu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Alex, I'm watching you from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱

  • @harshitjoshi7587
    @harshitjoshi7587 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its great listening to you man 🫶
    You are amazing❤🔥

  • @marcosguzman3660
    @marcosguzman3660 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am the man I am today because of this guy. Him an Teachingmensfashion are the GOATS of TH-cam men's counseling. Love bro❤️

  • @karl_ambagan
    @karl_ambagan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I believe you. I started to shed off weight. And try to gain a bit of muscles. I got complimented a lot. And that validation helps me feel good about myself.

  • @sujalagarwal3639
    @sujalagarwal3639 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex I'm really very glad to have you & you really help me Alot.

  • @midnightthoughtsss
    @midnightthoughtsss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i just discovered your channel. you have great contents. thank you very much

  • @tanaykedia8409
    @tanaykedia8409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ALWAYS LOVED YOUR CONTENT.
    🤩

  • @mohamadali1615
    @mohamadali1615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Alex!
    i have to tell you this truth "I respect you" and i don't have to tell you what< you are such a great man

  • @AV-sp4om
    @AV-sp4om 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love ur video bro❤️ one tip i wanna give is TARGET YOUTH ❤

  • @joaovictorlimabrito9602
    @joaovictorlimabrito9602 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Agora que eu descobri que vc é brasileiro, que orgulho ver o seu sucesso e o papel que vc tem na vida das pessoas. Parabéns pelo trabalho irmão ❤

  • @RetroGamerMike
    @RetroGamerMike 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much for the many years of amazing and helpful videos!

  • @Jkwq1
    @Jkwq1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wonderful video sir!

  • @vedanshsingh5097
    @vedanshsingh5097 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its been 3 years with this channel❤

  • @Funshorts-o7e
    @Funshorts-o7e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    30min watching you is totally a bliss❤❤

  • @liferendering2769
    @liferendering2769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alex Costa was My Best In 2017 2018 , You helped me so much thanks alex Great man

  • @shrikantkamble6717
    @shrikantkamble6717 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re my inspiration ❤❤

  • @mokshjain4977
    @mokshjain4977 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact that he was working at Google tells me so much about him! As always, great content!

  • @RED_BUNNY_
    @RED_BUNNY_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do you know what makes you special and better from the others alex other fools when their content is about taking care of yourself and taking care of your lifestyle, lose their masculinity over others you are still exactly the same and you become better every day and every time you post because of you my life has changed 360 degrees and I hope it will come the day we meet to thank you personally for what you have done for my life

  • @alfredjohnson4911
    @alfredjohnson4911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're amazing 💓

  • @ronitdutta4984
    @ronitdutta4984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello sir just signed up in your lab my approval is pending hopefully I will be approved
    Thank you for the effort to change lives.

  • @johnfelarias5227
    @johnfelarias5227 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're the best Alex☝️

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much

  • @dbztttmods2360
    @dbztttmods2360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please Alex we need a video About how we can take very good photos (like you of course 😉)

  • @bekabeka71
    @bekabeka71 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I started watching you at 24 now I’m 29 👌🏼💪🏼

  • @OSWFuego
    @OSWFuego 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey it’s Braydon! I joined the men’s image lab yesterday and man do I feel so much more confident already. Love this community. @alexcosta

  • @faraz1062
    @faraz1062 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex love it !!